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Bellowbois

Bellowbois

By Bellowbois

Two asian american boys that grew up in LA talking about life.
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Ep 9: Being Broke in Your 20s, Figuring Out Your Passion, Love Language

BellowboisApr 21, 2022

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Ep 43: GOING TO WORK IN YOUR UNDERWEAR

Ep 43: GOING TO WORK IN YOUR UNDERWEAR

Aaron & AJ talk about why work from home is the greatest, being a worry wart, whether or not we love alcohol TOO much, and people changing their race.

Aug 31, 202336:08
Ep 42: ONE OF THE WORST FEELINGS IN THE WORLD

Ep 42: ONE OF THE WORST FEELINGS IN THE WORLD

Aaron & AJ with special guest Jay talk about one of the WORST feelings in the world, whether or not you should pee sitting down, why it's hard to get Asian food in New York and whether we miss any Hinge dates on this special episode.

Jul 26, 202352:26
Ep 41: WHAT IT'S LIKE TO DATE IN NYC

Ep 41: WHAT IT'S LIKE TO DATE IN NYC

Aaron & AJ with special guest Hunter talk about what it's like to date in NYC, how LA is more cliquey than New York, the best areas to live in NYC during your early 20's and why car seggs is terrible on this very special episode!

Jul 11, 202339:37
Ep 40: SHOULD YOU MOVE TO NEW YORK IN YOUR 20S?

Ep 40: SHOULD YOU MOVE TO NEW YORK IN YOUR 20S?

Aaron & AJ talk about our most recent move to New York, why New Yorkers are terrible drivers, the differences between LA and New York, why everyone should try to move to a big city when they're young, and how the NY rave scene is dead.

Jun 16, 202353:03
Ep 39: Is TikTok Bad for You??

Ep 39: Is TikTok Bad for You??

WE'RE BACK!! Aaron & AJ with special guests David, Alvin, and Ben talk about what it's like to not use TikTok, our roommate pet peeves, and some of the craziest artists we want to see live.

Jun 11, 202353:38
Ep 38: WOULD YOU EVER EAT A*S??

Ep 38: WOULD YOU EVER EAT A*S??

Aaron & AJ with special guests Johnny and Jay talk about whether or not we would ever eat A*S, if "tall privilege" is a thing, dating apps vs. organic dating, picking your wife or mom's side, and Asian Dad's tough love on this CRAZY episode!

Apr 06, 202301:25:54
Ep 37: SHOULD YOU EVER DOUBLE TEXT?

Ep 37: SHOULD YOU EVER DOUBLE TEXT?

Aaron & AJ talk about whether or not you should EVER double text someone, feeling left out of Gen Z, what it means to be a MUNCH, the difference between a rave and a concert, and our upcoming move to New York in this special episode!

Mar 10, 202301:02:33
EP 36: I POOPED MY PANTS AT 24 YEARS OLD

EP 36: I POOPED MY PANTS AT 24 YEARS OLD

Aaron & AJ with special guest Benjamin talk about pooping your pants at 24 years old, what it's like to be poop shy, what to order at a bar when you're older, the best Asian Struggle Meals, and the best foods to eat when "elevated"

Mar 03, 202346:51
Ep 35: WHEN DID GAMING BECOME COOL??

Ep 35: WHEN DID GAMING BECOME COOL??

Aaron & AJ with Big Boy Ben talk about when gaming became cool, our favorite pre-covid memories, what type of drunk we all are, some advice for first-time ravers, and why TikTok has ruined the rave scene.

Feb 23, 202353:42
Ep 34: BEING SINGLE ON VALENTINE'S DAY

Ep 34: BEING SINGLE ON VALENTINE'S DAY

Aaron & AJ with special guest Ben talk about what it is like to be SINGLE on Valentine's day, needing a girlfriend to feel comfortable, why we feel stagnant in life, and some of the best things to learn in your 20's.

Feb 15, 202347:48
Ep 33: WHAT IT'S LIKE MOVING FROM KOREA TO AMERICA AS A KID

Ep 33: WHAT IT'S LIKE MOVING FROM KOREA TO AMERICA AS A KID

Aaron & AJ with special guests Johnny, Eric, David, and Ben talk about what it is like to move to America from Korea as a kid, how Kpop is taking over, the rise of NewJeans, and who we would room with if we had to choose.

