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Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends

Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends

By Bevin

Hi, I'm Bevin! There are millions of ways to be a happy, successful adult in this world! I'm blessed with wise, funny & fascinating friends who are in their unique thrive. You're invited to listen to some great conversations about how we stay resilient & fabulous! I'm passionate about self love and empowering other folks to love themselves. The kinder I am to myself the easier it is for me to learn, grow and stay looking a lot younger than I would if I was stressed about aging & the effects of gravity on my body. Welcome to the party!
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Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsJul 24, 2020

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167. (Solo) Spice Girls, Femmeness and Shame
Mar 22, 202432:13
166. Chrissy Tolley: Prayer, Step Work & Consistency

166. Chrissy Tolley: Prayer, Step Work & Consistency

Chrissy is my psychic! She's also a dear friend and from the chosen Millenial micro generation that's incarnated to lead our world! I love hearing how she evolves!

We talk her recent one year Al Anon anniversary (she's on step six now)! Her duolingo streak! Our thoughts on prayer & how much it can help if you're willing. Designing, evolving a Patreon & building community.

Get to know me and Chrissy more through our previous episodes! 29--her background, 137--how to avoid demonic possession, 53--early C19 pandemic predictions!


Learn how to start a Patreon & Discord community: Episode 139


Book a one on one with me by emailing fatkiddanceparty at gmail dot com!


Book with Chrissy Tolley: https://chrissytolley.com/book-now

Join her substack: https://chrissytolley.substack.com/

Chrissy on IG & Threads: @chrissytolley


Support the Podcast!

Patreon.com/fkdp (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!)
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Cash App: $BevinBoss
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Mar 15, 202401:19:55
165. (Solo) Habits and Capacity Building at the Pace of Peace
Mar 08, 202451:12
164. Robin Doxey: Spiritual Living, Compassion and Fortification
Feb 29, 202401:19:44
163. Claire Coughlin Powell: Celebrating Yourself!
Feb 23, 202401:22:55
162. (Solo) Modern Love--Dating in the Era of Covid19 and Staying Sane on the Apps

162. (Solo) Modern Love--Dating in the Era of Covid19 and Staying Sane on the Apps

Let's take intentional risks for community, friendship and the right people! Don't waste your protocols on the wrong people, though. I talk about my personal Covid-19 protocols, where I'm willing to compromise and where I'm not, dating standards, observing behavior vs obsessing over potential, seeing endings as learning lessons vs failure, maintaining sense of self while in early love Feels & more! I hope when you see Modern Love you think of a David Bowie song. Take the risk to love and be authentic. Referenced in this episode: Leah Garza is enrolling for her Akashic Mentorship & Living Systems 2024 classes! https://crystalsofaltamira.com/links RobinDoxey.com for your psychic needs she's amazing. Go get sex ed with cannasexual.com Get an astrology or tarot reading from Jana at feelingloudly.com Get an astrology reading from Dreya at https://linktr.ee/drey.vibes Read the book Professional Troublemaker: The Fear Fighter's Manual. Support the podcast! Patreon.com/fkdp (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!) https://www.buymeacoffee.com/bevin (safe and secure way to buy me a snack!) Venmo: @bevinb Cash App: $BevinBoss Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SJCL864DDKEH?ref_=wl_share Tee shirts: https://genuinevalentine.com/collections/fat-kid-dance-party Buy my aerobics video! ⁠fatkiddanceparty.com/video4pack⁠ Instagram: @fatkiddanceparty @bevinsparty You Tube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/SelfCareParty Email list: http://eepurl.com/dyX3db Threads, Tik Tok, Twitter: @bevinsparty Facebook.com/bevinsparty Like/subscribe/review/send a link to a friend! It all helps!

