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Today’s Autistic Moment: A Podcast for Autistic Adults by An Autistic Adult

Today’s Autistic Moment: A Podcast for Autistic Adults by An Autistic Adult

By Philip King-Lowe
Today's Autistic Moment is a great podcast that offers Autistic Adults important information about relevant topics. I help Autistic Adults better understand our barriers and give outstanding advice with tools for self-advocacy. Visit todaysautisticmoment.com to find the program script and transcripts for each episode, to visit the store to support the work of the podcast, and the Autism Resource Links page. Today's Autistic Moment is a proud member of the National Podcast Association.
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Autistic Adults: Substance Abuse Addiction
Tap or click for the Program Script and Interview Transcript. Substance abuse addiction is a dire problem for Autistics.  Autistics can be nine times more likely to become addicted to alcohol, prescription and recreational drugs than non-autistic people. David Gray-Hammond joins me to share his moving story about how addiction has affected his life as an Autistic Adult.  
55:13
November 21, 2021
Rounding Out 2021
A brief look at what the first season of Today’s Autistic Moment. The topics covered. Announcing the last three episodes of 2021. What’s coming up in 2022.
04:12
November 12, 2021
Autistic Adults: Preparing for the Sensory Unfriendly Holidays
Program Scripts and Interview Transcripts are available at the Episode Index Page.  The biggest holidays of the year are only weeks away.  Everyone must be so excited for the holiday season to arrive right?  Actually, many Autistics dread the arrival of the end of the year holidays.  The combination of lights, food smells, crowded homes or halls with many people at one time, extra socialization can be a sensory nightmare for many Autistic Adults. Zephyr James returns to Today's Autistic Moment to talk about these sensory unfriendly holidays, with some helpful tips of how Autistic Adults can prepare for them.  Zephyr will also talk about what are some helpful ways to manage our sensory needs during the holiday season.
01:08:08
November 7, 2021
Managing Relationships with Other Autistics
Program Scripts and Interview Transcripts can be found by going the New Podcast Episodes page or the Episode Index page at the website for Today's Autistic Moment. The most important, and challenging quote to remember is "If you have met one Autistic Person, you have met one Autistic Person."  Autistic Adults are not immune from struggling with the diversity among other Autistic people.  George Williams joins me to talk about how Autistic Adults can manage our relationships with other Autistic individuals.
01:04:12
October 17, 2021
Autistic Adults: Coming Out as Autistic, Queer, Asexual and Nonbinary
Go to https://todaysautisticmoment.com/podcast-episodes/ein/ for the Program Script and Interview Transcript. Discovering that we are Autistic and of a diverse sexual orientation or gender identity, can be a coming out process.  As we begin October as National Coming Out Month for LGBTQIA+ people, it is only fair that we talk about coming out as Autistic too.  My very special guest Yenn Perkis joins me to talk about their life experience of coming out as Autistic, Asexual, Queer and Nonbinary.  Enjoy the show. 
55:49
October 3, 2021
Autistic Adults: Let’s Talk About Consent
Program scripts and Interview Transcripts are available at todaysautisticmoment.com.  My guest Leah Bauman-Smith and I will have a frank conversation about the matter of consent and sexuality, with very sensitive content that may be triggering and therefore not appropriate for all audiences.  Listener discretion is advised.  Consent is more than just saying yes or no to sexual activity.  Consent for many Autistic Adults applies to being asked if someone can shake their hand, give them a hug and having their decisions respected without the fear of coercion or exploitation. Autistic Adults regardless of their ability to verbalize have just as much right to give their consent as anyone else. Yet, too many Autistic Adults regardless of the level of their support needs have had their right to consent violated.  On the other hand, too many Autistic Adults unfortunately have a sex offender violation to their name, because of a lack of sex education and a healthy social environment to help them make better choices. Leah Bauman-Smith joins me for this very upfront discussion about consent for Autistic Adults.   
