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BDSM United Podcast

BDSM United Podcast

By Primal Piggy

Like a Fetish Club for your ears, BDSM United Podcast teaches non-violent consensual, traditional BDSM for adults. Topics are always mature but never graphic! Your host PrimalPiggy is an experienced educator with an extensive career in leadership and mentoring. Within BDSM he is a Dominant in a long-term power exchange relationship. His partner, Jen has over a decade's experience as a BDSM Educator, running a network with over 120,000 followers. As BDSM Educators we focus on the teachings of traditional BDSM drawing from our rich history. You can find the podcast on all the major platforms.
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Submissives vs. Slaves
Submissives vs. Slaves
Today we talk about the differences between submissives and slaves. D/s relationship is based on power exchange while M/s is based on authority transfer. We look at both ways for a person to be submissive to help them decide which relationship style interests them.
11:08
February 08, 2023
Setnakt's Sex Magick 305
Setnakt's Sex Magick 305
Welcome to our intermediate sex magick podcast series. Setnakt's Sex Magick focuses on Initiatory Magic. Today we wrap up this part of our series talking about invocation and evocation. We also talk about some necessary safeguards you should have in place before performing magic.
12:44
February 07, 2023
Setnakt's Sex Magick 304
Setnakt's Sex Magick 304
Welcome to our intermediate sex magick podcast series. Setnakt's Sex Magick focuses on Initiatory Magic. Today we talk about ritual magic and how magic differs from sorcery.
11:57
February 06, 2023
Setnakt's Sex Magick 303
Setnakt's Sex Magick 303
Welcome to our intermediate sex magick podcast series. Setnakt's Sex Magick focuses on Initiatory Magic. Today we talk more about astral projection and journeying through the astral realm.
18:19
February 05, 2023
Setnakt's Sex Magick 302
Setnakt's Sex Magick 302
Welcome to our intermediate sex magick podcast series. Setnakt's Sex Magick focuses on Initiatory Magic. Today we talk about astral projection and dreaming.
10:48
February 04, 2023
A Quick Update
A Quick Update
We discovered a problem in our podcast recording software and we wanted to tell you about it and that we got it fixed. Thanks for listening!
01:23
February 03, 2023
Setnakt's Sex Magick 301
Setnakt's Sex Magick 301
Welcome to our intermediate sex magick podcast series. Setnakt's Sex Magick focuses on Initiatory Magic. Today we talk about more about practicing the kundalini awaking meditation and how kundalini energy moves through the chakras.
11:19
February 03, 2023
Setnakt's Sex Magick 300
Setnakt's Sex Magick 300
Welcome to our intermediate sex magick podcast series. Setnakt's Sex Magick focuses on Initiatory Magic. Today we talk about meditation and introduce the kundalini awaking meditation.
16:60
February 02, 2023
Setnakt's Sex Magick 208
Setnakt's Sex Magick 208
Welcome to our intermediate sex magick podcast series. Setnakt's Sex Magick focuses on Initiatory Magic. Today we talk about the serious negative effects of fatigue on a magician and ways to battle fatigue.
17:41
February 01, 2023
Setnakt's Sex Magick 207
Setnakt's Sex Magick 207
Welcome to our intermediate sex magick podcast series. Setnakt's Sex Magick focuses on Initiatory Magic. Today we talk about the magic of silence and developing your Inner Temple.
11:48
January 31, 2023
Setnakt's Sex Magick 206
Setnakt's Sex Magick 206
Welcome to our intermediate sex magick podcast series. Setnakt's Sex Magick focuses on Initiatory Magic. Today we look a little more at the power of the human will and what you can achieve with it.
14:00
January 30, 2023
Safewords
Safewords
A safe word is something you use during a scene to let your partner know if you are ok, need to slow down/readjust or to stop. While most kinksters use the stoplight method, you can use any word(s) that you can remember easily as long as it is not something normally said during a scene. If safe words are ignored a lot of unwanted physical and emotional damage can be done during a scene that wasn’t consented.
13:09
January 29, 2023
Slow Burn Vetting
Slow Burn Vetting
If you want a long term partner you need to be testing for things like self-awareness, integrity, strength of character, consistency, and someone’s willingness to face discomfort and adversity. Surface level characteristics can make for an exciting and novelty filled beginning but they don’t stand the test of time, relationally. The reason why people waste time is because they don’t think they have time, so they commit to misaligned relationship after misaligned relationship rather than actually saving time by going slowly and actually vetting before committing. If we want depth, we have to live deeply and vet deeply. If we want surface, then live surface and vet surface.
09:32
January 28, 2023
Self-Esteem in Submissives: Self-Talk, Affirmations and Self-Love
Self-Esteem in Submissives: Self-Talk, Affirmations and Self-Love
Self-esteem relates to how you feel about yourself, whether you like yourself. Being submissive is not about being a "doormat" or a "lesser person". But the sad thing is, many go through life feeling less than what they truly are. Today we give you three solutions to building a healthy self-esteem. It is a long road to repairing damages of the past, but it can be done.
14:06
January 27, 2023
Safe Calls
Safe Calls
In today's show we explain why it's so important, and the different options you have when planning your safe call. A safe call is when you call someone to let them know you are ok, and more importantly safe. You meet someone new (either at a munch or online) and this is either the first time meeting face to face, or first time alone. More than likely you won’t need the safecalls or have your friends call for help but evil stuff does happen, and some people are fake and abusive. It’s better to plan and be safe than have no one to call and you know you’re not going to live through this.
11:26
January 26, 2023
Old Guard is a Myth
Old Guard is a Myth
Many of his peers claim that the book is askew and some even claim some of things Master John states as facts are actually a fabrication. We have the book in our library, along with most of the books discussing that Old Guard era and we simply don't want to throw the baby out with the bathwater. So let's look at parts of the Leatherman's Protocol Handbook to help us piece together an image of the puzzle that we consider Old Guard history.
12:20
January 25, 2023
The HIV Epidemic
The HIV Epidemic
Many of his peers claim that the book is askew and some even claim some of things Master John states as facts are actually a fabrication. We have the book in our library, along with most of the books discussing that Old Guard era and we simply don't want to throw the baby out with the bathwater. So let's look at parts of the Leatherman's Protocol Handbook to help us piece together an image of the puzzle that we consider Old Guard history.
09:46
January 24, 2023
The Computer Age
The Computer Age
Many of his peers claim that the book is askew and some even claim some of things Master John states as facts are actually a fabrication. We have the book in our library, along with most of the books discussing that Old Guard era and we simply don't want to throw the baby out with the bathwater. So let's look at parts of the Leatherman's Protocol Handbook to help us piece together an image of the puzzle that we consider Old Guard history.
06:08
January 23, 2023
Hippie Leather & Leather Titles
Hippie Leather & Leather Titles
Many of his peers claim that the book is askew and some even claim some of things Master John states as facts are actually a fabrication. We have the book in our library, along with most of the books discussing that Old Guard era and we simply don't want to throw the baby out with the bathwater. So let's look at parts of the Leatherman's Protocol Handbook to help us piece together an image of the puzzle that we consider Old Guard history.
08:04
January 22, 2023
The Hanky Code
The Hanky Code
Many of his peers claim that the book is askew and some even claim some of things Master John states as facts are actually a fabrication. We have the book in our library, along with most of the books discussing that Old Guard era and we simply don't want to throw the baby out with the bathwater. So let's look at parts of the Leatherman's Protocol Handbook to help us piece together an image of the puzzle that we consider Old Guard history.
07:05
January 21, 2023
First Mentions of "Old Guard"
First Mentions of "Old Guard"
Many of his peers claim that the book is askew and some even claim some of things Master John states as facts are actually a fabrication. We have the book in our library, along with most of the books discussing that Old Guard era and we simply don't want to throw the baby out with the bathwater. So let's look at parts of the Leatherman's Protocol Handbook to help us piece together an image of the puzzle that we consider Old Guard history.
09:50
January 20, 2023
Red Flags about Submissives
Red Flags about Submissives
The BDSM lifestyle harbors many dangers, oddly enough most people think only about the dangers to the submissive or slave and not to those dangers present for the Dominant. Among the thousands of dedicated, hard working, honest and disciplined submissives and slaves there are those few that pose a danger. There are those that are users, manipulators, liars, gold diggers, wannabees, and scam artists. Unfortunately sometimes we do not see these individuals for what they truly are until it is too late.
17:50
January 19, 2023
Red Flags about Dominants
Red Flags about Dominants
Within this lifestyle there are unfortunately many dangers, there are people out there using the BDSM lifestyle as a way to abuse or use individuals under an umbrella of acceptance. Within each situation there are warning signs that we see, unfortunately sometimes we do not see these warning signs until it is too late. There are many people that say they are a Dominant are not, instead they are users, abusers, predators, wannabees, bullies, and manipulators.
18:17
January 18, 2023
Setnakt's Sex Magick 205
Setnakt's Sex Magick 205
Welcome to our intermediate sex magick podcast series. Setnakt's Sex Magick focuses on Initiatory Magic and uses resources from Don Webb. Today we look at even more practices you can do to keep you on track during your magical journey and hopefully you begin to see they are very similar to the types of self-mastery you have been doing on your BDSM journey.
13:49
January 17, 2023
Setnakt's Sex Magick 204
Setnakt's Sex Magick 204
Welcome to our intermediate sex magick podcast series. Setnakt's Sex Magick focuses on Initiatory Magic and uses resources from Don Webb. Today we look at more practices you can do to keep you on track during your magical journey.
10:39
January 15, 2023
Setnakt's Sex Magick 203
Setnakt's Sex Magick 203
Welcome to our intermediate sex magick podcast series. Setnakt's Sex Magick focuses on Initiatory Magic and uses resources from Don Webb. Today we look at 3 practices you can do to keep you on track during your magical journey. Because it is harder to train oneself, than to have a trainer.
