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ADOSSIER

ADOSSIER

By Shida Osman

ADOSSIER is your imaginary adult friend that curates you through minutes of sanity. Hosted by Shida Osman that hails from the sunny island of Singapore, get ready to feel again with delectable infotainment & her personal rambles on OFFSIDE.
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OFFSIDE #5: Finally sorta HAPPY ( And, Scared Shitless) ; “When They See Us”, That Question on Instagram, Why I Don’t Hate Rich People Anymore & Prettipls Video ;

ADOSSIERAug 11, 2019

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FRI-K: Billie Eilish - Bellyache Cover ;
Jun 25, 202104:03
Bo Burnham "Inside" Breakdown: Part 2
Jun 23, 202139:48
Bo Burnham "Inside" Breakdown: Part 1
Jun 23, 202139:53
OFFSIDE: Racism Looks Stupid & My Experience Joining Sugarbook
Jun 20, 202129:14
OFFSIDE: "INSIDE" & MY EMOTIONAL BURNOUT
Jun 06, 202133:51
FRI-K: Lykke Li, A Little Bit
Jun 03, 202105:33
OFFSIDE: Bella Poarch, Bo Burnham, Israel Ethnic Cleansing of Palestine & Skillsfuture Credit ;

OFFSIDE: Bella Poarch, Bo Burnham, Israel Ethnic Cleansing of Palestine & Skillsfuture Credit ;

You can make donations to Gaza or Palestine via these organizations:

RLAF Foundation: https://rlafoundation.org.sg/launch-of-humanitarian-aid-for-gaza-fundraising-campaign/

Sofee Initiative: https://www.instagram.com/sofeeinitiative/

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So, do you miss me?

Listen in as I discuss Bella Poarch's latest single, Bo Burnham's Upcoming special, the unethical Israel ethnic cleansing of Palestine and how I am making use of my Skillsfuture credit.

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May 23, 202127:47
OFFSIDE: To Salam Or Not To? Beow Tan & MRT Entertainment
May 02, 202133:17
OFFSIDE: Migrant Workers Deserves MORE & Oculus Quest
Apr 25, 202127:31
FRI-K: Bic Runga - Sway
Apr 23, 202105:46
Indian Matchmaking In Singapore: The High Expectations, Dating Evolution & Looks VS. Personality
Apr 21, 202147:49
OFFSIDE: RAMADAN IS COMING & About Thirst Trapping; Men Can Get Away With It & Women Are Called Whores?
Apr 11, 202124:56
FRI-K: James Arthur - Train Wreck ;
Apr 08, 202103:50
THIS.CONNECT: Difficult Emotions & Dealing With Them
Apr 08, 202132:07
OFFSIDE: Haters, Read Choi & Calling Out Season

OFFSIDE: Haters, Read Choi & Calling Out Season

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Had someone who misconstrued the whole meaning of my previous episode of the Hijab issue and called me out in public. 

And from, Armie Hammer, David Dobrik and now, Read Choi. It's about time that men, as I have said before, that are regarded as the champion gender, learn to love and respect women. Let's not let these few men project our fear and insecurity towards good men.

There is no such thing as being too much of a woman. They should know their limits. 

Apr 03, 202126:48
FRI-K: Dua Lipa - Don't Start Now Cover ;

FRI-K: Dua Lipa - Don't Start Now Cover ;

I love Dua Lipa. People can love Harry Styles, but I love Dua Lipa.

Come, let's sing along. I wonder if I ever hold an IG live for a karaoke session, you guys will join me. 

