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Killing Time With Arch

Killing Time With Arch

By Arch Grieve

This started as a boredom project during the pandemic because I was off work, but it has now evolved into me interviewing TikTok creators exclusively, so if you enjoy TikTok (or even if you don't), tune in to hear me talk with the next awesome creator. I only talk to interesting people, although I find most people interesting. If you know me in the real world you don't know me on TikTok.
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Episode 102 - Talking with Veronica aka @Bipolarbetch on TikTok and new bipolar book out now!

Killing Time With ArchApr 19, 2024

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Episode 102 - Talking with Veronica aka @Bipolarbetch on TikTok and new bipolar book out now!

Episode 102 - Talking with Veronica aka @Bipolarbetch on TikTok and new bipolar book out now!

***Trigger warning: this episode includes adult themes and discussion of suicide and other topics that could be triggering to some listeners***


Welcome to the Killing Time With Arch Podcast, the show where I talk to your favorite and soon to be new-favorite tiktok creators! My guest today is a fellow TikTok creator who has bipolar type 1 (like myself) and who I think has one of the funniest and realest accounts around about bipolar disorder. She talks about all of the funny and cringey and scary things about bipolar disorder on there and shares some great insights about living with it, all while educating her audience and helping eliminate the stigma around the illness. Her name is Veronica and she goes by @bipolarbetch on TikTok, and in my interview with her I talk with her about everything from the time she put all of her exes together in a group chat to our strict drug regimens. You can find her on Instagram as well, so be sure to give her a follow!


If you'd like to watch this episode, you can find the video podcast on my YouTube channel here!


Also, the big news since my last episode is that I now have a book out! It’s called One Dude’s Guide to Being Bipolar: How to Stay the Hell Out of Grippy Socks Jail, Achieve Anyways, and Abide Always, and if you’re someone who suffers from bipolar disorder or know someone who does, this book is for you!


Check out my author website www.gemcitydudeistpriest.com/bipolardudeguide for more information on how to find the paperback, ebook, and audiobook (which I read myself!), and please be sure to leave a review wherever you read or listen to it!

Apr 19, 202401:02:34
Killing Time Episode 101 - Talking with Laura @thebpspouse from TikTok
Jan 31, 202429:30
100th Episode Special - Interview with Mary Theadoor aka @marynowns on TikTok

100th Episode Special - Interview with Mary Theadoor aka @marynowns on TikTok

My guest today is Mary Theodore, who goes by @marynown on TikTok. In addition to creating a really uplifting account, she is an amazing, talented, and very multi-faceted individual, so join me as we explore some of those facets together when I talk with Mary on today's show. You can find Mary's link tree at https://linktr.ee/MaryDoctor and that's where you can find links to her TikTok channel, her spicy pages, and more! So be sure to check it out. On the show, we talk about all kinds of things from Eckhart Tolle to religion to mindfulness and more. We also talked a little bit about Mary's design skills, which she's using to create a cover for my book about how to survive being diagnosed with bipolar disorder. You're not going to want to miss this one!

If you're interested in getting a notification once my book is published, the artwork for which was being done by Mary, simply visit www.gemcitydudeistpriest.com and sign up for an email notification once publishing information is available. If you sign up for that list you'll get 5% off the purchase of the book, including the physical book and audiobook. Killing Time with Arch is a production of the Gem City Circle of Dudeists. Learn more about the GCCOD and how we can help you start your own podcast at www.gemcitycircleofdudeists.org.

Jan 15, 202401:16:56
Killing Time Episode 99 - Interview with Cigar Box Scott

Killing Time Episode 99 - Interview with Cigar Box Scott

My guest today, Scott Atkinson, goes by "Cigar Box Scott" on TikTok and he’s a talented musician who has been playing his cigar box guitar a lot lately. He specializes in old-time bluegrass and folk and traditional music, or whatever you want to call it, and he plays right here in the Dayton area.

If you want to see Scott playing live, he’s going to be at the Yellow Cab Tavern on January 4, so you won’t want to miss that. Be sure to check him out, you won’t regret it! You can learn more about him on his website, www.cigarboxscott.com.