12:32
January 14, 2023
Setnakt's Sex Magick 202
Setnakt's Sex Magick 202
Welcome to our intermediate sex magick podcast series. Setnakt's Sex Magick focuses on Initiatory Magic and uses resources from Don Webb. Today we answer the question, "Why use sex magick when there are already so many other religions?" We give a brief overview of the Right and Left Hand Paths. We recommend the book "Lords of the Left-Hand Path: Forbidden Practices and Spiritual Heresies" by Stephen Flowers https://amzn.to/3vWZ9FM
16:28
January 12, 2023
Setnakt's Sex Magick 201
Setnakt's Sex Magick 201
Welcome to our intermediate sex magick podcast series. Setnakt's Sex Magick focuses on Initiatory Magic and uses resources from Don Webb. Today we talk about the Nature of Magic and the 4 Steps to Performing a Magical Ritual.
19:17
January 11, 2023
Setnakt's Sex Magick Introduction
Setnakt's Sex Magick Introduction
Welcome to the first podcast in our intermediate Sex Magick series. This builds upon our previous series on this topic. Setnakt's Sex Magick focuses on Initiatory Magic and uses resources from Don Webb. Today we talk about the 7 Virtues and 7 Vices of a magician.
23:41
January 10, 2023
Explaining BDSM
Explaining BDSM
BDSM is about relationships and interactions between people. It’s about power, control, dominance, surrender, humiliation, pain, and discomfort. Sometimes, but not always, it’s about sex. Today we take a fresh look at BDSM 101 hopefully helping explain our culture and lifestyle in a fresh way.
10:16
January 09, 2023
Processing Change in M/s
Processing Change in M/s
One might think, from the outside looking in, that processing change in an M/s dynamic is always difficult for those who have given up personal autonomy and transferred authority to a Master or Mistress. However, slaves often have a (consensually) conditioned mindset that accepts changes. Even when they struggle there are tools for their Doms to utilize to help them. Here are a few ways Owners help their slaves process change. Today's episode is an excerpt from the book Power Circuits by Raven Kaldera. https://amzn.to/2ZIOCBk
10:07
January 08, 2023
Origin of RACK: Risk-Aware, Consensual Kink
Origin of RACK: Risk-Aware, Consensual Kink
Today we present Gary Swift's essay on why he coined the motto RACK in order to update SSC's Safe, Sane and Consensual. Swift says, "Nothing's perfectly safe. Crossing the street isn't perfectly safe." He also challenges the notion, "The sane part of SSC is very subjective. Who's making the call?" This is an interesting look at the origin from the one who created RACK.
09:40
January 07, 2023
One Twue Way
One Twue Way
When we educate about some topics we always get someone who accuses us of being a "one twue way" person or podcast. This is something called the invincible ignorance fallacy where the person in making this statement simply refuses to believe the teaching, ignoring any evidence given. Instead they offer, "There's no one way to do anything in BDSM" which is absurd! We are Traditional, meaning we draw principles from our BDSM history and form a philosophy of how to do BDSM based on those principles. There is BDSM that works and other stuff that, when added, makes BDSM fall apart. We are trying to give people the tools to have good, lasting relationships and safe play scenes. 
09:14
January 06, 2023
Making Rules and Giving Orders
Making Rules and Giving Orders
Before you get to a contract for a scene or in a relationship dynamic it is important to understand how to make Rules and how to give Orders. The entire concept of the D/s dynamic is a relationship built around a ruleset. Within a play scene as long as the rule won’t undermine your authority, makes logical sense, and is created with a purpose, you’re good to go.
13:28
January 05, 2023
Our Goal for 2023
Our Goal for 2023
Just a brief word about our day off and our goal for the new year. Thanks for listening!
02:49
January 03, 2023
Sex Toys For Trans Folk
Sex Toys For Trans Folk
While all toys are for trans folks (because anyone can use any toy with themselves and others), there are some toys that are specifically great for trans folks: specifically, toys that are gender-affirming, both in everyday use and in play. You can check out all the toys mentioned using our SheVibe affiliate link: https://shevibe.com/?rfsn=4817860.3efcec
19:39
January 02, 2023
Kink Checklist
Kink Checklist
A kink checklist is usually suitable for scene play and for very new or short-term relationships. For a longer-term relationship that involves a dynamic it's a good idea that all persons involved know each other on a more intimate basis. Here are some medical and health questions to help in your negotiations.
09:00
January 01, 2023
New Year's Resolutions - Revisited
New Year's Resolutions - Revisited
Happy New Year 2023 from BDSM United Podcast!! Here is an episode I recorded a few weeks ago on this relevant topic of BDSM and Kink resolutions and setting goals.
11:43
January 01, 2023
Negotiating Scenes
Negotiating Scenes
Negotiating a relationship is similar to negotiating a scene. Both come after a potential partner is vetted. Negotiations for a play scene are usually short conversations that happen before you meet for the actual play scene. However negotiating a relationship is a series of longer conversations that happen when a couple decides to consider a power exchange dynamic (such as D/s).
14:07
December 31, 2022
1950's Head of Household
1950's Head of Household
While it is more common these days for Dominant/submissive couples to have Top/bottom kinky play, the 1950's head-of-household style D/s relationship is an example of D/s without the T/b. In addition to no kink, some D/s relationships are not sexual either. Top and bottom are different than Dominant and Submissive. Therefore we can stop relating them to one another because ultimately we are making it even more difficult to learn their meanings by doing so.
09:10
December 30, 2022
Munches
Munches
When people ask how to become involved in kink or how to learn, the first thing they are told is “go to a munch!” Munches are a great first step, but like all first steps, they can be intimidating if you don’t know what to expect or how to behave. Munches are a key part of the BDSM community. It is where people go to meet other kinksters, see old friends and to establish themselves in their local community.
09:40
December 29, 2022
To Give You Must First Receive
To Give You Must First Receive
There are people pushing the “must receive before you can give” ideology in the BDSM lifestyle. Meaning a Top (person doing/giving the kink) must experience a kink before they can give and fully understand that kink to a bottom. That would be ok if that Top was into receiving that kink, which is not always the case. Tops have likes and limits too!
07:02
December 28, 2022
The Master's Creed
The Master's Creed
Today we want to jump back in time and share a snapshot from our past. Perhaps this is a bit of a romanticized look at the identity of a Master, you be the judge. But before we had Mottos like RACK and Safe, Sane, and Consensual there were Creeds such as these. They weren't necessarily better, they were just from a different era.
08:13
December 27, 2022
Effectively Processing Change
Effectively Processing Change
What level of intensity is your Power Exchange? How does your dynamic deal with change? Power Exchange can be messy and complicated because it involves people in a relationship.  Because the more they learn and grow, people often change. There will always be things on the distant horizon that you cannot plan for because they may not even exist yet.
14:15
December 26, 2022
Yuletide Breeding Kink
Yuletide Breeding Kink
BDSM United joins the Heathens Podcast for a special Yule celebration. We talk about celebrating this season and winter solstice from both right hand path and left hand path mystic traditions. And we talk about the best type of kink to enjoy for your Yuletime play scenes!
23:47
December 25, 2022
LGBTQ Definitions Part 2
LGBTQ Definitions Part 2
BDSM's Old Guard roots were once almost entirely homosexual men. It took almost thirty years before the scene became largely inclusive of homosexual women too. And then almost ten more before opening up to a significant amount of straight people. Today BDSM is considered pansexual in that it is open to all people, therefore it is good for us to understand words you’ll hear used in LGBTIQA+ communities.
17:22
December 24, 2022
LGBTQ Definitions Part 1
LGBTQ Definitions Part 1
BDSM's Old Guard roots were once almost entirely homosexual men. It took almost thirty years before the scene became largely inclusive of homosexual women too. And then almost ten more before opening up to a significant amount of straight people. Today BDSM is considered pansexual in that it is open to all people, therefore it is good for us to understand words you’ll hear used in LGBTIQA+ communities.
15:15
December 23, 2022
The Healing Benefits Of BDSM
The Healing Benefits Of BDSM
The world of BDSM is broad and incredibly diverse, encompassing everything from the use of a blindfold during sex to forms of consensual torture. People with an interest in BDSM used to be considered dangerous. Today however research suggests it is empowering, therapeutic, and perhaps healing.
13:14
December 22, 2022
BDSM Book Recommendations
BDSM Book Recommendations
Here are my personal BDSM book recommendations. Books have been a big part of my life for a long time, there is much to learn from them. These are some of the books that I teach from, as well. If you are new to BDSM this is definitely the list for you! 
10:27
December 21, 2022
Calling Myself Master
Calling Myself Master
Today we answer the question, "Is it okay for me to Call myself Master?" We briefly look at the various origins of the word and give some sage advice for those who think the honorific may fit them.
07:45
December 20, 2022
BDSM Larping
BDSM Larping
Today we talk about the identity misappropriation that happens when roleplayers use Dom/sub or Master/slave for their kinky scenes. Often times it is confusing because they feel a connection to our identities even though they are simply larping. We have a few suggestions for those involved in the kink of roleplaying.
13:34
December 19, 2022
Ethical Non-Monogamy Roles
Ethical Non-Monogamy Roles
Welcome to part 7 of Identities & Roles in the BDSM Lifestyle! Ethical Non-monogamy (ENM) is having a romantic and/or physical relationship with more than one person. ENM is an umbrella term for swingers, cuckolds, poly, open relationship/marriage, casual dating and more. While this is not really part of the BDSM lifestyle, the two lifestyles do cross over a lot.
