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Ask Women Podcast: What Women Want

Ask Women Podcast: What Women Want

By Marni Kinrys & Kristen Carney
What do a female comic and a professional wing girl have in common? The realistically raw and hilarious perspectives on what women ACTUALLY want in a man. Prepare to be offended and awed as Marni Kinrys & Kristen Carney take you through the uncensored and often ridiculous mind of a woman to help you better understand, appreciate, and avoid getting punched by the next girl you come across. Wanna Ask The Girls A Question? Send your questions to ask@askwomenpodcast.com and check out our other dating tools and advice: https://www.winggirlmethod.com and Kristencarney.com/datinghelp
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Ep. 388 How To Set CLEAR BOUNDARIES With Women - Flashback 2019
This week, here's a reminder from 2019 and our listener Andrew about setting boundaries - WHY and HOW you should so that you can improve not just in your dating life, but in all parts of your life. Boundaries say "I VALUE MYSELF" and there's nothing sexier than that kind of confidence. 
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Ep. 387 What it's Like Dating as a Female in 2021
This week we have a beautiful, intelligent 28 year old woman on to talk to us about what it's like dating from the female perspective in 2021. Dani K tells us all about her turn ons, turn offs, what she she thinks about bad boys, how to break out of the friend zone, hee thoughts on short guys and everything in between.
45:25
April 16, 2021
Ep. 386 Being the Best Version of Yourself
When you spread yourself thin and try to be what you think you should be rather than what you actually are, you push the right people away and bring the wrong people in. Robyn Downs from The Feel Good Effect Podcast is here to talk about how to be the REAL you and bring out the best parts of you, the 20% of of you, which is all you really need. 
35:53
April 9, 2021
Ep. 385 Where and HOW To Meet Women (Guest: David Perotta)
Dating coach David Perrotta joins us to help break the MYTH that there is nowhere to meet women and give us the goods on where and how. He's also going to tell us why your lifestyle plays such a HUGE role in attraction and what you can do to enhance yours to UP your dating game. 
33:47
April 2, 2021
Ep. 384 How Technology Effects Your Dating Life
This week, one of our favorite guests, Dominey Drew steps in for Kristen and Marni and kills it as the guest host talking with Nichol Bradford, CEO of the Willow Group, a Transformative Technology and Fundamental Wellbeing company to get break down HOW technology can effect your dating life, and how to have it bring positive changes. They also talk about how you can use technology to develop emotional intelligence, to overcome your fear of rejection and so much more. 
41:01
March 26, 2021
Ep. 383 How to Cold Approach Women
Jared Laurence from ModernFlirting.com is here help kick up your approach game. But, first, we tackle the idea 'changing a woman's mood rather than changing her mind', the '5 Vibes' you want to put out there with a woman AND finally, how to be casual and non aggressive in your cold approach.  
35:24
March 19, 2021
Ep. 382 Enhance Your Sexual Experience(s)
This week we have sex coach and tantra expert, Tilly Storm on to talk all about how to pleasure a woman and how to in turn, get her to pleasure and enhance YOUR sexual experience. This means we'll be talking about women's libido and how it’s different from a man's as well as women’s erotic blue prints and how it effects her desire.
40:09
March 14, 2021
Ep. 381 Dating People from Other Places
Vickie, who is young, beautiful and single is here this week to tell us all about dating women from other places. She's also going to give a look behind the curtain into what she likes, doesn’t like, what turns her on and what turns her off. We also talk male empowerment and how to build your self-esteem while dating.
38:57
March 6, 2021
Ep. 380 The Six Pillars of SUCCESS with Women
There are SIX Pillars of Success you need to become AMAZING with women. This episode, Mani Vaya is here to dig deep into two of the the most important ones - mental toughness and self-belief - to take you to where you want to be. He'll also discuss his journey and how he reached his peak performance with the opposite sex. 
42:48
February 26, 2021
Ep. 379 How to Pick the RIGHT Women
Compatibility is hard to detect at first glance but it is so important when it comes to dating, obviously. So this week, we have MBTI Myer's Briggs specialist Derek Lee here to talk about how to pick the right women for you by using technology to reveal your personality type as well as hers.  facebook.com/boodatingapp www.winggirlmethod.com www.kristenandchill.com 
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February 19, 2021
Ep. 378 How to Communicate like a Pro
Communication is the MOST important part of a relationship. It's also how you get what YOU want in life. Janette Burke, a marketing expert, joins us to give us the goods on how to market yourself, communicate your message of who you are and what you need so that you can start getting what you want. 
42:15
February 12, 2021
Ep. 377 How to be an Amazing LOVER
Sex and relationship coach Caitlyn V. is here to help you unleash your true sexual self so you can make the women you meet their best selves in and out of the bedroom. 
49:41
February 5, 2021
Ep. 376 How to Avoid being GHOSTED
It happens ALL the time and it happens to the best of us. The dreaded GHOSTING. And, Bria, a single 40-something mother, is here this week to guide you AWAY from from all those mistakes that make girls ditch you without notice. She'll also talk to us about why she's been having a GREAT time dating during a pandemic. 
37:29
January 29, 2021
Ep. 375 How To Date and Sleep with Multiple Women & Navigate An Open Relationship
This one is a goodie!!  We have Andy and Imogen Killyourinnerloser.com on the show to discuss how they have successfully navigated an open relationship and now welcome new women into their bedroom on a regular basis!  Here are some of the topics covered on the call - How to have 3somes with 2 girls (including in an open relationship). - How to meet women and get laid on Tinder. - How to be honest and real with women (treating them like they're on the same team as you). - How to leave women better than you found them (how to add to & improve the lives of women you date). Guest: Andy and Imogen
45:06
January 22, 2021
Ep. 374 Eliminating Approach Anxiety with Mark Sing
The DREADED approach! It's human nature to fear starting a conversation with a stranger. But, good news! You don't have to be afraid anymore. On this week's specially chosen re-run, Mark Sing is here to tell us HOW to eliminate approach anxiety so that you can stop being held back by that crucial first step to meeting the women of your dreams. 
