The Sensitive & Soulful Show
By Alissa Boyer
Join host and HSP Mentor, Alissa Boyer, as she breaks the stigma of sensitivity and teaches you how to embrace your sensitivity as a gift. Here, you'll always be welcomed exactly as you are.
New episodes every Tuesday!
The Sensitive & Soulful ShowJan 04, 2022
130. What to Do When People Feel Like They're Walking on Eggshells Around You
If you've ever had the feeling that people may not be telling you everything because they're afraid of how you might react, you're not alone.
I had two different people ask me this similar question and knew I had to make a podcast episode on it because it definitely rings true!
In this episode, you'll learn:
- About recognizing when you may be reacting too quickly
- How to move through and regulate your emotions
- My simple phrase to let other know you're available to talk to
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129. The Surprising Thing That's Making You Seem LESS Confident
The way we carry ourselves impacts how we interact with the world and build relationships with others. And this one simple tweak could have a huge impact on your confidence.
You belong in all the rooms you walk into and I want you to act like it! Because you are a light and you belong.
In this episode, you'll learn:
- Some tips to boost your confidence
- That you can always be a light and a leader in your life
- That you sensitivity is your strong suit
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128. Experimental Energy - My Secret to Having More Fun [Bonus Episode]
Life doesn't have to be so gosh dang hard all the time.
What if we started treating the scary things in our lives as expirements?? What if that work event we're afraid to go socialize at, we just treat as an experiment?
What about the business you want to start? What if you just try!
In this episode, you'll learn:
- Why life is so much more fun when you shift your mindset.
- How experimenting can help grow your business.
- The importance of play and flowing through life.
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127. Why I Believe HSPs are Here to Make a Big Impact
As an HSP, you have two options: "I hate my sensitivity. How can I hide it so no one finds out?" OR "How can I use my sensitivity as a super power?"
Spoiler: the people who view it as a strength are the ones who will change the world!
You get to decide that as an HSP, you have special gifts and talents that no one else has. You get to bring balance to a world that needs it.
In this episode, you'll learn:
- About the effects of hiding and masking your sensitivity
- Why playing small is serving no one
- How to harness your new found super power and THRIVE
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126. A Loving Pep Talk for Overthinkers & Perfectionists
Let me know if this sounds familiar: you feel stuck but you know you're meant for more. You want to take action but you don't know if it's the right action. You're scared to make a mistake or publicly fail.
I know these feelings so deeply but I also know what's on the other side of these fears. So join me in this episode where I give you a loving little pep talk!
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125. How to Balance Being Highly Sensitive and a High Achiever
I grew up thinking that I shouldn't have big dreams or go after what I wanted. We are fed this narrative to take it slow and rest and you don't always have to be productive - which is true to a point.
I felt wrong for wanting more. I felt like I had to hide the fact that I was an overachiever. But I've learned to stop apologizing for that. I've learned to be grateful for where I am but always pushing for more if that's what lights me up!
In this episode, you'll learn:
- About my journey with overachieving
- Why it's important to be grateful with where you are
- That it's okay to be an HSP and ambitious
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124. 4 Steps to Stop Absorbing Energy & Start Setting the Energy (aka Becoming a Thermostat Instead of a Thermometer!)
As HSPs it can be all too easy to absorb everyone else emotions and energy. This can lead to us feeling drained and tired and not wanting to leave the house.
But what if you could stand confident in your own grounded, calm energy everywhere you went? You get to decide the vibe when you enter a room. It just takes a little confidence and inner self-work. But it will be worth it!
In this episode, you'll learn:
- How to get out of victim mindset when it comes to "energy vampires"
- Why it's so important to be confident in yourself when entering a room
- How to set the vibe and energy of a room
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I'll Be Back on January 23rd!
Just popping on to let you know I'm taking a quick break to focus on some of my super fun offerings and getting things organized on my end.
In the meantime, listen to Episode 34: How I Started My HSP Business (and any other episodes that pop out at you!)
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123. Why You Always Worry About "When the Other Shoe is Going to Drop"
If you're anything like me, you're constantly stressing about when the "other shoe is going to drop." Sadly, this is a super common thing for a lot of people. We start to worry when things are going "too well."
It seems counterintuitive but it's something we all face. And I share how I've learned to get through it.
