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Tea Bags & JoystiXXX

By Tea Bags and JoystiXXX

Two British Boyfriends discuss Video Games, Kinky Sex, Polyamoury and everything in between. From why Darth Vader might be a leather daddy, to which video game is making us scream nothing is off limits. So why not pour yourself a cup of tea and come see what's on our JoystiXXX this time.

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Ep. 58: More Animals of The Scene (Part 2)

Tea Bags & JoystiXXXFeb 25, 2024

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01:09:52
Ep. 58: More Animals of The Scene (Part 2)
Feb 25, 202401:09:52
Ep. 57: Media Round Up
Jan 30, 202401:14:27
Ep. 56: The Animals of the Scene (Part 1)
Dec 23, 202358:45
Ep. 55: Post-Locktober Run Down

Ep. 55: Post-Locktober Run Down

a.k.a. What About No Nut November?
This week Si and Chris are chatting about the past month, which they spent locked up in chastity. The highs and lows, the benefits and disadvantages, some things they have observed, and what they discovered about themselves.
For tea, Chris celebrates Cyril Leroy, the founder and captain of the first gay French rugby team, who was honoured by World Rugby and Land Rover during the recent Rugby World Cup, while Si managed to have found another group of (mostly) non-kinky people who also celebrated some sort of "Locktober".
For joysticks, Chris pursues justice in the Phoenix Wright: Ace Attorney Trilogy, while Si gets frustrated in the pachinko machine of Peglin.
-Edited by TBNJ SiMusic: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. – ⁠⁠soundcloud.com/matt-doak⁠⁠Find us on socials @TBnJPodcastLinks at ⁠⁠TBnJPodcast.com/Links
Nov 08, 202301:04:24
Ep. 54: Of Locks and Keyholders (TB&J List: Chastity Special)

Ep. 54: Of Locks and Keyholders (TB&J List: Chastity Special)

This week Si and Chris are joined by Craig for The TB&J List: Chastity Special! Where we generate two random* pop culture characters and decide between them who is going to be locked for Locktober and who gets to keep the key!

*(random-ish)

For tea this week, Chris wonders why the British media has suddenly picked up on the term "situationship", and Si joins the chorus of complains when subs are told "Locktober is coming".

In joysticks, Chris hasn't quite get round to exploring space in Starfield, and Si goes carting without the power-ups in Crash Team Racing Nitro-Fueled.

Oct 06, 202346:23
Ep. 53: Kink Protocols
Sep 17, 202301:03:50
Ep. 52: Watersports
Jul 28, 202301:04:44
Ep. 51: Pride Culture & Counter-cultures
Jul 07, 202357:57
Ep. 50: Disability and Neurodiversity Inclusive Kink
Jun 16, 202355:20
Ep. 49: Community Spotlight: Switched App
May 19, 202301:46:26
Ep. 48: Dating Apps (Feat. Louise)
May 05, 202301:30:20
Ep. 47: Penis Size Fetish
Mar 24, 202301:06:24
Ep. 46: Transformation Kink ft Mutt Banjo

Ep. 46: Transformation Kink ft Mutt Banjo

a.k.a. Banjo the Bluie?

Si finally moved house and we're back! and man do we have a lot to catch up on. This week friend of the show Mutt Banjo talks to us about Transformation as a kink concept and how that is played out both in the real world and online.

Before that we spill Tea on hypocrisy around the Homophobic Chanting by Football Fans and share our opinions on the dragons dung that was the Dungeons and Dragons OGL v2 debacle.

Finally for Joysticks we get stuck in to Fleet Battle - Sea Battle by smuttlewerk interactive, Red Nexus Games' Peglin and Marvel's Midnight Suns.

