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You're Not The Only One

You're Not The Only One

By Caraleigh Thomas

We ALL have moments in this life where we feel alone and struggle to work thru our pain. Its always comforting when someone can relate to us! RIGHT?! Through empathetic connections; even if its a total stranger, we can suddenly feel seen and known! This podcast opens up that conversation! It is geared toward ideas and topics that shed life and light into areas maybe hard to be open about at first. My hope is to give voice to those fears, so that fear no longer has its grip on us!
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Every generation thought “is this the end of the world?!”

You're Not The Only OneMay 10, 2021

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Every generation thought “is this the end of the world?!”

Every generation thought “is this the end of the world?!”

Short & sweet. Just a thought I had about the end of the world.
May 10, 202106:02
Insider speaks out about the January 6th D.C Capitol “Riots”

Insider speaks out about the January 6th D.C Capitol “Riots”

There are many many different stories surrounding what happened on January 6th 2021 at the Capitol. My guest, Christian Nava talks about his experience at the Capitol that day! Everything from Trump’s speech in front of the White House, to the peaceful protest outside of the Capitol building, to then being shot at with tear gas by the Capitol police.
Jan 17, 202101:00:00
Wake up CHURCH!! This is no longer a fire drill!

Wake up CHURCH!! This is no longer a fire drill!

The church on a large scale needs to wake up to what is happening in our country. There’s a lot of lies, fraud, and corruption in the government. The church needs to take a stand and lead their congregations in this fight against tyranny. It’s our voice that is the light in the darkness.
Dec 10, 202016:59
Election Fraud Coming Out Daily!

Election Fraud Coming Out Daily!

Today in Pennsylvania, Rudy Giuliani was part of the Pa Senate Hearing for Election Issues, to discuss and answer questions from the government bodies that what to help with the legal battles there; or question if there really ever was ballot fraud to begin with. It’s is more clear to me on day 22 since the election, that we are going to fight and that we won’t give up that easy! God will shock us all in the coming weeks, months and years. Have faith, and hold strong! PRAY!
Nov 26, 202018:44
What Can We Hold On To In These Perilous Times?

What Can We Hold On To In These Perilous Times?

Just my thoughts this morning, as our country continues to be in limbo over the 2020 election and being at home because of COVID-19/20
Nov 13, 202016:40
Fraud! Fraud! Fraud! The truth will set us ALL FREE!

Fraud! Fraud! Fraud! The truth will set us ALL FREE!

Stand firm in your belief that God has this election and the prophetic voices that called Trump a two term President; did not get it wrong. Do not allow what you see going on to make you think Trump has lost. Far from it! There are laws, and there are ways of doing things in this country under our constitutional rights, that have been egregiously violated! We will have our day court and we will get to the bottom this and the darkness in this country will be exposed in the light!!
Nov 10, 202040:32
Dinesh D'Souza Came For A Visit

Dinesh D'Souza Came For A Visit

Dinesh D'Souza came for a political and spiritual stirring up in our San Diego church!! I’m ready to spiritually kick some butt in this political season after tonight’s events! Permission granted! Vote for BIBLICAL VALUES!
Oct 17, 202024:01
Sex Trafficking & Poverty: How Do We STOP The Cycle?

Sex Trafficking & Poverty: How Do We STOP The Cycle?

There have always been organizations, and charities that have given to the poorest of poor countries to try and stop poverty which can lead to unthinkable life choices for it's victims. Today's episode is all about one organization, Trades Of Hope that believes in giving a hand up rather than a hand out.  For women and children in impoverished nations; life can be unbearable and difficult to survive. Trades of Hope give opportunities to artisans to work for an above average wage, creating beautiful products to sell in western countries. These opportunities afford women safety from sex trafficking and other forms of slavery for not only themselves, but their children. 

Melanie Sunukjian is my guest today. She talks about one way she has been working to stop the cycle of sex trafficking and poverty in several poor nations around the world.

For more information or how you can get in touch with Melanie go to:

melaniesunukjian@tradesofhope.com

She is also on social media.


Oct 09, 202001:02:32
The world has gone mad over this so-called Pandemic!

The world has gone mad over this so-called Pandemic!

