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And the Apta Sophia Podcast we search the scriptures to discover useful wisdom to aid Christian women in the pursuit of biblical womanhood.
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The Myth of Neutrality (Part 1)

Apta Sophia PodcastSep 27, 2021

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(Part 3) The Tradwife Movement: Educating Our Daughters

(Part 3) The Tradwife Movement: Educating Our Daughters

On this episode we discuss the importance of preparing our daughters for their role in the home by educating them for more than the domestic arts. Listen and be encouraged!
Feb 27, 202439:38
(Part 2) The Tradwife Movement: Diversity in Gifting and Application

(Part 2) The Tradwife Movement: Diversity in Gifting and Application

In this episode we discuss our tendency to compare our home practices and pursuits to the women we see online or in real life, and how important it is to have solid biblical convictions but to hold them in such a way that they impact your own practice but do not lead you to judge others or meddle in their affairs. There are principles we can agree on in scripture, but the application is going to look different from person to person and family to family. Listen and be encouraged!
Feb 20, 202420:59
(Part 1) The Tradwife Movement: Examining Foundations

(Part 1) The Tradwife Movement: Examining Foundations

On this episode we discuss the Tradwife movement, and how important it is for any pursuit of right gender roles within the family to be tethered to a biblical worldview and a Christian vision for the family. Listen and be encouraged.
Feb 12, 202432:04
Masks of God

Masks of God

On this episode we discuss the idea that there is a division between sacred and secular in the work that we do in the world, and how this unbiblical distinction has impacted our ability to see that as we serve our neighbor, even in the most menial ways, we serve the Lord. The people we serve are masks of God. Listen and be encouraged.
Jan 29, 202449:44
Yes yes. No no.

Yes yes. No no.

On this episode we discuss oath making and the importance of being women who do what we say and know how to hold back from making commitments and promises we cannot keep. Listen and be encouraged.
Dec 26, 202354:46
Labeling Our Kids According To Their Sins

Labeling Our Kids According To Their Sins

On this episode we discuss the importance of avoiding the common temptation to label our kids, especially when we are labeling them according to their individual weaknesses and sin habits. Listen and be encouraged!
Nov 20, 202341:08
Reassuring the Repentant Child

Reassuring the Repentant Child

On this episode we discuss what it looks like to handle a repentant child's doubts over whether they have truly been forgiven for their sin. We discuss what their concern could be pointing to, and how to coach our children to take their thoughts captive and stand on biblical truth in spite of their feelings. Listen and be encouraged!
Oct 16, 202301:03:09
*Spicy* Homeschool Myths

*Spicy* Homeschool Myths

We get a little spicy in this episode, and discuss some homeschool myths that are less frequently addressed - Is it important to enroll our children in a public (or private) school so that they might be exposed to sin and learn from their their failures? Is homeschooling just "Plan B" if private school is too expensive? Do boys NEED to be enrolled somewhere outside of the home in order to grow into the men God calls them to be? Listen in and be encouraged.
Aug 19, 202356:38
Incorporating Scripture Reading Into Your Homeschool Day

Incorporating Scripture Reading Into Your Homeschool Day

The title says it all! On this episode we discuss the benefits of a plain, direct, systematic reading through of the scriptures with our children, and we focus on the sufficiency of this practice as the "bible curriculum" in our homeschool day.
Aug 09, 202348:15
Sharing is Communism: Cheeky Reflections on Sharing and Tattle-Taleing

Sharing is Communism: Cheeky Reflections on Sharing and Tattle-Taleing

On this episode we talk about our approach to two of the most common parenting demands - settling disputes over coveted toys and handling the infamous tattle-tale. Listen in and be encouraged!
Jun 27, 202323:39
Being a Good Friend in Hard Circumstances

Being a Good Friend in Hard Circumstances

On this episode we talk about what scripture calls us to as the friend of those in hard circumstances. We talk about practical ways we can be a support, and dive deep into discussion over various pitfalls our friends may face when they're in pain and how we can offer a hand out of the ditch instead up jumping into it with them. Listen and be encouraged!
May 30, 202354:25
On Music Education with Sean-David McGoran

On Music Education with Sean-David McGoran

On this episode we are interviewing Sean-David McGoran, who is a veteran homeschool dad, lifelong musician, and the founder and director of The Tuned in Academy in Olympia WA. We talk about what music reveals to us about our Creator, why it's important to incorporate music education in the schooling of our children, and why we should pursue it ourselves in our everyday lives. Listen and be encouraged!
May 16, 202301:04:10
Mothers Day: A Battle Plan For Bitter Betties