Feb 08, 202301:09:26
Ep 32: THE BEST FIRST MESSAGE TO SEND TO SOMEONE

Ep 32: THE BEST FIRST MESSAGE TO SEND TO SOMEONE

Aaron & AJ with special guests Johnny and not so special guest Ben talk about the best first message to send to someone, why it is so hard to cut Asian hair, how do you ask for the check and where to bring someone on a first date. ALSO SPECIAL SPECIAL GUEST APPEARANCE BY ERIC

Jan 25, 202301:20:00
Ep 31: THE BIGGEST DIFFERENCES BETWEEN SOCAL AND NORCAL

Ep 31: THE BIGGEST DIFFERENCES BETWEEN SOCAL AND NORCAL

Aaron & AJ with special guest Kyle talk about the biggest differences between SoCal and NorCal, what our desired timeline is for marrying a girl, the biggest worries after graduating college, and what we can buy with our body count.

Jan 18, 202301:05:38
Ep 30: SINGLE'S INFERNO SEASON 2 ENDING PREDICTIONS

Ep 30: SINGLE'S INFERNO SEASON 2 ENDING PREDICTIONS

Aaron & AJ with special guest Johnny and not-so-special guest Ben talk about Single's Inferno Season 2 reactions/predictions, whether or not it's weird to go to Disneyland with the boys, and why Asians love EDM so much.

Jan 11, 202301:01:31
Ep 29: THE BEST NEW YEAR'S RESOLUTIONS FOR 2023

Ep 29: THE BEST NEW YEAR'S RESOLUTIONS FOR 2023

Aaron & AJ with not so special guest Ben talk about our new year's resolutions for 2023, the highlights of the year, experiencing memories with friends, and living it up in your 20s.

Dec 31, 202201:09:21
Ep 28: WHAT TO DO IF SHE HAS TOO MANY GUY FRIENDS

Ep 28: WHAT TO DO IF SHE HAS TOO MANY GUY FRIENDS

Aaron & AJ with special guests Ben & Alvin talk about what to do if she has too many guy friends, having commitment issues, and our first impressions of each other. 

Dec 24, 202249:26
Ep 27: DOES FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS WORK??

Ep 27: DOES FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS WORK??

Aaron & AJ with special guest Johnny talk about whether or not friends with benefits works, listening to music during seggs, dating your sibling's friends, the kissing signal and whether fashion matters on your partner.

Dec 07, 202201:24:40
Ep 26: HOW OFTEN SHOULD YOU TEXT YOUR PARTNER WHEN GOING OUT??

Ep 26: HOW OFTEN SHOULD YOU TEXT YOUR PARTNER WHEN GOING OUT??

Aaron & AJ with special guests Young & Hunter are LIVE FROM NEW YORK in this special episode where we talk about how often you should text your partner when going out, what it was like growing up in the midwest/east coast, being half asian and half white, and what it feels like to be united with our fellow Asians. 

Nov 29, 202201:08:38
Ep 25: Is Replying Too Fast a Turn Off, What is the Best Stage in a Relationship, Believing in Soul Mates, and Drinking Being a Big Part of Korean Culture

Ep 25: Is Replying Too Fast a Turn Off, What is the Best Stage in a Relationship, Believing in Soul Mates, and Drinking Being a Big Part of Korean Culture

Aaron & AJ with special guest Alvin talk about whether or not replying too fast is a turn off, what the best stage in a relationship is, whether or not soulmates are real, and why drinking is such a big part of Korean Culture. 

Nov 04, 202201:07:40
Episode 24: What Would You Do If Your Friends Cheated on their Partner, Not Knowing Your Native Language, Social Media Depression

Episode 24: What Would You Do If Your Friends Cheated on their Partner, Not Knowing Your Native Language, Social Media Depression

Aaron & AJ with special guest Ben talk about what you would do if your friend cheated on their long-term partner, how it was hard to connect to our parents by not knowing our native language, and what it is like to feel depressed from too much social media.

