Adult Buddy Finders

While at DomCon, the domination convention in Los Angeles, our hosts Greenberry and Kerstin got educated about BDSM from a variety of workshops including sitting on faces and flogging. They’ve shared a little taste of these workshops. If you want more check out the presenters:

SIT ON MY FACE: Smothering and Ass Domination by Goddess Emmeline

The Energetics of Flogging byOrpheus Black

DomCon is the World's Premier Professional & Lifestyle Domination Convention with sexy socials, dom/sub meetups, BDSM workshops, kinky presentations, tempting vendors, and play parties! This year your hosts, Greenberry and Kerstin got to attend in Los Angeles as newbies so that they could give you a Beginner’s Guide To Adult Conventions. 

The second part of their adventure led to rejection and hurt, but they found that taking a step back and caring for themselves was the best way to recover and be able to finally get caned!

Workshops

A brief history of Kink in America by Astrid Aegis

Bodymapping by Master Joshua

SIT ON MY FACE: Smothering and Ass Domination by Goddess Emmeline

The Energetics of Flogging byOrpheus Black

Socials run by Queen Ana Blue

“Get Over My Knee!” Advanced Spanking Lab by Jack Woodland and Lark Dearborne

Vendors

House of Wolfram

The Kink Shop

Ravynblood Leather

Bunny Floggers

Canes4Pain

Steel Bones

Ballistic Metal

Gloss Dress

Special thanks to 

Jay Moyes

And of course, Mistress Cyan, who started it all. 

#DomCon #AdultConventions #BDSM #Kink #SexPostive #sexed #sexpodcast

Our hosts Greenberry and Kerstin learned a lot of BDSM lingo at the Los Angeles DomCon, Domination Convention, including Little, Praise Kink and Zines. Okay, some of the terms aren’t BDSM, but Kerstin didn’t know that until she asked. 

#DomCon #AdultConventions #BDSM #Kink #SexPostive #sexed #sexpodcast

DomCon is the World's Premier Professional & Lifestyle Domination Convention with sexy socials, dom/sub meetups, BDSM workshops, kinky presentations, tempting vendors, and play parties! This year your hosts, Greenberry and Kerstin got to attend in Los Angeles as newbies so that they could give you a Beginner’s Guide To Adult Conventions. 

The first part of their adventure led to learning about the lifestyle, meeting people, and finding out that communication is key, especially when you don’t want to play at an adult convention. 

Workshops

A brief history of Kink in America by Astrid Aegis

Bodymapping by Master Joshua

SIT ON MY FACE: Smothering and Ass Domination by Goddess Emmeline

The Energetics of Flogging byOrpheus Black

Socials run by Queen Ana Blue

“Get Over My Knee!” Advanced Spanking Lab by Jack Woodland and Lark Dearborne

Vendors

House of Wolfram

The Kink Shop

Ravynblood Leather

Bunny Floggers

Canes4Pain

Steel Bones

Ballistic Metal

Gloss Dress

Special thanks to 

Jay Moyes

And of course, Mistress Cyan, who started it all. 

Every other Wednesday, tune in for another episode on how to find an adult buddy.

Hit up AdultBuddyFinders.com to join the conversation and even become a caller!

#DomCon #AdultConventions #BDSM #Kink #SexPostive #sexed #sexpodcast

The season is coming to an end and BDSM is going to finish us off! The next two months will be full of our experience at DomCon, an interview with a d/s couple and a dom. Hosts Kerstin Porter  and Greenberry share their favorite episodes from the beginning of season 3 and give you a peak into what’s to come in season 4. 

Episodes to relisten: 

How to Find A Kinky Buddy with Kevin Allison

How to Find An Escort Buddy with Grace Grable

How to Ask For What You Want… Sex/Relationship with Rachel Wright

How to Find A Swinger Buddy with Suzie Wong

Every other Wednesday, tune in for another episode on how to find an adult buddy.