Happy Weekends! =)

Apr 02, 202103:04
Part 2: Graphology; Red Flags, Best Moments & I Get My Handwriting Analyzed
Mar 31, 202130:28
Part 1: Graphology, Why Sulianah Chose Graphology & Hacks To Improve Your Handwriting
Mar 31, 202135:48
OFFSIDE: HIJAB ISSUE IN SG; Art Holier Than Thou, Ustaz Bangsat & The Fear Of Foreign Influences
Mar 27, 202132:03
THIS.CONNECT: Integrity, Resilience & Discipline
Mar 25, 202129:57
OFFSIDE: Royals, Even They Do Stupid Shit For Love, "Toxic Mums" & How Responsibility of Kids, Shouldn't Just Fall On Mothers

OFFSIDE: Royals, Even They Do Stupid Shit For Love, "Toxic Mums" & How Responsibility of Kids, Shouldn't Just Fall On Mothers

There are genocides in the world happening and of course, one has to be on Oprah, speaking of how unfair her life is. WAIT.. racism & bullying are not at all okay, but can't you be more privileged? How many beings have dies due to the injustice of racism or bullying? What are your plans to lessen the injustice for yourself and every one after telling your story? Call to action?

Also, in one of the questionnaires I have in my IG, I talked about heartaches. And one of the inputs were "Having a Toxic Mum", which is heartbreaking. Talked about it with a friend and here I am, unpacking it from my own experience. But, isn't it a bit unfair to blame it on only Mothers?

At the end of the day, it hurts and we have to do something about it (case to case), but when either one of the party passes away, none of the arguments or material things is gonna matter. Our lesson & challenge here is: Forgiveness.  

PS: Everyone makes horrible or great decisions when in love. 

Mar 20, 202125:59
FRI-K: Nothing But Thieves - Lover, Please Stay Cover ;

FRI-K: Nothing But Thieves - Lover, Please Stay Cover ;

Come hug. 

Was feeling a little bit sappy, so.. one of my favorite love songs from one of my fave underrated English rock bands, Nothing But Thieves.

Enjoy! 

Mar 19, 202104:11
THIS.CONNECT: Courage
Mar 11, 202144:48
OFFSIDE: Dreams

OFFSIDE: Dreams

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I dreamt of a toilet bowl and peed on my ex's mattress. I also had knee jerk movements when I was falling from a tree in my sleep.

So, what's yours?

Also, New Amsterdam & Marvelous Mrs Maisel. 

Mar 07, 202130:52
THIS.CONNECT, Part 2: Self-Love
Feb 18, 202123:27
THIS.CONNECT, Part 1 : Love
Feb 17, 202125:55
OFFSIDE: My Battle With Eczema (also, the start of my love for combat boots!)

OFFSIDE: My Battle With Eczema (also, the start of my love for combat boots!)

I remember crying myself to sleep because of the itch that Eczema brought me when I was younger. But, thank god, with YEARS of researching and split tests, I have it under control now.

I share with you what are the products that you can use if you do have Eczema and the food that you should stay the hell away from. 

Feb 14, 202129:49
FRI-K: James Arthur - Breathe

FRI-K: James Arthur - Breathe

Here's one to prepare you for Valentine's Day. Also because I have a crazy crush on James Arthur.

Sorry if I murdered this song, of course he sings it better.

HAPPY VALENTINE'S! 

Feb 12, 202103:18
OFFSIDE: My Circle Rehab; Why, Who You Surround Yourself With Is Important ;

OFFSIDE: My Circle Rehab; Why, Who You Surround Yourself With Is Important ;

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This one's for the beings suffering in friendships, relationships, marriage, jobs or any kind of "ships". I gotchu. Here's my proposition on why people should walk away more, IF there is no love. The universe really has better plans for you. 

You plan, but you also have to deal with it as it comes. That way you won't have a heart attack. 

There is a reason why former addicts go to rehab. To get BETTER. Surround yourself with better people. 

Feb 07, 202123:08
OFFSIDE: Honest Mistakes; Armie Hammer Leaked DMs & Owning My Honest Mistakes ;

OFFSIDE: Honest Mistakes; Armie Hammer Leaked DMs & Owning My Honest Mistakes ;

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Guess what? Oliver Twist (he was Oliver in the popular movie, 'Call Me By Your Name').

