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Welcome to the official Advocate Like a Mother™ Podcast with Michelle Sullivan, Illeana De Sosa, and Andy Lara. We're here to empower and motivate you to use your voice.
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Episode 30 - Larkin O'Leary and Harmony Harvell of Common Ground Society

Advocate Like a Mother PodcastJun 08, 2021

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Episode 30 - Larkin O'Leary and Harmony Harvell of Common Ground Society
Jun 08, 202101:03:02
Episode 29 - Guest Host Amanda Garzon of the Hydrocephalus Association and friends!
May 26, 202159:20
Episode 28 - Down Syndrome and Organ Donation Law with Jayci Dalrymple
May 21, 202154:08
Episode 27 - IEP Lawyer and Self Advocate Allison Hertog, ESQ
May 12, 202101:03:27
Episode 26 - Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome and a "Ray-a" Light in the Darkness with Raya Horcher

Episode 26 - Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome and a "Ray-a" Light in the Darkness with Raya Horcher

Today on the show I sit down with Rachel who goes by Raya Horcher. She is a mother of  two, a certified holistic resilience coach, and advocate for the rare Elhers-Danlos Syndrome, and her mission  is to walk with, educate and provide resources as people journey into and through their vulnerabilities and find their own light and joy to live a life that feels good. You can learn all about her and more at www.rayalife.life

In our conversation we talk about her families rare diagnosis, how she makes herself available as a safe space to process through the dark times and hard seasons, and she reminds us of how life takes place one breath at a time as we navigate the challenges and uncertain when raising a person with a disability.

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May 06, 202136:40
Episode 25 - Child Abuse Prevention Month with Lindsey Strickland of Worth the Conversation

Episode 25 - Child Abuse Prevention Month with Lindsey Strickland of Worth the Conversation

Lindsey Strickland of Worth the Conversation joins us this month in observation of Child Abuse Awareness month. Lindsey spends her time with us sharing abuse prevention tools and strategies, the type of circumstances we should avoid and be aware of, and the types of questions we should be asking caretakers or organizations when placing our kids in their care.

Lindsey is an adopted mother to her child Ben who has Down Syndrome and raises her family in Washington.

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Apr 28, 202157:04
Episode 24 - Getting Cameras in the Classroom with Grammy Nominated Artist, Breggett Rideau
Apr 21, 202101:12:03
Episode 23 - Advocacy Using Your Body, Noonan Syndrome, and Virtual Community with Elisabeth Parker
Apr 14, 202141:10
Episode 22 - Managing Expectations and Business as Advocacy with Ben, Laura, and Jonas Harrison of Jonas Paul Eyewear

Episode 22 - Managing Expectations and Business as Advocacy with Ben, Laura, and Jonas Harrison of Jonas Paul Eyewear

Ben and Laura are the founders of Jonas Paul Eyewear and join me for a conversation about raising their son Jonas who was born blind, a result of a rare eye condition called Peters anomaly. We discuss life before and after diagnosis, how community changes with family changes, and they offer some advice if you’re thinking about starting an organization or company in response to your child’s diagnosis. In addition, Jonas himself takes a moment to join us on the show and you don’t want to miss what he has to share with us!

A couple house keeping items, for those of you that have submitted to be guests on the show, hang tight, we are actually still catching up as we’ve received a TON of requests. We will be in contact in the next couple weeks to get you scheduled. IF you are a company or a business who is looking to partner with a podcast to showcase your product or brand, please head over to our website to inquire.

This week's episode is sponsored by Littlest Warrior. Use Promo code: "Advocate" at checkout for a discount! www.littlestwarrior.com

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Apr 07, 202101:03:05
Episode 21 - Sharing Vulnerability with Guest Hosts Sinead Quinn and Melanie Dimmett
Mar 31, 202139:03
CALL TO ACTION NEEDED with Julie Payne Neward and Marisol Rubio
Mar 27, 202101:14:22
Episode 20 - Cerebral Palsy, Shopping Carts, and Pagentry with Nicole La Ha Zwiercan
Mar 24, 202148:43
Miniland Educational - Dolls and Products made for a more open, inclusive, and diverse world.
Mar 19, 202120:05
Episode 19 - First Woman with Down Syndrome to Run the Austin Half Marathon, Kayleigh Williamson and her mom Sandy
Mar 17, 202151:20
Episode 18 - Deafness & Raising Teenagers with Cochlear Implants with Author, Valli Gideons.
Mar 10, 202141:26
Episode 17 - Self Advocate - Megan DeJarnett
Mar 03, 202101:00:01
Episode 16 - Living and Learning While Raising a Person with Down Syndrome with Guest Host Liz Plachta and Kelle Hampton

Episode 16 - Living and Learning While Raising a Person with Down Syndrome with Guest Host Liz Plachta and Kelle Hampton

We are excited to release our first Guest Hosted Episode! In this episode, our hosts will take a back seat and pass the mic to one of our beloved members of the Down Syndrome community.

