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By Antonio Myers

Autism is my super blessing! I'm a high-school valedictorian, college graduate, world traveler, disability advocate. I'm a Unitarian Universalist. I'm a Progressive Liberal. I'm about equal rights, human rights, civil & political rights, & economic, social, &cultural rights. I do servant leadership, boundless optimism, & Oneness/Wholeness. I'm good naked & unashamed! I love positive personhood, love your neighbor as yourself, and do no harm! I'm also appropriately inappropriate! My self-ratings: NC-17, XXX, X, X18+ & TV-MA means empathy! I publish shows at 11am!
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TonioTimeDailyOct 11, 2022

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My lengthy history of protecting women and protecting sex workers

My lengthy history of protecting women and protecting sex workers

“Sex Worker Rights are Human Rights
“We have chosen to advocate for the decriminalization of all aspects of consensual adult sex - sex work that does not involve coercion, exploitation or abuse. This is based on evidence and the real-life experience of sex workers themselves that criminalization makes them less safe.” – Amnesty International
Sex Worker Rights Defined
Sex workers are entitled to live free of discrimination, stigma, and violence. As all people, their rights to life, health, privacy, and bodily autonomy should not be infringed upon. Sex worker rights have generally focused on decriminalizing sex work as a tool to ensure fair treatment.
Human Rights Framework
Human rights are inalienable rights, which all people are entitled to by virtue of their status as human beings. Various international human rights principles and legal instruments have been generated through the United Nations in order to put forth state obligations to protect and honor those rights. Although the
United States has not signed and ratified most of the international human rights treaties, advocates have called for the application of a human rights framework domestically.
Importance
Folks engaged in the sex trade are faced with pervasive violence, stigma, and discrimination, which consequently limit the ways in which many sex workers navigate the world. Recognizing the rights of sex workers as human rights not only affirms the dignity and humanity of sex workers as indeed, workers but also recognizes them as human beings and rights holders beyond the context of their work. Folks in the sex trade have needs and desires outside of their occupation that we must also center and support.
The systemic oppression many sex workers encounter, and very often without legal recourse, is compounded for racial and sexual minorities, folks with histories of drug use and criminal system involvement, persons living with HIV, people from immigrant backgrounds, etc. Criminalization exacerbates marginalization and work- related safety and health hazards. Creating pathways for folks in the sex trade to assert their rights through the decriminalization of sex work can improve life outcomes and center their voices.
Applying the Framework
A rights based approach is an evidence-based approach. Research has shown that supporting sex worker rights is the best way to promote safety and health and shift law enforcement resources towards violent crime.
HIPS recognizes the agency and individual power of the populations we serve. To provide compassionate harm reduction services and advocacy, we aspire to be non-judgmental and non-coercive. We recognize that there are a variety of reasons why folks engage in the sex trade. We also recognize the harms associated with sex work due to its criminalization—laws have the power to constrain a person’s ability to survive and thrive safely.
Advancing the human rights of our clients requires us to challenge laws that criminalize their livelihoods while simultaneously challenging the lack of resources made available to sex workers and advocates. Review our Sex Work Policies document for more information about local laws and policies in the District of Columbia we can change to better support folks in the sex trade.
In July 2015, Amnesty International announced, that following two years of research and consultations, it would be voting to develop a policy respecting the human rights of sex workers by advocating for the decriminalization of sex work globally.
HIPS stands in solidarity with the push for decriminalization, in recognition of the rights of sex workers and the role of decriminalization in securing those rights.
HIPS is a harm reduction service provider and advocacy organization providing support to persons impacted by sexual exchange and/or drug use in the District of Columbia. For more information about HIPS, visit www.hips.org.” -https://www.hips.org/uploads/6/2/2/9/62290383/hips_statement_swrights.pdf
May 05, 202438:28
My last episode talking about sexuality and disability of my past.

My last episode talking about sexuality and disability of my past.

“Trauma can cause one to feel inadequate, lacking, insufficient, failing, depleted, miserly, too little, sparse, not enough, sparing, stinted, stunted, feeble, deficient, ineffective, inefficient, impotent, weak, low, unproductive. and defective.” -Antonio Myers.
May 05, 202448:23
Faith is a gray area for me as the gray area thinker that I am.

Faith is a gray area for me as the gray area thinker that I am.

“Existentialism is a form of philosophical inquiry that explores the issue of human existence.[1][2] Existentialist philosophers explore questions related to the meaning, purpose, and value of human existence. Common concepts in existentialist thought include existential crisis, dread, and anxiety in the face of an absurd world and free will, as well as authenticity, courage, and virtue.[3] Existentialism is associated with several 19th- and 20th-century European philosophers who shared an emphasis on the human subject, despite often profound differences in thought.[4][2][5] Among the earliest figures associated with existentialism are philosophers Søren Kierkegaard, Friedrich Nietzsche and novelist Fyodor Dostoevsky, all of whom critiqued rationalism and concerned themselves with the problem of meaning. In the 20th century, prominent existentialist thinkers included Jean-Paul Sartre, Albert Camus, Martin Heidegger, Simone de Beauvoir, Karl Jaspers, Gabriel Marcel, and Paul Tillich.
Many existentialists considered traditional systematic or academic philosophies, in style and content, to be too abstract and removed from concrete human experience.[6][7] A primary virtue in existentialist thought is authenticity.[8] Existentialism would influence many disciplines outside of philosophy, including theology, drama, art, literature, and psychology.[9]
Existentialist philosophy encompasses a range of perspectives, but it shares certain underlying concepts. Among these, a central tenet of existentialism is that personal freedom, individual responsibility, and deliberate choice are essential to the pursuit of self-discovery and the determination of life's meaning.[10]” -Wikipedia.
May 05, 202440:04
My fondness for bipartisanship, nonpartisanship, and multi-partisanship.

My fondness for bipartisanship, nonpartisanship, and multi-partisanship.

“Bipartisanship, sometimes referred to as nonpartisanship, is a political situation, usually in the context of a two-party system (especially those of the United States and some other western countries), in which opposing political parties find common ground through compromise. In multi-partisan electoral systems or in situations where multiple parties work together, it is called multipartisanship. Partisanship is the antonym, where an individual or political party adheres only to its interests without compromise.” -Wikipedia. “In political science, a multi-party system is a political system in which multiple political parties across the political spectrum run for national elections, and all have the capacity to gain control of government offices, separately or in coalition.[1] Apart from one-party-dominant and two-party systems, multi-party systems tend to be more common in parliamentary systems than presidential systems and far more common in countries that use proportional representation compared to countries that use first-past-the-post elections. Several parties compete for power and all of them have a reasonable chance of forming government.
In multi-party systems that use proportional representation, each party wins a number of legislative seats proportional to the number of votes it receives.” -Wikipedia.
May 05, 202425:33
I can’t do the 24/7 family man life and the 24/7 assisting the needy life simultaneously. I am a confirmed bachelor, I do self-parenting, I am my own roommate, and I am my own janitor (without a pet.)

I can’t do the 24/7 family man life and the 24/7 assisting the needy life simultaneously. I am a confirmed bachelor, I do self-parenting, I am my own roommate, and I am my own janitor (without a pet.)

“I choose the twenty-four hours, seven days a week, round-the clock assistance of the needy, which means I do solo living (forgoing marriage, forgoing children, forgoing pet-owning, and forgoing the roommate lifestyle of the daily basis nature.) Forgoing simply means no. Confirmed bachelor means never marrying, Self-parenting means I don't reproduce (not ever making a baby and not ever making babies), Being my own roommate means I choose to live physically by myself, and being my own janitor means that I'm not taming a creature of my own. I enjoy the healthy interruptions to my schedule because I see them as the reason for my callings and my purposes.” -Antonio Myers.


May 05, 202432:01
I am open to the family man life because I am called to relationships, families, and romance.

I am open to the family man life because I am called to relationships, families, and romance.

“ I don’t know if life will grant me a wife, offspring, and a pet. I am only speaking hypothetically. I mention the qualities of a family man that I indeed do possess." -Antonio Myers.
May 05, 202439:11
I plan to do social equality/social equity work with secular entities, unbelievers, and non-believers. I mostly don't attend houses of worship because I truly am the most needed by the secular world.

I plan to do social equality/social equity work with secular entities, unbelievers, and non-believers. I mostly don't attend houses of worship because I truly am the most needed by the secular world.