01:01:06
September 19, 2021
Autistic Adults: Dating, Romantic Relationships and Sexuality
My guest Leah Bauman-Smith and I have a very frank conversation about dating, romantic relationships and sexuality in this installment, with very sensitive content that may not be appropriate for all audiences.  Listener discretion is advised. There is a myth that all Autistic people are asexual and not interested in dating or having romantic relationships.  The truth is Autistic Adults really do want to have healthy relationships and sex life. Leah Bauman-Smith joins me to talk about how Autistic Adults can have health and safe relationships, and be sexually active in ways that meet their needs.  
01:02:58
September 5, 2021
Achievements of Today’s Autistic Moment
Hear the achievements of the first nine months of Today’s Autistic Moment.
01:57
September 3, 2021
Autistic Adults and Interdependence
Don't miss listening to my commentary about a recent article that appeared about Autistic Adults.  Zephyr James joins me to talk about Autistic Adults and Interdependence.  Interdependence is best understood as relying on each other for a sense of community belonging.  Zephyr is working with The Autism Society of Minnesota to begin helping Autistics seek and find interdependence through healthy relationships, building strong families, connected communities and independence and interdependence.  
58:39
August 22, 2021
Autistic Adults and Gaslighting
A Program Script and Interview Transcript for this show can be found on https://todaysautisticmoment.com/podcast-episodes/ein/. Gaslighting is a form of manipulation and abuse by which the abuser makes the individual being abused doubt their own reality.  Gaslighting occurs by lies and cover ups designed to suggest that the person experiencing the abuse has no understanding of themselves, who they are, what they need and how to manage relationships and their everyday lives.  Autistic Adults experience gaslighting with regards to their sensory processing, questioning whether they are Autistic at all, and spoken to as if they are incompetent at living their lives.  Lyric Holmans, the Neurodivergent Rebel joins Philip to talk about what gaslighting is, and how to self advocate to do some self healing and protect themselves. 
57:17
August 8, 2021
Autistic Adults: Media Portrayal or Betrayal.
Regardless of what group of people you are from that has a history of being “othered,” the media plays a powerful role in that it reflects what society looks like. The media is well known for getting everyone’s attention by whatever sensations they create. Autistic people are one group of people that are portrayed and betrayed by the media.  Nicola Whiting, an Autistic Adult and Amazon best-selling author from the United Kingdom joins me to talk about Autistic Adults: Media Portrayal or Betrayal?
58:04
July 18, 2021
Autistic Adults and Financial Planning
86% of Autistic Adults are unemployed.  Many Autistic Adults are dependent on community-based services they have to fight to obtain.  Many Autistic Adults have a very difficult time finding affordable housing and health care benefits. How can Autistic Adults plan for their financial future?  Andrew Komarow is an Autistic Adult and the founder of Planning Across the Spectrum, a financial planning company with specialists who help Autistics of all ages with their financial planning, manage health care benefits and advise about employees.  Andrew joins me to talk about how financial planning can work for Autistic Adults.
57:52
July 4, 2021
Autistic Adults and Our Diverse Gender Identities
Today's Autistic Moment continues our celebration of Pride 2021 with my guest Enzi Tanner as we talk about Autistic Adults: Our Diverse Gender Identities.  Enzi Tanner is a recently diagnosed Autistic Adult, who is a trans man, black and Jewish.  Enzi joins me to talk about what being an individual who is part of many diverse communities.  
01:05:44
June 20, 2021
About Today’s Autistic Moment
Listen to why I am so excited and committed to producing and promote Today’s Autistic Moment.
01:28
June 9, 2021
Autistic Adults: Our Diverse Sexual Orientations
June is LGBTQIA+ month.  June 19th is Autistic Pride Day.  On this episode, I talk a little about my own experiences as an Autistic gay man in my introduction to the show.  Later in the show, I talk with Heidi, Luke and Benjamin about their experiences and stories as Autistic Adults of various sexual orientations and gender identities.  
01:05:52
June 6, 2021
Autistic Adults and Justice in Employment
Employment is one of the key issues that impact Autistic Adults. Far too many Autistic Adults face discrimination when applying for a job, getting interviewed and getting hired. If and when Autistic Adults do get hired, they meet so many obstacles that make remaining employed becomes impossible. Samuel J. Levine joins me to talk about what is so wrong and why employers fail to value the abilities of Autistic Adults.