On today’s show Liz Plachta, founder of Ruby’s Rainbow, interviews Kelle Hampton, author of New York Time bestseller Bloom: Finding Beauty In the Unexpected  and fellow Vice President of Ruby’s Rainbow.  They share the touching stories of their experiences on the road together, the transition from surviving as a parent to a child with a disability to advocating in their everyday lives, and they discuss profound simple realities of the small steps they took toward making a difference in their lives, that then effected others in positive and beautiful ways.

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Feb 24, 202155:01
Episode 15 - The Need for Grief and Self Care with Tameka Diaz
Feb 17, 202101:04:43
Episode 14 - Naturalistic and Relational SLP Therapy with Sarah Dhooge
Feb 10, 202147:32
Episode 13 - Beyond Kindness and Inclusive Storytelling with Amy Webb
Feb 03, 202157:38
Episode 12 - The Dancing Dad, Positive Parenting, and Keeping it Real with Kenny Clutch
Feb 03, 202157:12
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Dec 04, 202010:33
S01 Episode 11 - Season Finale LIVE Show with Ileana Sosa and Kendall Renee
Jun 03, 201901:04:17
S01 Episode 10 - Changing the Face of Beauty with Katie Driscoll

S01 Episode 10 - Changing the Face of Beauty with Katie Driscoll

Hey Everyone! Today’s episode is all about representation in advertising. We sat down with Katie Driscoll, founder of Changing The Face of Beauty.

Katie has 6 kids - she had 5 boys and then her daughter Grace came along. Grace has a magical extra chromosome and Grace is also the inspiration behind Changing The Face of Beauty.

Katie shares with us how she stared this amazing organization from the ground up. Katie continues to advocate for change in advertising because 1 out 5 people has a disability, but that number is not represented in ads/media.

Let’s help change that! If you see a company including people of all abilities in their ads, will you let them know you notice and that you appreciate it? If you are a talent agency, please hire people of all abilities so everyone is represented.
Apr 22, 201950:06
S01 Episode 9 Pt. 2- Abuse in the Disability Community with Natalie Weaver

S01 Episode 9 Pt. 2- Abuse in the Disability Community with Natalie Weaver

Today’s episode is part two of a series all about abuse in the disability community.

On today's episode we sat down with Natalie Weaver. Natalie's daughter Sophia has a facial difference and has endured an unspeakable amount of hate online. Natalie has even received death threats.

Natalie shares with us how she used to hide at home with Sophia and what happened in her life that turned her into the advocate she is today.

Natalie is a powerhouse advocate and does not back down. She stood up to Twitter along with an army behind her and was able to get them to include disability in their abuse reporting tool, in response to the many hateful and violent comments she has gotten when she posts photos of Sophia.

She is now standing up to Instagram. Natalie said that the abuse she and Sophia has received on Instagram is 3x what she has received on Facebook and Twitter combined. And she's only been on Instagram less than a year. When she reported a comment that said "drown her," Instagram responded that the comment doesn't violate community guidelines.

Will you stand with Natalie? Let's join her in this fight. Follow her on Instagram @nataliecweaver and tag @instagram along with @zuck and @mosseri and ask them to include disabilities in their abuse reporting tool until they can't ignore us any longer.

To any parent who's child has experienced abuse, you are not alone. We are here to help encourage you, and to help find your community.