“Social equality is a state of affairs in which all individuals within society have equal rights, liberties, and status, possibly including civil rights, freedom of expression, autonomy, and equal access to certain public goods and social services. Social equality requires the absence of legally enforced social class or caste boundaries and the absence of discrimination motivated by an inalienable part of an individual's identity.[1] For example, advocates of social equality believe in equality before the law for all individuals regardless of sex, gender, ethnicity, age, sexual orientation, origin, caste or class, income or property, language, religion, convictions, opinions, health, or disability.[2][3] There are different types of social equality:[4]
Formal equality: equal opportunity for individuals based on merit.
Substantive equality: equality of outcomes for groups, also called social equity.” -Wikipedia. “Social equity is concerned with justice and fairness of social policy. Since the 1960s, the concept of social equity has been used in a variety of institutional contexts, including education and public administration. Equity within a society is different from social equality because it takes into account the individual differences that people may have when seeking an equal outcome. Equity describes equal outcomes for groups, also called substantive equality.[1] For example, person A may have no difficulty walking, person B may be able to walk but with some difficulty, whilst person C may be unable to walk at all. Equality would be providing each of those three people with the same opportunities or aids. Per our example, if persons A, B, and C receive a wheelchair, this is a form of equality. Equity, on the other hand, would look different from equality because it would instead cater to each individual's differing needs. For the same example, person A may not receive any aids, person B may receive a walking stick, whilst person C may receive an electric wheelchair.” -Wikipedia.
May 05, 202424:04
My last episode on my spirituality, my adult secular spirituality & my child Christian spirituality.

My last episode on my spirituality, my adult secular spirituality & my child Christian spirituality.

“In modern times, the term both spread to other religious traditions[9] and broadened to refer to a wider range of experiences, including a range of esoteric and religious traditions. Modern usages tend to refer to a subjective experience of a sacred dimension,[10] and the "deepest values and meanings by which people live",[11][12] often in a context separate from organized religious institutions.[6] This may involve belief in a supernatural realm beyond the ordinarily observable world,[13] personal growth,[14] a quest for an ultimate or sacred meaning,[15] religious experience,[16] or an encounter with one's own "inner dimension".[17]” -Wikipedia. “Secular spirituality is the adherence to a spiritual philosophy without adherence to a religion. Secular spirituality emphasizes the inner peace of the individual, rather than a relationship with the divine. Secular spirituality is made up of the search for meaning outside of a religious institution; it considers one's relationship with the self, others, nature, and whatever else one considers to be the ultimate.[1] Often, the goal of secular spirituality is living happily and/or helping others.[2]” -Wikipedia. “Christianity (/krɪstʃiˈænɪti/ or /krɪstiˈænɪti/) is an Abrahamic monotheistic religion based on the life and teachings of Jesus. It is the world's largest and most widespread religion with roughly 2.4 billion followers, comprising around 31.2% of the world population.[8] Its adherents, known as Christians, are estimated to make up a majority of the population in 157 countries and territories. Christians believe that Jesus is the Son of God, whose coming as the Messiah was prophesied in the Hebrew Bible (called the Old Testament in Christianity) and chronicled in the New Testament.” -Wikipedia. “I am student of all religions, all ideologies, all religious texts, and all philosophies.” -Antonio Myers.
May 05, 202426:30
I plan on doing social justice work with churches, mosques, temples, synagogues, monasteries, centers, and tabernacles.

I plan on doing social justice work with churches, mosques, temples, synagogues, monasteries, centers, and tabernacles.

“I am not a tormentor foe of houses of worship, I am a true friend of houses of worship. I recognize that I must be prophetic in the four walls and more than four walls. Prophetic means orderliness instituted for those who face institutional discrimination such as I.” -Antonio Myers.

"Social justice is justice in relation to a fair balance in the distribution of wealthopportunities, and privileges within a society where individuals' rights are recognized and protected.[1] In Western and Asian cultures, the concept of social justice has often referred to the process of ensuring that individuals fulfill their societal roles and receive their due from society.[2][3][4] In the current movements for social justice, the emphasis has been on the breaking of barriers for social mobility, the creation of safety nets, and economic justice.[5][6][7][8][9]. Social justice assigns rights and duties in the institutions of society, which enables people to receive the basic benefits and burdens of cooperation. The relevant institutions often include taxationsocial insurancepublic healthpublic schoolpublic serviceslabor law and regulation of markets, to ensure distribution of wealth, and equal opportunity.[10]" -Wikipedia.

May 05, 202440:03
My guest Sandy Phillips Kirkham and I discussed The Tragedy of Clergy Abuse, The Contamination of the Church, The Understanding of the Difficulty of Speaking Out, and The Journey of Healing.

My guest Sandy Phillips Kirkham and I discussed The Tragedy of Clergy Abuse, The Contamination of the Church, The Understanding of the Difficulty of Speaking Out, and The Journey of Healing.

May 04, 202454:54
My guests Marlene Sharp, Judi Uttal, and I discussed Softening Hearts and Minds Through Autism Awareness.

My guests Marlene Sharp, Judi Uttal, and I discussed Softening Hearts and Minds Through Autism Awareness.

This is Marlene's bio: "Marlene Sharp is a creative and business-savvy entertainment multi-hyphenate who originally hails from New Orleans but is now a (San Fernando) Valley girl. Firmly ensconced in LA life, Marlene is top dawg at Pink Poodle Productions and emeritus Head of IP Strategy and Acquisitions for Rainshine Entertainment.
Noteworthy clients and collaborators include Autism in Entertainment Conference; Agency for Cultural Affairs, Government of Japan; WowMax Next; Dumpster Dorks; Filmocracy; BoredPanda.com; WeFixYourScript.com; ToonBo; Society Theatricals; Euramco Pictures; Weird Ass Comedy; the Los Angeles Police Memorial Foundation, and The Center for Learning Unlimited/CLU Transitions/Brainstorm Productions.
Prior to Pink Poodle and Rainshine, Marlene served as Director, Production at LEVEL-5 abby, home of YO-KAI WATCH and other Japanese hit video game-based franchises. Formerly, as Producer, TV Series, at Sega of America, Marlene worked on much more than Teen Choice Award-nominated Cartoon Network series SONIC BOOM. For example, her extensive Hedgehog duties took her to the heights of the nerd-iverse as an official San Diego Comic-Con panelist. She also contributed to the 2020 Sonic the Hedgehog feature film.
As a freelance journalist, Marlene concentrates on pop culture for noteworthy fan destinations, such as Global Toy News, GameDeveloper.com, DOGTV, ToonBarn.com, Geekified.net, Medium, and
CultureSonar.com.
As a short film auteur, she has snagged recognition at La Femme Film Fest, Austin Comedy Film Festival, KIDS FIRST! Film Festival, Canine Film Festival, and San Luis Obispo Film Festival. Marlene is the proud winner of the 2019 LA Shorts International Film Fest Script Competition (an Oscar- and BAFTA-qualifying fest), at which her backdoor sitcom pilot received a staged reading courtesy of The Groundlings.
As a human being, basically, Marlene Sharp loves all kinds of pups. For proof, please see her website www.pinkpoodleproductions.com. For extra proof, look at this: https://linktr.ee/marlenesharp." -Marlene Sharp.
This is Judi's bio: "As President of the Orange County Asperger's Support Group, I am driving programming to help individuals and families dealing with High-Functioning Autism and Asperger's improve their quality of life. In this role, I have uniquely developed the use of Toastmasters to help those with ASD improve communication and enhance social interaction. am a co-chair on the Thompson Policy Institute OC Transition Initiative where I am part of the business outreach group. I am currently focused on expanding employment opportunities for neurodiverse individuals. I am a retired high-tech marketing executive, with a “get it done” leadership style that inspires teams, collaborates across cross-functional organizations and motivates a sales force. Develops product and marketing strategies, establish corporate positioning, programs and campaigns integrating impactful collateral to drive market share growth. Computer Science and business education from leading universities complemented by nearly thirty years with both successful start-ups and industry leading corporations." -Judi Uttal - Irvine, California, United States | Professional Profile | LinkedIn
May 03, 202441:26
My guest Desiree Goldey and I discussed the journey of self-discovery, championing DEIB initiatives, Overcoming Fear and Embracing Adventure, and Embracing Human Complexity.

My guest Desiree Goldey and I discussed the journey of self-discovery, championing DEIB initiatives, Overcoming Fear and Embracing Adventure, and Embracing Human Complexity.

