As UR Big Sister Podcast
By Aja MyQueen
self love advocate with a few curse words from your big sister 🫶🏾
As UR Big Sister PodcastApr 01, 2021
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20:13
EP 137: 30 GOING ON 13
Heyyyy frens! Today we are going to talk about staying grateful for where we are now and how I like to stop and smell the roses instead of always being on the grind! I hope y’all enjoy 💕 INSTAGRAM & TIKTOK: @ajamyqueen @asurbigsister
May 01, 202414:45
EP 136: FORGOT ABOUT DRE
Y’all I’m spilling… let’s keep this between us.
Apr 25, 202434:11
EP 135: DELULU DIARIES
We talk being in my insecure era, OJ Simpson kicking the bucket & why people start to lie after people pass away . Then we end it with tips on how to be de Lu Lu with the helps of JOJO Siwa and Jennifer Lopez
Apr 17, 202436:12
EP 134: FALLING IN LOVE WITH YOUR BFF, NAVIGATING HATERS & LOVING YOURSELF IN YOUR 20s + MORE...
Muahhhhh no bars
Apr 10, 202433:37
EP 133: THE MOST CHAOTIC NIGHT EVER
WTF IS LIFE ?!!!??!
Apr 07, 202433:35
EP 132: CONFESSIONS OF A SENSITIVE GIRL
Hey guyssss!
AWW I like today's episode. We will first do a mental health check (I think we are going to continue this) then we will be talking about new music from Sir and Tyla which leads into revisiting old albums. I spent my workout listening to Born Sinner and I have some thoughts about how the album makes me feel as a grown a$$ women. Then we end the episode talking about being a proud cry baby and now seeing my sensitives as a strength. I hope you guys enjoy :)
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Email: asurbigsister@gmail.com
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Affordable Therapy:
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Check out the visuals on YouTube every Thursday
CHAPTERS:
0:00- 02:15 INTRO
2:16- 09:30 MENTAL HEALTH CHECK IN
09:3-17:44 RAPPERS IN WOMEN'S BUSINESS
17:45-33:55 A PROUD CRY BABY
AWW I like today's episode. We will first do a mental health check (I think we are going to continue this) then we will be talking about new music from Sir and Tyla which leads into revisiting old albums. I spent my workout listening to Born Sinner and I have some thoughts about how the album makes me feel as a grown a$$ women. Then we end the episode talking about being a proud cry baby and now seeing my sensitives as a strength. I hope you guys enjoy :)
CONTACT:
Business/ Collaboration Inquiries
Email: asurbigsister@gmail.com
Instagram:
www.instagram.com/_ajamyqueen/
TikTok:
www.tiktok.com/@ajamyqueen?lang=en
Podcast TikTok:
www.tiktok.com/@asurbigsisterpodcast
Affordable Therapy:
www.openpathcollective.org
Check out the visuals on YouTube every Thursday
CHAPTERS:
0:00- 02:15 INTRO
2:16- 09:30 MENTAL HEALTH CHECK IN
09:3-17:44 RAPPERS IN WOMEN'S BUSINESS
17:45-33:55 A PROUD CRY BABY
Apr 03, 202433:17
EP 131: 20 SOMETHINGS… Y’ALL ALRIGHT?
Heyyyy guyysssss today we will be talking about some THANGSSSS… of course the intro is a story time lol (0:00-8:22) thennn i gotta give my girl Ciara her flowers… she fr raised me! Thxxx mom lolol (8:23-13:09) ok now let’s get into the messs. Amanda THE Seales posted a video expressing the fact that she isn’t accepted in Black Hollywood spaces, of course I got a lot to say (13:10-28:29) lastlyyyy we talk about the STRUGGLE my 20s have been 🙄 immm TIE YERDDDD ! (28:30-40:53) I hope y’all enjoy!
Mar 27, 202440:13
EP 130: THUMB HEAD
Heyyyyyy y’all, today we will be talking about allllooootttttt! First we get into the “what I am ashamed to admit as a black person” trend… YALL SHOULD BE TF ASHAMED LOL thennnn we move on to Love is Blind Season 6. I’m usually not a reality show gworl but I liked it… just got a few things that made me side eye. Lastly, we touch on IG BADDIES VS self love warriors. The girls be going at ittttt for no damn reason 🙄 LETS TALKKKK ABOUT IT
Mar 20, 202442:40
EP 129: SMART, DUMB GIRL SYNDROME
Heyyy guys!