Mothers Day: A Battle Plan For Bitter Betties

Mother's Day can bring all manner of temptation to weary mothers who are desperate for rest, recognition, and grand romantic gestures. So we decided to work through a battle plan for mamas who, like us, would like to make it through the day without allowing unmet expectations to turn us into bitter Betties. What is at the root of it all? What can we do, practically, to keep our head where it should be? Listen and be encouraged.
May 09, 202347:22
Open-handed Mothering

Open-handed Mothering

On this episode we talk about the importance of generosity towards those in our household - especially our children! We discuss material generosity and general open-handedness with our time, as well as the importance of having a godly and joyful attitude when much is asked of us. Listen and be encouraged!
Feb 16, 202330:00
The Mythical Office of Pastor's Wife

The Mythical Office of Pastor's Wife

On this episode we talk about what has become in many Christian circles the "office" of Pastor's Wife. We work through some of the unbiblical expectations placed on her shoulders, and talk about the importance of her ministry to her own household.
Feb 07, 202338:39
Sicks and Icks: Tips and Tricks

Sicks and Icks: Tips and Tricks

On this episode we talk about surviving cold and flu season, from practical tips and tricks to good guidelines on what to expect with a house full of kids and when to stay home and keep those germs to yourself. Take a listen and be equipped!
Jan 10, 202337:04
On Mommy Wine Culture

On Mommy Wine Culture

On this episode we discuss "Mommy Wine Culture". How should we handle alcohol as mamas stretched thin? Is it okay to unwind with a nightly glass, or two, or three? We know wine is a blessing - a means to relax and to lift the spirit - but where do we draw biblical lines and set wise boundaries for ourselves as Christian women? Listen and be encouraged.
Dec 06, 202225:27
Giving More Than The Leftovers

Giving More Than The Leftovers

So often we succumb to the temptation to push our husband down the priority list, when the Lord has called and created us to be his helper and companion. We give everyone else our best and give our husband "the leftovers". On this episode we talk about ways that a married woman can be intentional about investing in her relationship with her husband. We also discuss ways that we can and should be considerate of his needs and preferences. Listen in and be encouraged.
Nov 29, 202241:26
Extending Hope to Abortion Minded Mothers with Rachel Lane

Extending Hope to Abortion Minded Mothers with Rachel Lane

One this episode we interview Rachel Lane, who works for Human Coalition, a national pro-life organization that serves women who are facing an unplanned pregnancy. Human Coalition works with pregnancy centers all over the country and also owns and operates their own women's care clinics providing medical care, social services/resources, and counseling to mothers. Rachel has a passion for both rescuing the unborn from death and extending hope to women in hard circumstances. Listen in, this is a tough topic, but we hope you are encouraged and equipped through our conversation!
Nov 04, 202201:38:19
What It Is To Forgive with Rev. Dr. Brant Bosserman

What It Is To Forgive with Rev. Dr. Brant Bosserman

On this episode we interview our pastor, Dr. Brant Bosserman, on the topic of forgiveness. What is forgiveness? To whom is it due? Does God require us to forgive all those who sin against us, or only those who have met certain requirements? When should we overlook an offense, and when do we have a duty to confront someone? Listen in, this is one you won't want to miss!
Oct 10, 202201:18:23
Meditations on Meekness

Meditations on Meekness

On this episode we discuss the topic of meekness - what IS meekness? How do we cultivate this quality? How do we pursue meekness in the way that we approach our work and our roles as women in the home and outside of it? Listen in and be encouraged!
Oct 06, 202254:05
Take Pleasure: Christian Hedonism in Homemaking

Take Pleasure: Christian Hedonism in Homemaking

On this episode we discuss taking pleasure in our work as homemakers - Why it is imperative that we do so, how it connects to our life's purpose: to glorify and enjoy God, and what we can do to savor the graces that He weaves into even the hardest of circumstances. Listen and be encouraged!
Sep 15, 202201:03:46
Homeschool Myths

Homeschool Myths

On this episode we discuss homeschooling, the myths and the realities - what about socialization? Are mothers qualified to provide an education for their child? Is there "one right way" to educate a child? What is the primary goal of educating our children? Listen in and be encouraged!
Aug 22, 202201:16:27
Postpartum Reflections

Postpartum Reflections

On this episode we reflect on our various postpartum experiences, and share tips/wisdom we've picked up along the way. We discuss breastfeeding, after-pains, sleep deprivation, bed rest, post-partum depression, and a myriad of other common challenges mamas face in those first weeks/months after baby is born.
Jul 29, 202201:48:05
Need Some Cheese With That Whine?

