Unlicensed
By Aaliyah Herbert and Jessica Burlew
Jessica and Aaliyah are bringing you a space to ask every and all questions, create new conversations, and give perspective to a complicated world. This is a family here, and we love you the most.
UnlicensedApr 28, 2022
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Happy PRIDE: let’s talk about it.
HAPPY THURSDAY AND HAPPY JUNE!! Pride month is a special time in our year where we can celebrate the amazing people that have loudly declared to be themselves. In this episode we discuss our opinions on labels, what pride means to aaliyah and Jessica, social media polarization, representation in film/TV, and generalizations. We hope you love it, happy pride :)
Jun 16, 202258:56
One month later: our latest challenges, different perspectives, and new beginnings
Well. We didn’t mean for an entire month to go by. SORRY! today we’re playing We’re Not Really Strangers to do a little bit of a deeper catch up and explain where we’ve been. We’re also joined by our dear friend Kelsey and we spent this episode just enjoying a good conversation that hopefully will be entertaining you for you too!!! We’re back! Love you the most!
Jun 09, 202254:57
Be a Friend, Have a Friend.
Hello hello!! This week we are recording from different locations so excuse the candid moments but this is another informal episode brought to you by life and change. Take a listen as Jessica and I dive into what it is to be a friend and how to maintain friendships while going through life changes and possible environmental shifts. We hope you enjoy, love you the most!
May 12, 202253:28
A vulnerable brain dump: catch up with us
What’s up everyone!!! This week we are doing a much needed catch up and life update. We talk about what’s been going on in our lives, the met gala, where we stand in our friendship, and how we feel about the podcast. and…. SHOP OUR MERCH!!!!!! www.bonfire.com/unlicensed/
May 05, 202241:13
The Positive Feedback Loop ft. Maddie Kelley
Hello family! This weeks episode is all about self journey and discovery through poetry. Our guest this week Maddie Kelley, a published author, spoke with us all about her book and how engaging in her true passion and taking a leap of faith has led her to true happiness! You can find Maddie on instagram @himaddiekelley and her book on amazon— What I Gave You https://www.amazon.com/dp/1637307144/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_JT6XV50QMFBRQVV0QD9D?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1. We hope you enjoy, love you the most!
Apr 28, 202201:04:05
When the friends have to intervene: with Dating Will Be The Death Of Me
Happy freaking Thursday!!!!!! This week we are joined by our new friend, Dating Will Be The Death Of Me. We talk meeting the parents, friend interventions, and things to never do on a first date. Enjoy this girl talk of us just chatting about all things relationships!
Apr 21, 202201:08:33
Unlicensed Declassified Breakup Survival Guide Pt. 2
Happy happy Thursday beautiful people! We’re back at it again with our relationship saga and this weeks topic of conversation was knowing if someone is right for you and when you know you’re ready to put yourself back into the dating scene! We hope you guys enjoy this episode and always remember a relationship is about corporation and not competition. Love you the most!!
Apr 14, 202257:20
Unlicensed Declassified Breakup Survival Guide!
Hey beautiful people and good Thursday morning! This month we are focusing on a topic that some of us are going through and many can relate to, breakups. The good, the bad and the ugly. We talk through the painful parts of breakups and share some personal testimony to hopefully ease your mind as you move through the grapevine of relationships. Love you the most!
Apr 07, 202256:17
Spirituality, Intuition and Saying Yes!
Hello beautiful people! This weeks episode is brought to you by listening to your body and learning to do things that don’t always feel “natural” in society. Our special guest Hilay took us to a new space that made us open our minds and souls to new ways of thinking. We really hope this episode hits home for you the way it did for us. Love you the most! To find out more about Hilay, visit her instagram page @hilay.co
Mar 31, 202257:36
Taking Steps to Resiliency
Happy Thursday lovely people! Today we are talking to you about something we felt was consistent in our minds this week. Breaking down different types of resilience and how to be your best self when taking these steps! We hope this resonates with you all and hope you enjoy! Love you the most.
Mar 24, 202249:16
Find out what you actually need: self care and boundaries
Happy Thursday!!!! Today we are talking about self care and boundaries by challenging the all-to-familiar culture of “bubble baths, face masks, and journaling.” We are encouraging you to take a deeper look into who you actually are to find out what you actually need. We talk routines, when to say no and when to say yes, and finding time in your day to just be. We hope you love it!
Mar 17, 202252:15
Happy March: All things women empowerment
Happy Thursday, friends! This week we are doing an entire episode on women empowerment to kick off women’s history month. We start off this episode by speaking on two influential women that we admire, and maybe bringing in a book club segment?! we talk about being better to other women: how to stop being so overly critical, and how to support each other better. We hope you enjoy, lots of love!
Mar 03, 202255:01
Getting through it together: mental health advocacy with Madeline and Bella
Happy Thursday friends! Today we had the absolute pleasure of talking to two girls who created a mental health awareness account, and found a large community of people that supports each other through their struggles. Madeline and Bella talk about why they’re passionate about mental health, and what motivated them to make their instagram account. Their stories have inspired us so much, and I can’t wait for you all to listen.
Feb 24, 202256:50
Traditional dating is dead: hook up culture and dating apps
Happy Thursday everyone!!! This week is another light hearted and fun episode on dating apps and hookup culture. This was a super interesting topic to talk about, and we hope if anything, you laughed with us at least once. Be safe out there, we love you.