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Edited by TBnJ Chris
Music: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. – soundcloud.com/matt-doak
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Mar 03, 202301:18:01
Ep. 45: Checking on the Naughty List
Dec 24, 202256:15
Ep. 44.5: The Catch-Up Episode
Nov 25, 202201:17:37
Ep. 44: Rubber / Latex (Gear 102)

Ep. 44: Rubber / Latex (Gear 102)

a.k.a. Shiny Shiny Latex 

We're starting Season 3 of Tea Bags & Joystixxx with a bang, no sorry, squeak! The topic today is latex, the most popular (no official data) kind of rubber play. Si and Chris talk about their experiences with rubber / latex, the various outfits we and other people have come up with and how kinksters should be treated while wearing gear. 

Tea this week, we discuss how the Australian football team, the Socceroos, have addressed the Men's Football World Cup in Qatar (Chris refuses to use its official name) in a video statement, and also how the UK's foreign secretary have suggested how LGBTQ+ football fans should behave. 

In Joysticks, Chris finishes the Two Point Campus campaign, and draws random lines in the free parody puzzle game The Looker; while Si battles out in card game Marvel Snap, and strategises in the crossover worlds in Mario + Rabbids Sparks of Hope

Once again, apologies we took a break longer than expected.  


Edited by TBnJ Chris
Music: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. – soundcloud.com/matt-doak
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Nov 05, 202201:15:57
Ep. 43: The Sex We Don't Talk About

Ep. 43: The Sex We Don't Talk About

a.k.a. What Else We Do in the Shadows

It's our last show of the season as we take our (delayed) summer break of about a month, but that doesn't mean we don't have plenty to talk about before we go... This week we're talking all about the bits of Sex that don't usually get discussed. We touch on a little bit of everything from cuddling to douching, condom fit to losing your erection, and finding the prostate through to finding, or even not finding that final orgasm. 

In tea this week Chris brings up Call of Duty's F1 inspired map whilst Si talks about how Pokémon Card artists know exactly what they're doing. 

Meanwhile for Joysticks this week Chris talks a look at Two Point Campus and Si dives back into Borderlands 3's Mayhem Mode. 


Edited by TBnJ Si
Music: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. – soundcloud.com/matt-doak
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Aug 26, 202201:09:54
Ep. 42: Mr Superhero Europe 2022 Gareth

Ep. 42: Mr Superhero Europe 2022 Gareth

a.k.a. Spider: It's Coming Home

This week Si and Chris chat with Mr Superhero Europe 2022 Gareth (Instagram)! We talk about his challenges (plural) to the title, his plans of being a title holder, his very special Spider suit and the growth of the superhero fetish. We also discuss incorporating superhero cosplay into a kink scene, and the fun and challenges of roleplaying a superhero (whether it's an established character or a character you made up yourself). 

(Was going to type 'a made-up superhero', which is ridiculous, because obviously all superheroes are made up.)

For tea this week, we talk about how Chris hurt his own back in a really stupid way, and in another sportsball corner, we join in to celebrate football's homecoming, with England's victory at the European Championship. And in joysticks, Chris returns to the SFW(-ish) version of Rimworld once again with plenty of mods, while Si sets up his D&D campaign with TaleSpire.


Edited by TBnJ Si
Music: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. – soundcloud.com/matt-doak
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Aug 12, 202201:11:59
Ep. 41: The List Strikes Back
Jul 28, 202256:57
Ep. 40: Events, A Survival Guide

Ep. 40: Events, A Survival Guide

a.k.a. How to Go to Events and not Die 

This episode is dedicated to Tim Davidson, a friend of ours and a former member of Manchester Rubbermen team, who passed away suddenly recently.  

This week Si and Chris talk about all the mistakes they have made going to kinky/pride events, and some friendly advice on how not to do the same as they did! Everything from booking, getting your gear ready, overexaustion, all the way to event drop, Si and Chris have learnt the hard way until they figured out their preferred ways to attend these events. You may have to do something wrong first too, until you find out for yourself! 

In tea this week, Chris reports on London Pride attendees hijacking the hijackers, while Si talks about a community-led protest-y Pride march in Bristol. For joysticks, we have the card-based village builder game Stacklands and the ever casual game show game Fall Guys.  


