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Ask Women Podcast: What Women Want

Ask Women Podcast: What Women Want

By Marni Kinrys & Kristen Carney
What do a female comic and a professional wing girl have in common? The realistically raw and hilarious perspectives on what women ACTUALLY want in a man. Prepare to be offended and awed as Marni Kinrys & Kristen Carney take you through the uncensored and often ridiculous mind of a woman to help you better understand, appreciate, and avoid getting punched by the next girl you come across. Wanna Ask The Girls A Question? Send your questions to and check out our other dating tools and advice: and
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Ep. 362 Seductive Conversations and How To Get “the Goods” (Josh Spodek)

Ask Women Podcast: What Women Want

Ep. 362 Seductive Conversations and How To Get “the Goods” (Josh Spodek)

Ask Women Podcast: What Women Want

Ep. 418 How to Escalate With Women
Alex Vilenchik from the popular youtube channel Playing with Fire is here to teach us STEP BY STEP how to escalate with women. He gives us tangible advice to crank up the heat with women and how to do it without being or feeling like a creep. 
January 21, 2022
The Tinder Effect THROWBACK Episode
In this throwback episode, we have host of Sex with Emily, Dr. Emily Morse as well as Chloe Klein on to discuss Tinder and how it's effected their dating lives and how they use it. They share their Tinder stories so you know what's going on in a woman's mind when she's deciding whether to swipe right, or swipe left. 
January 14, 2022
Ep. 417 Make Your Style a Turn On
Stylist Goldie Rush joins the show to talk about how to up your style game and WHY it is such a turn on when a man can dress himself well in the look that is most “him”.
January 10, 2022
Romance V. Pornography (10/8/2015) THROWBACK
Porn has made it hard for both sexes to have realistic expectations about gettin' it on, usually setting both parties up for disappointment. In this throwback episode, we discuss the difference between romance and pornography and how not to lose the "fun" so you can have the most satisfying bedroom experiences. 
December 31, 2021
How to Build Attraction Through Conversation (2/11/15) RERUN
Did you know that you can turn women by using just your words?? Well you can and on this weeks episode of Ask Women you are going to learn how to do it! We also discuss: 1. How to navigate Valentines Day whether you are single, newly dating or in a long term relationship 2. What to say to women to start a conversation 3. How to make her think of "us" so that she feels connected to you 4. Defining that "spark" and "chemistry" that women always talk about 5. How to make a woman feel that spark or chemistry and much more...
December 16, 2021
Ep. 417 What a funny girl is looking for THROWBACK
Comedian Alli Breen and Loveline's Anderson Cowan join us in this throwback episode to talk about what a single and FUNNY girl wants from a guy and how to win her over.
December 10, 2021
Ep. 416 Cuffing Season and Getting Your Ex Back
This week, relationship magician, Coach Lee is on to talk about Cuffing Season and why it's so great to start your dating now as the days get colder and darker. He's also here to tell us what strategy to use if you want to get your ex back, which is more than 70% effective. Lastly, we close the show talking about if it's a good idea to try to cut-in on someone's current relationship and HOW to do it if it's the right situation. 
December 03, 2021
Ep. 415 Speeding Up Getting to Know Someone
Kristen has a new man in her life and they took off for 5 day vacation after dating for a little over 2 months. In this episode, Marni and Kristen discuss once you hit a certain age, doing something to speed up the 'getting to know someone' process, how to do it, what to look for and why it can be so beneficial.  
November 19, 2021
Ep. 414 What Makes a Master in the Bedroom THROWBACK ep
This week we have comedian Chase Anthony and friend of the show Jess on the show talking about how to turn a woman on and KEEP her turned on. Jess is going to give you all the tips and tricks about pleasing women and how to be irresistible in the bedroom. 
November 12, 2021
Ep. 414 Talk Dirty to Me (THROWBACK EP)
This week, we're talking about talking dirty - how to do it, what to say and how to make it flow naturally so you can be the smooth guy in the bedroom you know you are. 
