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Let’s Fucking Talk

Let’s Fucking Talk

By Lauren Ashley

Let’s fucking talk - about the real stuff, the sad stuff, the annoying stuff, the amazing stuff and everything in between. I’m hoping my struggles, thoughts, feelings, and opinions might help you feel more understood and a little less crazy. We are getting real over here so come with an open heart and mind!

Follow my Instagram page @evolvewithlauren for my life coaching services and more content ❤️

Intro song by Michael Steinbrenner @whaledemar
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85. GUEST INTERVIEW: JUSTIN B-THE PRIDE EPISODE 🌈

Let’s Fucking TalkJun 27, 2023

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85. GUEST INTERVIEW: JUSTIN B-THE PRIDE EPISODE 🌈

85. GUEST INTERVIEW: JUSTIN B-THE PRIDE EPISODE 🌈

This episode’s guest is so special and wonderful. We have a beautiful conversation about queerness, some of the challenges that comes with, religion, and the laws impacting this community in Florida.
Jun 27, 202301:18:31
83. HAVE YOU EVER RELAPSED FROM YOUR HEALING JOURNEY?

83. HAVE YOU EVER RELAPSED FROM YOUR HEALING JOURNEY?

Trigger warning: suicide - this episode is a glimpse into the personification of “healing is not linear”. It’s not all bad though - I guide us through some potential keys to help us through these times.
Feb 07, 202327:58
82. HAVE YOU BEEN CRYING SINCE JANUARY 1st TOO?

82. HAVE YOU BEEN CRYING SINCE JANUARY 1st TOO?

We are back from the holiday break! I cover all things life updates and let you in on why 2023 has already been a hell of a year.
Jan 17, 202341:03
81. DO ALL ROADS LEAD TO DADDY ISSUES?

81. DO ALL ROADS LEAD TO DADDY ISSUES?

In this episode I’m shining a light on the struggles I face surrounding weight, health, and general wellness. This is a two part episode where you’ll hear my thought process before therapy and then after a therapy session!
Dec 20, 202201:03:41
80. STORY TIME, ORGASMS, TOYS?

80. STORY TIME, ORGASMS, TOYS?

This episode is reminiscent of the first day of their podcast where I was really willing to talk about anything and everything without awareness of how many people are listening. We are talking about the female orgasm and prioritizing pleasure!
Dec 13, 202237:36
79. WTF IS A HEALED MASCULINE OR FEMININE?

79. WTF IS A HEALED MASCULINE OR FEMININE?

We are talking about the seemingly trending topic of masculine and feminine energies and making it something a little less elusive. We also talk about different ways to view family planning and our futures.
Dec 06, 202239:12
BONUS EPISODE: AN UNHINGED, MICRO-DOSED STREAM OF CONSCIOUSNESS

BONUS EPISODE: AN UNHINGED, MICRO-DOSED STREAM OF CONSCIOUSNESS

The title is self explanatory
Dec 04, 202224:32
78. WHY, AS AN ADULT, ARE YOU LYING?

78. WHY, AS AN ADULT, ARE YOU LYING?

This week we are talking about avoiding people who are fresh out of relationships and the epidemic of dishonesty.
Nov 29, 202226:37
77. DO YOU FEEL SAD FOR SINGLE PEOPLE?

77. DO YOU FEEL SAD FOR SINGLE PEOPLE?

In this weeks’ episode I tell you my experience with speed dating. Spoiler alert- it wasn’t good 🫠. We also get into a pattern I’ve seen of people being sad for me because I’m single when I have not given any indicator of being sad myself. And lastly a sober October recap!
Nov 22, 202245:18
76. HAVE YOU TRIED DATING YOUR FRIENDS?

76. HAVE YOU TRIED DATING YOUR FRIENDS?

This might not be what you think. If you're like me and you're overflowing with love to give but you're single - this episode will give you some ideas on where to put all that love of yours.
Nov 15, 202236:52
75. IS IT A SIGN OR ARE YOU BEING TESTED?

75. IS IT A SIGN OR ARE YOU BEING TESTED?

Have you been seeing their name everywhere? Hearing their favorite song on the radio? What if I told you it’s a test and not a “sign”?
Nov 08, 202229:48
74. ARE YOU CHOOSING YOUR SUFFERING?