I always believe, things that happen behind closed doors, should remain behind closed doors. Just like food, everybody has preferences. Some are adventurous with their food, some can eat the same dish every single day. Some share the same favorite food, while others don't. 

Hence, like every other sex associated topic, I question the psychology and probabilities behind Armie's DMs. 

Also, I share some of my honest mistakes that was painfully embarrassing. 

Jan 30, 202127:01
Good Times: Our Childhood Games, Chapteh/Jianzi/Jegichagi & Many More Names ;

Good Times: Our Childhood Games, Chapteh/Jianzi/Jegichagi & Many More Names ;

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While the world is falling apart, let's think of happier times: CHILDHOOD. 

Did you know that our Singaporean childhood game, "Chapteh" has many different names and is known around the South East Asia region? Jianzi, Da Cau, Jegichagi, Sipa and more?

The beauty of South East Asia, we're all interconnected. We can stop fighting about Nasi Lemak now. Well, except the claim for Nasi Ambeng or Kerabu. That one? Must fight. 


Jan 27, 202124:20
OFFSIDE: Domestic Violence, Johnny Depp Vs. Amber Heard ;

OFFSIDE: Domestic Violence, Johnny Depp Vs. Amber Heard ;

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In Singapore, men account for more than 66% of all suicides in 2019. Not only women experience domestic violence. 

In this episode, we debunk the irregularities of Amber Heard’s deposition that might possibly show gaslighting signs towards Johnny Depp. Are men really suppose to just take it in and not seek help just because they’re “men”? 

These are the numbers to call if you are experiencing domestic violence, spread the word: 

ComCare Call
: 1800-222-0000 , SOS (24 hours daily)
1800-221-4444 

MSF Child Protective Service :1800-777-0000 

Care Corner Project Start: 
6476 1482 

PAVE Integrated Services for Individual and Family Protection Specialist Centre (ISIFPSC)
:6555 0390 

TRANS SAFE Centre
: 6449 9088

Jan 23, 202124:30
Part 2: THIS.CONNECT: Threading Worlds Exhibition, Mental Health & Suicide Prevention Awareness In Singapore Through The Exhibition ;

Part 2: THIS.CONNECT: Threading Worlds Exhibition, Mental Health & Suicide Prevention Awareness In Singapore Through The Exhibition ;

ADS: @adosejewellery on IG

Singaporean social artist duo Hunny & Lummy, presents its multidisciplinary exhibition, ThisConnect: Threading Worlds, which aims to encourage masses to experience and converse their truths. The exhibition was first launched, in conjunction with Suicide Prevention Awareness Month in September 2020.

In Part 2, MK shares the tools needed, to take care of our mental health and some of the works in the exhibition.

Below are the dates and venues for the exhibition, all are open to public.

Full Exhibition:

(17 Dec 20’ - 30 Jan 21’) 1 Neil Road, #03-02 (Main Entrance), S088804

Satellite Venues:

(17 Dec 20’ - 17 Jan 21’) Temasek Shophouse

(2 Jan 21’ - 8 Feb 21’) Library @ orchard

(2 Jan 21’ - 8 Feb 21’) Tzu Chi Humanistic Youth Centre

For more information, head to https://www.thisconnect.today

https://www.facebook.com/thisconnect.today

https://www.instagram.com/thisconnect.today

Jan 20, 202129:37
Part 1: THIS.CONNECT: Threading Worlds Exhibition, Mental Health & Suicide Prevention Awareness In Singapore Through The Exhibition ;

Part 1: THIS.CONNECT: Threading Worlds Exhibition, Mental Health & Suicide Prevention Awareness In Singapore Through The Exhibition ;

ADS: @adosejewellery on IG

Singaporean social artist duo Hunny & Lummy, presents its multidisciplinary exhibition, ThisConnect: Threading Worlds, which aims to encourage masses to experience and converse their truths. The exhibition was first launched, in conjunction with Suicide Prevention Awareness Month in September 2020.

