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Adulting with Horses

Adulting with Horses

By Adulting with Horses

Welcome to Adulting with Horses, the podcast for weird horse girls and the only place to be if you can’t be at the barn! This pop culture podcast is for adult equestrians who like to pretend they have other interests besides horses and enjoy a good laugh. Join co-hosts and authors Heather Wallace and Natalie Keller Reinert as they have a great time talking about all things popular in the horse world. Let’s get a little weird.

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Ep 16 Barn Style Hacks with Connie and Allison of Redingote Equestrian

Adulting with HorsesJan 20, 2023

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Ep- 23 What If There Was a Fun Horse Show for Adults?

Ep- 23 What If There Was a Fun Horse Show for Adults?

On episode 23 of the Adulting with Horses podcast, Heather and Natalie reimagine horse shows for adults that involve having fun with other women who just want to have fun on horses. Forget competing against teenagers who are more flexible and have less fear than you. Such classes may or may not involve one-handed riding (because the other has a beverage), pushing a giant ball across the arena with your horses (mounted or unmounted), and a lot of giggles! Our clubhouse members jump in on this episode for some ribbon ideas and we have a lot of fun. Our fantasy could become reality so take a listen and let us know what classes you'd like to see in our virtual Adult Fun Show!



May 05, 202301:03:17
Ep 22- Burnout is Real: Struggling with the Work, Family, and Barn Balance by FITS Riding

Ep 22- Burnout is Real: Struggling with the Work, Family, and Barn Balance by FITS Riding

On episode 22 of Adulting with Horses, Heather and Natalie discuss the endless struggle of work/family/barn balance and avoiding burnout. As always, they have an open, honest conversation (yes, with cuss words periodically) and dare we say, maybe ended up with a solution? Now if they can only follow through and walk the walk.

This episode is sponsored by FITS Riding. FITS is dedicated to the art and science of riding apparel. Known for its PerforMAX™ leather technology, FITS riding wear is the first and only choice for thousands of equestrian athletes.

Their patented products are the result of an intense pursuit of giving the wearer an enduring advantage and comfortable fit. They constantly research the physics of riding; the spectrum of technical materials; and the newest sewing techniques, seeking the characteristics that matter most—high performance, outstanding comfort, and flattering fit.

The FITS design team are themselves riders, with years of state of the art athletic product development experience. All FITS designs are born out of repeated trial and unmatched commitment to quality. FITS is proud to have raised the bar for technical innovation in equestrian wear. We invite you to wear FITS, For the Ride of Your Life. Learn more at www.fitsriding.com.

Apr 21, 202359:15
Ep 21- Spring Reset, Memory Tacos, Sexy Texts, and Heather's Tack Problem

Ep 21- Spring Reset, Memory Tacos, Sexy Texts, and Heather's Tack Problem

Welcome to episode 21 of the Adulting with Horses podcast! This episode is WAY too much fun. Heather and Natalie discuss coming out of winter and setting goals for the spring, how food can bring back the most precious memories (especially when they involve tacos), sexy text messages, and much more!


Make sure to listen in and join in all the fun and laughter. We've also just announced some exciting news! We have launched our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/adultingwithhorsespodcast where we will have private content that can't be found anywhere else:


- Ask Us Anything Episode. We'll answer one Patreon question per month and there are no limits and VERY honest opinions as always.

- Bitch Session. No holds barred episode on a controversial topic for your ears only.

- Bonus episodes early, before they are available on major players.

Apr 07, 202301:19:39
Bonus 0323- Red Flags at Boarding Barns

Bonus 0323- Red Flags at Boarding Barns

We've talked about what to look for in boarding barns, but what about ALL the red flags? Between the two of them, Natalie and Heather have a lot of experience at different facilities. They share what to watch for, and what to run FROM in this special bonus episode of the Adulting with Horses podcast. Run, don't walk to listen. The co-hosts haven't been lunged and let it all out in the arena.

Mar 31, 202324:44
Ep 20- Helmet Hair: Oh, We Definitely Care with Caitlin Gooch presented by Redingote Equestrian
Mar 17, 202301:03:25
Ep 19- The Necessities, the Boarding Barn Necessities

Ep 19- The Necessities, the Boarding Barn Necessities

On episode nineteen of the Adulting with Horses podcast, co-hosts and authors Heather Wallace and Natalie Keller Reinert discuss what to look for when deciding on a boarding facility for you and your horse. As always, they are full of opinions, sass, and humor but a lot of good information too. 