In this episode, you'll learn:
- Why it's so common to have fears about the "other shoe dropping"
- How you can raise your level of standard happiness
- Why it's important to notice when you start to worry
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122. You Are Not Responsible for Everyone Else's Feelings! Here's How to Stop
As HSPs, we are highly attune to other peoples feelings. Maybe more attune than we'd like to be because we end up compromising our own feelings for others.
It's important for our mental wellbeing to realize that other people's feelings are not for us to control.
In this episode, you'll learn:
- How to stay firm in your boundaries when it feels selfish
- Why it's not your responsibility to control others' emotions
- How to regulate yourself through the discomfort.
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121. An Empowering Way to Manage Triggers as an HSP
As HSPs, triggering moments can hit us very hard and at super random times. It can be something small that causes us to blow up and it's totally normal.
Just the other day I was triggered because my husband didn't want to eat pizza...
I'm thankful for the self work I've done because in that moment I was able to realize what was happening and stop myself from starting a fight that didn't need to be a fight.
In this episode, you'll learn:
- How to empower yourself to move through triggering moments.
- Why showing yourself love and compassion is always the first step.
- How we can gain better awareness of our triggers.
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120. Do Highly Sensitive People Need to Be "More Flexible"?
Sometimes we can feel super guilty about boundaries we set and then wonder if we're being too inflexible. We question whether we're being "too sensitive" about the issue and if we should just grow up and do the thing...
My answer: You can have it both ways! You can set boundaries but you can also do the things when you want to. You can push yourself outside your comfort zone when you want to.
In this episode, you'll learn:
- My thoughts on whether Highly Sensitive People need to be "more flexible"
- That life is not black and white and you can always make a new decision
- Some tips on how to deal with the overwhelm of doing things outside our comfort zone
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119. Dreading Going to That Party? Listen to This!
It's the holiday season and it can feel like there's a million and one things to do, parties to attend, and friends & family to visit with. Sometimes we can make ourselves sick with dread thinking about it.
But your to-do list doesn't have to be filled with dread!
In this episode, you'll learn:
- About my top tips for getting through situations you're dreading
- A simple phrase I use to calm my nerves and anxiety
- How you can make it through this holiday season cool and collected
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118. Breaking Old Habits & Expanding into the Next Version of You [Sensitive & Empowered Series with Matt Landsiedel]
In this Sensitive & Empowered series, Matt and I talk about how we can navigate life's challenges through an empowering and expansive lens, instead of feeling like a victim to our circumstances.
We discuss our personal experiences with breaking old habits, going through hard times, and how all of this is part of a divine plan that brings us closer to the highest version of ourselves.
This is an inspiring and empowering conversation that will shift the way you view your current circumstances.
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117. How to Navigate the Holidays as an HSP
Navigating the holidays as a Highly Sensitive Person should be an Olympic sport. Between numerous parties, outings, and big family gatherings, it can feel like a recipe for overwhelm.
In this super exclusive sneak peek into The Sensitive and Soulful Vault, you'll learn:
- About my top tips for handling holiday stress
- How to deal with grief during the holidays
- About ways to cope with overstimulation
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116. An Empowering Mindset Shift You Can Apply to ANY Situation
Join me in this episode as I share my feelings on life's challenging and triggering moments. I recently had a very real and raw moment where my high self-worth allowed me to see past the comments of someone and not let it ruin my whole day.
In this episode, you'll learn:
- About healing your self-worth to take on life's challenges
- Why it's important to know that you are worthy and valuable as you are.
- How to not take things so personally.
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115. The Sneaky Way You Might be Self-Sabotaging
It can be common for HSPs to not want to be in limelight. We shy away from compliments and tone down our achievements.
We could do this because of how we were raised or because we just don't want to make other people feel bad.
Well I'm here to tell you to SHINE!
In this episode, you'll learn:
- About my experience with being judged while chasing my dreams
- Why we tend to hide away from the spotlight
- About getting over the discomfort of being seen and moving into your best life
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114. How to Stop Letting Your Empathy Burn You Out [From the Vault]
This audio was originally recorded in August 2022 for The Sensitive & Soulful Members (now "The Vault"). If these types of "trainings" are something you'd like access to, please send me a DM on Instagram @lifebyalissa
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You can be a kind-hearted, empathetic person without burning yourself out.
