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The Bate Escape

The Bate Escape

By BEASTLYBATOR

Curious about Solosexuality? You're definitely in the right place! A podcast dedicated to masturbation, self-love, and Solosexual pride! Every two weeks, Beastly sits down and chats with Bators in the masturbation community about sex, life, and all things masturbation. Listening to fun, meaningful conversations about sexuality and join Beastly in working to destigmatize masturbation and embrace a Solosexual lifestyle full of joy and love

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The Bate EscapeJun 17, 2020

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The Bate Escape: Shits N Giggles Edition With PopperNate

The Bate Escape: Shits N Giggles Edition With PopperNate

Hey folks!

Please enjoy this special edition of The Bate Escape podcast! A Shits n Giggles edition! In today's episode I chat with a popular masturbator in the bating community!

PopperNate is a "Bator bro into poppers, pits, pubes, and pups!" He is a fun masturbator that enjoys showing off and bust loads.

You can follow PopperNate at:

X: https://twitter.com/poppernate

Thanks for listening to this episode and I hope you share it with a friend!

bb

Mar 12, 202401:04:50
How Masturbation Can Help Heal Traumas w/ Edger85

How Masturbation Can Help Heal Traumas w/ Edger85

Hey folks!

In this episode of The Bate Escape, I sit and chat with Edger85 a "hypersexual bator•edger•gooner•soul explorer."

We have a great conversation on the power of healing traumas with masturbation.

You can follow and learn more about my guest at his X: @edger85

Thank you for listening to this episode and please like and share!


Feb 27, 202454:30
The Bate Escape: Paul & Rain City Jacks
Feb 13, 202401:11:39
The Poppers Episode With VHCleaner Poppers

The Poppers Episode With VHCleaner Poppers

Hey folks! Welcome back to a new episode of The Bate Escape podcast! The podcast dedicated to all things masturbation.

In this episode, I sit and chat with Jacob, the owner and maker of Video Head Cleaner poppers. We had a great conversation about his passion for poppers, and how and why he created VHCleaner poppers. We also chat about the history of poppers and how popper use in the bedroom can be super transformative. Plus, we play a fun game of Goon or Gone!

Check out VHCleaner poppers at: https://www.vhcleaner.com

Thank you for listening to this episode! Please like, follow, subscribe and share with everyone you know!





Jan 30, 202457:12
Bator Chat with Black Statik
Jan 16, 202454:58
The Bate Escape: S**** N Giggles Edition w/BatorMutt
Jan 02, 202401:08:28
Bator Chat with Chris Wright-Garcia: Owner of LeatherDaddySkinCo.
Dec 19, 202358:29
The Bate Escape: S**** N Giggles Edition w/ YourGirlfriend

The Bate Escape: S**** N Giggles Edition w/ YourGirlfriend

The Bate Escape: S**** N Giggles Edition with YourGirlfriend.


In this episode, we play a fun game of "Goon or GO!", talk about important queer subject matter in "Make It Make Sense", and share some insight into our dating lives in the segment "BATE/MATE/DATE.


You can check out more of YourGirlfriend at:

https://twitter.com/TemperTantric

https://bsky.app/profile/yourgirlfriendxxx.bsky.social

Dec 05, 202357:02
The Bate Escape: S**** N Giggles Edition w/ Andrew Gurza

The Bate Escape: S**** N Giggles Edition w/ Andrew Gurza

The Bate Escape: S**** N Giggles Edition!

Here's a special edition of The Bate Escape with my friend Andrew Gurza,

"an award winning Disability Awareness Consultant. Andrew uses they/he pronouns and identifies proudly as disabled.  Their work has been featured on BBC, CBC, Daily Xtra, Gay Times UK, Huffington Post, The Advocate, Everyday Feminism, Mashable, Out.com, and several anthologies.  He was the subject of an award winning National Film Board of Canada Documentary “Picture This”.  Andrew has guested on a number of podcasts including Dan Savage’s Savage Love and Cameron Esposito’s Queery. He has spoken all over the world on sex, disability and what it means to be a Queer Cripple."

