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The Stay Strong and Stand Show

The Stay Strong and Stand Show

By Aleja Bennett

Become a Paid Subscriber: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/aleja/subscribe This show was created in 2011, now on over 10 listening platforms, empowering-encouraging the lives of the abused, survivors, suicide prevention, depression, PTSD, along with 14 books I've written. Podcasting has been another platform to share my story in hopes to bring hope to the hopeless and courage to the discouraged. I've been delivered, healed, set free from so many things that traumas tried to give me. Help me help others that need a quick daily lift me up as we stay strong and stand together. You can donate Cashapp Alejalovesu PayPal authoralejabennett@gmail.com alejabennett@aol.com
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The Stay Strong and Stand ShowMar 04, 2019

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Men Who Don't Want To Divorce Their Wives

Men Who Don't Want To Divorce Their Wives

It's ridiculous how men hold on to something legally that's been over for decades. Are you still married while your husband or wife is in a committed relationship? It's time for these cheap men to divorce their wives and move on because what's over is over.
Mar 18, 202410:27
They Already Showed You Who They Were

They Already Showed You Who They Were

Everyone we accept into our lives is of our own choice. Everyone that's thats accepted accepted can easily be cancelled out.

Aug 11, 202300:10
The More I Get to Know You The More I Don't Want to Know You

The More I Get to Know You The More I Don't Want to Know You

Many times in this life we will bump into people, meet, greet or pass them by. Some people should have never been allowed the space or room in our lives.
Nov 13, 202216:53
You Don't Need Me You don't need Nobody

You Don't Need Me You don't need Nobody

In life we all have come across negative people, negative vibes, negative places and negative things. What will you do or say the next time you are hit with words that hurt you?
Feb 20, 202231:28
Part 1 Why People Don't Go to the church building with T. Drake

Part 1 Why People Don't Go to the church building with T. Drake

It's all raw y'all reasons why people stopped, don't, won't and will not step foot in a church building. Get ready grab you your favorite mojo it's a little hot.
Apr 28, 202103:12:60
Coping through Loss and Bereavement

Coping through Loss and Bereavement

Losing my dad really hit home and loving, coping each day has been extremely hard. Let's listen to how we can cope during loss.
Apr 20, 202130:31
Sex and Relationships

Sex and Relationships

We are going into true relationships and marital secrets of what's really going on in the bedroom.
Mar 07, 202101:56:01
God Says You Are

God Says You Are

What do people say you are? What do you say you are? What does God say you are? Who will you listen to?
Mar 06, 202129:25
Love

Love

This show is dedicated to those who knew love, had love, lost love and ran away from love. Its also dedicated to the lovers around the world.
Mar 02, 202101:11:56
Men that are Not Ready to be Steady

Men that are Not Ready to be Steady

In life men and women tend to fall in love or relationships that simply won't work because they haven't closed any doors from their past. You are left wide open with your heart bleeding while they continue life without you easy.
Feb 25, 202156:01
Snoring and Relationships

Snoring and Relationships

Latisha has been kicked out of her family house and others due to her snoring but her boyfriend says hes not going anywhere. He loves her
Feb 17, 202132:37
Being Homeless in NYC

Being Homeless in NYC

Men and women in NYC are facing homelessness and there are many places that can help you in this situation. Please call 311 for your nearest intake assesment place. A new day and a new life can only begin if you start it. Lift your head up and walk on in.
Feb 16, 202147:26
Secrets Of A Mother

