Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends

Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends

By Bevin
Hi, I'm Bevin! I'm blessed with wise, funny and fascinating friends! You're invited to listen to some great conversations about how we stay resilient, fabulous and thriving! I'm passionate about self love and empowering other folks to love themselves exactly as they are. I'm always getting better, not older. I know that the kinder I am to myself the easier it is for me to learn, grow and stay looking a lot younger than I would if I was stressed about aging and the effects of gravity on my body. Welcome to the party!
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42. Christine Dunn Helps Business Owners Get Their Time Back
Christine Dunn is a coach and consultant who helps business owners get their time back! She grew up in an entrepreneurial household, started a property management business right out of college and has gone through a few career permutations within the coaching world. We talk about her journey, coming out of the closet, developing a coaching and public speaking practice as an introvert and self care. So excited to share her wisdom with you! Christine has some amazing bonus webinars available just for my listeners--click the link below! Bonuses from Christine: helpmechristine.com/bevin Support the podcast: patreon.com/fkdp Bevin on Instagram: instagram.com/bevinsparty
1:05:57
June 26, 2020
41. Sonya Mendoza on Life without Prisons and Police
Prison abolition is creating a world free from violence and harm. It can be difficult for some to understand how this is possible since all most of us have known is a society that is based on prisons and policing. There are so many other ways of supporting and sustaining our society and it requires us to open up to new visions! My friend Sonya Mendoza has been working on prison abolition and anti-racism for 18 years and offered to be on my podcast to help educate folks who might not know where to start or want to learn more to advance this movement. Guided by Black women leaders, Sonya has compiled resources to continue understanding anti-racism and life post-police and prisons.  http://queerfatfemme.com/2020/06/18/resources-for-abolishing-prisons-and-jail-from-episode-41-with-sonya-mendoza/ Bevin on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bevinsparty/ Support the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/fkdp
1:16:29
June 19, 2020
40. (Solo) Showing up Imperfectly for Change and Life Update
We're in a time where so much change is happening around us and it's on us to be willing to try, fail, learn, do better, try, fail again. I talk about how I'm learning to grapple with failure as a stepping stone and my own experiences learning and growing through change, especially as it pertains to anti-racism. Different roles that folks can play in movements including protesting, protecting, healing, creating art and bridge building. I also give a life update (TLDR: I canceled Netflix) and talk about living in a trailer for the first time! Support the podcast! Patreon.com/fkdp Bevin on Instagram: Instagram.com/bevinsparty I mentioned that I'm on the A Tribe Called Queer podcast called "Accountability" from March, 2020--find it on apple podcasts or wherever you find podcasts: Atribecalledqueer.com
51:51
June 12, 2020
39. Hadassah Damien on Bossing Up in Finances and Creating the Life of Your Dreams
Hadassah Damien founded Ride Free Fearless Money in 2015 with the goal to help folks understand finances and get out of the ACK! that so many of us feel when looking at our bank statements. In this episode we talk about her rise to financial literacy through many permutations. Raised evangelical Christian and poor, to coming out as a queer, getting into DIY media then eventually tech and now working as a banker with her side business helping folks feel more confident with money. She is a true glitterdone queen and shares her strategies for time management!  Ride Free Fearless Money website: https://www.ridefreefearlessmoney.com/ Ride Free Fearless Money on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ridefreefearlessmoney/ Support this podcast! https://www.patreon.com/fkdp Bevin on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bevinsparty/
1:00:40
June 5, 2020
38. Dr. Tanya Gilbert on Career Pivots, Adaptability, and Change