With so much going on in the world today, it can be extra painful for Highly Sensitive People. It can be overwhelming and heavy and hard to navigate.
In this episode, you'll learn:
- About having healthy boundaries around your empathy
- How you can use your compassionate, sensitive heart without burning out
- About the importance of making an impact without losing yourself
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113. This is Why You STILL Feel Stuck
Tell me if these thoughts sound familiar:
"I just need to learn a little bit more..."
"Once I read this book, then everything will fall into place..."
"I've read all the things but it's still not working!"
I know, cause I've been there. It can be so frustrating when things aren't working out like you'd hope. Maybe your business hasn't taken off or your scared to take time off and rest.
Join me in this episode where I share some tough love and real life examples of how to get unstuck!
In this episode, you'll learn:
- How to get unstuck
- Why it may be time to put the books down
- About my top tip for implementing new things
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112. Feeling Burned Out? Try This
I recorded this from my bed today because sometimes you just need to be as cozy and comfy as possible and I'm giving you permission to do the same.
We are always capable of doing all the things but that doesn't mean we have the capacity, and that's okay!
In this episode, you'll learn:
- How to know when you're approaching burn out
- About some solid steps to avoid this
- Why it's important to have things that energize you
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111. Overcoming the Fear of Vulnerability [Sensitive & Empowered Series with Matt Landsiedel]
In this episode, Matt and I unpack the hot topic of vulnerability.
We share our relationship with vulnerability and how transformative it's been for us.
Vulnerability is not easy. Actually, it's terrifying and it takes a lot of courage to overcome the fear of revealing our most authentic selves -- the good, the bad, and the ugly.
Come spend 30 minutes with us and learn how we've learned to overcome some of the fears we have around vulnerability, and how it has transformed our lives and businesses for the better.
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110. Handling Criticism as an HSP (Re-air: March 2022)
This is such a good episode and reminder from March 2022.
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Our heart starts racing, our stomach drops to the floor, and we feel under attack. Even if you're not an HSP, criticism is painful to receive and in all honesty, it can bring out our Hyper Sensitivity.
Sometimes the feedback and criticism is there to genuinely help up and sometimes it's just a mean troll on the internet. Either way, our bodies tend to react in the same way and so we need healthy ways to cope with these feelings.
In this episode, you'll learn:
- Why criticism affects up so much.
- How to discern hurtful criticism versus helpful criticism.
- How to deal with feedback from loved ones.
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109. Are You Always Worried if People are Mad at You? Listen to This!
Growing up as an HSP, we would tend to notice the emotions of everyone around us and at such a young age it could be hard to discern if they were mad at us or something else. Sadly, we've internalized that as adults and can often feel guilty if people are upset.
The good news? You can free yourself from these feelings.
In this episode, you'll learn:
- About my struggles with low self-worth
- Why it's important to feel safe in your self
- About the power of setting yourself free
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108. A Quick Tip to Reduce Your Overwhelm Today
Join me for this quick tip on how to immediately reduce overwhelm!
Look, I get it. We are busy with jobs and family and friends that when we get a free moment we are overwhelmed and don't know what to do. We get so worried with making the "right choice" instead of just making a choice.
The quickest way to get over indecision is by making a decision!
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107. Following Your Dreams When You're Highly Sensitive
Life by Alissa started as a blog with hardly any readers or followers on social media. But I was still so fired up to get up at 5am to write before my corporate job or write on the weekends or whenever I could find free time.
It wasn't easy but it was worth it. This journey has been so fulfilling and empowering. So, I want to invite you to explore the things the light you up!
In this episode, you'll learn:
- Why HSPs tend to be entrepreneurs.
- About my journey being a business owner.
- Why it's so important to follow your dreams!
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106. Why Your Triggers are Opportunities for Growth (Re-air: October 2021)
This was one of my very first episodes and also a favorite because I still talk about and believe in the importance of triggers and how they can help us grow.
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Triggers can show up in all sorts of ways - from an immediate emotional reaction like anger or sadness to a physical gut reaction like shaking, feeling sick, or nauseous. It can be overwhelming and happen so suddenly that we aren't aware until we're deep in the feels.
It can be easy to blame others when we're triggered but instead we should empower ourselves to find the root cause of the issue and why what that person did triggered us in the first place. Turn the focus inward and respect yourself enough to work through the problems.