This is her bio: "Desiree Goldey is the Director, Talent Operations & Culture for Hub Recruiting, a division of the global talent advisory firm ZRG Partners, LLC. Since joining Hub, Desiree has worked on the firm's recruiter and leadership side. She attended Georgetown University, where she studied International Business/Marketing before starting her career. Before joining Hub Recruiting, Desiree worked in various roles, including roles in marketing, sales, hospitality, go-to-market, and agency recruiting. Her role at Hub and her other passions have allowed her to engage leaders, employees, job seekers, and candidates by appearing on numerous podcasts through her speaking engagements and publications. Desiree's passion for Diversity, Equity, Inclusion, and Belonging is at the core of her professional journey. Recognizing the immense value that diverse perspectives bring to organizations, Desiree has spearheaded DEIB initiatives that have transformed workplace cultures and promoted equitable employment opportunities. Desiree lives in Austin, TX, with her wife and two dogs after growing up in the suburbs of Philadelphia and moving around the country for many years. Desiree works with many volunteer organizations, focusing mainly on pay equity and homelessness. Her hobbies include any daredevil type of activity, writing, and cooking." -Desiree Goldey | Hub Recruiting.
May 02, 202431:21
My guest Joia Jefferson Nuri and I discussed embracing worthiness, transforming insecurities into strengths, the power of self-conversation, the power of positive affirmations, and so much more!

My guest Joia Jefferson Nuri and I discussed embracing worthiness, transforming insecurities into strengths, the power of self-conversation, the power of positive affirmations, and so much more!

This is her biography on her website. "Joia Jefferson Nuri has a keen intuition for helping women of color executives achieve their goals. Her training as a coach in executive Leadership and public speaking has sharpened her ability to understand and support clients in clarifying their objectives. Joia helps her clients build a toolkit to battle their destructive inner critic, allowing them to rise from their zone of excellence to their zone of genius. Trained in the rubric of positive psychology, her techniques put clients in touch with their inner critic so they can quiet it. As a leadership coach, her ultimate goal is to help clients understand their worth, maximize their abilities, and live the lives they see for themselves. Joia's signature executive team-building and inner critic workshops assist companies, social change groups, and women's organizations maximize their Leadership while aligning their values and practices. Before coaching, she was a human rights communication strategist for Harry Belafonte and Danny Glover, TransAfrica, The Institute for Policy Studies, and Truly Living Well Center for Urban Agriculture. As a communication strategist, she testified before Congress on Haiti Relief and co-wrote Congressional Testimony for Danny Glover. Joia Nuri has co-written, edited, and coached 14 TEDx Talks, including one for herself. She was honored to be invited to deliver the keynote address in Vienna, Austria, before the 53 nations of the Organization for Security and Cooperation in Europe (OSCE). Her communications career began at NBC News, where she was one of the first women hired as a technician. Her move to CBS News made her the first Black woman to serve as Technical Director of the CBS Evening News and Face The Nation. She also worked as a senior producer at NPR, PBS, and C-SPAN. Her public speaking training began with her father, a classical baritone. Later, her training continued with Shakespearean actress Naomi Jacobson. Joia has performed voiceovers for documentaries on Civil Rights icon John Lewis, ballet dancer Misty Copeland, filmmaker Ava Duverney, and Secretary of State Hilary Clinton. She applies her experience, intuition, and training to help each client achieve authentic Leadership. Today, she coaches government, education, corporations, and philanthropy leaders. AWARDS & ACCOMPLISHMENTS: EMMY AWARD, WRC-TV CORPORATION FOR PUBLIC BROADCASTING AWARD FOR PROGRAMMING EXCELLENCE SPIRIT AWARD, PACIFICA RADIO NETWORK  JUDGE FOR THE ROBERT F. KENNEDY MEMORIAL HUMAN RIGHTS AWARDS DELIVERED KEYNOTE ADDRESS BEFORE THE OSCE IN VIENNA, AUSTRIA TEDX TALK, WILMINGTON EVENT STRATEGIST, OBAMA INAUGURAL GALAS, 2009 & 2013." - Joia's Full Bio - In The Public Eye Coaching.
May 01, 202444:39
Providing social justice to all industries (my last industry episode.)
Apr 30, 202420:49
My last adult film and webcam modeling episode (Sexually Highly Sensitive Persons a.k.a. SHSP’s.)

My last adult film and webcam modeling episode (Sexually Highly Sensitive Persons a.k.a. SHSP’s.)

“Many people in the world are mislabeled by society as unattractive,
ill-favored, hideous, plain, plain-featured, plain-looking, unlovely, unprepossessing,
unsightly, displeasing, disagreeable, horrible, frightful, awful, ghastly, gruesome, grisly, unpleasant, foul,
nasty, grim, vile, shocking, disgusting,
revolting, repellent, repugnant,
grotesque, monstrous, reptilian,
misshapen, deformed, disfigured,
homely, not much to look at,
short on looks, as plain as a pikestaff,
as ugly as sin, ugly, no oil painting,
huckery, and repulsive.” -Antonio Myers.
Apr 30, 202401:08:41
I’ll be a future U.S. Member of Congress (House of Representatives and Senate.) My last running for public office episode.

I’ll be a future U.S. Member of Congress (House of Representatives and Senate.) My last running for public office episode.

Apr 30, 202401:17:10
My final episode on intimacy professionalism and sex surrogacy

My final episode on intimacy professionalism and sex surrogacy

“The concepts of sex surrogates and surrogate partner therapy were originally introduced by pioneering gynecologist Dr. William Masters and sexologist Virginia Johnson to help men overcome sexual dysfunction. Currently, sex surrogates work with both men and women. In surrogate partner therapy, the sex surrogate takes a client through a multi-step process, beginning with very basic tools of communication and touch.

Surrogate partner therapy can include mutual nudity and two-way touch, as well as manual, oral sex or sexual intercourse. While other forms of sexual help – like experiential sex coaching or therapy can be accessed directly – surrogate partner therapy can only be accessed through a recommendation and ongoing work with a licensed psychotherapist. The therapist, client, and surrogate are thought of as a three-person therapeutic team. The function of the sex surrogate is to engage with the client in exercises to help them become more comfortable and adept at sexual and emotional intimacy.

Who Should See a Sex Surrogate?

A sex surrogate or surrogate partner therapy is often recommended by a therapist to clients who have a very high level of sexual dysfunction or interpersonal inhibition. These clients need to practice with a partner in a more structured environment to help them overcome their sexual challenges. These challenges might include sexual dysfunctions such as erectile dysfunction, pain during penetration, early ejaculation, or inability to orgasm. Surrogate partner therapy can also help if you are highly anxious sexually, have disabilities that make it more challenging to have sex, or have little or no experience with sex.

What is Sexual Surrogate Therapy?

In the initial consultation, you and your surrogate will get to know one another, begin to build rapport and make sure that surrogate partner therapy is right for you. After that, a step-by-step process begins where you and the sex surrogate communicate through each progressive step of intimacy and touch. One main tool of surrogacy is sensate focus, initially developed by Masters and Johnson. Sensate focus is meant to enhance relaxation, lower anxiety, and help you stay in touch with your sensations and arousal. Sex surrogates also help you process emotions around issues with sex and intimacy.

As you move through the phases of the therapy, you may practice back-and-forth touch. Your surrogate starts with the hands, then you might move to the face or other parts of the clothed body. In ongoing sessions, your sex surrogate will take time to educate you about sexual comfort, relaxation, touch, and best practices. You will slowly remove more clothing, learning to give and receive touch on all the different parts of your own and your surrogate’s body. Any oral sex or intercourse you have with your practitioner will be guided by safer sex practices.” -https://www.sexcoaching.com/types-of-therapy/what-is-a-sex-surrogate/
Apr 30, 202401:10:26
My public life integrity and my private life integrity compliment, not insult each other. (My last public figure episode.)
Apr 30, 202456:54
Every woman I slept with in the past was a survivor/victim of physical abuse and sexual abuse. (My last episode about my sexual past.)

Every woman I slept with in the past was a survivor/victim of physical abuse and sexual abuse. (My last episode about my sexual past.)

“I forgive all of the women, and others that I was intimately with and I know that they all forgive me. We love each other, we don’t judge each other. We grant each other the same respect and same right that we individually desire for ourselves. We envision each other generously, graciously, and compassionately. Every partner I had in my sensitive past was well-pleased with me 💯 in body and “performance. I felt the same about them all.” Antonio Myers.
Apr 30, 202401:14:32
Talking to my child me about theology (my last child me in faith episode.)

Talking to my child me about theology (my last child me in faith episode.)