48:57
January 15, 2021
Ep. 373 Brad P Explains: How To Seduce A Women & Establish 3 Types of Dominance (Rerun)
Seduction expert Brad P is no longer coaching BUT he made a special exception for the ladies and he is BACK for this show and this show ONLY. And, he's here to teach YOU how to seduce while trying to get the girl. He also gives you the goods on HOW to make a special gal feel oh-so-comfortable so she'll be more likely to let you in, both mentally AND physically. Don't miss this fun episode packed with tips, tricks, methods and TOOLS... so you don't become one :) Guest: Brad P - Bradp.com
42:41
January 7, 2021
Ep. 372 How To Get The Women You Deserve (re-run)
This was an amazing episode with the wonderful dominey drew. She is a master at unblocking all that SH&T you tell yourself that stops you from having massive success with women.  Happy New Year!
46:46
December 31, 2020
Ep. 371 How to have amazing CONVERSATIONS
For holidays we're taking some time to recharge and we hope you do too. BUT, before you do, here's a hand-selected episode that we're re-airing with Marni's ORIGINAL winggirl, Natela Valentin. In this oldie but goodie, Natela tells us what it actually means to be yourself and why it's so attractive. We also chat about HOW to have great conversations with women so that you don't get stuck in interview mode and we also also get the goods on HOW to be seen as a multi-dimensional man. 
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December 25, 2020
Ep. 370 Eliminating Dating Road Blocks
Dominey Drew is back and here to help you get to the bottom of WHY you have the struggles with women that you do - things like shyness, approach anxiety, inability to meet women etc. She is going to give you the tools you need to eliminate those road blocks so you can get on the road to dating that is wide open, free and clear.  www.domineydrew.com www.KristenandChill.com www.winggirlmethod.com
42:11
December 18, 2020
Ep. 369 What Women In Their 20's Find Attractive
This week, we have hot, young (20 something) single Abby on the show to give us the inside scoop on what dating in your 20's is like right now, how it's changed with COVID, what to expect and how to do it successfully. She's also here to talk about approaching - what has and has not worked for her and her friends when they're out and about and how to win her over with a killer smile.  For more dating help, go to www.kristenandchill.com and www.winggirlmethod.com
38:04
December 11, 2020
Ep. 368 Building Confidence and Approaching like a PRO
Confidence is not some elusive thing that can never be realized. It's achievable if you're willing to put in the hard work. And, this week, we have Akeem Griffiths, runner up of Big Brother UK to walk us through, step by step, how to achieve the confidence you deserve. He also gives us the goods on how to successfully approach so you can start connecting with the women that YOU want.  Need hands-on help you with confidence or approaching? We're here to help.  www.KristenandChill.com www.WinggirlMethod.com
40:32
December 4, 2020
Bonus Episode: Is Being Bald SEXY to Women?
This is a short little bonus episode where Kristen and I discuss the female POV on hair loss.   Special guest: Andrew from the Bosley Team :)
16:33
November 30, 2020
Ep. 367 How to Ask for What you WANT
You don’t get what you want without asking for it. It's time to STOP sabotaging yourself and Brad DeMint, host of the How to Win podcast and a killer salesman is here to tell us how. Brad gives us the goods on how to ask for what you want but also how to figure out what it is that you even want in the first place.   www.braddemint.com www.winggirlmethod.com www.kristenandchill.com
37:48
November 27, 2020
Ep. 366 Everything MASCULINITY
In honor of International Men's Day, this episode is ALL about men and masculinity. Mark Sing is back to tell us how to harness that manly side of yours and how to use it to your benefit to make your dating life go from zero to hero. 
44:12
November 20, 2020
Ep. 365 How to be a Man with Swagger
Looking your best is a necessity if you want to turn the volume up on your dating game and Jon Shanahan from TheKavalier.com is here to talk about just HOW to do that. This episode, tune in for men's grooming, fashion, style and how to start forming your own if you're lost in the cargo shorts jungle.  www.Stryx.com www.thekavalier.com www.kristenandchill.com www.winggirlmethod.com Guest: Jon Shanahan
45:28
November 13, 2020
Ep. 364 What Makes a Relationship WORK
This episode is all about how to FIND that spark and how to KEEP that spark alive. Anne McCarthy from the Twisted History podcast is here to tell us all about what attracted to her husband many years ago and how they still keep making people jealous with their love today. 
49:49
November 6, 2020
Ep. 363 How to be UNIQUE and Stand Out From Other Men
Instead of looking at your limitations as a flaw, look at them as a gift and the thing that makes you UNIQUE. This week, Mindie Kniss of Lucra, a coaching firm devoted to helping entrepreneurs create wealth in all areas of life, joins us to talk about her late husband and HOW, despite his stature, won her affection and more importantly, her heart and mind.  Mindie also talks to us about re-finding passion for yourself and your dating life so you can get back out there with the zest you once had.  Guest: Mindie Kniss https://mindiekniss.com/ https://www.instagram.com/mindiekniss/ https://kristenandchill.com/ https://www.winggirlmethod.com/
42:48
October 30, 2020
Ep. 362 Seductive Conversations and How To Get “the Goods” (Josh Spodek)
Joshua Spodek, best selling author and 3x TEDx speaker joins the show this week to teach us how to seduce and get what what you want, not only in the bedroom, but also in life. Joshua takes Kristen through a mock-convo/date to reveal just how he does it, moment by moment, step by step.  https://joshuaspodek.com/ https://twitter.com/spodek https://kristenandchill.com/ https://www.winggirlmethod.com/ Guest Josh Spodek
44:10
October 22, 2020
Ep. 361 How to use LANGUAGE to attract women
We use language every day but take for granted how powerful it can be if used right. This week, Spencer Burnett is back to use his language to teach you how to use YOUR language, not only to get the girl, but to ALSO build your confidence and self worth. Once those qualities are realized, there's no stopping you from getting everything you want.  Guest: Spencer Barnett https://www.facebook.com/spencer.burnett24 https://www.instagram.com/spencerburnett https://kristenandchill.com/ https://www.winggirlmethod.com/
41:04
October 16, 2020
Ep. 360 HOW to keep women OFF a pedestal | Guest Jaime Hass
Doing whatever a woman wants is NOT how you win her affection. And, this week, transformational guide Jaime Haas is here to teach us how to stop pleasing and appeasing women so that you can break patterns that keep you from getting the things that you want in your dating life. Guest: Jaime Hass https://www.facebook.com/jaimebhaas www.jaimebhaas.com
41:06
October 9, 2020
Ep. 359 Style that will make her DROOL
This week, Marni and Kristen discuss a networking event they attended where all the men were dressed like MEN. But, not just any men. SMART, SOPHISTICATED and most importantly SEXY men. Listen to the ladies as they break down HOW to dress to make her go goo-goo, WHY it makes them so giddy and WHAT you need to start making the sidewalk your runway. 
