Age 2 Age
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Age 2 AgeFeb 02, 2024
Age 2 Age: Mr & Mrs Olaleye (Part 2)
Part 2 continues with the journey of their move from Nigeria to the UK for their children's education due to prior planning and the advice of a mentor. The emphasis on the significance of investing time in their children and the role strong familial relationships play in shaping their development. They also discuss personal regrets and the sacrifices made for a better future, such as leaving behind successful businesses and active lifestyles. For more about the podcast: https://www.linktr.ee/age2age If you have any questions or comments about any topics in this episode please email: age2agepodcast@gmail.com Please like, share and subscribe to the podcast wherever you're listening in. Thank you 🙏🏾
Age 2 Age - Mr & Mrs Olaleye (Part1)
My guests in this episode are Mr & Mrs Paul Olaleye. The short story is that I met them at a 3 year launch of Puff Puff Ministry which is a fantastic business run by their daughters. I performed at one of their events and from there we scheduled a time to meet and have this conversation. Since then I can't tell you how instrumental Uncle Paul has been to the life of this podcast. How supportive and encouraging he has been. On this we speak about their marriage, about raising 5 girls, about migration, about business, music, and everything inbetween. The entire conversation was so long that its going to have to be split into 2 episodes. That’s how good it was. For more about the podcast: https://www.linktr.ee/age2age If you have any questions or comments about any topics in this episode please email: age2agepodcast@gmail.com Please like, share and subscribe to the podcast wherever you're listening in. Thank you 🙏🏾 00:00:00 - Introduction 00:05:00 - Early Memories and Occupations - Mr. Paul's father's influential career at the British and French Bank in Nigeria is discussed. - The impact of parents' stories on Mr. Paul's upbringing, education, and life choices is highlighted. 00:10:00 - Upbringing and Family Dynamics - Insights into Mr & Mrs Olaleye's childhood, family dynamics, and early experiences are shared. - Their relationship with his mother and societal pressures are discussed. 00:15:00 - Cultural Differences in Nigeria - The conversation delves into cultural disparities between Northern and Southern Nigeria, particularly regarding women and marriage preferences. - The challenges faced in the education system during the late '70s are outlined. 00:20:00 - Childhood Incidents and Lessons - Anecdotes are shared, including a childhood incident of wanting to attend a specific school. - The importance of seizing opportunities and having faith in the unknown is discussed. 00:25:00 - The "Corridor Effect" and Parental Reflections - The concept of the "corridor effect" is explained, emphasising the unpredictable consequences of actions. - Reflections on raising daughters and recognising each child's unique gifts are shared. 00:30:00 - Raising Children and Gender Neutrality - Thoughts on raising children, gender-neutral parenting, and marriage advice are explored. - The emphasis on character development, decision-making skills, and respecting children's choices is highlighted. 00:35:00 - Importance of Character Building - The speaker underscores the significance of building strong character and decision-making abilities in children. - The role of conversations with children in their growth and the challenges they face are discussed. 00:40:00 - Parental Influence and Career Aspirations - A conversation with the their daughter about career aspirations. - Reflections on remembering the positive aspects of parents' lives and their influence. 00:45:00 - Evolving Cultural Beliefs - The changing attitudes towards gender roles and cultural beliefs are discussed. - The impact of modern life, economics, and the internet on parenting is explored. 00:50:00 - Generosity and Nurturing Talents - Reflections on his father's upbringing and its influence on his generous nature. - Balancing conflicts in relationships and recognising each child's unique gifts are emphasised. 00:55:00 - Consequences of Confrontation - Reflections on the consequences of confrontation and the importance of avoiding unchecked emotions. #podcasts #age2age #theolaleyes
Age 2 Age: Lady Shayo Imologome
My wonderful guest in this episode is Shayo Imologome (AKA Lady Shayo), a remarkable woman with an incredible story to tell. She believes women can have it all. We talk about her early life living with foster parents, finding love, marriage and how woman can successfully juggle multiple roles. Lady Shayo is a strategy consultant, a business analyst, a coach, wife and mother. She narrates her experiences of schooling in Nigeria and shares lots of relevant insights.
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Age 2 Age: Dr Biodun Shobanjo
On this episode I had the privilege of speaking with a pioneer in the advertising industry in Nigeria. He was a chairman of Troyka holding group for years, he was a CEO of Insight Communication for 25years and is considered to be an iconic guru in advertising. Successfully navigating from journalism into the world of advertising, his biography "The will to win" chronicles the journey of a man who rose from humble beginnings to become a giant of industry. My guest is Dr Biodun Shobanjo.
