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Gays In The Wild

Gays In The Wild

By Jeff Perla

From The Travelin Bum to Behind the Bum we are now jumping into the wild. Gays in The Wild is the next phase for Host & Content Creator Jeff Perla . Listen as he explores deep into gay culture with the help of influencers, reality tv stars, trail blazers, and iconic members of the gay community.
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Gays In The WildApr 28, 2020

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Casting All Homos with Mike Rose

Casting All Homos with Mike Rose

Jeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) is joined by casting agent Mike Rose (@MikeRoseLA) giving you the tips and tricks to make it on TV. How do you audition? What are casting directors looking for? If someone in a position of power makes a move on you for a gig what do you do?!

Mar 13, 202352:17
Why Ban Drag Shows? with Britney Banks & Justine Van De Blair

Why Ban Drag Shows? with Britney Banks & Justine Van De Blair

Jeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) is joined by drag artists Britney Banks (@thebritneybanks) & Justine Van De Blair (@justinequeenqueen) to share everything that is going on with the new legislation that just passed in Tennessee. Jeff explains what you can expect in this new "Gays in the Wild" journey! 

Mar 06, 202338:41
The End with Nancy Rodriguez

The End with Nancy Rodriguez

Jeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) is joined by Netflix's Love Is Blind star Nancy Rodriguez (@thenancyrodriguez) to share their most recent relationship highs, lows, and what ultimately led to their breakups. Nancy shares why her and Bartise were never meant to be (5:02) Jeff asks Nancy the most inappropriate question (22:20) Jeff dives in the why him and Alex ended (25:30)! Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!

Feb 27, 202349:58
Is 30 Really The Gay Death?

Is 30 Really The Gay Death?

Jeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) is joined by life coach Alex Alberti (@albertidevelopment) to talk about the joys and sorrows of turning 30? Why is turning 30 known as gay death? Learn how to age like a bad b*tch! Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!

You can follow Alex Here

Oct 04, 202246:04
Forcing Relationships with Connor Shennan

Forcing Relationships with Connor Shennan

Jeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) is joined his streaming bestie Connor Shennan (@ShennanConnor) to laugh about their experiences on a dating show. Do you think you can force a relationship? Have you ever felt fucked up that you knew someone liked you and they were a good fit for you but you just couldn't get there? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!

You can follow Connor Here

Sep 26, 202242:31
Nascar, Homos & Fissures with Devon Rouse

Nascar, Homos & Fissures with Devon Rouse

Jeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) is joined by Devon Rouse (@Devon__Rouse) to share what it's like being the first Nascar driver to come out in 20 years!. Devon opens up about what his coming out journey has been like & how the Nascar community has responded. Did coming out effect his career? How many closet cases are in the Nascar community? Who just got an anal fissure?... Oh just kidding... Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!

You can follow Devon Here

Sep 19, 202233:58
Astrology Gays with the Astro Twins

Astrology Gays with the Astro Twins

Jeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) & Alex Van Gurp (@Alexvangurp) are joined by Ophira Edut (@Astrotwins) to discuss their birth charts. Ophi is an Astrologer for Elle Magazine as well as one of the masterminds behind Amazon Prime Video's latest show Cosmic Love. Are the stars aligned for Jeff & Alex? What zodiac signs make the best matches? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! You guys can follow the Astro Twins Here & be sure to stream Cosmic Love on Prime Video now!

Checkout the Astro Twins daily horoscopes here!

Stream Cosmic Love on Prime Video here!

Sep 14, 202246:40
'Uncoupled' & Immigration with Gonzalo Aburto de la Fuente

'Uncoupled' & Immigration with Gonzalo Aburto de la Fuente

Jeff Perla is joined by Gonzalo Aburto de la Fuente (@Gonzalo_Aburto) from 'Uncoupled' now streaming on Netflix. Gonzalo shares his experiences on set working with Darren Star & NPH. How difficult has it been immigrating to the US from Mexico City? Jeff & Gonzalo give some life advice to 2 guys navigating  a bump in their relationships. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! You guys can follow Gonzalo Here & be sure to stream Uncoupled on Netflix now!
Sep 05, 202239:06
Anthony Spills The Tea with Anthony Wright

Anthony Spills The Tea with Anthony Wright

Jeff Perla is joined by fellow cast-mate Anthony Wright (@Antsinyapantzz) from The One That Got Away, now streaming on Prime Video. The boys dive deep into each cast member, their relationships, and what really went down at the pool party. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!