November 05, 2021
Ep. 413 Sex with Emily THROWBACK Episode
Enjoy this throwback episode to our FIRST YEAR of the Ask Women Podcast with world renowned guest 'SEXPERT', Emily Morse from the wildly popular show 'Sex with Emily' podcast. She joined us to answer all our juicy, interesting and sometimes awkward questions about sex so you can please not just yourself, but her in the bedroom, too. 
October 29, 2021
Ep. 412 Stop Letting Things Get in the Way of Your Relationships
Behavioral psychologist Dr. Gleb Tsipursky is here to talk all about the confirmation biases we have that get in the way of our relationships and the blind spots they're causing us on a daily basis. He's also going to give us tactics to use to stop letting these unexpected roadblocks get in the way of having successful relationships, especially with the opposite sex. 
October 22, 2021
Ep. 411 How to Overcome Shortcomings
This week, our regular guest Dominey Drew is here to talk about how not to be held back by things you may consider shortcomings or "flaws". We talk about how to use them to your advantage and make you stand out, rather than blend in. 
October 15, 2021
Ep. 410 Leverage Fashion to GET the Girl
Antonio Centeno, founder of the men's fashion website is here to talk about simple style upgrades you can make to your wardrobe so you can get the girl you want. And the good news? It doesn't take as much work as you'd think to add a few pieces to your closet to make you really pop. And the other good news? You don't need to be in a metropolitan area to pull off smooth style. 
October 08, 2021
Ep. 409 Talking "Why Men Behave Badly" by David Buss WITH David Buss
David Buss is an American Evolutionary Psychologist at the University of Texas at Austin, researching human sex differences in mate selection. He is considered one of the founders of evolutionary psychology and just released his new book called "Why Men Behave Badly". We talk all about WHY it is men do what they do and how come it's not really their fault ;) We also talk about how to fix these things so you can attract the right woman for you. 
October 01, 2021
Ep. 408 10 NLP Mind Hacks For Instant Confidence With Mark Sing
Mark Sing, amazing NLP coach and friend, joins us to break down 10 NLP Mind Hacks For Instant Confidence With Mark Sing Guest: Mark Sing
September 23, 2021
Ep. 407 The 1 Thing Confident Men Do To Be Good With Women | Guest Noah Kagan
Noah Kagan, owner of App Sumo, joins us to explain why having money and fame doesn't always equate to success with women. Heshares his own struggles with women and what he has found to be the #1 thing all men can do to attract amazing women.  Guest: Noah Kagan
September 16, 2021
Ep. 405 How To Set Boundaries With Women | Karen Brody Guest
On this episode we dive into how to set boundaries with women.  Guest Karen Brody
September 09, 2021
Ep. 404 How to Date Women Around the World - Throwback
This week, we revisit a great episode with Teddy B who is going to talk to us all about how to date women all around the world as well as the 5 characteristics you need to attract women. And, we also get into to the ins and outs and nitty gritty of texting - what to do and what not to do to get her enamored with you over the phone. 
September 03, 2021
Ep. 403 How to be a pick up artist…Throwback
Vince Kelvin, pick up artist for 25 years, shares what he’s learned over his multiple decade career wooing women and winning them over. In this throwback episode, we tell you the how to's and how not to's of being a pick up artist and how to be an overall master with getting and keeping the girls of your dreams. 
August 26, 2021
Ep. 402 How to give her multiple orgasms
Here’s an oldie about how to give her a goodie. Listen closely because this is the key to making a woman explode with feelings, both physical AND mental.
