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The Be Real Babe Podcast

The Be Real Babe Podcast

By Brandi Marie

Welcome to the Be real Babe Podcast. This is a place for us all to come together by sharing learned experiences and opinions to help each other gather more knowledge & understanding, grow as individuals, heal parts of ourselves, build connections with others with the same experiences and spread awareness to all 🥰 I truly like to focus on advocacy, ensuring informed consent, what’s happening in Canada and I like to catch up on the distractions cuz sometimes BABES NEED BREAKS. And internet drama is hilarious to me! Thanks for being here 🥰 Message me for anything!
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Episode 180 Being Real about Mental Health with Vassilena

The Be Real Babe Podcast May 24, 2024

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Episode 180 Being Real about Mental Health with Vassilena

Episode 180 Being Real about Mental Health with Vassilena

This episode is jam packed with so many motivational nuggets you guys are going to love it! In this real talk about mental health, Vassilena joins me to share her journey with mental health, how she changed the direction of her life after a robbery and has been aggressively diving into helping others heal as well through years of education & practice. Not only is this babe a clinical counsellor with over 14 years of practice, she’s also a life coach and a fashion stylist. We love a Swiss Army knife kind of babe. So many talents in one gem 😍 A babe helping other babes in every way possible! And I am so here for this! Such a beautiful talk about vulnerability, hope and the trials and tribulations it can take to heal but the worth our ways the struggle without a doubt. Mental health is such a big topic but sometimes there is too much out there. That’s why I like to bring those passionate on to share as they see real life experiences and that is priceless to me. Even if you mental health is in a good space right now, definitely recommend having a listen in case that changes one day or someone you love is going through it. Knowledge is power and one of the biggest fighters against mental health issues. Grateful for humans like Vassilena healing the world one babe at a time ♥️
May 24, 202401:24:38
Episode 179 What in the Actual Internet?! Part 3

Episode 179 What in the Actual Internet?! Part 3

Episode 179 is live babes!! In the next segment of “What in the actual Internet?” I bring on Hollie G to chat about the weird things we found on the Internet to share with each other. We did not discuss anything before but the move went from Honey Boo Boo having no money thanks to Mama June from TLC, to the wild things happening lately in the music industry & strange deaths in the past to a Tik Tok influencer caught lying about her health and her haters 😳 Join myself & Hollie G in Part III of this series & also get a chance to catch up with this amazing human being and all that is the HG Experience 🦄!!
May 17, 202401:39:52
Episode 178 Being Real with Palminder

Episode 178 Being Real with Palminder

I cannot express my gratitude for this next guest for not only joining me on this episode but for being a beacon of light for myself and the girlies throughout the freedom convoy.

Palminder Singh came onto our radar during the freedom convoy as a hope dealer, comical reliever and fact dropper when some of needed it most.

He quickly blew up on social media and just as quickly became censored and shadow banned.

Can relate to the banning part at least!

This is why I was so excited to chat with him about his experience moving here to Canada, watching this country change, watching his home country go through it while unable to fly to support during the mandates, what immigrants go through and how they are manipulated, and so many things you guys!

This episode is jam packed with real talk, truth bombs and so much energy you do not want to miss it!

Steaming on all podcasting platforms as well as YouTube and Rumble 🖤
May 10, 202401:42:25
Episode 177 Keeping up with Canada Pt 7

Episode 177 Keeping up with Canada Pt 7

Another awesome episode of Keeping up with Canada! & this time I bring an OG co host back to talk about gov scandals. Hails & I go through a list of “political scandals” listed on Wikipedia from 2016 to present time. The list is… hella long and alarming at best. The crazy thing is… some of the items on this list didn’t surface for a decade after it happened 😳 Makes you wonder what’s to come out in the next 5-10 years?! As if the WE charity scandal, the SNC Lavalin scandal, the ArriveScan implosion & the emergency act invocation isn’t enough, let’s throw in some ethic law breaks, embarrassment on an international level & a side of groping. ….. and that is just the tip of the iceberg babes! Join Hails & I for a trip down scandal lane 😈
May 03, 202401:27:48
Episode 176 Being Real about Woman's Health with Oracle Beauty Lifestyle

Episode 176 Being Real about Woman's Health with Oracle Beauty Lifestyle

In the next segment of Being real we are diving into Women’s Health with the amazing founder of Oracle Beauty Lifestyle. Maria is currently working towards combining a degree in biologicals sciences with her BSc food and nutrition degree as a dual degree to then apply for naturopathic medicine. As a coach, a mom, a friend, a sister and a boss babe herself, Maria is a on a mission to help women around her as she sees the lack of knowledge around women’s health in the health and wellness section. Although it’s come leaps and bounds there’s still so much work to do as most women have no idea how powerful our bodies are, how intricate our kinds are and how we can truly heal our ailments. In the absolute fire episode, we chat about all the things women face in fitness, in health, in the beauty industry and with our mental health. Cracking open topics like medications, birth control, natural cycling and literally SO MUCH 🥰 Maria shares why she started Oracle Beauty Lifestyle & where she wants to see it grow. Where she hopes this industry can go with more attention to women as the data not men (no offence boys but we different!) where we can take beauty products and our mindsets. Give her a follow babes. I promise you you’ll find inspiration & motivation from her page like I and many others do!
Apr 26, 202401:43:22
Episode 175 What in the actual Internet? Pt 2

Episode 175 What in the actual Internet? Pt 2

It’s time for part 2 of what the actual Internet?!?

A new series to the show and season, I chat about random shit I find on the internet.

Except this one isn’t random and it’s very very gross.

Now we’ve talked about it in length how creepy Hollyweird is and as the years go by, more and more keeps coming out.

In this episode I go over 3 of the most problematic Nickelodeon employees and the allegations against. Both legally and allegedly.

I keep coming back to the same questions.

Why aren’t these child stars protected at all?

Why haven’t we improved here?

Why is the fame and the fortune always more important than their well being?

Why is everything sexualized? In kid shows?

I D’ONT GET IT.