Feb 09, 202451:04
161. Elysia The Naughty Faery: Candle Magic and Lunchtime of Life Love

161. Elysia The Naughty Faery: Candle Magic and Lunchtime of Life Love

Audio Episode 161. Elysia the Naughty Faery has a compelling story of spiritual development and following the jolly freefall of alignment. We talk candle magic, her amazing lunchtime of life love story, the Goddess/Saint Brigid and the upcoming Imbolc holiday! She is my local candlemaker! I love visiting her store in Port Townsend and you can visit her online store! Candle store on etsy: https://www.etsy.com/shop/thenaughtyfaery/(Use code BevinLove10 for 10% off through the end of Feb 2024)Instagram & FB: TheChandleryPTIf you're visiting Port Townsend stay at The Washington Suites: https://www.thewashingtonpt.com/SUPPORT THE PODCAST! Patreon.com/fkdp (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!)https://www.buymeacoffee.com/bevin (safe and secure way to buy me a snack!)Venmo: @bevinbCash App: $BevinBossAmazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SJCL864DDKEH?ref_=wl_shareTee shirts: https://genuinevalentine.com/collections/fat-kid-dance-partyBuy my aerobics video! ⁠fatkiddanceparty.com/video4pack⁠Instagram: @fatkiddanceparty @bevinspartyPodcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/bevin (Search "Bevin" on Spotify or Apple/Google Podcasts)You Tube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/c/SelfCarePartyEmail list: http://eepurl.com/dyX3dbBuy anything on Amazon using this link to go to their website and I make a 3% commission on anything you buy! Costs nothing extra to you and cuts into that "astronaut's" profits just a lil bit. https://amzn.to/2PQ52A9Threads, Tik Tok, Twitter: @bevinspartyFacebook.com/bevinspartyLike/subscribe/review/send a link to a friend! It all helps!

Feb 02, 202401:11:11
160. (Solo) Is True Love a Scam? And other thoughts on Romantic Love
Jan 26, 202458:22
159. Manduh Dawn: Overcoming Trauma for Spiritual Tranformation

159. Manduh Dawn: Overcoming Trauma for Spiritual Tranformation

Manduh is a powerful medium, Reiki practitioner, oracle and tarot card reader and delicious baker! A multi-passionate entrepreneur, and since recording this episode three weeks ago is now full time devoted to offering her unique gifts to the world! Her backstory is one of overcoming and there's a content warning on this episode about suicide and CSA if those aren't things you're up for listening about. Like all healers, she has walked through the storms and can now heal through her experience. Manduh also loves Christmas and the Muppets as much as me and she's part of leadership for our Glowing Goddess Sisterhood.

Manduh on Instagram: @manduh.dawn @manduhsreikibakery

You can DM her to get a reading, a healing or buy a cake (she ships!)

Manduh on FB: https://www.facebook.com/CakesByManduh/

Goddess Sisterhood: https://sites.google.com/view/goddess-sisterhood/home

SUPPORT THE PODCAST: Patreon.com/fkdp (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!)
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Venmo: @bevinb
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Jan 20, 202401:18:45
158. (Solo) Winter Weather Clothing Tips and RV Winter Essentials
Jan 17, 202423:02
157. Scott Smith: Divine Will, Spell Casting, Leading with Curiosity in Friendship

157. Scott Smith: Divine Will, Spell Casting, Leading with Curiosity in Friendship

My beloved teacher and friend Scott visits my podcast every Winter Solstice and I'm so grateful. Scott is a Reiki Master teacher and a Teacher and Minister in the Temple of Witchcraft. On this episode we talk about Divine Will and connecting to our body to hear the guidance for our path. When our paths diverge with friends how do we release with love and curiosity? And when setting out to do spell work Scott has an amazing tarot / oracle card spread to check in before embarking on working magick.

Please visit with us in our other episodes--I love the progression of a friendship with two growing people over time! Episodes 144, 118, 60 and 14!

Connect with Scott!

