Real LIFE with Ray

I need to add this disclaimer really fast because I don't want to send out the wrong message.

GOD is amazing and so is church but we have to use discernment with a side of common sense when joining or visiting churches

I want to be clear I'm not bashing BLACK people but I'm sharing my experience in BLACK Churches.

Not all Black churches are BAD or performative.

The story of my Cousin Vinny, guilt, and the power of Prayer and encouragement.

Hope this helps someone.

Sorry my mistake I need 4 more women willing to tell their stories.

Why do MEN feel like a baby and a ring can take away the pain of ABUSE?

Let's discuss it 

I had a wonderful conversation/prayer with my coworkers this morning and wanted to share with you all. 

What runs in the FAMILY doesn't have to run in YOUR FAMILY.

What someone else died from in the FAMILY, doesn't mean you'll die that WAY.

Your LIFE is your LIFE, your FATE is your FATE and ONLY YOU can determine how you want to live your LIFE.

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Sooo I randomly spoke with a Verizon REP about his marriage *Yes ya'll lol* and it made me think about the actual FACT that every WOMAN has that 1 MAN she wished she had in her life. *(If he's not already there)

Let's discuss it

Wait here me out, let's discuss Kevin Samuels? 

We grow up thinking we need certain people but sometimes GOD will bring in divine relationships that's bigger & better and that's what you need to focus on. 

Is RATCHET the new Marriage and Relationship Goal?

 Is disrespecting our spouses, cursing them out, blasting them on social media the new thing now?

 Are we making this a trend? Let's Discuss 

Why are we victim blaming?

Why do victims have to have a time LIMIT on when they expose their TRAUMA and PAIN?

I am so bothered by the allegations but I am even more bothered by the people that are disrespecting the victims...

I saw a series of tweets and I had to make an episode speaking on this....

HOW far should a WOMAN go to keep a MAN and who is truly suffering in the situation?

Should a CHILD go through HELL for your HAPPINESS?

I'm SURE IN THE COOLEST PLACES IN THE WORLD IT'S SOMEONE WHO HATES LIVING THERE, AND WELL THIS IS A LITTLE BIT OF MY STORY AND WHY I LEFT SC AND WHY I'LL NEVER EVER GO BACK.

SCRIPTURE REFERENCE USED: LUKE: 16-30

MY FRIENDS AND I SIT DOWN AND DISCUSS DAD ISSUES AND HOW MUCH OF AN IMPACT IT CAN HAVE ON WOMEN. 

IT GOT SOOOO REAL IN THE END BUT I'M SURE YOU ALL WILL LOVE IT.

PART 2 IS ON THE WAY 

Why are Children rushed into Adulthood when this world is cold and cruel.

It's nothing wrong with allowing a child to be a child and helping them grow into Adulthood.

I was very jokey in this podcast episode but trust me the pain was all there and I actually cried after recording. I am so thankful that this didn't kill me, that I am forgiven, that I have done some forgiving and healed from this relationship. I think I cried because it felt good to release my story. 

If you're dating a dangerous man please LEAVE while you can and know that it will get better.

Need resources and anybody to talk to then email me elizabethrgunter@gmail.com

New Podcast coming soon and I am so excited., 

I had some people upset with me and my personal preferences so this is for YOU!!!

Ladies we don't have to accept what we're not happy with. 

Why are black creatives judged so harshly by our own people? 

Let's talk about it and LET's DO BETTER!!!

This is a very REAL & RAW conversation about how one of the most abusive relationships I've ever been in brought me to CHRIST. I pray that you gain something from my personal experience and pain.