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Within each of us there is a masculine and feminine essence. We are all to be living our lives from one or the other, but different things that happen along our journey can impact which of these are the dominant essence. In this episode, Dale answers questions about these essences, as well as giving an explanation of the fabricated shell that we are able to create over time that protects us but can also change our dominant essence.

Did you know that the average person breaks their new year’s resolutions within the first two weeks of the new year? Why is that, you may wonder, and what can we do to not be part of that statistic?

In this episode (which we decided to re-post from a popular podcast we released at the beginning of the year), Dale answers these questions and gives some great advice and strategies for setting or re-working our resolutions to have a more successful and productive coming year.

Money is plentiful in the world and yet some have an abundance of it and some have a serious lack of it. This leads many to ask why that is. Is it possible for us to change our money attraction and flow, or are some of us meant to live stressed out over money and in lack? And are we to be helping others when our money flow is strong but theirs is not? Where does that helping hand begin and end?

In this episode, Dale answers these questions and more for a listener who is always being asked by family members to help them financially. Over many years Dale’s money teachings have helped thousands. His answers to these questions could not only surprise you, but also help improve your relationship with money and to understand the boundaries or requests you may be facing with others regarding their money situation.

If you or your family members watched multiple horror movies recently during the Halloween Season, you may be wondering this question as well…

Can horror movies cause us harm? Or more specifically, can watching a lot of scary movies cause us harm? And if so, what type of harm? Should we be monitoring the amount and degree of horror our kids are taking in? How do these movies affect our psyche?

These questions and more are addressed by Dale in this informative episode.

With Marijuana being legalized and even promoted for health reasons, it is hard for many to believe that there can be a downside to its effects. In this episode the mother of a young adult struggles in finding ways to help her son with the lingering effects and health issues he is dealing with after quitting marijuana.

For those that have used, are using or know someone that is using marijuana, this informative episode gives insight into the energetics and health issues that can come as a byproduct of its use and what can be done about them.

When we are on a transformational journey, we are generally upleveling multiple areas of our lives, confronting our shadow side or ego, and making many changes. We also encounter many challenges along this path. So what happens when we are in a relationship with a partner who isn’t transforming or isn’t interested in doing so? Are we able to transform as quickly? And what if that partner is not supportive of what we are going through? These questions and more are addressed in this topic of the challenges on the journey of our transformational process.

College tours and the application process are underway for many seniors and for young adults that graduated in the past year or two. But there has been some apprehension when it comes to what the college requires. Some have put college off in hopes that the vaccination requirements would be lifted by now.

So, what is a parent to do and how do they guide their child if they have been trying to avoid vaccinations (mainly the covid vaccination)? Would it be bad to keep their child from going to college as they wait to see what happens?

In this episode Dale addresses these questions and more about this timely topic. In addition, there are comments from other parents with similar situations and suggestions as to what worked for them. Check it out!

Transgender identification is something kids today are being prompted to explore. This is beginning at very early ages in our adolescents. Which prompts the question of age-appropriate decision making when it comes to making irreversible changes. In this episode Dale answers multiple questions on this topic including questions from a parent troubled by her daughter now identifying as a male and wanting to have surgery to change from female to male. This is a timely and expansive topic that needs to be shared to raise awareness and understanding.

Comforting our loved ones as they near the end of their life on Earth can be challenging and possibly even stressful, or it can be a beautiful experience. It all depends on how we approach it and how we perceive it. In this episode Dale shares some wonderful ways to make the most of our final time with those we love. He also gives some insightful techniques to help their transition to the other side become peaceful and graceful.

When we look at the economy, real estate, wages and the rate of increasing inflation it appears that a coming collapse in inevitable. So how do we prepare our family for that? And what do we say to our kids? Do we tell them like it is or do we soften it up? These questions, along with some great advice on preparing for what is coming, are answered by Dale in this episode.