74. ARE YOU CHOOSING YOUR SUFFERING?

Just here in a beautiful state of flow and sharing my breakthroughs and realizations. ❤️
Nov 01, 202228:36
73. ARE YOU REALLY INTEGRATING YOUR HEALING?

73. ARE YOU REALLY INTEGRATING YOUR HEALING?

It feels like I’m waking up from a year long nap. I made some huge strides in my healing this week and think many of you will resonate with it.
Oct 25, 202227:42
72. IS CASUAL SEX REALLY THAT CASUAL?

72. IS CASUAL SEX REALLY THAT CASUAL?

As someone who has always been very open about sexuality and sexual exploration, I’ve been thinking a lot about the idea of casual sex and how it goes or doesn’t fit into the energy I’m cultivating recently.
Oct 18, 202225:34
71. WHERE ARE MY CODEPENDENT PEOPLE AT?

71. WHERE ARE MY CODEPENDENT PEOPLE AT?

If you struggling with feeling stuck, feeling like your life has been on pause, and you’re also a recovering codependent you’re going to love this one!
Oct 11, 202228:09
70. OK, BUT DO YOU KNOW YOUR APOLOGY LANGUAGE?

70. OK, BUT DO YOU KNOW YOUR APOLOGY LANGUAGE?

We’ve all heard of love languages but do you know your apology language? I go over my new discoveries both in my love languages and apology languages.
Sep 13, 202237:46
69. HOW DO YOU CHOOSE A PARTNER?

69. HOW DO YOU CHOOSE A PARTNER?

Somewhat of a part 2 of last weeks episode… uncovering another layer of thoughts and feelings I’ve had the last few weeks. This time we’re talking about the importance of choosing the right partner!
Sep 06, 202240:30
68. DO YOU HATE YOUR CORPORATE JOB?

68. DO YOU HATE YOUR CORPORATE JOB?

Is anyone else having an existential crisis about the way society is set up and the jobs we work? If so - SAME. Here’s an episode to help you feel a little more grounded and a little less helpless.
Aug 26, 202231:49
67. AN ABORTION STORY

67. AN ABORTION STORY

It’s been exactly a year since my last episode. For the last 6 months I have had a nagging feeling to record this exact episode but I was feeling very vulnerable and frankly not ready to make something so personal and private a public story. Unfortunately my private story has now become a National crisis and I feel responsible to share my story.
Jul 05, 202201:04:14
66. SHE IS HAVING AN EXISTENTIAL CRISIS

66. SHE IS HAVING AN EXISTENTIAL CRISIS

On this week’s episode I talk about yet another change to the podcast and the reality of the state of the podcast. I also talk about honesty and periods to remain on brand, ofcourse.
Jul 06, 202131:30
65. GUEST INTERVIEW: ASHLEE & NICK PEREZ - THE HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP EPISODE

65. GUEST INTERVIEW: ASHLEE & NICK PEREZ - THE HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP EPISODE

She’s baaaaack! You get all up to date on me and my several melt downs and wins since we last talked. Most importantly I finally interview my best friend Ashlee and her husband Nick - aka my favorite couple - on what a healthy relationship in this era requires.
Jun 29, 202101:07:12
64. LEAVE JOE ROGAN ALONE

64. LEAVE JOE ROGAN ALONE

On this week's episode I return after almost losing my life to jet lag. We get into why people don't know how to act like humans on planes, the ridiculousness of cancel culture, my dad aka Joe Rogan, and a hypothesis on why men cheat. 

May 25, 202133:59
63. NO, WE CANNOT CHILL “SOME TIME”.

63. NO, WE CANNOT CHILL “SOME TIME”.

In this week’s episode I talk about all my fears of dating and the way we have evolved to fear human interaction. Your girl is not ready to date but I deeply fear for my future. We also get into all the ways social media has impacted relationships. After this episode, you’ll never want to date again. Enjoy!
May 11, 202140:28
62. WHEN DID I BECOME A STUFFY OLD LADY?