Secrets Of A Mother

I’ve hated this woman. I’ve not loved her at full capacity. I’ve fed her lies & told her she wasn’t good enough and have allowed others to tell her she wasn't good enough. I’ve allowed her to be broken. I've allowed others to treat her disrespectfully. I’ve allowed her to run through brick walls & battle for others who won’t even stand for her. I couldn’t stop individuals from abandoning her, yet I’ve seen her get up and stand to be a light to the world & love others despite all. I have stood paralyzed by fear while she fought battles in her mind, heart and soul. This woman messed up many times, as a gf, a daughter, a mother or as a friend, because she doesn’t always say or do the "right things". She has a smart mouth, and she has secrets. She has scars... because she has a history. Some people love this woman, some like her, and some people don't care for her at all. She has done good in her life. She has done bad in her life. She goes days without makeup, or shaving her legs (most of the time!) She doesn’t get dressed up often. She is random and sometimes silly. She is who she is. Every mistake, failure, trial, disappointment, success, joy, and achievement has made her the woman she is today. You can love her or not. But if she loves you, she will do it with her whole heart, and she will make no apologies for the way she is. This Woman is a WARRIOR. She’s not perfect. She’s UNSTOPPABLE. Gracefully broken but beautifully standing. She is loved. She is life. She is transformation. She is Grace. She is BRAVE! Ladies, I dare you to put this on your status, with a picture of yourself, If you’re proud to be who you are. ❤️❤️❤️
Jan 29, 202117:01
Seven Things That Steal Your Joy

Seven Things That Steal Your Joy

I was led by the holy spirit with this show. It did not go my way it went by God's way. Seven things can't steal our joy if we remain in faith and focused on his promises. Enjoy these fourteen minutes of flesh out the way and spiritual guidance.
Jan 16, 202114:50
The Eagle And The Crow

The Eagle And The Crow

On today's ten minute bowl of inspiration, are you the eagle or the crow?
Jan 10, 202109:37
Farewell 2020 Hello 2021 To New Beginnings

Farewell 2020 Hello 2021 To New Beginnings

The past is where its at now we must look up and not look back. Start a new fresh attitude with new thoughts of living, standing, healing and forgiving. Enjoy this ten minutes of inspiration.
Jan 01, 202111:21
Are you Cinderella

Are you Cinderella

Cinderella is a Walt Disney movie also featuring Brandy and Whitney Houston. Have you, are you, do you know Cinderella's in your life?
Aug 09, 202046:17
Orange Is The New Black

Orange Is The New Black

Todays 15 minute show talks about how young men and women are being imprisoned when they need help not jail time. Children go through so much and carry it to adult hood and finally it ends with jail.
Aug 01, 202015:35
I Cant Breathe

I Cant Breathe

I just wrote a song titled I Cant Breathe. George Floyd you are honored on freedom day this day.
Jun 19, 202007:29
Stop looking at what you dont have instead look at what you do have

Stop looking at what you dont have instead look at what you do have

My my my my my just listen for 10 minutes. God gave this today
Jun 08, 202049:57
Social Distancing Has Been A Major Part Of Life

Social Distancing Has Been A Major Part Of Life

Closed doors will not open if we are not social. The past, racism, prejudice people, traumas, death, loss, abuse are major reasons we have been social distancing from the beginning of time.
May 21, 202020:18
Sunday love

Sunday love

Love is in the air as I felt like loving on me today wow try it.
May 18, 202011:19
You Can't Stop the Unstoppable that's inside of me

You Can't Stop the Unstoppable that's inside of me

Many may try, come close to slowing down the unstoppable. When it gets down to the nitty gritty UNSTOPPABLE is a powerful word. Dont you agree?
May 06, 202011:39
How Can I Mend This Hole In My Heart
Apr 15, 202011:09
Know The Abuser Before The Abuser abuses and kills You

Know The Abuser Before The Abuser abuses and kills You

Grab a fifteen minute break with your favorite drink. Share this with abused boys, girls, men and women. Do you really get to know that boy, girl, man or woman before you create a soul tie?
Apr 07, 202015:52
Let's Make Fasting and Praying Fun

Let's Make Fasting and Praying Fun

Today Im super duper excited about fasting and praying. Listen to ten minutes of how you can take back what the devil keeps trying to steal. Your joy!
Apr 06, 202011:58
Should Sin Be Rewarded and Celebrated in The Church

Should Sin Be Rewarded and Celebrated in The Church

The little boy grew up thinking sin was normal in the church. He was told to be quiet about his abuse and turmoil in the home. His Abusive parents were rewarded, appreciated for years in the church.
Mar 26, 202012:29
In Times Like These

In Times Like These

Who, what, where, when and how can we help. In times like these this is what we should be living by.
Mar 25, 202010:15
The Stay Strong and Stand Show

