Strictly Outside the Lines

What if I told you that you were Magnificent! Not in and of yourself, but by how you respond and react to situations…

What if I told you that the mistakes you made are not you. 

What if I told you, you could have the chance to absolutely change your life for the better in a matter of three days. 

This and more is what I talk about with my guest Pam Dunn, Owner and Chief responsibility officer of Your Infinite Life coaching and training. 

We dive into the story of her life, her creation of the program, and the impact that one weekend can have. 

We discuss what it means to be magnificent, how to heal, and to build true connections. 

If you’re interested in joining us for the upcoming Discover Magnificence course you can learn more by clicking the link below: 

Another incredible episode in the books.

This time I'm grateful to have had the opportunity to interview Levi Rapoport, LMHC a Brooklyn based Mental Health Counselor. In this episode we talk about What is Mental health actually all about.

We explore the challenges that people of religious and cultural backgrounds face as they work to marry the two worlds. We discuss practical tips and tools that can be utilized in the day to day to help overcome some of the challenges we face.

We go in depth into what it means to have a therapist or counselor and how their role differs from a mentor or spiritual mentor.

It's a conversation I absolutely enjoyed having and one that I am sure you'll enjoy listening to.

Levi can be reached at the following places:

609-PSYCH-18

(609-779-2418)

Levi@RapoportCounseling.com

#MentalHealth #Counselor #Therapist #Coach #Brooklyn #Psychotherapy #Faith #Family #Finances #Health #Spirituality #LifeCoach #PersonalDevelopment #Growth #LifeByDesign #Jewish #Rabbi

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In this episode we talk about the importance of focusing on your personal goals and family goals and ignoring societal pressures. It is not always easy to do but it is oh so important, now more than ever.

We talk about the dangers of comparing ourselves to others and the feelings of resentment and inadequacies it can lead to. I share some stories from the office and the lessons we've discusses there on the importance of these topics.

​​#Faith #Family #Finances #Health #Spirituality #LifeCoach #PersonalDevelopment #Growth #LifeByDesign #Jewish #Rabbi

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What does it mean to leave a legacy?

What are legacy's even?

When do Legacies start being created?

Most of think of a legacy as some great financial wealth left behind for future generations. You can even say that a legacy is some great accomplishment during life time that lasts for years to come.

I am here to tell you that a legacy is less about what happens after death and more about what happens during your life. We need to start living the legacy we want to create NOW. Making daily decisions to be better, leave better, live better and create more. That's how legacies start.

#Legacy #DrGaborMate' #Trauma #Healing #MentalHealth #LiveLife
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Have you ever been somewhere, awkwardly smiling at people, wondering what's going on in their minds?

How about thinking about what they're going through in their day to day lives?

Have you ever been out and just wished someone would say something to you, start a conversation or even just give you a simple "hello"?

How about the time you saw someone with a really nice car, and you wanted to compliment them on it, but didn't want to seem weird.

What if I told you you should do exactly that in all of those scenarios?

Today's episode we explore how living SOTL can be done by very simple steps as easy as saying Hello.

I share with you my recent travel experiences and a 6 hour travel delay, as well as the lady I met who bought 4 teslas out of anger.

Join us on this episode as we dive in to how to live strictly outside the lines.

#ElonMusk #OutsideTheLines #ThinkDifferent #BeDifferent #Corvette #Travel #Florida #Leadership #Business #Tesla #Growth #SayHello #SuicidePrevention #MentalHealth ​​#Faith #Family #Finances #Health #Spirituality #LifeCoach #PersonalDevelopment #Growth #LifeByDesign #Jewish #Rabbi

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Growing up I'm sure you had a big hairy dream that you were certain you were going to accomplish. Whether to be a fireman or police officer, or to live in a castle on the hill. We grew up on, and lived by our dreams. In reality we lived IN our dreams.

Yet, as we grew older those dreams started to slowly slip away. Adulthood sets in and so does this thing we call "reality". And slowly but surely our dreams begin to slip away to the dark recesses of our tired and weary brain. Occasionally they pop their heads up, reminding us that they're still there, waiting for us to come rescue them like the damsel in distress that they are. But we convince ourselves no. It'll never happen.

