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By Because Life Podcast

A weekly meeting of the minds with Neema (@YvonneSmiles) and Ashley (@poeticrecovery) trying to figure out this thing called LIFE. Take a seat at our table as we discuss self-care, black issues and a whole bunch of other isshhh....because life; she DIFFERENT.
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...generational work of self-love

because life podcast Nov 24, 2022

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...generational work of self-love

...generational work of self-love

Nov 24, 202201:33:34
...you thinking small b!tch

...you thinking small b!tch

Your favorite podcast duo is back with another episode! Neema and Ashley are here!!! This month we are focusing on the Self-Love aspect Self-Care. On today's episode we discuss our dreams. What are your dreams? How are you preparing to make your dreams happen? What does success look like for you. Listen to us deep dive into this conversation and discover some revelations while doing so...because life. 

Feel free to comment on our IG page your thoughts on the topic.

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Black Business of the Week: Ty Allan Jackson, author of children’s books on finance and affirmations

Black Fact: 

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Nov 10, 202201:29:43
...the pressure is getting worser

...the pressure is getting worser

Your favorite podcast duo is back with another episode! Neema and Ashley are here!!! This month we are focusing on the Self-Love aspect Self-Care. On today's episode we discuss de-centering relationships/romance. De-centering means dating on your own terms. It means letting go of what society says you should do and making up the rules as you go. It’s a reminder that you are the main character, and you have a choice in how your romantic interactions work. Listen to us deep dive into the art of self love, as we discover the rules are all fake when it comes to romance and relationships...because life. 

Feel free to comment on our IG page your thoughts on the topic.

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Black Business of the Week: Ava Estell Natural Skincare

Black Fact: The History of Historically Black Colleges and Universities (HBCU)

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Nov 03, 202201:18:24
...squatting like Khalif

...squatting like Khalif

Neema and Ashley are back with another episode. This is the last episode for the Friendship Series. On this week's episode we dive into the question, Can men and women be friends only? Baby, this episode gets down to the nitty and gritty. And it gets a little heated with our special guest, Keith Lamar, Owner/Founder/COO of '85 Music. We take a deep dive into who men and women really dress for when they go out. This has to be one of the most improved episodes, so prepare for the ride...because life!

Feel free to comment on our IG page your thoughts on the topic.

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Black Business of the Week: Color Noir

Black Fact: The History of Historically Black Colleges and Universities (HBCU)

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Oct 27, 202201:50:45
...I sob a lot

...I sob a lot

Neema and Ashley are back with another episode. This month it's all about friendship. We did our normal check in and in typical Neema and Ashley fashion we did some deep diving into discussions not about friendship. Then we answered some questions from "the And" card game on friendships. You don't want to miss out on some of these questions...awkward lol!  Feel free to comment on our IG page your thoughts on the topic. 

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Black Business of the Week: Houston White x Target (Collaboration)

Black Fact: Abbott Elementary

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Oct 20, 202201:09:23
...ghosted for one year

...ghosted for one year

Neema and Ashley are back with another episode. This month it's all about friendship. Today the discussion was about the loss of a friendship. Have you experienced a friendship ending? What are some reasons your friendships have ended? How do you cope with the ending of a friendship that has meant so much to you? Of course the ladies go into other topics of friendships, so sit tight and enjoy the conversation. And feel free to comment on the IG your thoughts on the topic. The month of October is dedicated to all things friendship...because life.

Black Business of the Week: FBF Body by Zakia Blain

Black Fact: Alexander Miles

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Oct 13, 202201:20:52
...the investing of friendships

...the investing of friendships

Neema and Ashley are back with another episode. This month it's all about friendship. Today they discuss the definition of friendship and the different types of friendships. The ladies also discuss some fun TV show friendships and how they align with the different types of friendships. The discussion goes into some deeper conversation about the roles women play in their friend groups once they become mothers. This conversation will have you laughing, nodding and wanting to for more. Don't worry! The month of October is dedicated to all things friendship...because life.