Feb 17, 202254:26
Sexual health and intimacy ft: Kiki'ing With Coco
Happy Friday lovely people! On this week's episode we are jumping into the conversation of sex and intimacy in relationships with our new friend and fellow podcaster, Coco. This topic is one that never really gets dissected, so we decided to give you our perspective. We want to open the floor to more discussions and maybe a new series???? We hope you enjoy, love you the most!
Check out Coco's podcast at Kiki'ing with Coco on Instagram, and everywhere you get your podcasts!
Check out Coco's podcast at Kiki'ing with Coco on Instagram, and everywhere you get your podcasts!
Feb 11, 202201:21:53
Tuning in to who you already are: finding your passion and purpose
Happy Thursday everyone! This week we are talking about finding your purpose and your passion. This is such a broad topic, but one that so many people think about. We are hoping you take some clarity, perspective, or insight from this episode. Chase all your dreams, friends.
Feb 03, 202259:08
Social anxiety: you’re not alone.
What’s up everyone! This week is a very honest and light-hearted talk about social anxiety with some insight that can hopefully help you. Feeling anxious in social situations is something that absolutely everyone deals with to some degree, and no matter your situation, we are showing up for you.
Jan 27, 202248:35
The fear of change, embracing newness, and the 90/10 rule.
What’s going on everyone, how are you? Today’s episode is all about the very daunting fear of change. It is so difficult to open ourselves up to experiences we don’t know the outcome of, but so important to do so! This week we are having an open conversation about how we embrace change, and how to conquer your own mind. Enjoy!
Jan 20, 202256:23
We’re back: A life update and giving advice on your situations
Hello everyone, how are you? We had to miss last week’s episode but we’re back! This week we decided to do a life update, and giving advice on the situations you all send to us! If you ever want to send us anything our email is theunlicensedpodcast@gmail.com I love you!
Jan 13, 202249:39
A yearly recap: what we’ve learned and where we’re going
Happy (almost) New Years! This week we’re discussing everything we’ve learned and realized about ourselves in 2021, and all the things we want in 2022. Love you guys!
Dec 30, 202146:57
Aaliyah’s experience episode: Obscurity is not an option.
Today’s episode touches on the second part of the unlicensed experience episodes. A deep dive into Aaliyah’s past, reflecting on childhood, depression, loss, finding herself and re-establishing a sense of self. This was an emotional episode and we hope that this finds everyone is good spirits.
Dec 23, 202101:00:24
Jessica’s Experience Episode: “fight for your life”
Hello how are we?? Today starts the two part series of unlicensed experience episodes. Jessica’s episode today goes back to her childhood, battling depression, and working through the dynamics of counseling. This is personal and real, and I hope you enjoy.
Dec 16, 202158:60
Loneliness: feeling like you don’t belong and mental isolation
Hello hello hello!! Today’s episode is about loneliness. The holidays can bring a lot of sadness sometimes, so we figured today was the best time to talk all about feeling alone. From situational, chronic, social, and mental, we covered everything. We shared our experiences with you and how we overcame them. Thank you all for everything, lots of love.
Dec 09, 202155:43
Self Acceptance: Believing in your magic, feeling beautiful, and the art of not caring
Hello family!!! Here we are, back and better than ever! This week we are talking self acceptance and this one is so needed right now. Whether it’s internal, external, or comparing yourself to other people, we are here to give some love and perspective. Enjoy.
Dec 02, 202153:13
Back To Basics #4: Laziness, Lack of Passion, and Staying Motivated
Hello family! Today’s episode is on motivation! Jess and Aaliyah work through laziness, staying committed, and finding ways to make dull routines more enjoyable. This is our last back to basics episode and we hope you love it!
Nov 27, 202146:29
Brain Dump: Self Care and Protecting Your People.
This week we did nothing we said we were going to do. Sometimes other things are more important. For this episode, Jessica and Aaliyah talk about where their hearts are right now. We hope you enjoy this brain dump.
Nov 19, 202146:11
Back To Basics #3: Confrontation, Respect, and Vulnerability
Jessica and Aaliyah are BACK for the third episode of Back To Basics!!! Today is an informal, unstructured testimony of COMMUNICATION! Whether it’s a friend, a partner, or a coworker communicating is necessary👏🏽 Enjoy this episode, we love you the most!
Nov 11, 202148:19
Back to Basics #2: This is your sign.. make the first move
On the second episode of the Back to Basics series, Jessica and Aaliyah talk about everything that goes into starting a romantic relationships. We break down how to make the first move, how to give consistency, and getting out of the friend-zone. And be prepared for a sappy finish about how to tell someone how you feel. We hope you enjoy, love you the most.
Nov 04, 202154:60
You asked, we answered. Back to Basics #1: Making Friends in Adulthood
For episode four, Jessica and Aaliyah start a new series: Back To Basics. We are starting this series talking about how to cultivate friendships in adulthood. We are breaking down friendships from where to find friends, how to engage with people, and how to build stronger friends. We love you the most!
Oct 28, 202138:60
“You Need to Have Someone”: Confidence, Intensive Therapy, and Independence
WELCOME BACK!!! In this week’s episode Jessica and Aaliyah answer questions about building confidence, and finding independence in early adulthood. Jessica talks about her childhood, and how therapy saved her life.
Oct 21, 202148:35
Are you pregnant? A triple threat.
For the second episode of Un-licensed podcast, Jessica and Aaliyah talk through feedback from episode 1 and the beginning stages of romantic relationships. Aaliyah also opens up about her childhood, and coming out story.
Oct 14, 202147:57