21:38
October 2, 2020
Ep. 358 How To Impress Women With Your Home
On today's episode we dive into interior design. A topic we've rarely talked about even though it holds huge importance.  We're not talking about the size of your home or how expensive it is.  We're talking about the state of your home and why that's so important to women.  Our guest Carla Sofia tells us everything you need to know to make your home inviting and exciting to women Guest: Carla Sofia
44:13
September 25, 2020
Ep. 357 How to date the women you WANT
Self sabotage is REAL, but the good news? So is STOPPING it. The OTHER good news? It is EASIER than you think. So, this week Dominey Drew, an expert in transpersonal psychology joins us to tell how to SHIFT the distorted ways we see ourselves so you can finally start dating the women you WANT and more importantly, the women you deserve.
42:32
September 17, 2020
Ep. 356 How To Date Women In Their 40's
Women in their 40's are a HUGE category of women! Some are single moms, some are ball buster alpha females in the business world, some are wounded from past experiences with men.  So how do you navigate these muddy waters?  Our guest today is going to tell you her experience as a single mom, kick ass business woman dating in today's world.  She'll tell you what works and what doesn't work. What to expect and what "things" really mean that come out of the mouth of a woman in her 40's. This was a great episode and even if you are a woman, you will learn something from this! Guest: Heidi, New York single mom who works in the finance industry. 
34:16
September 10, 2020
Ep. 355 How To Ask Women For What You Want (without being creepy)
Dating is hard enough as it is, why make it harder by hiding you who you really are and NOT asking for what you want? This week, guest Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, coach and therapist of growingself.com teaches us how to grow our self confidence so we can be who we truly are.  She also gives us the goods on attachment styles and how to recognize what yours may be. If yours is in a not-so-healthy place, not to worry! She gives us the tools we need to begin to change things for the better.  Guest: Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
35:22
September 4, 2020
Ep. 354 How To Have GOOD Sex (The Rabbi Explains)
Yes, we can all agree that SEX IS FUN! BUT, "fun" sex without any meaning can get real old, real fast. This week, we have Rabbi Shmuel Pollen back to tell us all about HOW to have sex rituals like those in the Jewish community that will give your sex life MORE than just physical pleasure, but mental pleasure as well.  This episode will not only help you rev up that spark, it will also help you REIGNITE that spark. Because for her, so much of intimacy is MENTAL. Tap into her mind so you can tap in everywhere else. Get listening. 
42:07
August 28, 2020
Ep. 353 Why being PASSIONATE is so SEXY
There is NOTHING attractive about being vanilla, flat or boring. So, this week, we have Dr. Alise Cortez on to talk about having passion and purpose and WHY it's just so darn sexy and appealing.  But, how do you figure out what you're passionate about in the first place? Don't worry! We discuss that too. We give you the tools and tips you'll need to pull out your passion so you can pull people, and more importantly, women, in. 
37:35
August 20, 2020
Ep. 352 Tools & Tactics For Eliminating Insecurities, Fears and Limiting Beliefs That Hold You Back With Women (Re-run)
Long title but that's because it's all true.  On this episode, we have Social Scientist and data analyst Chris Vaccaro to discuss tools and tactics for eliminating insecurities, fears and limiting beliefs that hold you back with women AND life.  This episode was one of my favorites so far because as you know I LOVE learning new ways to coach yourself out of issues.... and I love hearing that many of the teachings I have are also used by scientists ;-)  Please listen to this episode and then DO what is said.  Try everything and see what happens.   We have a bunch of resource links below for you to read more about the tools and tactics discussed in this episode.  Enjoy! Guest: Chris Vaccaro - Contact info: ChristopherBrewster19@gmail.com Resources: Self-Desensitization Instructions: The most proven method to reduce phobias, anxiety, and fear Systematic Desensitization - A Guide to Psychology and it’s Practice Wikipedia - Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Wikipedia: Acceptance and commitment therapy
49:27
August 14, 2020
Ep. 351 The 3 TRAITS Women WANT in a Man
If you’re wondering what traits women are looking for in their dream beau, wonder no further because we have expert Lizzie Brown from Yoga Wake Up filling us and YOU in on the 3 *most* important characteristics women WANT in a MAN. You’ll have to wait until you hit play and listen if you want to know what they are. HINT: one those traits is the VERY THING you’re doing RIGHT NOW. Curious what that is? Great! GET LISTENING.
38:20
August 6, 2020
Ep. 350 Where To Meet Women During The Pandemic
NO MORE Snapchat filters. NO MORE wondering for weeks if you and your new match will have chemistry. Getting the “filter off” and getting real when it comes to internet dating will make your dating life so much smoother. So, we have Zach, the founder of the AMAZING dating app “Filter Off” sharing WHERE TO MEET WOMEN ON THE INTERNET, how to NAIL that first online date and how to get the girl to say yes to a virtual date in the first place. Since our daily lives are STILL being lived from behind a screen, it's time to filter the people with the filters and Zach will tell you how.