Someone please fill me in. I truly do not get it.

Join me as I highlight key people who were known to be awful to the cast, their co workers and children in general 🤮
Apr 19, 202456:15
Episode 174 Being Real with Coach Donovan

Episode 174 Being Real with Coach Donovan

I cannot tell you how grateful I am to be able to be real with my guests, specially fiery truth speakers like Coach Donovan. I love learning everyone’s personal life experiences, what fuels them, what pains them, what inspires them. This episode has that and so much more! Coach Donovan and I chat about his life growing up and becoming a supplement freak at a very young age, how he has had his own ups and down medically & that journey, how he became a coach/why he became one and how he focuses on healing his clients through a primal diet and exercise. We also get an idea of what life has been/is like with his wife currently healing from cancer treatment in the US & nearly losing her due to the failing systems. If you babes remember, Kristin Torva Logan guest appeared on Ep 169 to share how she had to flee Canada to get life saving cancer surgery since the Canadian Health Care system completely failed her. Please make sure to go have a listen to that one as well! Coach Donovan shares the many ways his wife has been left behind and how amazing the care has been, just below the border. He also shares Part 2 of Kristin’s story. Shortly after we recorded our episode, Kristin found herself back in emergency on Vancouver Island after coming home to move. They had to make another quick plan to save her life as Canada could do nothing. Again. & like the true warriors they are, they made it. That came at a heavy price physically and mentally but it paid off as soon as she hit safety ♥️ This is truly an amazing episode of all the raw, real feels about all of it and I cannot thank the Logans enough for trusting me to share their story. If you can babes, please find either of them on IG and donate anything you can to their go fund me ♥️
Apr 12, 202401:40:30
Episode 173 Being Real with Unrestricted Learning

Episode 173 Being Real with Unrestricted Learning

In the second Being Real with of the season, I chat with Lindsay with Unrestricted Learning ♥️ I cannot tell you guys how much I appreciate what this powerhouse is doing not only for her and her family but helping others along their homeschool journey as well. In her last episode in season 4, she eluded to growth not just with her own path & helping others find theirs but finding a physical location to gather, learn and teach together and yall she did it! How amazing. And she keeps expanding too! I would absolutely recommend this episode to anyone. Whether you have kids or not. Whether you want to homeschool or not, it was great convo about teaching the next generation and how we can take that on. Lindsay is helping families get started, sharing her knowledge, sharing how to set up your lessons and schedule and how you can make it custom to you and your family. Even if your kids are in traditional school, reach out to her as she has plenty of other lessons and activities you can do at home to help teach them life skills, help them in areas of struggle and you get to spend time together too! Truly proud of this woman and can’t wait to have her back next season to see where she soars! Available on all podcast platforms 🥰
Apr 05, 202401:19:14
Episode 172 Keeping up with Canada Pt. 6 with Open Minds Podcast

Episode 172 Keeping up with Canada Pt. 6 with Open Minds Podcast

In the first segment of Keeping up with 🇨🇦 in Season 7, I am joined by one of my faves, Christopher from the Open Minds Podcast to talk about Canada, politics and life in general. Such amazing conversations from our current political climate in Canada, the pressure that will inevitably bestowed upon Poilievre /Conservative leadership, the online harms act the government is toying with, the MAiDs program/the change of language, & an all around look at policies and movements that are making more controversy than community like anti-racism training or pushing LGBTQIA inclusion everywhere. But we do not stop there babes! We also talk about how some of these things have affected us in our personal lives. I chat about my infertility and my struggles with the abortion argument/outrage and being unvaxxed through the pandy while Christopher shares a recent loss and the steps he took to overcome it & what it’s been like navigating the dating world as a man in todays age. So whether you wanna keep up with Canada or your fave real talk Canadian Podcasters, this episode has a little of everything and anything you wanna hear about! Tune in on your fave podcast platform TODAY.
Mar 29, 202402:17:34
Episode 171 Being Real about Botox with Never Tox & Terry Fox

Episode 171 Being Real about Botox with Never Tox & Terry Fox

As promised in season 7, I said I’d bring you more real talk than even before & here we are. This one always seems to come with some controversy and an area I find is lacking informed consent. So let’s be real about it. Botox. Something that went from a product the older generation would use on occasion or in the medical realm to 20 year olds using preventative units to ensure they freeze their youth. But what are the costs here? What are the risks? Large or small, thousands of people are experiencing awful illnesses, side effects & mental anguish after being treated with this product. But not many people are talking about it. We need to talk about it. This is why I brought on Gretch from Never Tox & Terry Fox from Fox Haven Aesthetics to chat about the dangers & the true functionality so YOU are informed of how it actually works & the many side effects it can come with. From physical signs like dropping eyes, face paralysis to mental health decline, auto immune responses and many more, the list is truly never ending when it comes to what can happen. Did you know that? Very grateful for these patient advocates standing up against such a controversial topic & spreading awareness to others. So wild to want to stop harm from happening to others and that’s somehow controversial. Count me in then because people deserve better. Join this amazing conversation with an open mind, heart and soul ♥️
Mar 22, 202401:45:39
Episode 170 What in the actual internet? Pt 1

Episode 170 What in the actual internet? Pt 1

In this new Series, “What in the actual Internet?”, I am going to pull random stories from the interwebs. That place is wild af. It also gives me a chance check in on Hollyweird, interesting lifestyles, cold cases having new evidence or whatever weird shit that’s out there. There’s a lot! In Part 1 I discuss three totally unrelated topics! *Updates on the JonBenet Ramsey cold case *Ruby Franke (family vlog) charged with crimes *What is death Feederism. Each one peaked my interest for different reasons. I want everyone to know the Ramsey Family were not involved in their daughters murder. This case was handled terribly! I also want families & mamas out there to not compare the males to online families like Ruby Franke because a lot of them are liars. This one a criminal! & finally, after diving a bit deeper into death Feederism, I truly feel this is another place where people do not have informed consent and get manipulated by awful people. The repercussions can be literally deadly! Hope you guys like this new series for Season! I truly get mind blown by what’s out there & I’m glad I can bring this here!
Mar 15, 202442:54
Episode 169 Being Real with Kristin Torva Logan