Dr. Tanya Gilbert had a lot of different careers on the path to becoming the behavioral health expert that she is today. She helps folks have a happier life by learning how to find their individual paths to success. She works with folks from all walks of life to help them figure out "what's next." She's an out lesbian whose coming out in the late 1970s was just one of the many challenges she's walked through to become the whole-hearted, dream fulfilling visionary she is today. I'm so grateful for her sharing her wisdom in this episode and I think you'll really connect with her story and find inspiration to step outside your comfort zone and adapt to change!  Dr. Tanya's website: https://www.drtanyagilbert.com/ Dr. Tanya's May 30th Career Workshop: https://www.drtanyagilbert.com/event-list/2020/5/30/career-development-workshop Dr. Tanya on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.tanyagilbert/ Dr. Tanya on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drtanya4change Support this podcast! https://www.patreon.com/fkdp Bevin on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bevinsparty/
1:32:42
May 29, 2020
37. (Solo) Life Update, Learning to Embrace Change and Failure
I moved again! My six month sublet was up and I relocated within my neighborhood. I’ve been reflecting on the role of change and failure in my life and shared a few of my takeaways on this week’s mini episode. Support the podcast! https://www.patreon.com/fkdp Bevin on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bevinsparty/
16:43
May 22, 2020
36. Victoria Albina on Parenting Inner Children as Root Cause Medicine
My friend Vic learned as a medical provider (she has letters behind her name that mean medical) that mostly people had root cause emotional issues that were manifesting physically. Her nerdy interests in holistic health, herbal medicine and natural healing coincided with her deep personal work healing from codependency. Now she shows her clients how to heal their relationships with everyone in their lives, especially themselves. We talk nourishing self care during The Corona, circuitous career paths that become true callings, laugh a whole lot at ourselves and healing with self love. Vic is a gift!! I'm so thrilled to share her with y'all! Free Webinar on Codependency: https://victoriaalbina.com/webinarregistration/ Vic's website with lots of free meditations/downloads: https://victoriaalbina.com/ Vic's Podcast Feminist Wellness: https://victoriaalbina.com/podcast/ Vic's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/victoriaalbinawellness/ Bevin's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bevinsparty/ Bevin's Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/fkdp
1:08:29
May 15, 2020
35. (Solo) Christmas Eve Vibes for Renewing Our Energy
I recently learned that your attitude has a huge impact on your energy level! In an effort to curate my best present moment experience, I've been working on cultivating "Christmas Eve Vibes." Christmas Eve is my birthday and it encapsulates for me good cheer and excitement for what's to come. You can sub out that for "Vacation Vibes" if that's more relevant. I talk through the feeling tone of anticipation and how it can aid our experience of uncertainty and tough times. Sharing my heart on all of that in this episode! Free livestream movement class Saturday 10AM on Facebook Live: Facebook.com/bevinsparty Support the podcast: Patreon.com/fkdp Bevin on Instagram: Instagram.com/bevinsparty Article about recovery skills applied to the quarantine: https://medium.com/@ramsinrecovery/10-secrets-people-in-recovery-from-addiction-know-about-how-to-survive-a-pandemic-60f130a09ac8
26:07
May 8, 2020
34. Jennifer Leigh, Femme Oracle, on Healing and Flourishing
My friend Jenni is a professional psychic. She shifted from a typical 9 to 5 career to eventually follow a calling to share her gifts. She's been a single mom navigating multiple configurations with her son's father as co-parent. She's come out, come into her own, and put tremendous intention into healing from trauma and childhood sexual abuse. Her path hasn't been easy but the serenity she exudes comes from a robust and intentional self care practice. I'm excited to share her story with y'all, it's incredibly powerful and I hope that it resonates with the part of you that knows you deserve to heal, too. Jenni's website: https://www.jenniferleigh.info/ Bevin on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bevinsparty Support this Podcast: https://www.patreon.com/fkdp
58:10
May 1, 2020
33. Katie Sweetman, Empowering Astrology
Katie Sweetman is an incredible astrologer living in Brooklyn, NY. I've been personally working with her since 2009 and have absolutely loved watching her grow her astrology practice from an idea to now her full-time career. She called her business Empowering Astrology because she knows that working with the elements of our astrological birth chart can help us maximize our time and potential on Earth. She has so much wisdom to share for astrology buffs and newbies alike!  Katie's website: https://empoweringastrology.com/ Katie's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/empoweringastro/ Katie's Facebook Page (Daily Astro Forecasts--turn on notifications!): https://www.facebook.com/empoweringastrology Support the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/fkdp Bevin's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bevinsparty/ Book a Reiki session with Bevin: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=14939203&appointmentType=5529790
