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You Should Have Ghosted

You Should Have Ghosted

By Shayna Slinsky & Lizz Rodriguez

Two best friends enjoy a few drinks and discuss the dark side of online dating.
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Dirty Thirty

You Should Have GhostedMar 23, 2021

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Dirty Thirty

Dirty Thirty

Hello and welcome to episode 30!!

In this episode, Lizz tells the story of Asia McGowan, a 20 year old aspiring actress and YouTuber who’s chance at success was stolen from her by a fellow student turned stalker, Anthony Powell.

Shayna awards Christopher Ian Iverson the well deserved badge of Scumbag of The Week for taking advantage of young girls by promising them gifts and drugs.

Don’t forget to check out Hush Hush Society Conspiracy Hour podcast!

And as always thank you to the 50 x 50’s for our intro music, you can find them on instagram and twitter @the50x50s

Enjoy the show :)

Mar 23, 202101:05:57
Unhinged

Unhinged

Hello, and welcome to Episode 29 of You Should Have Ghosted! This week, we are joined by the ornery uncle of the indie podcast world, Aaron from I HAD To Say It! Shayna covers the infamous Farmville Murders, a tragic quadruple bludgeoning homicide perpetrated by aspiring horrorcore rapper Richard McCroskey. McCroskey met teenager Emma Neidermeyer on MySpace, and their first in-person meeting did not go as anticipated; with a damaged ego, he murdered Emma, her friend Melanie, and both of Emma's parents. Lizz names roided-out douchebag Jason Ara Erpinar, also known as The MySpace Rapist, as the Scumbag of the Week.

Promo from Harpy Hour Podcast

Check out @the50x50s on Twitter and Instagram!  Enjoy the show!

Mar 16, 202158:29
Downtrodden Steve Carell

Downtrodden Steve Carell

Welcome back for episode 28!

This week Lizz tells the story of Kimberly Proctor, this tale will definitely WoW you. Shayna slaps the Scumbag of the Week badge on Ignacio Carrillo and his enormous face. I would like to warn people that this episode contains a lot of very dark humor so remember, we have trigger warnings for a reason.

This episode also includes a promo for Riddle Me That podcast!

Check out The 50x50's on IG and Twitter @the50x50s

Enjoy the show. :)

Mar 09, 202101:04:22
Pottery Over Murder

Pottery Over Murder

Welcome to Episode 27 of You Should Have Ghosted! This week, we have very special guests, Host and Producer from You Can Tell Me Podcast, an anonymous guide to getting over your ex. Shayna discusses the murder of Troy LaFerrara, a married man who met his demise after meeting Miranda Barbour, a troubled teen and former cult member, on Craigslist. Lizz names Gayle Newland, a closeted lesbian who catfished as a man on Facebook, as the Scumbag of the Week. 

Check out @the50x50s on Twitter and Instagram!  Enjoy the show!

Mar 02, 202101:20:08
Tinder Love and Care

Tinder Love and Care

Hello and welcome to episode 26!
This week Lizz tells the tale of Stephen Port, a man who almost got away with murder. Shayna declares Nathan Loebe, who liked to tell women he was Brian Bonsall, this weeks Scumbag of the Week.
This episode also contains a promo for I HAD To Say It podcast, you can find Aaron on IG @ihadtosayitpodcast or on Twitter @ihadtosayitThe1
Thank you to the 50x50s for the intro music, you can find them on Instagram and Twitter @the50x50s.
Enjoy the show :)
Feb 23, 202158:12
Intersectionality Matters

Intersectionality Matters

Welcome to Episode 25 of You Should Have Ghosted! As the title implies, this week we discuss the importance of intersectionality in the black, LGBTQIA+, and feminist communities. Shayna discusses the murder of Michael Sandy, a gay black man whose death was a robbery gone wrong. Lizz names the California Department of Corrections as the Scumbag of the Week, specifically for the sex crimes committed against C. Jay Smith, a black transwoman incarcerated in a men's prison.
This episode features a promo from Happy Horror Time, a horror movie review podcast.
Check out @the50x50s on Twitter and Instagram!
Enjoy the show!
Feb 16, 202101:04:11
Flippity Floppity Get Off My Property

Flippity Floppity Get Off My Property

Welcome to episode 24 of You Should Have Ghosted! Starring Paige from Chaotic Neutral podcast.

In this episode, Lizz tells the story of the pogo love triangle that turned deadly when Tom Montgomery a.k.a MarineSniper lost touch with reality. Our theme is apparently catfishing as Shayna presents Jessica Carlton with our well deserved badge of Scumbag of The Week this week.