28:22
July 30, 2020
Ep. 349 Brad P Explains: How To Seduce A Women & Establish 3 Types of Dominance
Seduction expert Brad P is no longer coaching BUT he made a special exception for the ladies and he is BACK for this show and this show ONLY. And, he's here to teach YOU how to seduce while trying to get the girl. He also gives you the goods on HOW to make a special gal feel oh-so-comfortable so she'll be more likely to let you in, both mentally AND physically.  Don't miss this fun episode packed with tips, tricks, methods and TOOLS... so you don't become one :) Guest: Brad P - Bradp.com
40:43
July 23, 2020
Ep. 348 How to SUCCEED at Interracial Dating
"How do I date outside of my race???"  We get this question A LOT. And, Myke, from Social Confidence Mastery is on this week's episode to school you on HOW to go from nervous and timid to CONFIDENT and IN CHARGE with women from any race.   Originally from the Philippines, Myke lived in the Middle East and eventually settled in Canada so he knows first hand how hard it can be to slip seamlessly into a new culture. Follow his amazing TIPS and TRICKS and you'll be well on your way to having your pick of any litter.   Guest Myke from Social Confidence Mastery
48:60
July 16, 2020
Ep. 347 Grooming Tips, Tools and Mistakes Men Make That Turn Off Women
Did you know that there are a ton of tiny grooming and style things that can completely turn women off that most men have no clue about?  Well there are and on this weeks show we will tell you about many of them.  1 HUGE turn off for women is men who do not practice proper grooming.... A.KA manscaping.  On this weeks episode we explain how to properly manscape with our awesome guest Anna Horford.  This episode is powered by Manscaped.  Guest: Anna Harford
44:58
July 9, 2020
Ep. 346 The TRUE Definition Of ALPHA MAN
ALPHA!!!!   This word has such a different meaning than it did even 5 years ago. But what the heck does it mean to be alpha?  To really be A MAN?   Our guest Kevin Aillaud joins us to explain how to be an alpha man and own the world around you.  Kevin truly embodies everything he teaches about being a confident alpha man.  Which you'll hear on the show.  This is an awesome episode :) Guest Kevin Aillaud https://thealphamalecoach.com/
54:58
July 2, 2020
Ep. 345 Style & Dating Advice For Short Guys | Why Women Are WILDLY Attracted To Shorter Men
Will women date short men?  Does height really matter to women? If I'm shorter than average, how can I get a leg up in the looks department and be attractive to women?  These are the questions we cover on today's podcast. Brock McGoff joins us to tell us why women actually like shorter men better than taller men AND how to be confident about your height.  Brock delivers some amazing advice on how to build your confidence about being short and how to improve your style so that your height is never an issue. We also discuss:  - Easy ways to improve your style/appearance - Confidence and why "be more confident" is bad advice - Life as a shorter guy - style, dating, career, etc. And so much more! Guest: Brock McGoff - https://www.themodestman.com/
46:45
June 25, 2020
Ep. 344 How To ONLINE Date During A Pandemic
I know we're all slowly getting back out there BUT most likely we'll all be moving back in.  Which means that online dating will once again become the key resource for meeting women.  And virtual dates will be replacing most of your first dates.  Which is why we brought on Televisions best resource for online dating Carmelia Ray to discuss how to online dating during a pandemic.  We discuss a ton on this show but mainly focus on: 1. How to date online during a pandemic 2. Virtual date best practices 3. What to do on virtual dates 4. Best lighting and angles and outfits for virtual dates and so much more! Guest: Carmelia Ray - https://www.carmeliaray.com/ Find out more about matching making with Carmelia Ray https://carmelia-ray-matchmaking.smartmatchapp.com/client/submissionform/14/
42:24
June 18, 2020
Ep. 343 How To Build Self Esteem
How do you even start building your self esteem??? That's a huge question that so many people struggle with and sadly don't try to find an answer for.  Lucky for you listeners we have the king of build self esteem AND building muscles on our show today to tell you how to do it. Guest: Matt Reynolds is the Owner of Barbell Logic Barbell-Logic.com Check out our amazing sponsor Tiege Hanley for unbelievable Skin Care programs just for men!   http://www.tiege.com/askwomen
50:29
June 11, 2020
Ep. 342 How To Talk To ALL Different Types of Women
After a week of yelling and fighting, it’s time to soothe those ears with some Ask Women Podcast action. Communication is the key to ALL relationships. Not just your relationships with women.  And right now our words and we use them hold extreme power.   Which is why this weeks episode could NOT have come at a better time. This week we have @shawnaleetaylor, a communication and personality EXPERT and owner of Buti Fitness who gives us the goods on personality types, how to determine someone’s, which ones work with which and so much more that will give you a one up on your competition. She also gives us a peek behind her online dating life and how to win her (and her personality type) over. How To Talk To ALL Different Types of Women Get on it. Guest: Shawn Taylor https://www.facebook.com/butiyoga/ https://www.butiyoga.com/
45:54
June 4, 2020
Ep. 341 WORDS To Say That Make You More Attractive
This is an awesome episode and I know you will LOVE LOVE LOVE it!!  We have a return guest, Spencer Burnett on the show to teach about precise language.  How the words you speak and think effect your level of attraction, your confidence and overall way of being.  It's pretty awesome.  Spencer does a live example of his precise language technique on me (Marni) to show new words to say and think that will help eliminate approach anxiety.  This description is not doing the technique justice. So you gotta listen and hear for yourself ;) Guest: Spencer Burnett For more info on spencer go to: https://www.winggirlmethod.com/spencerprecise
40:54
May 28, 2020
Ep. 340 How To Approach GROUPS of Women of Any Age Group
Groups of women can be intimidating. I know right now, you probably won't come across tons of groups of women. But it's still a skill set that you want to have in your back pocket JUST in case ;) Which is why we brought on the amazing Patrick James to help teach you how to approach groups of women no matter what age they are. Meaning, we dive into different age groups and tell you how to "crack" the group and get the girl you want.  Guest: Patrick James
46:21
May 21, 2020
Ep. 339 Successful Men Do THIS With Women
What the heck do other guys do to be successful with women? Well on this weeks episode we have Mindie Kaplan host of The Male Room who shares with us what successful guys do RIGHT with women and how you can do these same things very easily.  Check out our amazing sponsor Tiege Hanley for unbelievable Skin Care programs just for men!   http://www.tiege.com/askwomen Guest: Mindie Kaplan host of the  "MaleRoom" @wearemaleroom @themindieproject
33:35
May 15, 2020
Ep. 338 EVERYTHING We've Learned About Online Dating From 2 Years of Research
