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A Big Girl's Guide: The Podcast

A Big Girl's Guide: The Podcast

By Jen PK

A humorous and personal journey to figure out life, love, who we are, what we want, and how to get it.
This podcast features a variety of guests who share where they are, where they've been, and how they're getting to the next level.
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A Big Girl's Guide to Movies That Made You

A Big Girl's Guide: The PodcastFeb 01, 2022

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A Big Girl's Guide to Stress

A Big Girl's Guide to Stress

Featuring fabulous co-host, Ashley Nicole Dennis

Big Girl Rule #363: Relax your mind, relate to yourself, and release the pressure.

Ashley Nicole joins Jen PK to discuss stress, finding your calm when under pressure, stress management, relaxing, relating to oneself, and releasing. Also the best Joker, Jared Leto, in the news, and more.




Recorded 3/2024


Apr 11, 202401:28:25
A Big Girl's Guide to Listening Up

A Big Girl's Guide to Listening Up

Featuring fabulous co-host, Ashley Nicole Dennis

Big Girl Rule #44: You learn more when you listen.

Ashley Nicole joins Jen PK to talk about parental advice, listening to yourself, listening to the right voices, and blocking out the nonsense. Also, the importance of media literacy, history in the making, family and cultural traditions, and how looking to the past gives you insight on the present.




Recorded 3/2024


Mar 08, 202401:02:06
A Big Girl's Guide to Love

A Big Girl's Guide to Love

Season 3 Premiere!

Featuring fabulous co-host, Ashley Nicole Dennis

Big Girl Rule #229: I don't need a seat at your table. I brought my own table, and the whole d@mn meal.

Ashley Nicole joins the podcast as co-host with Jen PK to talk about finding love of self in order to find love with another. Also, bad dates, learning from past relationships, and how to find love that you're not looking for.


Special shout-out to:

Plies @thehappiez

@bankrollboyz_clothing

@thehouseofvibesboutique


Recorded 2/2024

Mar 01, 202401:02:06
A Big Girl's Guide to Saying No
Jul 01, 202302:13:25
A Big Girl's Guide to Grieving and Relieving
Jun 25, 202301:40:20
A Big Girl's Guide to Minding Your Own Business

A Big Girl's Guide to Minding Your Own Business

Featuring Actress/Singer/Educator/TV Personality/Broadcast Journalist/CW 33 TV Host, Yolonda Williams!


Big Girl Rule #92: Sometimes it's better to keep it to yourself.


Yolonda joins host, Jen PK to discuss building up from a strong foundation, how to grow a successful career in the ever-changing entertainment industry, giving life time to happen, keeping the faith with your eye on the prize, and when to mind your own business. An honest, candid chat with the effervescent host of CW 33's Fun on the Run that will inspire you and remind you that you will get there when it's your time!

@yolondawilliamstv

www.yolondawilliams.com

@inyobagdotcom

https://cw33.com/author/yolonda-williams/

Recorded 6/2023.


Jun 17, 202301:19:43
A Big Girl's Guide to Speaking Up

A Big Girl's Guide to Speaking Up

Featuring Marketing Magician/Influencer/Founder of the Posh & Dirty Collective, Antoria Diondra Big Girl Rule #411: Speak to the Universe like she wants the best for you. Big Girl Rule #721: Treat everything like a negotiation; because until you get what you want, it is. Antoria joins host, Jen PK to talk school, work, parenting, career mobility, resumes Indeed, growing past your trauma, and getting what you want out of this life. @the_blackjane (TikTok) Recorded 5/2023
May 27, 202302:46:56
A Big Girl's Guide to Friends, Foes, and Frenemies

A Big Girl's Guide to Friends, Foes, and Frenemies

Featuring the award-winning actor, producer, songwriter, screenwriter, singer, personality, food critic, social media maven, fashionisto, red carpet commentator, reaction video originator, philanthropist, LGBTQIA+ advocate, future Broadway star, podcast host, and NYU grad student, KALEN ALLEN!

Big Girl Rule #273: Caution, even your best friend could bear a Trojan Horse.
Introducing the newest Big Girl Rule #1496: They're watching so give them something to see.

Kalen Allen joins host, Jen PK to talk the writer's strike, the state of Union, breaking into the Entertainment Industry, how to stay true to you, and how to discern friend from foe. Also, his newest exciting projects, including his podcast with Ricki Lake (Raised by Ricki), a new holiday movie with Christina Milian, and a follow up to his Christmas album (For Christmas Sake)!

@thekalenallen

Recorded 5/2023

May 21, 202301:17:14
A Big Girl's Guide to Body Positivity

A Big Girl's Guide to Body Positivity



Featuring Vanessa Moreno

Big Girl Rule #525: You're the Only Person You Have to Know for the Rest of Your Life, so Love the One You're With.
Big Girl Rule #47: There's More to Life than 4 Walls.