1:12:36
April 24, 2020
32. Joie: Energy Healing with Presence Manifest
What if you could experience every day like Christmas Eve--with a satisfied anticipation? How would you need to show up to your new day in order to experience that? My friend Joie has developed Presence Manifest to wipe the energetic slate clean and connect to Law of Attraction with more clarity and receptivity, Presence Manifest is a modality that she uses on herself, on energy healing clients and teaches to other healers through workshops. I'm finding it supercharging the work I've been doing and very excited for you to learn and apply how Presence Manifest can amplify your personal healing work. Contact Joie: hylamoon13@gmail.com Joie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/presencemanifest/ Support the Podcast: https://www.patreon.com/fkdp Vacation Goddess School Free Livestream Movement and Self Care Class Saturday 10AM Pacific: https://www.facebook.com/bevinsparty Bevin on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bevinsparty/
1:05:23
April 17, 2020
31. (Solo) Energy Cleansing
Do you feel run down lately? Is it hard to avoid absorbing panic? When we're sensitive people we pick up on other people's energy as though it is our own. There are a lot of ways to rest and recenter and energy cleansing is a great way. I run through over a dozen ways I use the elements (earth, air, water, fire) to stay right and tight with my energy. Support the podcast: Patreon.com/fkdp Bevin on Instagram: Instagram.com/bevinsparty
23:28
April 10, 2020
30. Alex (the Medium) "There is No Going Back to Normal"
Alex and his guide Kazoo are trusted spiritual advisors of mine. Alex's video on social media was one of the first I turned to during the Corona quarantine. Times of uncertainty are a great opportunity to get questions answered and I asked Alex lots of Corona-related inquiries from my Instagram Stories! "When will we go back to normal?" "When can we hug our loved ones again?" "What is the first sign that you have Corona?" "Is there a deeper meaning about this pandemic? Is it a warning?" Growing up surrounded by women, Alex came out as queer and psychic, eventually coming to call it his profession. We talk about getting into business, self care essentials for being a working psychic, and how he has deepened his working relationship with his guide, Kazoo. OH, AND WE HAVE SPIRITUAL GOSSIP ABOUT DOLLY PARTON!  Plus a long pre-roll from me about self care activities that are helping me and my friends! Alex's Website: http://alexthemedium.com/ Alex on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexthemedium/ Alex on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/alexthemedium/ Support the Podcast / Weeky Online Aerobics: https://www.patreon.com/fkdp Instagram Art Walk: DJ Amber Valentine spinning on IGLive: https://www.instagram.com/ambervtine/ Angie Pontanti teaching burlesque and gogorobocs: https://www.instagram.com/angiepontani/ John Mayer Current Mood: https://www.instagram.com/johnmayer Hi Day April 11th: https://www.eventhi.io/event/hi-day-2020-online-event-3602 Bevin on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bevinsparty
1:44:18
April 3, 2020
29. Chrissy Tolley, Psychic Sidekick, on How She Built her Business, Surviving The Corona and Love is Blind
Chrissy Tolley has an unusual origin story for a psychic, but nonetheless she's a particularly talented psychic. And a gifted medium, an exorcist, and an entrepreneurial boss babe. We discuss how she got where she is, opening up to psychic gifts, self care (boundaries!!), SSRIs, and running a small service based business. Since this is the Age of The Corona, we also talked about her predictions and best advice for weathering this season. Chrissy is a reality dating show aficionado and I had to discuss Love is Blind with her. There's a spoiler warning where you can pause the episode and come back to it if you want to watch and then return for our debrief. Chrissy's website: https://chrissytolley.com/ Chrissy's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chrissytolley/ Support this podcast! https://www.patreon.com/fkdp Email list: http://eepurl.com/dyX3db Bevin's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bevinsparty/
1:55:29
March 27, 2020
28. (Solo) Finding Your Chill Amid Uncertainty
This is a wild time and uncertain for so many--I share lots of my self care tips for weathering the storms of life. In 2008 I lost my job when the economy tanked. I embarked on a years long journey to become chill about uncertainty. I've been fumbling towards emotional maturity and stability ever since!  Support the podcast: Patreon.com/fkdp Find me on Instagram: Instagram.com/bevinsparty Rick Sorkin's new EP: https://open.spotify.com/album/60fIFsWVT3TQHDmUB9OIKj?si=db16Ciy0SPWWO8ui6VPsYg