Episode 169 Being Real with Kristin Torva Logan

In the first segment of Being Real with, I bring in a powerhouse woman to share her experience with cancer and the health care system here in Canada. I truly have struggled to find the words to capture this situation Kristin Torva Logan is experiencing and I can’t seem to break it down in a few paragraphs but I’m going to try. Truly an episode worth tuning in to understand the depth of insanity our country is in & how it is truly affecting or will affect every day Canadians. In 2023 she started experiencing excruciating pain in her side and began a long journey of no answer for over 5 months. Being diagnosed with everything but what was actually happening and no one taking her seriously about her situation. After the summer passed and they were settling into life as empty nesters, Torva woke one night & drove herself to the hospital after experiencing the most excruciating pain in her abdomen. After not being listened to again & 5 doctors later, she found out she had fluid on her lungs & around her abdomen and it was thickening. Unfortunately indications of cancer. She was absolutely floored by this news. Not only was she a healthy, young individual, she had been screaming for help for months and ignored or misdiagnosed and here she was… absolutely right about something being wrong MONTHS ago. A few weeks later she got the confirmation it was Stage 4 high grade serous carcinoma, the most aggressive moving ovarian cancer. They needed to act immediately. But of course, thanks to our “free health care system” fast wasn’t an option. So after being told essentially to flee the country to get treatment, Torva & her family were in a race for their lives to get her sorted and in for surgery. By some sort of divine intervention, Torva was reminded she had access to US Vet benefits & could get treatment immediately in Washington. Although relieved, they still had to face the logistics, the stress of moving her in such a delicate state, they have bills to pay, a new university student to support & also have to be separated through it all too. But as the absolute bad asses they are, the Logans made it happen. They got her to the hospital, in surgery, chemo treatment and all the support she so needed from Canada. I cannot fit this all into a small box on these apps. Her story is truly one you need to hear from her & it’s still going yall. She still has one chemo treatment left as of this launch so please head to her instagram @ torvalogan or our support highlight to help support her go fund me as they face so many road blocks to get her healed ♥️ This babe has such a huge purpose on this earth. Let’s help support her to health so she can continue on her journey & to live her purpose of now helping others in this situation. The ripple effect could be huge here babes. Let’s put all we got into this one 🫶🏻
Mar 08, 202402:09:17
Episode 168 Season 7 Opener

Episode 168 Season 7 Opener

Feels so so good to be back in the studio recording all the real talk for you! Join me, B, in the Season 7 Opener where I talk about the wins, loses & experiences that was Season 6, what to expect in Season 7 & just a little life update! I actually stuck to a short content episode, let me know what you think. Make sure to tune in every Friday for a new episode! 🧜‍♀️ Video: Rumble, YouTube & Spotify 🧚‍♀️ Audio: Spotify, Apple & Google ✨ Follow on IG, FB & Pinterest
Mar 01, 202440:48
Episode 167 SZN 6 Finale

Episode 167 SZN 6 Finale

Our finale episode of season 6 comes with some sad news!

Throughout the year our amazing co hosts have all stepped back, and our final co host Hails is next to step back so I (B) will be taking over the entire show ♥️

As mentioned previously, the babes who’ve single handily built this show and community are busy blossoming in their lives and I could not be happier for them and more thankful for the endless help and support from all of them and completely understand their need to all step back and focus on their lives.

I would not be here today with them 🥰

But where does that leave the podcast?

Do I step up and take over for the next 4 seasons to do the 10 I set out to do?!

Or is this the final chapter of Be Real Babe?

You’ll have in tune into this episode to find out what’s happening in 2024 ♥️

Thanks again Hails 🥰 I know this won’t be the last show you’ll be ok but you will be heavily missed during this chapter 😘
Jan 19, 202401:30:11
Episode 166 Keeping up with 🇨🇦 Part V

Episode 166 Keeping up with 🇨🇦 Part V

In our final episode of keeping up with Canada of the season we talk about a TON OF SHIT.

But mainly we are talking the outcomes of the pandemic and the behaviours that followed.

We chat about working through and giving forgiveness for the treatment to unvaxxed during during that time.

What we think could cause people to awaken versus why they may not. We chat about how we’ve come to see the education system as indoctrination camps sometimes vs helping the world.

It’s like our whole world view was shattered in 2020 and we closed 2023 and began 2024, it’s important to reflect how we put the pieces back together.

Let’s start with kindness and empathy and less rage and finger pointing. Let’s come together ti see why we all acted the way we did and if we inflicted pain on others, we truly need to reflect on that internally and make amends.

No one likes being left alone or feeling lonely these times. Let’s work extra hard this year to ensure less people feel the sadness next holiday season!
Jan 12, 202401:34:20
Episode 165 BII in the Big Apple

Episode 165 BII in the Big Apple

On our final advocacy episode of the season, we bring an amazing woman on to share her journey with Breast Implant Illness & Breast Cancer. Stephanie, like our past guests, was not informed of the potential risks associated with Breast Implants. As far as she knew, she got the safest ones. However, after swapping from saline to silicone 8 years after her original implant, her health started slowly declining. When she did they swap, they noticed fluid around her implants, unsure exactly what it was they decided to go ahead with the switch. Dial ahead to 2019, Stephanie finds herself in a group of 50-100K women with the same issues, leading to Breast Implant illness. She does her research, finds herself a surgeon she trusts and BAM, lockdowns. Luckily in early 2020 she was able to line up a surgeon closer to home and aligned with her needs but a few weeks later gets hit with another blow. Breast cancer. This woman is a powerhouse survivor and a beauty of a human being. Join her and I as we discuss her entire journey, her battles and her victories. A story with a feel good ending and a warrior born out of her pain. 👏
Jan 05, 202401:12:55
Episode 164 Food with Macro Mckay

Episode 164 Food with Macro Mckay


Our last episode of 2023 is such a great one to start the new year off right!