Vanessa joins host, Jen PK to take a trip down memory lane with a stop in the present and a short detour through the future to discover how to learn to love ourselves in the skin we're in.
IG: @nessyssary127
Recorded 4/2023.


May 01, 202301:43:00
A Big Girl's Guide to Finding Your Voice

A Big Girl's Guide to Finding Your Voice

Featuring voice actor, writer, and corporate trainer, Ashley N. Dennis

Big Girl Rule #325: Speak your mind and the best will follow. Ashley joins host, Jen PK to share the story about how she found her voice and inspire you to start saying "yes" to possibility, "yes" to opportunity, and "yes" to you. Enjoy an open conversation that also touches on motherhood, womanhood, dating, and a little trip to the 90s/early 2000s.

 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ashley-dennis-855811b/ 

Say It Forward: https://sayitforward.org/you-can-and-will-succeed/ 

Recorded 4/2023.


Apr 17, 202301:39:10
A Big Girl's Guide to Being Yourself

A Big Girl's Guide to Being Yourself


Featuring Influencer/Sunshine-Spreader/Jewelry Designer/Mortgage Maven: Jasmine Donnell
Big Girl Rule #121: You have to truly see yourself in order to be seen.
Jasmine joins host, Jen PK to reconnect and discuss the law of attraction, learning through relationships, and the importance beauty of being you.
@jazzy_smiles1
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Recorded 3/2023


Mar 25, 202301:36:49
A Big Girl's Guide to A Dream Deferred (A Big Girl's Guide to the Birthday Girl Part 2)

A Big Girl's Guide to A Dream Deferred (A Big Girl's Guide to the Birthday Girl Part 2)

Featuring Actor/Writer/Director/Talk Show Host/Every Freakin' Woman, Sheran Goodspeed Keyton.

Big Girl Rule #1112: Fall in Love with You

Big Girl Rule #2008: Lead with Love.

Sheran joins host, Jen PK to continue celebrating her ## birthday! Sheran takes over the podcast hosting duties to ask the tough questions and share some divine wisdom. 

@divadfw

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Recorded  3/2023

Mar 06, 202356:27
A Big Girl's Guide to the Birthday Girl (Part 1)

A Big Girl's Guide to the Birthday Girl (Part 1)

Featuring Actor/Writer/Host with the Most, Joey Castorena. Big Girl Rule #23: It's Your Party and You Don't Have To.
Joey joins host, Jen PK to celebrate her ## birthday! Joey takes the reigns and turns the tables to ask the questions and play a fun game of Tyronce?
@joey_castorena
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Recorded 2/2023
Mar 05, 202352:28
A Big Girl's Guide to Stepping Out on Faith
Feb 11, 202301:19:57
A Big Girl's Guide to Unsolicited Advice
Feb 06, 202348:18
A Big Girl's Guide to Lifting Yourself Up

A Big Girl's Guide to Lifting Yourself Up

Featuring Actor/Writer/Motivational Speaker, Joey Castorena. Big Girl Rule #24: Give Yourself a Round of Applause.  

Joey joins host, Jen PK to discuss a little about the news, a little pop culture, and a lot about how to lift yourself up and give yourself all due praise and encouragement.

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Recorded  1/2023

Jan 29, 202301:22:35
A Big Girl's Guide to Reflection
Jan 21, 202301:26:40
A Big Girl's Guide to Self-Reformation

A Big Girl's Guide to Self-Reformation

Featuring voice actor, writer, and corporate trainer, Ashley N. Dennis

Big Girl Rule #1212: Change is Necessary.

Ashley joins host, Jen PK to laugh and talk about everything from making changes to learning to love and accept yourself to planning for the future to weight loss and weight loss surgery to parenting to following your dreams and find that inspiration. and everything in between. An honest, candid conversation between friends that will help you learn how to find your inspiration and make those changes towards your personal joy and freedom.

 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ashley-dennis-855811b/ 

Say It Forward: https://sayitforward.org/you-can-and-will-succeed/ 

Recorded 1/2023.


Jan 15, 202301:58:28
A Big Girl's Guide to Pop Culture Vol. 1

A Big Girl's Guide to Pop Culture Vol. 1

Bonus episode with Joey Castorena! Big Girl Rule # 317 Find Your Light.

Entering 2023 with a bang! 

Joey joins host, Jen PK to giggle and gab all things pop culture! 

@joey_castorena

Previously Recorded.

Jan 01, 202302:38:38
A Big Girl's Guide to Finding Love

A Big Girl's Guide to Finding Love

Featuring Actress/Singer/Stylist/Entrepreneur, Tasia Jewel Johnson.

Big Girl Rule #198: Always a bridesmaid? Not necessarily so!