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We talk about how to find a partner and dating in small towns, suburban areas, and smaller cities on Facebook Live.

ABF hosts @GreenberryLucas and @KerstinPorter go live on Facebook to talk to listeners live about a question we get a lot, "How do I find a Buddy when I don't live in a city?" We also play games and share ideas on dates that you can do in any town with any budget with any type of buddy you find! ********************

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DB = Double Bonus in this episode!

The swinger community isn’t really one age group but Suzie discusses with hosts Kerstin and Greenberry some of the advantages to joining older swinging couples. They also chat about some of the tips that Suzie learned from her sexperiences. What lube is the best lube, ideas to keep safety first when you go to a swinging party and can you manifesting sex in your life!

Lube: Coconut Oil, Neutrogena Body Oil: Light Sesame Formula

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Hollywood Escort, Grace Grable allows hosts @GreenberryLucas and @KerstinPorter to dig in as she dishes out the down and dirty deets of sex in the LA city.Grace has been in LA's finest hotels and met men from all walks of life. She specialises in GFE (the girlfriend experience) and talks about other specialties an escort can offer including PSE which is the Porn Star Experience. We even get into the details of squirting! She also answered the question we've wanted the answer to since seeing "Pretty Woman": do sex workers kiss on the lips?- Tune in to find out!Grace helps caller Minnie, who has a new boyfriend that shared his past experience with a call girl. Minnie lets us know her insecurities and asks Grace if there is a way to know if her boyfriend will always be looking for a sex pro in the bedroom

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Mistress Alisa has a beautiful cartoon avatar, but she won’t show her face. We are curious why? Mistress Alisa talks with hosts Kerstin Porter  and Greenberry why. It might be more surprising than you think.

#image #sexed #sexpositive #podcast

The ethical dominatrix and host of Kink Friendly, Mistress Alisa, shares her secrets on whipping people into shape through their hearts and souls so that everyone can have kinky, sexy fun in the bedroom. Mistress Alisa dominates @KerstinPorter and @GreenberryLucas to help them understand how female-led relationships work and can be very pleasing. And even though men (and women) might be horny, what they really want is to be seen and heard. The best way to touch someone is to touch their heart and soul then you can touch their dicks or boobs or whatever body part you’re into and then you can achieve great pleasure.

Alisa also talks with our caller, Andy, about ways to be satisfied in the bedroom no matter what stage you’re at in your relationship. And it’s not just playing out a fantasy or showing off tits.

Find Mistress Alisa at https://www.alisacoaches.com/

Her Podcast: Kink Friendly https://kinkfriendly.podbean.com/

Chastity Cages: CB6000 https://cb-x.com/

Every other Wednesday, tune in for another episode on how to find an adult buddy.

Hit up AdultBuddyFinders.com to join the conversation and even become a caller!

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Kevin Allison from the podcast RISK! was kind enough to answer one more question about kink and BDSM, more specifically about kink camps and events. He shares with hosts Kerstin Porter  and Greenberry all the insiders info on how to have a fun trip to kink camp!

#kinkcamp #sexed #sexpositive #podcast

We ask Cliff from the Bisexual episode what he thinks the difference is between bisexual and pansexual. Does he know or is he just as confused as the rest of us?

We bust some myths about bisexuality and learn about how some people get lucky with threesomes and orgies. 

Season 3 Episode 2

*Cliff joins to share his journey from straight guy who picked up chicks at the bar to queer. Hosts, @KerstinPorter and @GreenberryLucas talk about what they think they know about bi-sexuality and learn that there is always more to learn. Cliff ends up confessing he's had multiple threesomes and orgies and made it seem very easy to get involved in those!
Our producers selected Belinda's question about being married and accepting she is bi-sexual, after marrying a man. She wrote to ask how to bring that up with her husband and Cliff's experience with bringing up his bi-sexuality in relationships. Although we didn't get to hear from her (She ghosted! and we had no back up. We are still working out the kinks!) we did read her written question and Cliff set her straight.. or bi rather.