Need Some Cheese With That Whine?

On this episode we discuss how we should view the challenges we encounter in life, and how we should bring our grievances before the Lord. We work through the difference between grumbling/complaining and obeying the command to cast our cares on God in prayer.
Jun 28, 202201:14:15
Christ The Cycle Breaker

Christ The Cycle Breaker

On this episode we discuss how familial sin cycles are broken in Christ. We discuss how we should approach our reflections on our childhood, confronting sins committed by our parents, taking responsibility for our own sin, setting new patterns in our own family, and most importantly.. where we can find true healing and restoration - Jesus.
May 31, 202201:22:41
The Pursuit of Self Esteem

The Pursuit of Self Esteem

On this episode we talk about how the concept of self-esteem, and the cultural push to pursue it, fits (or doesn't fit) into the Christian life. We focus heavily on where we should and should not find our identity and establish our value as individuals. We work through various pitfalls and common sources of self-worth that rob us of true security in Christ. Take a listen, we hope this episode is a blessing to you!
May 18, 202201:26:48
The Practice of Prayer

The Practice of Prayer

On this episode we discuss prayer. What is it? What is the extent of our duty to engage in it? What should we pray for? How do we get out of a prayer slump, when every word seems pointless drudgery and our minds are quick to wander? Take a listen, we hope you're encouraged in the practice of prayer.
May 04, 202201:11:25
Setting Biblical Boundaries In Relationships

Setting Biblical Boundaries In Relationships

In this episode we discuss what it looks like (and doesn't look like) to set biblical boundaries in relationships. We dive into our relationships with our parents, our spouses, friendships, and relationships in the church. We cover what our ACTUAL duties are in each of these circumstances and give practical tips on boundary setting when lines are crossed. This is one you won't want to miss!
Apr 15, 202201:34:51
The Virtue Of A Messy Home

The Virtue Of A Messy Home

In this episode we discuss what our priorities should be as we are working in the home, and how to balance those priorities when there is a practical need to keep your home clean, your kids bathed, and your fridge full. We work through what scripture has to say about sloth and productivity, and how our expectations are shaped by instagram posts and comparing ourselves to others.
Mar 29, 202201:03:18
Won By Her Conduct - Part 2 (And Interview with Young and Wifed Up)

Won By Her Conduct - Part 2 (And Interview with Young and Wifed Up)

Part 2 of our conversation with Young and Wifed up -
In this half of the convo we talk more about what it means to win our husbands (without a word), the importance/role of the local church body in the life of unequally yoked spouses, and practical ways we can support women who are in this specific circumstance.
Mar 23, 202201:01:14
Won By Her Conduct - Part 1 (An Interview with Young and Wifed Up)

Won By Her Conduct - Part 1 (An Interview with Young and Wifed Up)

In this episode we were invited to join our friends at Young and Wifed Up for an interview on the topic of the unequally yoked marriage. Ash shares her personal experience from before her husbands conversion, and we all discuss biblical wisdom for women who find themselves in this circumstance or for women who want to support someone who is unequally yoked. This is part 1 of 2! Part 2 will be released next week.
Mar 09, 202201:03:31
The Family Table

The Family Table

On this episode we discuss ways that we can make the family dinner table a joyful place where our families are blessed by and brought near to the Lord.
Mar 01, 202257:09
Host Recos

Host Recos

In our loosiest goosiest, least theologically driven podcast episode yet (and probably ever), we kick back and talk about our favorite things - makeup, gadgets, apps, podcasts, books, the works! We hope you enjoy some laid back schmoozery, and get some good ideas while you're here!
Jan 31, 202259:50
Fast Food Hacks and Kid Tips

Fast Food Hacks and Kid Tips

We are back after a holiday hiatus! On this episode we are joined by a very special guest, Kristin's son Knox Hedgcock! We spend the episode doing something we don't do too much of - shootin the breeze. We discuss fast food hacks and our tried and true kid hacks (from quick breakfasts, to nap schedules, homeschool tips, and more)! Listen in, we've missed you!
Jan 10, 202201:15:28
The Marriage Bed - with Pastor Brant Bosserman

The Marriage Bed - with Pastor Brant Bosserman

On this episode we interview our Pastor, Dr. Brant Bosserman, on the topic of the marriage bed. We go deep into the theological implications in our approach to sexual intimacy, what it means to keep the marriage bed pure, how to maintain sexual fidelity, the importance of maintaining healthy and regular communication with your spouse, the dangers of pornography use.. and more. This isn't one you'll want to miss!