10:15
December 18, 2022
Pet & Primal Roles
Pet & Primal Roles
Welcome to part 6b of Identities & Roles in the BDSM Lifestyle! Tops and bottoms are the participants in a scene where one or more kinks are performed. Today we look at more miscellaneous roles within kink scenes.
12:51
December 17, 2022
Top & Bottom Roles
Top & Bottom Roles
Welcome to part 6a of Identities & Roles in the BDSM Lifestyle! Tops and bottoms are the participants in a scene where one or more kinks are performed. You do not have to be in a dynamic with the person you are in the scene with, and sex (at any level) is not a requirement. Your role can change with different scenes, partners or even during the scene.
10:32
December 16, 2022
S&M Roles
S&M Roles
Welcome to part 5 of Identities & Roles in the BDSM Lifestyle! Sadomasochism (SM or S&M) is giving and receiving pleasure from inflicting pain or humiliation on a consenting partner. This is a scene-specific kink role for a Top and a bottom. Today we define some types of S&M play and the roles involved in kinky S&M play scenes.
15:48
December 15, 2022
Bondage Roles
Bondage Roles
Welcome to part 4 of Identities & Roles in the BDSM Lifestyle! Bondage is a part of kink scenes for Tops and bottoms. Bondage can be something as simple as cuffs on during a scene, or at a more difficult skill level such as Shibari. Today we talk about the different types of bondage roles for Tops and bottoms, along with the 12 types of bondage and the types of ropes involved in the kink.
15:48
December 14, 2022
Leather Identities and Families
Leather Identities and Families
Welcome to part 3 of Identities & Roles in the BDSM Lifestyle! The Leather community started around the 1940s having strong roots in the gay biker community and who today we commonly call The Old Guard. Leather families are groups of Leatherfolk who have sworn to treat each other as family, to be there to take care of each other through life's ups and downs. In today's episode we look at writings from MasterTaino and MsTori to help define Leather Identities and the Leather Family.
16:12
December 13, 2022
Power Exchange Identities
Power Exchange Identities
Welcome to part 2 of Identities & Roles in the BDSM Lifestyle! Power exchange is where one person gives the other a certain amount of control over them and the relationship. Some level of power exchange happens in every relationship, both vanilla and BDSM. These identities have nothing to do with kink, or their roles in the bedroom/scene.
14:18
December 12, 2022
Understanding BDSM Identities & Roles
Understanding BDSM Identities & Roles
Welcome to part 1 of Identities & Roles in the BDSM Lifestyle! When first starting your journey in the BDSM lifestyle, you will read and hear a lot about “roles”. There are 2 definitions for “roles” in this lifestyle; 1. How you identify in this lifestyle, and/or within a dynamic. (For example: submissive). 2. What your role is in a scene, a role playing title that is directly related to the kink in the scene. 
11:12
December 11, 2022
How to Answer a Question
How to Answer a Question
Since we are an educational podcast, we tend to ask a lot of questions. Sometimes we take for granted that we all understand how to answer questions. So what better way to resolve this than to teach on answering questions! Communication is a hallmark of BDSM, helping us learn to communicate effectively is the aim of today's podcast.
09:52
December 10, 2022
Humiliation and Degradation
Humiliation and Degradation
One of the kinky things a lot of people are both drawn to and repelled by is that type of play we call Humiliation. We've discovered that no two Tops or bottoms mean quite the same thing when they use that term. It’s more of an umbrella term for lots of different types of emotionally submissive play. Under that umbrella are humiliation, shame, embarrassment, degradation, and objectification.
20:53
December 09, 2022
How to induce Subspace
How to induce Subspace
Although many into BDSM and kink scenes has heard of endorphins, very few people really understand what they are, how they work, and how one can correctly induce the body to produce them. This short primer will answer those questions, and serve as a guide for anyone Topping so that they may successfully send their bottom into Subspace.
22:22
December 08, 2022
Dildos for Men
Dildos for Men
Today's podcast is a how-to for how men should use a dildo because believe it or not, they aren’t just for females to get off on. In fact, we explore some other myths and misconceptions around dildos, aside from the main one: they're just for vaginas.
15:21
December 07, 2022
Littles vs. Ageplay
Littles vs. Ageplay
In today's podcast, we want to break down the difference between the “little” identity and the kink of ageplay. There is a huge misconception that those in a Daddy/little power exchange dynamic include the kinks of ageplay and/or diapers in play scenes or within the dynamic.
13:54
December 06, 2022
Am I a little?
Am I a little?
What is a little within BDSM and how do I know if I am one? Today we look at characteristics of the identity in order to help you discern whether you are a submissive little.
16:34
December 05, 2022
Am I a Daddy Dom?
Am I a Daddy Dom?
What is a Daddy or a Mommy Dom within BDSM and how do I know if I am one? Today we look at characteristics of the identity in order to help you discern whether you are a Daddy.
17:13
December 04, 2022
Bad News for Male Subs
Bad News for Male Subs
Doing a deep dive into the resources available specifically aimed at the Male Sub left me with a sour taste in my mouth. Everything was kink-related and felt aimed at turning men into pieces of meat. There was so little available about having an actual D/s relationship. If I were a male submissive and looked at what is available, I too would falsely think it was all about the kink and roleplay.
08:02
December 03, 2022
Gaslighting and Validation
Gaslighting and Validation
Gaslighting within BDSM can be “You liked it”, “You never said the safe word” or, “You didn’t mean it when you said it!” Although gaslighting is most commonly associated with abusive relationships with other people, you are also capable of gaslighting yourself. Gaslighting is abusive, but Validation makes for healthy relationships!
10:20
December 02, 2022
 Seducing Women on Fetlife
Seducing Women on Fetlife
"Alright, you signed up, you’ve done some searching, and you found your coworker's nude pics. Now you’ve got your junk in your hand and you’re looking to park it down someone's throat. You furiously type, one-handed, posting to as many local groups as you can. So you wait. And wait. And wait." Today we talk about how vanilla people act within our social spaces and give them solutions for having better experiences within our BDSM culture.
13:44
December 01, 2022
Gender Identity within BDSM
Gender Identity within BDSM
How do gender identity and BDSM collide, and does one influence the other? Could our BDSM identity influence our gender identity, and could our gender identity influence our identity of Dominance or submission? Today we consider these questions as we help you define your own sexuality, gender, gender identity, and gender expression.
12:32
November 30, 2022
Sub Frenzy
Sub Frenzy
So a question we've often been asked is what is Frenzy and why is it considered so bad. This comes up often when someone speaks about “sub frenzy” but there is also “Dom frenzy” as well as other variations on the theme. Today we shed some light on these situations by looking at the bigger picture and then how frenzy might manifest in people’s behavior through the want to do ALL the things, all the time, more and more, and all NOW!
23:29
November 29, 2022
Guide to Anal Play
Guide to Anal Play
While we primarily focus on BDSM, it's also important to cover some types of sex education as well. As with many things, small gaps in what we know about basic things can lead to larger problems when we try to bring in more involved levels of kink play. Instead of Googling in incognito, here's a compilation of answers to frequently asked questions about anal play.
18:09
November 28, 2022
Finding Mentors and Protectors
Finding Mentors and Protectors
You might see someone listed on a BDSM profile that they have a Mentor or they are under the Protection of someone in the lifestyle. Where can you find a Mentor or Protector? How do you pick one? Do you even need one? Today we answer those questions and give good advice for finding people who you can trust to guide and protect you within this lifestyle.
11:24
November 27, 2022
Pushing Your Limits
Pushing Your Limits
What does it mean to “push your limits” and who can push them? If you spend any time around other people in this lifestyle you will hear the phrase pushing your limits so today we are talking about what limits should and shouldn't be pushed. We also discuss how to do scenes involving pushing limits.
10:09
November 26, 2022
Edge Play, the Extreme Kinks
Edge Play, the Extreme Kinks
Everything in life has risk, in our vanilla life we learn how to work around those to survive. Every kink has some level of risk, we lower the risk with education and training. Some kinks can be riskier than others and can carry the increased potential for harm and even a fatality. Today we discuss Edge Play and define the differences between hurt and harm.
09:59
November 25, 2022
Thanksgiving Special
Thanksgiving Special
Being kind to each other and showing gratitude to your partner isn’t a kink or vanilla thing, it’s a human one. But because our identities in D/s can be very clearly defined, we can fall into a trap of taking our partner for granted. Submissives and Dominants alike should show and receive gratitude for what we bring to a relationship. Today we talk about ways we can show gratitude within BDSM.
12:60
November 24, 2022
Kink Shaming
Kink Shaming
Kink shaming is criticizing and degrading someone for their desire/need for a kink. It can also come across as shaming if you criticize the kink without directing it at a specific person. Today we talk about kink shaming and fetishizing someone as an object. We also talk about some ways you can be falsely accused of kink shaming.
10:33
November 23, 2022
Kinks, Fetishes, and Limits
Kinks, Fetishes, and Limits
Establishing your kinks and limits is a very important part of this lifestyle. It should be done before vetting a potential play partner, or entering a dynamic. Today we talk about and define kinks vs. fetishes, and discuss soft and hard limits.
13:23
November 22, 2022
Existential Kink
Existential Kink
It's always a good time for looking inwardly and working what is inside us. In pagan circles they call this "Shadow work" because the inward parts of us are veiled in mystery. Today I'm giving a review for a book I found helpful for digging deep inside to figure why I have my kinks and fetishes, and instead of trying to fix them, learning to love and accept them. Get your copy of "Existential Kink: Unmask Your Shadow and Embrace Your Power" at https://amzn.to/3ArNQYZ
17:29
November 21, 2022
Non-Physical Punishments
Non-Physical Punishments
For those in limited power exchange relationships such as D/s or those who aren't into S&M kinks, there are often benefits to correcting behavior and punishing broken rules through non-physical discipline. Here are some ideas for punishing your submissive without being physical or giving them spankings.
