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Ask Women Podcast: What Women Want

Ask Women Podcast: What Women Want

By Marni Kinrys & Kristen Carney

What do a female comic and a professional wing girl have in common? The realistically raw and hilarious perspectives on what women ACTUALLY want in a man. Prepare to be offended and awed as Marni Kinrys & Kristen Carney take you through the uncensored and often ridiculous mind of a woman to help you better understand, appreciate, and avoid getting punched by the next girl you come across. Wanna Ask The Girls A Question? Send your questions to ask@askwomenpodcast.com and check out our other dating tools and advice: https://www.winggirlmethod.com and Kristencarney.com/datinghelp
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Sex, Sex and More Sex *Throwback Episode*
Sex, Sex and More Sex *Throwback Episode*
In this steamy throwback episode, Dr. Susan Cambell, author of "Everything Great Sex Book" talks to us about all this sex. How to talk about it, how to do it well, how to get her into things you'd like to try, kink and so much more. 
48:42
November 25, 2022
All Stages of Dating *Throwback Ep*
All Stages of Dating *Throwback Ep*
Tripp Kramer is here to give us all of his wisdom about all stages of dating - from the very beginning moments up until and past making a full commitment. He also talks about how to share your non negotiables in a palatable way so you don’t scare her off.
51:54
November 11, 2022
Ep. 451 Break What is Holding You Back
Ep. 451 Break What is Holding You Back
Whether it's anxiety around women, low self-esteem, bad past experiences, all of these things can have a tremendous impact on your dating life. And, until you address those issues, you may stay stuck in a cycle of dating failures. On this week's episode, Marni's friend Meaghan Bose, a past nurse now working outside of Western medicine, is here to talk about how to transform the way you see the world and your life through Bio-Tuning, which is a technique to heal and bring forth one’s abilities and capabilities to get your heart, mind and spirit in the right place for a fulfilling dating life. 
35:29
November 04, 2022
Ep. 450 Eliminating Past Trauma
Ep. 450 Eliminating Past Trauma
This week, we’re talking past traumas, how they effect your dating life and eliminating them with 4x Emmy Award winning journalist turned Healer, Frank Elaridi.
42:20
October 28, 2022
Ep. 449 Boosting Your Testosterone Naturally
Ep. 449 Boosting Your Testosterone Naturally
Increasing your testosterone naturally has so many benefits. On this week’s episode, we have Fitness Specialist, Nick Soulias on to talk about how to do it and why it’s so beneficial. We also talk about the best ways to start toning your body so you can go out into the dating world feeling rejuvenated and great about yourself.
47:57
October 22, 2022
Simple Way to Increase Your Sex Appeal *THROWBACK*
Simple Way to Increase Your Sex Appeal *THROWBACK*
This week, we have ex-NBA player Paul Shirley on to talk about sex appeal and the quickest way to increase it.
46:16
October 14, 2022
Ep. 448 Dating After Divorce
Ep. 448 Dating After Divorce
This week we have on Rob Roseman, the founder of WTFDivorce.com, a resource for those finding their way after breaking the knot. We talk about when you're ready to start dating, HOW to start dating, building up your confidence after exiting a marriage, how and when to talk about your marriage with a potential partner, clubs that are great to join so you don't feel like you're in this alone and so many more things that will help you find your footing in this new single world, FULL of opportunities. 
49:20
October 07, 2022
Ep. 447 3 Most Important Things to Know as a Man
Ep. 447 3 Most Important Things to Know as a Man
In this week's episode, we talk to Daniel Kilburn, disaster management planner. His expertise in this area can help significantly in relationships and dating. He talks to us about how to be a congruent communicator, how to be an effective leader and having vulnerability as a man. *Please note, this episode was taped several weeks before Hurricane Ian. Our thoughts and prayers go out to those effected by this disaster. To donate, please go to https://www.redcross.org/donate/hurricane-ian-donations.html/
30:09
September 30, 2022
Ep. 446 ALL PENIS TALK
Ep. 446 ALL PENIS TALK
Shane, the founder of JoyMode, a sexual performance enhancer supplement is here to talk about your the benefits your "member" will experience by adding Joymode into your repertoire. We also talk about why supplements over pills may be a better option for you, especially if you're younger. 
27:55
September 25, 2022
Ep. 445 Using JEALOUSY to Enhance Your Love Life
Ep. 445 Using JEALOUSY to Enhance Your Love Life
Everyone thinks of jealousy as a bad thing. But, this week, we have return guest Mali Apple, co-author of The Soulmate Experience on to talk about how jealousy can be used to turn up the heat in your relationship and bring out more passion. We also discuss all the other ways jealousy can be used to help you in your dating life - whether single, dating or in the friend-zone. 