In Part 1, we unpack the different elements that lead to mental distress in Singapore, especially with Covid, internally and externally. 

I personally have been to the full exhibition at 1 Neil Road. The raw and honest documentations and audio-video artworks have touched, moved, and created greater awareness for people to re-examine fundamentally what it means to be a human being; from various dimensions of human connections and relationships, from oneself to other(s) to our natural world encapsulated via their participatory-instructional art coupled with conscious conversations, that shines through. 

One of the works, I Feel You portrays 2 complete strangers, holding hands, face to face, being vulnerable and connecting by sharing stories of their personal truths where pain, loss, angst, existential questions towards life emerges in a 20-minute conversation amongst pairs. While one speaks, the listening party holds the safe space and only replies with, “I Feel You”. 

Below are the dates and venues for the exhibition, all are open to public.

Full Exhibition:

(17 Dec 20’ - 30 Jan 21’) 1 Neil Road, #03-02 (Main Entrance), S088804

Satellite Venues:

(17 Dec 20’ - 17 Jan 21’) Temasek Shophouse

(2 Jan 21’ - 8 Feb 21’) Library @ orchard

(2 Jan 21’ - 8 Feb 21’) Tzu Chi Humanistic Youth Centre

For more information, head to https://www.thisconnect.today

https://www.facebook.com/thisconnect.today

https://www.instagram.com/thisconnect.today

Jan 20, 202135:14
FRI-K: Arctic Monkeys - Do I Wanna Know? ;

FRI-K: Arctic Monkeys - Do I Wanna Know? ;

I had to put up a picture of Jung Woo Sung to get the feel for this. HAHA!

Also, ARCTIC MONKEYS LIVE IN ROYAL ALBERT HALL IS OUT YALL!

I miss live music. I miss concerts. Come, let's sing our hearts out.

Dec 10, 202003:18
OFFSIDE #26: Living With Aging Parents ;

OFFSIDE #26: Living With Aging Parents ;

In Singapore, it is common that you live with your immediate family until you get married and can buy a house. But not many people can bear or want to do the heavy lifting of living with aging parents when their senses are deteriorating as we speak. It is not easy, trust me. You argue over the slightest things. You barely sleep because you are worried that they might fall or die in their sleep. 

But, I also realize it is not the time to pick our wounds over what they did and what they didn't. It is a privilege if we did that.  

One advice: They only have so much time and despite the silly times that they might have put us through, look at their great sacrifices as well. Fear of regretting is forever.  Also, parents listening, be easy on your kids. They're still trying to figure it out as much as you are (yes, Mama & Papa). But, I'm sure they love you with all their hearts. 

Nov 30, 202023:59
OFFSIDE #25: Celebrities That Age Well, Baybeats 2020 & ScottyLum ;

OFFSIDE #25: Celebrities That Age Well, Baybeats 2020 & ScottyLum ;

Sometimes, you just want to look at pretty things just as it is. James Marsden & Monica Bellucci is at the top of my list.

Did you get to go to Baybeats 2020 this year? I'm not a Baybeat go-er but, I'd have to say, it looks interesting this year. Still prefer crowded live music festival.

And the only reason why I brought up ScottyLum is because, it's just interesting to watch how people actually get heated discussing different faiths. When are people gonna realize that, none is wrong, it is just to learn, right? No validation needed. We should learn from each other. But also, I think there is no moderator. 

Join me and share your opinions. You know where to find me. 

Nov 14, 202022:26
FRI-K: Sara Bareilles - Gravity Cover ;

FRI-K: Sara Bareilles - Gravity Cover ;

Has always been one of my favorite songs, will always stay one of my favorite songs. Sara always writes her songs full of body, edge and then a twist. I miss her music. 