Welcome to episode 129! Today we will be talking about that new Glorilla song (THE BEST SHIIII I HAVE EVER HEARD) then we get into the time I had to cuss out a bus driver for trying tf outta me. Lastly, we get into the smart, dumb girl syndrome lol how the smartest people can get played. We all have our sweet spots… things we are weak for, things we have never experienced, that some d head could use for their benefit. Let’s chatttt
Contact: asurbigsister@gmail.com
Welcome to episode 129! Today we will be talking about that new Glorilla song (THE BEST SHIIII I HAVE EVER HEARD) then we get into the time I had to cuss out a bus driver for trying tf outta me. Lastly, we get into the smart, dumb girl syndrome lol how the smartest people can get played. We all have our sweet spots… things we are weak for, things we have never experienced, that some d head could use for their benefit. Let’s chatttt
Contact: asurbigsister@gmail.com
Mar 13, 202429:30
EP 128: FAILING LOUDLY
Girl this episode all over the place …
Mar 06, 202440:45
EP 127: FREE FALLING
How a sheltered girl jumped out the sky 🫶🏾
Feb 27, 202422:45
EP 126: WE ALL EFF UP SOMETIMES
*shrugs*
Feb 22, 202416:47
EP 125: ALL THE PRETTY GIRLS WANNA BE GAY
Happy Valentine’s Day 🥰🥰🥰
Feb 14, 202434:42
EP 124: TRY SELF COMPASSION INSTEAD OF ATTEMPTING PERFECTION
Hey y'all
We back with another videoooo *TINK TINK* Today we will be talking about self compassion and how being patient and nice to ourself will keep us from being in this constant cycle of needing to obtain perfection. I really hope you guys enjoy this video and can get something out of it. Thank you soooo much for being here !!
We back with another videoooo *TINK TINK* Today we will be talking about self compassion and how being patient and nice to ourself will keep us from being in this constant cycle of needing to obtain perfection. I really hope you guys enjoy this video and can get something out of it. Thank you soooo much for being here !!
Feb 09, 202409:06
EP 123: EITHER THEY GET IT OR THEY DON’T
We gon’ ball regardless 😉 ALI TOMINEEK’S NEW VIDEO: youtu.be/xQBmRsH4I3A?si=zli9OVfPcZzpDOsF
Feb 06, 202441:12
EP 122: WATCH WHO YOU TELL UR GOOD NEWS TO
Heyyyyy frennns! I had a lot to say today
Jan 30, 202445:02
EP 121: Hoppin on the Homies
Hey y'all, how you zoinnnnn ??? today we will be talking about a lot. I go on many rants here so just stay with LOL its a good episode!
Jan 23, 202430:59
EP 120: Just fake AF
Heyyyy guys !! Today we are talking about A LOT 😂😂😂 first, my boss got me messed up… ALREADY! MLK day is interracial couples’ favorite holiday. We then get into the topic of over sharing. Has anyone said something to you that you wish you could unhear? Lmaoooo. Lastly, why we gotta fake it to make it? Like itssss tewwww much energy to be fake all day but I’m scared that might be only way to deal with people, regularly. LeZzzz talk 😉
Jan 15, 202444:22
EP 119: My Eyes are Open
Heyyyy y’all, happy 2024 🎉🎉🎉 today we will be talking about willingly leaving people behind who aren’t willing to better themselves. We also get into how I saw adulting now versus how it actually is. Planning fun is so wild to me… you mean to tell me I have to actually be intentional about the life I want to experience??? 🙃🙃 I then kinda touched on my “radical” beliefs that feel so basic to me until I compare them to my upbringing. The questions I am now asking myself about my experience that I once was so sure of. You mean to tell me I shouldn’t have been smacked across the face by an adults? Okay thxxx for that 😭😂 I hope you guys enjoy this episode xoxoxoxo
Jan 08, 202423:24
EP 118: WE ARE CONFIDENT GWORLS IN 2024
Hey guyssss!
Today we will be talking about confidence and ways we can enter the new year on a good note. I wish you all so much good, thank you all for being here!