19:21
November 20, 2022
Dom Me, Dammit!
Dom Me, Dammit!
One of the most common complaints we get from submissives who are in marriages or relationships that are moving from vanilla to a power exchange relationship is this one: "I want to be Dommed and my husband/wife isn't doing what I need!" Today we talk about ways to ease the frustration of transitioning an already established relationship into a BDSM dynamic.
26:45
November 19, 2022
BDSM New Year's Resolutions
BDSM New Year's Resolutions
It might seem awkward to be talking about New Year's Resolutions months before the end of the year, but goals you actually want to meet take time to plan. Today's podcast gives you some ideas for resolutions you might want to make within BDSM and we talk about how you can take actionable steps to succeed in your resolutions.
12:40
November 18, 2022
Cuckold and Hotwife
Cuckold and Hotwife
Couples in the cuckold/hotwife lifestyle often say that their levels of connection, intimacy, and communication became better after they started experimenting with this fetish. While this fetish can be a positive thing in your life, it can also potentially cause a lot of tension and heartache too. Today we talk about cucking and many of its related kinks and what you need to consider before cucking.
19:17
November 17, 2022
Cultivating Dominance
Cultivating Dominance
While it’s your job as a Dominant and a partner to protect and encourage your sub, when it comes to the scene, the rules of reality no longer apply. When a sub asks, or begs, you to hurt them, or choke them, or pull their hair, then the best choice you can make is to give them the pleasure they desire in that scene. Today we talk about ways you can safely cultivate your Dominant identity within a kink scene.
15:59
November 16, 2022
4 Steps to Help Your Partner Hear Your Concerns
4 Steps to Help Your Partner Hear Your Concerns
Having a partner with whom we can communicate freely and easily is a fundamental piece of the puzzle when it comes to achieving genuine closeness. Yet, even the most communicative of couples can struggle when it comes to finding an adaptive way to give each other feedback. These four principles make the biggest difference when it comes to achieving communication where both people feel seen, heard, and closer to each other.
13:12
November 15, 2022
7 Characteristics of an Ideal Partner
7 Characteristics of an Ideal Partner
There may be no such thing as the perfect partner, but an ideal partner can be found in someone who has developed themselves in certain ways that go beyond the surface. While we each seek out a specific set of qualities that is uniquely meaningful to us alone, there are certain psychological characteristics both you and your partner can aim for that make the flame stronger, more passionate and more fulfilling.
17:46
November 14, 2022
Brat Tamers
Brat Tamers
Today's episode looks at something that was written on FetLife about Bratting and Brat Taming as an opinion article. We draw from what the article describes and translate it for you using traditional BDSM meanings. 
09:20
November 13, 2022
Begging in BDSM
Begging in BDSM
Begging is something that many people include in their BDSM relationship. To each person, it is used for different reasons and causes different reactions. Begging affects those involved on both a physical level and a mental one. Today we talk about how to use begging within your play and within power exchange relationship.
09:18
November 12, 2022
We Need Your Help
We Need Your Help
Primal Piggy shares a quick, informal word about how you can become a Supporter of BDSM United Podcast. Many people have asked us to do Interviews on the podcast and we think that's a great idea! We simply need one small upgrade to our equipment in order to do so. We are looking for 12 supporters to contribute a one-time gift of $10. https://anchor.fm/bdsmunited/support or CashApp $PrimalPiggy
02:08
November 12, 2022
I'm a Complete Newbie!
I'm a Complete Newbie!
BDSM? What is this? Today's podcast assumes you know nothing about our culture and lifestyle and is a first step toward understanding BDSM. We give both a definition and define the common words we use.
26:24
November 11, 2022
A Collector
A Collector
There are a ton of different types of predators within the BDSM lifestyle. This is why we push for everyone to educate themselves (before getting involved with a partner), communicate about everything (asking questions) and trust your gut. Today we talk about safety and introduce you to a type of predator called a Collector. 
09:22
November 10, 2022
A Sadist’s Philosophy of Pain
A Sadist’s Philosophy of Pain
Pain is an intense physical sensation. It has evolved as a warning – the body’s way of telling you that you are in danger or something is wrong. That burns, this is broken, that is cut: you’d better do something about it, and fast! Today we look at the liberating and enriching experience of S&M play.
09:24
November 09, 2022
Asexual Kinksters
Asexual Kinksters
We often say that BDSM isn't always about sex. Asexual kinksters are sometimes an example of this. There are folks on the asexuality spectrum who enjoy diverse expressions of sex and kink with folks of every gender and orientation across the whole sexuality spectrum. Today we look at ways we can make the entire BDSM lifestyle more welcoming to asexuals.
09:31
November 08, 2022
Oath of Service
Oath of Service
This Sex Magick working is an oath that is used by those wishing to enter into a spiritual service-oriented D/s relationship. It could also be used as a Dominant's collaring ceremony for their submissive.
09:52
November 07, 2022
Dark Tantra
Dark Tantra
Today's Sex Magick working is A Surrender Ceremony that empowers partners to practice the Master/slave relationship for their agreed-upon time, to be erotically creative, and to push their limits in the Yoga of Dominance and submission.
12:44
November 06, 2022
Invisible Needles and Psychic Leash
Invisible Needles and Psychic Leash
Today's Sex Magick podcast includes two workings you can do with energy manipulation. First we discuss a needle play working, followed by an energy leash you can form to tie a partner's astral body to yourself.
08:54
November 05, 2022
Flogger Energy Ritual
Flogger Energy Ritual
Today's Sex Magick podcast is a ritual for energy manipulation using a whip or flogger. We discuss how to charge the tool with your intention and the effects it will have on one's astral body.
06:40
November 04, 2022
Bondage and Knot Spells
Bondage and Knot Spells
Today's Sex Magick podcast teaches you how to charge ropes or restraints with specific energies. We also include a common folk spell called the Nine-Knot Spell.
06:49
November 03, 2022
Cane, Flogger, and Knife Invocation
Cane, Flogger, and Knife Invocation
Like any magical or spiritual tools, BDSM tools can be and should be, if you are using them in ritual, charged with energy and intent. Today's Sex Magick podcast includes a Cane Invocation, Knife Blessing, Gag Invocation, Fire Play Invocation, Flogger Invocation, and Lubricant Blessing Invocation.
06:04
November 02, 2022
Suspension Ritual
Suspension Ritual
Today's Sex Magick ritual is a BDSM ceremony before going up on flesh hooks. One individual has to be the Challenger and take on the priestly role. Ideally, it should not be whoever is doing the actual piercing, because both parties need unbroken concentration. The Seeker stands naked before the Challenger and the instruments of pain.
05:37
November 01, 2022
Halloween Special: Terrifying Sexual Fantasies
Halloween Special: Terrifying Sexual Fantasies
Welcome to our Halloween Special. There are many terrifying fetishes in the world — some are fantasies that fall far outside the limits of BDSM. Acting on them will land you in prison, hurt you, hurt others, or worse. These need to be talked about because they’re real and many people have them. Knowledge is power. Being educated about them keeps everyone safer. We talk about what does and doesn't belong within the scope of BDSM, how to tell the difference, and how to get help for your fantasies if needed.
44:31
October 31, 2022
Marks of Ownership
Marks of Ownership
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. Nothing makes a slave feel more owned than being marked. This can be done with a collar, a piercing, a tattoo, or even branding. Today we discuss marks of ownership Masters can give their property.
09:44
October 30, 2022
Slave Positions
Slave Positions
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. Slave positions give the slave clearly defined body language and behavior to use in most any situation. They also empower it to act on an established known standard, versus having to ask, or wonder what is expected of it.
01:15:50
October 29, 2022
Slave Voice Training
Slave Voice Training
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. The goal of slave voice training is to alter the slave’s speech into a pattern and inflection that the Master finds desirable and is befitting its position as slave. Slave learns how, when and where to speak and when to remain silent.
14:19
October 28, 2022
Formal Slave Punishment
Formal Slave Punishment
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. Formal slave punishment is used when there is a serious violation of the rules. It's punishment for a conscious misbehavior or a misbehavior that a reasonable slave would be expected to know.
16:02
October 27, 2022
Slave Punishments
Slave Punishments
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. Slave punishment focuses on bad behavior, intentional or not. Punishment is anything administered by the Master that is very uncomfortable to the slave for the purpose of changing behavior.
17:12
October 26, 2022
Slave Contracts
Slave Contracts
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. The major purpose of a slave contract is to define the goals and set standards expected of a slave and establish the responsibilities of the Master. A slave training contract reflects what is expected in the re-education of the slave.
15:12
October 25, 2022
Thought Training
Thought Training
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. Incorrect behavior on the part of a slave is always associated with incorrect thoughts or a lack of attention to correct behavior. Faulty thinking has to be recognized and challenged by the Master. Often a slave is unaware of these faulty cognitions until uncovered, discussed and challenged.
11:28
October 24, 2022
Self-Image Training
Self-Image Training
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. Today we talk about the role developing a positive self-image plays within slave training. A positive self-image occurs when a slave’s fundamental beliefs are to accept and enjoy the learned behaviors required to serve, obey and please its Master. 
12:51
October 23, 2022
Controlling Emotions
Controlling Emotions
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. Today we look at the training of Emotions and Sensations. Emotions are a significant part of everyone’s inner lives. Past life experiences as well as current events create the slave's emotional reactions to slave training. 
10:54
October 22, 2022
The Push/Pull Theory
The Push/Pull Theory
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. Today we look at the push/pull theory. It describes the internal struggle a slave goes through in the process of accepting changes during training.
13:30
October 21, 2022
Details of Operant Conditioning
Details of Operant Conditioning
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. Today we take a more detailed look at Operant Conditioning. Operant conditioning is mainly based on four concepts for dealing with proper and bad behavior.