If you’d like to learn more about me, your host, you can visit www.gemcitydudeistpriest.com, where you can learn about everything I can do for you ranging from helping you travel to Bosnia to officiating your wedding or mediating your divorce. Thanks so much for listening, take care everyone, and stay funky Dayton.

Jan 04, 202433:00
Killing Time Episode 98 - Interview with San Salinas
Dec 28, 202337:07
Killing Time Episode 97 - Interview with Dr. Clifton
Dec 05, 202335:49
Killing Time Episode 96 - Talking with Kyle AKA "Homebrewcity" from TikTok

Killing Time Episode 96 - Talking with Kyle AKA "Homebrewcity" from TikTok

Well it's certainly been a minute and I hate that it took me this long to get such a great episode out, but I sat down with Kyle, AKA "Homebrewcity" on TikTok, to talk about homebrewing. And not just your typical beer homebrewing. We also talk about mead, acerglyn, hop tea, and much more. Find him on TikTok at ⁠www.tiktok.com/@homebrewcity⁠.


The long hiatus is due to the fact that I went through a divorce and planned to move out of the country to Bosnia and Herzegovina around this time last year, but I met someone new and fell in love and decided to stay, so I'm back to podcasting finally once again, and it's nice to be back. I just needed a hiatus is all.


You'll hear me mention this in the episode, but I hope you'll check out my new website, www.gemcitydudeistpriest.com, and learn more about some of the other side gigs I'm doing, which range from being a wedding officiant to taking people on trips to Bosnia and Herzegovina. Check it out to learn more!

Aug 27, 202353:21
Killing Time Episode 95 - Interview with Turbofolk Sensation/"Helikopter" Song Artist Fazlija in Sarajevo
Sep 30, 202211:40
Killing Time Episode 94 - Talking with Arielle Nissenblatt of EarBuds Podcast Collective
Aug 23, 202245:04
Killing Time Episode 93 - Interview with Storyteller, Entrepreneur, Coach, Writer, and More - Bridget Flaherty, AKA @glam.ma on TikTok

Killing Time Episode 93 - Interview with Storyteller, Entrepreneur, Coach, Writer, and More - Bridget Flaherty, AKA @glam.ma on TikTok

Jun 12, 202244:04
Killing Time Episode 92 - Talking with Home Chef Asher AKA "Badger's Bargain Bites" on TikTok
Jun 04, 202232:31
Killing Time Episode 91 - Knitter Extraordinaire Sam Barsky, AKA @sambarsky on TikTok
May 27, 202220:28
Killing Time Episode 90 - Talking Pipes with Nick Brown AKA @Chain....smoker on TikTok
May 21, 202259:30
Killing Time Episode 89 - @ChicagoDiveDiva from TikTok

Killing Time Episode 89 - @ChicagoDiveDiva from TikTok

On today’s episode of Killing Time I’m excited to get to talk to  Chicago’s Ms. Dive Diva, whose goal it is to find the “diviest dive bar”  in all of Chicago. She’s on TikTok, Twitter, and Instagram as  @chicagodivediva and she has a blog as well that we’ll also talk about,  so join me as we talk about everything from Mallort to the bar in the  Chicago Art Museum in this episode. Also, as a fun aside, I happened to  be visiting Chicago recently and got to meet up and hang out and have  some Mallory and Old Styles at Rossi’s, a downtown dive bar, so if you  follow me on TikTok you’ll see a video collaboration of the two of us!

If you’d like to learn more and find her blog or check out her cool merch, visit https://chicagodivediva.company.site/.

The bars that Ms. Dive Diva recommended on this episode were:

Rossi's

Simon's Tavern in Andersonville

Go Tavern in Logan Square 

Archie's Tavern 

Old Town Ale House

The Loyalist (not a dive though!) - Say Dive Diva sent you and tell John that Dive Diva said hi!