62. WHEN DID I BECOME A STUFFY OLD LADY?

This week’s episode we talk about my weekly depression stints, becoming an 85 year old woman suddenly, and periods! Need I say more?
May 04, 202146:05
61. COUPLES THERAPY, ANYONE?!

61. COUPLES THERAPY, ANYONE?!

On this episode we are talking about the common themes that cause relationship struggles. This was inspired by an incredible show on Amazon Prime called “couples therapy”. I also asked you all a question on Instagram regarding the issues you’ve faced in your own relationships which I respond to on here. Enjoy and follow me at @evolvewithlauren for more content!
Apr 27, 202146:49
60. GUEST INTERVIEW: TORI “THE RETIRED PARTY GIRL” - WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO BE CONSCIOUSLY SINGLE?

60. GUEST INTERVIEW: TORI “THE RETIRED PARTY GIRL” - WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO BE CONSCIOUSLY SINGLE?

On this week’s episode the wonderful Tori aka “The retired party girl” returns! We talk about how her last appearance on the podcast changed the way I view alcohol and we talk about being consciously single. We dive into the ways childhood traumas show themselves in relationships and how to make decisions to love ourselves. You can find Tori on Instagram @theretiredpartygirl
Apr 13, 202151:19
59. BE THOUGHTFUL AND ALSO MIND YOUR BUSINESS, YA KNOW?

59. BE THOUGHTFUL AND ALSO MIND YOUR BUSINESS, YA KNOW?

In this week’s episode we cover a few random topics all with the under lying theme of being a little more thoughtful, intentional, and kind. *Trigger Warning* this episode covers the topic of suicide which may be triggering to some people.
Apr 06, 202150:32
58. STORY TIME: HOW MANY TIMES CAN ONE PERSON GET LOCKJAW?

58. STORY TIME: HOW MANY TIMES CAN ONE PERSON GET LOCKJAW?

On this week’s episode I am here to invite you to laugh at my pain. This one is a story time episode of the two different occasions I’ve experienced full blown lockjaw. It ain’t cute but it sure as hell is funny.
Mar 30, 202128:54
57. I HAVE TO DEAL WITH MY GRANDMA’S TRAUMAS?

57. I HAVE TO DEAL WITH MY GRANDMA’S TRAUMAS?

On this weeks episode we talk about getting curious about our anxiety to further explore ourselves and our limiting beliefs. We also get into “intergenerational trauma”. If you’ve never heard that term, I’m about to throw you for a real loop. Our work as humans seems to just keep adding up but it’s all for the greater good!
Mar 23, 202138:07
56. DADDY ISSUES

56. DADDY ISSUES

On this week’s episode we cover my most recent emotional meltdown and then we dive into what makes me, me - my daddy issues. We talk about healing relationships with a parent and giving themselves and ourselves some grace.
Mar 16, 202159:03
55. IS THERE A DARK ENTITY IN MY CLOSET?

55. IS THERE A DARK ENTITY IN MY CLOSET?

In this weeks’ episode I finally talk about this mystery in my life I’ve been eluding to. We dive into the negative energy trapped in my closet and my journey of spirituality. We also talk about people who make fake plans and all the wonderful things that have come from my life coaching certification.
Mar 09, 202135:35
54. BE BRAVE AND STOP LYING

54. BE BRAVE AND STOP LYING

On this weeks’ episode I’m back to talking shit by myself in a closet! It’s been a very interesting few weeks and I’m talking about some themes in my life currently. We’re talking depression, being brave, and why we all have to be honest!
Feb 23, 202144:06
53. GUEST INTERVIEW: STEVE TELLEFSEN - AN ULTIMATE LESSON IN POSITIVITY AND STRENGTH

53. GUEST INTERVIEW: STEVE TELLEFSEN - AN ULTIMATE LESSON IN POSITIVITY AND STRENGTH

On this week’s episode I am beyond honored to have Steve Tellefsen. He is a cancer survivor and has one of the most heartbreaking yet inspiring stories you will ever hear. After multiple bouts with cancer and brain tumors he is on the road to recovery and is a lesson for us all in mindset, strength, and positivity. Steve has a documentary coming out which I will be promoting on my Instagram @letsfuckingtalk and you can follow Steve for his recovery journey @telly_tell1710
Feb 16, 202135:23
52. BONUS EPISODE - DO NOT BUY DRUGSTORE VALENTINES GIFTS