I am joined by Macro Mckay’s fearless leader Lori to talk about food, dieting and mindsets.

We all struggle with our nutrition.

Specially around the holidays.

But here’s the best part!

We don’t have to!

We can hire amazing coaches like Lori to help us rebuild our relationship with food through macros.

Learn that food isn’t “bad” and eating should be exciting and something to look forward to.

Food is amazing in the way it can heal but there’s also a line where it can be destructive too.

It’s all about balancing and that is exactly what Lori is here to teach you through her business.

She’s not only has she walked the walk, she genuinely cares about her clients on levels you don’t normally see.

Join us in this amazing convo to help you get in the best mindset for the new years!
Dec 29, 202301:25:34
Episode 163 Being Real with Open Minds Podcast

Episode 163 Being Real with Open Minds Podcast

Happy Holidays all!

Our last being real with before the Christmas break is with fellow podcaster Christopher Balkaran who hosts the Open Minds Podcast.

It was so great to connect to another Canadian podcaster as we navigate these uncharted waters here in this country of ours. As citizens and content creators.

In this 2 hour real chat, we talk about so many different topics like how the media has been unable to provide unbiased reporting, how this country has taken measures we never expected in our lifetime and how Christopher navigates speaking his mind while being fair and understanding to all and open to discussions on the hard topics.

Such a great episode on real life and online experiences as podcasters in Canada.

Hopefully the first of many collaborations!
Dec 22, 202302:09:02
Episode 162 Being Real with Port Alberni Mamas

Episode 162 Being Real with Port Alberni Mamas

This next Being Real with episode, I jump in with my mom, her bestie and a childhood friend of mine to talk about being a mama in Port Alberni currently and all the chaos they are witnessing as parents.

From the school system to the media to the medical industry to the entertainment business, there seems to be an influx of need to have pure acceptance of everything sexualized, specifically to young kids.

At this point in time, parents are not allowed to ask questions or have valid concerns without being labelled with some extreme title.

No one wants to be labelled a bigot, homophobe or transphobe for simply asking questions so it seems many parents sit in silence, afraid to speak up.

If we want progression and inclusion and equity, we have to ensure all voices come to the table and we work together to make everyone feel good.

Everyone deserves love and safety there is no doubt about that.

But we don’t do it by fighting and hate. We do it by coming to the table like adults and seeing all sides and having compassion for those we disagree with and equally evaluating we may not be right either and that’s ok!

We can coexist but we have to be open to it. But the hard talks have to happen.

That’s my hope for 2024.

Loved having this chat with those that feel like home!

Dec 15, 202302:17:24
Episode 161 Keeping up with 🇨🇦 Part IV

Episode 161 Keeping up with 🇨🇦 Part IV

In our 4th episode of Keeping up with Canada, we chat about Universal Basic Income and the homeless problem here in Canada.

While we have zero idea of what the actual solutions are, we truly believe there has to be better out there.

Throwing money at anything doesn’t actually solve any problems.

In fact, it truly seems to just create more problems.

It’s not always the persons fault of why they are on the streets but without giving them basic survival skills or how to balance said money, are we even sure this will help?

You don’t just give addicts money and walk away without any support of how to get clean and use that money for living.

And of course that is not all. Not even close. But without addressing why they ended up there and the root cause, UBI is only going to further this issue.

Teach a man to fish right?!

Stop throwing fish at things and teach/support those in HOW TO FISH.

Ya get what I’m saying?!

What do y’all think this could lead to?! This will not remove our tent cities. Because no matter how much money you throw, it’s not even close to enough to support people in this economy and with this inflation. Dummies. I’m looking at you CF. Be better girl. Do better for this country.

Even middle class people are one bad mistake, one crisis away from losing it all.

Is this what Canada wants for itself?!

PS my real camera didn’t record so sorry for the shit version. You guys can see now why I use my phone over my laptop 😂🫠

Dec 08, 202301:24:37
Episode 160 Being Real about Parenting

Episode 160 Being Real about Parenting

In the next episode of being real, Hails and Dusty join me to chat all about being a parent!

I love the contrast between being a mom and dad and I love that they both see the struggles and wins of both sides.

While moms get scrutinized about certain things that dads don’t, Dads usually don’t have the same connection or time with their kids and scrutinized over that unlike most moms.

A lot of silly scrutinizing we see here!

No one gave anyone the handbook to being a parent.

Heck each kid is even different!

Can’t be crazy hard on yourself but at the same time, you have to be evolving and growing and healing as adult to lead by example.

It’s not showing your kids you are perfect. It’s showing them you are real so they are safe to be real too.

Parenting is almost like healing with your littlest favourite human. Enjoying. Healing. Growing. Evolving.

Drop the parental guilt and shame and evaluate where you can elevate yourself so it elevates your family instead 🩷

Parents are their kids first and most important relationship 🫶🏻 you guys know what’s best for them!

Tune into this awesome real talk about all things parenting!
Dec 01, 202301:28:05
Episode 159 Holidaze Winter Edition

Episode 159 Holidaze Winter Edition

In this episode we get deeper into what are the true origins of Halloween & Christmas! Why do we do these things we do like dress up into other creatures or decorate our houses? Where did this all come from? What we can tell you… it’s been extremely modernized and the true meaning behind all of it seems to have gotten lost, argued about or just plain changed. What began as celebrations or essentially safety practices, turned into big box office pissing games really. I think the true meaning for any holiday will lie within your home. Whether you practice more traditionally or the modern version. We just want everyone to make sure they move ahead during these holidays with pure intentions and not going broke to keep up with the Joneses. At the core of these holidays, it should be about community and togetherness. As long as that’s happening, these holidays should be celebrated as you wish them to be. But we think it’s fun to go back and see why this all began and the adventure these holidays have brought over the decades.
Nov 24, 202301:26:16
Episode 158 Being real with Terry Fox

Episode 158 Being real with Terry Fox

This episode was just what we needed!

We absolutely love holistic approaches and those that truly support their patients in all aspects of their lives.