*Also  a quick correction: I mentioned that we met the owner of the Old Town  Ale House, but I actually did not... apparently he's the owner's  ex-husband. He's a really cool guy though that did an episode with  Anthony Bourdain and also painted him... and he has some unique  paintings. Learn more here: https://explorepartsunknown.com/chicago/chicagos-old-town-ale-house/.

Thanks so much for listening to this episode, and if you enjoyed it  then please be sure to leave a review and share it with a friend. You  may also be interested to learn that I have another podcast that’s all  about Dayton, Ohio called “Discover Dayton,” so I hope you’ll check that  out too!

Thanks for listening.

May 16, 202234:05
Killing Time Episode 88 - Nathan Shuherk AKA SchizophrenicReads

Killing Time Episode 88 - Nathan Shuherk AKA SchizophrenicReads

For today’s episode of Killing Time with Arch I’m excited to get to talk to Nathan Shuherk, who goes by @SchizophrenicReads on TikTok. Nathan is a popular book tok creator with over 60,000 followers who reads a ton of books and does an amazing job reviewing them. We also share in common our struggles with mental illness and a somewhat similar religious upbringing that we have both left far behind. There are also some great book and podcast recommendations in this episode as well, which I’ve listed below for you. Book recommendations in order of their mention in the show: - The Nineties by Chuck Klosterman (Nathan’s pick) - Diners Dudes and Diets by Emily Contois (Nathan’s pick) - How Are You Going to Pay for That? by Ryan Cooper (Nathan’s pick) - They Can’t Kill Us Until They Kill Us by Hanif Abduraqqib (Nathan’s pick) - Go Ahead in the Rain: Notes to A Tribe Called Quest, Hanif Abduraqqib (Nathan’s pick) - A Little Devil in America: In Praise of Black Performance by Hanif Abduraqqib (Nathan’s pick) - God Bless You Mr. Rosewater by Kurt Vonnegut (Arch’s pick) - (Anti-Recommendation from Nathan and Arch): World Travel by Anthony Bourdain (kind of) - Bullshit Jobs by David Graeber (Nathan’s pick) - Debt by David Graeber (Nathan’s pick) Podcasts recommended: - TrueAnon - The Dollop by Dave Anthony and Reynolds - Maintenance Phase You can find him on TikTok at @schizophrenicreads, as well as on Instagram. You can also find him on Twitter at @schizoreads. Also be sure to follow him so you can listen to his upcoming podcasts! Thanks so much for listening to this episode, and if you enjoyed it then please be sure to leave a review and share it with a friend. You may also be interested to learn that I have another podcast that’s all about Dayton, Ohio called “Discover Dayton,” so I hope you’ll check that out too! Thanks for listening.
May 05, 202252:26
Killing Time Episode 87 - Itsjesssss from TikTok

Killing Time Episode 87 - Itsjesssss from TikTok

Visit killingtimeduringcorona.blogspot.com for full show notes... For today’s episode I’m excited to talk to Jessica, an Ohio-based comedian who is on Tiktok as @Itsjesssss She’s one of the funniest people I follow and I’m really excited to get to talk with her and ask her about some of the hilarious stories she shares. We also talk about which is worse: growing up Catholic or Evangelical Christian, and we touch on some mental health and she teaches me that part of the rhubarb plant is poisonous, so all around an informative and helpful interview. Jess doesn’t necessarily want to be found other than on TikTok, so I don’t have a website or anything to point you to, but definitely get on TikTok and check her out @Itsjessss! Thanks so much for listening, and if you enjoyed this episode you may like my other podcast, Discover Dayton, which can be found wherever you get your podcasts or at www.discoverdaytonpodcast.com. You can also find the Killing Time Facebook page at www.facebook.com/killingtimewitharch.
Apr 27, 202201:01:49
Killing Time Episode 86 - Jason AKA RoastmasterTikTok
Apr 21, 202250:52
Killing Time Episode 85 - Trey AKA Mental Sundries from TikTok
Apr 10, 202201:32:59
Killing Time Episode 84 - Kristina and Nick Molinaro of Twenty Five and Pine
Mar 12, 202224:48
Killing Time Episode 83 - Chris Chapman
Mar 11, 202240:31
Killing Time Episode 82 - American_in_Ireland