52. BONUS EPISODE - DO NOT BUY DRUGSTORE VALENTINES GIFTS

Happy Valentine’s Day - or not! I wanted to drop in to make sure everyone is having a beautiful Sunday and keeping things in perspective. For couples, I dive into gift giving - especially for men. Remember at the end of the day, I love you!
Feb 14, 202122:10
51. GUEST INTERVIEW: CHRISTIAN VIVO - HONESTY IS THE BEST POLICY

51. GUEST INTERVIEW: CHRISTIAN VIVO - HONESTY IS THE BEST POLICY

On this weeks’ episode we have producer and artist Christian aka Vivo. We talk about honesty, relationships, and growth. Another wonderful human proving to us that not all man are bad 😇 You can find Christian on Instagram @turnmeupvivo and his music page @losbrigados !
Feb 09, 202152:01
50. THANK YOU FOR LISTENING TO ME FOR 50 WEEKS!

50. THANK YOU FOR LISTENING TO ME FOR 50 WEEKS!

On this week’s (50th!) episode, I bring on our favorite guest and my biggest supporter, Emery Morales. To switch things up for the big 5-0 Emery interviewed me this week and asked some pretty deep and wonderful questions. You can find Emery on Instagram @pancakelands
Feb 02, 202159:13
49. GUEST INTERVIEW - SIRENA ABALIAN: DOES OUR INNER CHILD KNOW BEST?

49. GUEST INTERVIEW - SIRENA ABALIAN: DOES OUR INNER CHILD KNOW BEST?

On this week’s interview we have the wonderful Sirena Abalian. She is a mindset mentor and public speaker. We discuss the importance of loving and valuing our inner child as well as how Sirena stepped into her calling. You can find today’s wonderful guest on Instagram @sirenaabalian as well as her free course!
Jan 26, 202101:06:46
48. GUEST INTERVIEW: EMERY - CULTS, SEXUALLY ABUSIVE SHAMANS, AND TAROT CARD READERS

48. GUEST INTERVIEW: EMERY - CULTS, SEXUALLY ABUSIVE SHAMANS, AND TAROT CARD READERS

On this week’s episode I am joined by my best friend Emery to discuss the negative experiences we’ve had on our journey to spirituality. Trigger warning - This episode contains a story of sexual assault. You can find Emery on Instagram @pancakelands
Jan 19, 202101:26:18
47. GUEST INTERVIEW: NICOLETTE - IS SPIRITUALITY JUST QUANTUM PHYSICS?

47. GUEST INTERVIEW: NICOLETTE - IS SPIRITUALITY JUST QUANTUM PHYSICS?

And we’re back! After a much needed two week break, I am back with a fun story about a hitting a disabled man, but more importantly an amazing interviewing with Nicolette who is a holistic healer! This week’s episode is the first of a two part deep-dive into spirituality and it’s positive and negative aspects. You can find today’s guest on Instagram @Nicoletteoxo
Jan 12, 202101:08:35
46. BONUS EPISODE - MERRY CHRISTMAS FROM YOUR FAVORITE HO, HO, HO

46. BONUS EPISODE - MERRY CHRISTMAS FROM YOUR FAVORITE HO, HO, HO

I decided to do a bonus Christmas episode! Am I real podcaster yet?! I know some of you may need some relief from family or loneliness and I am here for you. I hope this brings you a little joy today ✨
Dec 25, 202037:01
45. I AM BOYCOTTING FACETUNE AND ANSWERING YOUR QUESTIONS

45. I AM BOYCOTTING FACETUNE AND ANSWERING YOUR QUESTIONS

On this week’s episode we’re back with a life update, random rants, and answers to your Instagram questions! We’re talking life paths, hustling, and most importantly boycotting the facetune app and the entire idea of editing our photos beyond the point of recognition. I love you and I want you to love you, okay?!
Dec 22, 202001:00:24
44. GUEST INTERVIEW: SEAN “THE FITNESS SHAMAN” RETURNS - THE POPE ASSIGNED COVID A GENDER?