13:24
October 20, 2022
Relationships Control
Relationships Control
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. The control of a slave should be extended beyond just the time and relationship with Master. Rules are established for the relationships a slave has with others and is often divided into categories such as rules for social, employment, family, and other slaves.
09:01
October 19, 2022
Privacy Control
Privacy Control
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. In today's episode we talk about controlling slave's privacy. A slave has no place of seclusion from the Master and is always subject to observation. Any retreat or solitude a slave is granted as a privilege by the Master.
09:09
October 18, 2022
Controlling Slave's Body
Controlling Slave's Body
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. Controlling physical actions means the controlling the actual body of the slave. This involves the Master establishing ownership of the body movements of the slave. The control of its movements and actions is a significant part of the slave’s learning how to serve, obey, and please. 
08:00
October 17, 2022
Controlling Slave's Space
Controlling Slave's Space
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. The area or space a slave is occupying should be controlled. In the early stages of slave training, control their space and where to be at all times. The term “Space” includes the “personal space” of a slave. A slave has no “personal space” that is separate from the Master. For a slave the term “personal space” no longer applies. It is all the “Master’s space.”
08:33
October 16, 2022
The Training Begins
The Training Begins
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. On today's episode we begin to talk about the actual training process. The goal of behavioral slave training is to establish behavior that is consistent and reflects its slavery. This is agreed to training by both parties for the purpose of becoming closer in a Master/slave relationship.
11:20
October 15, 2022
Erotic Self-Hypnosis
Erotic Self-Hypnosis
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. You can also learn to erotic hypnotize through practicing self-hypnosis. We share a simple method that you can practice yourself.
09:38
October 14, 2022
Erotic Hypnosis
Erotic Hypnosis
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. Erotic hypnosis is a tool used to  reduce inhibitions, eliminate shame and guilt, and increase arousal by  surrendering to sexual pleasure. Today we talk about hypnosis as a tool for slave training.
12:38
October 13, 2022
Classical and Operant Conditioning
Classical and Operant Conditioning
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. On today's episode we talk about combining Ivan Pavlov's classical conditioning and B.F. Skinner's operant conditioning together with Sadomasochism.
11:30
October 12, 2022
Who is a Master?
Who is a Master?
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. Today we look at the Master involved in slave training. The Dominant exercising dominance, will feed the submissive nature of the submissive.
16:30
October 11, 2022
Advice Before Beginning Training
Advice Before Beginning Training
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. In this episode we talk about negotiations and vetting and their importance before entering into something as intense as slave training.
11:37
October 10, 2022
Who is a slave?
Who is a slave?
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. Today we look at the "who" is involved in slave training by looking at the submissive. We examine the conscious,  subconscious, and unconscious that makes us a slave.
15:01
October 09, 2022
Slave Ownership
Slave Ownership
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. Today we talk about slave ownership and some of the planning involved in developing a training program.
15:13
October 08, 2022
Introduction to Slave Training
Introduction to Slave Training
Essentially Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. The process of Slave Training needs to be consensual and negotiated. The type of mental training within BDSM has to do with the practice of changing the way the individual thinks, perceives, or behaves, consciously, and subconsciously based on the will of another for the pleasure of both the submissive, and the Dominant.
11:32
October 07, 2022
Cord-Cutting Ceremony
Cord-Cutting Ceremony
Today's Sex Magick exercise is the Cord-Cutting Ceremony. This practice can help you regain lost power by setting you free from unhealthy relationship patterns. By clearing old attachments, you create space to relate in the present moment.
07:12
October 06, 2022
Energetic Sex
Energetic Sex
Energetic sex is a Sex Magick exercise that can be a doorway to increased sexual chemistry and can expand pleasure and heighten awareness. It can also help integrate healthy masculine and feminine energies within.
07:22
October 05, 2022
Chastity Tease and Denial
Chastity Tease and Denial
It is one of our favorite seasons on the year! Perhaps it's the faint chill in the air, the Spooky Season or Samhain. For a lot of Mistresses and their subs it's the glorious month of Locktober! If tease and denial interest you during Chastity, here are some fun SM games you can try.
17:07
October 04, 2022
Being a Keyholder
Being a Keyholder
It is one of our favorite seasons on the year! Perhaps it's the faint chill in the air, the Spooky Season or Samhain. For a lot of Mistresses and their subs it's the glorious month of Locktober! Today's podcast focuses on the role of a Keyholder within chastity play. We discuss orgasm control, tease and denial, and common methods of behavior modification.
13:29
October 03, 2022
Chastity Contracts
Chastity Contracts
It is one of our favorite seasons on the year! Perhaps it's the faint chill in the air, the Spooky Season or Samhain. For a lot of Mistresses and their subs it's the glorious month of Locktober! Many people who enjoy the control of wearing a chastity belt or cage also enjoy having a clear set of rules and expectations to abide by. For this reason, many Keyholders choose to implement a chastity contract.
16:01
October 02, 2022
Female Chastity Belts
Female Chastity Belts
The season is starting to change and mentions of pumpkin spice, Hocus Pocus and Halloween are floating through the air. It is one of our favorite seasons on the year. For a lot of Mistresses and their subs it's the glorious month of Locktober! Today's episode is a User Guide to buying, fitting, and wearing a Chastity Belt for bodies with a vulva.
14:17
October 01, 2022
Male Chastity Device User Guide
Male Chastity Device User Guide
The season is starting to change and mentions of pumpkin spice, Hocus Pocus and Halloween are floating through the air. It is one of our favorite seasons on the year. For a lot of Mistresses and their subs it's the glorious month of Locktober! Today's episode is a User Guide to buying, fitting, and wearing a Chastity Cage for bodies with a penis.
17:59
September 30, 2022
5 Rules for Locktober
5 Rules for Locktober
It is one of our favorite seasons on the year! Perhaps it's the faint chill in the air, the Spooky Season or Samhain. For a lot of Mistresses and their subs it's the glorious month of Locktober! Locktober is intended to be a fun challenge for everyone partaking in the world of chastity, just like the vast range of cages, there is no one style that suits everyone. That said, here are five basic principles we suggest you follow throughout the month.
07:58
September 29, 2022
Merging into Oneness
Merging into Oneness
Today's Sex Magick exercise is Merging into Oneness. The intention of this practice is to experience union, dissolve the ego, and realize our divinity, while making love.
07:21
September 28, 2022
Locktober Training
Locktober Training
It is one of our favorite seasons on the year! Perhaps it's the faint chill in the air, the Spooky Season or Samhain. For a lot of Mistresses and their subs it's the glorious month of Locktober! The month is supposed to be a challenge - but how used to long-term chastity wear are you really? If you’ve never done more than a couple of hours or never done an overnight being locked in a device, then there’s some training to do.
05:24
September 28, 2022
Locktober Mindset
Locktober Mindset
It is one of our favorite seasons on the year! Perhaps it's the faint chill in the air, the Spooky Season or Samhain. For a lot of Mistresses and their subs it's the glorious month of Locktober! Before we jump right into chastity devices, let's talk about the mental stuff. Whether alone or with a partner, the act of Chastity is about Bondage and Discipline. 
07:57
September 27, 2022
What is Locktober?
What is Locktober?
It is one of our favorite seasons on the year! Perhaps it's the faint chill in the air, the Spooky Season or Samhain. For a lot of Mistresses and their subs it's the glorious month of Locktober! You may have seen the mentions of Locktober across social media and wondered what it was all about? In this series we are sharing a wealth of information about having fun with chastity.
08:31
September 26, 2022
Yoni Mudra
Yoni Mudra
Today's Sex Magick exercise is the Yoni Mudra. Yoni means “womb space” and mudra means “seal”; thus this is the yogic practice of returning to the state of mind experienced in the womb. Yoni mudra is often used to awaken the kundalini, bringing about higher states of consciousness.
04:47
September 25, 2022
Types of Play: Wax Play
Types of Play: Wax Play
One of the most confusing parts of this lifestyle for many people is the toys we use. A person may look at some of the toys and think to themselves, does someone actually enjoy that? For others, the idea is extremely exciting and they can't wait to try it. Wax is one of the most common forms of kinky sexual activity. Though it's very popular, it's also how a lot of people get hurt. With wax play, you are essentially playing with fire! We talk about the risks involved and how to safely enjoy this type of BDSM play.
11:28
September 24, 2022
Types of Play: Plugs, Dildos and Vibes
Types of Play: Plugs, Dildos and Vibes
One of the most confusing parts of this lifestyle for many people is the toys we use. A person may look at some of the toys and think to themselves, does someone actually enjoy that? For others, the idea is extremely exciting and they can't wait to try it. On today's episode we talk about the various insertables available and how to safely use them in your BDSM play.
16:23
September 23, 2022
Death Meditation
Death Meditation
When we come to terms with our death before we die, we can become more fully alive. This age-old shamanic practice produces a deep meditative state to cultivate witness consciousness and detach from the ego, body, and other illusions. Within Sex Magick this meditation helps you become more "present" and in the moment in sex and lovemaking.
09:05
September 22, 2022
Types of Play: Clamps
Types of Play: Clamps
One of the most confusing parts of this lifestyle for many people is the toys we use. A person may look at some of the toys and think to themselves, does someone actually enjoy that? For others, the idea is extremely exciting and they can't wait to try it. Today we talk about the different types of clamps available and  the safety to consider with this type of BDSM play.
13:02
September 21, 2022
Sex Chakra Sound Bath
Sex Chakra Sound Bath
This Sex Magick exercise is known to rejuvenate the body at the cellular level. Even the scientific community recommends sound healing for the treatment of various conditions and diseases. It has been proved to promote relaxation and pain relief and to release emotional blockages. More specifically, sound can activate the function and flow of both the physical and energetic sex center.