Killing Time Episode 82 - American_in_Ireland

Welcome to the Killing Time Podcast, a podcast I created to help me kill time during the pandemic. It's been a long hiatus, but I'm back and looking forward to more episodes moving forward! My guest today goes by @american_in_ireland on TikTok, and she is just that: an American who moved to Ireland recently; Cork, specifically. She’s living my dream of being an American expat in Ireland, so I was really excited to talk to her and find out more about her life overseas. If you've ever considered moving overseas, especially to Ireland, you'll definitely want to listen to this one!
Feb 27, 202201:02:55
Killing Time 2022 Promo/Update on Where I've Been

Killing Time 2022 Promo/Update on Where I've Been

In this short update/promo for the Killing Time Podcast I explain where I've been for nearly the past year and what I hope to do with the Killing Time Podcast in 2022. Check it out to learn more about what's in store, and if you haven't done so yet, search for @killingtimewitharch on Facebook and follow me there to keep up-to-date on what's happening and to let me know how you're doing! I'd love to hear from you.
Feb 21, 202204:24
Killing Time Episode 81 - Vince Smart

Killing Time Episode 81 - Vince Smart

My guest Vince Smart was born and raised in East London. He left London at the age of 11 to go to a independent performing arts school to become a professional ballet dancer. He was also crowned the Chivas Master 2019 UK champion, and got to represent the UK against other bartenders from across the world and became a part of the global Chivas Regal bar team. Join us for a fun conversation about ballet, drinks, and more!
Mar 06, 202101:29:28
Killing Time Episode 80 - Leigh Hacker

Killing Time Episode 80 - Leigh Hacker

My guest Leigh Hacker is a medical marijuana patient in Cincinnati Ohio who is on TikTok every night at 11pm EST for a very specific reason that we’ll get into on this podcast. He’s someone I enjoy talking to that I came across on my recent journey into TikTok. Join me as we talk about everything from his favorite marijuana strains to whether there is intelligent life outside our solar system!
Mar 04, 202151:31
Killing Time Episode 79 - Interview With Madalena Costa

Killing Time Episode 79 - Interview With Madalena Costa

My guest today is the founder of Myaris Consulting, and her name is Madalena Costa. She’s from Portugal, so it’s my first interview with someone from Portugal, which is exciting! I also look forward to talking to her about Conquer Like a Girl, a girls’ empowerment organization she co-founded. She’s also the co-founder of Zoom Networking Sessions, which I’m looking forward to talking to her about as well!
Nov 22, 202025:54
Killing Time Episode 78 - Interview with Iris Weaver

Killing Time Episode 78 - Interview with Iris Weaver

Join me for a fun interview with someone I just met! Iris is an herbalist who lives outside Boston and we have a great time talking about plants and more. I hope you'll join for this episode!
Nov 22, 202042:27
Killing Time Episode 77 - Election Night Special

Killing Time Episode 77 - Election Night Special

Join me and Jordan, David, and Mark for an election night special.
Nov 04, 202001:18:16
Killing Time Episode 76 - Interview With David Bailey

Killing Time Episode 76 - Interview With David Bailey

David Bailey is someone I came across while searching for YouTube videos related to Bosnia-Herzegovina, and I discovered that he’s living my dream of having become a full-time resident of Bosnia-Herzegovina. He’s a self-styled “Digital Disrupter” and early tech adopter who was into pirate radio, served in the Corps of Royal Electrical and Mechanical Engineers, worked in government and radio in Bosnia-Herzegovina, and now runs a channel on YouTube called “Living in Bosnia and Herzegovina” with his wife, Tamara. Join me for a fun and informative conversation!
Oct 10, 202001:12:39
Killing Time Episode 75 - Interview With Jordan and Charles Slone

Killing Time Episode 75 - Interview With Jordan and Charles Slone

Join me as I talk with my buddy Jordan and his dad, Charles, about their experience dealing with the U.S. healthcare system.
Oct 09, 202046:01
Killing Time Episode 74 - Interview With Mike Postiy