*An Anonymous Guest  

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Last week we checked in with some of our past callers to see if they found a buddy. This week we responded to a voicemail from a caller we didn't get to talk to about if she was able to find out if a guy she had a crush on is in an open marriage and if he is interested in her. 

By chance did Berry get the V after the "Big D"? Did Dale from Denver find a happy ending? Is he a cop? How bout Fiona? She find that snuggle buddy? Maybe Margo joined her pals open marriage?  Do you think Dan the OnlyFans Stan detain a relationship outside of OnlyFans?

Our callers are often fan favorites and we get messages asking "Where are they now?", " How are they now?", "WHO are they now?!"

We love how our listeners have been brave enough to ask their burning questions and join in the show. We're always amazed and proud of the bravery it takes  to bare yourself! And each caller becomes a fan favorite without fail. We worked hard to get every caller called back to get their updates and were amazed at how far ( and how much) they've come.. and cum!

These callers did not disappoint! Dale from Denver dropped us some juicy details on his happy ending (aka full service or release) hunts. Berry called our newly divorced guest who was talking about getting the V after the Big D and wanted to know about getting that V. Sounds like he quickly implemented the advice! Listen and learn about the lives of our callers. You'll get an ear full!

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Incels and freaks were invited to join the live show and surprise hookups ensued!
Hosts, @KerstinPorter and @GreenberryLucas are joined in person by hosts #JessicaAnguiano and #JordanSiegel.
In the spirit of Thanksgiving, ABF hosts shared gratitude for all listeners and invited anyone who identified as incel (or going through a dry spell) and anyone who wanted to talk about the freaky things they are into to join the live video.
Although two sexually frustrated listeners never figured out the live video feature. Jillian, a freaky female foot fetishist joined the live and shared what gets her going: men's feet. Sexually frustrated viewer Gorion volunteered his tootsies and she did not decline!
As the night went on producer, Jordan showed her new and improved ass and former guest of the number one "butt stuff" episode, Cameron was on the live and rated her rump a 10 out of 10. Jordan and Cameron plan to have a date before the new year! Technical difficulties could not stop the buddy finders from finding adult buddies!  
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Looking to get laid after a divorce? Some marriages are sex free and dating changes with each passing day let alone years! Getting out there and getting it on with new people isn't easy.  This show we learn about getting "d" after the "big d"

Liz McIrvin is a director, photographer and comedian. Liz was married before she turned 20 and after years of realizing her partner was not the one she would be with forever, they divorced. She gives hosts, @KerstinPorter and @GreenberryLucas a guide to getting "the d" after the "big d". She also answers caller Barry’s big d question- How to get back out there when you were in a sexless marriage and after the divorce and have a long dry spell.

The story has a happy ending as Liz talks us through her present day love life that is full of communication and lots of lovin!

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• *Connect w/ Liz: @elizabethmcirvin @mcirvinphotography and @mysteryintheradiowaves

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Dr. Melanie LaForce is in an open marriage.

When she's not busy writing, telling jokes and being a DR ( which we never really talk about). She gives hosts, @WhoKerstin and @GreenberryLucas the inside scoop of what goes on in her bedroom and in the bedrooms she goes into with full consent of her husband. Her marriage is open and she is open to talking about it! Dr.LaForce also answers a listener's question about if her friend is trying to add her to his open marriage mix.

*Connect w/ Melanie on IG @melanielaforceofficial

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More about our guest:

Dr. Melanie LaForce is a comedian, writer, and social psychologist.

Her original pilot, DAIRY QUEENS, is currently a quarterfinalist in ScreenCraft’s 2022 Comedy Competition. LaForce has performed at and trained with institutions such as The Groundlings, Upright Citizens Brigade, Second City, and Flappers.

In 2018, LaForce’s coming-of-age humor essay collection, Corn-Fed: Cul-de-sacs, Keg Stands, and Coming of Age in the Midwest, was published by Thought Catalog Press.