In this episode, you'll learn:
- How to know when you're being triggered
- What triggers actually mean
- How to find the root cause of these emotions
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105. How I Manifested One of My Greatest Desires
Manifestation might feel a little too "woo-woo" for some people but it's always been part and honestly feels second nature at this point.
If you've been struggling to manifest your desires and what you want in life, listen to this episode for some inspiration because I am bursting at the seams with this manifestation story!
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104. How to Overthink LESS and Have MORE Fun
We tend to hold things so tightly and stress about the details when really we come make it so much more fun!
I try to stop and ask myself regularly, "How can I make this more fun?" and it's such a mind shifter!
In this episode, you'll learn:
- About the art of letting go and taking the first step.
- How to trust yourself more.
- About adding more fun to your life!
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103. How to Stop Taking Everything So Personally (Re-air: December 2021)
This one's too good not to re-share! Originally published December 28th, 2021.
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When every weird look, snide remark, or unfriendly punctuation in a text can cause us to go into a tailspin - it's easy to see that we may take things a little too personally.
Because we are constantly taking in more information than others, we tend to notice every mood change or every slight difference in a person's communication which causes us to feel as if things are our fault or direct at us.
But ready for some ground breaking news?!
9 times out of 10, another person's behavior or mood is not your fault or even your responsibility (this is just my own opinion).
I know you don't want to take things personally but it's just the way our brains are wired. But it's time to break free of this self-imposed prison and find joy and happiness in not taking things personally.
In this episode, you'll learn:
- The number one secret to stop taking things personal.
- Tools to use in daily life when you notice you're taking things personally.
- About how I broke free of this cycle.
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102. Emotional Resilience & Remaining Calm Amidst Chaos
How do you balance being Highly Sensitive and being an over achiever? Because we want to do all things and take advantage of all our life has to offer but we can easily get overwhelmed and dysregulated if we aren't careful.
Yes, you should push yourself outside your comfort zone but do it in a safe way where you can practice embracing expansion and ensuring you have space for self-care.
In this episode, you'll learn:
- About the importance of grounding yourself amidst chaos.
- How I've managed my jam-packed summer schedule (with a 14-month old)!
- Why you should push yourself out of your comfort zone more often.
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101. Spirituality, Asking for Signs, & Being Intuitively Guided as an HSP
My spiritual practice changed my life. It gave me a sense of freedom and expansion that I didn't know was possible. It helped me enjoy my life so much more and surrender with grace and ease.
We are just one small part of a larger whole and realizing that has been so freeing and supportive.
In this episode, you'll learn:
- About how I found my spiritual practice
- How meditation and yoga can be so powerful for HSPs
- About the fun and magic of asking for and seeing signs in your life
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100. The Connection Between Emotional Trauma, Food Sensitivity, Chronic Illness, & the Highly Sensitive Person with Dr. Ray Gin
Happy 100 Episodes!! Thank you so much for being here!
Join me on this very special episode with someone who had a HUGE impact on my HSP journey, Dr. Ray Gin.
Dr. Ray Gin is a graduate of the Southern California University of Health Sciences. He is a Certified Functional Medicine Practitioner and has been in private practice for 22 years. He maintains a practice in Laguna Hills, CA. He is a published author, media personality, and lectures nationwide. Previously, he was a radio host for a prime time talk radio show on health.
Gin discovered the connection between food intolerances/sensitivities and significant emotional traumas over 14 years ago and has helped many people regain their ability to enjoy foods and previously triggering environmental things again. His search for methods to help bring this liberating process to more people who suffer has brought him to develop the groundbreaking Emotional Allergy Technique™.
Learn more about Dr. Gin's New Course
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99. Discover Your Superpower as a Highly Sensitive Person
Being Highly Sensitive comes with so many unique and wonderful gifts. Sometimes we view these as bad things but I'm here to tell you how amazing they are!
Before you listen, I recommend you take the Empath Archetype Quiz so you know which one to listen for in this episode!
However, you can still get so much out of this because all the traits I talk about are present in all of us!
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98. The Beautiful Intensity of Being Highly Sensitive
I knew having a daughter was going to change my entire life and that your children are your greatest teachers...and whew, it's the truth!
Through parenting my daughter, I'm able to parent myself too and heal parts of my inner child that I didn't know needed healing and it's been such a beautiful experience.