August 20, 2021
Ep.401 Steve Austin Reveals How To Make Women Want You
Steve was open and ready for anything we threw his way.  Nothing was off limits for discussion which is how we like it. Steve revealed to us: - How he gets women to do ANYTHING he wants - What went wrong in his past 3 marriages and what you can learn from his CURRENT one to avoid making the same mistakes - How to make women approach you even if your not Stone Cold Steve Austin - Body hair and "manscaping" (a bigger deal for women than most men think!) - How to gain sexual experience even if you're a virgin or inexperienced - How to make your wife want to have sex with you  ALL the time - His opinion on couples therapy and why he thinks it's essential for all married couples - Does drinking make it easier to meet women and what to do if you don't drink And soooooo much more!! If you wanna know how to be a total bad-ass AND an amazingly "nice guy" at the same time...then you DEFINITELY wanna hear what STONE COLD has to say... Cuz once you start using the tips he gives, ladies everywhere will start seeing YOU as a stone cold FOX ;-)
August 14, 2021
Ep. 400 Stay OUT of the Friendzone with Brad P - Flashback Episode
This week, we're throwing back to an old episode with master relationship coach and pick up artist, Brad P talking about all things getting the girl and staying out of the wretched friend zone. 
August 06, 2021
Ep. 399 Dating Sucks But You Don't with Connell Barrett
This week, we have the author of Dating Sucks but You Don't, Connell Barrett on to talk about confidence, authenticity, flirtation, being charismatic and so much more. We also talk about being smooth with approaches and how to be smooth when the approach doesn't go as smoothly as planned. So many nuggets of gold this episode you'll want to listen to it twice. 
July 30, 2021
Ep. 398 Making Her Feel Safe
Dante Nero from the Man School 202 podcast joins us this week to talk about how to make a woman feel safe and WHY that is so important.
July 23, 2021
Ep. 398 Infatuation VS LOVE
How you do you know if you're really in love or just infatuated? What's difference between falling in love and BEING in love? Couple's counselor and Addiction specialist, Max is here to tell us the difference. He also is going to give us some tips on how to turn up your confidence so you can be in the place to fall into REAL LOVE to begin with. 
July 16, 2021
Ep. 397 How To Do Open Relationships
Open relationships don't need to be an elusive thing that seem to be for "other people." They're more accessible than you think and Dominey Drew is back this week to talk about how you can open yourself and your partner up to them. Even if you don't think they're for you, the tips and tricks in this episode will come in handy in every area of dating. 
July 02, 2021
Ep. 396 How To Build Confidence | Lessons From Alpha M.
Aaron Marino, YouTube leader of male lifestyle and self improvement is here to talk about how he built his confidence and created his dream life and how you can do it too.
June 25, 2021
Ep. 395 How To Connect To Women
Whether you’re in the beginning stages of dating or years into a marriage, Man Coach, Karen Brody is here to tell us HOW to connect with women and why it is so important.
June 18, 2021
Ep. 394 How to Cold Approach
Robbie Kramer from is here to talk about how to approach women anywhere at anytime. Listen to find out if women are open to it and how to get them to be open to it if they’re not.
June 11, 2021
Ep. 393 How Women's Hormones Effect You & Your Dating Life |Dr. Stephanie Estima
This is one of the best episodes we've done in awhile.  On this weeks episode we dive into WOMEN's HORMONES.  Don't be scared off just yet.  Because we will explain how women's hormones can effect you, your dating life and your overall happiness with women. This episode was fascinating! Guest: Dr. Stephanie Estima
May 27, 2021
Ep. 392 What Alpha Girls Find Sexy & Attractive
This week we have Mindie on our show discussing what it's like to date as a successful, independent woman.  ALPHA females as they are called by many.  Mindie is great at really revealing and opening up about what attracts her and what turns her off.  Guest: Mindie Barnett "Race for the Ring Podcast" IG: @mindie.barnett FB: @mindiebarnett Twitter: @mindiebarnett Linkedin: @mindiebarnett
May 20, 2021
Ep. 391 How To FIGHT With Women
This may seem like a strange topic BUT it's one that is soooo needed to be discussed and shared.  How you fight can determine how successful you are in relationships with women. Whether you are dating them or working with them OR family with them.... the way you fight is directly correlated to how connected you can be to women.  On this episode we dive into the RIGHT way to fight with women and how to ensure your fights: 1. bring you closer to together 2. are effective in having your voice heard so change can happen.  Guest: Jennie Marie LMFT
May 13, 2021
Ep. 390 How YOU Are F'ing Up Your Dating Life With Women
Dominey Drew is back with us and we dive into the role YOU play in your dating life.  We look at how you and your own beliefs are what is holding you back from WILD success with women.  AND we uncover how to stop yourself from doing this.  Guest Dominey Drew
May 06, 2021
Ep. 389 What 9's and 10's Want In A Man - Flashback Episode
We go back in time this week to when Ralph Sutton, founder of Gas Digital and co-host of The SDR Show joined the show to get blunt and honest about how, as a 6'6" intimidating man, he manages to get the ladies. We also answer questions in our old segment, "Over Analyze This".  Guest Ralph Sutton and A Model
April 30, 2021
Ep. 388 How To Set CLEAR BOUNDARIES With Women - Flashback 2019
This week, here's a reminder from 2019 and our listener Andrew about setting boundaries - WHY and HOW you should so that you can improve not just in your dating life, but in all parts of your life. Boundaries say "I VALUE MYSELF" and there's nothing sexier than that kind of confidence. 