34:29
March 20, 2020
27. Thoughts in the Age of The Corona
How can we maintain connections during a time of social isolation? How can we use this as an opportunity to boss up in our lives? Thoughts on the Corona virus and how I'm finding peace in this wild time. Support the podcast: Patreon.com/fkdp
19:25
March 13, 2020
26. Sabine Maxine: Creating Community at the Intersections
Sabine Maxine creates at the intersections of multiple identities--Queer, Black, LatinX, Indigenous, grew up poor and more. She'ts a Virgo boss babe whose latest creation has quickly become the Queer Met Ball--the annual Project Q fundraiser ball. Sabine runs A Tribe Called Queer, Queer Bazaar, Patty Wack Vintage, designs plus size clothing, and has pop-up events. In addition, with Project Q is maintaining a QPOC co-working space. In our conversation we talk about navigating grief, time expenditure as a community organizer, growing up on welfare, getting clean, entrepreneurial adventures and, poignantly, advice to a younger self. "Stop seeking validation and love from outside people." Sabine on IG: https://www.instagram.com/atribecalledqueer/ https://www.instagram.com/project_q_/ https://www.instagram.com/queer_bazaar/ https://www.instagram.com/pattywackvintage/ https://www.instagram.com/hausofsabine/ A Tribe Called Queer: https://www.atribecalledqueer.com/ Project Q Support: https://www.projectq.me/support Patty Wack Vintage: https://www.pattywackvintage.com/etsy-vintage-shop Queer Bazaar: https://airtable.com/shrVKdWNSnlQzfwD4
52:11
March 6, 2020
25. (Solo) One Year Post-Divorce
It's been a year since my big Gay Divorce and I'm checking in. Episodes 1 & 2 of the podcast talk about the details of the split, this episode is about the healing. The Most Valuable Players (MVPs) in keeping me alive this year were a mix of people and healing modalities. I check in about life now and how I'm able to rise above my earthly circumstances (bank account balance mostly) and have a higher level of life satisfaction and peace than ever before.   Support the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/fkdp Let's connect on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bevinsparty/ Email list: http://eepurl.com/dyX3db
29:59
February 28, 2020
24. Magaly on Coming Out, Polyamory and Serving in the Military Under Don't Ask Don't Tell
My friend Magaly (aka Mags) is a smart, thoughtful human from my Atlanta family. One of her girlfriends is my bestie Rachael (Episode 3) and I've had the distinct pleasure of being friends with Mags for a long time and getting to know Mags more one-on-one recently during Mags' time in Seattle. Mags attended the Naval Academy and served in the Navy during Don't Ask Don't Tell. At the time closeted, Mags eventually left that career because of the strain of living a lie. Mags further came out as polyamorous and is creating a beautiful life of their dreams with some pretty spectacular people.  Magaly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/magalyesq/ Bevin on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bevinsparty/ Support the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/fkdp Vox article about Warren: https://www.vox.com/platform/amp/policy-and-politics/2020/1/15/21054083/elizabeth-warren-2020-democratic-primary Attachment: https://www.attachedthebook.com/wordpress/
1:02:24
February 21, 2020
23. Ashley Manta on Pleasure, Imposter Syndrome and Allowing Ease
Ashley Manta coined the term Cannasexual and has made her life and work teaching folks how to mindfully experience pleasure! Her second time on my podcast, she shares how yielding to Imposter Syndrome ruined a big moment for her, how to pick a therapist and how to have more pleasure with new sex partners. This episode is full of tools and tips for living a more pleasure-oriented life and allowing ease to flow. She is a Certified Body Sex Instructor and we talk all about how that modality helps vulva owners unlock pleasure and more joy in their bodies than they've ever experienced. (More info on that with some visuals in Episode 3 of Goop Lab on Netflix! Find Ashley on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cannasexual/ Ashley's Website: http://www.cannasexual.com/ Ashley's podcast: https://www.elevatedintimacypodcast.com/ Ashley's online courses: https://www.elevatedintimacy.com/ Find Bevin on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bevinsparty/ Support the podcast! https://www.patreon.com/fkdp Email list: http://eepurl.com/dyX3db
1:02:12
February 14, 2020
22. Tamale on Rising Again, Making a Unique Imprint on the World and Learning How to Receive