Michelle

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Apr 08, 201943:54
S01 - Episode 8 - Abuse in the Disability Community Pt. 1 with Casey Murphy

S01 - Episode 8 - Abuse in the Disability Community Pt. 1 with Casey Murphy

Today’s episode is part one of a two part series all about abuse in the disability community. On today's episode I sat down with Kasey Murphy. Kasey's son Owen was in a SD classroom at Berkeley Heights Elementary in Martinsburg, West Virginia. A secret recording caught eight hours of the teacher and two aides verbally abusing and threatening the 4 kids in the class. Here is a sample of just a few of the things the kids endured: Owen, are you gonna jerk off in the chair? Adriana, gonna vomit on me today, unibrow? I’m gonna beat your butt. Elasia, I don’t know if I trust you- you’re a cannibal- you gonna murder me? As soon as she stops crying, I am going to put her hands right back inside these scissors. I ought to backhand you right in your teeth. You’re not getting anything to eat. I’ll punch you in your face. I’m going to pull your hair until you start crying. Don’t throw it, you animal. You wench. You’re like a Pygmy. I’m gonna knock you out. Kasey shared with us the shocking details of how law enforcement and the school district has completely dropped the ball and let these kids down. Justice has not been served, but we are hopeful that this will go to court and criminal charges will come. Please call Berkley County Prosecutor Katherine Delegate: 304-264-1971 and let her know that you think it's disgusting that she found no criminal wrongdoing. Please let her know that she should press criminal charges against the teacher, aides and all other school personnel who knew of the recording and failed to report the abuse. To any parent who's child has experienced abuse, you are not alone. We are here to help encourage you, and to help find your community. Mini Voice Recorder on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/EVIDA-Compatible-Dictaphone-Recording-Rechargeable/dp/B07F8RVJJK/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=small+recording+device&qid=1552681242&s=gateway&sr=8-1 Follow Owen's Army: https://www.facebook.com/Owens-Army-157936894362881/
Mar 18, 201940:48
S01 Episode 7 - Feeding Therapy Pt. 2 with Jamie Keller of Tiny Mouth
Feb 25, 201901:04:25
S01 Episode 6 - Feeding Therapy with Singer Songwriter Kendall Renee
Feb 11, 201939:38
S01 Episode 5 - Diagnosis with Jen Jacob of DSDN

S01 Episode 5 - Diagnosis with Jen Jacob of DSDN

Welcome friends, On today’s episode of Advocate like a Mother Podcast™ we talk all about diagnosis. Michelle and I got together to chat with Jen Jacob, author, co-founder, and executive director of Down syndrome diagnosis network the DSDN. Jen graciously shared her diagnosis story with us today. You know when the doctor looks at your different? Or when they say the words “these are difficult ultrasounds to go over.”? You immediately go into that outer-body experience. When your child gets a diagnosis it totally changes your life, as Jen told us. Jen’s nonprofit, Down Syndrome Diagnosis Network, launched in 2014. Their biggest effort is to inform, connect, and support new families. Pregnancy - 3 years or age are their main focus right now. They also have small private birth club groups where you can connect and find others. “They also provide resources for doctors. Local organizations and medical professionals have so much power so when we all work together, magic happens.” Here are some quotes from parents the DSDN website:  “A doctor had said Your son has a long life to look forward to. The only limitations they will have are the ones you set for him so make sure not to set any.”  “It’s your job to love her and enjoy the ride.”  “They only thing they won’t be able to do is scuba dive.” (from a Cardiologist.) And the best one, “I can’t tell you what they won’t be able to do I can’t do that with any baby.” That is a quote from a doctor with the right mindset for parents making a huge difference. When you get that diagnosis and your in a daze or feeling hopeless. This episode is all for you.  To any parent struggling with a child that has any diagnosis, you are not alone. We are here to help encourage you, and to help find your community. Michelle & Ashley CONNECT WITH OUR SHOW INSTAGRAM | www.instagram.com/advocatelikeamother TWITTER | www.twitter.com/advocatelikeamom EMAIL | Hello@advocatelikeamother.org PATREON | www.patreon.com/advocatelikeamother
Jan 21, 201901:09:46
S01 Episode 4 - Inclusive Playgrounds with Rebecca Kuntz

