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The Way of the Femme

The Way of the Femme

By S. Carrodegua and A. Gordon (MA, LPCC)

Join healers, Stephanie Carrodegua (Life Coach and Personal Trainer) and Amy Gordon (Psychoherapist), as they explore the complexity of life from professionally-informed queer, femme perspectives. With decades of experience, these witchy boss-bitches share advice, considerations, and pointers on how to navigate this thing called life.
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Anxiety and Depression

The Way of the FemmeFeb 11, 2021

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We Don't Know What We're Talking About

We Don't Know What We're Talking About

Join Amy and Steph in catching up with each other and exploring the upcoming eclipses, the astrological new year, relationships, business, and animals, among many other subjects!

Mar 22, 202401:25:59
Intuitive Eating

Intuitive Eating

In this episode, Stephanie and Amy discuss intuitive eating, intuitive living, and the complexities of chronic dieting, eating disorders, and body image.

Oct 31, 202301:24:06
Arms and Body

Arms and Body

In this episode, Amy and Stephanie respond to a listener email regarding a specific question about body shape.

May 01, 202347:21
Matters of Life and Death

Matters of Life and Death

In this episode, Amy and Stephanie interview a young couple who want to know about matters of life and death, when to have kids, and how to handle death.

Mar 09, 202355:48
Fuck Winter Blues

Fuck Winter Blues

In this episode, Amy and Stephanie address depression, Seasonal Affective Disorder, capitalism, and exercise.

Feb 04, 202301:01:09
He Called Her a Cunt

He Called Her a Cunt

In this episode, Amy and Stephanie address relational conflict, gender socialization, humans as a social animal, and the words we use.

Jan 07, 202301:04:10
Nice to Meet You - Introductions - Episode Zero

Nice to Meet You - Introductions - Episode Zero

Stephanie and Amy introduce themselves. Get to know your The Way of the Femme hosts in this introductory episode.

Oct 31, 202258:36
Queer to Help: Queer Mental Health

Queer to Help: Queer Mental Health

Join hosts Amy Gordon (therapist) and Meg Specksgoor (comedian) in interviewing Angel Merritt (Professional Legal Guardian and Community Health Worker). In this podcast they discuss the dire state of queer mental health and some personal and systemic suggestions for creating a safer world for LGBTQIA2S+ folks. 

Transcription available @ https://www.rev.com/transcript-editor/shared/UrviQppbQB-a9cmLtEU1yvWlZ7TaDcoKqu_1KIj_uGEKfb5PoFjLhSXpNeZqHCImFaQh2ns3p7qVT4H1qmmhNeeh8zk?loadFrom=SharedLink


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Fish, Jessica N. “Future Directions in Understanding and Addressing Mental Health

among LGBTQ Youth.” Journal of Clinical Child & Adolescent Psychology, vol. 49, no. 6,

Nov. 2020, pp. 943–56. EBSCOhost, https://doi.org/10.1080/15374416.2020.1815207

Forstag EH, editor. Reducing Inequalities Between Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and Queer

Adolescents and Cisgender, Heterosexual Adolescents: Proceedings of a Workshop.

Washington (DC): National Academies Press (US); 2022 Jan 6. 5, Promising Interventions

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of Sexual Minority Adults: A U.S. Probability Sample.” PLOS ONE, Public Library of

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Rethink.org. LGBT+ Mental Health. (n.d.). Retrieved June 15, 2022, from

https://www.rethink.org/advice-and-information/living-with-mental-illness/wellbeing-physical-health/lgbtplus-mental-health/

Sage USA https://www.sageusa.org/what-we-do/?gclid=Cj0KCQjworiXBhDJARIsAMuzAuwpH_bV-VxK6L3u7vBx7Gpsy6jpiZueN3aHGfRID-yj8TuJcNR9XMsaAkSBEALw_wcB

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Aug 06, 202229:02
Immigration and LGBTQIA2S+ Kids

Immigration and LGBTQIA2S+ Kids

Join hosts Amy Gordon (therapist) and Meg Specksgoor (comedian) in interviewing Dr. Lulu (pediatrician, author, and educator) in this important, informative, and hilarious interview about a number of fascinating topics including immigration and queer kids. 

Jun 23, 202101:06:52
Working with Children

Working with Children

Join Amy Gordon (host, MA, LMHC), Marquel Musgrave (Land-based Intersectional Pueblo Feminist), and Brittnee Page (MAAT, ATR-BC, CCLS, LCMHCA) in discussing important considerations for doing therapeutic work with children. (Content notice: mention of death pertaining to children).