When we are open and receptive, there are moments when we are able to see beyond the veil between the living and the dead. For those that are able to do this, there can be many questions that are unanswered, as this is a rarely discussed topic. In this episode Dale answers some of those questions and helps a listener understand why she felt heat while having an experience like this.

Reincarnation is a mysterious topic and can sometimes be a controversial one. In this episode Dale answers questions for a mom who is concerned that her child doesn’t know what to believe about reincarnation even though the rest of their family does. Dale takes this topic a step further by answering more questions about heaven, hell, the soul’s journey and more. You will be intrigued by this fascinating and informative episode!

We have heard talk of both a massive cleanse that is coming as well as that of a depopulation agenda. But what do these things really mean? Are they the same? And if not, how are they different? In this episode Dale sheds light on the dark side and the light side of these often misunderstood and sometimes controversial topics.

Surrendering to the wisdom of your soul and being ready for our third eye to open is a process. Sometimes the new sensations that come with this experience can be interesting, possibly overwhelming and maybe occasionally a bit concerning. But if we surrender to what is happening there is no reason to be concerned or alarmed. In this episode Dale explains the process of the opening of the third eye and answers questions on headaches and other sensations that may come with it. Check out this fascinating topic is this podcast!

There are 4 Levels of Dependence that we move through as we progress as a soul in our journey. In this episode, Dale explains what those levels are and how we can move past the biggest trap which is the stage of Co-Dependence. He also answers other questions about what happens to the progress we have made when we leave a lifetime and begin our next one. Learn more about these stages of dependence in this fascinating episode.

Why does our mind wander when we are trying to focus? It could be a number of things, but often when we are trying to better ourselves, we are being distracted by our Ego.

In this episode Dale addresses the distractions of our ego and what we can do to regain control of our mind in order to accomplish the things we want most.

With the school shootings and the deaths of many children it leads us to wonder why children die. Even when we see a child that struggles with an illness and dies at an early age it makes us question it. In this episode Dale answers questions about the reasons why children die and what we can learn from it.

When we find something that works for us, it is natural to want to share it with others. This is especially true for children and teenagers. So when we are met with resistance from people that do not want to hear our positive results or inspirational practices, this can be confusing and even disheartening. So how do we advise our kids when this happens to them? How do we keep them positive and inspired? Dale answers these questions and more in this conscious parenting episode.

Our pets become dear to us and we can’t imagine life without them. Sadly, they must cross over the rainbow bridge at some point, though letting go of them can be quite difficult for many of us. How can we enjoy our final days with our furry family members, yet let go of them so they can make a peaceful transition to the other side? Dale answers this question and others in this touching episode about staying centered and navigating through the loss of a beloved pet.

Our body temperature can fluctuate from a number of things, including what we eat or activities we are doing. But can it fluctuate from the energetics and emotions we are experiencing? And if we aren’t processing our emotions and energy properly, can they affect our health and cause illness or “dis”ease within us? These questions and more are answered by Dale in this thought provoking episode.

Having success with manifesting is exciting and seems like it would lead to manifesting even bigger and better things. But sometimes that is not the case. Many of us are good at doing something for a while only to fall off the wagon or stop doing it after a while – even when it’s great for us and makes us happy. So why is that? In this episode Dale answers a some great questions from a listener who returns to patterns of playing the victim and old negative programs even after some big victories with manifesting.

Our ego is a tricky trickster, but in order to transcend it we must come to understand it. So does that mean we should make agreements with it? In this episode Dale addresses this topic and gives some deep insights into how to best work with our ego.

Parenting is full of rewards and challenges, and as our kids near adulthood it can often seem more challenging. When our kids start on a path that will lead to complex and potentially dangerous results it is natural for us to be alarmed. Trying to divert them from that path can backfire on us if we do not proceed with conscious awareness. In this episode a concerned parent seeks Dale’s advice on how to stop her teen from smoking marijuana and helping put him on a better path.

When the movie The Matrix came out, many people recognized a connection right away to our everyday lives. Of course, there are those that don’t believe that to be true. But for the believers… this episode is for you!