It’s time to get on with our lives folks! This coronavirus/covid-19 is quickly turning out to be just another “flu” type virus that we can just add to the repertoire of other “seasonal” type things that come around on a yearly basis-with its own vaccine attached. This is NOT pandemic proportions and people’s lives and livelihoods are increasingly at stake. In this episode, I ask that people do their own research and not take the news; whichever outlet you listen to, at face value and just follow like sheep. We as a nation and church have been “sheep” to the wrong Shepard for far too long. It’s time to take a stand and demand schools and churches open up so people can feel normal and healthy again. Not living this “communist half life”.
Oct 07, 202032:10
I have PMDD and it sucks!!

I have PMDD and it sucks!!

PMDD (Pre-Menstral Dysphoric Disorder) is a real thing and it’s very hard on the individual suffering from it. I share my thoughts on having (unofficially) being diagnosed with PMDD and being in the middle of its effects on me. SO NOT FUN!! But, what’s the point of my podcast? To uplift, enlighten and share the real and the raw effects, of what a broken fallen world we can be born into feels and looks like. ❤️
Oct 03, 202018:10
I am SO over social distancing!!

I am SO over social distancing!!

More stuff I just have to talk about during a time that is so uncertain and yet so ridiculous (in my strong opinion) to be fearful of a pandemic that has passed. It’s time to get back to building our economy and voting for a president that’s gonna get stuff done!!
Jul 04, 202036:46
God wants YOU well!

God wants YOU well!

In this episode I talk through all the emotional ups and downs that I go through thinking about why the majority of the body of Christ believe that God doesn’t heal everyone for his own reasons and purposes. Well, I have recently changed my entire view on that and now BELIEVE that His will & desire is to heal everyone every time, IF YOU BELIEVE and not doubt in your heart, and walk it out as if you are already healed, in the midst of your sickness! Am still learning, and I am in the early stages of my new belief; but I thought I’d share what I am learning so far! References: Andrew Wommack ministries. 4 Part Teaching on Healing: “God Wants You Well” Find it on YouTube
Apr 11, 202029:18
Do not fear getting this Virus!

Do not fear getting this Virus!

It says in Matthew 10:1 “and Jesus summoned to Him His twelve disciples and gave them power and authority over unclean spirits, to drive them out, and to cure ALL kinds of disease and all kinds of weakness and infirmity”. If you believe this, then why should you fear covid-19 sweeping the earth? As Christians we HAVE THE AUTHORITY OVER SUCH THINGS IN JESUS’S name! “Fear not for I have overcome the world!” Jesus says in John 16:33. Believe in the authority that is living on the inside of you, and you will see miraculous things happen! Most of my life I have struggled with my belief and faith for such things. Either in my own abilities or of what God could really do through me. That is EXACTLY why I have never seen much breakthrough in the areas that I have been praying for for years!! I’ve NEVER come across such a clear teaching, straightforward as this man Andrew Wommack explains it! Maybe my spiritual eyes are just open now in new way from all the previous studying and meditating on the word that I have done in the last 2 years? ***Now, here is a disclaimer that I must mention that I did not get to explain in the episode: it sounds as if I am going back and forth about needing to believe in order to be healed....BUT I am speaking strictly about YOU taking your OWN authority in Christ when you speak TO the issue; instead of praying and asking God to heal you. He already accomplished that on the cross! By His stripes we WERE healed! Never agreeing with symptoms or doubt that may rise up. Take authority, and speak the WORD OF GOD TO IT! Now, there are people young and old in their faith, that do not understand their authority yet, therefore it would be difficult for them to stand on their own, expect to see healing. So this is an opportunity for this person to go to someone known for a healing ministry such as, Todd White, and have him lay hands on that person for instant healing. BUT STILL, that person would have to stand in their healing, and not doubt even if symptoms arise, which could cause them to doubt. You just keep declaring that you have been healed until you see it fully manifest! It seems counterintuitive and against human nature to think in such terms, but this is how Jesus operated! He never doubted His father in Heaven and when he gave all authority to his 12 disciples, they rarely doubted their abilities to do what Jesus did.
Mar 30, 202037:22
Quarantined: Interesting Yet Happy Times! What!?

Quarantined: Interesting Yet Happy Times! What!?