These individuals know the meaning of compassionate care and don’t just focus on one form of care or healing.

They believe there is more to healing than just one modality.

Terry Fox is one of those gems here on earth.

Terry not only practices acupuncture, Chinese herbal medicine and implements Chinese dietary theory with his patients, he will also hold space for the emotions that come with this form of healing.

This episode was filled with real talk about the beauty industry and the dangers of Botox from the benefits to acupuncture and all the ways Terry supports his community with his gifts and how he started.

We can’t thank Terry enough for joining us!
Nov 17, 202301:44:43
Episode 157 Keeping up with 🇨🇦 Part III

Episode 157 Keeping up with 🇨🇦 Part III

In the next segment of keeping up with 🇨🇦 we talk about the evolution of the MAID program here.

Although we 100% understand the need for these services, there are some concerns we have at how far this could go.

In 2024, they will be reviewing if those with mental health illnesses should be eligible as well as those who currently qualify.

This is a deeply personal decision and one we truly believe those with no other choice should have this option but with a three month wait time, we are worried for those who may make this request by mistake.

Is this taking advantage of the most vulnerable individuals? Is this being set up with enough safe guards?

We didn’t really want to speak on this topic however we are concerned the progression of this may be a bit dangerous here.

We believe every person deserve to live their life and worthy of that. It just feels wrong to say that we are happy this is expanding. It’s quite devastating and sad.

Not entirely sure why more aren’t discussing this.

We hope you can see where we come from here.

Make sure to check in on your friends ♥️ times are tough.
Nov 10, 202301:06:50
Episode 156 Being real about Podcasting

Episode 156 Being real about Podcasting

In this episode of Being real with the babes we chat about podcasting!

Podcasting isn’t for the faint of heart!

It’s hard ass work.

Specially if you are grassroots, doing it all on your own kind of situation.

It’s not just some easy, show up, talk and walk away for most of us.

A lot of spend hours researching information, booking guests, recording, editing, creating content to advertise, upload to all the platforms.

There’s so much to do behind the scenes it’s crazy!

But the reward is worth it.

The connection and the growth and the beauty of energies exchanging. It’s so neat.

Join us in the episode as we talk about our wins, losses and everything to do with our journey creating this show!
Nov 03, 202301:14:40
Episode 155 Being Real with Joelle the Ethereal Witch

Episode 155 Being Real with Joelle the Ethereal Witch

Beyond excited to share Hailee’s first interview solo on the show 😍 & the fire cracker she brought us… y’all ain’t ready! In this episode, Hails & Joelle speak on so many beautiful topics and in such a caring, authentic way. Topics like spiritual awakening, honouring the magic of the family unit and motherhood, divine femininity and being in touch with that side themselves. The complete chaos of the world and the hopes for tomorrow. They speak of experiencing the loss of loved ones, of our past selves and of constructs we are all working to get out away from. Truly real and raw conversations with love and energetic connections. Hit that play button right now! We promise you won’t be disappointed 💫♥️✨
Oct 31, 202301:58:11
Episode 154 Plastic Surgery

Episode 154 Plastic Surgery


In this episode, we dive a little deeper into the world of plastic surgery.

As much as we can always see the good side, the bad side to this industry is a little much.

Like the fact that women are silenced about their experiences.

Shamed.

Gaslit.

By surgeons and community alike.

Going through all the risks and ensuring patient safety seem to be at the bottom of the list, and we wanna know why?

It’s not as if it’s an underpaid industry.

Who’s making money off your insecurities?

How are they getting away with physical hurting others and no responsibility at all?

It’s truly scary what’s happened to some women.

And we for one don’t think it’s ok to prey on women vulnerabilities and use tricky works and NDAs to get more out of you and ensure you can’t share anything negative after.

Join us as we chat about the darker side of this industry!



Oct 27, 202301:04:36
Episode 153 Being Real with Kasia & Dusty!

Episode 153 Being Real with Kasia & Dusty!

On the first segment of Being Real with Dusty, we meet an incredibly talented and wonderful gem. Kasia Fryklund has a long list of talents from being a Music Producer, artist, Clothing Designer, sound healer… to name a few but most importantly, a mama to her sweet little boy. Dusty had the pleasure of attending one of Kasia’s events and truly felt the impact her healing has & wanted to share that beauty with us and our community 🥰 They chat about their spiritual journey and learning all the lessons in life that elevate you to next levels. How gratitude is the absolute key to an abundant life & what it feels to fall into alignment with your purpose. A beautiful, real conversation of life’s realizations, blessings and healings. This is what we live for 😍 Thank you so much again Kasia!
Oct 20, 202301:00:01
Episode 152 Keeping up with 🇨🇦 Pt II

Episode 152 Keeping up with 🇨🇦 Pt II

In our second episode of keeping up with Canada, we talk about things happening in our country at the time of recording! Like Bill C-11 & the possibility of us losing everything we worked for thanks to more censorship. Like SOGI 123 and the division we’ve seen because of it. We talk about the Million March 4 children and how so much was misrepresented. It feels again like our country is super divided and now you have children in the mix. Hopefully we can have some meaningful discord on both sides of the plate so people can truly work together to bring a resolution. There’s always middle ground. It’s just a matter of everyone taking a breather and trying to come together 🫶🏻
Oct 13, 202301:21:38
Episode 151 Being Real with Kalika

Episode 151 Being Real with Kalika

I can’t even believe I finally had balls to post our first anti mlm episode.

This is an area I’ve been wanting to speak on for a long time so when I seen my Go Team alumni post she had an anti mlm YouTube I knew the timing was now.

Kalika Kanitkar joins us in this amazing conversation about all the dark sides to this business model.

While all of us want to support our friends and not shit in their mouths about their opportunities, we also are tired of seeing the blatant lies, the manipulation, the fake lifestyles and the mental, physical and spiritual damage this model can cause.

Everyone can have the best intentions ever!

The products can be great.

The people and the energy I’m sure can be epic.

But toxic positivity and buzz words aren’t going to make you money.