44. GUEST INTERVIEW: SEAN “THE FITNESS SHAMAN” RETURNS - THE POPE ASSIGNED COVID A GENDER?

In this weeks episode Sean returns, as promised, to talk to me about religion! Unlike my angry rants he actually brings us facts and history to back up his opinions of religion and his own spirituality. You can find him at @fitnessshaman or he and his wife’s coaching page @dldnation.
Dec 15, 202001:08:07
43. GUEST INTERVIEW: DR PETA STAPLETON - CAN WE REALLY TAP AWAY OUR PROBLEMS?

43. GUEST INTERVIEW: DR PETA STAPLETON - CAN WE REALLY TAP AWAY OUR PROBLEMS?

On today’s episode we have the wonderful doctor and researcher Peta Stapleton from Australia! We talk about her area of expertise- tapping. Tapping is a method of therapy that it being more widely used and researched. At this point I’ll try anything and this has some really cool science behind it!
Dec 08, 202041:48
42. YOUR WORD IS YOUR BOND!

42. YOUR WORD IS YOUR BOND!

In this week’s episode I decided to do something a little different and give you a life update and tell you about what’s going on with me currently, in real time. If you’re nosey, like me, this one’s for you! 😂 I talk about my thanksgiving experience, an embarrassing turn of events in my life, and this week’s main take away - your word is your bond.
Dec 01, 202058:22
41. GUEST INTERVIEW: SEAN “THE FITNESS SHAMAN” - WHEN DO BOYS BECOME MEN?

41. GUEST INTERVIEW: SEAN “THE FITNESS SHAMAN” - WHEN DO BOYS BECOME MEN?

This week’s episode is hands down one of my favorites yet. Sean, better know as @fitnessshaman on Instagram, joins us to talk about men, growth, self awareness, relationships and more. Sean is a gym bro with an evolved mind and heart so it’s safe to say he’s a rare breed!
Nov 24, 202001:27:30
40. CATHOLIC SCHOOL FEELS A LOT LIKE HELL - PART 2

40. CATHOLIC SCHOOL FEELS A LOT LIKE HELL - PART 2

On this week’s episode your favorite topic is back! I got so much feedback on part 1 of this episode (#5) and I figured we were ready for part 2. We dive into my later years in Catholic school and all the fun trauma I experienced. If you’ve ever had an issue with my religious views discussed in previous episodes, this might help you gain some clarity!
Nov 17, 202058:14
39. WE CAN DO HARD THINGS!

39. WE CAN DO HARD THINGS!

On this week’s episode your girl is back to talking to herself! I hope you missed my rambling. I decided to answer some questions people have had about how I started and grew my podcast. Naturally this leaks into bigger topics such as accomplishing our goals and doing hard shit!
Nov 10, 202059:47
38. GUEST INTERVIEW: JESSE LYON - WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU’RE UNDER HYPNOSIS?!

38. GUEST INTERVIEW: JESSE LYON - WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU’RE UNDER HYPNOSIS?!

On this weeks’s episode we have Jesse Lyon, licensed mental health counselor and certified hypnotherapist. This conversation was so cool. We call about hypnosis, dream interpretation, mental health, and more!
Nov 03, 202001:12:36
37. GUEST INTERVIEW: TORI THE RETIRED PARTY GIRL - IMAGINE HAVING SEX SOBER?!

37. GUEST INTERVIEW: TORI THE RETIRED PARTY GIRL - IMAGINE HAVING SEX SOBER?!

On this weeks episode we are joined by Tori, the retired party girl herself! She is a powerful and wonderful young woman who has chosen sobriety and built an amazing community for sober and sober curious women.
Oct 27, 202001:01:53
36. GUEST INTERVIEW: SAMMIE FROM “THE CIRCLE” - REALITY TV, SOCIAL ANXIETY, & SEXUALITY, OH MY!

36. GUEST INTERVIEW: SAMMIE FROM “THE CIRCLE” - REALITY TV, SOCIAL ANXIETY, & SEXUALITY, OH MY!

On this weeks’ episode interview I got the gift of speaking to Sammie from the Netflix hit show, The Circle. She brings her authenticity and honesty to discuss her experience on the show, life after, her sexuality, and much more!
Oct 20, 202057:55