Killing Time Episode 74 - Interview With Mike Postiy

Join me as I interview Mike Postiy, a jiu-jitsu buddy of mine. Mike works for Fuyao as a buyer, but has a degree in poli sci from the University of Mount Union in Alliance, OH. He wrote his thesis on the history of liberalism, so I enjoy talking to him about that. He also spends his free time reading about history and politics.
Sep 21, 202044:10
Killing Time Episode 73 - Interview With Howard L. Brown

Killing Time Episode 73 - Interview With Howard L. Brown

Howard L. Brown graduated from Syracuse University in 1967, got married to Nancy Goldis, and joined one of his family plastics companies. Over the years he has bought, expanded, and sold many of his office-product companies, including to big names like Office Depot and Staples. Today, Howard enjoys spending time with all of his five grandchildren, playing golf, and giving back to the community. I recently read his new book, Yes Is More: Tangible and Timeless Ways to Differentiate Yourself from Your Competitors, and I'm excited to get to talk with him about it!
Jul 29, 202038:40
Killing Time Episode 72 - Interview With Rohan Korlahalli K

Killing Time Episode 72 - Interview With Rohan Korlahalli K

Today on the show I interview Rohan Korlahalli K, whom I met through the podcast group we're both members of. He's a fascinating guy who ran a travel business before COVID-19, after he was a stand-up comedian. Join me as I learn about his plans and interests and talk about his podcast, Beer. Baatain. Bakchodi. Check it out for sure!
Jun 27, 202029:24
Killing Time Episode 71 - Interview With Dr. Lawrence Marsh

Killing Time Episode 71 - Interview With Dr. Lawrence Marsh

This episode is sponsored by Greenleaf Book Group, a hybrid book publisher and distributor dedicated to empowering authors. You can learn more about the work Greenleaf Book Group does by visiting greenleafbookgroup.com. Today's guest on the podcast is Dr. Lawrence C. Marsh, professor emeritus at the University of Notre Dame’s Department of Economics. He taught graduate and undergraduate economics there for 30 years and served as Director of Notre Dame’s Ph.D. program in economics for 13 years. He’s also a co-founder of the Midwest Econometrics Group, which analyzes statistical data as it relates to economics. When he’s not with his family, he tutors students as a volunteer at a neighboring university in Kansas City, Missouri, where he resides. He’s also the author of the book Optimal Money Flow: A New Vision of How a Dynamic-Growth Economy Can Work for Everyone. Join me as I talk with him about the ideas he has in his book, and if you'd like to purchase it visit http://optimal-money-flow.website. All of the money will go to student scholarships!
Jun 19, 202046:03
Killing Time Episode 70 - Interview With Kanay Kashyap

Killing Time Episode 70 - Interview With Kanay Kashyap

Join me for a fascinating life encounter I have with Tanay, who is like an entrepreneurial genius!
Jun 13, 202046:25
Killing Time Episode 69 - Interview With Grandma and Grandpa Agnor
Jun 11, 202049:32
Killing Time Episode 68 - Interview With Jason Antonick

Killing Time Episode 68 - Interview With Jason Antonick

Join me for a funny and brief interview, Part 1 of a new series - "Talking With Jason." I'm with Jason Antonick! Banker and Poker buddy and Pecha Kucha guru and all-around Dayton gem, Jason's a lot of fun and you'll want to know what he's wearing in this episode...
Jun 11, 202009:02
Killing Time Episode 67 - Interview With Patrick Grieve

Killing Time Episode 67 - Interview With Patrick Grieve

Join me for another segment of House Hunters Patrick (and Arch) Grieve Edition!
Jun 03, 202058:43
Killing Time Episode 64 - Interview With Peter Benkendorf

Killing Time Episode 64 - Interview With Peter Benkendorf

Peter Benkendorf is an opportunity generator and fresh thinker who also happens to be the Founder of The Collaboratory, which engages in Involvement Advocacy. Involvement Advocacy provides the Collaborative Infrastructure—the physical space, engagement tools, network and support system—for people from across the region to come together to imagine and act upon new possibilities for themselves, each other and the community. Join me for a fun conversation!
Jun 02, 202032:30
Killing Time Episode 66 - Interview With Don Cipollini