“Child me, I am called to do : •Welfare State •Welfare •Soup Kitchen •Social insurance •Labor laws•Taxation•Air Force•Paramedics•Equal Opportunity•Courts•Social Equality•Social justice•ensure distribution of wealth•regulation of markets•public health•public schools•public services•the breaking of barriers for social mobility, the creation of safety nets, and economic justice•Arguing before The Supreme Court of United States•Being a member of Presidential White House administrations•being a public servant•social and human services assistant•social worker•teaching sign language and Braille•being a professor•https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Domestic_worker
•Education
•Electricity
•Emergency services
•Environmental protection
•Health care
•Mail
•Military trauma healing
•Public buildings
Public libraries
•Public parks
•Public policy
•Public utilities
•Public transportation
•Social services
•State schools
•Telecommunications
•Transportation infrastructure
•Urban planning
•Waste management
•Water supply network
•Education
•Police
•Labour Laws
•Fire Services
•Insurance laws
•Food banks
•Charitable Organisations
•Public housing
•Aged Care
•Disability Services
•Legal aid
•Youth Services
•Crisis Support Services
•Emergency Relief
•Public transportation.” -Antonio Myers.
Apr 30, 202437:09
Inner beauty is my religion and my religion is inner beauty. (My last views on religion episode.)

Inner beauty is my religion and my religion is inner beauty. (My last views on religion episode.)

Here is a list of all of the words ending in the suffix -ology that are in religious texts that many in the faith-based community fight over: “https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_words_with_the_suffix_-ology.” -Wikipedia.

The global faith-based community fights over:


Apr 30, 202401:11:18
Irreligion (my last episode about unbelievers and nonbelievers.)

Irreligion (my last episode about unbelievers and nonbelievers.)

Links:
Irreligion - Wikipedia
Criticism of religion - Wikipedia
Religious skepticism - Wikipedia


So many houses of worship fight over: •The designs and architecture of houses of worship. •The music, praise and worship, preaching, preaching styles, preaching content, wardrobe, and the usage of beauty products •Knowing vs. believing•racial justice •television and movie ratings•profanity•television and movie content/scenes•secular programs and secular music•technology•virality•streaming•the faith healings•photography•baptisms•recording deliverance sessions•recording exorcisms

Drug decriminalization
Harm reduction
Legal drinking age
War on Drugs



Corporal punishment and child discipline, most notably spanking
Creation–evolution controversy
Family values
Homeschooling and educational choice
Sexual education and abstinence only education




Anti-gender movement
Age of consent
Circumcision controversies
Feminism
LGBT rights and same-sex marriage
Polyamory
Sex work
Sexual revolution

Anti-war movement
Capital punishment
Reproductive rights including birth control (and its coverage by insurance)
Right to die movement and euthanasia
Stem-cell research
Universal healthcare



Animal rights
Call-out culture
Christmas controversy
Counterculture
Cultural conflict
Cultural Marxism conspiracy theory
Expurgation – Form of censorship of artistic or other media works
Geographical renaming
History wars
Media bias in the U.S.
Moral absolutism vs. moral relativism
Multiculturalism
Negationism
Owning the libs
Permissive society
Race, affirmative action
Secularism and secularization
Social justice warrior
Theory wars
Woke
Global warming controversy[41]
Culture war - Wikipedia
Hell
Sin
Iniquity
Satan and the demonic realm
The Holy Trinity
Archangels and the angelic realm
Megachurches and mega-houses of worship
Televangelism
The Prosperity Gospel
Celebrity culture and Celebrity Worship Syndrome within religion and outside of religion
Love offerings, tithes and offering, and building funds.






















Apr 30, 202440:28
My omnism and my spiritual humanism (my last episode about believers and theists.)

My omnism and my spiritual humanism (my last episode about believers and theists.)

“Omnism is the respect of or belief in all religion.[1][2] Those who hold this belief are called omnists. In recent years, the term has been resurfacing due to the interest of modern-day self-described omnists who have rediscovered and begun to redefine the term. Omnism is similar to syncretism, the belief in a fusion of faiths in harmony.[3] However, it can also be seen as a way to accept the existence of various religions without believing in all that they profess to teach. Many omnists say that all religions contain truths, but that no one religion offers all that is truth. Contemporary usage has modified "belief in all religions" to refer more to an acceptance of the legitimacy of all religions. The Oxford English Dictionary elaborates that an omnist believes "in a single transcendent purpose or cause uniting all things or people". Omnists interpret this to mean that all religions contain varying elements of a common truth, that omnists are open to potential truths from all religions. The Oxford dictionary defines an omnist as "a person who believes in all faiths or creeds; a person who believes in a single transcendent purpose or cause uniting all things or people, or the members of a particular group of people".[4] Edward Herbert, 1st Baron Herbert of Cherbury, considered the first Deist, argued that all religions were true.[5] In the poem All Religions are One, William Blake professed that every religion originated from God's revelation.[6] Henry Stubbe and other Socinians synthesized a form of Muhammadan Christianity.[7] Unitarian Universalism, which grew out of the Protestant Reformation,[8] practices Omnist beliefs.[9] Other notable interfaith organizations include the Church for the Fellowship of All Peoples[10] and The Parliament of the World's Religions was the first organization with the goal to unite all religions.[11]” -Wikipedia.
Apr 30, 202450:08
All of the reasons for the decline of both Christianity and Church attendance in the Western World. (My very last Christianity episode.)

All of the reasons for the decline of both Christianity and Church attendance in the Western World. (My very last Christianity episode.)

“This is my scratching rebuke of The Churchianity Pharisees, not the True Christians in the Church. They violate The Ten Commandments, but pretend that they don’t. They tell people not to drink coffee nor soft drinks, but they consume both behind the scenes. They tell people to not use gigolos, but they do so anyway and anyhow. They live secret lives of sex-related pastimes such as pornography, adult entertainment, sex industry, sex-oriented adult magazines, sex movies, sex toys, feisty and BDSM paraphernalia, sex channels for television, pre-paid sex movies for video on demands, adult movie theaters, sex shops, peep shows, strip clubs, host and hostess clubs, and adult service providers. They are sanctimonious persons, pietists, whited sepulchers, plaster saints, humbugs, pretender, deceivers, dissemblers, impostor, impersonators, phonies, Holy Willie’s, creeping Jesus, bluenoses, Tartuffes, Pecksniffs, and canters.” -Antonio Myers.
Apr 30, 202401:56:11
If Jesus were alive today…..(my very last Jesus episode.)

If Jesus were alive today…..(my very last Jesus episode.)

“Historically, Jesus has been distorted,
warped, corrupted, subverted, twisted, bender, abused, diverted, deflected, misapplied, misused, misrepresented, misinterpreted, misconstrued, falsified,
and garbled. The faith-based community fights over interfaith relationships, secular and faith-based relationships, religious text versions, religious texts, religious text translations, "White Jesus", "Black Jesus", religious text transliterations, and multiculturalism. Jesus doesn’t engage in such fights.” -Antonio Myers. “Many from the Baby Boomer generation are skipping church because of shifting priorities in later life, the digital divide impacts engagement, disenchantment with institutional religion, health and mobility concerns, political and social views clashing, generational shift in beliefs, economic factors, desire for community elsewhere, changes in family dynamics, lack of engaging content, increased travel and mobility, more focused on personal development, exhaustion with ritual, preference for solitude in spirituality, perception of church as outdated, quest for inclusivity, impact of the Internet.” -Bob Jameson. “Many people no longer want to go to church because they are seeking spiritual fulfillment elsewhere, perception of irrelevance, desire for inclusivity and acceptance, the rise of “the nones”, discomfort with organizational politics, financial expectations and obligations, the digital age and online communities, changing family dynamics and schedules, seeking authenticity and transparency, intellectual and theological curiosity, demand for rational and critical engagement, personal spirituality over organized religion, impact of technology and social media, shifts in social and moral values, desire for genuine community and connection, the need for flexibility and adaptability, cultural and religious pluralism.” -Jane Andrews. “The seventeen reasons for Christianity declining in America is because of rise of secularism, access to diverse philosophies, institutional failures and scandals, evolving social values, scientific and technological advances, interfaith relationships and multiculturalism, increased focus on individualism, critical examination of religious texts, perception of religion as irrelevant and outdated, desire for authenticity and personal connection, influence of New Age and alternative beliefs, disillusionment with religious exclusivity, impact of education and critical thinking, political and social polarization, shift toward experience over doctrine, influence of media and popular culture, personal trauma and negative church experiences.” -Jane Andrew’s. “Conflicts between faith and science, personal hardships or negative encounters with religious institutions, the enigma of evil and suffering, exposure to interfaith and multicultural perspectives, intellectual uncertainties and inquiries, yearning for freedom, social and cultural transformations, feeling disconnected or lacking a sense of belonging, seeking authenticity in their spiritual experience, the impact of secularism, family dynamics and its influence, evolving personal beliefs, social and political issues, exploring inclusivity, the impact of media and the abundance of information, seeking a sense of community, contemplating the nature of God, shifting life priorities are eighteen reasons why people stop being Christians.” -Jane Andrews.
Apr 30, 202430:08
My college traumatic experiences with The Religious Right in the Bible Belt (The U.S.A. Deep South within GOP Florida.) This is my very last church episode.