You guys can follow Anthony Here

& be sure to stream The One That Got Away now on Prime Video!

Aug 01, 202242:09
Relationship Status, Monkey Pox, & More

Relationship Status, Monkey Pox, & More

Jeff Perla is joined by Alex Van Gurp (@AlexVanGurp) to discuss their relationship pending the show. You all submitted questions you wanted to know. What was it like transitioning back into the real world? When did we tell our friends? What was it like filming the bedroom scene on camera?

The second half of this podcast Jeff is joined by Gabe, (@GabrielBoyers) to share his experience battling Monkey Pox. What does Gabe wish he knew prior to getting it? What's it feel like? The boys discuss everything from where he got it to treatment. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!


For more information on Monkey Pox or to book your vaccine in NYC click here

Jul 25, 202240:06
Nomads, Bums, & Joe

Nomads, Bums, & Joe

Jeff Perla is joined by Joe Santini (@SavageSantini) travel host for nomads. Joe explains how so many gays have found time to travel and yet make a living. Is there a difference between your relationship standards and your hookup standards? Is it weird to use Grindr to network? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!


You can follow Joe Here


Jul 18, 202242:05
Does Dylan In Fact Have BDE? The One That Got Away

Does Dylan In Fact Have BDE? The One That Got Away

Jeff Perla is joined by fellow cast-mate Dylan Palladino (@DylanJpalladino) from The One That Got Away, now streaming on Prime Video. The boys reminisce on their experience filming the show and answer on going questions. Does Dylan's BDE match the reality? Who stirred the pot the most in the house? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!


You guys can follow Dylan Here

& be sure to stream The One That Got Away now on Prime Video!

Jul 04, 202246:30
Confessions Of A Call Boy with Kyle

Confessions Of A Call Boy with Kyle

Jeff Perla is joined by Kyle Langan (@kylejlangan) author & social media consultant. The boys share their own experiences through the narrative of Kyle's new book "Confessions Of A Call Boy". This fictional novel explores the life of a call boy and his journey with self acceptance, self identity, suicide, sex work all wrapped into a murder plot. Hear the boys answers as they share some personal information and insight into their lives. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!

May 23, 202237:03
What I'd Tell My Younger Self with Josh Van Sant

What I'd Tell My Younger Self with Josh Van Sant

Jeff Perla is joined by Josh Van Sant (@JoshVanSant) "an older gay" who is notorious for offering advice to younger gays. Most famously for his videos on TikTok, the 2 get personal on what they think they need to work on about themselves and what they think they've got all figured out. What are your top 3 attributes you're seeking in a partner? If any of those are physical, you'll be in an unhappy relationship. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!


You can follow Josh on Instagram Here

Josh's TikTok

Apr 25, 202244:44
Sex Drive & Testosterone

Sex Drive & Testosterone

Jeff Perla is joined by Vlad Radoi (@RadoiVlad) a Biochemist with a PHD in Medical Science. The boys discuss how your sex drive works and the difference between your libido and hormones. Just because your testosterone levels decrease does that mean your sex drive should decrease? Well guess again. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!

Apr 18, 202238:39
Short King Spring with Elliott & Alex

Short King Spring with Elliott & Alex

Jeff Perla is joined by Elliott Norris (@Elliottnorris) & Alex Van Gurp (@Alexvangurp), sharing their heights and experiences with taller or shorter men. Does height matter? The boys have been in Curacao for one week. Hear about the trip, our peak and pits, and all the drama in between! Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!