Well, in this episode I'm here to tell you to get off your lazy bum and start chasing after your dreams. I can tell you that, because that's what someone told me recently. Multiple people actually. They reminded me of my dream and how to go about achieving it.

So in this episode we discuss some tips you can use to start achieving your dreams. We also go through the harsh reality of what it takes to pursue your dream. And finally, I share with you some stories about how my dreams have been starting to come to fruition in some interesting ways.

#Dream #AmericanDream #JamesClear #AtomicHabits #Mentors #MakeRoom #Habits #HardWork #Education #Dreaming
​​#Faith #Family #Finances #Health #Spirituality #LifeCoach #PersonalDevelopment #Growth #LifeByDesign #Jewish #Rabbi

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The time has come to say goodbye to the classroom. After 15 years in education, my career as a classroom teacher is over. In this episode I share with you some of the lessons I've learned from my years in education, lessons that can be applied to business and marriage as well.

We discuss the importance of acknowledging the truth, as difficult as it may be, and supporting our teachers on the front lines. And I share with you why I believe that if parents don't do this, they'll end up being the ones to suffer most.

I give some advice to Principals, Administrators, and Employers on the importance of being there to support their staff in every way possible. I share the benfits of putting your employees first, before your customers.

Lastly I speak directly to those teachers currently employed with some final words of encouragement.

#Teaching #Teacher #TeacherAppreciation #Educator #Education #Principal #Business #School #Schooling #Exodus #TeacherCrisis ​​#Faith #Family #Finances #Health #Spirituality #LifeCoach #PersonalDevelopment #Growth #LifeByDesign #Jewish #Rabbi

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We all know the story of Cain and Abel, and the famous question that followed.

Well, what we don't know is the importance of being sure that we are, in fact, our brother's keeper.

While it is not our responsibility to provide everything they need, it is our responsibility to ensure we are contributing to their well being when we can. The honest truth is that all it takes is a phone call. A simple call can drastically change someone's life for the better.

The incredible thing is that when we take time to check in on our friends, family, community members and simply put other humans, what ends up happening is we end up receiving value as well.

So take some time to check in with others, be there for them. Help them. Give them a call.

#Brothers #Love #Care #CainAbel #Empathy #Community
​​#Faith #Family #Finances #Health #Spirituality #LifeCoach #PersonalDevelopment #Growth #LifeByDesign #Jewish #Rabbi

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In this episode we get into all things manliness.

I share with you some of the lessons I've learned over the weekend as I begin to experience what it means to perform manual labor. I've been very blessed to have an opportunity to work with a friend and mentor on doing some construction and contracting work.

Along the way I am learning a lot about myself and what I can in fact do. I've been challenging limiting beliefs, overcoming negative mindsets, and gaining important experience.

This and more in this weeks episode.

#ManualLabor #Construction #Contracting #HardWork #ToxicMasculinity #RealMen #FreeHugs #LimitingBeliefs ​​#Faith #Family #Finances #Health #Spirituality #LifeCoach #PersonalDevelopment #Growth #LifeByDesign #Jewish #Rabbi

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Happy Birthday!

In this episode, I give you a birthday blessing in honor of my 33rd birthday. I also share with you some of the lessons I’ve learned in my 33 years on this planet. 

We talk about the power of impact you can have from one little act of good that you do, whether a smile, a kind word, or giving someone a much-needed resource or tool. 

Finally, I leave you with some words of belief and encouragement to take with you as you move forward in life. 

#Birthday #Farbrengen #Chabad #Rebbe #Lubavitch #Belief #Happiness #Wealth #Success #Impact #Ranch #Time #Priorities #Father #Mother #Husband #Wife #BeYou ​​#Faith #Family #Finances #Health #Spirituality #LifeCoach #PersonalDevelopment #Growth #LifeByDesign #Jewish #Rabbi

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This episode we speak to none other than The Pew Pew Jew himself, Yehuda Remer and he shares with us his story on how he came to be the world renowned Second Amendment advocate that he is today. 