Edited by TBnJ Si

Jul 15, 202201:06:56
Ep. 39: Handler EU '22 Quincy
Jun 17, 202201:32:19
Ep. 38: Pride Washing

Ep. 38: Pride Washing

a.k.a. When Pride Become Hubris
a.k.a. A Sense of Pride (and Accomplishment?) 

It's Pride Month 2022 and with pride month comes the rainbow tidal wave. With that in mind we dive in and look at some of the ridiculous pride washed merchandise they try and trick us into buying. 

For Tea this week, we discuss the UK's only openly gay footballer Jake Daniels coming out and the sadness that is the impending closure of the leather bar Backstreet in London. Meanwhile in Joysticks, Si recounts his difficulties the balances of power in both Sea of Thieves and Satisfactory while Chris explores H.P. Lovecraft in Arkham Horror: The Card Game.  


Edited by TBnJ Chris
Music: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. – soundcloud.com/matt-doak
Cover art by Ratha Seng – instagram.com/sengdesigns
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Jun 02, 202201:10:15
Ep. 37: Militaria / Military Fetish
May 19, 202201:20:11
Ep. 36: Community Spotlight: South West Fetish Men
May 05, 202201:12:42
Ep. 35: Cuckolding

Ep. 35: Cuckolding

a.k.a. A Cuck in His Hand, Two in the Bed

Content warning: At the start of this episode we are discussing the UK Governments U-Turn on Trans Conversion Therapy Ban. Listeners who are sensitive to this may wish to skip the episode to the 17:30 mark. 

This week we talk about cuckolding, how we define it and how many people may find themselves into it without realising that might be the case. 

For Tea this week we discuss the UK governments U-Turn on Conversion Therapy for Trans people whilst in Tea we discuss Dead Cells and Sea of Theives Shenanigans 

-- Edited by TBnJ Si
Music: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. –  www.soundcloud.com/matt-doak
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Apr 22, 202201:07:13
Ep. 34 Pt. 2: Puppy Play! Ft Pup Titan & Pup Trakken
Apr 08, 202245:03
Ep. 34 Pt. 1: Puppy Play! Ft Pup Titan & Pup Trakken

Ep. 34 Pt. 1: Puppy Play! Ft Pup Titan & Pup Trakken

a.k.a. Ruff ruff ruff awoooo!

We're joined by Pup Titan and Trakken this week as we let the pups off their leashes to talk about Puppy Play. Unusually were splitting this episode into two parts because we talked for a VERY long time. In this part you'll find Discussion on; What is it, why our guests love it, what Pup Headspace is, and discussion on degredation Vs praise in the kink. 

Tea this week comes in the form of the Hawkeye Soundtrack Song Titles, Batman & that Will Smith Academy Awards moment. 

Part Two will follow in a week and will feature our Joysticks for this period. 

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Edited by TBnJ Chris 
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Apr 02, 202201:01:37
Ep. 33: Kinksters talk Self Expression

Ep. 33: Kinksters talk Self Expression

a.k.a. Self-Express Yourself!

This week we tackle the subject of how kink and self expression can overlap. Discussing "kinksters" as a subculture akin to bears or twinks within the LGBTQ+ spaces. How we personally approach our self expression with our kinkster culture in mind, and some of the considerations that we take in account both in LGBTQ+ spaces and in day to day life. 

For tea this week we talk about Early Reveals of pride month covers from Marvel and DC comics and how narratives are being twisted on twitter to perpetuate vile hate. Joysticks meanwhile takes a look at Kirby, Octopath Traveler, and more.  

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Mar 18, 202201:12:20
Ep. 32: Lost in Translation

Ep. 32: Lost in Translation

a.k.a. Google Translate Does Kink

Warning: This episode contains brief discussions around the conflict in Ukraine and breathing difficulties due to a host’s ongoing health issues, listener discretion is advised. 