April 23, 2021
Ep. 387 What it's Like Dating as a Female in 2021
This week we have a beautiful, intelligent 28 year old woman on to talk to us about what it's like dating from the female perspective in 2021. Dani K tells us all about her turn ons, turn offs, what she she thinks about bad boys, how to break out of the friend zone, hee thoughts on short guys and everything in between.
April 16, 2021
Ep. 386 Being the Best Version of Yourself
When you spread yourself thin and try to be what you think you should be rather than what you actually are, you push the right people away and bring the wrong people in. Robyn Downs from The Feel Good Effect Podcast is here to talk about how to be the REAL you and bring out the best parts of you, the 20% of of you, which is all you really need. 
April 09, 2021
Ep. 385 Where and HOW To Meet Women (Guest: David Perotta)
Dating coach David Perrotta joins us to help break the MYTH that there is nowhere to meet women and give us the goods on where and how. He's also going to tell us why your lifestyle plays such a HUGE role in attraction and what you can do to enhance yours to UP your dating game. 
April 02, 2021
Ep. 384 How Technology Effects Your Dating Life
This week, one of our favorite guests, Dominey Drew steps in for Kristen and Marni and kills it as the guest host talking with Nichol Bradford, CEO of the Willow Group, a Transformative Technology and Fundamental Wellbeing company to get break down HOW technology can effect your dating life, and how to have it bring positive changes. They also talk about how you can use technology to develop emotional intelligence, to overcome your fear of rejection and so much more. 
March 26, 2021
Ep. 383 How to Cold Approach Women
Jared Laurence from is here help kick up your approach game. But, first, we tackle the idea 'changing a woman's mood rather than changing her mind', the '5 Vibes' you want to put out there with a woman AND finally, how to be casual and non aggressive in your cold approach.  
March 19, 2021
Ep. 382 Enhance Your Sexual Experience(s)
This week we have sex coach and tantra expert, Tilly Storm on to talk all about how to pleasure a woman and how to in turn, get her to pleasure and enhance YOUR sexual experience. This means we'll be talking about women's libido and how it’s different from a man's as well as women’s erotic blue prints and how it effects her desire.
March 14, 2021
Ep. 381 Dating People from Other Places
Vickie, who is young, beautiful and single is here this week to tell us all about dating women from other places. She's also going to give a look behind the curtain into what she likes, doesn’t like, what turns her on and what turns her off. We also talk male empowerment and how to build your self-esteem while dating.
March 06, 2021
Ep. 380 The Six Pillars of SUCCESS with Women
There are SIX Pillars of Success you need to become AMAZING with women. This episode, Mani Vaya is here to dig deep into two of the the most important ones - mental toughness and self-belief - to take you to where you want to be. He'll also discuss his journey and how he reached his peak performance with the opposite sex. 
February 26, 2021
Ep. 379 How to Pick the RIGHT Women
Compatibility is hard to detect at first glance but it is so important when it comes to dating, obviously. So this week, we have MBTI Myer's Briggs specialist Derek Lee here to talk about how to pick the right women for you by using technology to reveal your personality type as well as hers. 