Mar 13, 202101:08:22
Anxiety and Depression

Anxiety and Depression

In this special crossover episode, therapists and podcast hosts, Amy Gordon (MA, LMHC) and F. Kristopher Blue (MA, LCAS, QMHP) interview each other about theories, methodologies, and their own personal experiences regarding Depression and Anxiety.

Feb 11, 202149:23
Queer Jews

Queer Jews

Join host, Amy Gordon,  in interviewing Katrina Mautner (MA, A-MFT) and Binah Gordon (PhD, community activist) to discuss a range of considerations for working with and providing therapy to queer Jews.



Jan 13, 202101:02:11
Substance Use Recovery

Substance Use Recovery

Join rock star, Darren Keen, and substance use therapist, Beth Lykins (MA, LMHC, ATR-P), as they discuss considerations and perspectives regarding substance use recovery with host, Amy Gordon. Some farm animals also chime in.
Dec 14, 202001:01:14
Polyamory and Ethical Non-Monogamy

Polyamory and Ethical Non-Monogamy

Join Kevin Patterson (author and creator of PolyRoleModels), Michelle Hy (educator and creator of PolyamorousWhileAsian), and Kaytea Hendricks (M.A., Licensed Mental Health Counselor) in discussing nuanced and therapeutic aspects of polyamory and ethical non-monogamy with host, Amy Gordon.

Nov 15, 202043:24
Eating Disorders and Disordered Eating

Eating Disorders and Disordered Eating

Join Gabriella Tafoya-Torrez (MA, LMHC) and Jesse Schreier Kennard (MA, LMHC, ATR-P) as they discuss insights and important considerations regarding the experience and treatment of eating disorders and disordered eating with host, Amy Gordon (MA, LMHC).

Oct 16, 202001:23:04
Serving Intersex Clients
Sep 17, 202051:34
Therapeutic Benefits of Kink

Therapeutic Benefits of Kink

Join sexperts, Keioshiah Peter and Molly Adler (LCSW, CST), as they discuss kinky considerations and the therapeutic benefits of kink with host, Amy Gordon (MA, LMHC). Check out these great resources shared by the show guests: 

https://www.eventbrite.com/e/race-kink-a-bi-weekly-discussion-series-tickets-110204697216

https://www.instagram.com/synblak/

Jaki Griot @pervertsofcolor

Ruby Bouie Johnson - https://www.inamorata.me/therapist

https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/samuel-lee/black-people-kink/

https://www.andreaglik.com/product-page/healing-the-nervous-attachment-systems-through-bdsm

https://www.instagram.com/somaticwitch/

https://instituteforsexuality.com/about/faculty/samantha-manewitz/?gclid=EAIaIQobChMI24uOrM-O6wIVk8DACh0uCwy5EAAYASAAEgLqUPD_BwE

Zach Budd -consent warrior

NCSF - kink aware professionals https://www.kapprofessionals.org/

https://www.kinkacademy.com/

https://www.kinkguidelines.com/

https://www.clementinemorrigan.com/product/trauma-informed-polyamory-workshop

https://www.autostraddle.com/11-books-for-polyamorous-practice-and-non-monogamy-newbies/

http://www.authentickink.com/

https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578453398/?coliid=IJ3DFH2RZ9VRM&colid=5YZ28ZGR2905&psc=0&ref_=lv_ov_lig_dp_it

https://www.scarleteen.com/article/relationships_sexual_identity_sexuality/well_fck_me_its_a_scarleteen_zine_0

https://www.instagram.com/sexisceremony/

https://www.instagram.com/sextherapynm/

https://www.instagram.com/amygordon1985/


Aug 19, 202001:02:38
Harm Reduction

Harm Reduction

Join Vivian Haye (MA) and Nathan Leach (MA) as they engage in conversation with host, Amy Gordon (MA, LMHC), to discuss the field of Harm Reduction and its intersections with therapy.

Jul 20, 202001:12:21
Suicide Prevention

Suicide Prevention

Join suicide prevention educator, Karen Janette, and suicide loss survivor, Ashley Roessler, as they discuss insights and experience regarding suicide with host, Amy Gordon. Content notice: graphic descriptions of violent events and information that may be disturbing to some regarding the topic of suicide are present in this podcast. 

Jun 21, 202001:12:57
Serving Non-Binary Clients

Serving Non-Binary Clients

Join Dr. KD Nadler and Pretzyl Hyzy as they engage in conversation with host, Amy Gordon (MA, LMHC), to discuss insights and important considerations in working with Non-Binary clients. 

May 22, 202001:07:60
Adventure Therapy

Adventure Therapy

Join host, Amy Gordon (MA, LMHC), along with guests, Michelle Esquibel (MA, LPCC) and Sky Yardeni (MA) as they discuss Adventure Therapy from their unique lenses.

Apr 23, 202001:20:33