The Stay Strong and Stand Show

I'm the host of The Stay Strong and Stand Show, available everywhere there is a podcast such as Anchor, Zimistream, Apple Itunes, Google, Spotify and more. I created the Show in 2011 on blog talk radio and in 2019 The Stay Strong and Stand Show became a Podcast show of encouragement, inspiration, strength, real life traumatic survival stories, love, relationships, family, abuse, addictions and living in the midst of trials and tribulations, doubts, fears, loss and homelessness. Subscribe today you won't be disappointed
Mar 25, 202000:56
Step Out The Casket and Live

Step Out The Casket and Live

Todays show reveals how we allow people and the past to slowly or speedily kill us physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. Dream killers and non supporters should be left in 2019
Jan 07, 202017:03
How Do We Stand in Todays World

How Do We Stand in Todays World

When-how-where-why do we stand? There are so many obstacles, daggers, situations that we must face in our daily lives. Todays show reminds us all of how many ways we remain standing. 1) You Can't and Won't Stop Me from My Purpose 2) All I can Do Is Stand 3) All I Can Do Is Stand Part Two 4) Seasons With and Without Love 5) Passions Desires Of Aleja The Poet 6) Poems From The Heart Mind Body and Soul 7) Unlocking The Doors Of The Spoken Word 8) 40 Ways To Please a Good Woman 9) 40 Ways To Please a Good Man 10) Adopted Abused and Still Standing 11) Thoughts Deeply Rooted Within Me 12) I Can't Breathe 13) Only The Strong Can Survive 14) Aleja's Beautiful Poetic Strategy in Recovery http://www.amazon.com/s?k=ALEJA+BENNETT&ref=nb_sb_noss_2
Sep 25, 201932:44
I am who I am but? You are who you are but?

I am who I am but? You are who you are but?

Are you stuck, settled, settling, headed for disaster? Can't forgive? Suffering, abused, being used? Unhappy? Listen to todays show and find out why. An eye opening, ears opened podcast.
Aug 20, 201917:07
Do you really know your mom, dad, son or daughter? Todays show give us strength and courage.

Do you really know your mom, dad, son or daughter? Todays show give us strength and courage.

Lies is the number one thing tearing families apart all over the world. A stranger will believe you quicker than your own family. Todays show is all true, real with a message for all families and ages.
Jul 16, 201948:32
Are you taken good people for granted or being taken for granted?

Are you taken good people for granted or being taken for granted?

Are you being taken for granted? Are you taken people for granted? Let's find out on today's show. Has this been a lifetime tradition of yours to use-steal and be unappreciative to good people in your life? Podcoin
May 29, 201909:46
Today is a celebration for the woman who gave you life God says honor her.

Today is a celebration for the woman who gave you life God says honor her.

It's a day to reflect on good memories what we've lost and what we have gained.
May 12, 201909:54
How Do you Unleash The Pain The Past The Traumas The Beast Inside of You How Do you Break Free

How Do you Unleash The Pain The Past The Traumas The Beast Inside of You How Do you Break Free

It's truth serum time on this morning's show I'm allowing my listeners to hear the beast inside of me and how I controlled the beast by using alcohol a temporary fix. A temporary remedy to hide and to not feel. A way to bury my pain rejections abandonment. Alcohol a temporary way to be numb almost making it a way of life. Why did I use it? Find out the raw truth of why I had to use alcohol as a numbing solution in my life.
May 03, 201928:01
It's time to Forgive and Move Foward

It's time to Forgive and Move Foward

Many of us can't stay away from toxic people because we love them. For years you feel as if you owe them for your past mistakes so you allow them to poke pitch forks in your chest for years. How long will you allow these type is poisonous snakes move around in your belly? Forgive-fy-fish-forget-Are you feeling better yet after listening to today's show? Let it all go so God can heal and bless you.
May 02, 201922:17
We Are Listening to Gratitude To God Praise and Worship CD By Aleja Bennett Grab your copy on Amazon

We Are Listening to Gratitude To God Praise and Worship CD By Aleja Bennett Grab your copy on Amazon