February 19, 2021
Ep. 378 How to Communicate like a Pro
Communication is the MOST important part of a relationship. It's also how you get what YOU want in life. Janette Burke, a marketing expert, joins us to give us the goods on how to market yourself, communicate your message of who you are and what you need so that you can start getting what you want. 
February 12, 2021
Ep. 377 How to be an Amazing LOVER
Sex and relationship coach Caitlyn V. is here to help you unleash your true sexual self so you can make the women you meet their best selves in and out of the bedroom. 
February 05, 2021
Ep. 376 How to Avoid being GHOSTED
It happens ALL the time and it happens to the best of us. The dreaded GHOSTING. And, Bria, a single 40-something mother, is here this week to guide you AWAY from from all those mistakes that make girls ditch you without notice. She'll also talk to us about why she's been having a GREAT time dating during a pandemic. 
January 29, 2021
Ep. 375 How To Date and Sleep with Multiple Women & Navigate An Open Relationship
This one is a goodie!!  We have Andy and Imogen on the show to discuss how they have successfully navigated an open relationship and now welcome new women into their bedroom on a regular basis!  Here are some of the topics covered on the call - How to have 3somes with 2 girls (including in an open relationship). - How to meet women and get laid on Tinder. - How to be honest and real with women (treating them like they're on the same team as you). - How to leave women better than you found them (how to add to & improve the lives of women you date). Guest: Andy and Imogen
January 22, 2021
Ep. 374 Eliminating Approach Anxiety with Mark Sing
The DREADED approach! It's human nature to fear starting a conversation with a stranger. But, good news! You don't have to be afraid anymore. On this week's specially chosen re-run, Mark Sing is here to tell us HOW to eliminate approach anxiety so that you can stop being held back by that crucial first step to meeting the women of your dreams. 
January 15, 2021
Ep. 373 Brad P Explains: How To Seduce A Women & Establish 3 Types of Dominance (Rerun)
Seduction expert Brad P is no longer coaching BUT he made a special exception for the ladies and he is BACK for this show and this show ONLY. And, he's here to teach YOU how to seduce while trying to get the girl. He also gives you the goods on HOW to make a special gal feel oh-so-comfortable so she'll be more likely to let you in, both mentally AND physically. Don't miss this fun episode packed with tips, tricks, methods and TOOLS... so you don't become one :) Guest: Brad P -
January 07, 2021
Ep. 372 How To Get The Women You Deserve (re-run)
This was an amazing episode with the wonderful dominey drew. She is a master at unblocking all that SH&T you tell yourself that stops you from having massive success with women.  Happy New Year!
December 31, 2020
Ep. 371 How to have amazing CONVERSATIONS
For holidays we're taking some time to recharge and we hope you do too. BUT, before you do, here's a hand-selected episode that we're re-airing with Marni's ORIGINAL winggirl, Natela Valentin. In this oldie but goodie, Natela tells us what it actually means to be yourself and why it's so attractive. We also chat about HOW to have great conversations with women so that you don't get stuck in interview mode and we also also get the goods on HOW to be seen as a multi-dimensional man. 
December 25, 2020
Ep. 370 Eliminating Dating Road Blocks
Dominey Drew is back and here to help you get to the bottom of WHY you have the struggles with women that you do - things like shyness, approach anxiety, inability to meet women etc. She is going to give you the tools you need to eliminate those road blocks so you can get on the road to dating that is wide open, free and clear.
December 18, 2020
Ep. 369 What Women In Their 20's Find Attractive
This week, we have hot, young (20 something) single Abby on the show to give us the inside scoop on what dating in your 20's is like right now, how it's changed with COVID, what to expect and how to do it successfully. She's also here to talk about approaching - what has and has not worked for her and her friends when they're out and about and how to win her over with a killer smile.  For more dating help, go to and
December 11, 2020
Ep. 368 Building Confidence and Approaching like a PRO
Confidence is not some elusive thing that can never be realized. It's achievable if you're willing to put in the hard work. And, this week, we have Akeem Griffiths, runner up of Big Brother UK to walk us through, step by step, how to achieve the confidence you deserve. He also gives us the goods on how to successfully approach so you can start connecting with the women that YOU want.  Need hands-on help you with confidence or approaching? We're here to help.