Check out Paige @chaoticneutralpod on Instagram and basically where ever you listen to podcasts!

As always, thank you to @the50x50’s for our theme music!

Enjoy the show. :)

Feb 09, 202101:02:12
Legal Beagles

Legal Beagles

Welcome to the 23rd episode of You Should Have Ghosted! It's our first episode of Black History Month, and this time around, Shayna decided to tell the very important story of Timothy Coggins, a 23-year-old black Georgia man who was murdered for dating a white woman, and whose lynching went unsolved for over three decades. Lizz names David Gabrieli, a French catfish living in Australia, as the Scumbag of the Week. This episode features a promo from Crime & Roses. a true crime and Bachelor recap podcast. Check out @the50x50s on Twitter and Instagram! Enjoy the show!
Feb 02, 202152:51
Everyone Loves Some Pineapple
Jan 26, 202101:39:43
Chicken Daddy's Cult Farm

Chicken Daddy's Cult Farm

Welcome to Episode 21; our show is old enough to drink! In this very special guestisode, Shayna discusses the murder of 16-year-old Shayna Ritthaler, who ran away from her grandparent's Wyoming ranch to live with her 17-year-old online boyfriend, Michael Gavin Campbell. Lizz names prolific serial rapist Reynhard Sinaga as the Scumbag of the Week. We had the absolute honor of being joined by Angelina and Aurora of MurderMurder News to discuss their YouTube channel, website, and dating misadventures.

This episode also features a promo from Crime & Crime again.

As always, thank you to The 50x50s for our theme music. Find them on Twitter and Instagram @the50x50s

Jan 19, 202101:25:59
One Broccoli, Please

One Broccoli, Please

Welcome to 20th episode of You Should Have Ghosted, a special ladies' night edition!

This week Shayna tells the story Adam Hilarie, a single father whose search for love was cut short after being lured to his death by Hailey Bustos and her dangerous friends. Lizz declares Scumbag of The Week to be Alexandria Vera, a middle school English teacher who crossed the boundaries of appropriateness and sexually abused her 13-year-old student. The Tinder Brofiles this week are all from ladies as well! And for some reason, appliance banter is aplenty.

This episode features a promo from Ladies Fright, and a shout out to local business Before Bed!

Check out @the50x50s on Twitter and Instagram!

Enjoy the show!

Jan 12, 202101:07:14
Loud Funny Ones

Loud Funny Ones

HELLO and WELCOME to the 19th episode of You Should Have Ghosted!

This episode Lizz tells the story of Ingrid Lyne, the murder with the least explanation possible. Shayna names the Scumbags of The Week Rebecca Holloway and Oliver Wilson, a twisted couple who land themselves more than 40 years in prison combined. We also feature a promo for the Kudzu Killers podcast in this episode, go find them on most podcast listening platforms! Check out @the50x50s on Twitter and Instagram!

Enjoy the show! 

Jan 05, 202101:23:19
Sugar, We're Going Downhill Skiing

Sugar, We're Going Downhill Skiing

Hello there, and welcome to Episode 18 of You Should Have Ghosted! This week Shayna discusses the heartbreaking murder of Kacie Woody, a 12-year-old Arkansas girl who befriended David Fuller, a 47-year-old predator, in a chatroom for Christian Teens. Lizz names Joao Neto, also known as The Instagram Rapist, as our Scumbag of the Week.

Promo by I Hate Your Taste in Movies.

Find us on social media:

Instagram - @youshouldhaveghosted

Twitter - @ghostedpod Facebook - @youshouldhaveghosted

Website: youshouldhaveghosted.com

Theme music created by The 50x50s. Find them on Instagram and Twitter @the50x50s

Dec 29, 202001:12:57
The Most Phastoogioux

The Most Phastoogioux

Welcome to Episode 17, You Should Have Bub and Gobbz’d!!! In this guestisode Lizz dives deep into Peter Chapman’s dark past and discusses how he murdered 17 year old Ashleigh Hall. Shayna names Jeffrey Marsalis (or Doctor Jeff) as our scumbag of the week. We’re also joined by the Bub and Gobbz gang and spend 95% of the episode going from tangent to tangent - have fun trying to keep up ;) 

This episode also includes topics of murder, rape, extremely vulgar language, and a promo for the Bub and Gobbz show. You can find them @bubandgobbzshow on Instagram and Twitter.

 Check out @the50x50s on social media to support the people that made our beautiful intro music! Enjoy the show bitches. 