Past podcast guest and all around awesome guy, KURT joins us to share everything he has learned from 2 years of extensive, painful research in online dating practices.  Kurt is just a regular guy whose been through the ups and downs of online dating and asked us if he could share what he's learned from it.  He shares useful tips, tools and mindsets for successfully using online dating.  Guest: Kurt P
35:06
May 7, 2020
Ep. 337 Signs She's Flirting With You & The Art of Nuance
Nuance.  Social Cues.  Body Language.  These are all very tough things for most people to read. Which is why today's episode has an amazing expert, who I also called friend, to explain how to read ALL signs she's flirting.  We dive into what nuance means and why it's SO important to helping you understand the signs she's flirting with you.  Our guest is the amazing Suzanne Tabachnick owner of Social Foundations.  http://socialfoundationsla.com/ https://www.facebook.com/SocialFoundations/?ref=bookmarks Suzanne Tabachnick is the owner and founder of Social Foundations. Suzanne has over 15 years of experience as a professional social learning coach, working with children and adults that experience social challenges due to Autism Spectrum, ADHD, and Anxiety.  Suzanne is also a mother of 2, with an adult child on the spectrum. Guest Suzanne Tabachnick
35:24
April 30, 2020
Ep. 336 How To Communicate Vulnerabilities To Women Without Coming Off As A Wimp
Last name revealed: Baumfalk!!! My coach, Adam Wayne joins us on today's podcast to discuss how to communicate your vulnerabilities to women WITHOUT making yourself appear less attractive. In fact, expressing your vulnerabilities to women can actually make you more attractive to women and Adam is going to tell you WHY and how.  Even if you are a woman, you will love this episode.  Guest: Adam Wayne - Ask Adam ANYTHING - askadamaquestion.com
50:13
April 23, 2020
Ep. 335 How To Use Your Shortcomings To ATTRACT Women
Yes I said shortcomings.  Did you know you can use the things you don't like about yourself and are not proud of to actually attract more women? Well you can.  And on this weeks episode we have an amazing RED HEADED guest who is going to explain how to do it.  On this episode we also discuss:  - how to find the right woman for you and go after her - how to create a strategy for getting a specific girl - How to attract and get different types of women - How to mentally get past things without going to therapy and so much more! Guest: Yoann Bohbot, Founder of dotsspace.com
38:57
April 16, 2020
Ep. 334 5 Traits & Qualities Women Chase in a Man
Bobby Rio the KING of nice guys into guys that get girls, joins us to discuss  5 most attractive traits that ALL men need to have and can easily get! Little preview of them. They are: 1. Certainty 2. Non Reactive 3. Claim 4. Quiet Power 5. Integrity He explains in great detail each of these traits and how YOU can gain them easily ;) To learn more about Bobby and get your hands on one of his awesome programs go to: https://www.winggirlmethod.com/bobbyrio5 Link to video from YouTube where bobby walks you through 5 "Older Guy" Qualities Younger Women Chase in a Man | Use THESE Instead of Money to Attract Her: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oJ3xExpWaAI&t=223s Guest: Bobby Rio
46:51
April 9, 2020
Ep. 333 How YOU Can Date Younger Women
David Shade joins us to discuss HOW to date younger women.  David is in his mid 70's and has a girlfriend in her 20's.  Impossible you say?  Listen to find out how he attracts younger women :) Guest David Shade - How To Date Younger Women
49:59
April 2, 2020
Ep. 332 How To F^CK The Friend Zone
Please know that this episode was recorded pre: corona so we apologize if anything said insults or upsets you.  Which it shouldn't, but just in case.  You know we can't control our mouths ;) This week we crack The Friend Zone Wide Open!!  And tell you exactly how to handle any friend zone situation so that you are never in it again. Guest: Sebastian
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March 26, 2020
Ep. 331 How To Calm Your Anxiety With EVERYTHING Going On & Women
Boy oh boy was this the right time for this episode to come out because we are in a HIGHLY stressful time and need a little help calming down.  NLP coach Mark Sing joins us to teach us how to calm anxiety with women and with life.  He also gives us a FULL 5 minute relaxation visualization to go through that actually made Kristen cry.  It was awesome.  Guest: Mark Sing To sign up and work one on one with Mark go to https://www.winggirlmethod.com/marksing  STAY SAFE!
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March 19, 2020
Ep. 330 How To Become A High Status Male & JUST Be Yourself (Marni & Kristen Only Episode)
This week it's just Marni and Kristen and we're getting super real and dissecting ways to just be YOU.  Because when people tell you to "just be yourself" when dating, you probably have no freaking clue what that means.  This week we break down what that means and how to do it!  when you stop focusing so much on pleasing women and being right guy for "her" that's when the true you comes out and shines.   If you want to find out how to grow your inner self work to become a high status man then this episode is for you! Guests: Marni and Kristen Check out our amazing sponsor Tiege Hanley for unbelievable Skin Care programs just for men!   http://www.tiege.com/askwomen
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March 12, 2020
Ep. 329 STEM Dating | How To Navigate Women & Dating If You Have A STEM Brain
Love this episode.  Our guest is definitely very unique. Myke from social confidence mastery joins us to speak to any STEM brain guys who may have trouble with the typical dating advice out there.  Myke walked us through how to tell stories, create stories and find ways to make yourself more interesting.  He also gave us a routine for flirting that is super easy to follow. It was a great episode! Guest: Myke Macapinlac - http://socialconfidencemastery.com
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March 6, 2020
Ep. 328 How Women THINK About Sex? Inside The Female Sexual Mind
This weeks episode is a tribute to a past guest and friend of The Ask Women Podcast Amie Harwick.  A talented Sex Therapist and sex educator who sadly died a couple of weeks ago in a tragic accident.  This show is a tribute to this beautiful woman and all the amazing advice she shared :) On this weeks show:  How and what do women think about sex? AND what do us women think men think about sex?  On this weeks episode we dive into the female POV on sex.  How we want it, when we want it, how often we want it.....  Psychologist and Sexpert Amie Harwick joins us to explain how and what women think about sex and why it's so different from men. On this show we also discuss and over analyze: 1. How to talk sexually to women 2. How to escalate a conversation from non sexual to sexual 3. How to approach women sexually without insulting or harassing 4. How to be blunt and clear on your intentions without being insulting 5. What women think men think about sex And so much more! Guest: Amie Harwick Check out our amazing sponsor Tiege Hanley for unbelievable Skin Care programs just for men!   http://www.tiege.com/askwomen