Enjoy and sing along, if you want to. =)

Nov 12, 202003:39
OFFSIDE #24: Runaway Girl & Preserving Your Worth ;
Nov 07, 202028:32
OFFSIDE #23: Hardship 3, I Had A Panic Attack Whilst Being The 3rd Owner of My House ;

OFFSIDE #23: Hardship 3, I Had A Panic Attack Whilst Being The 3rd Owner of My House ;

One of the reasons why, sometimes I get exhausted of taking care and understanding people. Hence, now, just at the smell of suspicion, I walk away. 

It took me 3 years to get back up on my feet, to be mentally healthy again, after this incident, after the first breakup and after a second different toxic breakup.  

I hope to share this hardship of mine of becoming a 3rd owner of my house, partially reluctant because it is someone's else baggage, might be of takeaway for you. You can try to hate a person for their mistakes, but you can't, so the pain stays. 

This was also the cause of my first panic attack. Really thought I was going to die. 

Oct 24, 202042:31
OFFSIDE #22: Embracing My Fear In Business & Podcast Woes ;
Oct 18, 202022:08
FRI-K: (Malay Song) Dato' Siti Nurhaliza - Diari Hatimu Cover ;

FRI-K: (Malay Song) Dato' Siti Nurhaliza - Diari Hatimu Cover ;

My podcast, my karaoke session. So deprived. HAHAHA! 

But guys, don't mind me. Come. Sing along with me while I strain my chords to sing with Tok Ti. I hope to be able to karaoke with you guys, soon.

I grew up admiring Dato' Siti Nurhaliza vocal chords like mad, so here goes nothing..

Oct 15, 202004:20
Ep. 23: Shafique Bhaktiar, The Last King Podcast ; PART 2, Hypersensitivity, Movie Breakdowns & Meditation ;

Ep. 23: Shafique Bhaktiar, The Last King Podcast ; PART 2, Hypersensitivity, Movie Breakdowns & Meditation ;

Shafique is honestly one of the best conversationalist, a knowledgeable and need I mention, a very quick-witted human being that I am fortunate to have on my podcast. Just listen to this podcast and observe how upbeat the conversation is. 

In Part 2, we discuss about the alarming trend of hypersensitivity within youths, his favorite movies & how we both agree that meditation helps A LOT.

IG: @shafiquebhaktiar

FB: https://www.facebook.com/lastkingpodcast

Listen to them on Spotify, Itunes, Google & all the major podcast platforms.


Oct 14, 202041:51
Ep. 23: Shafique Bhaktiar, The Last King Podcast ; PART 1, Podcasting Then & Now, Movies , Joana Rogan & A Lot More

Ep. 23: Shafique Bhaktiar, The Last King Podcast ; PART 1, Podcasting Then & Now, Movies , Joana Rogan & A Lot More

So, there's a surge in podcast, ya, we know. Well, I like to introduce quality ones. If you're a movie buff in SG, you've heard of them.

In this episode, I am humbled to have Shafique Bhaktiar from The Last King Podcast and literally, we talked about EVERYTHING in just the first part. 

So, we started from The Academy Awards, where The Last King Podcast is now, Joe Rogan and honestly, how cerebral, podcasting is in comparison to YouTube. 

IG: @shafiquebhaktiar

FB: https://www.facebook.com/lastkingpodcast

Listen to them on Spotify, Itunes, Google & all the major podcast platforms. 

Oct 14, 202001:00:18
OFFSIDE #21: Some of Our Emotional Baggage, Are Because of Our Parents

OFFSIDE #21: Some of Our Emotional Baggage, Are Because of Our Parents

Even as adults, how is it possible that our emotional baggage are derived from things our parents has said to us, from years ago? Does that justify that forgiveness is easier said than done? That we're all actually kids just achieving because all we ever wanted was our parents validation?

For the young ones listening, if you have a dream and you have your own means, go for your dreams. Never penalize your parents, still love them,  but, don't fret if they don't acknowledge what you want to do. 

Ultimately, the sweet taste of success is yours and with that, comes great responsibility for you to push make it happen. 