36:43
September 17, 2022
Ep. 444 How to Select the RIGHT Partner
Ep. 444 How to Select the RIGHT Partner
This week, we talk about how to select a partner that is going to be right for you in the long run, which often includes seeking out similar values and knowing what yours are first. We also talk with our guest Jen, a school psychologist, about how using the psychology of children can be helpful when communicating with your partner - because deep down, we're all still just kids. 
41:35
September 10, 2022
Ep. 443 Why you SHOULDN'T be into the hottest Woman
Ep. 443 Why you SHOULDN'T be into the hottest Woman
Founder of The School of Attraction and The Dangerous Man, Damien Diecke is on this week to talk about why the hottest woman in the room isn't always the one you want to talk to and how in turn, that could make you more intriguing to her, even though that's not the goal. That would just be an added benefit.. We also talk about having confidence WITH integrity and what to do when you've been working on yourself and you're just not seeing the results you're looking for. 
53:51
September 02, 2022
Ep. 442 Dating Older(ish) Women
Ep. 442 Dating Older(ish) Women
More and more it seems that young men are finding women a bit older than themselves appealing. This week, we have Marcela Alonso on to talk about how to date an “older” women, the benefits of doing so and why it might be your way in to getting a gorgeous woman you may not be able to get as easily at your own age.
30:40
August 26, 2022
Ep. 441 What Your Body Language is Saying
Ep. 441 What Your Body Language is Saying
This week we have Brian from the Fearless Man diving into how to use your body language to communicate and how to communicate what’s going on inside without using words to express it. We’re also going to give you tips on how to not let rejection bother you so much so you can keep moving forward in your dating life and not get held back by fear.
47:57
August 19, 2022
Show Her Your Best Self
Show Her Your Best Self
When you spread yourself thin and try to be what you think you should be rather than what you actually are, you push the right people away and bring the wrong people in. Robyn Downs from The Feel Good Effect Podcast is here to talk about how to be the REAL you and bring out the best parts of you, the 20% of of you, which is all you really need. 
37:13
August 12, 2022
Ep. 440 STOP Chasing and Start Choosing
Ep. 440 STOP Chasing and Start Choosing
This week's episode is jam-packed with GREAT information on how to stop chasing women and start choosing them instead. Our guest, Dating Coach Elsa Moreck is going to give you all you need to know to flip from the seeker to the sought. She's also going to talk to us about getting rid of that "nice guy label" and pick up the "bad boy" label instead. 
45:48
August 04, 2022
How to Be an AMAZING Lover
How to Be an AMAZING Lover
Are you full of inhibitions in the bedroom? Well, stop. Let yourself be free to express what you want. Caitlyn V is here to tell us to open up to your partner so you can get everything you want out of love making. But, she's also going to tell us how to make your partner just as comfortable to open up as you so you BOTH can have a mind blowing experience. 
48:45
August 02, 2022
How Not to Be a Pushover with Women *Throwback Episode*
How Not to Be a Pushover with Women *Throwback Episode*
In this throwback episode, we talk all about how to set boundaries with women. As a nice or caring guy, this may be something that you struggle doing. That's why Karen Brody is going to tell us how to not to get walked over, yet still be an inviting guy that women want to be around. 
34:25
July 22, 2022
How Alpha M Became an Alpha *Throwback Episode*
How Alpha M Became an Alpha *Throwback Episode*
In this classic episode, the successful lifestyle guru, Alpha M is on to share with us how he got where he is today, how he met his wife, how being bold lead him to her and so much more. 
37:21
July 15, 2022
Ep. 439 SEXTING
Ep. 439 SEXTING
This week, we have Amber Sweetheart on who is not only known for her amazing body, but also for her sexting abilities. She's going to tell us all the do's and don'ts and how to's on escalating in text. 
26:03
July 01, 2022
Ep. 438 The BEST Profile Photos
Ep. 438 The BEST Profile Photos
This week, Kristen and guest and Dating App Photographer Joe Buchoff go DEEP on what makes great dating profile photos. They talk about facial expressions, angles, clothing, how to try hard WITHOUT looking like you're trying hard, how to get these photos, using photos to filter out the wrong women and so much more. Even if you're not the most handsome guy on the planet, the right photos of you WILL get you matches, and more importantly, the matches you're looking for. 