My college traumatic experiences with The Religious Right in the Bible Belt (The U.S.A. Deep South within GOP Florida.) This is my very last church episode.

“The Christian right, otherwise referred to as the religious right, are Christian political factions characterized by their strong support of socially conservative and traditionalist policies.[3] Christian conservatives seek to influence politics and public policy with their interpretation of the teachings of Christianity.[7] In the United States, they oppose any interpretation of the Establishment Clause of the U.S. Constitution that implies a "separation of church and state", as they seek to use politics and the law to impose their conservative Christian beliefs on American society. In the United States, the Christian right is an informal coalition which was formed around a core of predominantly White conservative Evangelical Protestants and Roman Catholics.[11] The Christian right draws additional support from politically conservative mainline Protestants, Orthodox Jews, and members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.[13] The movement has its roots in American politics going back as far as the 1940s; it has been especially influential since the 1970s.[18] Its influence draws from grassroots activism as well as from focus on social issues and the ability to motivate the electorate around those issues.[19] The Christian right is notable because it has advanced socially conservative positions on issues such as creationism in public education,[20] school prayer,[21] temperance,[22] Christian nationalism,[23] Christian Zionism,[2] and Sunday Sabbatarianism,[24] as well as opposition to biological evolution,[20] embryonic stem cell research,[25] LGBT rights,[27] comprehensive sex education,[28][29] abortion and euthanasia,[31] use of drugs,[2] and pornography.[32] Although the term Christian right is most commonly associated with politics in the United States,[2] similar Christian conservative groups can be found in the political cultures of other Christian-majority countries.[33] The Christian Right has engaged in battles over abortion, euthanasia, contraception, pornography, gambling, obscenity, Christian nationalism, Sunday Sabbatarianism (concerning Sunday blue laws), state sanctioned prayer in public schools, textbook contents (concerning creationism), homosexuality, and sexual education.[23][24] The Supreme Court's decision to make abortion a constitutionally protected right in the 1973 Roe v. Wade ruling was the driving force behind the rise of the Christian Right in the 1970s.[53] Changing political context led to the Christian Right's advocacy for other issues, such as opposition to euthanasia and campaigning for abstinence-only sex education.[53] Ralph Reed, the chairman of the Christian Coalition, stated that the 1988 presidential campaign of Pat Robertson was the 'political crucible' that led to the proliferation of Christian Right groups in the United States.[53] Randall Balmer, on the other hand, has suggested that the New Christian Right Movement's rise was not centered around the issue of abortion, but rather Bob Jones University's refusal to comply with the Supreme Court's 1971 Green v. Connally ruling that permitted the Internal Revenue Service (IRS) to collect penalty taxes from private religious schools that violated federal laws.[54].” -Wikipedia “The religious right in the red state of Florida said that anyone that opposed hitting, beating, whooping, popping, and spanking children should be hit, beat, whooped, popped, and spanked themselves. They used vulgar slurs against sex workers, bashed people who used swear words, verbally abused people for being divorced and remarried, insulted those who lived together outside of marriage, and attacked people who I didn’t believe in “sexual purity.” -Antonio Myers.

Apr 30, 202401:08:32
Using think tanks as crime prevention comrades (I ended the crime episodes peacefully speaking.)

Using think tanks as crime prevention comrades (I ended the crime episodes peacefully speaking.)

“A think tank, or policy institute, is a research institute that performs research and advocacy concerning topics such as social policy, political strategy, economics, military, technology, and culture. Most think tanks are non-governmental organizations, but some are semi-autonomous agencies within government, and some are associated with particular political parties, businesses or the military.[1] Think tanks are often funded by individual donations, with many also accepting government grants.[2] Think tanks publish articles and studies, and sometimes draft legislation on particular matters of policy or society. This information is then used by governments, businesses, media organizations, social movements or other interest groups.[3][4] Think tanks range from those associated with highly academic or scholarly activities to those that are overtly ideological and pushing for particular policies, with a wide range among them in terms of the quality of their research. Later generations of think tanks have tended to be more ideologically oriented.[3].” -Wikipedia.

"I have to have human rights meetings with Democratic Party (United States) - Wikipedia and Congress:

I also have to have human rights meetings with: Republican Party (United States) - Wikipedia and Congress:

Apr 30, 202442:44
Mononormativity (my last episode about my marital status.)

Mononormativity (my last episode about my marital status.)

“In 2011, Elizabeth Brake first coined the term amatonormativity, to describe the overarching, culturally embedded belief that romantic relationships are essential to well-being.1 Heteronormativity refers to the assumption that all people are heterosexual and does not allow for individuals who hold diverse sexual orientations, including lesbian, gay, bisexual, or asexual, which describes people who experience no sexual attraction to others. Allonormativity describes the stereotype that all people experience some form of sexual attraction. Allonormative makes space for heterosexual attraction as well as alternative attractions including lesbian, gay, and bisexual. However, an allonormative view ignores the existence of asexual individuals.2 Cisnormative expectations refer to the construct of being cisgender, which is holding an identity that matches the sex a person was assigned at birth.3 Cisnormative beliefs do not make space for individuals whose identities reflect aspects of transgenderism. People who believe that individuals should have only a single, monogamous romantic partner at any given time support mononormativity.4 Both mononormativity and amatonormativity address expectations regarding the pursuit of romantic relationships, however, mononormativity is based on the assumption that all people are interested in romantic relationships. Sexual normativity refers to the assumption that all people experience sexual desire and seek opportunities to act on that desire.5 This concept is highly related to amatonormativity as they both create a culture in which the lack of interest in romantic or sexual relationships is seen as abnormal6.” -ChoosingTherapy.
Apr 30, 202450:52
My sex-positive feminism independent of the childhood traumas and recklessness of my past.

My sex-positive feminism independent of the childhood traumas and recklessness of my past.

“Sex-positive feminism, also known as pro-sex feminism, sex-radical feminism, or sexually liberal feminism, is a feminist movement centering on the idea that sexual freedom is an essential component of women's freedom.[1] They oppose legal or social efforts to control sexual activities between consenting adults, whether they are initiated by the government, other feminists, opponents of feminism, or any other institution. They embrace sexual minority groups, endorsing the value of coalition-building with marginalized groups. Sex-positive feminism is connected with the sex-positive movement. Sex-positive feminism brings together anti-censorship activists, LGBT activists, feminist scholars, producers of pornography and erotica, among others. Sex-positive feminists believe that prostitution can be a positive experience if workers are treated with respect, and agree that sex work should not be criminalized.” -Wikipedia. “The sex-positive movement is a social and philosophical movement that seeks to change cultural attitudes and norms around sexuality, promoting the recognition of sexuality (in the countless forms of expression) as a natural and healthy part of the human experience and emphasizing the importance of personal sovereignty, safer sex practices, and consensual sex (free from violence or coercion). It covers every aspect of sexual identity including gender expression, orientation, relationship to the body (body-positivity, nudity, choice), relationship-style choice, and reproductive rights.[1] {2] Sex-positivity is "an attitude towards human sexuality that regards all consensual sexual activities as fundamentally healthy and pleasurable, encouraging sexual pleasure and experimentation."[1] It challenges societal taboos and aims to promote healthy and consensual sexual activities.[3] The sex-positive movement also advocates for comprehensive sex education and safe sex as part of its campaign.[4][1] The movement generally makes no moral distinctions among types of sexual activities, regarding these choices as matters of personal preference.[5]” -Wikipedia.
Apr 30, 202401:14:18
How I would talk to kids about sex