Today we will be talking about confidence and ways we can enter the new year on a good note. I wish you all so much good, thank you all for being here!
Dec 27, 202316:42
EP 117: The customer is always WRONG
Heyyyy guys, today we are going to talk about my worst customer experience. I’ve got sooo many stories of some of the oddest people I met working at the airport. I hope y’all enjoy todays episode 🫶🏾 Check out the visuals to this episode on YouTube every Tuesday and Friday
Dec 22, 202316:19
EP 116: Crashing Out
Heyyy guys !! Today we will be talking about our openness (or lack their of) to speak to our friends when we see them on a destructive path. Are you unapproachable? Can you friends call you out on your shiii? Do you have friends around you who are willing to tell you that you are crashing out?? Let’s talk 😉
Dec 18, 202316:02
EP 115: HUMANIZE TIKTOK INFLUENCERS
Hey guys!!
Today we will be talking about TikTok drama… there’s always something going on 🥹 A couple weeks ago a Black creator said,”a white audience is better than a black audience” and people have been pissed ever sense. While this can be all fun and games I think people take it too far & they did just that. Why do you think the world needs your (very repetitive) opinion? I’ve seen 10 stitches saying the SAME thing, I’ve seen people say it’s “constructive criticism” all while picking her physical appearance apart. A lot of gas lighting and not enough one on one sessions with a professional. What she said definitely was insane but I wonder if all this was necessary. Is it really ever though? Lol do we ever get anything productive out of these situations?
Dec 11, 202325:05
EP 114: Find YOUR safe space
Hey guys!
Today we will be talking about the importance of being in your safe spaces especially when you are in a season of uncertainty. Our spaces provide us with comfort and the room to be real with ourselves so that the craziness of the world doesn’t drive us crazy as well. I hope you guys enjoy this episode and I appreciate you so much for being here
Today we will be talking about the importance of being in your safe spaces especially when you are in a season of uncertainty. Our spaces provide us with comfort and the room to be real with ourselves so that the craziness of the world doesn’t drive us crazy as well. I hope you guys enjoy this episode and I appreciate you so much for being here
Dec 04, 202321:36
EP 113: Baby shirt with the belly at the bottom
Hey frennnsss!
Today we will be talking about meeting the fam for Thanksgiving, sometimes it can be rough. The anxiety, hoping they like you… SHIIII hoping you like them, can be a lot. Then, we are going to talk about age gaps and how we kinda just let people slide who do things that we say we are against but ya know… money, power, popularity… the fun stuff. I hope you guys enjoy 🙂
Today we will be talking about meeting the fam for Thanksgiving, sometimes it can be rough. The anxiety, hoping they like you… SHIIII hoping you like them, can be a lot. Then, we are going to talk about age gaps and how we kinda just let people slide who do things that we say we are against but ya know… money, power, popularity… the fun stuff. I hope you guys enjoy 🙂
Nov 30, 202333:06
EP 112: TAKE ME TO BELLA NOCHES
Hey guyssss! Today we will be talking about why outside isn’t fun anymore. Is outside really the problem? Have we taken the main character trope a little too far to where social interactions become more and more difficult? Then we close it out with an article I read about people not being about to financially afford to be social. I take it a little deeper and get into our mental capacities in making new connections, do we have the room mentally to create new friendships? Let’s chat 😉
Nov 27, 202338:07
EP 111: A Self Compassionate Revolutionary
*deep negro sigh*
Nov 17, 202324:06
EP 110: Confrontation with the Ops, Rap Music being Toxic & Loving yourself even when it’s hard
Heyyyy y’all… today we’re talking about a lot! So hold on, it’s a rollercoaster ride we’re on (Jonas Brothers lyric 😉) how would y’all feel if you ran into an op in public… do you duck like me or do you act fake… like me? LMAO. How has rap impacted your life? Has the music been something that inspires you positively? I may be thinking too deep but some of us need to lay off the hectic shiiii & but damn Barney on. Calm that damn nervous system. We then end the episode with some talk about self compassion. How I grew up effecting my inner dialogue and the relationships I have with people. I want to thank you guys for watching and hope you enjoy today’s episode 💕
Nov 09, 202330:06
EP 109: First dates women ain’t going on
Hey guyyys! Today we will be talking about the list the BROKE the internet LMAOOOO (I hate when people say that) where are the ladies saying they will not go to for a first date. Is it cap? Are the ladies really standing on business ?? Find out on the new episode of Dragon Ball Z...
