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The wait is ova! Kris and Bree are back at it again with the much needed analysis of homophobia in and outside of our community. We interviewed our friends Jessie from Soul and Seoul podcast, and Darius from a dab of life podcast to get their experiences with homophobia, and their perspective on what they wish everybody knew about the subject at hand.

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Follow Darius @dcaffgotem, @daboflifepod, and @closetunlockd

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Bree and Kris are back at it again with an episode on biphobia, featuring their friends, Lex and Erica. This episode dives into what biphobia is, where it stems from, and how it affects our community as a whole.

Lex and Erica can be found on instagram: @lexii_loovee and @ericabaduyou_ 

Follow Erica's podcast on instagram: @hellogoodbipodcast 

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https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hello-goodbi/id1544495694

Fat rolls, sushi rolls, cinnamon rolls, Hawaiian rolls, tootsie rolls, role models; what do these roles/rolls have in common? They're all better than gender roles. In this episode, Bree and Kris explore what it means to live in a relationship with no gender roles. Well, as much as they can. 

As much as society will push the "I own my partner" narrative, we're here to call out the BS. We think this is the first episode where Kris didn't sing and only made one song reference. Is this toxic monogamy?

Since February is the unofficial official month of black love, Bree and Kris delve deep into their backgrounds prior to writing their Ciara prayers, and meeting each other. Turns out, there is love after lockdown. 

TW: sexual assault, rape

We're starting off Part 1 of our final sex episode with consent, which literally makes sex possible. In this episode, we'll talk about the first time we had sex, and things that we still ask consent for (to this day). Stay tuned for part 2!

Kris and Bree spend this episode talking about the importance of dating your partner, in addition to giving us some tips and tricks to use in our own dating lives. Special shoutout to the restaurant Grace in Fort Worth, Texas. Hope they are doing well in this pandemic.

They are not being paid by Groupon, but are open to endorsements. 

In the final pilar of their relationship, sex, Bree and Kris explore their compatibility, or the meat and potatoes of their relationship. They take several quizes and tests to see exactly how compatible they are, and invite their audience to do the same. 

TW: mentions of suicide, violence

16personalities.com (free Myers Briggs)

https://www.truity.com/test/enneagram-personality-test 

5lovelanguages.com

https://astro.cafeatrology.com/natal.php (birth charts)

In the final episode of the support segment of the Pillars of our Relationship series, Bree and Kris explore what it means to maintain their individuality while in a relationship. They spend some time talking about co-dependency, and what that looks like, and how they are slowly morphing into each other. They even touch on toxic monogamy, and what some of the signs are. Definitely worthwhile to tune in. 

In the second episode of the support series, Bree and self-care queen Kris explore what self-care is, and how to recognize when we need it. They talk about some of the things they do for self-care, and why you should say f**k that job. Taking care of yourself means you can support your partner better. After all, You can’t pour from an empty cup.

TW: abortion

Whodini posed the question “Friends, how many of us have them?” back in 1984, and Bree and Kris are still asking the question in 2020. They spend a little under an hour diving deep into the significance of communicating in friendship, its relation to romantic relationships, and its importance in our lives. Why do we value romantic relationships more than platonic ones? How come nobody talks about the pain behind breaking up with friends? This episode is the second part of the communication series.

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Bree and Kris explore the term “communication is key” in part 1 of the “Pillars of Our Relationship” series. This 8 week long series features episodes about the 3 foundational aspects of their relationship: Communication, Support, and Sex. How do they maintain their black ass, queer ass, real ass love? You are about to find out. It’s not a coincidence that communication starts the series off, and you’ll hear about how even the small stuff gets talked about. So sit back, relax, and let’s start the show.

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Being young and trying to figure yourself out is hard enough. Being young and queer with no one to show you the ropes? The struggle is real. In this episode, we will share our “coming out” stories, and give some guidance to the baby gays (even though we know some of y’all are going to learn the hard way anyway).

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“When we speak we are afraid our words will not be heard or welcomed. But when we are silent, we are still afraid. So it is better to speak.” – Audre Lorde And that’s exactly what we’ve decided to do- speak, as unapologetic queer black women. Before we can tell you about our relationship, or give you advice, we have to tell you how our identities intersect and make us who we are. If you’ve ever had a person ask you to put any of your identities to the side for the supposed “greater good” I’m sure you can relate. We decided to answer all of those uncomfortable unasked questions here with black queer people being first and foremost. This episode on intersectionality is for you.

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