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February 28, 2020
Ep. 327 How To Turn Rejection Into POWER With Women
This was one of my favorite episodes because We have a Rabbi on our show! A rabbi that is going  to tell us the 10 different lenses we can use so that we see rejection as a beautiful thing and not a negative thing.  It's pretty amazing how you can train your brain to see things and Rabbi Shmuel Pollen tells us how.  On this show we also dissect and over analyze:  Should you lower your expectations when you get rejected by a girl? Ancient wisdom on how you can actually be happy when you’re rejected What it really means when a girl rejects you How you’ve been wearing the wrong “glasses” for your entire life and how that’s affecting your interactions with girls how to resolve inner and outer conflict what to do when EVERYTHING is going wrong in your life. What Shark Tank can teach you about striking out with girls and so much more... Guest: Rabbi Shmuel Pollen. He is the founder of Noah's Child, a non-profit organization that provides food and medicine to the needy of Gujarat, India, and eastern Ukraine He has published two books on religion and hosts the podcast entitled: Light Unto The Nations he resides in Rockaway, NJ with his five children. Check out our amazing sponsor Tiege Hanley for unbelievable Skin Care programs just for men!   http://www.tiege.com/askwomen
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February 21, 2020
Ep. 326 How To Be A Leader With Women | The BJ Technique
Want to know the most attractive thing you can be with women?  A LEADER.  Now I don't mean a man that bosses women around and tells them what to do.  Leading women means gently guiding them towards something and requires the man to know who he is and what he wants.   Being a real leader with women is easier than you think and doesn't require you to be a jerk.  Guest: Joshua Spodek PhD MBA http://www.joshuaspodek.com Check out our amazing sponsor Tiege Hanley for unbelievable Skin Care programs just for men!   http://www.tiege.com/askwomen
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February 14, 2020
Ep. 325 Top 3 Secrets About ALL Beautiful Women (Dan Bacon)
Dan Bacon is on our show today and his advice and tips are amazing!!!!   on this weeks episode we discuss the FORMULA for ultimate success with beautiful women as well as the top 3 secrets about beautiful women that most men do not know. We also over analyze:  - Guys wasting years of their life thinking that they're not good enough for women. Meanwhile, guys who are at the same level of success as them in life have a girlfriend or wife. Same with looks. - Secrets I've uncovered about beautiful women. - The missing skills guys need to get what they want with women. Guest: Dan Bacon - The Modern Man www.themodernman.com
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February 7, 2020
Ep. 324 The Ins & Outs of Dating Single Moms | How To Date MILF's
On this week's show we have the lovely Dannie De Novo who talks to us about dating as a single mom and a divorcee!  Dating after marriage and kids is totally different than just simply dating.  It's a whole new ball game and Dannie is going to walk you through how to do it successfully.   Let's face it, single moms (and dads) have a whole bunch of different challenges living their day to day lives because they have someone or some others to take care of.  Which is why dating as a single parent is so different than dating without kids.  But the great thing is that a lot of the BS is shoved aside since time is so limited.  Dannie helps shed some insight into some of these challenges and shares how to navigate these sometimes, muddy waters so that you don't waste your time, energy and heart.  Guest: Dannie De Novo - www.danniedenovo.com
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January 30, 2020
Ep. 323 What It Means To JUST BE YOURSELF With Women
My very first Wing Girl NATELA joins us in studio to talk about what it means to just be yourself.  Probably the most annoying sentence in the world because not many people actually tell you what it means or how to do it.  BUT now we do!!   On this show we also discuss:  1. How to talk to women so that the conversation is interesting NOT boring and redundant 2. How to present yourself as a multi-dimensional man and not a boring one 3. How to wipe depression away in 3 simple steps 4. How to avoid becoming an entertainer on the date so that you get another date And so much more! Guest: Natela Valentin - First Ever Wing Girl 
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January 24, 2020
Ep. 322 How To Move On After A Breakup & How To Select A NEW Partner | Mindfulness Ask Women Podcast
On this weeks episode of the Ask Women Podcast we have breakup expert on the showing showing you how to move on after a breakup and how to select a new partner that's better for you ;)  We also discuss the importance of shared values and how to see what values your dates have.    Guest: Lindsey Meck - CEO & Co-Founder of Onward: A Post-Breakup Concierge Service - https://www.Move-Onward.com   Contact Lindsey (@OnwardOnline) and get 10% off any package. Simply book a package and mention Ask Women or “Wing Girl Method” to your concierge to receive the discount.   Check out our amazing sponsor Tiege Hanley for unbelievable Skin Care programs just for men!   http://www.tiege.com/askwomen
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January 17, 2020
Ep. 321 How To PROTECT Yourself From Women
We all know that the online world can be a dangerous one and that's why we brought on Cyber Security Expert Nick Lamb to help YOU.  Nick will walk you through how to protect yourself from WOMEN online.  Online dating is flushed with tons of tricksters and con artists.  We want your online dating experience to be fun, not painful.  Even if you are a woman, the information shared on this podcast will be extremely helpful to you.  On this show we discuss and over analyze:  1. 5 Warning signs your being catfished 2. Ways to avoid being catfished 3. How to date online 4. Things you can do to deter con artists online And so much more! Guest: Nick Lambe GordAlex Limited www.gordalex.com
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January 9, 2020
Ep. 320 How To Be GREAT In Bed
It's the new year and it's time to talk about SEX! On this weeks episode we have the amazing Susan Bratton who is going to tell you how to be an amazing lover.  Even if you don't have a lot of sexual experience, you can still rock her world in the bedroom. She gives tips, techniques and communication skills that will help you enhance all of your sexual experiences. Even if you are a woman you will love this episode!  (Kristen gets some sex-coaching as well) Heads up - I just want to be transparent. It took Susan a minute to get into the swing of the podcast. The first half is good BUT the 2nd half is great and jam full of actionable tips you can use right now in the bedroom. On this show we also discuss and over analyze: 1. How to eliminate performance anxiety 2. How to avoid finishing too soon 3. Myths about female sexuality 4. The Sexual Soulmate Pact - #1 most important bedroom communication tool in the world 5. How to make a woman comfortable in the bedroom 6. 10 top complaints and fears she hears from women about sex 7. How to be sure you are being 100% consensual And so much more! I know you will love this episode :) IF you like what you hear more from Susan and discover hundreds of ways you can enhance your sexual experience go to: https://www.winggirlmethod.com/susanb
