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Be An Adult They Said

Be An Adult They Said

By R.A.S
3 friends working their way through adulthood and all it’s surprises!!
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Future Sex, Love Sounds - What IS The Future of Dating?
Did JT have it right all along? With shows and apps like The One, Bumble, SoulMates - it all kinda got us thinking...What IS the future of dating? Love designed by genetic code or the causal swipe we have a love/hate relationship with... Get comfy and have a listen to us @BeAnAdultTheySaid .  Don't forget to share, like and subscribe xo
April 12, 2021
Ooops - Relationship Guru Fail
2021 is running through scandals left, right and center!! IT'S JUST MARCH!! The latest to run a mock on social media is relationship guru and YouTuber Derrick Jaxon. He cheated on his partner, he got outed and now we chatter. It does beg to question - can we continue live in a monogamous society these days?
March 29, 2021
A Mile in Our Shoes
Inspired by the events across the globe in regards to the treatment, killings and further attacks on women. Listen as we share our own experiences and explore what we can do to help the women to come.
March 22, 2021
Spilling The Royal Tea: Harry and Meghan Edition
In what feels like a mammoth year ALREADY.... things heat up in the UK as Harry and Meghan share life over the past 4/5 years with Oprah Winfrey. 
March 15, 2021
Day 50 Something Of 2021 - It's a Mess
We're so glad we've been able to get the band back together and bring about another podcast. Grab a cuppa as we delve into the mayhem that is 2021 ALREADY and talk about all things mental health, it's management and how to laugh at the little things. USEFUL LINKS (UK)
March 2, 2021
Happy New Year...Basically
Happy New Year you gorgeous people!! Grab a cuppa and dive in as we reflect over the past 25 days (so much has happened....HOW??). Just have a natter with us, ok? xoxo
January 26, 2021
Round Ups and Intentions
Pre Christmas talks and giggles as well as some intention setting for 2021. Three guesses what was on everybody's mind?!?! xoxo
December 31, 2020
UK in Tiers So Listen To Your Aunties
Tiers 1, 2, 3 and 4 with a side of dilemma problem solving!!! 
December 21, 2020
I'm NoT rAcIsT bUt....
In a year that has been heavily marred by racism, listen as we scratch the surface of the never ending discussion on race, colourism and representation. Suggested resource materials can be found here: OR
December 14, 2020
Listen To Your Aunties They Said
This week, we reached out to you wonderful listeners and followers and we asked YOU for some help. We wanted to engage more with all of you so we asked for some real life questions and dilemmas. Grab a cuppa or a wine and have a listen. How did we do? Leave comments, applause on Anchor or on any of our social. IG and Twitter: @beanadulttheysaid 
November 23, 2020
A Period Drama
Eeeeek!!! It's that time of the month - and the rage is spilling over in true typical fashion!! Ever wondered what's behind the rage, the obsessive eating, the uncontrollable tears etc.  well, sit on a pew and come take a peak behind the crimson veil (and listen to Samantha freaking out haha) Check out or for more info (if you're ready to embrace the new movement discussed).
November 16, 2020
What A Difference A Day Makes
What a difference a DAY makes. Trump's no longer President although it hasn't quite sunk in. America has its 1st Female VP Elect, Boris Johnson agrees to "feed" hungry kids. Is 2020 making a righteous comeback??
November 9, 2020
Advice To Our Younger Selves
Who wouldn't want to go back in time? Give their younger selves the advice on ALL things to come?  What boys... and girls to avoid or the experiences you missed out on and you should have made it happen? Grab a wine or a cuppa and get listening!!
November 2, 2020
MBE's to Black History Month - What's the Point?
As Black History Month ends, we discuss the importance (vs. lack of importance) of dedicated moments to appreciate different cultures and how it impacts society. Are honours like MBEs and OBEs still necessary or just symbols of an archaic time? It's Ep 17 so you know what to do -  grab a wine, get comfy and have a listen. IG: @beanadulttheysaid Twitter: @beanadulttheysaid
October 26, 2020
What Men Want (1st Edition)
Now look, no one is too big or too old to take advice on bettering relationships. We decided to peep some Twitter threads from Men offering exactly that. Relationship advice. See if you pick up any healthy tips xo
October 19, 2020
What Are Friends For?
What's a best friend? Do you have one or many? Do we even think in such specific ways when it comes to people who transcend into the realms of  friends for life? Have a listen and find out x
October 12, 2020
Round Ups and Guilty Pleasures
This week's podcast is a round up as we explore the tidbits social media threw at us, the giggles, the tears and the sheer disbelief!! It's not all doom and gloom as we delve into the naughty little pleasures we all indulge in!
October 5, 2020
COVID 69 (Maximise Your Pleasure)
How's your sex life surviving during the global pandemic? Are you getting enough vitamin D in? we talk through positions, health and safety risk whilst trying to maximise your pleasure!!
September 30, 2020
Chitter Chatter Chatter
A little bit of this and a little bit of that, grab a cuppa and listen as we literally natter away. Just think social media eruptions with a sprinkle of morning TV education, loves, hates and current news.
September 28, 2020
Did Education Fail Us?
Season 2 (WHAT??!!) looks at all the things school didn't prepare us for (with a dash of new COVID rules and adjustments)!! What did you learn at school and do you use it today? Are teachers equipped to deal with modern day living in all it's forms? 
September 21, 2020
It's All Just Too Much
It's Episode 10 and we made it!!!! *inserts applause* How much honesty is too much honesty. Definitely a conversation that WILL reoccur knowing us but for now; are we trying to normalise too much? Is it okay to be crude, to smack your kids, to take back a partner who cheated.... find out what we think
September 14, 2020
So How You Doing?
A 2020 check in as the final quarter approaches. Anyone for 2021 goals and plans.... anyone?
September 4, 2020
Wash My What?!?!
Demand vs Requests.... is it too much to ask your partner for support? Or should we adhere to the usual gender roles and values? Listen and decide as we dissect in the most hilarious way possible
August 9, 2020
Lockdown Day Unknown, How You Doin?
It’s day 150+ and counting, HOW ARE YOU DOING?!?! Nice lil check in with the girls while discussing what’s been keeping us entertained!!
July 20, 2020
The Word is... Entanglement!
The world is in a pandemic, the economy is rocky and August Alsina was entangled with Jada Pickett-Smith... let’s get into it!!
July 14, 2020
Soulmates - are they real or simply childhood fantasies?
Can we just lose the hopeless and keep the romantic? Listen as we unpack our notions of the concept of soulmates, the need for marriage and the understanding of compromise in the relationships we find ourselves in as adults.
June 18, 2020
WHAT A WEEK - Could the murder that went viral change the world?
It’s been one hell of a week... with civil unrest in countries around the world after the brutal murder of George Floyd; listen as we talk about the changes we’ve seen since parts of the world came together to demand change as well as things we know we need to learn as women/WOC. #BLM
June 8, 2020
Eerruugghh, Heartbreak.
Is there ever a good time for heartbreak? How do you deal with it? What are your go to’s and comforts?!
May 25, 2020
Dealbreakers - Love “em or Hate “em
Listen as we delve into Dealbreakers in life. Are they needed and a great way to introduce boundaries or a thing of the past?!?
May 18, 2020
Intros and Social Distancing Woes
It’s our very first podcast!!! Listen to us catch up, have a little natter as we find our feet in the world of podcasting during COVID-19 and all things social distancing 
May 15, 2020