Mar 03, 202355:03
Ep 18- Top 5 Things You Can Do with Horses by Redingote Equestrian.

Ep 18- Top 5 Things You Can Do with Horses by Redingote Equestrian.

Welcome to our bucket list episode! On episode 18 of Adulting with Horses, brought to you by Redingote Equestrian, Heather Wallace and Natalie Keller Reinert discuss the Horse Nation article about lesson riders and their take on whether they are undesireable. Then, we get down and dirty with our clubhouse to discuss all the things they want to do with their horses if they had the chance. Heather and Natalie chime in with their own wish lists as always and have a huge laugh. (Heather even snorts, and Natalie is apparently from a famous family). Don't forget to subscribe to Adulting with Horses to hear new episodes first and join our private Facebook clubhouse, where you get to be part of our fun.
Feb 17, 202301:04:34
Ep 17- Heather is the Anti-Hero, or maybe just an idiot- and other fun topics

Ep 17- Heather is the Anti-Hero, or maybe just an idiot- and other fun topics

On episode 17 of the Adulting with Horses podcast, co-hosts Heather Wallace and Natalie Keller Reinert decide to forgo a theme and just follow their stream of consciousness. It makes for an episode that plots against their friend Glenn Hebert, involves Natalie throwing a grenade (and Heather riding through a bomb) and Heather, once again, being the problem. Join us for some laughs and we hope you join us in the Adulting with Horses clubhouse too on Facebook! 


Feb 03, 202351:55
Ep 16 Barn Style Hacks with Connie and Allison of Redingote Equestrian

Ep 16 Barn Style Hacks with Connie and Allison of Redingote Equestrian

On this episode of Adulting with Horses, Natalie and Heather are joined by our title sponsors, Connie DeMaio and Allison Malenfant of Redingote Equestrian and FITS Riding to talk about our individual barn styles, how to go from the street to the barn, and favorite barn to street hacks! 

REDINGOTE Equestrian has introduced new and innovative pieces to the equestrian performance apparel space. Their fashionable and feminine pieces are all about function, comfort, and easy outfitting because everything can be mixed and matched! From their iconic coveralls to their riding apparel and newly released separates, Redingote is the all inclusive apparel brand for equestriennes of all sizes and disciplines no matter the season, no matter the weather. Learn more at www.redingoteequestrian.com. 

Jan 20, 202355:28
Ep 15 Is Natalie an Asshole and The Smart Horse Challenge

Ep 15 Is Natalie an Asshole and The Smart Horse Challenge

We have two awesome topics for you today. First, we play a game of Am I The Asshole (AITA) with Heather acting as judge and jury on a marital mishap all horse girls will relate to. Then we get into a topic all adult amateur equestrians can relate to- smart horses- when to push them and when to back off. This is one episode you won't want to miss! 

Is Natalie an asshole? What would you do if a horse tested you like this? Let us know in the Adulting with Horses Clubhouse here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast

Jan 06, 202341:19
Bonus 1222: Saddle Fit Shenanigans, Emotional Support Goats, and Cheese

Bonus 1222: Saddle Fit Shenanigans, Emotional Support Goats, and Cheese

Welcome to our first bonus episode of Adulting with Horses. Sometimes Natalie and Heather get really random and weird, so enjoy this special behind-the-episode show.
Jan 03, 202327:29
Ep 14- The Perfect Horse by Redingote Equestrian

Ep 14- The Perfect Horse by Redingote Equestrian

On this episode of Adulting with Horses Heather and Natalie talk about what makes the perfect horse for a rider, how the idea of perfection can change with time, and of course, our adulting wins of the week! 

Redingote Equestrian brought this episode to you. Time to think about stocking up for winter with the new releases from Redingote Equestrian. They have recently released updates to their famous one-piece jumpsuits- new/textured/rip-stop fabric and adjustable cords added to the hood so they feel super fresh this season. But if you aren't a fan of coveralls, they have just announced the release of their new "separates" collection of bib pants and jackets! Redingote has something for every woman, whether working in the barn or riding through the winter. Stay warm, dry, and feminine in Redingote. Visit them at www.redingoteequestrian.com. 