Tasia joins host, Jen PK to discuss the realities of living as a Black woman, love on the LGBTQ+ spectrum, mental health, loving oneself, and finding love in the most wonderfully unexpected places.  A fun, informative, and thought-provoking discussion between two women from different generations filled with love, light, and hard truths.

@tasia_jewel

@stylemeT

Recorded 12/2022

Dec 23, 202201:28:20
A Big Girl's Guide to Going for Yours

A Big Girl's Guide to Going for Yours

Featuring Actress/Host/Super Mom/Attorney at Law/Activist, Samantha Jocarl. 

Big Girl Rule #333: You deserve far better than you believe you do. 


Samantha joins host, Jen PK to laugh and talk about motherhood, married life, career changes, getting into entertainment, and not being afraid to go for what you want in life. "The worst you can ever hear is 'no'."

 @samanthajocarl

 Recorded 12/2022

Dec 18, 202250:23
A Big Girl's Guide to Facing the Unknown

A Big Girl's Guide to Facing the Unknown

Featuring Actor/Writer/Unofficial Inspirational Speaker, Joey Castorena.
Big Girl Rule #56: D-Day could turn into a Me-Day.
Joey joins host, Jen PK to laugh and talk about the latest documentaries, a little pop culture, and how to face the unknown to discover your breakthrough.
@joey_castorena
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Recorded 12/2022
Dec 10, 202253:47
A Big Girl's Guide to Holiday Spending and Facing Family Drama
Dec 03, 202201:04:46
A Big Girl's Guide to Stepping Out of Your Comfort Zone
Nov 24, 202201:09:16
A Big Girl's Guide to Facing the Darkness to Find Your Light
Mar 06, 202201:32:52
A Big Girl's Guide to Timing

A Big Girl's Guide to Timing

Featuring writer, graphic designer, and comedian Casey Coleman.

Big Girl Rule #888: Age is more than just a number.

Casey joins host, Jen PK to laugh and talk about everything from comedy to dating moms to dating don'ts to changing to directions to renewing the journey and chasing those dreams. A real-life candid conversation between friends that will help you learn that it is never too late if you care enough.

@casey_coleman_1 on IG

Recorded 2/2022.

Mar 05, 202201:06:51
A Big Girl's Guide to Living Out Loud
Feb 13, 202201:08:11
A Big Girl's Guide to Self-Acceptance
Feb 05, 202201:19:11
A Big Girl's Guide to Movies That Made You

A Big Girl's Guide to Movies That Made You

Bonus Episode featuring Joey Castorena!

Joey joins host, Jen PK to laugh and discuss some of their favorite films that have made an impact on their lives and love for the entertainment biz!

A real-life conversation between friends that is just for fun, but definitely not without a message.

Big Girl Rule #7: Sometimes your family is the one you make.


Recorded 1/2022

Feb 01, 202201:08:02
A Big Girl's Guide to Establishing Boundaries

A Big Girl's Guide to Establishing Boundaries

Featuring comedian, actor, writer, and U.S. Marines Veteran, Chris Mack.
Big Girl Rule #144: Be Vigilant. They Always Come Back.
Chris joins host, Jen PK to laugh and talk about everything from comedy to mental health to friendships and relationships to social media networking, avoiding Scientology in L.A., and how to carve out a good life during a pandemic. A real-life candid conversation between friends that will help you discover the mental health benefits of comedy and learn to establish healthy boundaries.

IG/TikTok: @mackdiddycombs
Recorded 1/2022.
Jan 30, 202201:39:34
A Big Girl's Guide to Playing it Smart and Mastering the Game

A Big Girl's Guide to Playing it Smart and Mastering the Game

Featuring actress, educator, stuntwoman, motivator, and philanthropist, Shalet Monique.

Big Girl Rule #323: Thou Shall Not Sext

Shalet joins host, Jen PK to laugh and talk about everything from acting to following your dreams to dating and dealing with a catfish to giving back to the community and so much more. A real-life candid conversation between friends that will help you learn how to start making smart moves and playing the game to your advantage so you can come out with a win.

Recorded 12/2021.

Jan 23, 202201:06:20
A Big Girl's Guide to Living Your Best Life

A Big Girl's Guide to Living Your Best Life

Featuring actor, voice over artist, associate producer, and writer Garret Storms.   

Big Girl Rule #123: Life Stands Still for No One.

Garret joins host, Jen PK to laugh and talk about everything from anime to voice over acting to the love of theatre to discovering talents to moving forward. A real-life candid conversation between friends that will help you learn how to discover your best life and start moving towards your light.


Recorded 12/2021.