Mar 28, 202241:39
Checking Boxes with Rob & David

Checking Boxes with Rob & David

Jeff Perla is joined by Rob Pugliese (@SouthTampaBob) & David Rumsey (@MusgraveMTNMan),2 men over the age of 60 sharing their life experiences in the gay community! What was it like coming out in the 80's? What does "Side mean"? Want to gain some great life advice as to why you shouldn't spend your time "checking a box"? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!

Mar 14, 202252:49
Toxic Men with Tiger Redz

Toxic Men with Tiger Redz

Jeff Perla is joined by Tiger Redz (@Tiger.Redz), a femme creator sharing their opinions on toxic masculinity! Is there a difference between internalized homophobia and toxic masculinity? What are the traits of a toxic male? How many of them do these 2 have? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!

Mar 07, 202249:24
The Future Urologist

The Future Urologist

Jeff Perla is joined by Pedro (@_________pedro________) to play a game sharing their wild stories abroad! Pedro is studying to be a urologist so the conversations naturally revolved around... well ya know, dicks. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! 

Feb 28, 202242:20
Twitter Kings and Daddies with Christian Berry (@ChristianTBerry)

Twitter Kings and Daddies with Christian Berry (@ChristianTBerry)

Jeff Perla is joined by Christian Berry (@ChristianTBerry) to reminisce on their sugar daddies! What is the worst situation they've put themselves in with a daddy? How did Christian start on Twitter? What is the most awkward sex video to film of yourself? We talked about a lot more than we cared to share on this but hope you enjoy!
If you want to follow Christian @ChristianTBerry on Instagram or @Seateabe
Feb 14, 202201:14:34
What Would You Do For $1?

What Would You Do For $1?

Jeff Perla is joined by Daniel (@NKD_Dan) to laugh about the odd requests they've been receiving? What would you send out for money? What is something that just no amount of money can get? Who sent out their c*m rag for $200? Oh god... Enjoy

If you want to follow Dan @NKD_Dan

Feb 07, 202240:05
So What Happened This Past Month?!

So What Happened This Past Month?!

Jeff's back with his good friend Josh Oram (@ooshj) to catch you up on everything you missed? Why was the account disabled? What is The Travelin Bum allowed to post? Do you think "meta" is homophobic? There's a lot to unbox here so we hope this insight into Jeff's life the past month helps answer any of your pondering questions. 

If you want to follow Josh @ooshj

Jan 31, 202238:53
On The Run with Bash

On The Run with Bash

Sebastian (@BashDeltas) joins Jeff Perla (@JeffPerlaa) to talk about what it's like going back to the place you grew up for the holidays. What do you do when you see a family member you don't get along with? Is it normal to get anxious going back home. Why is it so common to leave home and move to a big city? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

You can follow Bash here

Nov 15, 202140:19
What's An Influencer Trip Like?

What's An Influencer Trip Like?

I'm sure you're all sick of our Puerto Rico content by now, yet here is our recap. Come join Elliot (@ElliottNorris), Spencer (@HoddSuspenders), Barry (@BarryBartlett_) and I (@JeffPerlaa) as we share our peak and pit, first impressions of one another, and all the inappropriate juicy questions you guys asked. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

If you're planning a trip to Puerto Rico in the near future. I suggest Coqui Del Mar in San Juan as well as Casa de Amistad in Vieques. Salty Spirit was our tour guide for the duration of the trip who took us to incredible places from the black sand beach to snorkeling. Last but not least, a car is a necessity in Puerto Rico and we went Lesbian owned at Maritza's Car Rental

Nov 01, 202146:20
Wouldn't You Like To Know

Wouldn't You Like To Know

You guys ask a lot of questions and I can't send lengthy responses so I let Alex VanGurp (@AlexVanGurp) pick out 15 of your questions that I was forced to answer. Not going to give any hints to what these were but I think you'll like it. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

Oct 25, 202136:55
Stretch Marks, Loose Skin, & Self Love with Kendrick Leon Val

Stretch Marks, Loose Skin, & Self Love with Kendrick Leon Val

Kendrick (@KendrickLeonVal) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss his weight loss journey and self love. Have you noticed a difference in attention from gay men post weight loss journey? Has your "type" changed at all? What aspects of your mental health have grown throughout the process. This episode takes a lot of twist and turns. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!