Tamale is a skydiving comedian setting out on the road in her tour van. With her signature red hair, eyeliner, all black everything, ruffles and sass, Tamale is unforgettable. Tamale shares how every break down comes a break through, finding peace after cheating and heartbreak. Homeless for a period of time, living out of a backpack on a motorcylce, she shares hard-won self compassion. Tamale's simple morning gratitude practice grounds her as she continues to make giant artistic leaps in pursuit of her purpose in this world. I'm soooo excited to share her with you!  All the pics we referenced on the episode are on an instagram post with the same publishing date if you want to see them! Tamale on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tamalerocks/ Tamale's Patreon Membership: www.Patreon.com/TamaleRocks Tamale's Website: https://www.tamalerocks.com/ Bevin on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bevinsparty/ Support this podcast through Bevin's Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/fkdp In person Reiki Clinic, Distance Sessions, Self Love Workshop: https://linktr.ee/bevin 
1:31:45
February 7, 2020
21. (Solo) Fat Activism, Body Liberation, and Fat 4 Fat
My body love journey has a spin-off! As I became accepting of my body, I found myself performing drag as a fat activist and not even knowing what that was. When I found the fat activist movement I took a full 180 into Riots Not Diets and had some pretty extreme, intense views. I also talk about the experience of getting really attracted to other fat bodies and finding it hard to have a mixed size relationship with my last, shorter/smaller partner.  Support the podcast: Patreon.com/fkdp Join me on Instagram! instagram.com/bevinsparty
30:39
January 31, 2020
20. Mama Sailene on Cannabis Healing and Authentic Open-Hearted Living
Mama Sailene Osman is a co-founder of the Glowing Goddess Getaway, a Cannabis industry legend and author of a new CBD mocktail book. More than that she's someone who truly lives her spirit 24/7. Raised Seventh Day Adventist, she brought her parents unconditional love and hospitality into her life but left behind the dogma and religiosity. We talk about her decades of connection with cannabis, including going to jail for the plant with her delivery drivers. Loving people through entertaining, and the real spirit and connection the Glowing Goddess Getaway creates for a multi-generational sisterhood! Sailene's book: https://amzn.to/2NTPXwg Sailene on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theofficialsailene/ Sailene's website: https://www.sailene.com/ Glowing Goddess Getaway 2020 Schedule: https://www.glowinggoddessgetaway.com/calendar Support this Podcast: https://www.patreon.com/fkdp Bevin on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bevinsparty/
51:05
January 24, 2020
19. (Solo) My Body and Other Unfinished Business
I recorded a body autobiography with pivotal moments in my body love journey. Drag King club performance, being bullied in elementary school. The President's Physical Fitness Test. Finding my gender, real life guardian angels. Naked group showers. Loving myself through body changes in weight and texture, anticipated future body love work.  Support the Podcast: Patreon.com/fkdp Email List! http://eepurl.com/dyX3db Let's party! https://www.fatkiddanceparty.com/video4pack Wild Heart: https://youtu.be/S2rOh6dCwao Bitch Music: https://bitchmusic.com/ Health Coach Vic: https://victoriaalbina.com/
59:16
January 17, 2020
18. Beautiful Existence is a Business Oracle, Plant Spirit Channel and Wants You to Live Your Greatness
I met Beautiful Existence (B3 for short--pronounced like Bea Arthur) when we both served as Goddess Guides at the Glowing Goddess Getaway. I was immediately captivated by her connection to Spirit. B3 is a Business Oracle, fusing a tech background and serious spiritual gifts, to help forecast and cheer us into our greatness. She's a solygamist, self marrying in 2015. Survived breast cancer through using cannabis to restore her body temple. She channelled the Cannabis Tarot--we talk all of it and 2020 forecast! After the show I answer a listener question about how to get over an ex you regret breaking up with who won't talk to you.  I love watching B3's astrology and tarot forecasts on her instagram: https://www.instagram.com/beautifulexistence/ Tarot column in Skunk Magazine: https://www.skunkmagazine.com/connecting-with-cannabis-column-new-year-2020/ Cannabis Tarot: https://cannabistarot.com/ https://www.instagram.com/cannabistarot/ Support the podcast and do aerobics with me! Patreon.com/fkdp Connect on IG! https://www.instagram.com/bevinsparty/
58:02
January 10, 2020
17. Skip Bacon on Sex Ed and Catholocism