It’s our 100th episode and we wanted to do a special episode on a topic that is of popular interest to the many. This question was chosen from one of many submissions about the Matrix. Here Dale answers where the Matrix came from, why it is here and what we should do regarding trying to open other people’s eyes to its existence.

We hope you enjoy this special 100th episode as much as we enjoyed making it!

In the times we are in, theft is on the rise–and sometimes in the most creative of ways. When we come across something that appears stolen, but no one is claiming, is it stealing to take it? Where does the moral line come in for what might create negative karma and what might not? In this episode Dale addresses these questions on “stealing” and what might be the Universe gifting us.

When our kids make new friends, we can be surprised to learn that some of them are mean and even bad influences. As parents it is difficult to know how to advise our kids without making them wrong or pushing them further away from us. Especially when we do not have the cooperation from our co-parent. In this episode Dale answers difficult questions on how to parent with consciousness in this type of situation.

Our Ego is the trickiest of tricksters. It is one of the greatest magicians on the planet. In this episode Dale answers questions from a wise and conscious 11 year old boy about the possibility of our ego merging with someone else’s and how we can know when this is about to happen.

Physical pain is an interesting sensation that affects everyone diffidently. Some people have a high pain tolerance and do not need pain medicine, even when undergoing surgery or recovery from an injury. Then there are others that take pain medication to the point of overdoing it and causing other complications in their physical body.

So why is it that pain is so different to experience for everyone? And is the pain we experience somehow related to karma? These questions and more on this topic of pain and karma are answered by Dale in this episode.

Over time conflicts can and usually do arise between family members, even between a parent and their adult child. But when those conflicts go unchecked, do not get resolved or one or both parties do not speak up for how they are feeling over a long period of time, this is when negativity and distance can come between them. Sometimes one of them can only see from their point of view that the other is wrong and place blame on them. So what do you do if you are the receiver of the negative projections and are being made wrong every time you interact? How do you speak up for yourself if you don’t feel you can cut this person out of your life, but you don’t want to engage with their negativity any longer? Dale answers these difficult questions in this episode.

For some it is hard to believe that each of us have spiritual guides and angels that are there to support us. For those that do believe, but don’t know how they support us, this is the episode for you! Dale answers questions on how these guides help us and how we can better connect with them.

As we move into a more volatile economy with inflation skyrocketing, it is easy to feel uncertain about not only our future but the future of the businesses, banks and schools that we have come to rely on. What will happen to these institutions as the economy grows shakier and how do we plan accordingly? In this episode Dale answers these questions and addresses these troubled times that we are in.

When the holidays roll around, we get flooded with emotions whether we have plans to be with others or not. And when we get invited to visit relatives that generally is going to come with extra energy and emotional output. So, if we know that visit holds that potential and we need to save that energy for ourselves, especially when we have had trouble with being productive but are in a good momentum, then we need to look at doing what’s best for ourselves. In this episode Dale answers questions about potential outcomes when visiting family on holidays and on taking a date with you.

Being able to stop worrying about the future is wonderful but taking the reins to manifest a better future is even better. In this podcast episode Dale follows up with a listener who asked in Episode 82 how to stop worrying about the future. They are now back with a follow up question about how to proactively manifest a better future for themselves.

When parents fight, especially divorced parents, they often forget about how it affects the kids. In this episode an 11-year-old reaches out to Dale for help with how to get through what he calls “Divorced Parents Trouble.” 

This heartwarming episode reveals what is happening during divorce, court hearings and fighting parents from the child’s point of view. Dale gives him some solid advice and coping strategies that would be useful for any parents or kids to hear that have been or might later be in this situation.

Our pets are most often seen as family members or children and we come to find ourselves unable to see life without them. But what happens when it is time for us to let them go yet we are unable to do so.? Dale addresses this question and other pet related questions on crossing over and death in intriguing his episode.

Setting new year’s resolutions and intentions are easy but keeping them are often difficult. Why is that and what can we do about it? In this episode Dale answer this question and gives some great advice and strategies to have a successful and productive year.