Read the income disclosures if you even can.

Look up anti mlm on YouTube and you’ll find a large community.

In this community are women who have been hurt, lied to, manipulated, used and bullied.

Maybe that’s not your experience, but we don’t victim shame over here. We amplify experiences so others have INFORMED consent when signing up for these.

If you can’t listen to opposition with an open heart then you may be in an echo chamber or a cult.

If it’s working for you and you aren’t putting anyone down, you aren’t making money off others hard work while you don’t do a thing, you don’t gaslight past members and you are upfront, then DO YOU SIS.

But that doesn’t mean we can’t call out the trash behaviour we’ve witnessed for ourselves and those we love.

Join myself and Kalika as we share our views on multi level marketing.
Oct 06, 202302:09:23
Episode 150 The Beauty Industry

Episode 150 The Beauty Industry

In this episode we focus in on the dangers of the beauty industry. With a little mix of opinions and deep diving, we talk about what some of these daily products, trends and surgeries are doing to human kind. Besides the physical implications that come with all mentioned above, what is it doing to our mental health? Or spirit? The next generation? What is it doing to relationships? So much division can even be found on this topic. You mention this stuff is toxic and should be approached with respect and understanding and you get told you are a woman hater. Excusé moi?!? Far from a woman hater. We hate women being prayed on and told they are less and need x,y&z to be “perfect”. That’s hating women. Telling them they need products, surgeries and trends to be loved. We are all for Doing 👏 you 👏 Babe 👏 as long as you know what’s up so IF you get sick or something is off, you can immediately identify the issue and remove it ♥️ Just because you haven’t reacted, know someone who has doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen. Just because something is sold in stores doesn’t always make it safe for everyone. Just cuz people have done it for years doesn’t mean their health won’t be affected at some point. Less of all of this ensures more safety without a doubt, so just be aware and proceed with knowledge.
Sep 29, 202301:14:55
Episode 149 Being real about Hollyweird!

Episode 149 Being real about Hollyweird!

Wellllll wellll welllll Hollyweirdos. We meet again! Now once and a while we like to jump back to good old tinsel town to see what they are lying about these days. As we age, as we awaken, we see these purchased puppets for what they are. Walking billboards. They truly just care about money and status and unfortunately, it spreads to the masses. Would we really care about things like BBLs if Kim K didn’t do it first type of thing?! That type of thing. We are sure celebrities aren’t the only crazy influential people out there but boy do they use that to their financial advantage. & honestly it is what it is AS LONG AS we are aware of it. We don’t need to treat them like gods cuz they aren’t! Just kind of like circus clowns, here to make you laugh. To entertain. While there are of course many good people in this industry, you gotta wonder why they are silent about the wild sexual exploitation and utter black mail that goes on. Things we think about when we think about this weird ass part of the universe 😂 Join us being real about Hollyweird.
Sep 22, 202301:19:03
Episode 148 Keeping up with 🇨🇦 Part I

Episode 148 Keeping up with 🇨🇦 Part I

In our first part of Keeping up with Canada, we look into a few controversial bills, the next election dates and how the wildfires have affected Canadians this year.

We find it very important that we look at all sides of the coin. Although it’s not always easy to do, it’s something we find needs to be done.

It’s easy to hear some of the legislation and think it’s an attack on all of us. The last couple years shook us all in the trust department.

But we also know, as we’ve learned, things aren’t always as they appear so it’s important to look for ourselves. To try to learn off the facts not the reactions.

So we dive in to Bill C-18 and C-47 to find out if they truly are “banning vitamins” or that it’s social media’s fault Canadians aren’t getting their news”. Hint: it’s the govs fault lol

We also think it’s important to all get involved.

So we discuss local, provincial and federal elections. They need to be taken back by Canadians and understand what happens and where and when and who. And ensure fair play is happening here. That the system is just, as it’s meant to be.

So we share upcoming election dates to help you prepare to get involved and know who and what you are voting in. We start at the ground level :)

And finally, why is this year being deemed the worst forest fires year? How much has this affected out country? And who?

We chat all about in the first of Keeping up with Canada! Join us 🇨🇦
Sep 15, 202301:31:20
Episode 147 Being Real with a BII Warrior

Episode 147 Being Real with a BII Warrior

In our first Being Real with segment of the season we bring back on our favourite Australian Babe Bianca ♥️ Bianca is a BII warrior to us as she not only shares her experience with explanting and healing but she has given her peers a platform to share their story as well on her show “Could it Bii?”. (Make sure to go have a listen!) This absolutely adorable human being first appeared on our show Dec 2022 on episode 97 where she goes in depth to her implant/explanation experience and where she was after a few months of healing. Then I joined her show to talk about my experience not getting implants & we got a little catch up there too (Ep 121 on our show) but this episode is full catch up on healing & her podcast journey! She is a fierce advocate for women who have had to endure this terrible illness and we couldn’t be more thankful she came back to share! Make sure to go have a listen to her show as well to learn even more about BII 🫶🏻
Sep 08, 202301:26:60
Episode 146 SZN 6 Opener!

Episode 146 SZN 6 Opener!

WE ARE BACK BABES!! So so so excited to be back for another season of real talk and controversy. Just kidding. Ish. This season we have some new, some same but all the same vibes you’ve come to know. Being real, deep dives and Keeping up with Canada will be the jam this season and we are PUMPED! Jump on with me & Hails as we chat the last season, our summers, current events and what’s to come! Buckle up for another wild season.
Sep 01, 202301:05:54
Episode 145 SZN5 Finale!

Episode 145 SZN5 Finale!

Our FINALE of Season 5 is upon us!

How did we make it here?

How did we survive that?

Great questions.

40 episodes.

5 months.

8 guests.

Hit 11K.

Beyond grateful. For you all.

Time to reset, revamp, rejuvenate for a bit and time for SEASON 6!
Jul 28, 202353:36
Episode 144 - Women

Episode 144 - Women

On our second to last episode of the season, we tried to talk about just women but boy, it was a mixed bag of a lot of feels.