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Dr Akintunde Akikunmi
On this episode I had the privilege of sitting with a medical doctor, a lawyer, an author who also served in both the Nigerian army and the British army. If that sounds spectacular for any one person to accomplish, it's because it is. We had a great conversation that indulged his in-depth knowledge of the rich history of Nigeria politics and infrastructure. My inner history buff had a filled time learning from the author of 'Hubris: A brief political history of the Nigerian Army'. My guest is Dr Akintunde Akinkunmi.
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Age 2 Age: Mr Abiodun Olaitan
My guest in this episode is someone who has been in my life for quite a few years. When my father passed he was one of the few people who stepped in as a father figure in that time and until now. I have a great deal of respect for him and I'm glad I got this opportunity to sit with him and explore his journey up to the present. As with some of my guests in the past it turns out that some of the things I thought I knew about him turned out to be assumptions and things I had imagined were his experiences. I guess the moral there is that the best way to know a persons story is to hear them tell it themselves.
Also like the previous episode you can find some footage from this episode on Youtube and also over on Instagram.
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Age 2 Age: Mr Jonathan Amon
The backdrop for this episode, however, was the political and racial unrest following the murder of George Floyd and the Black Lives Matter movement. This episode was recorded in the heat of that period.
We delve into topics around race, spirituality, self-esteem, and parenthood. I also had the opportunity to record for this episode on video and I think watching Mr Amon speak is just as captivating as listening to him as he articulates issues that have sat just millimetres under his skin for ages. You can find the video on Youtube: www.youtube.com/channel/UClHdpwArt0-jqGDaqWkEkzw
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Age 2 Age: Ayodele Ogunseyinde
This episode has been long overdue and I'm really glad I finally got this special guest to sit with me.
One of the most ingenious women I've had the privilege to know. None other than the woman who brought me into this world 🤗🙏🏾
Age To Age: Mrs Tolu Amon [Re-Upload]
The dreaded pandemic had altered plans for a long time but I'm glad to be back with a few episodes. I was lucky to be able to sit and have a conversation with Mrs Amon thanks to her daughter reaching out. We talked about our parents and getting older which naturally brought us to legacies and posterity. I jumped at the opportunity to sit with Mrs Amon and we quickly eased into what became a very free-flowing conversation about life, work, independence, faith and children. I thoroughly enjoyed our conversation and Mrs Amon took so naturally to it in-spite of the lights and video camera (yes we filmed this one too and it will be out on Youtube one day)
Thank you for sticking around and hope you enjoy this life story.
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Age To Age: Mr Valentine Uchenna Ezike [Re-Upload]
I met Mr Valentine Ezike on a rainy Sunday evening in his lovely home and before long we were sat down to have this brilliant conversation. If you know anything about Nigeria you might know that there are quite a number of languages, cultures, tribes, faiths, sects and so on. It's no surprise that although I lived in Nigeria, I wasn't at all aware of the experience of someone of Igbo heritage. We speak about his experience not just growing up but also living through the Nigerian Civil war and life afterwards. As if one Civil war wasn't enough he also lived in Germany during the end of the civil war that saw the fall of the Berlin wall. In Mr Ezike's house I not only see pictures from his youth in Nigeria, I also see pictures of his early adult life in Europe before marriage and fatherhood. There was a lot to condense into this episode and the countless stories were a lot of fun to listen to. I apologise now for the many "wow"'s and odd sounds you might hear from me. I was genuinely fascinated.
Enjoy this recollection of the life of Mr Valentine Ezike.
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Age To Age: Mr Gbenga Taiwo [Re-Upload]
One thing that's clear to me at this point is that even though my guests in each episode so far have lived through a similar era with similar patterns, the story is quite different from person to person and I never know what to expect.
Although Mr Taiwo wasn't a stranger to me, there was still so much I didn't know about his life experiences. Some of which was quite fantastic and revelatory to me. I wish ALL of our conversation that day was recorded but that would have made for a much much longer episode. In this episode, we talk about life through the lens of a professional barrister, a father and devoted husband.
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Age To Age: Otunba Odunuga [Re-Upload]
I sat with Mr Odunuga just minutes after walking through his door and we made ourselves some tea and got chatting almost immediately. It was really natural like we'd known each other for a lot longer. His insight and interesting life was a pleasure to listen to.
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Age 2 Age: Mr Femi Idowu [Re-Upload]
I really got lucky to be able to sit and have this conversation. Not only did we talk about many insightful things, we also agree that his generation and my generation ought to have more of these kinds of conversations. It was an absolute delight to talk about various topics with someone who is really quite close to my family. If you enjoy this episode and want to share your feedback, please email: age2agepodcast@gmail.com Mr Femi Idowu is a husband, father and grandfather living in Kent, UK.
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