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Dec 22, 202002:14:36
Black Parade of Sadness

Black Parade of Sadness

Welcome to Episode 16 of You Should Have Ghosted! This week Shayna discusses the crime spree of Danueal Drayton, a man who resorted to violence in Connecticut, New York, and California because he was unable to handle rejection. Lizz gives Irish man Brian Davey the honor of being our Scumbag of the Week. As usual, the conversation is full of mental health talk and bad singing.

Promo by All Gay Long Podcast.

Find us on social media:

Instagram - @youshouldhaveghosted

Twitter - @ghostedpod Facebook - @youshouldhaveghosted

Website: youshouldhaveghosted.com

Theme music created by The 50x50s. Find them on Instagram and Twitter @the50x50s

Dec 15, 202001:10:13
The Truth About Queefs

The Truth About Queefs

Hello and thank you for joining us for Episode 15!! In this episode Lizz tells one of the most chilling, memorable Connecticut crimes of our generation- the story of Chloe Ottman. Shayna tells the story of Alan Wurtzel and highlighted the bad ass that is Carole Markin. This episode includes a promo for Suffer the Little Children podcast. Big thanks to the 50 50's, you can find them on social media @the50x50s. Enjoy the show!

Dec 08, 202059:19
Paws for Thought

Paws for Thought

Hello there, and welcome to Episode 14 of You Should Have Ghosted! This week Shayna discusses the Fullerton triple homicide that shocked SoCal Furs, a California furry community, and left three girls without their parents. Lizz gives Alaskan man Jim Persey the distinct pleasure of being our Scumbag of the Week.

Promo by The Murder Bucket Podcast.

Find us on social media:

Instagram - @youshouldhaveghosted

Twitter - @ghostedpod Facebook - @youshouldhaveghosted

Website: youshouldhaveghosted.com

Theme music created by The 50x50s. Find them on Instagram and Twitter @the50x50s

Dec 01, 202058:48
The Bestisode Guestisode!

The Bestisode Guestisode!

Hello! Thank you for tuning in to episode 13. This episode we have a special guest, Adrianne, to help us get through the crimes we're about to tell. Lizz tells the horrifying story of Grace Millane. Shayna names Isaiah Schuety as the Scum Bag of the Week. Get ready for lots of dating stories, banter and our harsh but crucial opinions. We'd also like to thank the 50x50s, you can find them on social media @the50x50s. Tune into Reverie True Crime podcast, you can hear info about Paige in our show. See you next Tuesday!!!! 

Nov 24, 202001:41:00
Pants On Fire

Pants On Fire

Hello there, and welcome to Episode 12 of You Should Have Ghosted! This week Shayna discusses the tragic murder of Vickie Edge, and the trail of lies that led to her death. Lizz gives David Bradt, a grown man who preyed on teenage girls on Facebook, the honor of being our Scumbag of the Week.

Promo by The Jury Room Podcast.  

Find us on social media: 

Instagram - @youshouldhaveghosted 

Twitter - @ghostedpod Facebook - @youshouldhaveghosted 

Website: youshouldhaveghosted.com 

Theme music created by The 50x50s. Find them on Instagram and Twitter @the50x50s

Nov 17, 202001:01:02
A Comedy of Errors

A Comedy of Errors

Hello and thank you for tuning in to Episode 11!

This week Lizz tells the story of Bobby Joe Long, A.K.A the classified ad rapist, who escaped jail for long enough. 

Shayna names the scum bag of the week Sean Patrick Banks, a man who learned how to pick up women from a book with "nice guy" in the title.

As always, thank you to @the50x50s for our intro music, find them on instagram!

Enjoy the show!

Nov 10, 202001:10:34
Listener Episode: 2

Listener Episode: 2

HelloOoo and thank you for tuning into Novembers listener episode! This month our special guest is Mixie from Lady Mouth Podcast! You can find her on twitter @LadyMouthPod. Mixie delves deep into her 4 years spent on OkStupid and accidentally gets very under the influence. Check out Lizz and Shayna on Lady Mouth Podcast in episode No Tengo Miedo de No Fantasmas! 

Find us on social media!

Instagram: @Youshouldhaveghosted

Twitter: @Ghostedpod

Facebook: You Should Have Ghosted

Email us!: youshouldhaveghosted@gmail.com

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#podcast #truecrime #tcc #truecrimecommunity #truecrimepodcast #onlinedating #ghosting #listenerepisode #okcupid #tinder #tindernightmares

Nov 04, 202054:10
Tingles of Justice

Tingles of Justice

Hello there, and welcome to Episode 10 of You Should Have Ghosted! This week Shayna discusses the murder of Cory Voss in a tale with so many twists and turns you'll have a hard time keeping your head on straight. Lizz grants Ireland's very own Patrick Nevin with the honor being this week's Scumbag of the Week.