Oct 26, 202335:38
EP 108: My first influencer event
When you beat the voices in your head >
Oct 19, 202327:59
EP 107: She Just Doesn't Care
How to be unbothered 101
Oct 12, 202316:03
EP 106: SHE’S A BRAND NEW GWORL
SHE'S BACKKKKK. New name, new b!tch*muahhhh*
Oct 05, 202328:44
EP 105: Bad B!tches Have Bad Days Too
Y’all 🙄
Aug 24, 202329:50
EP 104: The friend who is never approached
We talkinnnnn babyyyyy 🫶🏾
Aug 17, 202336:55
EP 103: The Block is HOT
We talking talking today 🫶🏾 NY Post article: https://nypost.com/2023/06/30/im-obsessed-with-myself-everyone-should-be-the-same/?utm_campaign=applenews&utm_medium=inline&utm_source=applenews
Aug 10, 202301:00:03
EP 102: I Fake Got Kidnapped
Carlee, I get it.
Jul 26, 202338:50
EP 101: Choose Joy
Hey frennnns!
Today we will be talking about being happy at all points in our lives, instead of waiting for something to happen to THEN find joy. I hope you guys like it :)))
Today we will be talking about being happy at all points in our lives, instead of waiting for something to happen to THEN find joy. I hope you guys like it :)))
Jul 20, 202307:28
EP 100: Be With Who WANNA BE with you
hope you enjoyyyy !
Jul 18, 202333:11
EP 99: When opportunity meets preparation
A message for the dreamers 🫶🏾
Jul 13, 202305:31
EP 98: Grown Bullies
Hello frennns today we will be talking about adulthood, my perspective on what it is to be an adult & our relationships with the children around us. Hope y’all enjoy!! Purchase your tshirt here: https://ajamyqueen.squarespace.com/ajamyqueenimheretobeprettytshirts/p/i-here-to-be-pretty-t-shirts
Jul 07, 202342:47
EP 97: All Announcements, No Work
Heyyyyy frennnns! Today we will be talking about beings big sister, uncomfortable conversations with white people and why people lie on social media. Thank you for listening! I truly appreciate you 🫶🏾🫶🏾
Jun 29, 202336:59
BONUS EPISODE
we have been here before 🙄 hope you enjoyyyy
Jun 21, 202311:22
EP 96: It's okay to care
Hey frennnnsss, this episode we will be talking about how caring about things and showing up for them is not a knock to you just because it didn't "work out" thank you guys for listening. I hope you enjoy!
Jun 16, 202311:21
EP 95: I Yam Embarazzzed
BTW... I start crying 15 in 😗 I’m here to be pretty tees >> https://ajamyqueen.squarespace.com/ajamyqueenimheretobeprettytshirts
Jun 09, 202319:36
EP 94: Your access is your power
Time is money babbbbyyy
Jun 01, 202314:26
EP 93: Good hairlines ft. Damon Logan
It’s a Bonus episode yall !! Hey frennnnsss ! This is a bonus episode for y’all 🫶🏾 today we will be talking about stepping into a new chapter in our live and all the feelings that come with that 🙄 thank you guys for listening and like always… THANK YOU FOR BEING HERE!
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May 30, 202339:53
EP 92: In my bikini with my GWORLSSS
HEY FRENNNSSS ! Today we are going to talk about why making friends is hard for some of us. We also talk about if building new connections is hard or if we don’t put enough effort into maintaining the ones that we already have... tune in to find out LOL thank you for being here guys! This is awesome!
May 24, 202315:50
EP 91: GIRL, THEY DUMPED ME!
Hey frennnnsss! You cannot believe what happened 🙄
May 18, 202317:52
EP 90: The Token Kneegrow
All this for Tarte? ok
May 08, 202335:05
EP 89: The Queen of Lick backs ft Jessica Blanco
Heyyyy friends! This episode I am joined by my beautiful to talk about forgiveness. We talk about what makes us resentful, why we choose to forgive and more. Thank you sooo much for listening !
Apr 27, 202352:26