In this episode, we play a fun game of "Goon or GO!", talk about pop culture moments in "Make It Make Sense", and share some insight into our dating lives in the segment "BATE/MATE/DATE.

You can learn more about Andrew by clicking on the following links:

https://twitter.com/andrewgurza6

https://www.instagram.com/andrewgurza6/

https://www.andrewgurza.com/

https://bsky.app/profile/andrewgurza6.bsky.social

Andrew's Podcast: Disability After Dark: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/disability-after-dark/id1151890990

Nov 20, 202350:14
What is Bator Balm? with creator and CEO, Alex
Nov 07, 202354:28
Masturbation Chat w/ Paris (MXJacks Host)

Masturbation Chat w/ Paris (MXJacks Host)

In this episode of The Bate Escape, I chatted with Paris, the host of MXJacks, a monthly masturbation party in Mexico City.


Highlights Include:

- Mexican culture and why sex isn't talked about

- How to explore sex with others while in a relationship

- Why open sex conversations with your partner are sexy


You can learn more about MXJacks at the following links:

https://twitter.com/MXJacks

https://www.eventbrite.com/e/mxjacks-jalo-ween-tickets-733440780117?aff=oddtdtcreator

Oct 25, 202358:47
Bator Chat with Gayvn Award Winning Adult Film Actor Joel Someone

Bator Chat with Gayvn Award Winning Adult Film Actor Joel Someone

In this episode of The Bate Escape, I sit and chat with Gayvn Award Winning Adult Film Actor Joel Someone, about his work in the adult film industry and why he gets very excited about having sex with beautiful people on camera.


Highlights include:

- Being the only gay in the village

- The power of the male prostate

- Intersectionality of art and sex


You can find and follow Joel Someone @:

https://www.instagram.com/joel_someone/

https://twitter.com/JoelSomeone1

https://onlyfans.com/joelsomeone

Oct 11, 202301:02:13
Bator Chat with MexicanGooner: What is Gooning? How do I Goon?
Sep 28, 202356:18
Bator Chat with John Allison Weiss

Bator Chat with John Allison Weiss

In this episode of The Bate Escape, I sit down with musical artist John-Allison Weiss and chat about life on the road, making music and Solo sex.


Highlights include:

- Making records

- Jerking off of the road

- Making friends with penguins


John's new record "The Long Way" is out now and can be heard on all music streaming platforms.


You can keep up with John on their social media platforms:

Instagram: @johnallisonweiss

Twitter: @johnnyalligator

Website: Lowerkeymusic.com

Sep 06, 202301:06:28
Bator Chat with The Milking Coach

Bator Chat with The Milking Coach

In this episode of The Bate Escape, I sit down and chat with the famous Milking Coach and talk about all things masturbation.


Highlights include:

-Growing up gay (Boarding school)

- What's it take to be one of Coach's bulls

- CUM EATING


Milking Coach is a sex worker who is a master of edging and milking with over 600 videos to choose from! and you can follow The Milking Coach on the following platforms:


X (Twitter): https://twitter.com/milkingCOACH

LINK TREE: https://linktr.ee/milkingCOACH

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themilkingcoach

Aug 15, 202301:01:42
Bator Chat with Gay Heaux

Bator Chat with Gay Heaux

In this episode of The Bate Escape, I sit down and chat with BateWorld Bateoff contestant Gay Heaux!

Highlights include:

- Florida is weird AF

- Future of porn and tech

- Cum fetish


You can follow and chat with Gay Heaux at the following:

Twitter: https://twitter.com/gayheaux1

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gayheaux

OnlyFans: https://onlyfans.com/gayheaux

Aug 01, 202301:16:11
Bator Chat with BK BATOR BRY

Bator Chat with BK BATOR BRY

In this episode of The Bate Escape, I sit down and talk with fellow masturbator, BK BATOR BRY.