Today's show plays the entire copy of my CD Titled Gratitude to God. It has been a pleasure to share this with you all. Thanks Sharon for your monthly contribution to the show may God smile on you and bless you richly.
Mar 04, 201928:51
Forgive Heal Live Now Love

Forgive Heal Live Now Love

Once you have forgiven yourself then others go toward leaving the past behind as a learning experience. If God has shielded you and given you a way of escape from a hurtful past why do you continuously go back? Are you buying love from people who dont love you?
Mar 01, 201917:58
You Are A King Queen Prince Youre Royal

You Are A King Queen Prince Youre Royal

Grab a quick 15 minute bowl of encouragement strength and courage on today's show for all ages. Spread this, pass it on. The Stay Strong and Stand Show now available on Radio Public- Anchor-Breaker-PocketCasts Spotify-Google and Stitcher anchor.fm/Aleja
Feb 22, 201915:24
You Are Not Desperate So Go Ahead And Open The Door When Love Starts Knocking

You Are Not Desperate So Go Ahead And Open The Door When Love Starts Knocking

Leave the past behind you because if you carry that pain when someone knocks you will not open. You will find yourself alone without love because you are scared, you've been hurt, almost destroyed. Forgive, heal and let that new love soothe how you feel. Show dedicated to My new love Kenneth.
Feb 20, 201917:60
Are You Inviting Depression PTSD & Anxiety In Your Life?

Are You Inviting Depression PTSD & Anxiety In Your Life?

Unknowingly even unwillingly we invite Satan and his pals in our lives without even being aware until we're numb. Numbness means that what you worked so hard to heal from is trying to creep back in your life due to entangling with men and women of no sympathy-empathy or feelings about your traumas in life. This show will alert you alternatives- solutions on finding love and friends without opening up old wounds because the heartless does not care.
Feb 17, 201919:14
Love Love Love and New Love Is In The Air

Love Love Love and New Love Is In The Air

All week on the show I'm focusing on love, new love, old love, family love and God's love.
Feb 11, 201901:29:53
If You Love Yourself Why Do You Allow People To Treat You Any Kind Of Way?

If You Love Yourself Why Do You Allow People To Treat You Any Kind Of Way?

We're talking about self love- self worth today and by March 1st many of you will start a major turn around here's how.
Feb 08, 201929:20
Who Do you Acknowledge or Forget to Acknowledge?

Who Do you Acknowledge or Forget to Acknowledge?

Every day of our lives from birth has been a special gift don't you think? When it comes to this are you in lack of this? Let's find out on today's show.
Feb 07, 201915:42
Why Are Beautiful Educated Hard Working Good Women Single Today

Why Are Beautiful Educated Hard Working Good Women Single Today

Will you settle or fall for anything knowing your worth as a good woman? Staying single until we find a friend, partner that can be true and not after your panties is all worth the wait. Ladies let's not be easily swindled.
Feb 06, 201925:47
Is Honesty Or Lies The Best Policy Part One

Is Honesty Or Lies The Best Policy Part One

Part Two of this segment is below. Do you prefer someone to lie to you or to be upfront and honest?
Jan 29, 201935:20
Dating Outside Our Culture The Good And Bad Points About It

Dating Outside Our Culture The Good And Bad Points About It

Won't it be grand when we can all get along as one? Many different cultures are so judgemental of the American culture but live, love, breathe, eat and feed others from the American dollar.
Jan 24, 201920:34
How To Not Sabatoge Any Relationship Before It Begins

How To Not Sabatoge Any Relationship Before It Begins

When it comes to business, love, family, marriage and friendships many of us Sabatoge them doing these annoying things. Do you or have you Sabatoged a relationship before it began? I know I'm guilty of that. Let's talk about it.
Jan 21, 201918:29
You Are Perfect-You Are Enough-You Are Forever

You Are Perfect-You Are Enough-You Are Forever

God made us in his image with that said we are perfectly made from head to toe. We are more than enough often too much if you're like me and we are forever. Do the things of a man to be a king. Do the things of a woman to be called a Queen. Rise up from hear say and negative words and know who made you and who you are. Your mistakes of yesterday is gone throw it and feed your mistakes to your enemies and let them suck on it.
Jan 19, 201920:56