Oct 21, 202201:04:44
Episode 23: Is Watching Porn Considered Cheating, Maturing as a Person, and Whether or Not PDA is Cringe

Episode 23: Is Watching Porn Considered Cheating, Maturing as a Person, and Whether or Not PDA is Cringe

Aaron & AJ discuss whether or not watching porn is considered a form of cheating, what it's like to mature in your early 20's and why excessive PDA is cringe

Oct 11, 202201:03:32
Episode 22: Dating Age Gaps, Close Friend vs. Surface-Level Friend, Using the Dishwasher as an Asian

Episode 22: Dating Age Gaps, Close Friend vs. Surface-Level Friend, Using the Dishwasher as an Asian

Aaron & AJ talk about what our ideal age range is for dating, how to tell the difference between a close friend and surface-level friend, and why Asians don't use the dishwasher at home.

Oct 01, 202201:16:19
Episode 21: Why New York is the Greatest City, Having a Mid-Life Crisis, Thoughts on Interracial Dating, Drink or Slap Game

Episode 21: Why New York is the Greatest City, Having a Mid-Life Crisis, Thoughts on Interracial Dating, Drink or Slap Game

Aaron and AJ talk about why New York is the Greatest City in America, our constant mid-life crises, thoughts on interracial dating, and playing drink or slap to see how well we know each other

Sep 16, 202201:11:33
Episode 20: Talking to the Uber Driver, Tokyo Drifiting a Camry, and Should You Be Friends with Your Ex?

Episode 20: Talking to the Uber Driver, Tokyo Drifiting a Camry, and Should You Be Friends with Your Ex?

Aaron and AJ talk about why you can get a sh*tty Uber rating, how we almost died drifting Aaron's car, and why you shouldn't stay friends with your ex.

Sep 02, 202256:54
Episode 19: Childhood Stories, What's on our FYP, Seggsy Time and Favorite Position

Episode 19: Childhood Stories, What's on our FYP, Seggsy Time and Favorite Position

Aaron and AJ talk about our funny childhood stories, what is on our personal for you page and seggsy time.

Aug 21, 202237:25
Episode 18: Shaving Down There, Growing up in an Asian Bubble, Gaining Self-Confidence, Being a Simp

Episode 18: Shaving Down There, Growing up in an Asian Bubble, Gaining Self-Confidence, Being a Simp

Aaron & AJ with special guests Alvin and Ben the nugget talk about whether or not to shave down there, what it was like to grow up in an Asian Bubble, how to gain self-confidence, why it's bad to be a simp.

Aug 11, 202201:33:00
Episode 17: Why Europe is Dope, AJ's Simp Story, Dealing with Covid, Why You Shouldn't Work Just for the Money

Episode 17: Why Europe is Dope, AJ's Simp Story, Dealing with Covid, Why You Shouldn't Work Just for the Money

Aaron & AJ with special guests Ben the cheese and Eric the nugget talk about why Europe is a great place to go, AJ's simp story, how Aaron survived with Ben's Covid, and why you shouldn't work a job just for the money.

Aug 01, 202201:05:38
Ep 16: Why You Should Roast Your Friends, Experiencing Tough Love, Our Go-To Pickup Lines

Ep 16: Why You Should Roast Your Friends, Experiencing Tough Love, Our Go-To Pickup Lines

Aaron & AJ with special guest Ben the nugget, talk about why you should roast your friends, what it is like to experience tough love, and our go-to pickup lines at the club. 

Jul 20, 202251:13
Ep 15: Moving from Korea to America, SoCal vs. NorCal, First Love

Ep 15: Moving from Korea to America, SoCal vs. NorCal, First Love

Aaron & AJ with special guest Eric talk about what it was like to move from Korea to America in 5th grade, the differences between SoCal and NorCal, and experiences with our first love.

Jul 06, 202257:01
Ep. 14: Sad Boy Summer, Being Heartbroken, Green Flags in Girls

Ep. 14: Sad Boy Summer, Being Heartbroken, Green Flags in Girls

Aaron & AJ talk about Joji's new song, what it's like to be heartbroken, anime crushes, and some green flags in girls

Jun 26, 202248:39
Ep 13: Graduation, Asian Childhood Stories, Preferred Height in Dating

Ep 13: Graduation, Asian Childhood Stories, Preferred Height in Dating

Aaron & AJ with special guest Ben talk about graduating over 2 years ago, funny childhood stories as an Asian, what our ideal height would be in a partner. 