4 Types of Friendship: Friendship is categorized into four types: acquaintance, friend, close friend and best friend. Over time, an increase in mutual respect and the degree of reciprocity builds up and strengthens friendship. In philosophical discussions of friendship: it is common to follow Aristotle (Nicomachean Ethics, Book VIII) in distinguishing three kinds of friendship: friendships of pleasure, of utility, and of virtue

Black Business of the Week: MESS in a bottle

Black Fact: Taylor Hale

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Oct 05, 202201:24:37
...duvet's are clutch

...duvet's are clutch

Welcome back!!! After a summer hiatus, Neema and Ashley are back with some updates. No topic today. Just some insight on what's been going on since the last episode...because life.

Sep 08, 202236:25
...the circle of grief

...the circle of grief

We're back with another episode of because life podcast. In this episode we briefly discuss the untimely death of Kevin Samuels (RIP). We also talk about grief and the stages we go through to get to a place of healing. And don't forget our new segment where we discuss what we've been watching and give our 2 cents...because life.

May 12, 202201:05:03
...trial by fire

...trial by fire

On this week's episode, Neema and Ashley introduce a new segment dedicated to TV shows/Series. They discuss their take on what's happening in the episodes and their predictions for what's to come. Neema and Ashley also discuss some hot takes like the Meg the Stallion case, Johnny Depp is court, the white girl rapping at the wedding and more. 

The topic of self sabotaging was discussed as this is Mental Health Awareness Month. 

...because life. 

May 05, 202201:26:35
...resetting your mental health

...resetting your mental health

In this week's episode, Neema and Ashley discuss Mental Health. The discussion is based on how to know if your mental health is improve. The list was comprised by @holisticallygrace on IG. How do you know if your mental health is improving? How do you know when it's declining?...because life. 

Apr 07, 202201:00:57
...why so serious?

...why so serious?

This week's episode we dive into the talk of the talks. We don't often dabble into the social media dramas, but this week we had time. From Cosby (yup), to R. Kelly (old shit), to Tyler Perry (what girl?) to the slap that broke the internet. Listen to our thoughts on these topics, you may just be surprised...because life. 

Mar 31, 202256:05
...the best part of your worse relationship

...the best part of your worse relationship

Welcome back to another episode! This week we discuss things from these high gas prices to creating better standards for yourself. This week's topic, we play a game from "the and" cards for friendship. Some deep questions where we were able to reflect on our friendship and you guys get to hear the juicy answers...because life. 

Mar 10, 202201:06:59
...kanye needs some boundaries

...kanye needs some boundaries

This week we dive into some Kanye West business, latest TV shows we're indulging, and some other off the dome topics . We also tackle boundaries and how we set them for ourselves. What boundaries do you set for yourself?...because life. 

Don't forget to like, comment and share this week's episode. The love and support and greatly appreciated. 

Mar 03, 202201:21:53
...the knees don't lie

...the knees don't lie

Neema and Ashley are back with another episode. Catching up with some wild news updates and giving advice to 20 year olds. If you're in your 30's, what advice would you give to someone in their 20's?...because life. 

Feb 10, 202201:12:13
...fried chicken scented candles

...fried chicken scented candles

Happy Black History Month, Love Month, Our Birthday Month, Aquarius Gang!!! The greatest month, no debates :-). We dive into some great conversations about blackness, culture, babies, Rihanna (of course) and more interesting things of the world...because life. 

Feb 03, 202201:06:52
...new year, new durag

...new year, new durag

And w3e're back! Happy New Year Tribe! 

Goals...what are your goals for the year? What did 2021 teach you? All of this and more in our conversation. 

And a little bonus surprise...because life

Jan 05, 202241:10
...don't invite me to your hotel party

...don't invite me to your hotel party

All the talks...Love. Santa Claus. Student Loans. Scotch. The conversation is all the vibes you need...because life. 

Dec 15, 202101:20:00
...the harder you fall

...the harder you fall

Once again, we having a melting pot of discussions from movies, Adele, Beyonce to embodiment...great conversation. great laughs...because life. 