Website: Contains Services and Classes! StarAndStoneLLC.com

Patreon Where the online magick happens! Patreon.com/ScottKSmith

Redbubble Page: Likes and follow are helpful! https://www.redbubble.com/people/StarStoneLLC/shop
Everything Else Linktr.ee/scott_k_smith

Support the podcast! Patreon.com/fkdp (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!)
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Venmo: @bevinb
Cash App: $BevinBoss
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Instagram: @fatkiddanceparty @bevinsparty
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Dec 21, 202301:26:44
156. Jana of Feeling Loudly: Kurt Cobain's Birth Chart
Dec 15, 202301:19:32
155. Leah Garza: Desire, Disgust and Dyads

155. Leah Garza: Desire, Disgust and Dyads

Leah has taught me so much about dyads--relationships with others, the world around me, and my soul. One of the most essential things in the creation of the world of our dreams is our individual growth. Creating our own path, pursuing our desires, and not letting the judgment of others slow us down or stop us. Leah's relationship with disgust as a concept is gorgeous. I hope you enjoy this conversation, our previous conversations and her podcast Magical Baddies! Links below.

Episode 109: What even is reality? https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/bevin/episodes/109--Leah-Garza-What-Even-is-Reality-e18l8o2

Episode 133: Make the world better by becoming more YOU https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/bevin/episodes/133--Leah-Garza-Make-the-World-Better-by-Becoming-More-YOU-e1hqiv1


Magical Baddies podcast: https://magicalbaddies.podbean.com/

Leah's Website: https://crystalsofaltamira.com/

Leah's Email list (to find out about upcoming class enrollment): https://crystalsofaltamira.com/links (scroll to bottom of page)

Leah's Instagram: @crystalsofaltamira

Bevin on Instagram: @bevinsparty @fatkiddanceparty

Support the podcast:

patreon.com/fkdp

https://www.buymeacoffee.com/bevin (safe and secure way to buy me a snack!)
Venmo: @bevinb
Cash App: $BevinBoss

Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SJCL864DDKEH?ref_=wl_share

Buy my aerobics video! ⁠fatkiddanceparty.com/video4pack⁠

You Tube Channel:
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Nov 30, 202301:33:46
154. (Solo) Not Going Home For the Holidays Pep Talk
Nov 09, 202335:56
153. (Solo) Funerals as an Empath
Oct 27, 202337:59
152. (Solo) My Spiritual Approach to Creating Ease, Joy, Play and Rest

152. (Solo) My Spiritual Approach to Creating Ease, Joy, Play and Rest

At the top of this episode I talk about why I haven't been producing as many podcasts as I once was. Responding to a listener and community member question about how I have been creating ease, joy, play and rest for the past four years. I employ a lot of spiritual practices and success mindsets so that what I do is intentional and not just busy work. We are socialized to toil and we don't have to live like that!

As with everything I create: please take what you like and leave the rest! I love you!

I reference my teacher Leah Garza many times on this episode she was with me on Episodes 133 & 109.

Please buy a pet portrait from my friend Kendrra Thoms (Episode 117) who is the reason my blog looks so cute. https://kendrrathoms.com/

My blog is QueerFatFemme.com go visit explore the tags and find some fun stuff that can help you create shortcuts in life!


Support the podcast! If you find value in my work I would love to keep doing it! I need help from folks to make it possible!

Patreon.com/fkdp (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!)
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/bevin
Venmo: @bevinb
Cash App: $BevinBoss
Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SJCL864DDKEH?ref_=wl_share
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Oct 06, 202343:23
151. (Solo) My Experience as a Cancer Caregiver
Aug 10, 202327:23
149. Michael Anthony: Twin Flames, Soulmates and Transitions

149. Michael Anthony: Twin Flames, Soulmates and Transitions

Jun 15, 202301:08:01
148. Bianca Russo: Tips to Support Mental Health Spirals

148. Bianca Russo: Tips to Support Mental Health Spirals

Bianca is a Zoom-based personal trainer with a big heart and great cheerleading! As I have experiienced and shared on this podcast, sometimes those of us with big cheer to offer also have mental health struggles! As her friend I've witness Bianca develop exceptional self awareness and not only learn but use tools to regulate and recover. This episode is chock full of ideas for how to get back to center, how to define success for ourselves and how Bianca pivoted from nursing to personal training!