You can follow Kendrick:

https://www.instagram.com/kendrickleonval/?hl=en

https://www.tiktok.com/@kendrickleonval?lang=en

Oct 18, 202153:50
Du Du with Jimmy & Jessa

Du Du with Jimmy & Jessa

Jimmy (@JimmyPezzino) & Jessa (@TheeJessa) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss their new douche @discover_DU. How often do you douche? Is it just me or do you view douching as like arghhh I'm a hungry bottom lets fuck...  Here's the Du's and Dunt's on douching. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!


If you'd like to try or purchase your own Du - https://www.discoverdu.com/

Oct 04, 202133:02
Circle Message ... with Daniel Cusimano

Circle Message ... with Daniel Cusimano

Daniel Cusimano (@Daniel_Cusimano) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss his Virginity, Gay Culture, and his time on The Circle. Has Daniel had his first kiss now? Why is he holding on to his virginity for so long? Who was his best friend and not so favorite person from the show?  Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

Sep 29, 202136:53
Mental Health, Suicide, & Prevention

Mental Health, Suicide, & Prevention

With September right around the corner, Tony Santilli (@TonyJoeSantilli) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) as they discuss National Suicide Awareness Month. The Boys dive in on their own mental health journeys. Have they ever contemplated suicide? Men who post shirtless selfies non-stop, are they more narcissistic than others? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

For more information you can visit

https://tonyssuperherostory.com/

https://www.instagram.com/tonyjoesantilli/?hl=en

Aug 30, 202139:13
Truvada, Descovy, Pep What's The Difference?

Truvada, Descovy, Pep What's The Difference?

Joey Gentile (@Joey.Gentile) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to talk about Truvada, Descovy, & Pep. What's the difference between Truvada and Descovy? How many people actually take Prep? Do you need insurance to get Prep? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!


I think my most asked question is "How can I get Prep with or without insurance"? You can checkout Mistr here


Aug 23, 202131:15
Jeff & Corey Unhinged & Unedited

Jeff & Corey Unhinged & Unedited

Corey Rae (@ImCoreyRae) and host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) share their experiences dating around. Are you a serial killer if you go on a weekend date? Do you know what you want in a relationship? Is it ok to compare new and old relationships? This conversation is a great representation of what it's like to be in my head. Aka unedited and all over the place. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

You can follow Corey Here

Aug 16, 202140:00
The Gay Virgin

The Gay Virgin

Kevin (@Hoosagoodboy) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to share his thoughts on sex before marriage. What is it like to be 53 and never have had penetrative sex yet? Would you be scared to take a guys virginity?  Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

Jul 05, 202133:06
My Wife Found Out I Was Gay

My Wife Found Out I Was Gay

Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) Is joined by 3 guests, David, Josh, & Britt who are all men who were once married to women. At what point did they know they were gay? Why go through with a marriage if you knew you were gay? How one wife went through his phone and discovered ... well grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

You can follow the guys below:

https://www.instagram.com/davidstory16/?hl=en

https://www.instagram.com/evans.britt/?hl=en

Jun 21, 202137:43
Should I Become A Dad?

Should I Become A Dad?

Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) Is joined by 2 guests, Casey & James who are fathers VIA adoption & surrogacy. What's easier adoption or surrogacy? Is it possible to jerk off into a cup and get a female pregnant turkey baster style? Listen as we hear how these men did it. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

You can follow the guys below:

https://www.instagram.com/caseyjackson8312/?hl=en

https://www.instagram.com/jaxleejamesly/?hl=en

Jun 14, 202134:29
Can You Sit On A Pierced D*ck?

Can You Sit On A Pierced D*ck?

Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) Is joined by 3 guests who have unique piercings and tattoos in their genital areas. Would you bottom for a guy who had a pierced dick? Listen as we break down what is safe or not safe. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
Jun 08, 202118:41
No D*ck Is That Good!

No D*ck Is That Good!