Yes! I said it! This is a happy time! Families are home together at last! Yes, tempers will flare, and routines will be done away with, but new habits and priorities will emerge! I think this is such a great thing! And I pray for those that have jobs and incomes effected by this crisis; I pray that their friends, family, and churches step in to help them. I know people will help you if you are brave and reach out. God bless all of you. Read aloud & declare Psalms 91 over your household.
Mar 22, 202026:03
Corona-what!? choose peace not fear

Corona-what!? choose peace not fear

(Warning: Due to the fact that I have no time for edits while all 3 of my kids are at home, be warned you may hear some “parenting” going on). Ok, so we’re ALL trapped inside our homes with our children or pets or by ourselves, or with people we wouldn’t wanna be trapped with, or need a periodic break from....but how are you really doing? What’s your strategy for staying peaceful through this pandemic Covid-19?! I share what I am doing, and what I’m declaring! Stay tuned!
Mar 20, 202026:20
Bicycle Preacher

Bicycle Preacher

My cousin Yancy is a dynamic person. I was excited that he agreed to let me interview him because I’ve always wanted to know his story. Growing up all that I saw as a younger relative was that he was a professional model, traveled the world and lived care free. He talks about his way back to God after being disconnected for 30 years! And how it’s now the most exciting time in his life as he gears up to being a bicycle preacher in Wyoming!
Jan 30, 202001:01:47
Live Like Lily Kelly-Death Cannot Separate Us

Live Like Lily Kelly-Death Cannot Separate Us

What are we doing to secure that our kids get into heaven? Are we as parents more concerned with what college they get into rather than their eternal security? In this episode, I talk to Faith Zember.  Her daughter Lily Kelly was tragically killed June 1st 2019. She talks about her daughter's deep abiding walk with the Lord.  And the depth of that relationship, and how she encouraged her daughter from a young age to pursue the things not of this world.  What will strike your heart the most about this interview is how Faith has coped with the loss of her daughter for the past 7 months. My hope and prayer is that this interview would cause you to have a kingdom mindset, no longer looking to the things of this world to satisfy you.

Be Blessed. 

livelikelilykelly.com

Contact: Faith Zember (on all social media platforms)

Song: I AM

Performed & Written by: Lily Kelly 2019 (Available on iTunes, Spotify, Amazon)

Jan 16, 202056:42
L..O.L!? O.M.G!!! My daughter's girl doll has what!?

L..O.L!? O.M.G!!! My daughter's girl doll has what!?

WARNING! THIS EPISODE IS NOT SUITABLE FOR CHILDREN. CERTAIN LANGUAGE COULD BE OFFENSIVE TO SOME LISTENERS, WHEN DESCRIBING BODY PARTS. 

On this end of the year episode, I discuss my experience with a gender confused LOL doll that my daughter received for Christmas! This was BIZARRE to say the least!  Stay tuned!

Dec 31, 201919:29
Kanye West's, Jesus Is King and it's impact on the WHOLE world!

Kanye West's, Jesus Is King and it's impact on the WHOLE world!

In this episode, I review Kanye West's new gospel album, JESUS IS KING!  I talk about the albums's impact on Christians, non christians, and ultimately by him choosing Jesus, how that decision; will dramatically impact the WHOLE world for Christ!  The 2 interviewers that I refer to are: The Late Late Show w/James Corden (Air-Poole Karaoke segment) & Denzel Gargar (YouTube: Christian Mom Reacts to Kanye West’s Album Jesus Is King. I recommend watching the interview by Big Boy @ BigBoyTv on YouTube as well, very eye opening and raw! All three of these shows inspired me to listen to his album and then him album inspired me to do this episode! This is a SERIOUS movement by God! Mark my words...there is a revival coming!!!! 🙌🏼🙏🏼🙌🏼
Nov 15, 201929:27
Just go for it, ALREADY!

Just go for it, ALREADY!

I have had many blocks in my life that have kept me from stepping into my God-given destiny. There was a rainbow of insecurities that I allowed to take over my mind and emotions for decades!! It wasn’t until very recently that I prayed and asked God, “Is this all there is to my life? My walk with you? The enormous call I feel that you have put on my life?” Why can’t I seem to step into it? Asking that question is what put everything since then, into motion! I REALLY REALLY REALLY wanted to know the answers-and still do! So that’s where God began leading me. Prompting my heart. Encouraging my spirit, to trust Him and stop looking at the world for my answers and fulfillment.
Oct 13, 201937:12
How to combat the battle in your mind!

How to combat the battle in your mind!

