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HER Dating & Relationship Secrets

HER Dating & Relationship Secrets

By HER Dating and Relationship Secrets

HER Dating and Relationship Secrets helps women who are successful at everything, except with men, dating and relationships. I give you a daily action to attract, create and maintain a lasting, healthy relationship! Subscribe, turn Notifications “On” and share the show with everyone you know!
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The REAL Reason Men Fall In Love (and Stay!)

HER Dating & Relationship SecretsJan 30, 2023

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INTERVIEW: Marine Selénée Explains How Family Constellations Create Your Relationship Pattern (And So Much More!)

INTERVIEW: Marine Selénée Explains How Family Constellations Create Your Relationship Pattern (And So Much More!)

Exciting news! This is our FIRST-EVER podcast GUEST INTERVIEW! My guest today is Marine Selénée, an expert on Family Constellations Therapy.


If you've ever tried to change your dating & relationship pattern, but got stuck, the answer may be rooted in your past family trauma. In this episode, Marine explains how the transformative power of Family Constellations Therapy can help you find individual blocks heal from family wounds.


Her new book, "Connected Fates, Separate Destinies: Using Family Constellations Therapy to Recover from Inherited Stories and Trauma" is available on Amazon and her website at MarineSelenee.com/book


Feb 09, 202456:39
Dance Your Way To A Healthy Happy Relationship!

Dance Your Way To A Healthy Happy Relationship!

Barry explains why dancing is very helpful in creating a healthy, empowered relationship! He shares the psychological benefits and exactly how to do a little dancing to improve your mood, your dating appeal, and your relationship! Enjoy!
Feb 05, 202403:43
What Does Love Feel Like To You?

What Does Love Feel Like To You?

Barry leads us through a “Feeling-ization” on the feeling of Love. This reveals so much to us about how we approach dating, relationships, ourselves, and others. Try this powerful exercise and see what love feels like to you!!
Feb 05, 202406:01
Patience!

Patience!

Barry describes the essential nature of patience to create a healthy relationship. He touches on how to be patient, how to not bo too passive, and how to tell the difference between fear-based restlessness and certainty-based action. He shares the missing piece that really makes empowered patience possible, and how you can use it today!
Feb 05, 202405:10
What A Healthy, Empowered Relationship Is

What A Healthy, Empowered Relationship Is

Barry shares exactly “What A Healthy, Empowered Relationship Is”!
Feb 05, 202403:02
How To Use This Podcast To Get The Most Benefit From It

How To Use This Podcast To Get The Most Benefit From It

Barry shares a few ways you can use these podcasts episodes to help you build a healthy, empowered relationship. As always, he gives you something efficient, effective and actionable!
Feb 05, 202403:52
What If No One Ever Wants Me?

What If No One Ever Wants Me?

What If No One Ever Wants and Desires Me
Feb 05, 202404:40
How To Tell If A Man Is Secure or Insecure

How To Tell If A Man Is Secure or Insecure

Barry shares “How To Tell If A Man Is Secure or Insecure”!
May 09, 202306:09
You’re Worth The Effort!

You’re Worth The Effort!

Barry shares how to connect with the part of you that completely KNOWS and SHOWS “You’re Worth The Effort!”
May 09, 202304:44
Romance vs Routine

Romance vs Routine

Barry explains the importance of breaking your routine, and how you can bring romance into your life whether you are single or in a relationship!
May 09, 202303:45
Why Men Don’t Open Up Emotionally

Why Men Don’t Open Up Emotionally

Barry shares “Why Men Don’t Open Up Emotionally” and what to do about it!
May 09, 202307:09
What To Do If You Want Him Back

What To Do If You Want Him Back

What To Do If You Want Him Back
May 09, 202305:46
“He’s actually TOO nice!”

“He’s actually TOO nice!”

When my client said “He’s actually TOO nice!” we went deep on why she felt that way. In this episode I share the reasons this feeling can come up, some of which are healthy and some of which are unhealthy — and what to do about it.
May 09, 202305:04
Exercise To Find Out Your Relationship Beliefs

Exercise To Find Out Your Relationship Beliefs

Exercise To Find Out Your Relationship Beliefs
May 09, 202306:35
Your Family Story and Your Relationships

Your Family Story and Your Relationships

Your Family Story and Your Relationships
May 09, 202303:53
What Is Love?

What Is Love?