Disclaimer: Though our discussion is tasteful and careful, this episode best suited for adult ears.
Dec 10, 202101:19:47
Managing Wealth in Marriage

Managing Wealth in Marriage

On this episode we interview Elder Scott Hedgcock on the topic of money and marriage - what are some common issues that can crop up in regard to finances? How can we avoid them? How should we think about building and managing wealth biblically? Listen in!
Nov 22, 202101:23:54
Stewarding Our Stuff: Avoiding Extremes And Striking A Balance

Stewarding Our Stuff: Avoiding Extremes And Striking A Balance

On this episode we talk about how we should think about personal possessions - how we aquire them, how we manage them, and when it's wise to let them go. We talk about consumerism, minimalism, the extremes on both sides, and how to strike a biblical balance. *WARNING: Our would you rather question involved discussing the possibility of carpeted bathrooms - which led to some puke/poop stories you may want to skip over, fast forward to 6:50 if thats you!
Nov 01, 202101:23:24
The Myth of Neutrality: Part Two

The Myth of Neutrality: Part Two

On this episode we continue our discussion on the myth of neutrality. Dive a little deeper with us as we discuss how this impacts our view of education, politics, parenting, friendship, and apologetics.
Oct 18, 202101:05:28
The Myth of Neutrality (Part 1)

The Myth of Neutrality (Part 1)

One this episode we talk about the myth of neutrality, as it pertains to theology, morality, and worldview as a whole. We also start working through how this popular cultural mythological "virtue" has infiltrated our thinking in our approach to evangelism, our personal lives, and the way we approach the application of God's law.
Sep 27, 202101:08:08
Hope in Hard Places with Sonya Bonar

Hope in Hard Places with Sonya Bonar

With the passing of her daughter Kayla, Sonya shares her journey of grief, trial and renewed hope in Christ. Join us as we glean wisdom from this mom of 8.

Sep 13, 202101:03:48
The Fear Of Man (And How It Impacts Our Parenting)

The Fear Of Man (And How It Impacts Our Parenting)

On this episode we discuss the fear of man. What is it? Why is it dangerous? How does it creep in to the way that we parent our children? Listen in and be encouraged!
Sep 02, 202101:09:47
Wrath Of The Mom: Putting Anger In It's Place

Wrath Of The Mom: Putting Anger In It's Place

On this episode we deal with the topic of anger, especially as it relates to parenting. We tackle questions like: What is the difference between righteous and unrighteous anger? What are some lies that we believe that lead us into unjustified anger? What are some practical ways to avoid and war against the temptation to sin in our anger?
Aug 16, 202101:23:31
For Their Joy

For Their Joy

On this episode we discuss ways that we can encourage and aid others in their pursuit of joy - in our marriages, in our parenting, and in the local church.
Aug 02, 202101:25:29
Count It All Joy

Count It All Joy

On this episode we talk about JOY - What is it? Where do we get it? What is it rooted in? How can we pursue it?
Jul 20, 202101:15:29
Friendship in the Age of Social Media

Friendship in the Age of Social Media

Join us as we discuss navigating friendship in the age of social media - the benefits, the pitfalls, the opportunity, and the danger.
Jul 05, 202157:43
Emotional Resilience

Emotional Resilience

On this episode we discuss what it means to be emotionally resilient - taking control of our feelings even in the hardest of circumstances so that we can find contentment in the midst of suffering, to God's glory.
Jun 21, 202101:22:04
No Mere Mortals with Toby Sumpter
May 24, 202101:02:31
On the Household and the War for the Cosmos with C.R. Wiley

On the Household and the War for the Cosmos with C.R. Wiley

On this episode we interview C.R. Wiley on his book "The Household and the War for the Cosmos". In our conversation we discuss the biblical purpose and order of the household, how its been lost, and how it can be recovered and restored.
May 10, 202101:02:52
Blessed Submission

Blessed Submission

On this episode we talk about what it looks like practically to be in submission to our own husband, and how this is a blessing to our family. We hit on what it means to be a helper to our husband and how we can give him opportunities to lead the family practically and spiritually. We also discuss how we can model and encourage these practices in the lives of other women.
Apr 27, 202101:25:06