How I would talk to kids about sex

“Because lying to your kids about sex helps nobody. Telling them that sex is "only between mommies and daddies" is a lie that leads to confused, hormone-charged teenagers. Telling them that sex is "only something that happens when two people love each other very much" is a lie that causes hormone-charged teenagers to confuse "love" with "lust," or "obsession." It leads to leaps of logic like, "If I have sex with this person, we must be in love." Or worse: "If I love this person, I have to have sex with him or her." And how many teenage tragedies are based on that misconception?
The truth is that human beings, almost universally, like sex. It feels good. And it's supposed to feel good. If it didn't, the human race would die out. The truth is that sex isn't special and magical just because it's sex. The truth is that you can have spectacular sex with strangers whose names you don't even know. The truth is that just because you can, that doesn't necessarily mean you should.
And that's what sex-positive parenting really is. Not telling my kids lies about sex to keep them from behaviors I don't think are healthy. It's telling them the truth, the whole truth, and letting it sink in so they can make their own good choices.
It's telling them that sex is good, but that it's dangerous if you're not careful. It's teaching them to require their partners to use condoms, to buy their own condoms if they're planning on having sex. It's teaching them that while sex feels good, they can feel good on their own too. (Just not at the table.) That while sex combined with love is often the best sex -- transcendent sex -- that grows the bond of love and builds a closeness that is almost impossible to find otherwise, sex isn't always like that, even with people you love. That sex can lead to pregnancy, even with protection, so engaging in it is a commitment to deal with any consequences.
It's telling them they're not wrong, or sinful, or bad, if they have sexual feelings. Or even if they have sex. It's teaching them that sex happens, whether people always make good choices or not. And it's giving them the tools to ensure that when they're ready, they're smart and cautious and conscientious.
There's a lot of black-and-white comparisons when it comes to sex education. Some people think that once kids hit puberty, if they don't have a strong fear of sex they'll have as much as they can, as often as they can. There's a lot of abstinence-only sex education, based on telling kids, "SEX IS SCARY! DON'T DO IT!" and it appears to be about the least successful program anyone has ever invented.
Telling children the truth about sex isn't giving permission for them to have it -- and this is the most important part -- because when the right time comes, nobody has the right to deny them permission for sex but themselves.” -https://www.huffpost.com/entry/this-is-what-sex-positive-parenting-really-looks-like_b_5516707/amp.
Apr 30, 202442:01
My sex talks with Christian women

My sex talks with Christian women

“Our talks on sex were honest, truthful, sincere, candid, frank, direct, open, forthright, straight, straightforward, genuine, blunt, plain-spoken, plain-speaking, matter-of-fact, outspoken, as straight as a die, straight from the shoulder, upfront, free-spoken, objective, impartial, unbiased, balanced, unprejudiced, disinterested, even-handed, fair, just, equitable, free of deceit and untruthfulness, and free of being insincere and biased.” -Antonio Myers
Apr 30, 202446:33
I help governments (politics), law (legal system), and commerce (business) in all continents/all islands is why I almost never date & almost never have sex (fully independent of my childhood traumas.)

I help governments (politics), law (legal system), and commerce (business) in all continents/all islands is why I almost never date & almost never have sex (fully independent of my childhood traumas.)

“Almost never means once in a blue moon, hardly ever, rarely, scarcely ever, very seldom, infrequently, seldom, scarcely, not often, hardly, uncommonly, on rare occasions, little, sporadically, occasionally, every once in a while, unusually, unoften, only now and then, unfrequently, only occasionally, barely, once in a while, semioccasionally, sometimes, inhabitually, on and off, irregularly, a few times, not very often, in a few cases, every now and then, from time to time, and now and then.” -Wordhippo
Apr 30, 202454:25
The need for well-balanced, well-rounded, well-adjusted, well-unified adult cinematography

The need for well-balanced, well-rounded, well-adjusted, well-unified adult cinematography

“Copyright infringement (at times referred to as piracy) is the use of works protected by copyright without permission for a usage where such permission is required, thereby infringing certain exclusive rights granted to the copyright holder, such as the right to reproduce, distribute, display or perform the protected work, or to make derivative works. The copyright holder is typically the work's creator, or a publisher or other business to whom copyright has been assigned. Copyright holders routinely invoke legal and technological measures to prevent and penalize copyright infringement. Copyright infringement disputes are usually resolved through direct negotiation, a notice and take down process, or litigation in civil court. Egregious or large-scale commercial infringement, especially when it involves counterfeiting, is sometimes prosecuted via the criminal justice system.” -Wikipedia.
Apr 30, 202401:37:17
My humane requirements for me to be in adult films, webcam modeling, and sexual surrogacy.

My humane requirements for me to be in adult films, webcam modeling, and sexual surrogacy.

“An erotic film is usually a film that has an erotic quality, meaning that it may arouse sexual feelings,[1] even if the stated or suggested intention of the film maker is to induce philosophical contemplation concerning the aesthetics of sexual desire, sensuality and romantic love.” -Wikipedia
Apr 29, 202401:25:15
My being an intimacy professional (intimacy expert) in the worlds of legal sex work environments and legal group sex environments.

My being an intimacy professional (intimacy expert) in the worlds of legal sex work environments and legal group sex environments.

"WHAT IS AN INTIMACY PROFESSIONAL?
Intimacy professionals for TV and film are experts on topics related to intimate material, including but not limited to sexuality, gender, relationships, and sex work. They are adept at telling the story of intimate moments on screen while keeping actors safe in the process. Intimacy professionals include intimacy coordinators, trans consultants, topic expert consultants, and choreographers. IPA is a network of knowledgeable intimacy professionals that promotes safe, high-quality work on topics of intimacy.


ETHICS
No actor should ever have to perform an intimate scene under duress. Historically it has not been uncommon for an actor to feel pressured to do more than the terms laid out in their nudity rider for fear of being fired or branded as being “difficult.” Intimacy coordinators ensure that content is being produced ethically by obtaining informed consent from actors regarding the level of nudity and simulated sex that characters will be engaging in. No actor is ever forced or pressured into doing something that makes them feel unsafe.
IPA members help to make sure scenes of intimacy and stories involving LGBTQIA+ (which stands for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer/questioning, intersex, asexual, and other identities) characters or characters who are involved in an intimacy-related field (such as sex work or erotic dancing) are being told authentically. Working with an IPA member can help to not only make scenes look more real, but also make sure the production is accurately portraying the groups or communities being shown on screen." -Intimacy Professionals Association.

“I would require adult film sets, television sets, and movie sets to have sex coaches, sex therapists, sexual surrogate therapy partners, sexologists, sexeperts, pleasure coaches, sensuality coaches, eroticism coaches, pro-sex work therapists, pro-ethical non-monogamy experts, dating and relationships experts, couples counselors, and marriage and family therapists to kindly assist us with live scenes.” -Antonio Myers.
Apr 29, 202443:12
Sex surrogate partner therapy in tutorial form from the intimacy professional standpoints.

Sex surrogate partner therapy in tutorial form from the intimacy professional standpoints.

“I decided to show the five erotic blueprint types (energetic, sensual, sexual, kinky, and shapeshifter) between adults and I (along with other intimacy professionals) narrate, give tips, and give cautionary warnings about trauma triggers, trauma stimulus’s, trauma stressors, trauma reminders, traumatic couplings, panic attacks, flashbacks, post-traumatic stress, trigger warnings, content warnings, acute stress disorders, content rating, emotional dysregulation, hypervigilance, repressed memories, and survivor guilt relating to sex, sexuality, eroticism, sensuality, romance, and interpersonal relationships.” -Antonio Myers.

“There are 5 Core Erotic Blueprints™EXPERIENCE AND UNDERSTAND ALL 5 BLUEPRINTS
01
Energetic: Turned on by anticipation, space and tease; prefers light or hovering touch
02
Sensual: Turned on by all of their senses being engaged, ambiance, romance, and sensory play
03
Sexual: Turned on by straightforward sex, nudity, orgasms, penetration and direct genital contact
04
Kinky: Turned on by power dynamics, anything that feels taboo to them, and pushing edges
05
Shapeshifter: Is turned on by everything above, they are sexually sophisticated and desire variety.” -https://flavorsofpleasure.com/the-erotic-blueprints.
Apr 28, 202451:24
My career/calling is the one and only reason why I choose not to be a family man. I am open to life changing that in the names of wisdom, clarity, and discernment.

My career/calling is the one and only reason why I choose not to be a family man. I am open to life changing that in the names of wisdom, clarity, and discernment.

“Due to my career also known as my calling, I decided to make the voluntary choices in regards to my marital status to not be married, to not have children, to not own pets, and to not live with anyone. I have the spiritual gift of singleness. However, I am open to life placing me in a family man role (spouse, offspring, pet, and living with all three in a singular residency. It is also possible that life may not put me in the family man role. Either way, I 💯 enjoy my life.” Antonio Myers.
Apr 28, 202447:34
The nuances of “conflicts of interest” also known as “competing interests.”

The nuances of “conflicts of interest” also known as “competing interests.”