In this episode, you'll learn:
- About some of my struggles as a parent.
- How I'm able to heal parts of my inner child.
- That there is such beauty in your intense sensitivity.
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97. Avoiding Burnout as an HSP
Burnout is real and can be tricky to navigate especially if you're like me who is a chronic overachiever and highly self-motivated!
We can feel ourselves on the edge of burnout but we don't want to stop and pause, we don't want to lose all the ground we've worked so hard to cover.
But I'm learning to give myself space when burnout starts to pop up and I encourage you to do the same.
In this episode, you'll learn:
- About my experiences with burnout
- How I'm currently tackling burnout symptoms
- Why it's so important to choose yourself first
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96. Increasing Your Nervous System's Capacity, Finding Empowerment Through Challenges, & Personal Life Updates
(Trigger warning: miscarriage)
The past few weeks have been such a rollercoaster ride...full of happy, light-me-up moments and moments of complete struggle, hurt, and confusion.
I had to take time off to give myself space and time to feel these feelings and move through them. I hope this episode gives you permission to do the same when needed.
Join me in this episode as I share about triggering moments, happy moments, and deep sorrowful moments.
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95. Feeling Your Feelings and Emotional Regulation (Re-air: September 2021)
An oldie but a goodie! (Originally published September 27th, 2021)
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Maybe you grew up being told your emotions were "too much" or you were in a household where it was literally unsafe to express how you were feeling...now as an adult you find it difficult to handle these emotions and feelings. As I currently work through feelings of grief in my own life, philosophies on Emotional Regulation have been coming up a lot. It can be so much easier to numb out or blow up instead of just feeling the feelings and moving on.
Growth, expansion, and a stronger version of yourself is on the other side of your emotions. You must be willing to move through them in order to live your healthiest life.
In this episode, you'll learn:
- How to deal with your emotions in a healthy way.
- Knowing the difference between over-regulation and under-regulation.
- Some tools to move through your emotions instead of shoving them down.
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94. Transformation and Rebirth as a Sensitive Soul [with Graciela Rasor]
Today's episode is such a treat and I hope you love listening to it as much as I loved recording it I felt so nourished after this conversation with Graciela and I hope you will too!
Graciela Rasor is a healer, intuitive and multidimensional creative. She uses her many tools including breathwork, Human Design, Reiki, art therapy, Gateless writing and behavioral psychology to help her clients and community recognize the magic, gifts and wholeness within.
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93. How to Become Your Highest, Most Confident Self
The other week I hosted an amazing virtual retreat for HSPs and it gave me so much life. I had tons of positive feedback on this meditation and I wanted to share it with my podcast listeners too!
Like I mention in the recording, take some time to journal about your highest self and how she moves through the world and then come back to this meditation any time you need to reconnect with her. She's always there.
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92. The Trauma of Not Being Seen as an HSP [with Marina Yanay-Triner, Somatic Coach]
Join me and my first official podcast guest as we talk all about the trauma of not feeling seen as a Highly Sensitive Person. Marina is the perfect person to bring on for this topic!
Marina Yanay-Triner is the compassionate somatic coach, published author, trauma suvivor and expert on top summits and podcasts on the topics of trauma, the nervous system and emotional healing. She has supported thousands with big visions who felt stuck through her 1-1 coaching, group programs and online courses.
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91. This Belief Holds SO Many HSPs Back - Here's How to Shift It!
Sometimes it can be really hard to tell the difference between being nice and self-sacrificing. It's hard to say no to people we care about and it can feel very dysregulating.
Life gets better when you learn to take care of yourself first, set those boundaries, and show yourself that it's safe.
In this episode, you'll learn:
- About people-pleasing tendencies
- The difference between self-sacrificing and being nice
- How boundaries can help you
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90. If You’ve Ever Felt Invisible, Listen To This
We all just want to be seen and accepted for who we truly are. In the age of social media it can often feel like we're yelling into the void and no one is answering. I've felt like this so often while running my business and I want to tell you that it gets easier. It all starts with your inner child.
In this episode, you'll learn:
- How to tell if your inner child is in charge of your emotions
- About the importance of seeing yourself first
- That you are amazing and perfect just the way you are
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89. How to Feel Seen & Accepted in Your Relationships as an HSP
I remember feeling like I was along on this journey. I was feeling so misunderstood and trying to fit into a box so people wouldn't think I was weird or "too much". I didn't feel accepted because I wasn't accepting myself.