Virtual Personal Training on Zoom with Bianca starts with a 1-hour intro appointment to get acquainted. All follow up workouts are 30-minutes in duration from warmup to cooldown. This is a radically inclusive space for anyone who's healing their relationship with movement. Calling all Shes, Theys, Gays, and the Weirdos in Between! Let's boogie. 
Instagram: 
@hi.biancarusso

Website: www.biancarussofitness.com/

Schedule Consult: bit.ly/talk-with-bianca

If you find value in this podcast, please consider supporting!
Support the Podcast:Work one-on-one with me: https://queerfatfemme.com/one-on-one-with-bevin/
Buy me a Coffee:
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I'm crowdfunding a new laptop so I can keep publishing podcasts, blogs & aerobics:
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Venmo: @bevinb
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My Small Business Wishlist
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Fatkiddanceparty.com/classes
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May 26, 202301:05:22
147. Jana Barrett: Reading Taylor Swift's Astrological Birth Chart and Astrology for Personal Transformation

147. Jana Barrett: Reading Taylor Swift's Astrological Birth Chart and Astrology for Personal Transformation

If you were born between 1989-1991 you are part of a micro generation of millenials with a specific destiny to help the world get better. It's giving "chosen one" vibes. As this generation is 33 right now (or coming soon), integrating the lessons of their Saturn returns in Capricorn, this is the time to decide you're going to live up to your potential in this lifetime! No pressure!

I'm pretty obsessed with this micro generation and invited my friend Jana on the podcast because she is a 1989 millenial AND she's a gifted astrologer, Akashic Records practitioner and tarot reader. Jana's readings are soothing and full of empowering homework to come into alignment with our life's purpose. This episode is great for astro-nerds and astro-newbies alike. And Swifties, of course.

Releasing this on Lesbian Visibility Day (April 27th) because it's never a bad time to be your most authentic self! Love you!

Jana's link tree which takes you to every social platform and most importantly her booking link--you WANT a reading with her! https://linktr.ee/feelingloudly

If you find value in this podcast, please consider supporting!
Support the Podcast: Patreon.com/fkdp
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/bevin
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Apr 27, 202301:31:07
146. Jerri Berry & Michelle: My first Alien Encounter! And Glowing Up with Cannasisters at a Wellness Retreat!

146. Jerri Berry & Michelle: My first Alien Encounter! And Glowing Up with Cannasisters at a Wellness Retreat!

Jerri had an alien encounter in June gathering with our cannasisters and had another one with me and her sister Michelle on 03/17/2023 in Loomis, CA. We talk about the circumstances of each experience, how they overlap and what the experience felt like. (I was shocked!) We also talk about our whole trip to the women's wellness cannabis retreat we were attending when we met our Star Family! "Follow Taylor Swift's voice" is my favorite part of our tale.


Jerri is a you tuber, bullet journal designer and has her own podcast! You can hit up Michelle through Jerri!

My episode with Jerri on her podcast: https://youtu.be/AzNOntYENgY

Jerri's You Tube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@jerribberry

Jerri's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jerribberry/

Glowing Goddess Sisterhood: https://www.instagram.com/glowinggoddesssisterhood/

If you find value in this podcast, please consider supporting!
Support the Podcast:

Patreon.com/fkdp
Buy me a Coffee:
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/bevin
I'm crowdfunding a new laptop so I can keep publishing podcasts, blogs & aerobics:
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/bevin/w/4466
Venmo: @bevinb
Cash App: $BevinBoss
Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SJCL864DDKEH?ref_=wl_share
My Small Business Wishlist
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Fatkiddanceparty.com/classes
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Bevin on Instagram:
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Apr 17, 202357:09
145. Tamara Chance: Microdosing Psilocybin in Community for Manifestation and other Earth Medicine Lessons

145. Tamara Chance: Microdosing Psilocybin in Community for Manifestation and other Earth Medicine Lessons

DISCLAIMER: The information and experience in this episode are not a substitute for medical care. I encourage you to advise with your trusted medical professional before seeking healing through plant medicines of any kind.