10:08
September 20, 2022
Domme: Because Women Dom, too!
Domme: Because Women Dom, too!
You know, it’s an amusing thing, the stereotype: the thigh-high boots, the fishnet stockings, the corset, the riding crop, the smirking smile. But that’s how some people still think of the Dominant Woman. Likely as not, unless you’re one of her chosen, you’ll never know who is one and who is not. She rarely fits the stereotypes you imagine.
09:26
September 19, 2022
Becoming a Male Submissive
Becoming a Male Submissive
We often hear people (usually men) claiming Dominant Women are rare. In our experience, this is not true. We encounter many women who would enjoy dominating men if they could find one who meets their needs. Being a Male submissive may not be what you think it is at all. There are very few men who understand what a Dominant woman is looking for, what she actually wants.
15:05
September 18, 2022
Types of Play: Oils and Ointments
Types of Play: Oils and Ointments
One of the most confusing parts of this lifestyle for many people is the toys we use. A person may look at some of the toys and think to themselves, does someone actually enjoy that? For others, the idea is extremely exciting and they can't wait to try it. Today we are discussing many of the different types of oils and ointments used during BDSM play. We also tell you the risks involved and how to safely use them. 
11:55
September 17, 2022
Shakti Shake
Shakti Shake
This exercise in our Sex Magick podcast series is a bit like a Kundalini working. This simple but powerful practice offers deep somatic benefits such as discharging stagnant energy, stimulating lymphatic circulation, reducing stress, releasing trauma, and increasing an overall sense of well-being. If you have PTSD or tend to dissociate, be extra mindful that this practice is done with a felt sense of the body and present awareness.
07:29
September 16, 2022
Types of Play: Spanking
Types of Play: Spanking
One of the most confusing parts of this lifestyle for many people is the toys we use. A person may look at some of the toys and think to themselves, does someone actually enjoy being hit with that? For others, the idea is extremely exciting and they can't wait to try it. In this episode we talk about erotic spanking including the various positions, techniques, and sensations involved.
15:11
September 15, 2022
Ecstatic Dance
Ecstatic Dance
Although this is specifically not a sexual practice or a place to pick up potential partners, it is very effective for opening erotic channels throughout your body that lead to greater embodied awareness. Ultimately, ecstatic dance will put you in touch with your humanity by getting you out of your head and into your heart. Keep moving. Push through your limitations and be curious about what is on the other side. Allow the energy to move through you.
07:50
September 14, 2022
Sensate Focusing
Sensate Focusing
This next exercise in our Sex Magick series are simple but powerful techniques that can help you increase sexual mindfulness and decrease sexual anxiety. You’ll learn to shift from having a goal orientation in lovemaking to being in the moment. During all stages of sensate focusing, the focus is on sensations, and the exercise may be stopped or slowed down if either partner becomes anxious or orgasm focused.
07:04
September 13, 2022
Types of Play: Paddles
Types of Play: Paddles
One of the most confusing parts of this lifestyle for many people is the toys we use. A person may look at some of the toys and think to themselves, does someone actually enjoy being hit with that? For others, the idea is extremely exciting and they can't wait to try it. There are all kinds of toys available to be used and each one gives a different sensation. In the episode we talk about paddles, crops, and straps. We discuss the different types, how they feel and how to use them. If you watch us on YouTube you can see items from our personal collection.
17:12
September 12, 2022
Sexual Divination
Sexual Divination
Divination is the art of seeking hidden knowledge by the aid of supernatural powers. Sacred objects are used to gain answers to questions or to foretell the future. In this exercise, your eros is used as a divination tool in place of a crystal ball, dowsing rod, or tea leaves. You can practice with a partner or partners, as long as everyone is in the purest state of surrender and service before engaging in this work.
08:01
September 11, 2022
Types of Play: Floggers
Types of Play: Floggers
One of the most confusing parts of this lifestyle for many people is the toys we use. A person may look at some of the toys and think to themselves, does someone actually enjoy being hit with that? For others, the idea is extremely exciting and they can't wait to try it. There are all kinds of toys available to be used and each one gives a different sensation. In the episode we talk about floggers, different types, how they feel and how to use them. If you watch us on YouTube you can see items from our personal collection.
22:56
September 10, 2022
Self-Pleasuring Meditation
Self-Pleasuring Meditation
This practice promotes self-love and induces an extraordinary state of being so that you can enjoy longer-lasting lovemaking. This is not a genital-focused exercise but instead a whole-being experience. Self-pleasuring is different for everyone; there are as many variations on this practice as there are people.
06:56
September 09, 2022
Contacting Your Spirit Guides
Contacting Your Spirit Guides
To gain a broader perspective, guidance, protection, and/or inspiration. This practice can radically accelerate your spiritual growth. The more you practice this, the more aware you become of the symbolic language of your spirit guides.
07:35
September 08, 2022
Latihan: Moving into the Unknown
Latihan: Moving into the Unknown
Beyond preconceived notions about sex and lovemaking, Latihan allows you to open to all of existence and feel the life-force energy flowing through your body. The more you practice this, the more you will be able to make love to the mystery.
06:37
September 07, 2022
Sacred Pain
Sacred Pain
Cultures all over the world have explored ways to use the power of Pain as a spiritual tool. Pain is an extremely intense pattern of energy, and it can be used either by the recipient or by the inflictor. In today's episode we talk about ways to use pain as a magickal ritual technique as well as the use of pain for pleasure within BDSM.
19:20
September 06, 2022
Spiritual Aftercare and Triggers
Spiritual Aftercare and Triggers
In BDSM, Aftercare is the period of time after a scene in which partners attend to one another's physical, emotional, and psychological needs. When a magickal working, like other BDSM scenes, is complete spiritual aftercare is also important. It's a matter of respect for these forces that we work with as well as our responsibility as a good partner. In today's episode we talk about types of Aftercare as well as how to care for a partner if they are triggered in any way.
13:22
September 05, 2022
Communication During Sex Magick
Communication During Sex Magick
It can be difficult even for those experienced in BDSM to verbalize articulately in the midst of an intense scene. Even the most articulate and poetic people go confused and non-verbal as part of a scene. In today's episode of our Sex Magick series we cover topics related to Communication during rituals and exercises. We give you several possible solutions for when communication goes wrong. 
11:57
September 04, 2022
Sex Magick Safety Checklist
Sex Magick Safety Checklist
All BDSM should be done using a safety motto such as RACK, an acronym meaning Risk-Aware Consensual Kink. In this episode of our Sex Magick series we look at aspects of safety to consider when joining BDSM with magickal practice. We deal with many topics such as fluiding bonding of ritual containers and practicing safety in your sacred space.
15:19
September 03, 2022
The Chakra System and Magickal Mastery
The Chakra System and Magickal Mastery
In this episode we give a detailed overview of the Chakra System. While every tradition may not utilize this system, there is still much to absorb that will be useful when dealing with the type of energy work within Sex Magick. Beginning at the Root Chakra and moving up to the Crown Chakra we talk about their association to the body and what types of energies each chakra deals with. At the end of this episode we give you advice for where to start if Mastery of magickal practice is important to you beyond what we will learn about in this series. Buy Peter J. Carroll's Liber Null at https://amzn.to/3cvLpvH
20:29
September 02, 2022
Intro to Magick
Intro to Magick
Before jumping into the practice of Sex Magick we wanted to lay the foundational groundwork of general magickal practice. Utilizing Penczak's "The Mystic Foundation" we define and introduce magick along with basic exercises in Energy Manipulation and Grounding. Buy the book at: https://amzn.to/3R7N2Pd
18:55
September 01, 2022
Sex Magick History
Sex Magick History
In today's episode we look at the History of Sexual Magick. It has been used by mankind since the dawn of history. With the rise of Christianity, magick in general and sex magick in particular were initially discouraged, and ultimately banned in western culture. Today the stigma attached to sexuality is fading. Most sexual practices are at least tolerated, if not condoned in western society. We look at some key figures who shaped magick along the way.
09:17
August 31, 2022
Sex Magick FAQ
Sex Magick FAQ
BDSM United's podcast series "Exercises in Sex Magick" teaches you how to do practical workings in sex magick. Borrowing from a diversity of mystic traditions, every episode helps you on whatever path you follow. Use your kinks to envoke personal mastery, prosperity, or a deeper connection with your partner... or connect with the universe and invoke the deities you choose! In this first episode we open up by answering some frequently asked questions.
15:01
August 31, 2022
Lubes for Kinky Play
Lubes for Kinky Play
There are many kinds of lube but we want to focus on those that best meet the needs of most fetish play: Silicone, Water-Based, and Hybrid. We talk about each and some of the specific kinks associated with lube. And we give general advice for other types of lubes that are used for more specific kinks. BONUS: We wanted to give a little sneak peek into one of the workings from our upcoming series on Sex Magick, using lube as a magical tool. Anyone who is a kitchen witch should have lots of good fun with these recipes. For the rest of us, lube is also a fun tool to charge with our intentions... even if you don't mix it with anything! Here's a link to a lube brand I recommend: https://amzn.to/3ALZMoM Here's a link to cum lube: https://amzn.to/3pHGc6X
14:37
August 25, 2022
The Ultimate Guide to Brats and Bratting
The Ultimate Guide to Brats and Bratting
Outside of BDSM, brattiness is typically viewed as a derogatory description of someone who is usually immature and certainly ill-mannered or insubordinate. So how did a derogatory term become a prominent kink within modern BDSM? And how do we view brattiness... better yet, how "should" we view brats and brattiness? In this special episode PrimalPiggy looks to our history to see where this kink comes from and then helps us see where it does and doesn't belong within BDSM.