Yehuda shares with us his personal journey on how he entered the world of gun ownership, and how he discovered the lack of proper children's educational resources for gun ownership. He also shares with us how he began to fill the void that was there, and how you can apply this to your work. 

I also pose the question of work-life balance to Yehuda and he shares with us his top pointers in how to be a successful business owner, bread winner, all while showing up as a parent and spouse. 

Yehuda shares his unique approach to parenting and how he and his wife set themselves up to begin with, for raising their children in a proper and responsible manner, teaching them the importance of self respect, as well as responsibility. 

There is a lot of ground covered so be sure to listen through. 

You can find The Pew Pew Jew at:

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​​#Faith #Family #Finances #Health #Spirituality #LifeCoach #PersonalDevelopment #Growth #LifeByDesign #Jewish #Rabbi

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The Holiday of Passover is upon us, and with it comes the discussion of freeing ourselves from limitations. The incredible thing about Passover is that it is a holiday that reminds us of the past, helps us appreciate the present, and look forward to the future.

We are commanded to live each day as if we are leaving Egypt today.

That's actually easier to do than we realize. Sure we may not be slaves physically in Egypt now, yet we are all slaves to our own limiting beliefs. We are letting them hold us captive and prevent us from living a better life. When we are able to free ourselves from our limiting beliefs, create new beliefs we are started on the path of Freedom.

But it doesn't end there.

We must also have a vision of the future, a plan to get there, and the personal fortitude to pursue it no matter what.

This and more is discussed in this episode.

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#Passover #LimitingBeliefs #Future #Success ​​#Freedom #Jews #Egypt #Exodus #Moses #Messiah #Moshiach #Wealth # LIberation #JohnMaxwell #AtomicHabits #JamesClear #Faith #Family #Finances #Health #Spirituality #LifeCoach #PersonalDevelopment #Growth #LifeByDesign #Jewish #Rabbi

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In this glorious episode you get to hear from my coach and mentor and good friend Travis Crutcher. Aside from an exceptional career in the US Army as a Ranger Qualified Infantryman and Drill Sergeant, Travis has become a leading coach in the industry, helping people sick of the suck of every day life, to create a life they love using real proven skills.

In this episode we talk about the importance of standing up for your truths no matter the consequences. We also talk about what Fear actually is.

We discuss a wide spectrum of topics including parenting, leading in the home and even batman. One of the most important things we can do for ourselves is create a strong system of values.

We also discuss what true Resilience is and what it is not. The ability to get back up after being knocked down. Additionally Travis shares his thoughts on how to transition out of a bad fit no good sucky job.

Listen in for an episode like no other.

#Batman #DarkKnight #Parenting #Education #ArmyRanger #Military #TravisCrutcher #Autism #Fear #Therapy #Fatherhood #Confidence #Values #Resilience
​​#Faith #Family #Finances #Health #Spirituality #LifeCoach #PersonalDevelopment #Growth #LifeByDesign #Jewish #Rabbi

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Often times life gives us a sucker punch to the stomach, and then kicks in the groin when we are down on the floor. Most often this happens when we see or hear something from someone that causes us to self-criticize. All of this leads us down a deep, dark path of negativity and despair.

Yet, the thing that can prevent this from happening is by taking the time to actually acknowledge the good that we are. Who we've become. How much we've accomplished. We have to realize that we are good and that we have done good as well. Just because we aren't where we want to be just yet, doesn't mean we won't get there and aren't on the way.

The truth is, that what we need to do is hold ourselves as capable. Believe that we CAN accomplish all we've set out to do. Sure we need support and resources, but we can get there if we tap into those around us who are willing to help.

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#Belief #Success #Depression #Work #Autism #LifesRollercoaster #Struggle #Parenting #MitchMatthews #Comparison #Hope #MirrorWork #LouiseHay

#Faith #Family #Finances #Health #Spirituality #LifeCoach #PersonalDevelopment #Growth #LifeByDesign #Jewish #Rabbi

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In this episode we have a special guest, Rabbi Raziel Cohen - The Tactical Rabbi. Raziel Cohen is a reputable firearms instructor and security consultant who has been extensively covered by notable news outlets such as Fox News, NRA TV, The Drudge Report, LA Times, and featured in a Vice mini-documentary.