We all have a warring battle going on in our minds daily! If you’re human, you’re battling against thoughts of inadequacy, jealousy, self hate, loneliness, self righteousness...etc. We all ‘got’ something we’re struggling with! I could go on and on! If you say you don’t have a war in your mind, you’re either lying or dead. What weapons do you bring to your battle? In this micro-mini episode I talk about my battle strategy.
Sep 23, 201916:27
Parental Alienation

Parental Alienation

Could you or someone you know be a victim or a perpetrator of parental alienation? In this episode I interview Jon Smith. He is a targeted parent of parental alienation. In 2015, he had his 3 children dramatically taken from his home. Ever since that day he has tried to make sense of his world being flipped upside down by his estranged ex-wife. Fighting to have equal rights to his children, the judicial system in these cases; have failed him and millions of other families over the decades. Jon now advocates for this movement and is working hard to get the laws changed. Parental alienation is a form of spousal domestic violence, whereas innocent children are used as pawns in a relationally destructive adult mind game through pathogenic parenting techniques. Parental alienation begins with a psychologically distressed parent having severe feelings of inadequacy and relational dysfunctions stemming from their own childhood trauma pertaining to a caregiver This typically results in the development of a personality disorder such as NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) and/or BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder) whereas the individual develops an emotional cutoff to normal range empathy. They retaliate against their inner demons by acting out in ways which are destructive themselves as well as to the family unit, such as excessive overspending, substance abuse, adultery and/or psychotic behavior which often leads to divorce. They are then unable to process the psychological mourning surrounding divorce and project their inadequacies on to their ex, who becomes the targeted parent. The targeted parent is slandered and persecuted by their ex as a form of emotional restitution through the re-enactment of the NPD/BPD parent’s childhood scenario. In this fantasy role play, the targeted parent must become the presumed villain and the children must become the presumed victim in order for the personality disordered parent to play the restitutional role of the hero that they never had. The children become trapped in this vicious cycle and are either obstructed or completely erased from having normal range relationship dynamics with their otherwise loving, targeted parent. This pathogenic style of parenting is a form of psychological child abuse and the related trauma hinders the child’s emotional development. Pathogenically parented alienated children are more likely to develop their own life long attachment based disorder as this psychological sickness is passed onward to the next generation and becomes a further breeding grown for non empathetic, widespread relational destruction of family values. Targeted parents additionally suffer from PTSD type symptoms including depression and anxiety which often leads to physical health issues, substance abuse or even suicide. Parental alienation is literally a mental health care crisis estimated to affect over 22 million families in the United States alone. Furthermore, our current family judicial system is incompetent to assess the reality of these scenarios and frequently makes relationally devastating child custody gate keeping decisions based on the unverified allegations of the alienating parent, which are often supported by the persecutory delusions of the psychologically enmeshed child.

“And we know that ALL THINGS work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose.” Romans 8:28 “ALL THINGS FOR GOOD”, even the ugliness of Parental Alienation. -Jon Smith
If you’d like to contact Jon Smith his email is
parentalalienationskar@gmail.com
Sep 14, 201954:58
The 6 Ultimate Weapons Used to Maintain Great Friendship!

The 6 Ultimate Weapons Used to Maintain Great Friendship!

We have all struggled to find good people to walk along side us throughout seasons of our lives. Episode #2 is a round table discussion. I am talking with two good friends of mine that I found along my journey during the season of raising small children. We focus on what that looks like when, lets face it, we're all in survival mode, and life is stressful! Having good, supportive friendships, where there is no judgment, only encouragement is the difference between surviving and Thriving!! I want to always be thriving!!! I made it my MISSION to find out for myself, what a true friend was. I've had some let downs over the years of my life, but never stopped believing that God had the right people for me and to also transform me into the right kind of friend for those I'd meet.
I guide us through the discussion by hitting 6 talking points, that have helped me to find and maintain the current friendships in my life; Forgiveness, Encouragement, Clear Head, Community, Authenticity, and Salvation. Enjoy!
Don't forget to subscribe and download. Also, please never hesitate to leave a comment on the voice message link! Id love to hear your thoughts and ideas about future episodes, as well!
Aug 28, 201931:10
When Life Throws Curveballs, How Do You React?

When Life Throws Curveballs, How Do You React?

After finding out that something had gone wrong in the womb with her daughter Ruby, Courtney made a decision not to worry and to wait and see how things unfolded. 

On this episode of You’re Not The Only One, Courtney takes us through her early journey  of facing one of the most difficult experiences a parent could face.

Jul 17, 201935:28