I think we are all at a state where we are truly trying to find ways of taking our power back and as we have started to do so we’ve really want to encourage others as well.

Once we started changing our inner dialogue and stories, we seen the shift.

Nothing in society has changed really, but how we decided to see ourselves, honour ourselves, get back to natural processes and ways of life, we started seeing the trash we had created ourselves.

We do not have to fit into any box. Any story. Any narrative we do not want too.

We can easily respect each others thoughts, feelings and experiences without dividing further.

In fact diversity of experiences bring forward even more empathy and understanding.

This isn’t a hate on ladies rather a “wake up and glow the f up sis!” You have this power.

It’s scary. And daunting some times.

But the pay off is truly marvellous and we want you all to join us on this journey of looking in and listening ♥️
Jul 21, 202301:56:02
Episode 143 Being Real with Dr Jon Kanevsky

Episode 143 Being Real with Dr Jon Kanevsky

We cannot express the gratitude we have for him joining us on the show to share how he approaches surgeries.

His clients get the full all around treatment with tons of information, a whole team who take you through the entire process and the least amount of invasion as possible.

No stress about foreign bodies causing havoc as we have seen that breast implants can do.

No worries about mentally preparing because
they will help you through that too.

It was so refreshing to speak to a surgeon who puts their patients on the driver seat with them and be as comfortable as possible.

Do you think we could convince him to move from Beverly Hills and back to Canada one day?!

Luckily there are other surgeons here who do practice this process as well as planes to fly to him if you need!

Definitely a great way to end an amazing season of being real!

Jul 18, 202358:17
Episode 142 Men

Episode 142 Men

In this episode we talk about MEN!

And no, we aren’t going off about how terrible they are, in fact it’s quite the opposite!

We are honestly tired of the hate to men.

We are tired of hearing toxic masculinity and tired of hearing that men shouldn’t be men.

Cuz that is dangerous and why we are where we are today.

Men absolutely should be in touch with their feminine side and feminine leaning males are amazing and should be protected HOWEVER that does not mean that the alpha type, the manly man should be demonized. Or inherently bad.

Are there bad men? OH yes.

But that’s not a gender issue. That’s a human being issue.

We forgot that men have really hard jobs, they have to away from home more, they have high suicidal rates and more likely to be enlisted or go to prison.

Most men are told not to feel but get demonized when they express them.

Most are never taught how to channel their energy or emotions, just swallow it.

Welll that doesn’t work either.

So we chat about how we can support our men instead of pushing them down!!

Make sure to tune in!
Jul 14, 202301:02:03
Episode 141 Being Real with Brandi

Episode 141 Being Real with Brandi

In the next being real with, I go off a bit about the beauty industry and my journey on self acceptance.

It seems it’s not always the most popular opinion to want to accept your own beauty naturally and a lot of the time you get hated on for doing so.

I am in no way shaming anyone who does any beauty services or uses them or loves them at all.

What I am trying to do is understand my contributions to other’s insecurities, how I am personally working through my old patterns and thoughts and how hopeful I am for the future that more informed consent would be present.

I struggle with saying YASSS QUEEEN to everything beauty industry when so much of it can be linked to sickness, illness and deeper dysmorphia.

As much as I want people to be themselves and feel free to express in this category I also die inside a bit when studies come out all the time on the dangers.

What toxic concoctions lead to the most illness? Are women informed cosmetics, plastic surgeries and Botox can lead to cancers, physical reactions and mental illness? Do they know people get gaslit on the daily about it and suffer deeply?

No cuz that doesn’t make money.

And there is my issue.

Please listen with knowing I am just working through this myself. I’m here to have real talk about it but I also won’t take others projecting their insecurities on me with this topic anymore ♥️ you do you baby girl. Just be informed and don’t discredit victims cuz you won’t accept you put yourself at risk♥️

Jul 11, 202330:51
Episode 140 Missing People in Canada

Episode 140 Missing People in Canada

TRIGGER WARNING! We are talking about local Canadians that have been and are currently missing so please do not listen if you are not in the space ♥️.

We chat about how after year, Amber Manthorne, a Vancouver islander is still missing and as of the episode launch no one has come forward.

This case is still open and unanswered. So many people I care about are still left to wonder what happened, and what to do. As are we.

All we know is to share what we know. Please tune into Island Crimes for detailed story of this case but we wanted to share it here in case someone knows anything that may help (I was in grade 9 when she was in grade 12, I think I said I went to High school my bad, I was in junior still)

We talk about some local to Alberta cases and some statistics with missing people in that area.

Again a safe space we all think is there in the prairies, is not as safe as we thought.

With stampede approaching, it’s a good time to revisit your awareness skills my babes!

We also chat about the highway of tears, and the ever growing unsolved cases of murdered and missing indigenous women.

This was a very difficult episode to speak on and share but we want to stare the convo and she’s some light.

That’s all we know we can start to do

Jul 07, 202301:26:02
Episode 139 Being Real with Kayla

Episode 139 Being Real with Kayla

Our next being real with is with our babe Kay!

Hitting her first solo episode, Kay jumps into a tough topic we are talking about this week.

Missing persons in Canada.

TRIGGER WARNING: we will be speaking on details of missing individuals near and dear to us so please do not go forward listening if you will be upset by these next 2 episodes ♥️

Not only does this and has this affected us personally, the amount of Canadians that are affected by loved ones missing is actually very alarming.

We hear about it, we may know some people but the reality doesn’t hit until it does and you cannot look back.

We do not want to scare or put fear into anyone but avoiding it also doesn’t help anyone.

So for the victims still missing, the families affected, we wanna try to share as much as can and know on the chance it can help or save someone.

We are at a loss of what needs to be done but nothing being done ain’t it either.

Join Kay as she gets raw and real about a very heavy topic that is sweeping this country and has for many years.





Jul 04, 202354:47
Episode 138 - S*x sells, but who’s buying? Pt 2

Episode 138 - S*x sells, but who’s buying? Pt 2

Part Deux of sex sells But who’s buying is a continuation of the last episode where we dive deeper into the sex industry.

