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Be Love Be Well Be Whole

Be Love Be Well Be Whole

By Nicole M. Raines, LMFT & Dr. Dena Scott

Be Love Be Well Be Whole is a holistic collaboration between two Gen X mental health professionals that takes a journey into the multiple pieces of experience that makes us whole. We will dive into relationships in all phases and stages, mental health and wellness.
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Gratitude in Grief II

Be Love Be Well Be WholeOct 03, 2022

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Put on the Boots and Splash in the Puddle

Put on the Boots and Splash in the Puddle

Previous guests, Patrice Marshall Mackenzie and Chef Halili, join Nicole on this stop on the journey to talk about self love. They are defining self-love and defying the the ways in which we talk about and practice it. "Sometimes self-love is an act of defiance." Join the journey!


Episode Theme Songs

Patrice - "Workin' Day and Night" - Michael Jackson

Nicole - "Defying Gravity" - Original Broadway Cast

Halili - "Golden" - Jill Scott


Self Love Practices in This Episode

  • Acceptance
  • Asses your own needs (check lists, love letter to self, sitting in silence)
  • Forgiveness
  • Honor who you are in this moment (finding out the meaning of your name, creating a love board)
  • Make space to create and play




Mar 15, 202437:50
Accepting of The Way That I Am
Feb 24, 202432:31
Welcome to the Season of Love!

Welcome to the Season of Love!

We're back!!! Join Dr. Dena, Nicole and Shanelle for this intro to our 2024 journey. We are delving into the love and will be spending this season chatting about relationships. Our stops this season include relationships with ourselves as and with others be it platonic, familial, romantic or work related. Join the journey!


Episode Theme Songs

Dr. Dena : The vibe is Sade (select your own song "By Your Side" is the reminder)

Nicole: "Love's Holiday" Earth, Wind and Fire

Shanelle: "Un-thinkable" Alicia Keys

Jan 29, 202410:41
"I'm fabulous! I'm a star! I need to lay down!"
Mar 30, 202327:23
Belonging Is An Active Process
Feb 15, 202327:28
From Letters to Swiping, Relationships The POV Episode

From Letters to Swiping, Relationships The POV Episode

Wow, it’s been 2 years already! On this final and the anniversary stop of 2022’s journey, Nicole and Dena eavesdrop on a conversation between guests Edwardo Jackson and Chef Halili Davis. Join the journey as they share their points of view on dating, polyamory and situationships.

Edwardo is a connoisseur of cryptocurrency, lover of movies and fan of dating feedback. He also spends time as CEO & Founder of CinemaDraft, LLC and as a Cryptocurrency Consultant.

Connect with Edwardo

Website: www.cinemadraft.co

Instagram: @playcinemadraft

Chef Halili is a creative entrepreneur, celebrity chef, caterer, and mental health advocate.

Connect with Chef Halili

Website: https://www.palatesandpetals.com

Instagram: @palatesandpetals

Episode Theme Songs

Halili: "Plastic off the Sofa" by Beyonce

Edwardo: "Born Again" by Riahanna

Dena: “Feels Good” by Tony! Toni! Tone!

Nicole: "Back to Life" by Soul II Soul

Listen to the Theme Songs on Spotify "Be Love Be Well Be Whole Mood"

Follow us online:

Instagram: @belovewellwhole

Episode  Producer: Dr. Shanelle L. Watson

Dec 16, 202254:28
Tap Into Your Sensual Intelligence With Ask Goody

Tap Into Your Sensual Intelligence With Ask Goody

This stop on the journey is tapping into our sensual intelligence. Join Nicole and guest co-host Dr. Shanelle Watson as they chat with Goody Howard (aka Ask Goody) about the difference between being sensual and sexual, the numerous types of orgasms and how to honor your sensual self. Goody is a revolutionary and dynamic boss of sensual and sexual empowerment. These traits are expressed in her work as a sexologist.

Learn more about and connect with Goody

Instagram: @askgoody

Website: https://www.askgoody.com

Listener Love: Use the Code: BELOVE to receive a 20% discount thru December 31, 2022


Episode Theme Songs

Goody: "Free Mind" by Tems

Dr. Shanelle: "Focus" by H.E.R.

Nicole: "Any Time, Any Place'" by Janet Jackson

Listen to the Theme Songs on Spotify "Be Love Be Well Be Whole Mood"


Episode Sign Posts

4:00 What's the difference between sensuality and sexuality?