This week we throw out the show we had planned for something to lighten the mood and dive into some light-hearted Google translating as Chris challenges Si to figure out what words, phrases and kink related topics he's run through Google translate. 

Tea this week includes the attempt at renaming an Airport Short code because it's. Well... "GAY" while Si introduces the Gay-Squared rule. Joysticks this week sees us discuss The Pedestrian and Taiko no Tatsujin.

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Mar 04, 202201:04:29
Ep. 31: Kinky Bucket Lists

Ep. 31: Kinky Bucket Lists

a.k.a. Kinking the Bucket

Warning: This epsiodes contains discussions of acts in a fantasy setting that should not be attempted. Do not try these things at home. 

This episode we discuss some of our more out there fantasies and items on our Kinky Bucket Lists and set our kinky new year resolutions. 

For Tea this week we discuss inclusion of pronouns and neo pronouns in The sims and that Microsoft/Activision takeover. Meanwhile in joystick we discuss Diablo 3 and Gaurdians of the Galaxy. 

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Edited by TBnJ Si with oversight from TBnJ Chris  
Music: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. – soundcloud.com/matt-doak
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Feb 18, 202201:06:12
Ep. 30: Game of the Rear Awards 2021

Ep. 30: Game of the Rear Awards 2021

TBnJ is back for 2022 and, as per tradition, we bring back the TBnJ Game of the Rear awards for 2022. This week were joined by Mr Ian and Dio A.K. as we determine the winner of this years awards finding what we feel the best and worst of gaming in 2021 was for us.  

(Note: This is a video game heavy episode that doesn't have a kink topic. We will return next week to our usual kinky selves) 

Edited by TBnJ Chris
Music: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. – soundcloud.com/matt-doak
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Feb 04, 202201:36:52
More-than-Five Minute Marvel: Spider-Man: No Way Home

More-than-Five Minute Marvel: Spider-Man: No Way Home

Because we can't wait till the new year to talk about Spider-Man: No Way Home. Obvious spoilers. Involves us completely ignoring the five minute countdown clock.

Dec 31, 202109:40
Ep. 29: Full of Christmas Queer
Dec 24, 202101:06:08
Ep 28. Leather is Forever (Gear 102: Leather & Bootblacking/Leather Care)
Dec 10, 202101:00:34
Ep.27: Earning A Collar
Nov 26, 202101:25:25
Ep. 26: The Legend of Quora
Nov 12, 202101:28:13
Ep. 25: The Lion, the SWITCH and the Wardrobe

Ep. 25: The Lion, the SWITCH and the Wardrobe

This show we are in for a spooktacular chat about witches. Oh, no! Switches? Not light switches, not Nintendo Switches, but BDSM switches. Both Si and Chris identify as switches to some degree, and some people on the scene find it weird. Why? How do we make a role-reversal scene work? And is playing with a switch that different to someone that only goes one way? 

In Tea we talked about Marvel's Eternals and Ready Player Two. And for Joysticks, we revisit Robin Morningwood Adventure and explore Metroid Dread.

Edited by TBnJ Chris
Music: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. – https://soundcloud.com/matt-doak
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Oct 28, 202101:12:57
Ep. 24: Feeling the Heat in Saunas (Bathhouses)
Oct 14, 202101:00:27
Ep. 23: Locktober? I hard-ley know 'er!
Sep 30, 202101:16:24
Ep. 22: Return of the List
Sep 18, 202156:05
Ep. 21: Best Lain Only Fans
Sep 02, 202101:20:51
Episode 20: All Bois Are Degraded Equally (Degradation/Humiliation 101)
Aug 19, 202101:17:16
Episode 19: The one where we explain whats going on...

Episode 19: The one where we explain whats going on...

Si and Chris sit down this week and explain what happened that took us off air for a short while and mark the official "end" of season 1 of Tea Bags and Joystixx. Theres no Kink topic this week but we do have breif Tea about tech woes, The Olympics and local allyship, we also talk about Mini Motoroways and have a 5 Minute Marvel to cover some of what we missed.