His company, NDFTraining, offers comprehensive in-person and online courses for those seeking professional firearms and security training.

In this episode we talk about the mindset behind properly preparing for marriage and life. Raziel shares with us his experience going from a childhood of dreaming of becoming a Navy Seal, to actualize aspects of that dream in his correct role. We talk about the importance of self defense and situational preparedness. 

We also discuss what it means to be an entrepreneur and the challenges that come along with it. Raziel shares the four things he wants to be remembered by, and his system of principles that he lives by. 

You can find Raziel at:

https://www.ndftraining.com/

https://www.instagram.com/ndftraining/

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUj9deWle3pcj2BGofCvyhw

https://www.linkedin.com/in/raziel-cohen-the-tactical-rabbi-27775b17a/

 #TacticalRabbi #SitutationalAwareness #ProGun #NavySeal #SealTeamSix #JordanPeterson #Entrepreneurship #CompoundEffect #Dating #Marriage #ComeAndTakeIt #FightingRabbi #Safety

#Faith #Family #Finances #Health #Spirituality #LifeCoach #PersonalDevelopment #Growth #LifeByDesign #Jewish #Rabbi

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The final episode in the series on dating. 

Here we dive into some of your feedback and thoughts on how to navigate the dating system. We give you advice from the trenches, and not just my own personal opinions. 

We talk about how to trust your gut, how to say no, and the importance of self-care. Of course we also talk about how horrible and mean shadchanim are. Just kidding. But we do take them to task.

Finally, I give you three more tips and thought processes to have while dating. These three things are what got me through the dating process and frankly how I was able to survive. 

As always let me know your thoughts and take-aways. 

#Dating #Marriage #Shidduchim #Shadchanim #SelfCare #Attraction #TrustYourGut  ​​#Faith #Family #Finances #Health #Spirituality #LifeCoach #PersonalDevelopment #Growth #LifeByDesign #Jewish #Rabbi

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Last episode gave a wake up call to those struggling in the Shidduch System. This episode will provide you with some of the solutions you need to make it successful. 

It's important to remember that dating for marriage is a long-term goal. Dating for any other reason is dumb. But as with any other significant life change, it has to be approached with a mindset and attitude. 

This episode of SOTL we discuss the mindset necessary for successful dating and marriage, as well as the investment you need to make in yourself and future. We will also discuss the importance of Vision in marriage, creating a life to invite your spouse into, and how to make marriages last. 

#Mindset #Marriage #Investment #Dating #Shidduch #Husband #Wife #ShidduchCrisis ​​#Faith #Family #Finances #Health #Spirituality #LifeCoach #PersonalDevelopment #Growth #LifeByDesign #Jewish #Rabbi

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It was bound to happen. An episode calling out all of you saying you want to get married, but not willing to do the work to get there. 

Fact is, you will never find the perfect person, because you're not the perfect person. Until you  are willing to change yourself, you won't be able to attract that person into your life. 

This doesn't just apply to the world of dating. The same goes for the job hunt, or business growth. If you're being stubborn with your personal growth and development and not willing to see the potential of a better you, then you're never going to see that better future. Stop being stubborn.

#ShidduchCrisis #Shidduchim #Dating #Marriage #JohnCMaxwell #Stubborn #Devlop ​​#Faith #Family #Finances #Health #Spirituality #LifeCoach #PersonalDevelopment #Growth #LifeByDesign #Jewish #Rabbi

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What do you do if your child comes home complaining about a bully?

What do you do if someone in your workplace is bullying you?

Though is may not be a popular opinion, I believe in having compassion for these individuals and trying to see where they're coming from and why they're acting the way they are acting. 

And of course if need be, sock 'em in the stomach. 

At the end of the day the way we treat a bully has more to do with who we are as people, than who they are pretending to be. 