Highlights:

- Jerking off while living with parents

- Jackinworld.com

- Vid chat performing

You can follow BRY at the following social media channels:

TWITTER: @XY_BKBry

INSTAGRAM: @xy.bkbry

justforfans/XY_BKBry

Jul 18, 202301:10:54
Happy Pride Month!

Happy Pride Month!

Hey folks! Happy Pride Month! In this episode of The Bate Escape, I sit and chat with two of the contestants on the hit masturbation series The Bate Off hosted by BateWorld.com.


BatorMutt and YourGirlfriend join me in a conversation about all things masturbation!


Highlights are:

- Sexual ethics (Dom / Sub play)

- Puppy Play headspace

- Masturbation pride

- CLOWN SEX


Find BatorMutt at: https://linktr.ee/batormutt


Find YourGirlfriend at: https://allmylinks.com/yourgirlfriendslinks


Pride month is here! and i'm excited to celebrate all month and the rest of the year. This year hits different, as we know the LGBTQIA community is under heavy attack, and i'm ready to fight back against those that wish our community harm. I encourage my listeners to find ways they are able to support the Gay community and stand as allies. Here are some links to helpful information on what you can do to take action:


- https://www.hrc.org/get-involved

- https://www.cnn.com/2023/04/06/politics/anti-lgbtq-plus-state-bill-rights-dg/index.html



Jun 01, 202301:08:25
Bator Chat with Steve, The Leather Cook

Bator Chat with Steve, The Leather Cook

In this episode of The Bate Escape, I am joined by our bator brother Steve, The Leather Cook.


Listen to our chat as we discuss the musical powers of Tori Amos, how masturbation falls on the Autism spectrum and how a bators journey never ends.


You can find Steve at the following links:


Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theleathercook/?hl=en

Twitter: https://twitter.com/theleathercook

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Theleathercook/videos

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/batorencouragement

May 01, 202301:18:25
Bator Chat with TheCockyPrince and ColbyJaxxx

Bator Chat with TheCockyPrince and ColbyJaxxx

Your favorite masturbation podcast is back!


On this epsiode of The Bate Escape, I chat with TheCockyPrince and ColbyJaxx, two of the hottest bators on the scene, about their participation on the new season of The Bate Off from Bateworld.com. Make sure you catch it exclusively on Bateworld premiering in May for Masturbation month.


Twitter:

@TheCockyPrince

@ColbyJaxxx

@Bateworld

Apr 04, 202301:04:15
The Bate Escape ft. TennesseeBator

The Bate Escape ft. TennesseeBator

In this episode of The Bate Escape, I have a stimulating conversation with Tennessee Bate King from Twitter.  Listen in as we talk about being POC (People of Color) Bators, the bate community in small vs large cities, and why owning your sexual power is doing it for the culture!

Check out Tennessee Bate King at:

Twitter: @TennesseeBator


The Bate Escape is hosted by Ren Rodriguez.  I am a Sex/Bate/Love/Intimacy coach in training in the Somatica Method.  If you would like to learn more about my coach sessions, send me an email at:  beastlybator@gmail.com

Sep 20, 202155:34
Bate Bro Chat Ft. Bearwithme94

Bate Bro Chat Ft. Bearwithme94

In this episode of The Bate Escape, I invite my guest @bearwithme94 from Twitter to talk about the Zoom jerk-off parties he hosts, male body positivity, and having the courage to be sexually expressive! 