In addition to her debut book, LaForce has written featured essays and humor for The Washington Post, Marie Claire, McSweeney’s, and New York Magazine. She is a frequent contributor to BUST.

Dr. LaForce was a Principal Scientist at the University of Chicago for 12 years, and taught social psychology at Northwestern University's Feinberg School of Medicine.

Melanie is a retired skater and trainer for The Windy City Rollers roller derby league.

LaForce’s debut memoir received accolades from feminist magazines such as Refinery29 and BUST.

LaForce currently lives in Burbank where she performs stand-up and works on original television

Cameron enjoys butt stuff, anal sex, tossing salad, spanking… Basically he likes booties. From a young age he knew he was an ass man aka he was attracted to all women’s butts. He shares his stories with hosts @KerstinPorter and @GreenberryLucas about playing around to find out what being an ass man really meant to him and to his partners. He also discovered he enjoys being submissive but he tends to be a Pleasure Dom who enjoys vocal feedback. Kerstin and Greenberry learn a lot and find themselves giving him vocal feedback, but not in the moaning form.

Cameron also helps out a young adult caller, Gary, with how to attract women.

Fetish driven dating app: https://fetlife.com/

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Queen Freya will have you bending the knee!

Queen Freya dominated the ABF hosts and had them enthralled by her subjects. She taught Greenberry and Kirsten about cages for male genitals, men who love to pay you to clean your home, and men who just love to pay you!

When Hank called in, he worried if his fetish to go from Chef Boyardee to Chef BoyarME was too weird (it involves dough, and a hot car!). Freya shamelessly shared how normal and achievable his objectification fetish is and gave him tips on how to bring his wife into his clever playful world!

Listen to the end to learn how to find a dominatrix on a FREE very popular social media platform. HINT- never use hashtags.

*Worship Queen Freya for yourself: 

    Twitter and Onlyfans: @worship_freya

    TikTok: @worshipfreya

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Greenberry and Kerstin give and take live with their Facebook buddies.

In this episode the Adult Buddy Finders (@GreenberryLucas and @KerstinPorter)ask their buddies about dirty talk, faking orgasms and how to win back that lovin' feeling in a long term relationship/ marriage when the love seems to have faded away.

To celebrate their first 10,000 Facebook pages likes. The ABFs went live and battled technical difficulties to connect to their buddies including, Kyle who faked an orgasm; Ron who believes two high sex drives make for a match made in heaven; Grant who wanted advice for his marriage and more. The hosts also shared their answers to questions posed to them from the people who helped make the show what is today, you!

*Connect w/ The Adult Buddy Finders: https://www.facebook.com/AdultBuddyFinders

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Natasha Liu is a Unicorn.

A unicorn is a person who is willing to join an existing couple. Unicorns are rare, mythical, and hard-to-find creatures. Natasha is also a unique comedian and professional talent recruiter.
She helps @WhoKerstin and @GreenberryLucas understand what a unicorn is and how to find and keep one happy once you've found your unicorn. Natasha also talks to,"Mix It Up Mike" who wanted to ensure his identity was disguised but question his was direct (not as direct as his wife pegging him while he watches his favorite program).

*Connect w/ Natasha: @NatashaTinaLiu

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Lin Sun is a “happy endings” specialist.

Currently Lin leaves folks happy with her stand-up but on this show, she takes us to her massage days. She gives hosts, @WhoKerstin and @GreenberryLucas massage envy and shares code words to find your own happiness and even how to maybe spot a cop. Lin also answers listeners' most asked questions and helps sort out caller Dale’s dilemma, although we are still not sure if Dale is in fact a cop.

*Get Happy with Lin’s Comedy Special: https://tinyurl.com/bwsbvneh

*Connect w/ Lin: @LinSunTV

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Same Adult Buddy Finders, new buddy search. This time it's all about THAT kind of buddy. Two adults talking to sexperts learning what to do to get the adult buddy our listeners seek.