Nov 24, 202101:14:40
...cassettes and contributions

...cassettes and contributions

Today's topics....cassettes, new music, a controversial conversation, some fun facts and more. Also, check out the links below that we discussed in this week's episode for more context and for your own education...because life.


https://youtu.be/H4Ifwyy6Ubw (Podcast exert discussed)

depts.washington.edu (We Charge Genocide-The 1951 Black Lives Matter Campaign)

workers.org (International Tribunal finds US guilty of crimes against humanity)


Nov 10, 202101:27:44
...making room

...making room

Continuing in the spirit of Mental Health Awareness Month, we're talking about ways to help you clear your mind to be in a better space. How to make room for growth, acceptance, joy, ease, self-nurturing, self-forgiveness and boundaries...because life. 

Oct 20, 202101:29:09
...we back

...we back

Yes we've been gone for a minute. But we're falling back in line. This month is all about mental health. How do you protect your mental space? How do you preserve your energy?...because life

Oct 13, 202101:09:50
...you have one life

...you have one life

A small bonus episode from Ashley this week. Just some random things on my mind that I wanted to share. If someone listening can relate to anything I'm saying, I feel accomplished...because life. 

Jul 14, 202134:51
...make it make sense again

...make it make sense again

This week we're discussing some interesting things happening in the world. Trying to unfold the common sense; but we've realized America doesn't know the term "common" lol...because life.
Jul 07, 202101:15:37
...pay my rent

...pay my rent

In this week's episode we discuss a video and a twitter thread that exposed the way SOME women think. We had to bring our sisters to the table and hold them accountable along with our guest Aliyah...because life.

Jun 25, 202101:18:29
...my ass, it don't move

...my ass, it don't move

Hoe shit, thot shit...hmmm what do we have in store for ya'll today? What does hoe and thot mean to you?...because life.

Jun 16, 202101:05:48
...back down memory lane

...back down memory lane

Neema and Ashley are back...for real this time. When you're in a good space, what next? Do you create more to do? Do you sit in the freedom?...because life.

Jun 10, 202101:05:21
...black lady court room

...black lady court room

Hey ya'll we're back!!! Sorry we've been gone for a minute but...Life smh. So this episode we're just catching up on everything we've missed in the last 3 weeks and catching up on our life as well...because life. 

May 12, 202101:11:47
...leap

...leap

We're back! This week, Neema isn't here so Ashley is solo dolo. Hitting on the topic of where we are in life and taking leaps. "You are where you need to be"...because life

Apr 08, 202147:26
...financial freedom

...financial freedom

Welcome back. Welcome back. This week we are getting a little "adultish" and talking about our finances and what it means to be financially free. What is your savings plan? How or do you budget? What's your relationship to money? Emergency Fund?...because life.                     

Mar 31, 202101:14:25
...melodies from Heaven

...melodies from Heaven

We've missed you! But we're back...We're discussing Derrick Jaxn, Kirk Franklin, Saweetie, the Grammy's and more. Why do we put celebrities on a pedestal? Don't they fall short like the rest of us?...because life.

Mar 24, 202101:22:16
...what's your value sis?

...what's your value sis?

Back again for another episode! Episode 54. We are discussing the value we see in ourselves as women. What do we see when we look in the mirror...because life. 

Mar 10, 202101:19:55
...black messiah

...black messiah

SPOILER ALERTS....We are discussing Judas and The Black Messiah...amongst some other things of course. It wouldn't be us if we didn't ramble lol. We discuss education, BLM, The Black Panther Party, educating our communities and more...because life. 

Feb 24, 202101:14:40
...the rabbit holes

...the rabbit holes

Welcome back to episode 52 of because life podcast. We are discussing things that are just all over the place but are also connected...maybe lol. From reincarnation to making dreams come true. Talk about rambling. But you never know what you're gonna get with us...because life. 

Feb 17, 202101:07:05
...toxito

...toxito

This week we dive into the toxic traits of men. With 2 special guests...Keith of 85 Music and Travell of the Henny and Chronicles Podcast. It's a long one y'all. You might yell at your phone, it gets heated...because life. 

Feb 10, 202102:42:24
...it's the stars for us

...it's the stars for us

Episode 50! Wow, what an accomplishment. We talked about the zodiac signs and their traits. We also went live on our page. Go check it out...because life 

Feb 03, 202101:05:58
...toxiana

...toxiana

Back with another episode. The discussion is women and our toxic traits. Yes. Women can be toxic too, so lets talk about it...because life. 