In this episode, you'll learn:
- Why it's so important to accept yourself first.
- About the things you can do to feel like you belong.
- How to build confidence in who you truly are.
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88. An Episode for Non-Highly Sensitive People to Understand HSPs!
As a non-HSP, it can be hard to understand what HSPs go through. While it's not good or bad to be an HSP or not, there are some major differences between the two and it's important that both sides understand each other.
We can learn to support and encourage each other but it first starts with empathy. So here I am to cast some light on what it means to be a Highly Sensitive Person.
In this episode, you'll learn:
- That being an HSP is a genetic trait (not something that is learned).
- About some tell tale signs someone is Highly Sensitive.
- How we can balance each other instead of making life hard for the other.
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87. Tapping Into Confidence & Self-Reliance As An HSP
As an HSP, it can be so tough to keep putting yourself out there when people judge you or say mean things. I've dealt with this as an HSP business owner and I'm here to tell you that it does get easier.
In this episode, you'll learn:
- About my confidence journey as an HSP business owner
- How important it is to trust yourself and have your own back
- Why you should keep showing up for yourself even when it's hard
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86. Trusting Yourself, Letting Go of Guilt, & Becoming Unbothered by What Others are Doing
"I should be doing more." A thought that pops into my head A LOT. Especially as a new mom. We can often be consumed by what others are doing and compare ourselves but there is so much freedom in just trusting yourself and letting go of what others are doing.
In this episode, you'll learn:
- About my struggles with comparison as a new mom.
- Why it's so important to let go of guilt and trust yourself.
- How being in alignment is better for everyone!
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85. Romanticize Your Life & Create Magic in the Mundane
You know what's so amazing? We get to make our life as special as we want! We get to have our fizzy little drinks in the afternoon and light a candle when we want and take a deep breath of fresh air. We can make our lives magical.
I know it can be all too easy to get caught up in life and the endless to-do list and get overwhelmed by all we have to and want to accomplish but we can also enjoy our lives right now exactly how they are!
In this episode, you'll learn:
- Why it's important to slow down and enjoy the little moments
- The small things you can do today to enjoy your life a little bit more
- Why HSPs have an easier time finding the joy in everyday moments
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84. Managing Triggers, Overcoming People-Pleasing, and Being Okay with Disappointing Others
I had someone unsubscribe from my email list and I wasn't triggered by it! My stomach didn't drop when I read it. I didn't go into a negative shame spiral thinking no one wanted to hear what I had to say. I just thought, "Okay, no worries!"
It felt so freeing. The hard work I've put into releasing people-pleasing has really started to pay off and I want all HSPs to be able to experience this feeling.
In this episode, you'll learn:
- About my people-pleasing past and how I overcame it
- How to manage triggers
- That small steps are always the best path forward
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83. Are HSPs More Prone to Mental Health Struggles? My Recent Experience & How I'm Emerging From the Darkness
Motherhood is hard. Running a business is hard. Being an HSP on top of that definitely adds a whole other dimension. I really try to always be positive about being an HSP but at the end of the day, I'm only human and things tend to wear us down much harder if we aren't careful.
HSPs tend to get stuck in overthinking and overanalyzing and needing breaks before we burn out - and that's OK! It's all about learning how to take care of ourselves and nourish ourselves or ask for help.
I recently had an experience as a mother and business owner that was new to me and I wanted to share about it. Because I always want to be real with you guys and share what I'm going through.
Get cozy and join me in this episode as I get a little vulnerable - hopefully it will help you through your struggles too.
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82. Why HSPs Gaslight Themselves, Emotion Regulation, & Growing Through Discomfort with Patrick Murphy
Join me in this conversation with my dear friend with Patrick Murphy. It was originally an episode recorded in October 2022 for Patricks podcast and it was too good of a chat to not share with you all!
We cover so many amazing topics from setting boundaries, to meditation and EFT tapping, to even how I'm feeling as a new mom.
In this episode, you'll learn:
- About how HSPs tend to gaslight themselves
- Why it's so important to sit with and grow through discomfort
- How to tell when it's time to get out of the self-help books and just live your life!
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