01:14:42
May 23, 2021
Autistic Adults and Independent Living
Living independently gives Autistics a way to stay in their own homes and receive in home supports.  GT Independence gives Autistic Adults and others with varying disabilities the opportunity to be their own employers in deciding who they hire or terminate and gain some control over their care.  Dan Carmichael is an Autistic Adult who is also a parent of an Autistic son, and is the co-owner of GT Independence.  Dan is my guest to talk about the work GT Independence does and share his thoughts about being an Autistic business manager and what that journey has meant for him.
01:10:53
May 9, 2021
May Podcasts
Some great episodes coming in May 2021. Listen to this trailer.
02:13
April 30, 2021
Autistic Adults and Community Based Services
Many Autistic Adults need supportive service to help with day to day self-care.  During this episode, I will be talking with Sara Swan the Owner and Founder of Looking Forward Life Coaching.  Sara and I will talk together about how difficult obtaining such services is in Minnesota and elsewhere.  We will reveal the results of the survey through which Autistic Adults told us of their experiences with applying for supports and what they experienced with service providers.  
01:11:27
April 18, 2021
Autistic Adults and Autism Acceptance
April is Autism Acceptance Month. Ellie Wilson, the Executive Director at The Autism Society of Minnesota joins me to talk about the importance of Autism Acceptance.
01:06:37
April 4, 2021
Autistic Adults and Social Narratives
Autistic Adults have a lot of challenges with executive functioning, self-care management and dealing with the unexpected.  There is one tool that can be very helpful for Autistic Adults to manage their lives and that is social narratives.  Eric Ringgenberg the Director of Educational Programs at the Autism Society of Minnesota joins me to talk about what social narratives are and how Autistic Adults can use them.  
01:01:05
March 21, 2021
Autistic Adults: Our Own Brand, Make and Model
Each autistic adult is unique. Our individual neurology is why every autistic adult has abilities and challenges that differ from other autistic adults. The word for those differences is neurodiversity. My dear friend Robyn DeCourcy talks about the history of neurodiversity and how it brings a greater acceptance of the diversity among people with neurological differences.
01:10:07
March 7, 2021
Aging Autistic Adults: What We Needed Yesterday
Autistic adults age differently because of our unique neurology.  Our bodies and brains have challenges such as communicating our needs to others more challenging.  As we age, our needs for medical help as well as our daily self care increases.  However the information as to what to understand as we age, and how to communicate our needs to medical professionals is more difficult. Dr. Theresa Regan joins me to talk about Aging Autistic Adults: What We Needed Yesterday.  Thank you for listening to Today's Autistic Moment: A Podcast for Autistic Adults by An Autistic Adult.
52:13
February 21, 2021
February 10, 2021
00:52
February 10, 2021
Autistic Adults and Ableism
While great strides for people with disabilities have been made through the Americans with Disabilities Act, and research have brought great advances for autistic adults: there remains one common stigma: Ableism. Ableism often comes in the form of micro-aggression and/or very good intentions. Sue Swenson joins me to talk about ableism in terms of human rights and respect for the dignity of disabled individuals.  
01:02:59
February 7, 2021
Autistic Adults and COVID-19
COVID-19 has changed the world as we once knew it.  Autistic Adults have experienced routine changes that challenges our social support networks, therapy options and self-care more than they were before the pandemic.  On this episode of Today's Autistic Moment, Philip is joined by Olivia James from the Office for Communications and Marketing at the Autism Society of Minnesota to discuss how COVID-19 affects autistic adults.  Olivia offers great information, describes the barriers and strengths for autistic adults during this time, and gives crucial advice for self-advocacy.  Join us for this important conversational podcast.
51:02
January 24, 2021
Today’s Autistic Moment Introductory Show
Pilot: Introduction to Today's Autistic Moment.   Why a podcast for Autistic Adults?  During the pilot, Philip tells of why he is making the podcast, his goals, the topics and questions.  Hear the list of do's and don'ts for the podcast.  Hear more about who Philip is and why producing this podcast is so important to him.  Click to download and listen.  Enjoy the show
37:06
January 10, 2021