Tamara healed the effects of her alcohol use with conscientious use of psilocybin. She now facilitates cohorts of community healing together with earth medicines. I just completed her Winter Microcosm/Macrocosm cohort with profound results in my brain, spiritual connection and well-being! We also talk about Tamara's journey to become a full time healer and her build out of her dream home with her partner made with their bare hands and you tube! 

Microcosm Macrocosm is offered seasonally, join the invite list any time here: https://forms.wix.com/f/6978805375927583046

Tamara's 4/20 Retreat Details: https://www.mohala.yoga/retreat

Tamara's Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/MohalaYoga

Tamara's IG: https://www.instagram.com/ganjayogahawaii/

Tamara's YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVy_5aPg2exBYxAoO0EIOug

If you find value in this podcast, please consider supporting!
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Jan 28, 202301:13:39
144. Scott K. Smith: Solstice, Magick and Discernment

144. Scott K. Smith: Solstice, Magick and Discernment

One of the most potent things you'll do moving into the next phase of your life is determine who is going to influence you! Scott K. Smith is back on the podcast with a Solstice candle magick ritual! We talk through the ethics of spiritual leadership falling down conspiracy rabbit holes and how to choose who and how people influence us. Trusting your intuition and your intimate connection with the Divine is the most important skill you will develop! Scott is here to help!

Website featuring Scott's practice: TheSacredOther.com

Star Stone Education LLC, featuring Scott's company and book: StarandStonellc.com

Scott's Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/ScottKSmith/

Scott on IG: https://www.instagram.com/scott_k_smith/

Everything else including socials is listed under links and socials at: http://Linktr.ee/Scott_k_smith

If you find value in this podcast, please consider supporting!
Support the Podcast: Patreon.com/fkdp
NEW Tee shirts: https://genuinevalentine.com/collections/fat-kid-dance-party
Buy me a Coffee:
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I'm crowdfunding a new laptop so I can keep publishing podcasts, blogs & aerobics:
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/bevin/w/4466
Venmo: @bevinb
Cash App: $BevinBoss
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Fatkiddanceparty.com/classes

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Dec 20, 202201:20:46
143. Jes Baker: Somatics, Embodiment, Reclaiming Spirituality after Mormomism

143. Jes Baker: Somatics, Embodiment, Reclaiming Spirituality after Mormomism

Jes Baker's fifth word on this podcast is a swear word. I love her brilliant mind and bold use of language and am so thrilled for you to hear her tools for unlocking the wisdom of your body! The first glitches Jes observed in the Matrix was when she was being raised in Mormonism. Their journey publishing and creating as the Militant Baker focusing on fat liberation for eight years has evolved! "There's a moment where I digested fat stigma intellectually but it didn't get me where I want to go." Jes followed the yeses into training in Somatics. "Somatics is what comes after the intellectual deconstruction of the paradigm that bodies are measured against each other. Systems of oppression rely on our disconnection from our bodies." The spiritual aspects of having a body, creating personal ritual and ceremony is now a big part of what Jes is creating in the world and what they are teaching!