“ I discuss that the professionally coded ethics regarding sex, dating, romance, sensuality, friendships, and interpersonal relations are of complications, problems, issues, contradictions, conflicts, intricacies, twists, turns, convolutions, entanglements, obstacles, stumbling blocks, impediments, hurdles, and drawbacks.” -Antonio Myers.
Apr 27, 202401:18:02
I get to be a sensory-friendly intimacy coordinator, a sensory-friendly intimacy director, and a sensory-friendly intimacy choreographer in television, movies, erotica, and pornographic films.

I get to be a sensory-friendly intimacy coordinator, a sensory-friendly intimacy director, and a sensory-friendly intimacy choreographer in television, movies, erotica, and pornographic films.

"Sensory-friendly environments focus on adjusting elements that might be overwhelming. It may include some or all of these adaptations:

Reduced Noise: Lowering background music, eliminating beeping noises, and providing noise-canceling headphones.
Softer Lighting: Dimming the lights, avoiding fluorescent overhead lights, and adding lamps for a warm glow.
Calming Colors: Using muted and neutral colors on walls and decor.
Reduced Visual Clutter: Minimizing distractions and keeping things organized.
Designated Quiet Spaces: Offering quiet areas to decompress and regain composure.
Sensory Tools: Providing weighted blankets, fidgets, or other tools for self-regulation.





Auditory (Sound): Difficulty tolerating loud noises, background music, or multiple people talking.
Visual (Sight): Sensitivity to bright lights, fluorescent lights, flashing lights, or busy patterns.
Tactile (Touch): Dislike of certain textures, tags on clothing, or tight-fitting clothes.
Olfactory (Smell): Aversion to specific scents or strong odors.
Proprioceptive (Movement): Difficulty with balance, coordination, or a sense of body awareness.
Interoceptive (Internal body sensations): Sensitivity to hunger, thirst, needing to use the bathroom, or body temperature." _What Does Sensory Friendly Mean? (getgoally.com).

"An intimacy coordinator, sometimes called an intimacy director,[1] is a member of a film or television crew who ensures the well-being of actors and actresses who participate in sex scenes or other intimate scenes in theater, film and television production. Intimacy coordinators work closely with directors, movement directors, and choreographers to help plan out intimate scenes with the actors and other crew members.[2]
The role of intimacy coordinator is not to be confused with that of an "intimacy choreographer", who specializes in the techniques of staging intimate scenes.[5]" -Wikipedia.


“As a future sensory-friendly intimacy coach, I am for sensory-friendly mainstream pornography, sensory-friendly ethical pornography, sensory-friendly independent pornography, sensory-friendly feminist pornography, sensory-friendly sex-positive pornography, and sensory-friendly alternative pornography.” -Antonio Myers.
Apr 26, 202451:20
I have the spiritual gift of celibacy, and I have the spiritual gift of marriage.

I have the spiritual gift of celibacy, and I have the spiritual gift of marriage.

“Celibacy is living a life without sexual relationships or activity. It can be a choice, but it may also be involuntary. “Celibacy typically applies to sexual activity such as penetrative intercourse; however, someone that has chosen celibacy may abstain from other activities, such as intimate kissing.” -Choosing Therapy. “Marriage, also called matrimony or wedlock, is a culturally and often legally recognised union between people called spouses. It establishes rights and obligations between them, as well as between them and their children (if any), and between them and their in-laws.[1]” -Wikipedia.
Apr 25, 202453:11
Many women and I were talking about the serial cheating of our childhoods.

Many women and I were talking about the serial cheating of our childhoods.

“Serial cheaters are people who cheat several times in an exclusive relationship or monogamous relationship. It is a pattern of cheating that can be seen whenever this person has a committed relationship. Infidelity can be physical or emotional. Serial cheaters do not have their partners’ consent, and they keep their partners in the dark about their unethical behavior. Unlike a one-time cheater, serial cheaters are rogues and cheat to satisfy their needs. It is challenging for them to change their behavior since they are confused about why it is a mistake.” -Written by Shikha Thakur, MBA.
Apr 24, 202401:01:21
My serial womanizing traumatized the black women, the autism moms, the single mothers, and the church women when I painfully informed them of the Rape Trauma Syndrome-inspired promiscuity of my past.

My serial womanizing traumatized the black women, the autism moms, the single mothers, and the church women when I painfully informed them of the Rape Trauma Syndrome-inspired promiscuity of my past.

" Conversely, some rape survivors become hyper-sexual or promiscuous following sexual attacks, sometimes as a way to reassert a measure of control over their sexual relations." -Wikipedia.
We talked about the male misogyny-inspired promiscuity in their families in the form of serial cheating.
"Serial cheating simply means that someone has cheated on a partner more than once." -Verywellmind.

Apr 23, 202401:12:00
My family man promises to my grandma before she transitioned from Earth.

My family man promises to my grandma before she transitioned from Earth.

“In this episode, I discuss how it’s okay for me to desire family man living, but not grant myself that because of my demanding career, my demanding hobbies, and my demanding audiences.” -Antonio Myers.
Apr 22, 202454:31
In the past, I was encouraged to be a family man to a single, black, autism mom, church member. Black women, autism moms, single mothers, & church women pursue me much more than other kinds of women.

In the past, I was encouraged to be a family man to a single, black, autism mom, church member. Black women, autism moms, single mothers, & church women pursue me much more than other kinds of women.

"When you have a child with special needs, your marriage is much more likely to be stressed. This is demonstrated by the numbers: Surveys show that the rate of divorce in families with a child with disabilities may be as high as 87%. The divorce rate in families with a child with autism is about 80%.." _Divorce and Special Needs Children | Psychology Today.
"If the learning curve about autism is not shared, the divide can start here. Or it can start when the child doesn’t run up to daddy when he walks through the door at the end of the day. The mother feels guilty that she has done something wrong. Maybe dad feels rejected. Is this the cause for divorce? Or is it that the spouses already do not have an effective communication and commitment in place? Is one partner less committed to the marriage to begin with? Maybe someone read that autism causes divorce and the message deteriorates the confidence and strength we actually need in our relationships? These are but some of the questions that need to be asked prior to assuming that autism is the reason for higher divorce rates." -
A Single Mom's View of Autism Divorce Rates — THINKING PERSON'S GUIDE TO AUTISM (thinkingautismguide.com).

"The percentages of black marriages ending in divorce for the survey respondents was 47.9%. Again, this was the highest among the respondents. Next, was the Hispanic category at 45.5% of first marriages ending in divorce. Last, we have the All Other with the lowest percentage of first marriages ending in divorce. The percentage for “All Others” was 43.7%."-8 Important Black Marriage and Divorce Metrics - Black Statistics.
"Black women divorce at a higher rate (38.9%) than women of any other race." -Divorce Rate in America: 50+ Divorce Statistics [Updated 2024].

"Don't Pass Judgment
It's easy to come in from the outside and judge another person's parenting choices, and single mothers often face scrutiny for having children outside of a traditional married couple.5
This behavior will not be welcomed or healthy for your relationship. Instead of passing judgment, do your best to acknowledge that being a single parent is very difficult, and try to view their choices and lifestyle from a place of helpfulness, compassion, restraint, and curiosity." _
Tips for Dating a Single Mom (verywellmind.com).

"But single Christians make up a large proportion of Christians, especially in their twenties and thirties. And single women are disproportionately represented, since women outnumber men in the church already.

One of the big reasons single women are often ostracized is that they are viewed as threats to men.
Men can’t look at single women because they have to “bounce their eyes” so they don’t stray.
Jesus didn’t act that way. Jesus didn’t ignore women or avoid women. Jesus sat in situations that would be socially unacceptable because He wanted people to see that He valued women as people–not as sexual commodities. He didn’t see them as threats to Him. He saw them as valuable individuals." -by Sheila Wray Gregoire.





Apr 21, 202450:26
The complexities of relationships and dynamics concerning my reasons for my earthly existence.

The complexities of relationships and dynamics concerning my reasons for my earthly existence.

“I admit that since my boyhood, I always prefer a black wife the most, an autism mom wife the most, and a single mother wife the most because these kinds of women were and are being the most nourishing to my romantic nature, my child-rearing giftedness, and my pet-owning strength. There are some church women who can and do appreciate my unconventional essence. I am called to be a media mogul for justice, do films, do documentaries, authorship, do research studies, be a panelist, and be a moderator. My calendar would cause my family man life to suffer exponentially so that explains my solo living.” -Antonio Myers.
Apr 20, 202401:47:01
I am called to cable news media, social media, media interviews, media events, black-owned media, YouTube, & running for public office due to the neurodiversity urging of autism families in dire need.

I am called to cable news media, social media, media interviews, media events, black-owned media, YouTube, & running for public office due to the neurodiversity urging of autism families in dire need.