We will be back with Season 2 of the TBnJPodcast in a few weeks time (before the end of august) and we look forward to bringing you more fresh content then!

Jul 31, 202125:25
PSA: Technical Difficulties

PSA: Technical Difficulties

Just a PSA from Chris this week. Si is having technical difficulties that means we can't record this week. Hopefully we will be back on track and have an episode out next week!
Jul 22, 202101:12
Episode 18 - What If... Kink Were a Video Game?

Episode 18 - What If... Kink Were a Video Game?

This week Chris and Si "create" a role playing video game based on kink! From fighting the Vanilla Witch Karen, bondage skill trees, and dominant/submissive level ups, we let our imaginations run wild and write a pitch for our "game"! For tea this episode we talk about Pride flags-inspired sofas and the UEFA Euro 2020 kerfuffle (also about Pride flags). In joysticks, we have GolfTopia and A Pirate's Life expansion for Sea of Thieves.

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Audio Credits:  
Editing: TBnJPodcast Chris
Music: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K - https://soundcloud.com/matt-doak
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Jul 08, 202101:18:05
Episode 17 - Taking Pride in our History (Pride Month 2021)

Episode 17 - Taking Pride in our History (Pride Month 2021)

This week we look at the history of pride. From what was happening before the legend of Stonewall, to the passing of Marriage Equality in the UK we take you on a whistlestop tour of pride in the second of our pride month specials. But not before spilling Tea why Ebay's Adult Content Ban spells trouble for LGBT+ Archival work and Youtube's take down of Australian comedy channel Ding Dong I'm Gay. We also get some time on our Joysticks on Carto and Mech Warrior 5: Mercenaries.

Jun 25, 202101:22:42
Bonus: E3 or not E3 (E3 2021)

Bonus: E3 or not E3 (E3 2021)

If Pride is "Gay Christmas", then E3 is probably the Gamers' Christmas. In this bonus episode we talk about what we each got excited about during the E3 season. No teas or joysticks, just a near unedited conversation between us with our random thoughts on the game companies' presentations.
Jun 20, 202148:26
Episode 16: Pride effects may include.... (Pride Month 2021)

Episode 16: Pride effects may include.... (Pride Month 2021)

It's pride month and we'd be missing a beat as LGBT Kinksters not to talk about pride this month so this week we're talking about what pride means to us. From our first prides to some of our fun experainces from pride! We also have some community members talk about what pride means to them including guests from other podcasts (Kinky Boys Podcast, Shut the WOOF up, & Master Slave Lifestyle podcast). Tea this week takes the form of Racing Prides partnership with Aston Martin and TV's edging of us with on again off again show cancellations/finales. Meanwhile, on our Joysticks Chris shares his thoughts on Dorfromantik while Si is pretty sure Sea of Theives is telling him enough is enough. -- Find us on Twitter at http://www.twitter.com/TBnJPodcast - or - leave  us a message at http://www.Anchor.FM/TBnJPodcast.   --  Cover Art this week comes from twitter user @Prizza_Prockets Audio Credits: Editing: TBnJPodcast Si Music: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K - https://soundcloud.com/matt-doak  Soundboard: A variety of royalty free audio.
Jun 10, 202101:24:20
Episode 15 - Post Pandemic Pandemonium
May 27, 202101:22:43
Episode 14 - All you can Feet!

Episode 14 - All you can Feet!

This week were getting to the sole of the issue as we delve into the intricacies of foot play. We talk about how we perceive the fetish as someone who is into it (Chris) and someone who isn't (Si) and what it is that turns people on about it. Tea this week comes in the form of LGBT+ Sports History in Cricket as the Birmingham Unicorns takes on the London Graces from Chris and Performative Corporate Activism from Si while in Joystixxx this week we talk about New Pokémon Snap.

May 13, 202101:14:46