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Oct 04, 202027:31
OFFSIDE #20: Is It True That Men Are Intimidated By Successful Women? Let's discuss ;

OFFSIDE #20: Is It True That Men Are Intimidated By Successful Women? Let's discuss ;

DISCLAIMER: I didn't get to say this but, this podcast is not suitable for children. Reason for the EXPLICIT icon. May contain strong language.

Have you been told to be more "womanly"? (Still don't know what the hell that means)

Or, have you always felt that men don't meet up to when they say they love strong women, but actually, fall short in loving them? Then, tune in. 

And I need to say, that this podcast is in no way, men-hating. I love men. I just want to discuss why secretaries are always the choice for affairs in comparison to women bosses.

And, don't forget to click on this LAZADA NowFoods link, for good lavender essential oil that helped me: https://c.lazada.sg/t/c.be1vwj?url=https%3A%2F%2Fc.lazada.sg%2Ft%2Fc.be1vwj%3Furl%3D

Sep 26, 202029:19
FRI-K: (Malay Song) Siti Sarah - Kesetiaan Cover (Just My Vocals) ;

FRI-K: (Malay Song) Siti Sarah - Kesetiaan Cover (Just My Vocals) ;

Treat this as a lullaby and then you can on the Timer on Spotify. Treat this like a more fun version of the Calm app, HAHA!

Its all about Audio for me, isn't it?  I'm currently experimenting with what works best to help you go through life, with Audio. If done right, I might even be able to Karaoke with you online, if you can still manoeuvre the internet and your instrument, silmultaneously. Cause' I can only give my voice. HAHAHAHA!

Tell me what you think! Enjoy!

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Sep 25, 202004:29
EP. 22 : Hypnotherapy; PART 1, McKing's Journey Into Conversational Hypnosis

EP. 22 : Hypnotherapy; PART 1, McKing's Journey Into Conversational Hypnosis

I am very fortunate to have Lee McKing, Hypnotist, winner of the 2020 South East Asia Business Awards and co-author of 3 books titled, “Because, I’m Introvert”, “The Better Business Book” and “Activate Your Life”. Join my conversation with him as he unpacks why he decided on Hypnotherapy, the different types of Hypnosis and his clients success stories in Part 1. Lee McKing’s Website: https://leemcking.sg/ IG/FB: @leemckingthehypnotist Books are available on: Amazon.com Lazada NOWFOODS link: https://c.lazada.sg/t/c.be1vwj?url=https%3A%2F%2Fc.lazada.sg%2Ft%2Fc.be1vwj%3Furl%3D

Sep 18, 202044:59
EP. 22 : Hypnotheraphy; PART 2, McKing's Journey Into Conversational Hypnosis

EP. 22 : Hypnotheraphy; PART 2, McKing's Journey Into Conversational Hypnosis

I am very fortunate to have Lee McKing, Hypnotist, winner of the 2020 South East Asia Business Awards and co-author of 3 books titled, “Because, I’m Introvert”, “The Better Business Book” and “Activate Your Life”. In Part 2, I ask him about the reception of Hypnosis in Asia, what would he do if he is not a Hypnotist & funny rapid fire session.  Lee McKing’s Website: https://leemcking.sg/ IG/FB: @leemckingthehypnotist Books are available on: Amazon.com Lazada NOWFOODS: https://c.lazada.sg/t/c.be1vwj?url=https%3A%2F%2Fc.lazada.sg%2Ft%2Fc.be1vwj%3Furl%3D
Sep 18, 202040:11
OFFSIDE #19: Why You Should Watch The Social Dilemma on Netflix

OFFSIDE #19: Why You Should Watch The Social Dilemma on Netflix

Because honestly there are bigger things in the world to care about, instead of viewing influencers beefing or a rigged election. AI is already happening under your fingertips. And the only way out, is to use your mind to think. 

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Sep 13, 202024:19