Zak (@TallZT) & Brian (@yeatheycallmeb) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to share their experiences with straight men. Should you hook up with your straight friends? At what point should you start saying no to them?  Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

You can follow the boys below:

https://www.instagram.com/thetravelinbum/?hl=en

https://www.instagram.com/yeatheycallmeb/?hl=en

https://www.instagram.com/tallzt/?hl=en


May 24, 202141:07
Would You Be In An Age Gapped Relationship?

Would You Be In An Age Gapped Relationship?

Couple Marco (@Msivio516) & Arial (@Arialw_) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to share if a 27 year age gap is a factor in their relationship. Later in the episode Jeff is joined by Andre, 21 (@_who_is_Andre) who shares his experience in an age gap relationship, and why it didn't work. Do you think you could be in an age gapped relationship? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
May 17, 202143:35
Do you have a "Micro Penis"?

Do you have a "Micro Penis"?

Anonymous Guests join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss their "Micro Penis". A Micro Penis has a stretched penile length of a maximum of 3.67 IN (9.32 cm). Should a guy with a micro penis disclose his size prior to meeting up for sex? What is penile humiliation? Sean (Seanlshow) shares his experience hooking up with someone who has one. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
May 10, 202138:51
How Has My Race Impacted Me with Bernard Green

How Has My Race Impacted Me with Bernard Green

Bernard Green M.Ed, Doctoral Candidate (@johnnybgood09) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to challenge him to have a conversation about race. Can white people be victims of racism? Is it ok to use the "N" word in songs? Is racism a power dynamic that is pushed upon others? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
Apr 26, 202153:24
Elliott Norris Is My Gay Guide
Apr 19, 202144:19
Twink Therapy with Andres, Steven, and Javier

Twink Therapy with Andres, Steven, and Javier

Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) is joined by Instagram friends; Andres (@andrespalenciao), Steven (@smccutie) & Javier (@jv.rv) to share their experience as a Twink. At what age are you no longer considered a Twink? Do Twink's have a daddy fetish? Has anyone ever used the term Twink to negatively described someone? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!

If you want to follow the boys from this episode;

https://www.instagram.com/smccutie/?hl=en

https://www.instagram.com/jv.rv/?hl=en

https://www.instagram.com/andrespalenciao/?hl=en

Apr 12, 202142:50
Bathroom Do's and Don'ts with Frank (@Franekskywalker)
Mar 29, 202143:51
Hole Etiquette with Dr. Evan Goldstein
Mar 23, 202151:33
Everything You Wanted To Know with Niko
Mar 15, 202142:06
Is Sex Addiction A Thing?
Feb 15, 202146:29
Do I Have An Eating Disorder?

Do I Have An Eating Disorder?

Traci Carson (@Traci_Carson) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to analyze Jeff's picky eating habits. How restrictive is Jeff's palate? What percentage of gay men actually have an eating disorder? Have you ever skipped a meal because you wanted to look skinnier? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

Feb 08, 202150:37
Navigating Curious Straight Men with Anthony Guerrieri

Navigating Curious Straight Men with Anthony Guerrieri

Anthony Guerrieri (@badboyantg) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss their experience hooking up with straight men. What't the appeal? How did it work out for Jeff & Anthony? The boys talk with 3 other anonymous guests who share how some have and some haven't gotten over their first love to a straight man. Jeff & Anthony try to leave the boys with some advice on how to navigate a curious straight male. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! https://www.instagram.com/badboyantg/
Feb 01, 202154:54
Power Bottoming with James & Nico

Power Bottoming with James & Nico

James (@jj1993c) & Nico (@musically_nico) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to share what exactly a Power Bottom is. Is there one sole definition of a power bottom? Does a power bottom mean you can take any dick size? Is a power bottom a sexual position or a personality trait? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! You can follow the boys here: James: https://www.instagram.com/jj1993c/?hl=en Nico: https://www.instagram.com/musically_nico/?hl=en
Jan 25, 202137:06
Are You My Fetish?
Jan 18, 202140:03
Why I Made An Only Fans with (@Jimmypezzino)
Jan 11, 202143:59