Are you feeling like it is harder and harder to get a lot accomplished in one day? Is time in fact accelerating, making this task more difficult? This concept is explored in this episode when Dale answers several questions on this topic.

Bullying is still a problem for many kids, despite the efforts that have been made nationally to stop it. What can kids do to help themselves or their friends when the school staff turns a blind eye to it? And what can the parents do to help? In this episode Dale takes on this topic with some great insight and strategies when going up against a bully and the school system.

Being in the future is like living in fantasy land – it is speculating on the unknown…

If my mind has a certain amount of my power, it causes me to move out of the present and I can lose my productivity by getting stuck thinking about all the “what if’s” that may or may not happen. This mental looping can lead to all kinds of snags and traps, including a decline in our health.

In this episode Dale answers questions from a listener who is caught up in worrying about the future and is unable to pull herself out of it. His answers are profound and helpful for anyone that is a worrier about the past, present or future.

With all the volatility on the world stage that has been ongoing over recent months and years, it is easy to grow concerned about the possibilities of war. In this episode Dale answers questions from a concerned mother who is worrying over how to prepare and protect her family. Dale also addresses her concerns over her sons being of a draftable age, should the draft become implemented again.

Manifesting is a hot topic but also a greatly misunderstood one. When we attempt to manifest on a grand scale we can be discouraged by the results. This leads many to believe that manifestation may not even be possible. In this episode Dale delves deeply into the topic of manifesting by answering several questions, as well as giving some great tips on how to manifest the things you want as well as the life you desire with better results.

Movies often portray things differently than books do. In the case of the question asked in this episode, that book is the bible. Mary Magdalene is portrayed very differently in the bible than she is in the movie “Mary Magdalene” from 2018. So, which is more accurate? And what happened to Mary after Jesus ascended? Dale answers these questions and more with some very thought-provoking insights.

As our children grow up, they often make choices that we don’t agree with. Once they develop an awareness of the consequences their choices have created, it is important for parents to be supportive in course correcting them. How do parents do this when it comes to addictions and bad habits that our kids have created? And how do the parents keep their emotions in check so they don’t push their kids away in the process? These questions and more are answered by Dale in this powerful episode.

When a child witnesses traumatic or horrific events they can react in different ways. Some might internalize it and withdraw while others may act out aggressively or even violently. In this episode Dale answers questions for a concerned aunt who's niece is having trouble coping and is putting her family through the wringer.

Many people have stressful jobs, but don’t always stop to consider the price they pay with their physical and mental health or the stresses on their loved ones. In this episode Dale answers questions for the wife of a business executive who is concerned over her husband’s demanding job and the toll it is taking.

When we are needy and put a lot of pressure on wanting something, we can become stuck and actually push the thing we want away from us. This is because those types of energies don’t manifest what we want. In this episode Dale explains this further as he answers questions from a frustrated listener who has given up hope in wanting for anything.

Part of our soul over time can take a fall - falling from grace or from our higher self. The dark night of the soul is accessing parts of our shadow side that can feel both dark and dense. This is something that many have been experiencing and is part of the dark side of the soul experience. In this episode Dale answers the questions posed to him and shares more on understanding and navigating your own dark night of the soul when it comes upon you.

Birthdays can be a time of great celebration, but also a time of sadness. The “birthday blues” happen to many - even when they are excited about their birthday approaching? Why is that and where does it come from? Well, it can be for a number of reasons, which Dale explains in this episode.

The ego is a trickster that can wreak havoc in our lives. The complexities of the ego are a mystery that keeps us guessing and often running circles with little progress. In this episode Dale answers questions from several different listeners that each want to learn more about the ego, where it came from and whether we should be trying to tame it or starve it.

Stuttering is a difficult thing to cope with and to overcome, but it can be done. Have you ever wondered why someone stutters or if they were born that way? In this episode Dale gives some deep and revealing answers and insights into this question and more. He lends a very personalized perspective to this topic since Dale overcame a stutter himself.