S01 Episode 4 - Inclusive Playgrounds with Rebecca Kuntz

Welcome friends. On today’s episode of Advocate like a Mother Podcast, Michelle and I get together to chat with Rebecca Kuntz. Rebecca has a daughter named Ellie who has cerebral palsy, epilepsy, and microcephaly.  We talked all about inclusive playgrounds. An inclusive playground is a playground accessible to wheel chairs, canes, walkers, sensory challenges, deafness and blindness. Parks in the U.S. are typically non-inclusive, meaning children with disabilities don’t have all of the special accommodations needed in order to be as safe as possible. When creating play environments that allow all children and their families to play, in addition to ensuring access, we must ensure inclusion. Kids need to play together, regardless of their abilities. Accessibility is not enough. Simply getting a child with limited mobility onto the playground doesn’t necessarily enhance their play experience. Nor does it take into consideration children with sensory deficits and other developmental issues.The Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA) made play areas and parks accessible to all children, but this doesn’t necessarily mean they’re built so that kids with different types of disabilities can play equally. New federal requirements under the Americans with Disabilities Act are changing the landscape for public playgrounds, requiring them to include equipment, materials, and designs that provide children with disabilities the same play opportunities as typical children. Parents and advocates are making the real difference — not the federal government. To have statistics you need researchers to be viewing the information, but there’s no funding for them. That and nobody is researching it so we have no statistics - This is a HUGE issue right here. If you don’t have a universally-designed playground in your community, there are a number of steps you can take to get the plan in action: Speak with local chapters of disability organizations about sponsorship and funding, such as the United Cerebral Palsy (UCP), Easter Seals, and United Way. Reach out to the parks and recreation department in your area and inquire if there’s a way for citizens to help raise funds for an inclusive playground. Get the local media interested, which can help spread awareness Talk to officials at your city’s town hall (be sure to be prepared to educate them as much as possible about the benefits of an inclusive playground). Speak with school officials, particularly if there are large numbers of children with special needs. Start a fundraiser (Note: Having funds will help you in your missions, but it often takes a lot of time and can be taxing. Getting non-profit support will make things a bit easier). To any parent struggling with inclusion , you are not alone. We are here to help encourage you, and to help find your community. Michelle & Ashley CONNECT WITH OUR SHOW INSTAGRAM | www.instagram.com/advocatelikeamother TWITTER | www.twitter.com/advocatelikeamom EMAIL | Hello@advocatelikeamother.org
Jan 07, 201938:17
S01 Episode 3 - Preparing you IEP with Child Advocate Sandi Ames | Pt. 2

S01 Episode 3 - Preparing you IEP with Child Advocate Sandi Ames | Pt. 2

Welcome friends, On today’s episode of ”Advocate like a Mother™ Podcast,” Michelle and Ashley chat with the Sandi Ames. Sandi is the director of Parents CAN which stands for Collaborate, Advocate, Navigate. Parents CAN is a non profit that provides education and support to individuals with disabilities, their families, and those that serve them. She is an incredible child advocate and parent mentor. We sat around Michelle’s kitchen table with Sandi to discuss IEP’s (individual educational plan). We discuss goals and the actual assessment in our first part of this two part series. Sandi is a powerhouse advocate when it comes to IEPs and the school, she’s been in the field since the mid 80s! On this second part of this episode we discussed the actual meeting itself. Sandi is working hard on giving the educators the resources that they need. Going into the IEP meeting make sure you know this is not a us vs. them, We need to all work together. You should review the assessment, and the proposed goals, make sure you have a vision for your child. Come prepared with your talking points. Keep in mind we want to build a strong relationship and help build this foundation for our kids. Be proactive not reactive. Don’t feel overwhelmed when you feel emotionally charged during the meeting, take a break, take a deep breathe, and come back. There’s so many approaches. You can always bring someone with you to take some notes. You have a voice in this, you can ask for them to explain their abbreviations and district terms. It’s your meeting, we are equal members of the team. To make it a little less stressful we have included a checklist you can bring in alongside your brag sheet! To any parent struggling with a child that has an IEP, you are not alone. We are here to help encourage you, and to help find your community. Michelle & Ashley Check out the IEP checklist here: https://www.advocatelikeamother.org/podcast/s01ep3-iep-sandiames-pt2 CONNECT WITH OUR SHOW INSTAGRAM | http://www.instagram.com/advocatelikeamother TWITTER | http://www.twitter.com/advocatelikeamom EMAIL | Hello@advocatelikeamother.org
Dec 10, 201836:06
S01 Episode 2 - IEPs with Child Advocate Sandi Ames | Pt. 1