50:54
June 24, 2022
Ep. 437 Why Sex IS and ISN'T Pleasing Her
Ep. 437 Why Sex IS and ISN'T Pleasing Her
This week's episode is PACKED with data and information about why things are or aren't going great in the bedroom and how to fix it when it isn't. Melanie B Curtin, a Sex and Relationship coach shares tons of the facts she's gathered over the years of what doesn't please a woman and what does. She teaches us how to make sex great for her and how to talk about it so a woman feels comfortable communicating with you about what she wants and doesn't want. 
01:01:51
June 16, 2022
Ep. 436 Dating App Hacks
Ep. 436 Dating App Hacks
Head of marketing at OK Cupid, Melissa Hobley, is here to give us the inside scoop on all the "techy" things you need to know about dating apps so you can get the MOST out of them. She talks algorithms, how to get seen by more women, tricks to do with your photos and bio to get more exposure and so many more things that will help you get to the proverbial front of the line, online.  
43:11
June 10, 2022
Ep. 435 Winning Over Picky Women
Ep. 435 Winning Over Picky Women
Elisa Jordana from Kermit and Friends (Howard Stern) is not only super hot, she’s FULL of personality. And, that means, she has her pick when it comes to men. And, she’s going to give us the insider info on what men she finds attractive and WHY they stand out to her. Check out this episode if you want to learn how to be one of those few men intriguing enough for a hard to get woman to take notice.
31:39
June 03, 2022
Ep. 434 High Status Humor
Ep. 434 High Status Humor
This week we have Devon from Socialfluency on to talk about “High Status Humor” which women find so attractive. We shared his tricks of the trade and many insights on how to transform your communication skills from flat or silly to sophisticated and refined to move yourself either the career ladder or the dating ladder. https://www.socialfluency.com/confidencesignals?fpr=marni74
49:45
May 27, 2022
Ep. 433 Investigating How People Date
Ep. 433 Investigating How People Date
The hosts of the podcast "This is Dating", Jessie Baker and Hiwote Getaneh join the show to talk about their fascinating podcast that follows 4 DATERS through all the swiping, the dinners, the disappointments, the techniques, the kisses and the misses and everything in between to find the loves of their lives. They give great advice on do's and do not's and how to navigate your way through this modern dating world as best as possible. 
36:35
May 20, 2022
Ep. 432 Does Size Matter?
Ep. 432 Does Size Matter?
This week, we’re talking all about your friend, “Mr. Johnson.” We have Dr. Mohit Khera to talk to us about erectile dysfunction, if size matters and how to WORK OUT YOUR PENIS. Yes, you read that right… WORK OUT your penis. You and your man downstairs don’t want to miss this one.
24:18
May 13, 2022
Ep. 432 Two Magical Tools to Eliminate Anxiety with Women
Ep. 432 Two Magical Tools to Eliminate Anxiety with Women
Want approach anxiety GONE? Want the fear of rejection GONE? This week, one of Marni's Winggirls, Traci Bermingham, is here to talk about those magic tools that will help you avoid your "triggering points" that send you straight back into your shell. It's all about getting your brain running on "new software" rather than the old, outdated brain "software" that is no longer serving you, or was never serving you to begin with, so you can get out of your head and into hers. 
27:55
May 06, 2022
Ep. 431 Jealousy and How Not to Be THAT Guy
Ep. 431 Jealousy and How Not to Be THAT Guy
A little jelousy is healthy. But, too much? That's a no-no. Women will shut down and get turned off. So, this week, we talk about how to healthily curb your jealousy and even how it use it to make things more exciting.  
38:14
April 29, 2022
Rerun - Ep. 140 How To Approach Women And Ask For Dates (1/21/16)
Rerun - Ep. 140 How To Approach Women And Ask For Dates (1/21/16)
Approach anxiety is one of the most common problems for men when it comes to getting the women they want. This throwback episode is here to help save you from yourself and will help you overcome that needless fear of how to she reacts to you. With guidance on how to approach and ask for dates, you'll be equipped with what you need to approach with confidence. 
57:59
April 22, 2022
Ep. 430 Getting Kinky
Ep. 430 Getting Kinky
Lia Holmgren, relationship coach and the queen of kink talks to us about how to take it up a BIGGGGG notch in the bedroom. She tells us how to smoothly introduce your fantasies and how to get her interested in them. She also tells us how to talk sexy in the bedroom WITHOUT the boring cliches.