"Neurodiversity describes the idea that people experience and interact with the world around them in many different ways; there is no one "right" way of thinking, learning, and behaving, and differences are not viewed as deficits.
The word neurodiversity refers to the diversity of all people, but it is often used in the context of autism spectrum disorder (ASD), as well as other neurological or developmental conditions such as ADHD or learning disabilities. The neurodiversity movement emerged during the 1990s, aiming to increase acceptance and inclusion of all people while embracing neurological differences. Through online platforms, more and more autistic people were able to connect and form a self-advocacy movement. At the same time, Judy Singer, an Australian sociologist, coined the term neurodiversity to promote equality and inclusion of "neurological minorities." While it is primarily a social justice movement, neurodiversity research and education is increasingly important in how clinicians view and address certain disabilities and neurological conditions." _
What is neurodiversity? - Harvard Health. “I am also called to do jury duty, be a television presenter, awards show host, creative executive, game show host, show/program creator, news director, show runner, executive producer, talk show host, and radio personality.” -Antonio Myers.
Apr 19, 202401:30:25
I have a pastor’s heart within my faith-based pastoral care…& I’ll be a secular humanist chaplain. I am called to the non-religious community and to houses of worship of all religions.

I have a pastor’s heart within my faith-based pastoral care…& I’ll be a secular humanist chaplain. I am called to the non-religious community and to houses of worship of all religions.

“Types of Pastoral Care Practices
There are various ways to practice pastoral care, including:

Premarital counseling: Premarital counseling helps to prepare couples for unity in marriage. Pastors may recommend Bible verses, books, articles, and discussion topics for couples to review and pray about as they plan their life together.
Weddings: Pastors performing weddings play the special role of celebrating and instituting a covenant relationship.
Hospital visits: Visits to hospitals and care facilities can help those who are sick or injured to feel supported and remembered by their church family.
Funerals: By facilitating funerals and caring for individuals and families in the grieving process, church leaders share the burdens of those experiencing the loss of human life.
Serving the community: Church leaders can lead their congregation in providing food, clothing, and other material needs—as well as community services and gatherings—for local neighbors. In meeting with and listening to the community, churches can better connect, share the gospel, and partner with their neighbors.
Birth and adoption celebrations: Meeting new parents with practical assistance like meals, diapers, financial resources, and childcare can help families care well for their children. Sustained support along the journey of parenting is another way that pastoral care can support families for long-term thriving.
Spiritual direction: This pastoral care practice involves prayerful companionship and discipleship that points a person to scripture and fosters spiritual growth. -https://calvinseminary.edu/blog/difference-pastoral-care-counseling/. “What is a Humanist Chaplain?
A Humanist Chaplain is a secular clergy person who provides comfort, guidance, and emotional support without relying on any religious doctrine or dogma. They also strive to promote reason, ethics, and compassion in the lives of those they serve. Humanist Chaplains usually have a staff position at universities, hospitals, prisons, or other settings where chaplains are typically present.
Why is the Role of Humanist Chaplain Important?
The role of a Humanist Chaplain is crucial as they provide emotional and moral support to individuals who identify as nonreligious (or anyone who wants it, regardless of their beliefs). They serve as a comforting presence offering guidance and counseling in times of crisis, grief, or ethical dilemmas. Their work helps to foster a sense of community and belonging among people who may feel isolated or misunderstood because of their secular beliefs. Humanist Chaplains contribute significantly to the diversity and inclusivity of moral and spiritual perspectives in society.” -https://nathanbweller.com/what-is-a-humanist-chaplain/.
Apr 18, 202401:04:15
Addressing all subjects from human rights perspectives: my secular spirituality, my spiritual gifts.

Addressing all subjects from human rights perspectives: my secular spirituality, my spiritual gifts.

“A white-collar worker is a person who performs professional service, desk, managerial, or administrative work. White-collar work may be performed in an office or other administrative setting. White-collar workers include job paths related to government, consulting, academia, accountancy, business and executive management, customer support, design, economics, engineering, market research, finance, human resources, operations research, marketing, public relations, information technology, networking, law, healthcare, architecture, and research and development. In contrast: blue-collar workers perform manual labor or work in skilled trades; pink-collar workers work in care, health care, social work, or teaching; and grey-collar jobs combine manual labor and skilled trades with non-manual or managerial duties. A blue-collar worker is a working class person who performs manual labor or skilled trades. Blue-collar work may involve skilled or unskilled labor. The type of work may involve manufacturing, warehousing, mining, excavation, carpentry, electricity generation and power plant operations, electrical construction and maintenance, custodial work, farming, commercial fishing, logging, landscaping, pest control, food processing, oil field work, waste collection and disposal, recycling, construction, maintenance, shipping, driving, trucking, and many other types of physical work. Blue-collar work often involves something being physically built or maintained. A pink-collar worker is someone working in the care-oriented career field or in fields historically considered to be women's work. This may include jobs in the beauty industry, nursing, social work, teaching, secretarial work, upholstery, or child care.[1] While these jobs may also be filled by men, they have historically been female-dominated (a tendency that continues today, though to a somewhat lesser extent) and may pay significantly less than white-collar or blue-collar jobs.[2].” -Wikipedia.
Apr 17, 202401:32:48
The logistics of my family man life and the logistics of my callings are always butting heads.

The logistics of my family man life and the logistics of my callings are always butting heads.

“I would make an excellent spouse, excellent parent, excellent pet-owner, and excellent roommate, and yes, those things would be magnificent for me personally to do. However, I am called to do servant leadership and social entrepreneurship within the majority of time at rape crisis centers, domestic violence shelters, homeless shelters, animal shelters, adoption centers, foster care centers, autism centers, daycare centers, aftercare centers, arts centers, community centers, recovery centers, retirement centers, schools, clinics, hospitals, prisons, psychiatric institutions, environmental centers, family centers, network centers, cancer wards, prevention centers, family planning clinics, crisis centers, crisis services, intervention centers, health centers, pregnancy centers, wellness centers, stabilization centers, care centers, reproductive health clinics, resource centers, etc.” -Antonio Myers.
Apr 16, 202402:05:27
I was forced to spend most of my boyhood time (5 years old-6 years old) in the infamous red-light district Washington D.C. (14th Street NW, Logan Circle.) due to the women sex workers' "thing" for me.

I was forced to spend most of my boyhood time (5 years old-6 years old) in the infamous red-light district Washington D.C. (14th Street NW, Logan Circle.) due to the women sex workers' "thing" for me.

“In the 1970s and 1980s, a portion of 14th Street became known primarily for its red-light district. Several strip clubs and massage parlors were concentrated roughly between New York Avenue and K Street, while prostitutes plied their trade around Logan Circle. However, rising land values eventually pushed out the adult businesses. The Source Theatre, founded by Bart Whiteman in 1977, was given some credit for the area's revival. Whiteman stood outside the theater to escort people inside in order to make them feel safer.[5] During the 1980s and 1990s, Logan Circle, although dominated by Victorian homes that had survived mostly untouched by redevelopment or riots, was considered an unsafe neighborhood by many due to overt drug use and prostitution that existed in the neighborhood.[17][18] During this period, property values in the area began to increase, but issues of homelessness in the area came to the forefront. Fourteenth Street, NW became widely viewed as Washington's red light district. It also became an area for small, independent theater companies that acquired relatively cheap space north of the circle.” -Wikipedia. “I sat on the benches, walked on the streets, moved on the grass, and roamed the parks within Logan Circle, Shaw neighborhood, The U Street Corridor, and 14th Street NW in Washington D.C. as a five-year old in the late 1990’s. I frequently encountered, conversed with, saw the sex work, saw the sex workers, and hung out with pimps, brothel keepers, clients, customers, madams, procurers, and panderers the most in Logan Circle, The Shaw neighborhood, The U Street Corridor, and 14th Street NW at that time. I saw pimping, brothel keeping, madaming, procuring, pandering, customering, and clienteling the most at Logan Circle, 14th Street NW, Shaw neighborhood, and The U Street Corridor.” Antonio Myers. “Procuring, pimping, or pandering is the facilitation or provision of a prostitute or other sex worker in the arrangement of a sex act with a customer.[1] A procurer, colloquially called a pimp (if male) or a madam (if female, though the term pimp has often been used for female procurers as well) or a brothel keeper, is an agent for prostitutes who collects part of their earnings. The procurer may receive this money in return for advertising services, physical protection, or for providing and possibly monopolizing a location where the prostitute may solicit clients. Like prostitution, the legality of certain actions of a madam or a pimp vary from one region to the next.” -Wikipedia.
Apr 15, 202401:45:32