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Ask Women Podcast: What Women Want

Ask Women Podcast: What Women Want

By Marni Kinrys & Kristen Carney
What do a female comic and a professional wing girl have in common? The realistically raw and hilarious perspectives on what women ACTUALLY want in a man. Prepare to be offended and awed as Marni Kinrys & Kristen Carney take you through the uncensored and often ridiculous mind of a woman to help you better understand, appreciate, and avoid getting punched by the next girl you come across. Wanna Ask The Girls A Question? Send your questions to ask@askwomenpodcast.com and check out our other dating tools and advice: https://www.winggirlmethod.com and Kristencarney.com/datinghelp
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27:55
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Ep. 419 Early Stages of a Relationship
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Ep. 418 How to Escalate With Women
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57:38
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Ep. 417 What a funny girl is looking for THROWBACK
Comedian Alli Breen and Loveline's Anderson Cowan join us in this throwback episode to talk about what a single and FUNNY girl wants from a guy and how to win her over.
46:57
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Ep. 416 Cuffing Season and Getting Your Ex Back
This week, relationship magician, Coach Lee is on to talk about Cuffing Season and why it's so great to start your dating now as the days get colder and darker. He's also here to tell us what strategy to use if you want to get your ex back, which is more than 70% effective. Lastly, we close the show talking about if it's a good idea to try to cut-in on someone's current relationship and HOW to do it if it's the right situation. 
47:08
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Ep. 415 Speeding Up Getting to Know Someone
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32:30
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Ep. 414 What Makes a Master in the Bedroom THROWBACK ep
This week we have comedian Chase Anthony and friend of the show Jess on the show talking about how to turn a woman on and KEEP her turned on. Jess is going to give you all the tips and tricks about pleasing women and how to be irresistible in the bedroom. 
52:45
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Ep. 414 Talk Dirty to Me (THROWBACK EP)
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41:26
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Ep. 413 Sex with Emily THROWBACK Episode
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01:10:36
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Ep. 412 Stop Letting Things Get in the Way of Your Relationships
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34:10
October 22, 2021
Ep. 411 How to Overcome Shortcomings
This week, our regular guest Dominey Drew is here to talk about how not to be held back by things you may consider shortcomings or "flaws". We talk about how to use them to your advantage and make you stand out, rather than blend in. 
29:58
October 15, 2021
Ep. 410 Leverage Fashion to GET the Girl
Antonio Centeno, founder of the men's fashion website RealMenRealStyle.com is here to talk about simple style upgrades you can make to your wardrobe so you can get the girl you want. And the good news? It doesn't take as much work as you'd think to add a few pieces to your closet to make you really pop. And the other good news? You don't need to be in a metropolitan area to pull off smooth style. 
36:59
October 08, 2021
Ep. 409 Talking "Why Men Behave Badly" by David Buss WITH David Buss
David Buss is an American Evolutionary Psychologist at the University of Texas at Austin, researching human sex differences in mate selection. He is considered one of the founders of evolutionary psychology and just released his new book called "Why Men Behave Badly". We talk all about WHY it is men do what they do and how come it's not really their fault ;) We also talk about how to fix these things so you can attract the right woman for you. 
39:57
October 01, 2021
Ep. 408 10 NLP Mind Hacks For Instant Confidence With Mark Sing
Mark Sing, amazing NLP coach and friend, joins us to break down 10 NLP Mind Hacks For Instant Confidence With Mark Sing Guest: Mark Sing
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