Jan 16, 202201:57:49
A Big Girl's Guide to Turning Tricks Into a Trade

A Big Girl's Guide to Turning Tricks Into a Trade

Featuring comedian, radio personality, and comedy coach, Dean Lewis.
Big Girl Rule #85: You Can't Turn a Hoe into a Housewife.
Dean joins host, Jen PK to laugh and talk about everything from getting into comedy to building a career to surviving a pandemic to relationships and sidestepping the traps. A real-life candid conversation between friends that will help you learn how to start turning your talents into a career.
Recorded 12/2021.
Jan 09, 202201:40:27
A Big Girl's Guide to Protecting Your Heart

A Big Girl's Guide to Protecting Your Heart

Featuring company and stage manager, writer, actress, social activist, and podcaster, Tiffany Nicole. Big Girl Rule #972: There's plenty of fish in the sea. Beware of the bottom-feeders.
Tiffany joins host, Jen PK to laugh and talk about everything from TikTok to dating and relationships to astrology and tattoos and everything in between. A real-life conversation between friends that will help you learn how to start the new year by lifting yourself up and avoiding those who will pull you down to the bottom.

Recorded 12/2021.
Jan 02, 202201:46:16
A Big Girl's Guide to Changing Course and Remaining a Force

A Big Girl's Guide to Changing Course and Remaining a Force

Featuring comedian, storyteller, and the Empress of Improv, Debbie McIlhany. We revisit Big Girl Rule #186: Don't Stress Out. Life Never Goes as Planned.
Debbie joins host, Jen PK to laugh and talk about everything from dealing with grief to finding the funny to changing lanes. A real-life conversation between friends that will help you learn how to cope with life's ebb and flow, find your own way, and live in the joyous moments.


Recorded 11/2021.
Dec 26, 202101:13:05
A Big Girl's Guide to Surviving and Enjoying the Holidays

A Big Girl's Guide to Surviving and Enjoying the Holidays

Happy Holidays! 

Bonus Episode featuring Nikki Washington!

Nikki joins host, Jen PK to laugh and discuss holiday favorites, holiday memories, establishing boundaries, keeping it all together, and, of course, the best gift of all.

A real-life conversation between friends that takes the scenic route home, but will lead to a place for us to learn acceptance, boundaries, and how to survive and enjoy the holiday season.

Big Girl Rule #1225: You Are The Gift All Year Long.

Dec 24, 202101:56:49
A Big Girl's Guide to Keeping Your Cool and Going With the Flow

A Big Girl's Guide to Keeping Your Cool and Going With the Flow

Featuring comedian, marketing guru, and Chief Laughing Officer (www.laughitouthub.org), Cathy Zhao.
Big Girl Rule #186: Don't Stress Out. Life Never Goes as Planned.
Cathy joins host, Jen PK to laugh and talk about everything from dealing with stereotypes to dating to stopping the hate to Thai food to driving to choosing your own path. A real-life conversation between friends that will help you learn how to go with the flow, find your own path, and laugh through the hard stuff.

Recorded 11/2021.
Dec 18, 202101:45:53
A Big Girl's Guide to Protecting Your Spirit

A Big Girl's Guide to Protecting Your Spirit

Featuring dietician-nutritionist, comedian, cat mom, and spirit guide, Malou Aragon.

Big Girl Rule #444: Misery Loves Company.

Malou joins host, Jen PK to laugh and talk about everything from coping with trauma to unlearning to blocking negativity, all while teaching and guiding and finding your own peace. A real-life conversation between friends that will help you learn how to protect your spirit and laugh through the growing pains.

Recorded 12/2021.

Dec 11, 202101:37:17
A Big Girl's Guide to Loving You
Dec 05, 202101:14:19
A Big Girl's Guide to Tenacity

A Big Girl's Guide to Tenacity

Featuring performer and actor, Joey Castorena Big Girl Rule #527: If at first you don't succeed, try, try again. Joey joins host, Jen PK to laugh and talk about everything from Britney Independence Day to making it in the biz. How does one get started and keep going even when the going seems impossible? Can we KiKi?

IG: @joey_castorena
A Big Girl's Guide-The Podcast- The Playlist
Dec 05, 202101:57:35
A Big Girl's Guide to Patience, Discipline, and Determination
Dec 05, 202101:17:35
A Big Girl's Guide to Eating, Praying, and Loving

A Big Girl's Guide to Eating, Praying, and Loving

Featuring performer, writer, and actor, Nikki Washington.  Big Girl Rule #111:Order what you want. To go.

 Nikki joins host, Jen PK to laugh and talk about everything from food to spirituality to self-improvement to going for what you want and getting rid of the things you don't. A real-life conversation between friends that will have you searching for what works for you.

Nov 21, 202101:00:08
Welcome to A Big Girl's Guide to Love-The Podcast

Welcome to A Big Girl's Guide to Love-The Podcast

Introducing the podcast!

Nov 03, 202101:06
November 2, 2021

November 2, 2021

Nov 02, 202100:37