Ain’t That It
By Ain’t That It
Your 20s(& sometimes 30s) are full of lessons that force you to grow. Join our discussions on our past challenges, our current spiritual journeys, and all the daily mess that tries it. We’re talking about ALL THINGS GROWTH.
Follow us on Instagram: @_CandaceMonique & @neisha.alia
Ain’t That ItAug 10, 2020
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Keep Your Think Pieces to Yourself
Okay we’ll admit it, some of our favorite shows may have been a bit problematic, but not everything needs to be cancelled. Sometimes we just need time to look at things with a new perspective. Please keep the think pieces to yourself because...MOESHA is forever.
Aug 10, 202052:51
It’s Okay To Be Selfish Sometimes!
Sometimes helping others means being selfish. It’s okay to put yourself first sometimes ESPECIALLY in regards to your mental health. Just look at the bigger picture.
Aug 03, 202001:26:48
Heavy on the Disappointment
I think we all can agree that 2020 has definitely been dubbed the year of disappointment. This week we discuss some of the disappointments we have been facing recently and healthy ways to cope with them. What has been the biggest disappointment for y’all this year?
Jul 27, 202001:24:51
It’s the Entanglement for me
Y’all still want that Jada & Will love or nah? Let’s catch up on black twitter.
Jul 13, 202001:58:38
Protect ALL Black Women
This week we have a needed discussion on the violence being done against black women in today’s society. We share some of our own experiences as well as share ways we all can do a better job of making sure black women feel protected.
Jul 06, 202001:35:05
I want a Sneaky Link so bad!!
Temptation is real & the enemy is busy. This week we open up about our struggles with celibacy and the light at the end of the tunnel (that may not even exist). Does your Resolve align with your Result?
Jun 22, 202001:08:45
If It’s Supposed To, It Will
“Do you want to be right, or do you want to be in relationship?” This week we’re discussing the breakdown in Molly and Issa’s relationships in our favorite show, Insecure. We share our opinions on what went wrong in their relationship and our own experiences with outgrowing friendships. Have y’all ever outgrown a friendship?
Jun 15, 202001:19:20
June 2020: Level 6 of Jumanji
Y’all it’s only June and this year has been AWAKENING to say the least. This episode we reflect on our thoughts of 2019 & the intentions we had going into 2020. Has this real life Jumanji game ruined all of your goals for the year or are you still pushing forward? Let us know! Follow us on Instagram: @AintThatItPod & Facebook: Ain’t That It
Jun 08, 202001:45:59
Am I A Fraud?
Have you ever felt underserving of something you worked? Ever been in a room that you felt like you didn’t belong in? Do the compliments you receive ever seem somehow deceitful? Have you ever just felt like a fraud? Well, you’re not the only one.
Jun 01, 202001:13:28
What are you afraid of?
To have Faith, or to stay in Fear. Same effort, opposite results. This week we’re discussing our biggest fears. Where they stem from. & the work we’re doing to get rid of them, or at least minimize the damage they cause in our day to day lives. Follow us on Instagram: @AintThatItPod & Facebook: Ain’t That It
May 25, 202001:11:54
Setting Boundaries in Relationships
This week we’re talking boundaries...how to set them, when is a good time to establish them, and other factors that contribute to us needing them in ALL relationships. Are you good at setting boundaries in relationships?
May 18, 202001:10:07
Cancel Culture
Is it us or does society really love canceling people nowadays? Does a difference in opinion justify someone getting the boot or are you just being sensitive? Join the discussion and leave a comment on our social media. IG: @aintthatitpod FB: Ain’t That It
Apr 06, 202001:11:54
Just Checkin In
How are y’all holding up? We know it’s a lot going on for everyone during these uncertain times in the world, so this week we just wanted to share a few thoughts on where we are right now mentally, emotionally, spiritually and physically.
Mar 30, 202059:48
You don’t need a #QuarantineBae
Listen, you can be lonely during this quarantine or you can be productive. This episode we’re discussing a few things that you may want to work on BEFORE bae comes along. From fixing your attitude to fixing your credit. Now is the best time to get things in order.
Mar 23, 202001:25:26
What happens when the plan changes?