Catholics aren't widely known for being sexually liberated, but Skip Bacon is a Catholic theologian with a lot of opinions about sex ed. She's also a stand-up comedian! We talk bodies, the puberty of the Christ, starting a faith journey and what she does when Catholic women ask her about sex. You can find Skip on her own podcast: https://thedielaughingpodcast.podbean.com/ Or follow her dog Tim on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/popepomeraniusiii/ Support the podcast! Patreon.com/fkdp Connect with me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bevinsparty
34:56
January 3, 2020
16. My Mom! On Living Tiny, the Origins of My Name and My Birth Story
In honor of my 41st birthday I recorded an episode with my mom, Marianne, about my birth! I found out details I didn't know! I was a rainbow baby, which means I was born after my mom experienced miscarriages. (I mention that specifically because I know a lot of folks out there don't talk much about their experience with birth after miscarriage.) We also talked about how she found and chose my name and how she downsized after living in the same house for 26 years to move into a tiny house after retirement, and a bit about her teaching career. More to come as my mom has so much wisdom to share! Music by Yola: iamyola.com Support the podcast: Patreon.com/fkdp Find me in Instagram: Instagram.com/bevinsparty
41:00
December 27, 2019
15. (Solo) 2020 Vision Board Recipe
I have created a special recipe for a powerful vision board practice. It helps understand where you are in your life and builds on an auspicious foundation for more blessings! Wishing you peace and richest blessings in 2020!! To support the podcast: Patreon.com/fkdp Find me on Instagram @bevinsparty More about Jupiter in Capricorn: https://empoweringastrology.com/jupiter-in-capricorn-sign-by-sign
21:37
December 20, 2019
14. Scott K Smith on Connecting to the Magic We All Have Inside
Just in time for Solstice, get a pen and paper handy to jot down ideas for your own ritual. Your magic is inside you! Scott K Smith is a healer and teacher I've been working with for three years and absolutely adore. We talk about how to explore magic, what Reiki is and how energy healing helps our lives, how to cleanse and protect energy in your home using things you already have around, how to support magical kids in connecting to their wisdom, and more!  Find Scott on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/scott_k_smith/ https://www.instagram.com/temple_losangeles/ Scott online: Patreon.com/scottksmith thesacredother.com Temple-LA.com Find Bevin online: Instagram.com/bevinsparty Email list: http://eepurl.com/dyX3db Support this podcast! Patreon.com/fkdp Thank you so much for tuning in!
1:07:51
December 13, 2019
13. (Solo) Life Update, Small Town Living and Adjusting
35 days ago I moved to the forest. Closest town is 9,000 people. After living 20 years of my adult life in New York, Los Angeles and Philadelphia this has been a huge transition. How I've been adjusting here, some of my daily habits and how I've been grounding myself in this new space. Also talking through my imposter syndrome, starting my first in-person Reiki energy healing clinic, working on Fat Kid Dance Party and what small town DMV experiences are like.  To support the podcast (every dollar counts!): Patreon.com/fkdp  Find me on Instagram: Instagram.com/bevinsparty My email list: http://eepurl.com/dyX3db Music in this episode by Mithic: https://soundcloud.com/mithic_music/youll-say-edmp-november-sample-pack-contest
51:20
December 6, 2019
12. Meghan Tonjes: Cutting Out Toxic Family, Embracing Change and Making an Artistic Life
Meghan Tonjes has been a singer-songwriter and you tube sensation for fifteen years. She knows a thing or two about living life out loud, but more so she knows how to navigate having BIG FEELINGS (Scorpio sun, Cancer rising, Pisces moon) and setting boundaries. She had to cut out a toxic family member and shares her story. We talk money, shifting sexuality and gender, growing 1% better every day and embracing darkness. We had the kind of conversation that could go on forever and I'm so thrilled to share her with you.  Find Tonjes: Instagram.com/meghantonjes Twitter.com/meghantonjes Find me: Instagram.com/bevinsparty To support the podcast: Patreon.com/fkdp
1:49:51
November 29, 2019
11. (Solo) Stay young looking and happy during the holidays--a collection of advice from my Lyft driving experience
A collection of advice centered around my coolest Lyft interactions! How a person I thought was 20 but was really 45 stays looking so young. The advice I gave to a young person considering law school. The surprisingly simple technique a woman actively searching for a sugar daddy uses to meet the "hottest rich guys" in Vegas. How I dealt with drunk people in my car. Plus, a pre-roll about how to deal with body negative family at holiday gatherings.  Support the podcast via my Patreon (a membership site that helps folks support the creators that impact them) Patreon.com/fkdp Let's connect on Instagram! @bevinsparty Love you! Thanks for tuning in!