S01 Episode 2 - IEPs with Child Advocate Sandi Ames | Pt. 1

Welcome friends, On today’s episode of Advocate like a Mother Podcast™, Michelle and I got to chat with the Sandi Ames. Sandi is the director of CAN which stands for Collaborate, Advocate, Navigate. CAN is a non-profit that provides education and support to individuals with disabilities, their families and those that serve them. She is an incredible child advocate and parent mentor. We sat around Michelle’s kitchen table with Sandi and talked all about IEP’s -if you don’t know what an IEP it stands for “individual educational program”. We discuss goals and the actual assessment in our first part of this two part series. Sandi is a powerhouse advocate when it comes to IEPs and the school. She has been working in the field since the mid 80s! Having a child in “special education” means you need a lot of prayer and prep. She has a “house” metaphor that explains a great program for a student with a disability. In the “house” metaphor, first you need a foundation, or an assessment where everyone is in agreement. Second, you have your walls, which are the goals. The areas where your focus to help improve the child. Then you have the roof, which is the services. The amount of time each service gets. Then you have the neighborhood where they would be best placed. To any parent struggling with a child that has an IEP, you are not alone. We are here to help encourage you, and to help find your community. SHOW LINKS > Michelle mentioned that she wrote a blog post all about Eli's first IEP and a guide for other parents on how to be prepared for their child's first IEP. Read her article here >> https://www.littlestwarrior.com/blogs/news/a-guide-to-your-childs-first-iep > And our friend Tiffany Stafford (if you want to link to her, here is her FB link: https://www.facebook.com/tiffany.n.stafford ) made a great template for brag sheets or as she calls them, vision statements. You can find the template on her blog here >> https://our3lilbirds.blogspot.com/2017/05/how-to-make-one-page-profile-ellie-style.html?m=1&fbclid=IwAR02VrGa0ZyYW-Tls2PSEm6aKgbxjvoNKfFRrFf-bcxXYUaxiFW5R8P-Qy4 > 18 TOOLS FOR INCLUSIVE UNDERSTANDING AND SUPPORT WORKSHEET > https://advocatelikeamother.squarespace.com/s/18-Tools-for-Inclusive-Understanding-and-Support.pdf Email Sandi Ames: parentscanoc@yahoo.com Michelle & Ashley CONNECT WITH OUR SHOW INSTAGRAM | www.instagram.com/advocatelikeamother TWITTER | www.twitter.com/advocatelikeamom EMAIL | Hello@advocatelikeamother.org
Nov 26, 201836:59
S01 Episode 1 - American Sign Language with Rachel Coleman of Signing Time

S01 Episode 1 - American Sign Language with Rachel Coleman of Signing Time

Welcome friends, On tonight’s episode of Advocate like a Mother Podcast, Michelle and I got together to chat with the Rachel Coleman. Rachel is an American producer and actress who is known for creating with her sister Emilie de Azevedo Brown, they created together the Signing Time! It’s a video series to teach children basic American Sign Language (ASL), which was broadcasted on public television and Nick Junior. She produces, directs, and stars in the series. On top of handling much of its operations as co-founder of Two Little Hands Productions, she is also executive director of the American Society for Deaf Children. We sat around Michelle’s kitchen table with Rachel. We had the best conversation discussing American Sign Language, and Singing Time! We talked about the diagnoses process of her sweet girls Leah and Lucy, which she learned always trust your mom gut. What an inspiration she is in the ASL & special needs community. She changed her entire focus from her musical background to something that was not only life changing for her daughters, but for so many other families. She has made such an impact helping teach others how to communicate. We love that this is a family production, it shows what such a product of love she created. Sometimes after you have kids that’s when you truly find your place in this world. Diagnoses are so hard, from the phone call, the stress, and the pressure but when you look over at that shinning light, and see their little souls telling you, “I’m fine guys, nothing is wrong here. Don’t be sad.” Us parents maybe need to learn some new things, and that’s not bad! To any parent struggling with a child that is deaf, you are not alone. We are here to help encourage you, and to help find your community. Michelle & Ashley Read the Show Transcript here: https://static1.squarespace.com/static/5bad5607d7819e296d684673/t/5befa1361ae6cf7a6947c89a/1542431031748/S01+Episode+1+-+American+Sign+Language+...+Coleman+of+Signing+Time+-+Google+Docs.pdf CONNECT WITH OUR SHOW INSTAGRAM | www.instagram.com/advocatelikeamother TWITTER | www.twitter.com/advocatelikeamom EMAIL | Hello@advocatelikeamother.org WEBSITE | www.advocatelikeamother.org CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST RACHEL COLEMAN WEBSITE | https://www.signingtime.com INSTAGRAM | www.instagram.com/signing_time OTHER LINKS CHIME INSTITUTE | http://www.chimeinstitute.org/
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