December 04, 2020
Bonus Episode: Is Being Bald SEXY to Women?
This is a short little bonus episode where Kristen and I discuss the female POV on hair loss.   Special guest: Andrew from the Bosley Team :)
November 30, 2020
Ep. 367 How to Ask for What you WANT
You don’t get what you want without asking for it. It's time to STOP sabotaging yourself and Brad DeMint, host of the How to Win podcast and a killer salesman is here to tell us how. Brad gives us the goods on how to ask for what you want but also how to figure out what it is that you even want in the first place.
November 27, 2020
Ep. 366 Everything MASCULINITY
In honor of International Men's Day, this episode is ALL about men and masculinity. Mark Sing is back to tell us how to harness that manly side of yours and how to use it to your benefit to make your dating life go from zero to hero. 
November 20, 2020
Ep. 365 How to be a Man with Swagger
Looking your best is a necessity if you want to turn the volume up on your dating game and Jon Shanahan from is here to talk about just HOW to do that. This episode, tune in for men's grooming, fashion, style and how to start forming your own if you're lost in the cargo shorts jungle. Guest: Jon Shanahan
November 13, 2020
Ep. 364 What Makes a Relationship WORK
This episode is all about how to FIND that spark and how to KEEP that spark alive. Anne McCarthy from the Twisted History podcast is here to tell us all about what attracted to her husband many years ago and how they still keep making people jealous with their love today. 
November 06, 2020
Ep. 363 How to be UNIQUE and Stand Out From Other Men
Instead of looking at your limitations as a flaw, look at them as a gift and the thing that makes you UNIQUE. This week, Mindie Kniss of Lucra, a coaching firm devoted to helping entrepreneurs create wealth in all areas of life, joins us to talk about her late husband and HOW, despite his stature, won her affection and more importantly, her heart and mind.  Mindie also talks to us about re-finding passion for yourself and your dating life so you can get back out there with the zest you once had.  Guest: Mindie Kniss
October 30, 2020
Ep. 362 Seductive Conversations and How To Get “the Goods” (Josh Spodek)
Joshua Spodek, best selling author and 3x TEDx speaker joins the show this week to teach us how to seduce and get what what you want, not only in the bedroom, but also in life. Joshua takes Kristen through a mock-convo/date to reveal just how he does it, moment by moment, step by step. Guest Josh Spodek
October 22, 2020
Ep. 361 How to use LANGUAGE to attract women
We use language every day but take for granted how powerful it can be if used right. This week, Spencer Burnett is back to use his language to teach you how to use YOUR language, not only to get the girl, but to ALSO build your confidence and self worth. Once those qualities are realized, there's no stopping you from getting everything you want.  Guest: Spencer Barnett
October 16, 2020
Ep. 360 HOW to keep women OFF a pedestal | Guest Jaime Hass
Doing whatever a woman wants is NOT how you win her affection. And, this week, transformational guide Jaime Haas is here to teach us how to stop pleasing and appeasing women so that you can break patterns that keep you from getting the things that you want in your dating life. Guest: Jaime Hass
October 09, 2020
Ep. 359 Style that will make her DROOL
This week, Marni and Kristen discuss a networking event they attended where all the men were dressed like MEN. But, not just any men. SMART, SOPHISTICATED and most importantly SEXY men. Listen to the ladies as they break down HOW to dress to make her go goo-goo, WHY it makes them so giddy and WHAT you need to start making the sidewalk your runway. 
October 02, 2020
Ep. 358 How To Impress Women With Your Home
On today's episode we dive into interior design. A topic we've rarely talked about even though it holds huge importance.  We're not talking about the size of your home or how expensive it is.  We're talking about the state of your home and why that's so important to women.  Our guest Carla Sofia tells us everything you need to know to make your home inviting and exciting to women Guest: Carla Sofia
September 25, 2020