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear, subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice. Follow us on Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast or, even better, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse-crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

Dec 16, 202256:22
Ep 13- Toxic Traits: We All Have Them

Ep 13- Toxic Traits: We All Have Them

On this episode of Adulting with Horses, we discuss setting achievable but FUN goals and the toxic traits among weird horse girls in our clubhouse and probably the world at large. What is your toxic trait? 

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear, subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice. Follow us on Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast or, even better, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse-crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!


Dec 02, 202250:40
Ep 12- How to Attend a Horse Expo Without Losing Your Wallet

Ep 12- How to Attend a Horse Expo Without Losing Your Wallet

On episode 12 of Adulting with Horses, Mandee Flanders of The Leadline Podcast joins Heather as a co-host while Natalie retreats to her cave after talking to people for four days straight at Equine Affaire. We chat all about our time at the horse expo, and tips for keeping costs down (including some spending regrets) and Heather even gets an offer of marriage...well, kind've! 

Nov 18, 202250:06
Ep 11- The Fear of Falling and Setting Yourself Up for Success
Nov 04, 202253:44
Ep 10- Spooky Season: Time for Scary Stories by the Campfire

Ep 10- Spooky Season: Time for Scary Stories by the Campfire

Who doesn't love a good ghost story, especially when it involves our favorite topic- horses? Heather and Natalie battle some demons trying to take over the airwaves and tell spooky stories, both of their own experiences and with some help from the clubhouse. This is a not to miss episode. 


This episode is brought to you by Redingote Equestrian. The weather is turning, it's getting colder! Time to think about stocking up for winter with the new releases from Redingote Equestrian. They have recently released updates to their famous one-piece jumpsuits- new/textured/rip-stop fabric and adjustable cords added to the hood so they feel super fresh this season. But if you aren't a fan of coveralls, they have just announced the release of their new "separates" collection of bib pants and jackets! Redingote has something for every woman, whether working in the barn or riding through the winter. Stay warm, dry, and feminine in Redingote.

Oct 21, 202252:07
Ep 9- Damn I Feel Like A Horse Girl

Ep 9- Damn I Feel Like A Horse Girl

Let's Go Girls! Today we are channeling our inner Shania Twain and celebrating the things that make us horse girls with a little help from our clubhouse!
Oct 07, 202257:50
Ep 8- The Care and Feeding of Horse Husbands with Glenn Hebert

Ep 8- The Care and Feeding of Horse Husbands with Glenn Hebert

This is for all partners of horse-crazy girls, whether they are husbands, wives, partners, spouses, etc. It can't be easy dealing with us on a daily basis. So on this episode we invite Glenn the Geek, from the Horse Radio Network and Horses in the Morning, also known as America's Horse Husband, to chat with us. We discuss how to introduce a significant other into our lives, what NOT to do, and of course our Adulting Wins of the Week. This is one episode you do not want to miss! 


This episode is brought to you by our friends at Redingote Equestrian. While they are well-known for their jumpsuits, they have a luxurious line of apparel for women as well. Their Color Block Long Sleeve Shirt is now available in a Black/Iron/Apple Butter combo that matches back to our black and brown jogger breeches as well as all our new outerwear!

  • Features include:
  • *premium ultra-soft performance fabric
  • *4 way stretch
  • *moisture wicking/quick drying
  • *crew neckline

Visit them now at redingoteequestrian.com to learn more. 

Sep 23, 202250:03
Ep 7- Would You Rather (Equestrian Edition)

Ep 7- Would You Rather (Equestrian Edition)

Heather and Natalie play the Equestrian version of "Would You Rather", talk about making adult friends, lowering our expectations, and sexy farmhands (or lack thereof).


This episode is brought to you by our friends at Redingote Equestrian. REDINGOTE has introduced new and innovative pieces to the equestrian performance apparel space. Their fashionable and feminine pieces are all about function, comfort, and easy outfitting because everything can be mixed and matched! From their iconic coveralls to their riding apparel and newly released separates, Redingote is the all inclusive apparel brand for equestriennes of all sizes and disciplines no matter the season, no matter the weather.

Sep 02, 202247:35
Ep. 6- Horses Aren't Machines and Other Controversial Opinions

Ep. 6- Horses Aren't Machines and Other Controversial Opinions

On Episode 6 of Adulting with Horses, Natalie and Heather let their freak flags fly (literally) but make sure to bring the treats too. We discuss why horses don't have to be ridden constantly and how to keep them happy out of the saddle, self care and mental health, boobs over the age of 40 and much more. Put down the muck rake, turn up the volume, and let’s get a little weird!