What Is Love?
May 09, 202305:57
A Quick Way To Boost Your Dating & Relationships

A Quick Way To Boost Your Dating & Relationships

Barry shares a quick, easy, but overlooked way to improve your dating and relationships!
May 09, 202304:31
Do’s And Don’ts for Keeping The Spark Alive

Do’s And Don’ts for Keeping The Spark Alive

Do’s And Don’ts for Keeping The Spark Alive
May 09, 202304:34
How To Respond To A Text That Upsets You

How To Respond To A Text That Upsets You

How To Respond To A Text That Upsets You
May 09, 202307:04
Levels of Consciousness In Relationships

Levels of Consciousness In Relationships

Levels of Consciousness In Relationships
May 09, 202304:53
Is It Me or Him? (Telling Old Issues From Real Problems)

Is It Me or Him? (Telling Old Issues From Real Problems)

How To Tell If Its Your ‘Issues’ or His ‘Issues’ Causing Problems
May 09, 202305:19
Breakups (“Why”)

Breakups (“Why”)

Breakups (Understanding The Importance of “Why”)
May 09, 202305:30
The Workplace, Dating, Relationships & Boundaries

The Workplace, Dating, Relationships & Boundaries

The Workplace
May 09, 202304:46
The Biggest Turn-Off For Men

The Biggest Turn-Off For Men

The Biggest Turn-Off For Men
May 09, 202304:10
Why Your Relationships Aren’t How You Want Them To Be (Julia’s Story)

Why Your Relationships Aren’t How You Want Them To Be (Julia’s Story)

Why You Relationships Aren’t How You Want Them To Be
May 09, 202306:07
The Healthy And Unhealthy Way To Choose Being Single

The Healthy And Unhealthy Way To Choose Being Single

The Healthy And Unhealthy Way To Choose Being Single
May 09, 202306:01
Spring, Love & Attraction Are In The Air!

Spring, Love & Attraction Are In The Air!

Spring Fever Is In The Air! How to embrace this re-awakening season in your dating and relationships!
May 09, 202303:43
Is Your Self-Worth Performative? (Are You Always the Do-er)

Is Your Self-Worth Performative? (Are You Always the Do-er)

Is Your Self-Worth Performative? (Are You Always the Do-er)
May 09, 202305:56
The Biggest Difference Between A Weak & A Strong Man

The Biggest Difference Between A Weak & A Strong Man

The Biggest Difference Between A Weak & A Strong Man
May 09, 202307:49
Can You ‘Make’ Someone Fall In Love With You?

Can You ‘Make’ Someone Fall In Love With You?

Can You ‘Make’ Someone Fall In Love With You?
May 09, 202305:57
“Why Am I Always With Emotionally-Unavailable Partners?”

“Why Am I Always With Emotionally-Unavailable Partners?”

“Why Am I Always With Emotionally-Unavailable Partners?”
May 09, 202305:16
What To Do Before Holidays & Special Occasions

What To Do Before Holidays & Special Occasions

What To Do Before Holidays & Special Occasions
May 09, 202307:04
Giving and Getting Physical Affection (Mary’s Story)

Giving and Getting Physical Affection (Mary’s Story)

Giving and Getting Physical Affection (Mary’s Story)
May 09, 202305:34
Respect and Loss of Respect

Respect and Loss of Respect

Respect and Loss of Respect
May 09, 202305:47
Are You Mistaking Chemistry For Connection?

Are You Mistaking Chemistry For Connection?

Are You Mistaking Chemistry For Connection?
May 09, 202308:37
Why You Want A Good Man AND The Bad Boy

Why You Want A Good Man AND The Bad Boy

Why You Want A Good Man AND The Bad Boy
May 09, 202308:59
Family

Family

Family
May 09, 202303:50
Conflict, Criticism & Control

Conflict, Criticism & Control

Conflict, Criticism & Control
May 09, 202307:47
Self-Talk

Self-Talk

Self-Talk
May 09, 202306:19
Why He Pays Attention To You Then Ignores You

Why He Pays Attention To You Then Ignores You

Why He Pays Attention To You Then Ignores You
May 09, 202306:34
When is it HIS turn to work on himself and the relationship?

When is it HIS turn to work on himself and the relationship?

When is it HIS turn to work on himself and the relationship?
May 09, 202305:31
Can You “Have It All” In A Partner & Relationship?

Can You “Have It All” In A Partner & Relationship?

Can You “Have It All” In A Partner & Relationship?
May 09, 202305:27
Boredom & Stuckness (aka Change vs Sameness)

Boredom & Stuckness (aka Change vs Sameness)

Boredom & Stuckness (aka Change vs Sameness)
May 09, 202305:56
Online Dating & Dating Apps

Online Dating & Dating Apps

Online Dating & Dating Apps
May 09, 202305:52
Desire for Separateness, Space and Freedom

Desire for Separateness, Space and Freedom

Desire for Separateness, Space and Freedom
May 09, 202306:02
Having An ‘Off’ Day In Dating & Relationships

Having An ‘Off’ Day In Dating & Relationships

“Having An Off Day” In Dating & Relationships
May 09, 202305:59
Why Is Having A Healthy Relationship Important To You?

Why Is Having A Healthy Relationship Important To You?

Why Is Having A Healthy Relationship Important To You?
May 09, 202305:06
Being Present

Being Present

Being Present
May 09, 202304:14
Loss of Sexual Desire In Men

Loss of Sexual Desire In Men

Loss of Sexual Desire In Men
May 09, 202306:10
Narcissist and People-Pleaser Men

Narcissist and People-Pleaser Men

Narcissist and People-Pleaser Men
May 09, 202306:59