#Bullying #WorkPlaceParasite #Teacher #Administrator #AntiSemitism #Kanye #Parenting #Validation #Compassion #IzzyKalman #Listen ​​#Faith #Family #Finances #Health #Spirituality #LifeCoach #PersonalDevelopment #Growth #LifeByDesign #Jewish #Rabbi

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Are you willing to learn new things?

Can you really teach an old dog new tricks?

Fact of the matter is that you can not grow and improve your life if you're not willing to learn new things. But learning is only as good as your application of what you learned. 

In today's episode we discuss a story of a great Torah scholar who became a wagon driver and shoveled manure just so he could achieve his dream. 

Are you willing to do the same?

​​#Father #Husband #Travel #Journey #Growth #EggShells #Inflation #Perspective #Negativity #PositiveMindset #Faith #Family #Finances #Health #Spirituality #LifeCoach #PersonalDevelopment #Growth #LifeByDesign #Jewish #Rabbi

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Parenting is challenging. No question about it. But it's harder if you're a lazy parent.

In this episode we reflect on my recent trip to #Florida for a #Business & #LeadershipDevelopment Summit where I had the opportunity to hear #JohnnyAgar and his family speak about their journey. We discuss how to push past challenges we may have, how to push our children beyond their limitations, and how to set high standards.

Parenting is not for the weak minded. But neither is living.

Send me a voice message with your thoughts using this link: https://anchor.fm/baruch-noam-dubrow/message

#JohnnyAgar #Faith #Cerebralpalsy #Marathon #IronMan #ImpossibleMile #Parenting #Leadership #Business #Autism #Mindset #Standards #WorkEthic  #Faith #Family #Finances #Health #Spirituality #LifeCoach #PersonalDevelopment #Growth #LifeByDesign #Jewish #Rabbi

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Enough Complaining!

It's about time we stopped kvetching about what is wrong with the world and start doing something to make a difference. 

In this episode we talk about the difference between #complaining and #venting, defining each and acknowledging the benefits of one over the other. We also talk about how when we are presented with a challenge, it is up to us to face it. 

And of course as promised, we address the #Education #Crisis and I share with you my thoughts on how we can improve the world of education and thereby positively change the world. 

Join us and share your thoughts as well. I'd love to hear from you. 

#Education #Counseling #Marriage #Divorce #Coaching #School #Crisis #SpecialEd #MLK #DrMartinLutherKingJr #Change #Rights #Liberty #Community #StopComplaining #SolutionOriented #Faith #Family #Finances #Health #Spirituality #LifeCoach #PersonalDevelopment #Growth #LifeByDesign #Jewish #Rabbi

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As an educator of 15+ years I can officially say "School is a Scam". At least in the modern form. 

This episode we discuss how the educational system has lost touch with reality. We analyze the origins of the modern day school system, and how it no longer fits the needs of our children.

We also break the myth of education ending after graduation. We discuss the idea of ongoing education, and how to properly educate ourselves and our children.

Join us as we talk about how to break the school system.

​​#Faith #Family #Finances #Health #Spirituality #LifeCoach #PersonalDevelopment #Growth #LifeByDesign #Jewish #Rabbi #SchoolSucks #Education #IndustrialRevolution #BookerTWashington #Slavery #Factory #NoWimpsAllowed #Parenting #Autism #TempleGrandin #Ranchlife

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In this episode we talk about one of the greatest lies ever told...the lie of being "Self-Made".

So many people pride themselves on being "Self-Made" in their success, whether in their business or life. They credit themselves and themselves only with their success, neglecting all those who have paved the way before them. 

In this episode we talk about the importance of finding a coach, mentor, or guide who can help us along the way, show us the path. We explore the idea of having a community of like minded individuals who are on the same or similar journey as we are. 

We also discuss how you can find a mentor of your own, and start creating the community you need. 

​​#Faith #Family #Finances #Health #Spirituality #LifeCoach #PersonalDevelopment #Growth #LifeByDesign #Jewish #Rabbi #Success #SelfMade #Entrepreneur #Business #Marriage

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