35:09
April 15, 2022
Ep. 429 What are Her Expectations
Ep. 429 What are Her Expectations
Knowing what someone is looking for and what they’re going to be like in a committed relationship BEFORE going on a date with them can sometimes be hard to discuss. You’re too busy establishing a fun and flirty experience to get her to say yes to a date in the first place. Jumping into heavy talk with some serious questions in the beginning can be tricky and you want to make sure you’re both on the same page. So, we have Russ Haywood on, the creator of the dating app “Can We”, to talk about how his app does all the heavy lifting for you so you can show up to a date knowing exactly what she’ll be looking for now and down the road. We also discuss how to ask about those expectations if you haven’t gotten onto his app yet and are in this little predicament currently.
50:03
April 08, 2022
Ep. 428 How to Open Her Up Sexually
Ep. 428 How to Open Her Up Sexually
Are you curious about sex from a woman's perspective but have a hard time knowing what to bring up? It's easy to feel clueless and nervous when you're trying to figure out how to open women up sexually. And it can be really awkward when you try to figure it out without talking about it. Sex therapist, Dr. Laurie Watson, is here to teach you what you need to do as a man, what women need, and how to open a woman up sexually. .
41:37
April 01, 2022
Ep. 427 EVERYTHING Online Dating
Ep. 427 EVERYTHING Online Dating
If you've ever online dated, you know it can feel like a full time job. Luckily for you, Jamie Date from Modern Flirting is going to teach you how to make your profile stand out so you can jump to the front of the line. We talk what kinds of pictures to have, what great bios look like and how to kill it at conversation so you can get out from behind the screen and meet IN PERSON. 
39:14
March 25, 2022
Ep. 426 NEVER End Up in the Friend Zone
Ep. 426 NEVER End Up in the Friend Zone
This week, Mike Harts, from Harts Centered Coaching gives us such GREAT insight on WHY men keep ending up in the dreaded friend zone. But more importantly he gives us the goods on how to never end up there in the first place. But, if it's too late, and you're already there, Mike lets us in on how to get out of it and stay out of it for good. Don't miss out on all this top-notch advice you won't get anywhere else.
35:50
March 18, 2022
Ep. 425 How to Talk about Uncomfortable Things
Ep. 425 How to Talk about Uncomfortable Things
This week we have Jenelle Marie Pierce from the STIProject.com to talk about how to share those uncomfortable things with the person you're seeing - things like STI's, STD's and even things that aren't contagious. She gives us great tips on how to keep someone interested even when you've got a little secret to share. So listen if this is something you've struggled with or even if you haven't. They're so common that you may in the future. Don't miss out on these tips and tricks. 
43:09
March 11, 2022
Ep. 424 Dating After Divorce
Ep. 424 Dating After Divorce
Are you recently divorced or going through a separation and don't know where to start when it comes to dating? I’m so excited for this week’s podcast episode with Eric Payne, host of the Dating After Divorce Podcast. He got divorced in 2015 then wandered around in the aftermath as a lost, emotional mess. He'll help you turn divorce or separation into a springboard to discover yourself and find love (possibly even for the first time). This week, he's here to talk about how to get through divorce and how to know when you're ready to start dating again!!
49:24
March 04, 2022
Ep. 423 How to Approach a GROUP of Women
Ep. 423 How to Approach a GROUP of Women
Want to know how to approach a group of women and get the number of the one you're attracted to? So many guys I know struggle with approaching a group of girls to get phone numbers. And even when they DO get her number, she quickly loses interest. If you've ever struggled approaching groups of women, securing a phone number, and maintaining her interest in you, make sure to listen to this week’s podcast episode with Kosmo! You may have heard him as a guest in my Masterclass 5 months ago on How to Meet Women. This week on the Ask Women podcast, you'll learn all of Kosmo's secrets on how to effortlessly, seamlessly, and effectively approach a group of people, get a specific girl's number, and keep her interest!!
32:07
February 25, 2022
Ep. 422 How to Authentically Interact with Gorgeous Women
Ep. 422 How to Authentically Interact with Gorgeous Women
Ever wonder how guys who are constantly surrounded by gorgeous, gorgeous women interact with them without stumbling and freezing? So many guys I know struggle with staying true to themselves when they meet a woman who they believe is out of their league. This is why I’m so excited for this week’s podcast episode with Nigel Barker. Best known as the judge of America's Next Top Model, he’s always surrounded by models and society's elite! Listen closely to hear Nigel share his secrets on how to interact with "perfect 10s" ...even while having imposter syndrome!!
41:09
February 18, 2022
Ep. 421 How To Communicate With Women
Ep. 421 How To Communicate With Women
Is there something you want to say to a woman you’re dating but you don't know how to say it?? So many guys I know have something they want but they just don't know how to ask for it without coming off