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January 2, 2020
Ep. 319 How To Build Sexual Tension When Talking To Women (Take 2)
This was one of our favorite episodes from 2019. I'm very excited for you to listen to this episode because we have attraction and tension expert Patrick James in studio with us.  Patrick dives into the mistakes men making when trying to build sexual tension and gives us 5 great, word for word examples of things to say that guarantee tension is created. They're pretty genius things that both Kristen and I had never heard before.  Even Kristen was impressed and you know she is NEVER impressed with anyone!  (Even if you are a woman listening to this show, there is a LOT for you to learn) On this weeks show we also discussed and over analyzed:  1. Trick for stealing rejection lines from women and using them on THEM to build attraction  2. How your profile may be ruining your dating life & sending the wrong messages to women  (mansplaining may be the culprit)  3. Why you don't have to create tension because it's already there and you can use it  4. How to have the right amount of challenge that you give to women And so much more!!!  Guest Patrick James Get a copy of Patricks Book here: https://www.winggirlmethod.com/patrick-107-proven
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December 26, 2019
Ep. 318 How To Become More Attractive To Women Even If You Aren't Good Looking
Is there a way to become more attractive even if you are not good looking? The simple answer is YES there is and that's what our guest, Joe Ducard is going to explain how to do.  On this show we also discuss: - how to improve your style  - how to get women to approach YOU - How and where to meet women - How to handle rejection like a champ And so much more! Guest: Joe Ducard
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December 19, 2019
Ep. 317 How To State Your Intent With Women RIGHT From The Start
Ex Neil Strauss Coach Pablo Rosario joins us to give guidance on how to state your intent with women immediately without being too aggressive or creepy.  His direction on what to say to state intent is awesome!  On this show we also dissect and discuss:  1. How to avoid being nice and instead be seen as kind 2. How to evaluate if you are being too nice to women 3. How to express passion to women 4. How be interesting to women And so much more! Guest:  Pablo Rosario Pablo Rosario is a men's dating & relationship coach and speaker with over 6 years of experience helping executives, business owners, and CEO's find more fulfilling relationships.  He's put on numerous conferences throughout the U.S. and Canada on the topics of relationships, communication, overcoming inner conflict, passion, and confidence.  With a background in psychology, and neuro-linguistic programming, he's helped hundreds of men find happiness and fulfillment in the areas of relationships and life.
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December 12, 2019
Ep. 316 Top 10 Dating Mistakes of 2019
My friend Mel joins us to share her personal experiences of dating men in 2019.  BTW Mel is by far one of the sweetest women I've ever met so please know that she is being extra nice on this show and other women would NOT be so nice.  On this show we dissect and discuss: 1. Top dating mistakes of 2019 2. What NOT to do on a date if you want to have a 2nd date 3. What you SHOULD do on dates 4. The female perspective on "NICE" guy 5. Why listening will get you very far with women And so much more! Guest: Mel Frontino - Head Flower Chick @theflowersocialatx www.theflowersocialaustin.com
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December 5, 2019
Ep. 315 How To ROCK A 1st Impression IRL & Online
Your first impression is the most important impression.  That's why we have the founder of First Impression Jordan on our show to tell us how to make the best first impression IRL and online. He gives us the recipe for ultimate success when making a first impression.  To find out more about first impressions go to: https://www.firstimpressionsdating.com Guest: Jordan From First Impressions App
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November 21, 2019
Ep. 314 Guide For Conversation Escalation With Women PLUS How To Present Yourself As ALPHA
Do you know how to escalate with women?  Well this week Adam Lyons is here to tell you step by step how to escalate with women.  He literally dives into the first step of saying hi all the way to talking dirty with her.   It's a great episode.  We also discuss:  How to be super interesting and have a life women want to be part of How to set goals for yourself in life and with women How to start talking sexual How to be the most interesting man in the room How to tell sexual stories And so much more! Guest: Adam Lyons Get more info about Adam and his confidence academy here: https://www.winggirlmethod.com/adamlyons Check out our amazing sponsor Tiege Hanley for unbelievable Skin Care programs just for men!   http://www.tiege.com/askwomen
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November 15, 2019
Ep. 313 Why Being "NICE" Won't Get You Anywhere With Women & What To Do Instead
Are you "NICE"??  And by nice, we don't mean the male definition of NICE we mean the female definition of NICE.  The 2 are very different from onee another.  On this weeks show we dive into what NICE means to women and how to avoid being NICE to women and end up in the friend zone, the flake zone and the beta male zone. Guest: Katya Morozova - Dating and Relationship Coach Website: http://www.katyamorozova.me/ Free Gift CTA link: https://www.facebook.com/lovecoachkatya/
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November 8, 2019
Ep. 312 The Psychology of Lust, Love & Desire Explained | How Each Affects Your Choice In Mates
OMG this episode is jam packed with information that you can apply instantly to your dating lives with women.  Amy Chan joins us to discuss the science of attraction and how you can use this science to your own benefit.  We also discuss:  1. chemistry compasses and the psychology of why we choose the wrong people and tips on how to start choosing people who are healthier for us.  2. Our attachment systems and the three attachment styles - secure, avoidant and anxious. We provide insight on how men can understand their own attachment, and the attachment of romantic partners so you can have healthier relationships. 3. Non Violent Communication techniques to trouble shoot common relationship issues. How to make someone feel heard and seen and validated, and move towards connection versus disconnection. A ton of great stuff on this show! Guest: Amy Chan Amy Chan is the Founder of Renew Breakup Bootcamp, a retreat that takes a scientific and spiritual approach to healing the heart. She is also the Editor-in-Chief of JustMyType.ca - an online magazine that focuses on the psychology behind love, lust and desire. 