Jun 15, 202201:03:08
Ep 12: EDC FOMO, Why Work Sucks, Being Sus with the Homies

Ep 12: EDC FOMO, Why Work Sucks, Being Sus with the Homies

Aaron & AJ with special guest Ben talk about missing out on EDC 2022, why working and the 9 to 5 grind sucks, and what it means to be sus with the homies. 

May 26, 202257:27
Ep 11: Chasing Your Passion, Asian Parents on Career Path, Thoughts on Marriage

Ep 11: Chasing Your Passion, Asian Parents on Career Path, Thoughts on Marriage

Aaron and AJ with special guest Johnny talk about what it's like to chase your passion, Asian Parent's influence on career path, and overall thoughts on marriage. 

May 08, 202201:22:37
Ep 10: Attack on Titan Ending, Long Distance Relationships, Moving to LA, Changing Over Time

Ep 10: Attack on Titan Ending, Long Distance Relationships, Moving to LA, Changing Over Time

Aaron & AJ talk about Attack on Titan's ending, whether or not we could do long distance relationships, our recent move to LA, and how your personality changes over time. 

May 01, 202237:35
Ep 9: Being Broke in Your 20s, Figuring Out Your Passion, Love Language

Ep 9: Being Broke in Your 20s, Figuring Out Your Passion, Love Language

Aaron & AJ talk about what it's like to be broke in your 20s, shaping your career around your passion, and what our love languages are.

Apr 21, 202257:30
Ep 8: Going to College Out of State, Parent's Influence on Career, Family Impact on Dating

Ep 8: Going to College Out of State, Parent's Influence on Career, Family Impact on Dating

Aaron & AJ with special guest Ben talk about what it was like to go to college out of state, how parents influence your career choices, and the impact your family has on dating.

Mar 31, 202250:35
Ep 7: Ghosting, Dating Friends, Childhood Pool Sandwich

Ep 7: Ghosting, Dating Friends, Childhood Pool Sandwich

Aaron & AJ talk about when its acceptable to ghost, dating people within the friend group, and why the childhood pool sandwich was so gas. 

Mar 13, 202242:33
Ep 6: Lost in your 20's, Refusing Change, iPad Babies

Ep 6: Lost in your 20's, Refusing Change, iPad Babies

Aaron & AJ talk about how it feels to be in your early 20's, AJ hating to change things, and the next generation of iPad babies. 

Feb 27, 202251:47
Ep 5: Asian Glow, Makeup For Guys, Being a Simp

Ep 5: Asian Glow, Makeup For Guys, Being a Simp

Aaron & AJ talk about the pros and cons of having asian glow, why guys should wear makeup, and why AJ is the biggest horndog on this planet. 

Feb 20, 202255:18
Ep 4: Growing Up Asian American, Winter Olympics, Eileen Gu Controversy, Asian Ravers

Ep 4: Growing Up Asian American, Winter Olympics, Eileen Gu Controversy, Asian Ravers

Aaron & AJ talking about what it was like growing up Asian American, the Winter Olympics and the controversy around Eileen Gu representing China, and Asian ravers. 

Feb 12, 202243:44
Ep 3: OG Asian Youtubers, Freshman College Tips, Dating Your Friend's Ex

Ep 3: OG Asian Youtubers, Freshman College Tips, Dating Your Friend's Ex

Aaron & AJ talk about our favorite OG Asian youtubers, give tips to people applying to colleges, and whether or not they would date a friend's ex. 

Feb 08, 202241:30
Ep 2: Best/Worst Hinge Experiences, Dating Tips, Sugar Daddies, Gamer Boyfriend

Ep 2: Best/Worst Hinge Experiences, Dating Tips, Sugar Daddies, Gamer Boyfriend

Aaron & AJ talking bout hinge and dating with special guest Jessica La. 

Feb 08, 202251:05
Ep 1: Single's Inferno

Ep 1: Single's Inferno

Aaron & AJ's take on the cast of the korean dating show, Single's Inferno. Breaking down each cast member and explaining what we think about them. 

Feb 08, 202228:57