Killing Time Episode 66 - Interview With Don Cipollini

My guest on the show today is Dr. Don Cipollini. Don is a professor at Wright State University where he is the Director of Environmental Sciences. He’s kind of famous for his research on the emerald ash borer and he’s all about the biological sciences, so I think there are some plant discussions in store today. Join me for a fun and engaging conversation about biology!
Jun 02, 202001:05:28
Killing Time Episode 65 - Interview With Andrew Walsh

Killing Time Episode 65 - Interview With Andrew Walsh

All right today I get to talk to a writer, Andrew Walsh. Andrew Walsh is an author, researcher, and academic librarian at Sinclair Community College. Andrew’s book Lost Dayton was published by The History Press in 2018. Additionally, he writes about historical and current Dayton topics on his website DaytonVistas.com, so join us for a fun conversation about Dayton history and more!
Jun 01, 202030:43
Killing Time Episode 63 - Interview With Rachel Dominguez-Benner
May 30, 202042:51
Killing Time Episode 62 - Interview With Josh Burkey

Killing Time Episode 62 - Interview With Josh Burkey

Josh is another person that's in my podcasting group, and he has a really interesting and worthwhile podcast about mental health that I encourage you to check out at https://www.victimsandvillains.net!
May 29, 202029:52
Killing Time Episode 61 - Interview With Jordan Slone

Killing Time Episode 61 - Interview With Jordan Slone

All right my buddy Jordan Slone is one of my best friends. He’s an IT Director at a local school who I used to work with. He’s also a cancer survivor and someone I just really like to hang out with a lot, and I’ve been missing our visits to Tanks recently, so join me for a fun chat about all kinds of stuff, including politics, cancer battles, and more!
May 28, 202050:38
Killing Time Episode 60 - Interview With Patrick Grieve

Killing Time Episode 60 - Interview With Patrick Grieve

Join me for the next edition of House Hunters Patrick Grieve Edition!
May 27, 202031:38
Killing Time Episode 59 - Interview With Scott Poggensee
May 26, 202018:60
Killing Time Episode 58 - Interview With Aaron Traylor

Killing Time Episode 58 - Interview With Aaron Traylor

Aaron is my cousin by marriage and he lives in Indiana and is a coal miner. We both like playing bluegrass music together and drinking, although we couldn’t be further apart probably on politics. Join me for a fun conversation!
May 25, 202015:50
Killing Time Episode 57 - Interview With Sean Mitchell

Killing Time Episode 57 - Interview With Sean Mitchell

All right this guy we’re going to talk to here is probably the friendliest guy I’ve ever met. His hero is Mr. Rogers, and it shows. Sean is a fixture in the Dayton nonprofit and nightlife scene, so I’m looking forward to talking with him and seeing how things are going.
May 24, 202022:10
Killing Time Episode 56 - Interview With Kyle Liepelt

Killing Time Episode 56 - Interview With Kyle Liepelt

My friend Kyle is a good poker buddy of mine. We both share a love of bourbon, although he’s much more refined in his tastes than I am. I enjoy catching up with him and talking about bourbon, poker, and more, so join me for a fun conversation!
May 23, 202042:46
Killing Time Episode 55 - House Hunters Patrick Grieve Edition

Killing Time Episode 55 - House Hunters Patrick Grieve Edition

We check in again with my brother again on this edition of House Hunters Patrick Grieve Edition to see if he's going to want to get the house or not!
May 21, 202023:23
Killing Time Episode 54 - Interview With Jacob Hatfield

Killing Time Episode 54 - Interview With Jacob Hatfield

All right so my guest today is Jacob Hatfield. He’s actually my little brother through Big Brothers Big Sisters, but he's all grown up and now he’s in retail sales and a worship pastor at University Baptist Church in Middletown, so join me for a conversation about music, sock collecting, and more!
May 20, 202039:16