Find us on social media: 

Instagram - @youshouldhaveghosted

 Twitter - @ghostedpod Facebook - @youshouldhaveghosted 

Website: youshouldhaveghosted.com 

Theme music created by The 50x50s. Find them on Instagram and Twitter @the50x50s


#truecrime #truecrimecomedy #onlinedating #ghosted #truecrimepodcast #truecrimecommunity #murderino #ireland #navy #myspace #thecrow #dollarstorecrissangel #infidelity 

Nov 03, 202001:17:59
Connecticut Creeps

Connecticut Creeps

Happy Halloween week! To celebrate, we decided to tell spooky folktales from our home state of Connecticut. Lizz tells the tale of the Little People Village, an abandoned fairy village, in the woods of Middlebury and Waterbury, CT. Shayna tells the legend of the Melon Heads, a group of (possibly?) cannibalistic humanoids who live in the backwoods of Fairfield County. Are these stories true, or just a bunch of hocus pocus? You be the judge!

Oct 27, 202042:17
Have No Fear, Be Queer

Have No Fear, Be Queer

Hello and welcome to Episode 8 of You Should Have Ghosted! This week Lizz tells us about Wade Ridley and his multiple victims. Shayna names Ronique Raymond as this weeks scumbag of the week and Angeline Jackson this weeks bad ass bitch of the week! We also had a special guest, Lizz's apartment ghost humming a tune at 5:19. As always thank you to @the50x50s for our intro music! Find them on instagram and facebook. To learn more about the Quality of Citizenship Jamaica, head over to www.qcjm.org to learn and donate. Enjoy the show!

Oct 20, 202001:05:50
Stranger Than Fiction
Oct 13, 202001:13:32
Listener Episode: 1

Listener Episode: 1

Hello, and welcome to You Should Have Ghosted's very first listener episode! The ladies are joined this week by special guest Ethan James, you can find Ethan James on Instagram @thatsingerdude and his band page @fictionbandofficial. Thank you again as always to the @50x50s for our intro music. Enjoy the show!

Oct 06, 202001:02:34
Poc-Oh-No
Oct 06, 202047:24
Domino Effect

Domino Effect

Welcome to Episode 5! This week, Shayna covers the 2020 murder of Ashlyn Black by Ethan Hunsaker, leading to a discussion about the importance of mental health resources and asking for help. Lizz names the Scumbag of the Week: Daniel Holtzclaw, a police officer who abused his power and assaulted eight African American woman in Oklahoma.  Follow us on social media: Instagram - @youshouldhaveghosted  Twitter - @ghostedpod Facebook - @Youshouldhaveghosted Website - youshouldhaveghosted.com Intro music by The 50x50s - Instagram & Twitter - @the50x50s https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/index.html
Sep 29, 202001:10:08
X Marks The Spot
Sep 22, 202001:16:00
Madeline's Legacy

Madeline's Legacy

Hello, and welcome to Episode 3! The ladies share their thoughts on car insurance, self-proclaimed "rockstars," and achieving nirvana. Shayna covers the murder of Meshach Cornwall, and Lizz names the Scumbag of the Week: Richard Volo.

A million thanks to The 50x50s for our creepy new music. You can find them on Instagram and Twitter - @the50x50s.

Find us on social media! Instagram: @youshouldhaveghosted; Twitter: @ghostedpod; Facebook: @youshouldhaveghosted

Send us your personal online dating nightmare stories at youshouldhaveghosted@gmail.com



Sep 18, 202045:53
Lizz Gets a Mic
Sep 08, 202054:19
Jazz Cabbage & Faking It 'Til We Make It

Jazz Cabbage & Faking It 'Til We Make It

Welcome to the first episode of You Should Have Ghosted! We are two true crime-loving best friends exploring the dark side of online dating. Join us as we navigate the awkwardness of Zoom podcasting, discuss the disappearance and murder of the beautiful Sydney Loofe, and name our very first Scumbag of the Week, none other than the disgusting little weasel Brock Turner. 

Sep 01, 202047:46
You Should Have Ghosted Trailer

You Should Have Ghosted Trailer

Helloooooo! Meet the ladies of You Should Have Ghosted, Lizz and Shayna. We're two best friends who love true crime, wine, and roasting weirdos from Tinder. Tune in to our premiere episode on Tuesday, September 1st. See you next Tuesday!
Aug 30, 202000:48