Jan 27, 202101:11:40
...the tales of a heaux named Donna

...the tales of a heaux named Donna

Whoooo Chile,..this discussion got a little hot. But different views make for good content. In this episode we are discussing the interludes from Jazmine Sullivan's recent EP, Heaux Tales. What is a hoe? What's a gold-digger? Have women taken their power back when it comes to sex? Listen and find out what we think...because life. 

Jan 13, 202101:27:11
...marry, kiss, kill

...marry, kiss, kill

Happy New Year!!! 2021 is the year of reset. What are you leaving behind in 2020? Do you have a plan for 2021? More self-care, improving your communication? Neema and Ashley are discussing it all in the first episode of 2021...because life. 

Jan 06, 202101:20:38
...is it love?

...is it love?

This week we're back discussing falling in love. How do we know we truly love someone? At what moment do we know this is love? Is love at first sight a thing?  We did a Q&A on questions to fall in love with someone. Can strangers really fall in love?...because life.  Use the link below to watch videos of strangers asking 36 questions to fall in love... https://youtu.be/GeSzLqqyNgs 
Dec 16, 202001:14:37
...shootin the shit

...shootin the shit

We're back with another great convo for you guys. We discuss things from Cardi B's tweet to how we feel about holidays. Yea, we're all over the place, but..because life. 

Dec 09, 202001:29:39
...contradiction is key

...contradiction is key

We're back. Sorry for the delay. We're discussing the evolution of people. "If you're not contradicting yourself, you're not growing". What are thoughts on this?...because life. 

Dec 02, 202001:17:54
...cheaters always win

...cheaters always win

This week we discuss cheating, the election, monogamy, polygamy and more....oh and sex...because life. 

Nov 11, 202001:13:52
...black mediocracy

...black mediocracy

Welcome back to because life podcast. We discuss the election, black businesses, voting, and more...because life.
Nov 04, 202001:09:00
...drink water and mind your business

...drink water and mind your business

We're BACK!!!!! We are back with a new episode. We're catching up with you all and discussing the topic of body shaming...because life. 

Oct 14, 202001:15:00
...real world of men and women Pt. 2

...real world of men and women Pt. 2

Part 2!!!!! This week, we are joined by the Relentlessly Real Podcast and continue the conversation of men, women, dating and misconceptions,  2 single women and 3 married men debate the most common "war"...Men vs. Women. We break down barriers and dig deep into the misconceptions of both sexes. The conversation gets intense but they're also some commonalities in this debate. Also, subscribe to the Relentlessly Real Podcast Youtube Channel to see this episode in action...because life.

Aug 08, 202001:24:23
...real world of men and women pt.1

...real world of men and women pt.1

This week, we are joined by the Relentlessly Real Podcast. 2 single women and 3 married men debate the most common "war"...Men vs. Women. We break down barriers and dig deep into the misconceptions of both sexes. The conversation gets intense but they're also some commonalities in this debate. Also, subscribe to the Relentlessly Real Podcast Youtube Channel to see this episode in action...because life. 

Aug 01, 202001:17:17
...miseducation of domestication

...miseducation of domestication

Episode 38! We discuss the book "The Four Agreements" and how this book has motivated us and changed our perspectives on life. We aren't perfect, but we try to live the BEST life for us. The agreements in this book are a good way to "jump start" your new journey of genuinely loving yourself and living a life with your heart...because life.

Jul 22, 202001:09:06
...free the tatas

...free the tatas

We're back for another episode of Because Life Podcast. Episode 37!!! This week we are discussing performative aspects of life. In what ways do we "perform" in our daily lives. Do we "perform" more in certain areas of our lives? ...because life. 

Jul 08, 202001:03:38
...insecure

...insecure

Episode 36!!! SPOILER ALERT!!!! Neema and Ashley discuss the fourth season of "Insecure". So if you haven't seen it (sis, where have you been?) this is your ALERT. We discuss topics brought up during the season, as well as the dynamics of each characters' relationship with each other.  We can all relate to the scenarios during this season...because life. 

Jul 02, 202001:18:29