Now again, if you are a consenting adult that is fully happy with the services you provide and the life that you have, then great! Keep doing you.

However, that doesn’t mean the industry doesn’t come with heavy and sad facts.

Although non of us have experience in this space, we can listen and learn from those who speak out.

And we can read stats.

And they ain’t good babes.

Seems like majority of workers are either forced by someone or their situation.

Seems as though most have their boundaries crossed, been manipulated or trapped by their circumstance and feel like they have no where to go.

Where is the mental health support? The medical support? I doubt they have benefits yet they are exposed more than anyone.

This show isn’t about hating on the industry, it’s about talking about the bad. How can we just celebrate the good and not point out the bad?

There should be accountability for those that harm these individuals. Point blank and period.

Join us for part 2!
Jun 30, 202301:24:08
Episode 137 Being Real with Hollie G

Episode 137 Being Real with Hollie G

In our next segment of Be real with we have one of fave returning guests Miss Hollie G!!

In this amazing show we catch up on all the things.

We tried to keep it short but that never happens when soul sisters get together!!

We bounce around from how she is doing, what her newest business adventures look like, how she is coping with healing from all angles, and naturally we jump into so conspiracy and political ideology talk.

Can’t be a proper catch up if we didn’t hit all the hot topics though right?!

We absolutely love this woman, the strength she has, the grace and empathy she shows others and herself and how she is always trying to
Leave this place better than she found it!

Queen energy YES.
Jun 27, 202302:23:31
Episode 136 - S* sells, but who’s buying? Pt 1

Episode 136 - S* sells, but who’s buying? Pt 1

To be completely honest we struggled AGAIN with riverside and had to jump on zoom with only 40 mins to talk about a heavy topic so you get two parts!

But this is now a thing of the past and onwards and upwards they say!!

In this episode we start talking about the s*x industry and the numbers behind it.

It’s all well and good to not care about it cuz “it’s hurting no one” when in reality it’s hurting a lot of people.

It’s wild that p*rn is viewed more daily then all the social media platforms combined 😮

Is this truly empowerment and everything free and open?

If we can’t acknowledge the bad, I’m not sure I want the “good” of it.

When people are starving, this industry is making 3K every second.

We have more divorce, broken homes, beta bitches and hook up culture more than ever before and it’s been the most open time sexually soooo is this a win babes?

Idk.

But we start talking about it in this episode!

Join us for part 1!

Jun 23, 202340:57
Episode 135 Being Real with Ashlea

Episode 135 Being Real with Ashlea

In our next segment of being real with we invited a woman who we’ve been inspired, motivated and learn so much from. Ashlea is an EMDR therapist who specializes in somatic healing and embodiment mentoring. Her goal is to help others reconnect with their bodies and their true selves through a multi dimensional form of therapy. Although she envisioned herself as a talk therapist one day, once she started getting into it, she knew she wanted more than that. She wanted to find true connections to her clients and be as real as possible with them so they know her in a deeper, more meaningful level. In this episode we talk about what EMDR therapy is, how Ashlea came to this form of therapy and some tips from this amazingly powerhouse of a woman. We highly recommend following her on social media and if you are looking to work with someone who wants to teach you how to heal yourself, we got your girl Ashlea here to help! A true healer, super mom, voice of reason to many, inspiration to even more & just a good vibe fairy.
Jun 20, 202301:07:16
Episode 134 - Trafficking

Episode 134 - Trafficking

I know this is dark subject but I personally had no clue about any of this until the pandemic.

I had no idea that children or humans were actually trafficked. I thought that’s just what nightmares were made of.

But sadly that’s not true.

It happens.

In plenty of forms.

From child labour, to sex work to organ harvesting, this subject is deep and needs to be brought to light.

If we can’t talk about it how do we even try to stop it?

How do we protect others from this experience?

We don’t know the answers BUT we are trying and starting here.

Join us as we try to bring light to a dark subject so we can all start to be a bit more aware ♥️
Jun 16, 202357:13
Episode 133 Being Real with Kay & Dusty

Episode 133 Being Real with Kay & Dusty

In our next segment of being real with we bring back one of our fave guests Dusty! Kay & Dusty spend this episode chatting about the state of the world, the most current hot topic agendas and the shift they’ve had personally over the last decade. We love when we can speak freely and openly about current events with each other and find ways to learn, grow and sometimes heal. It’s healing speaking your mind and what you feel is the truth! These two do just that with topics like gender ideology, the current push for divide and how we should be protecting our kids. Join these two for a fire convo on the next session of being real with!
Jun 13, 202301:35:16
Episode 132 Hollyweird Gr**ming & Sexual Exploitation

Episode 132 Hollyweird Gr**ming & Sexual Exploitation

In our next episode of all things sexually exploitative, we chat about Hollyweird and how deep gr**ming has ran there. Not just that, but all sexual exploitation in the industry. And to be honest, a very small part of it. From childhood favourite fathers like 7th Heavens Stephen Collins and Bill Cosby to music legends like P. Diddy and R Kelly. There is no shortage here and we have to wonder why? I know it’s hard to completely remove yourself but shouldn’t we be a bit at least? Maybe not support those that are known sex offenders? No? I didn’t say cancel them but maybe not hold them as heroes to be worshipped? In every movie? Buy everything they sell? Just a thought! Join B & Hails as they discuss more Hollyweird creeps!
Jun 09, 202301:23:12
Episode 131 Being Real with B&K What is a Gr**mer?

Episode 131 Being Real with B&K What is a Gr**mer?

While we are in the middle of talking about all things exploitative, we thought it was a good idea to review what exactly is gr**ming?

How does affect every day parents?

Are all kids at risk?

Are any online games safe?

Do you know who your kids play with online?

Cuz predators can hide themselves VERY easily online and kids have no idea.

It’s scary but nothing that can’t be helped!

First step is to know it’s there and communication is key!

Join us on this episode where we share our feels on this very important topic!

Jun 06, 202359:29