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October 31, 2019
Ep. 311 How To Bio Hack Your Dating Life
Founder of Bulletproof Coffee and father of the term bio hacking joins us to discuss how to hack your dating life.  Not only does Dave share the secrets to living a long, healthy fulfilling life. He also explains how anyone can take control of and adjust the outcome of their lives at any time.  AND that includes our dating lives.  It was an awesome episode and we were so happy to have him on the show.  Please share this episode if you like it :) Guest: Dave Aspery
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October 24, 2019
Ep. 310 How To Get Back Out There AFTER Divorce Or A Big Breakup
"Just get back out there" is what most of your friends and family say to you after your divorce or a big break.  But what exactly does that mean and where do you start?  You haven't been single for a long time and it all seems to have changed on you.  That's why we've brought in a "Getting Back Out There" expert and life after divorce coach Simon Ravona from Catalytic Coaching to walk us through how to get back out there after a big break up.  Guest: Simon Ravona Catalytic Coaching
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October 17, 2019
309 How To PROPERLY Date Online | Tips Tricks and Guidance
Online dating expert Damona Hoffman joins us to break down how to properly date online.  There are a ton of new apps and new spaces for dating online, which can be tough to navigate.  Damona delivers awesome advice and guidance on how to be successful online with women.  Guest: Damona Hoffman
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October 10, 2019
Ep. 308 How To Have Sex With A Woman | What Women Want In The Bedroom
Susan Campbell is back on The Ask Women Podcast talking to us about WOMEN and sex!!!!    Women think of sex very differently than men do and Susan helps break down the differences so that you can be a rock star in the bedroom.  We also overanalyze and discuss:  1. What Women want from sex 2. How to talk about sex with a woman 3. How to get her to try new things and do things she's not that into 4. What is KINK and how to get kinky 5. How to get sexual experience when you don't have a partner And so much more! Guest: Susan Campbell
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October 3, 2019
Ep. 307 How To Seduce A Woman In The First Interaction | Step By Step Instructions
OMG this is the best best best episode because we cover sooooo many important topics including how to seduce a woman in the first interaction AND how to cure oneitis!!! This is something we haven't really talked about before and I'm so excited to dive deep into the topic with Dating Expert Sebastian Harris.   Enjoy! Guest: Sebastian Harris host of the Global Seducer Quickie Podcast Learn more about Sebastian here: https://www.winggirlmethod.com/sebastian
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September 26, 2019
Ep. 306 Men's Style Tricks That Make You Look Better
Aaron Marino from the super popular Youtube channel Alpha M joins us to talk about your OUTSIDE and how to improve it.  Fitness, grooming, skin care, hair, style.... all things that say a lot about you before you even open your mouth.  Alpha M guides you on how to make your outside look awesome so that your inside feels amazing. Guest: Aaron Marino From Alpha M Get your 1st Tiege Hanley Skin Care Kit here: https://www.tiege.com/askwomen
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September 19, 2019
Ep. 305 How To Create Chemistry With Women
Chemistry??  What the hell is it and why do so many women want it and NEED it? Dr. Laura Berman joins us to explain the science behind chemistry.  How it's created, why it's so important to women and how you can easily create chemistry with women by doing just a few simple things.  Guest: Dr. Laura Berman Get your 1st Tiege Hanley Skin Care Kit here: https://www.tiege.com/askwomen
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September 12, 2019
Ep. 304 Can You Be Masculine & Have Emotions
We typically talk about a woman's emotions on our show but this week we're going to dive into MEN and their emotions.  Are men even allowed to have emotions around women and if they do, how can they express them without getting a BETA or wimp label.  Guest: Dominick Quartuccio host of Man Amongst Men, a podcast dedicated to helping men operate as the highest version of themselves and building environments where he and others can thrive. In doing this they have created an amazing show that encompasses many topics all around helping men, and the partners who support them.
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September 5, 2019
Ep. 303 The WHY's Of Dating: What Every Man Needs To Consider In Dating
WHY do you want to date women??  Have you thought about that? I mean, really thought about WHY?  Well on this weeks episode we dive into all the WHY's you should be considering and thinking about prior to dating.  The more you know and own your WHY, the easier dating and relationships become.   Guest: Lou - An amazing listener of The Ask Women Podcast
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August 29, 2019
Ep. 302 How To Heal After Being Burned & Discover Your Potential
Loved this episode.  Any time we get to dive into how to reprogram the way you think about feel about yourself, I get giddy.  I know we talk about this a lot but it's because it's so essential for attracting women and bringing quality women into your life.  Our guest Josh Hudson thought he had everything until he was cheated on and his world came crumbling.  Josh explains how he recovered and how he moved forward and changed his inner beliefs about himself and realized he had amazing potential.  Guest: Josh from Pinnacle of Man
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August 22, 2019
Ep. 301 How To Be A DOMINANT Man With Women In 2019
Do women like men who are dominant?  Well you are about to find out on this weeks episode because BDSM coach Suzie Wheeler is on with us dissecting how women feel and respond to dominance in 2019.  She teaches guys how to get into a woman's sexual psyche and truly fulfill fantasies.   Women will LOVE this episode because it says all the things they truly want to say but may not know how.  On this show we discuss: How to be dominant with women in 2019 How to slowly introduce dominance and fantasy play into the bedroom Do women like dominance? How to be dominant if you've never been dominant before And so much more Guest: Suzie Wheeler Quote from the show:  Marni: How is a guy on a first date supposed to be authentic if he isn't looking for anything serious or long-term. Suzie: "I am not looking for anything serious, but I am enjoying being in this moment with you right now. If you are okay with it, then I am great. If you are not, I totally understand."
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August 15, 2019
Ep. 300 How To Be Masculine AND Vulnerable
This episode is jam packed with amazing information all about how to be a MAN!!  Modern masculinity, how to be vulnerable without being a wimp, how to express emotions, pursing happiness and so much more.  Guest: Dr. John Schinnerer GuideToSelf.com TheEvolvedCaveman.com
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August 9, 2019
Ep. 299 How To STOP Past Trauma From Affecting Your Dating Life
Trauma!!!  Everyone has some sort of past trauma in their life that is affecting their present life.  Some are big, some are small but they all have an impact on how we see things, do things and act.   On this weeks episode we have Trauma expert Tori on our show to discuss how to figure out what your trauma is AND how to eliminate so that it no longer has a strong power over you.  Even if you are a woman you will love this episode! Guest: Tori - Trauma Expert