34:36
November 22, 2019
(Solo) Dispatches from the Gig Economy: My Life as a Lyft Driver, Air BNB Host, Rover Sitter, Facebook Marketplace Maven and More App Based Earning
Have you ever thought about renting a car and becoming a rideshare driver? I did it and I drop the nuts and bolts and dollars involved in rideshare driving, airbnb hosting, and pet sitting. I spent the past year deep in the Gig Economy--trading my time for money while still maintaining flexibility to pursue entrepreneurship. CA legislature passed AB 5 with hopes to make rideshare drivers treated like employees--what this legislation gets totally wrong is that any app using other people's time should not be making more than 25% of the cost of the service and rideshare apps take 70% or more of fares. Plus! I just moved to my tiny house in the forest and talk about getting here!  Thanks for your support of the podcast--join at any amount, every dollar matters! Patreon.com/fkdp
1:05:53
November 15, 2019
H Alan Scott on Comedy, Surviving Cancer, Artistic Pivots and Getting Oprah to Say Your Name
My friend H Alan Scott is a comedian, writer and super smarty pants. Our conversation travels from his early years as a closeted Mormon teenager to coming out and being on the Ellen and Oprah talk shows. Through cancer treatment, conversion to Judaism and moving from traditional stand-up comedy to a formidable drag queen. H Alan stars in the documentary Latter Day Jew which is touring film festivals throughout the world! Find all things H Alan at halanscott.com and latterdayjew.com.
59:52
November 8, 2019
(Solo) Grief! And My First Straight Bachelorette Party!
It's Halloween / Samhain and this is a great time of year to learn more about the grief process. Feeling our feelings as they happen and being a loving presence for our feelings is not supported in our society, but there's lots we can unlearn to make grieving easier on us. Also, this weekend I went to my first straight bachelorette party and talk all about being chased out of Napa by wildfires. Books to help you learn how to grieve: Teresa Caputo's "There's more to Life than This" and "Good Grief" and "Glad No Matter What" by SARK. Support this podcast via Patreon.com/fkdp
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October 31, 2019
Ashley on Healing, Thriving and Loving Your Life
Ashley Manta, better known as The Cannasexual, is the cannabestie big sister we all need. She teaches me so much about sex, cannabis and having the best life I possibly can. I'm so excited to share her with you! We talk healing, screening people before first dates, law of attraction and loving our bodies no matter what. You can find Ashley at cannasexual.com and find us both on instagram @cannasexual and @bevinsparty
51:21
October 17, 2019
(Solo) Big Life Changes, Optimism and Lessons from 4 Month Social Media Hiatus
I'm making Big Life Changes and walk through my mindset around them. I also talk through lessons learned from a four month social media hiatus and how it helped me strategically approach how I connect to content creators online.
54:48
October 11, 2019
Deidra on wholehearted living, finding sisterhood, self development and cannabis!
How Deidra Bliss came to leave Mormonism, become a lesbian, fall in love with her husband and become a multi-award winning cannabis entrepreneur and full time home schooling mom. Deidra is a leader who creates space for authenticity with plant medicine and a multi-generational sisterhood. Meet the co-founder of the Glowing Goddess Getaway and learn more about yourself along the way. Find us: @missbliss710 @glowinggoddessgetaway @bevinsparty on instagram
1:14:50
October 4, 2019
(Solo) Spirituality
My spirituality is a huge part of my life and why I do what I do. I believe everyone should believe what they want to believe and follow their own arrow. Part of that is exploration, so I get down to what I've found on my path. What do I believe, who is God, why do some of my soulmates not know each other? What's Reiki? How did I find my path to spirituality? What spiritual thought leaders have helped me on my path. Tons of resources and places to start or continue your spiritual exploration. 
1:13:46
September 27, 2019
3. Rachael on Dating, Confidence, Resisting Diet Culture, and Ex Drama
Rachael and I have been friends for seventeen years and seen one another through some stuff! She has taught me so much about dating and confidence. I'm excited to share old stories with y'all and to talk about how to be resilient to what people think. She also shows us what polyamory can look like. Rachael is a Polyamory Coach which means she's great at guiding people through the process of having relationships outside of monogamy. 
54:49
September 20, 2019
Gay Divorce (Solo)
I learned so much from my break-up six months ago and I share all the good, bad, and ugly lessons I've learned.
1:29:20
September 12, 2019
Episode 1: Start Before You're Ready
I turned 40 and am dropping my last name, I'm going through the sudden break-up of my engagement and six year partnership. I'm starting a podcast and thriving in spite of external circumstances!
50:30
March 13, 2019