Follow Andrés:

Twitter: @bearwithme94

Instagram: Just.tobearwith

The Bate Escape is hosted by Ren Rodriguez.  I am a Sex/Bate/Love/Intimacy coach in training in the Somatica Method.  If you would like to learn more about my coach sessions, send me an email at:  beastlybator@gmail.com

Aug 10, 202153:18
Happy bating in your 40s

Happy bating in your 40s

On this episode of The Bate Escape, I talk about becoming a mature Bator and owning your 40s with my special guest, the actor Nathan Tylutki. We talk about owning your sexual confidence in your 40s, grieving our changing bodies and why practicing your bate is the only way to get better! Check out Wank News at buddybate.com
Keep up with Nathan on his Twitter: @nathantylutki
Watch his Gemin8 show on YouTube: @nathantylutki
The Bate Escape is hosted by Ren Rodriguez. I am a Sex/Bate/Love/Intimacy coached training in the Somatica Method. If you would like to learn more about my coach sessions, please email me at: beastlybator@gmail.com

Jun 22, 202159:31
Bate Bro Talk with special guest Jason Armstrong

Bate Bro Talk with special guest Jason Armstrong

On this episode of The Bate Escape, I am joined by the dynamic writer Jason Armstrong to discuss his books on Solosexuality. Listen to our conversation about why being Solosexual is punk-rock and making masturbation a religion.
You can follow Jason on Twitter @wildhorse1001
His books are available on Amazon:
1. Solosexual: Portrait of a Masturbator
2. Getting Off: The Unlikely Chronicles of a Solosexual on PrEP
3. The Happy Hypersexual
You can follow me on all socials: @beastlybator
Thanks for listening! Do you have a question for this podcast? Please ask away and I'd be happy to answer them on a future episode!
May 25, 202148:27
Bro Bate Talk with DavidBrooks01
Apr 24, 202154:43
The powers of masturbation with Madredemiel and Sextalkwithkenz!

The powers of masturbation with Madredemiel and Sextalkwithkenz!

On this episode of The Bate Escape, I talk with fellow sex coaching classmates about the powers of masturbation!
Follow them on Instagram for more sexy, beautiful sex talk!
Mackenzie's Instagram: @sextalkwithkenz
Jess's Instagram: @madredemiel
Instagram, Twitter: @beastlybator
Mar 09, 202150:47
LOWERED EXPECTATIONS

LOWERED EXPECTATIONS

On this episode of The Bate Escape, I answer some Twitter questions from fellow bate brothers and also chat about my latest bate bro session and how when I lowered my expectations, I was able to be more present with my bro and have an amazing bate!
Feb 23, 202134:35
Happy Valentine's Day from, Beastlybator, Prettypiggy19 & DamianXXXDragon

Happy Valentine's Day from, Beastlybator, Prettypiggy19 & DamianXXXDragon

On this episode of The Bate Espace, I am joined by the lovely and sexy, Prettypiggy 19 & DamianXXXDragon! Listen in as we talk about boundaries, connection, and deshaming sex!

Show some love and support:

Twitter & Onlyfans: Prettypiggy19 , Instagam: prettypiggy_19

Twitter & Onlyfans/JustForFans: damianxxxdragon, Website: damianxdragon.com, Instagram: damianxdragon

Feb 09, 202157:43
I'm back! Filling you in on what's been going on!

I'm back! Filling you in on what's been going on!

On this episode of The Bate Escape, I fill you in on whats been going on in my world and what the future holds for this podcast! Thanks again for your continued support and for tuning in!
Jan 26, 202132:35
Sexy bator banter ft. The_Kosher_Pig from Twitter

Sexy bator banter ft. The_Kosher_Pig from Twitter

On this episode of The Bate Escape, I catch up with my sex bud The_Kosher_Pig from Twitter as we talk about bating, average bodies, and rural cruising!
Nov 25, 202056:04
Learning what attunement is and how to use it in your sex

Learning what attunement is and how to use it in your sex

On this episode of The Bate Escape, I tell you a story about my weekend hook up and how I used a new learned skill, attunement to save the date and have some great sex!
Nov 10, 202027:54
Great masturbation talk with my special guest @Bator78 from Twitter!

Great masturbation talk with my special guest @Bator78 from Twitter!