18:12
August 24, 2022
Enema Play
Enema Play
Klismaphilia is the fetish characterized by a powerful sexual gratification involving enemas. To some, the inclination towards enemas may be considered a normal part of cleaning out before anal bottoming, while for others it comes along with a variety of other fetishes. To a sadomasochist the sensation of pain or burning may be arousing. There may also be some fetish toward the amount of liquid one can hold in their rectum. Pleasure might be derived from the ability to hold it in for a long time, or from someone forcing them to retain the liquids. We talk about different ways to use enemas and the safety involved in using them for kinky play.
11:25
August 23, 2022
Lactation Fetish
Lactation Fetish
Lactation fetish is where an individual is sexually aroused by drinking breast milk, watching a woman lactate, or having sex with a lactating woman. The sexual fetish can be enhanced by pregnancy, but many individuals also enjoy post-pregnancy lactation. Today we look at breast milk and how to handle it safely, as well as four kinds of adult-milking fetish practices. Goat Milking Machine useful for hucows https://amzn.to/3R2GC3n
10:30
August 22, 2022
What is a Sadist and Masochist?
What is a Sadist and Masochist?
Sadism and Masochism were originally medical terms that designated aberrant sexual behaviors exhibited by individuals. Sadomasochism and fetishism became visible in the late nineteenth century because certain people were being aroused by things that did not fit the standard definition of “normal” sex. But what do those terms mean today? To answer that we look at four classes of modern Sadists. And then seven uses for Masochistic pain and how to separate what is pleasurable from what is harmful, as we wrap up our look at the SM from our BDSM acronym.
15:28
August 21, 2022
The "SM" of BDSM
The "SM" of BDSM
Bondage and Discipline were primarily about the structure and practice of power exchange relationships. Today we begin looking at the SM of Sadism and Masochism within the BDSM acronym. We look to our history to define them and we learn about "scenes" within BDSM and the types of erotic play they include.
14:28
August 20, 2022
Sweat Fetish
Sweat Fetish
As far as fetishism goes, getting turned on by sweat is objectively not weird. In fact, it’s one of the most common kinks out there! Endless streams of curated sweaty content featuring men and women basking in their favorite salty excretion. We talk about the fetish and many fun ways to do it, including used sweaty underwear! Today's episode is sponsored by Sofia Gray, use promo code PrimalPiggy for 10% off. Here's our affiliate link: www.sofiagray.com/?rel=605046
15:10
August 19, 2022
10 Facts About Spit Play
10 Facts About Spit Play
"I draw my tongue back into my mouth, swallow the hint of street dust I’ve just licked off her boot, wet my lips so they will glide across the leather more smoothly, then lick her boot again, again, again"... From bootblacking to oral sex, Spit Play is an important part of our kink community! PrimalPiggy shares ten facts about saliva to help you see how Spit may fit into your kinky play.
10:42
August 19, 2022
Blood Play
Blood Play
Many kinky people have an interest in using blood in sexual play. For some, the intimate connection between blood and intercourse is sexually stirring. The smell, sight, and texture of blood may be arousing, too. There are numerous fetishes that involve blood, such as cutting, knife play, needle play, and drinking it. Most of them are considered edge play, that is BDSM activities that are considered risky, or on the "edge" of what might be considered safe. Therefore we look at the many safety considerations as well as some of the fun ways to use blood in your kinky play!
16:52
August 17, 2022
Fluid Bonding
Fluid Bonding
All sexual and kink activity comes with risks. That’s true regardless of whether you’re in a relationship, using barrier protection, or on birth control. Fluid bonding refers to the decision to stop using barrier protection during sex and exchange bodily fluids with your partner. Fluid bonding commonly refers to any secretions or fluids produced during sex. We talk about the reasons why you may decide to become fluid bonded and what you need in order to make an informed decision.
12:04
August 16, 2022
10 Facts About Cum Play
10 Facts About Cum Play
Cum is a fluid that can be a lot of fun! And even though it is a part of a lot of the sex people have, often there's a lot we don't know about it. On today's podcast PrimalPiggy looks at ten facts about cum play to help us better understand the kink... to hopefully have a lot more fun making cum and playing with it!
15:56
August 15, 2022
Beginner's Guide To Watersports
Beginner's Guide To Watersports
To pee or not to pee? That is today's question! If you're ready to make a real splash in your extracurricular activities, then urine the right place. There are several fun things about urine, varying from a simple arousal surrounding the thought or sight of urine, the primal connection and intimacy with a partner, or the degradation and humiliation of a BDSM scene. We look at them all and more on today's podcast.
17:48
August 14, 2022
Correction and Punishments
Correction and Punishments
As we wrap up our look at the "D" for Discipline in our BDSM acronym, we need to consider correction and punishment. These are not just essential to dominance and obedience but also to growth. PrimalPiggy looks at both some uncommon and common forms of correction and punishment that help a submissive to want to and to try their best to be obedient. Bondage and Discipline made it into the acronym because they are important parts of our relationships.
17:08
August 13, 2022
How To Set Rules Within BDSM
How To Set Rules Within BDSM
Depending on the type of power exchange relationship and the different persons involved in the relationship, rules, boundaries, and limits will look different. Primal Piggy helps define and distinguish the differences between the three and gives insight to the process of creating rules and forming a training program within BDSM. This is an important podcast you won't want to miss!
17:09
August 12, 2022
The Most Powerful Tool for Discipline
The Most Powerful Tool for Discipline
One of the most important parts of all power exchange relationships is consistency. Even if we were to enjoy the adventure of exploring a new kink every night, for our relationship to function we still need the consistency of the Dominant being dominant and the submissive being submissive. It's also important for consistency to extend to actions. PrimalPiggy talks about one of the most powerful tools we have to maintain Discipline in power exchange relationships.
10:34
August 11, 2022
The Identity of Switch and the Role of Versatile
The Identity of Switch and the Role of Versatile
Lots of popular BDSM resources use the word Switch to mean two totally different things. This was actually popularized by TNG because in very Traditional BDSM the identity of Switch did not exist. The identity of Switch is a person who has the potential to be the Dominant in one relationship dynamic and the submissive in another relationship dynamic. However, anyone who prefers to be the Top during some kinks and the bottom during other kinks in a scene is Versatile. PrimalPiggy helps you decipher the difference in today's podcast!
11:34
August 10, 2022
Service-oriented Submissives
Service-oriented Submissives
An often forgotten part of Discipline is Service. Service plays at least a small part in most every relationship dynamic because most protocols involve some aspect of service. In the book "Real Service" Joshua Tenpenny offers four Rules of Service which we look at in today's podcast. Service often helps define and strengthen a power exchange. It is an important part of Discipline that more couples should be mindful about and look for ways to further integrate service-related protocols into their relationship.
13:05
August 09, 2022
Power Exchange Protocols
Power Exchange Protocols
Protocol can look like a lot of different things but it present in every power exchange dynamic. Protocol is the repeatable, consistent actions that define Dominant and define submissive. Those defining actions may look as different as the Dominant and submissive involved in the relationship dynamic, yet most protocols will follow a similar structure.
13:20
August 07, 2022
Scat Play
Scat Play
Coprophilia comes from two Greek words meaning "excrement fondness" and is the official name for the fetish involving sexual arousal and pleasure using poop. This fetish also sometimes called Scat play is often one of the fastest to land on a hard limit list although many people also often enjoy other kinks that come in close contact with feces. PrimalPiggy teaches about the reasons some enjoy the kink and some safe ways to do it.
15:44
August 05, 2022
The Structure of BDSM Relationships
The Structure of BDSM Relationships
When most BDSM resources speak about Discipline they focus on punishments. Putting such a large emphasis on punishments instead of power exchange has caused a distortion. Discipline isn't a kink, it's the structure of power exchange relationships. Starting from the basic psychological and social building blocks of any society or culture our relationships include: Structure, Protocols/Rules, and Routines/Rituals. Cumulatively these three create the building blocks on which a system of Rewards/Benefits and Consequences/Punishments are derived. This is the what the "D" for Discipline within BDSM stands for.
12:53
August 04, 2022
What is Discipline?
What is Discipline?
The "D" in our BDSM acronym is easily the most overlooked and misunderstood part of our acronym. Together with the mental and physical Bondage of controlling and being controlled, Discipline is the umbrella for all of the structure, etiquette, protocol, service, routine, ritual, training, correction, and punishment involved in power exchange relationships.
10:19
August 03, 2022
Rope Bondage
Rope Bondage
We've covered a lot about the "B" in our BDSM acronym, saving Rope Bondage for last. There are a lot of general things to learn about safety, negotiations, and being risk-aware long before you even consider picking up a piece of rope (or letting someone tie you up). For those ready to explore Rope Bondage we share the 10 Benefits of Rope.
12:51
August 02, 2022
Spiritual Bondage
Spiritual Bondage
While Bondage is a part of Power Exchange and a Kink, growing in Bondage is also a spiritual or sacred exercise that depends on one's will, consent, endurance, and purpose for using bondage. In this episode we look at Joseph Bean's essay on Sacred Bondage from the book Leatherfolk. We're not talking religion, rather using bondage to assist in the realization of one’s potential, and the development of one’s abilities.
11:18
August 01, 2022
Getting Started with Bondage
Getting Started with Bondage
While Bondage made it into the acronym because of its association with power exchange, bondage is also a very popular kink. But how do you get started exploring the kink of Bondage? PrimalPiggy tells you how to get started and what to avoid when adding Bondage to your kinky playtime.
11:37
July 30, 2022
Resting Slave Positions
Resting Slave Positions
As we continue looking at Mental Bondage as part of the "B" in our BDSM acronym, you'll see that bondage exists in both service and in rest. Within a relationship dynamic, the submissive is always mentally bound to the Dominant. Bondage brings connection and keeps the submissive attentive to the commands of the Dominant.
