One On One

Most times it's not about commitment but reality of post-marriage. Is it just lack of money or is it a case of no virtuous women out there? For some, it's lack of money and stability, for the greater many, there is a huge issue. Because men are realising that there is no benefit for them in a marriage. A man is basically gambling half of everything he owns on the fact that his woman will never leave him. Especially if he is already getting everything he needs from a woman without the marriage.

Most girls just want to use marriage and "escape" poverty and suffering. Times are getting hard, men have families to take care of, their mothers and siblings need them. Getting married to a girl from a poor home, will increase your responsibility x10.  That's because girls are not helping matter at all. Imaging all bills on boyfriend how would marriage be. I remember my last girlfriend told me to sell two plot of land that was given to me by my mum just because she need money to travel to Dubai which  I refuse & that's the end? Mathe says.

Most men truly want to settle down despite their social class but find it difficult cos of their failed past relationships; Their love were taken for granted so many have lost the ability to develop any emotional connection, while some don't have the maturity to settle down yet.

And with Lack of trust for the opposite gender becoming a norm, the modern day woman is at a grid luck as her biology ticks down.

Join the discussion by Uchechukwu Ajuzieogu on this episode of the 1on1 Podcast.

Human trafficking is the trade of humans for the purpose of forced labour, sexual slavery, or commercial sexual exploitation for the trafficker or others. This may encompass providing a spouse in the context of forced marriage, or the extraction of organs or tissues, including for surrogacy and ova removal.

Adults and children can be trafficked or enslaved and forced to sell their bodies for sex. People are also trafficked or enslaved for labour exploitation, for example: to work on a farm or factory. to work in a house as a servant, maid or nanny.

In this episode, we talk on the menace of human trafficking especially as it affects vulnerable victims and the society at large.

A poet is a person who creates poetry. Poets may describe themselves as such or be described as such by others. A poet may simply be a writer of poetry, or may perform their art to an audience.

English essayist and poet Charles Lamb (1775 - 1834) named Edmund Spenser the "poet's poet" for his unique innovations in poetry. While scholars often begin English literature with Chaucer, Edmund Spenser advanced English poetry in a way that influenced and inspired later poets of various national identities.

In this episode Uchechukwu Ajuzieogu interacts with a modern day poet -Sizah Amah on the holistic venue of Poetry and the effect of it's course.