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Adulting with Horses, is a an NSFW podcast with the adult amateur equestrienne in mind.  As crazy horse girls, we don’t take ourselves too seriously in the saddle or out, and our show reflects that! Subscribe and listen on the Horse Radio Network, Spotify, and Apple Podcasts and join our private Facebook group, the Adulting with Horses Clubhouse. Follow us on social media Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast or Twitter @AdultingHorses.


About Heather Wallace

Heather Wallace is short, sassy, and bold on the ground but not in the saddle! She is on a personal journey as a returning adult equestrian to follow her passion despite struggling with anxiety, trying to balance motherhood, and build a small business. Of course, she can’t do it alone! She has Ferrous, her confidence-building pony and Delight, her heart horse and an off-track Thoroughbred who challenges her in every way.

She is the award-winning author of non-fiction books Confessions of a Timid Rider, Adulting with Horses, and Girl Forward: A Tale of One Woman’s Unlikely Adventure in Mongolia as well as the awarding winning blog, The Timid Rider.

Heather lives in New Jersey with her husband, three daughters, three rescue dogs, and her horses (of course!).

About Natalie Keller Reinert

Natalie Keller Reinert is the award-winning author of more than a dozen books exploring love, human nature, and the passions which make us tick. With an extensive equestrian background, many of her books are set in the world of horses and horse-people. Drawing on her professional experience working with Thoroughbred racehorses, mounted patrol horses, therapeutic riding, three-day-eventing, and many other equine pursuits, Reinert brings her love of the equestrian life into each of her titles.

Today, Reinert lives in Central Florida with her family, including a lazy foxhound and a white-blazed mustang named Ben.

Visit nataliekreinert.com for a free book introducing you to the world of Reinert’s fiction!

Aug 19, 202201:13:13
Ep. 5 - Heather Hates Summer and Tips for Beating the Heat

Ep. 5 - Heather Hates Summer and Tips for Beating the Heat

Have we mentioned Heather hates summer? An unpopular opinion amongst many, and one that Natalie does NOT share. Join the conversation while they discuss how they spend time with horses in summer, how to beat the heat and keep the horses happy. If that sounds normal, don't be fooled because we also talk tiny dinosaurs, how Natalie lives at the entrance to a dark realm and the hedonism of sheepskin saddle covers!


Drop a comment in our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook or send us a voice message using the Anchor app at anchor.fm. Like the episode? Make sure to share it on social media or mention it to a friend!


Aug 05, 202201:09:21
Ep. 4- Strange Encounters on the Trail and Other Tales with Cathy Woods
Jul 15, 202201:01:01
Ep 3- Bribery, Breeches, Books, and Bridgerton

Ep 3- Bribery, Breeches, Books, and Bridgerton

On episode three of Adulting with Horses, co-hosts Heather Wallace and Natalie Keller Reinert get into ultra-important topics such as bribing horses, unlikely horse encounters,  the most comfortable riding clothing, when book picks go very, very wrong and the horses of Bridgerton. You definitely want to join the conversation. 

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, follow us on Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast or even better join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. 

Jul 01, 202254:14
Ep 2- Weirdest Things We've Done with Horses

Ep 2- Weirdest Things We've Done with Horses

On this episode of Adulting with Horses, co-hosts Heather Wallace and Natalie Keller Reinert get a little weird. Oh right, that's every episode! Well, today we talk about the weirdest things we've ever done with horses, something unexpected at an equestrian events, and the strangest friends our animals have made.  

Join us as we talk about horses and pop culture, and get a little weird in a fun way! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, follow us on Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast or even better join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show and meet other horse crazy women!

Jun 17, 202253:54
Ep. 1- Meet Cute: The Equestrian Odd Couple

Ep. 1- Meet Cute: The Equestrian Odd Couple

Welcome to the first episode of Adulting with Horses! This podcast is for every woman out there who was the weird horse girl in school or considers themselves a weird horse girl as an adult! Co-hosts Heather Wallace and Natalie Keller Reiner introduce themselves, give their opinions on the Triple Crown, take questions from the Facebook Clubhouse and much more. Put down your muck rake, turn up the volume, and let’s get a little weird!

Jun 02, 202258:01
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