5:30 You are a sensual human being having a sexual experience. 

9:00 There are how many different types of orgasms?

12:25 How can I tap into my sensuality? 


Follow us online:

Instagram: @belovewellwhole



Episode  Producer: Dr. Shanelle L. Watson

Nov 09, 202229:18
Gratitude in Grief II
Oct 03, 202237:54
Financial Gems With Darvell Williams
Sep 11, 202236:07
Gratitude in Grief

Gratitude in Grief

This stop on the journey has us exploring the concept of gratitude within the grief process. Join Nicole and Dr. Dena and special guest producer and co-host Dr. Shanelle Watson as they share their own experiences with losing their mothers and some of the things that have helped in their journeys. This episode is dedicated to those who have lost a mother but for anyone grieving the loss of a loved one, we encourage you to join the conversation. 

Learn more about and connect with Dr. Shanelle

https://drshanellelwatson.com

Instagram: @drslwatson


Episode Sign Posts

Focus on the "here and now."

Have boundaries that allow us to make sure we are tapping into our own needs.

Have your affairs in order = talk about death in a meaningful way so the living know what to do. 


Episode Theme Songs

Dr. Shanelle- "Heaven" by Beyonce

                     "Family Business" by Kaye West

                     "Thankful" by Mary Mary

                     "I'll Be Missing You" by Puff Daddy & Faith Evans

                     "One Sweet Day" - Mariah Carey featuring Boyz II Men

Dr. Dena- " Outstanding" by The Gap Band

Nicole - " I'm Gonna Live Till I Die" by Sarah Vaughan

             "Unwritten" by Natasha Bedingfield

             " The Boss" by Diana Ross

Listen to the Theme Songs


Episode  Producer: Dr. Shanelle L. Watson

Aug 22, 202249:56
Wandering Through Meaning and Purpose
Jul 05, 202224:38
You Are Here
May 02, 202210:06
Taking Up, Holding, Sharing and Leaning into Space

Taking Up, Holding, Sharing and Leaning into Space

This stop on the journey has us thinking about the ways we take up space. Join Nicole, Dr. Dena and their guest Patrice Marshall McKenzie as they delve into ways to bring your whole self into the spaces that you occupy. Patrice is an orator, door opener and celebrator of others. She spends her professional time as an educator and community advocate.

Connect With Patrice

https://www.patricemarshallmckenzie.com

Episode Sign Posts

The relationship has its own life too. As you create your relationship, develop rhythms around engaging and restoring. Operating as if we automatically know how to be a good partner can create a barrier. Learn how to shift from being reactive to being proactive and responsive. Engaging outside supports like therapy can be done at anytime and does not mean it is the end.

Resources

"It's Time to Talk (and Listen): How to Have Constructive Conversations About Race, Class, Sexuality, Ability & Gender in a Polarized World"

"4 Conflict Styles that Hurt Your Relationship"

Episode Theme Songs

Patrice- "Can You Feel It" by The Jacksons / "Workin' Day and Night" by Michael Jackson

Nicole - repeat of a previous episode (substitute "Lifted" by Trombone Shorty)

Dr. Dena- " Closer" by Slum Village & Dwele

Listen to the Theme Songs

Mar 30, 202227:11
Conflict Could Be Where The Cool Stuff Comes From
Feb 26, 202239:37
Just Breathe

Just Breathe

This month we are hanging out at a quick rest stop. Join Nicole for a moment to just breathe.  Learn the science behind why breathing helps to calm us as well as two simple postures to practice belly breathing. 

Jan 31, 202209:50
Being Brave
Oct 31, 202132:46
Being Clutter Free
Sep 29, 202134:22
Being Able to Quiet the Inner Saboteur
Aug 04, 202132:04
Being About Feedback and Escapes
Jul 08, 202138:13
Being Free to Be You
Jun 21, 202120:55
Being Without Limits
May 08, 202128:49
Being Comfortable Talking About Sex
Apr 25, 202131:49
Being Still
Apr 05, 202118:29
A Taste of Wellness
Mar 26, 202127:09
Being a Vessel of Love
Feb 28, 202137:48
Being a Student of Hope
Jan 25, 202141:08
 Being During the Holidays
Dec 22, 202040:41
Intro: Be On This Journey

Intro: Be On This Journey

A brief introduction into the space of Be Love Be Well Be Whole where we explore, relationships, mental health and the sense of what makes us whole.  

Oct 12, 202018:52