Are you a life planner, or more of a “go with the flow” kind of person? Has your life gone the way you pictured it, from when you were young? No. Us either. If 2020 has taught us anything so far, it’s that life definitely always doesn’t go as planned. Follow us on social media: Facebook- Ain’t That It & Instagram- @aintthatitpod
Mar 16, 202001:14:20
Mental Health in the Black Community
“Why would you need a therapist when you have Jesus?” “What do you have to be sad about?” “You don’t have any REAL problems!”..... we’ve heard them all at some point. Slowly but surely, we’ve transitioned from mental health being such a taboo topic in our community. We still have so much work to do.
Feb 24, 202001:16:25
It’s Hard Out Here
Has the idea of dating really changed from generation to generation? Is social media leaving us with unrealistic expectations of relationships? Is the dating world for millennials really screwed up or are we just “complicated”?
Feb 17, 202001:27:41
Self Love This Valentine’s Day
Do you have a self care routine? Did you know “Self love language” was a thing? Us either! But if you’re single of Valentine’s Day, maybe you should try some of these things!
Feb 10, 202059:52
Are you down with “The Swirl”?
What’s your take on interracial relationships? Because we’re clearly biased!
Feb 03, 202059:54
I’m Not a Feminist, here’s why.
It’s important to give white women a space to ask us questions SOMETIMES, but not if it requires us to ignore black issues.
Jan 27, 202001:13:20
What do YOU attract?
Law of Attraction, what does that mean to you? Do you believe in the saying “You are what you attract”. Are you attracting trash because deep down you are also trash? Or is that karma? Season 2 of Netflix’s YOU spoilers start pretty early in the episode btw. Follow us on Instagram: @AintThatItPod and FB: Ain’t That It.
Jan 20, 202001:08:33
Get Into The Mess
We try really hard to look away from the messiness that’s all over social media, but every once in a while we treat ourselves! From Omarion being the image of unbothered to Lori Harvey pimping out Future, we’re getting into it. Also, Prince Harry has BEEN about that life, & we STAN. Follow us on Instagram: @AintThatItPod & Facebook: Ain’t That It
Jan 13, 202001:17:35
20/20 Vision
Apparently 2020 is the year of Manifestation and we are HERE FOR IT! Pray. Do the vision boards. Write your plans down. BUT, be mindful of who you’re sharing with! You don’t need ANYBODY speaking death or struggle over your life.
Jan 06, 202001:24:29
2019 was our BEST year yet!
Gather your people and do an end of the year Q&A. We’re going over our most memorable moments of 2019. Our wins, our failures, & what’s to come in 2020. Happy Holidays!
Dec 23, 201901:29:24
You can keep your “Tradition”
Welp, it’s holiday season! Today we’re discussing how hard holidays can be after losing loved ones, how some traditions can be toxic af, and why we’re okay with starting our own.
Dec 16, 201901:34:21
Cast us on Insecure Issa!
Can we get into insecurities a bit? Why can’t you take a compliment? Are you actually a catfish or do you need to stop being so hard on yourself? How’s that unhealthy coping mechanism working for you?
Dec 09, 201901:37:56
That’s My Sis.
Let’s talk about how to sustain healthy friendships. Can you be platonic friends with the opposite sex? Do your friends come before your significant other?
Dec 03, 201902:21:16
If you’re a Gemini, seek help.
How important are horoscopes to you in the dating world?
Nov 18, 201901:00:38
The Workplace Switch Up
Today we’re talking “Code Switch”. Are you a whole different person at work?
Nov 11, 201951:31
Are you really ready to forgive?
Daddy issues are real. Generational curses are real. & Forgiveness is HARD. Also, when’s the last time you asked for forgiveness?
Nov 04, 201901:10:11
Hey Casper!
In the spirit of Halloween, let’s talk about Ghosting.
Oct 28, 201958:50
You are nobody’s Gucci Mane!
Shout out to the Ride or Dies though.
Oct 21, 201948:41
At this point, I'm getting on Christian Mingle
This week we're diving into the importance of the "Single Season" and our experiences in the dating world. Follow us on Instagram: @_CandaceMonique & @Neisha.Alia
Oct 14, 201957:11