On this episode of The Bate Escape, I have a sexy conversation with fellow bator/solosexual @Bator78 from Twitter. We chat about when he first learned he was a pig and why young bate bros need to jerk in front of mirrors to build sexual confidence! Make sure you follow @bator78 on Twitter for lots of his sexy content (NSFW)
Oct 27, 202001:01:33
Sexy chat about all things masturbation ft. Prettypiggy19 from Twitter

Sexy chat about all things masturbation ft. Prettypiggy19 from Twitter

On this episode of The Bate Escape, I have a fun conversation about bating with our sexy bate brother, Prettypiggy19! You can find him being super hot on Twitter and Onlyfans! (NSFW)
Oct 20, 202054:07
Talking about the art of Gooning and how to ask a best friend for a bate session

Talking about the art of Gooning and how to ask a best friend for a bate session

On this episode of The Bate Escape, I talk about what "Gooning" is and how to achieve it and also discuss a Bator brother's curiosity about wanting to bate with his best friend!
Oct 13, 202038:21
Season 2 Premiere! THEBATEESCAPE
Oct 06, 202001:21:09
Talking about brotherly love and why it benefits everyone in your life

Talking about brotherly love and why it benefits everyone in your life

On the season finale of The Bate Escape, I talk about brotherly love / mentality and why applying this to all aspects of your life will enhance your self love.
Sep 01, 202041:19
Keanu Reeves was my first man crush and why dad crushes are totally normal

Keanu Reeves was my first man crush and why dad crushes are totally normal

On this episode of The Bate Escape, I talk about my male sexual awakening caused by Keanu Reeves and how its totally normal for any man to first crush on his own father.
Aug 25, 202045:06
The differences between str8 and gay/bi bate bros

The differences between str8 and gay/bi bate bros

On this episode of The Bate Escape, I talk about my experiences with Str8 and Gay/ bi bate brothers. I talk about the differences and how ultimately we're all bate brothers regardless of sexual orientation.
Aug 18, 202036:57
How to deal with being ghosted and remembering the power in your bate

How to deal with being ghosted and remembering the power in your bate

On this episode of The Bate Escape, I talk about a bate bro that comes back into my life after he ghosted me and how masturbation reminds me that i'm never really alone.
Aug 11, 202043:49
Learn how to rewire your brain and begin to see all bator bros as sexy

Learn how to rewire your brain and begin to see all bator bros as sexy

On this episode of The Bate Escape, I talk about how I am making the effort to rewire my brain and delete old beliefs that I held about what I used to find as sexually attractive. I talk about my past history and how I obtained a new found love for my Latino brothers and other ethnic males.
Aug 04, 202037:37
How being a Bator can lead you to having amazing sex adventures

How being a Bator can lead you to having amazing sex adventures

On this episode of The Bate Escape, I talk about how being a Bator can lead you on a curious sexy journey and how masturbation can help you discover more of you!
Jul 21, 202029:45
Normalizing body dysmorphia in men and how bating can lead to a better self image!

Normalizing body dysmorphia in men and how bating can lead to a better self image!

On this episode of The Bate Escape, I talk about my own journey with body dysmorphia and how masturbation can help rewire your brain so that you're able to see a beautiful new you!
Jul 14, 202030:08
How choosing yourself transcends beyond your sexuality

How choosing yourself transcends beyond your sexuality

On this episode of The Bate Escape, I talk about why choosing yourself is so important as a solosexual and why you should stop justifying your sex to others and even yourself.
Jul 07, 202025:48
The courage to own your sexual identity and finding your self love

The courage to own your sexual identity and finding your self love

On this episode of The Bate Escape, I talk about finding the courage to express my Solo sexuality and the amazing things that happen when you begin to understand that you are love.
Jun 30, 202028:26
Having sex as a bator and the beautiful rejection we should honor!

Having sex as a bator and the beautiful rejection we should honor!

On this episode of The Bate Escape, I talk about navigating the world of sex as a Bator. Top of Bottom? Dom or Sub? and how rejection can lead you to self loving yourself.
Jun 17, 202020:50
June 12, 2020

June 12, 2020

Jun 12, 202000:45