(SCROLL FOR CW/TIMESTAMPS): This week's episode is about the destination wedding from hell. We're taking you through a break up from a couple that was together twelve years and called things off the night before the wedding....but the relationship didn't end there. Tune in to hear about both weddings, the double phone deception, and all the trauma in between!

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Timestamps

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(01:00) - Abby and Coworker Justin read the submission

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(03:50) - Interview begins/how the couple got together

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(04:50) - Red flags that showed up in the beginning of the relationship

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(05:27) - "That was the point he really started to spiral"

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(07:09) - "We secretly got married"

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(08:34) - Why she wanted to stay in this toxic relationship

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(11:27) - Their destination wedding in Mexico

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(15:30) -The aftermath of the destination wedding

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(16:34) - The secret he'd been keeping from her for years

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(18:37) - The other woman comes into the story....

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(21:43) - When things started to unravel with him, her, and the other woman

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(25:59) - The final straw

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(27:15) - The aftermath of the divorce

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(28:52) - Dating for the first time in her adult life

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(30:34) - Talking to her therapist about being "Codependent" in a relationship

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(32:50) - How she met her fiancee

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(34:11) - The hard part about being in a healthy relationship after a toxic one

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(36:48) - "When you know you know"

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(40:09) - The one thing you should ask yourself before getting married

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(41:51) - Advice she'd give to people listening

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(42:53) - Closing Announcements

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CW: Abuse, Mental illness, Suicide, Substance Abuse

When it was our first male interview.... - S2E16

The Break Up Break DownBy Abby MurphyNov 15, 2022