10:24
July 29, 2022
Mental Bondage
Mental Bondage
As we continue to look at the letters of our BDSM acronym, today we examine how mental bondage works within protocol. While we will continue to talk about the philosophy of bondage, you now get to see some of the ways bondage is practically applied within BDSM. When a Dominant gives any command of movement which the submissive obeys, you are practicing mental bondage.
14:49
July 28, 2022
Is BDSM Biblical?
Is BDSM Biblical?
PrimalPiggy looks into Biblical Theology to see if we find BDSM within the pages of Christian Scripture. He looks at verses like Isaiah 53 and the Song of Solomon. He also briefly talks about Domestic Discipline and Consent. He ends with some advice about using the Bible to determine what you do with your life.
26:51
July 27, 2022
BDSM is Satanic
BDSM is Satanic
BDSM has a covenant theology of it's own typically found in either a collar or a contract. There are blessings to be found for obedience to the Dominant and curses for subordination. BDSM's covenant theology looks a lot like The Satanic Bible. Your host PrimalPiggy isn't a Satanist but often his submissive wonders if he is the devil incarnate. 
17:35
July 26, 2022
Two Viewpoints on Bondage
Two Viewpoints on Bondage
Continuing to look at the "B" in BDSM we examine two viewpoints on Bondage and show how Protocol links Bondage to Power Exchange. Join us for another podcast in our BDSM Summer School series.
15:04
July 26, 2022
Bondage Within Power Exchange
Bondage Within Power Exchange
We are looking at the 4 letters of our BDSM acronym in this series. Currently we are looking at the "B" for Bondage and today we are looking at how Bondage is part of power exchange relationships.
08:43
July 24, 2022
Why Bondage?
Why Bondage?
During this summer series we look at the 4 letters of the BDSM acronym. Today we ask ourselves "Why Bondage?"
07:38
July 23, 2022
I Think I'm Dating A Serial Killer
I Think I'm Dating A Serial Killer
What are red flags and why do they make everyone I date look like they might be a serial killer? Primal Piggy discusses vetting potential and existing partners, what to look for and how to react to the red flags you find. Should you ask more questions? Or should you run for your life!?!?
39:35
March 10, 2022
BDSM is a CRIME!
BDSM is a CRIME!
In the world of risk-aware consensual kink, one risk many do not realize they are taking is that someone can not give consent to receive some BDSM play. Primal Piggy helps mitigate that risk by discussing the differences between BDSM play and actual Abuse.
38:41
March 08, 2022
Is Consensual Slavery Ethical?
Is Consensual Slavery Ethical?
What are the differences between BDSM Slavery and Human Trafficking, Forced Labor, and Bonded Labor? Within BDSM what makes Master/slave relationships ethical? Primal Piggy defines submission and slavery and shows how BDSM culture is safe, sane, and consensual towards persons on the right side of the slash.
40:57
March 04, 2022
That 18 Year Old BDSM Master
That 18 Year Old BDSM Master
Within BDSM culture how do people get their Titles? What Title should I use? How do I know whose Title I can trust? Primal Piggy draws from BDSM Tradition to explain where Titles (Honorifics) came from and how some of that has changed within modern BDSM. He explains what different titles mean and how to address people within different levels of protocol. 
33:09
March 02, 2022
BDSM Frequently Asked Questions
BDSM Frequently Asked Questions
People who are curious about and exploring BDSM often have a thousand different Questions: Why should I consider BDSM? Is it safe? How do I meet people? How do I find a partner? Where do I even start? Primal Piggy looks at and answers some of the common FAQ on today's podcast. 
27:58
February 28, 2022
The Very Basics of BDSM
The Very Basics of BDSM
Where do you begin if you know almost nothing about the erotic practices commonly called BDSM? In the episode Primal Piggy starts at the very beginning with the meaning of the name, its historical origins, and what BDSM looks like in erotic play scenes. 
29:54
February 27, 2022
The D in BDSM
The D in BDSM
Forming the acronym BDSM was actually two worlds colliding together. There was originally BD and SM that merged in the late 90's... so where did the DS come from? Primal Piggy shows you that everything that makes up the DS is already included in the world of Bondage and Discipline. 
30:28
February 24, 2022
The BDSM Test and TNG
The BDSM Test and TNG
Many people claim not to take it seriously, yet you'll find it almost everywhere! Primal Piggy does a deep dive into the "Test" that helped shape BDSM's The Next Generation and explains what went wrong and how we got here.
01:15:34
November 14, 2021
BDSM: Slave Training 103
BDSM: Slave Training 103
Primal Piggy offers some guidelines to consider when determining what punishment methods you may want to use in your relationship dynamic, when you should administer it, and how you may want to enforce it.
38:21
September 28, 2021
BDSM: Slave Training 102
BDSM: Slave Training 102
Tone and Manner of Speech, Eye Restrictions, and Body Posture are all used to emphasize the place of a submissive in comparison to the dominant. Primal Piggy talks about how we can use these subtle details to add flavor to our relationships.
37:14
September 28, 2021
BDSM: Slave Training 101
BDSM: Slave Training 101
Slave Training is teaching a submissive all the things they need to know in order to practice the most complicated, ritualistic, and service oriented relationship. Borrowed from the M/s dynamic, Primal Piggy looks at how we can all use the technique and psychology behind Slave Positions in our relationships.
01:34:34
September 28, 2021
PrimalPiggy talks Polyamory!
PrimalPiggy talks Polyamory!
Polyamorous relationships take many forms and can include many different levels of intimacy. The possibilities are limited only by the needs and desires of the parties involved. PrimalPiggy talks about how to overcome the challenges of a poly lifestyle and how he has found success with being polyamorous.
14:50
September 28, 2021
BDSM: Self-Discovery
BDSM: Self-Discovery
When you've been in the BDSM lifestyle for a while and you feel like you've tried everything, perhaps it's time to begin transitioning to the next level. Relationship Dynamics can be about more than just playing scenes, with a bit of self-discovery they can be about growth!
35:43
September 28, 2021
High Protocol: Is it for you?
High Protocol: Is it for you?
Many want a clearly defined social structure within their relationship dynamic with both rules and rituals to govern the way the relationship is practiced. Primal Piggy introduces you to High Protocol and helps determine if it is right for your relationship.
43:19
September 28, 2021
Collars, Protocols, and Rituals
Collars, Protocols, and Rituals
As BDSM practices grow in popularity, the role of the collar has also changed. Once almost exclusive to M/s: collars, protocols, and rituals are now found in other dynamics as well. Primal Piggy draws from the past yet gives you a modern perspective on using them in your relationship.
37:59
September 28, 2021
BDSM: Discussion and Agreement
BDSM: Discussion and Agreement
To the newcomer, Negotiations and Contracts can seem like a daunting task and are often glossed over in the lust of the moment. Primal Piggy simplifies the process and makes it easier for you to have a successful relationship.
39:16
September 28, 2021
SM is all about the Pleasure!
SM is all about the Pleasure!
The SM of BDSM is both nuanced and complex because none of us comes from a cookie-cutter mold. PrimalPiggy talks a little about the psychology involved in a way that makes the SM easy to understand.
27:05
September 28, 2021
Power & Authority Exchange Relationships
Power & Authority Exchange Relationships
When it comes to structure in BDSM relationships, there can be a lot of differences and similarities between the different types. Primal Piggy explores Power-Neutral, Power-Exchange, and Authority-Exchange relationship dynamics in an easy to learn way.
25:54
September 28, 2021
Red Flags in BDSM
Red Flags in BDSM
Red flags are behavioral warning signs that something is not quite right. While these warning flags apply equally to everyone, you probably have greater chance of finding some in BDSM because of the things we do, predators can hide more easily here.
55:25
September 28, 2021
Character of a Good Submissive
Character of a Good Submissive
A submissive, according to the Dictionary, is yielding, obedient, compliant. A good submissive is a good follower. I am sure these are all things that you have thought and seen in your own submissiveness. If you have not, then, perhaps it is time.
19:18
September 28, 2021
Character of a Good Dominant
Character of a Good Dominant
Simply put, a good Dominant is someone who possesses the very qualities we would ascribe to a “good person”: kindness, consideration, politeness. A good Dominant, like a “good person” has a strong sense of ethics and honesty and is respectful of others regardless of their position in life.
20:26
September 28, 2021
Judgment: Having Pride in BDSM
Judgment: Having Pride in BDSM
Listen to this podcast and "judge" for yourself, LOL! In this podcast, Primal Piggy talks about reasons why people don't like to judge others, why judgment is important to rational thought, and how judgment is good for the BDSM community. Find more resources at bdsmunited.com "One must not let oneself be misled: they say 'Judge not!' but they send to Hell everything that stands in their way." --Friedrich Nietzsche
24:17
July 03, 2020
FetLife* How To - Setting Up Your Profile
FetLife* How To - Setting Up Your Profile
*We are not affiliated with Fetlife in any way. These are my opinions on successfully setting up a FetLife profile for the purposes of finding partners, vetting and being vetted. In this podcast Primal Piggy takes you through setting up your profile, adding photos, fetishes, and more information about yourself. He talks about how FetLife tracks your activity so that you can be vetted and begin vetting others. You can watch this episode on our Youtube channel. Find video info and additional resources at bdsmunited.com
35:60
July 02, 2020
FetLife* How To - Signing Up For an Account
FetLife* How To - Signing Up For an Account
*We are not affiliated with Fetlife in any way. These are my opinions on successfully setting up a FetLife profile for the purposes of finding partners, vetting and being vetted. In this podcast Primal Piggy takes you through the very first sign-up screen and talks you through picking a gender, sexual orientation, and lifestyle role. You can watch this episode on our Youtube channel. Find video info and additional resources at bdsmunited.com
32:18
July 01, 2020