Jes on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/jesbaker

Website: https://www.jesbaker.com/

Email list: https://mailchi.mp/bf73dd97aff2/sp9n4n0y76

IG: https://www.instagram.com/themilitantbaker/

Teachers and practitioners mentioned in this episode:

Marika Heinrichs: https://wildbody.ca/

Prentis Hemphill: https://prentishemphill.com/

Leah Garza: https://crystalsofaltamira.com/

Jessa Reed: https://www.jessareed.com/

Sonya Renee Taylor: https://www.sonyareneetaylor.com/

adrienne maree brown: https://adriennemareebrown.net/

Bridget Sweetin: https://www.coach-sweetin.com/

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Dec 07, 202201:33:11
142. Colin Bedell of Queer Cosmos: Healing Wounds and Partner Pre-Selection

142. Colin Bedell of Queer Cosmos: Healing Wounds and Partner Pre-Selection

Colin is back and fresh from filming the new reality dating show he lent his astrology expertise to--Written in the Stars premiers on Discovery+ on November 27th! On this episode we talk show biz filming--best case scenario, Colin reports--and the process of partner pre-selection! Chiron, the wounded healer of the zodiac, is heavy in our convo about how to address those wounds that keep popping up! The balance between friends and family, responsiblity and freedom, rejection, money, and so much more! 

Colin's show! https://www.discoveryplus.com/ie/show/written-in-the-stars

Previous episode 96 with Colin about values: https://anchor.fm/bevin/episodes/96--Colin-Bedell-of-Queer-Cosmos-Discerning-Values-to-Create-a-Life-Worth-Living-e145hdt/a-a63f69k

Previous episode 68 with Colin about his back story! https://anchor.fm/bevin/episodes/68--Colin-Bedell--Queer-Cosmos-eo7bfk/a-a475usk

Colin's website: https://www.queercosmos.com/

Colin's IG: https://www.instagram.com/queercosmos/

If you find value in this podcast, please consider supporting!
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Nov 22, 202253:10
141. (Solo) Releasing Guilt and Shame from Fundamentalism, Fat Stigma, and Colonial Programming
Nov 03, 202226:22
140. (Solo) Lessons from my Recent Mental Health Spiral
Oct 26, 202223:51
139. (Solo) How to get paid to create via Patreon!

139. (Solo) How to get paid to create via Patreon!

I'm so passionate about helping folks use Patreon to nurture and support their ongoing creative and world changing work! I know consultants, activists, psychics, healers, musicians, visual artists, you tube creators, group projects, and so many other types of creators who use Patreon to keep their work going. It's a really cool platform with a lot of flexibility and resources. Here's much of what I've learned in nearly four years using the app as a primary source of income. And much of what I've learned from studying Prince Rogers Nelson about creating a body of work that I think is very well nurtured by Patreon and the death of record labels.

Resources/cool creators I mentioned in the episode: 

For branding/logos support connect with Kendrra of Streetratdraws: Patreon.com/streetratdraws

To check out one of my fav musical projects in lieu of a record label he's using Patreon my friend Rick Sorkin: Patreon.com/ricksorkin

To check out my tarot reader Bethany's work in project Patreon that's getting her small biz started: Patreon.com/bethanytarot

My Patreon pep talk about asking for help: https://www.patreon.com/posts/pep-talk-asking-71332349

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Aug 31, 202255:27
138. (Solo) Gossip! What it is and why I avoid it!
Jul 28, 202238:13
137. Chrissy Tolley: Reality TV Psychic and Avoiding Demonic Possession
Jul 20, 202201:08:57
136. (Solo) Diagnosing Myself with ADHD from Memes on Instagram Dot Com
Jun 30, 202222:05
17. Skip Bacon on Sex Ed and Catholocism
Jun 30, 202234:56
135. (Solo) Rest, Recovery and Really Good Binge Watches
May 12, 202224:43
134. Mskindness B. Ramirez: Canna Mom, Entrepreneur and Educator
May 05, 202258:17
133. Leah Garza: Make the World Better by Becoming More YOU
Apr 29, 202201:26:21
132. Samantha Montanaro: Mushroom Medicine, Music and Motherhood
Apr 20, 202201:09:08
131. Aunt Mimi: Leaning into Pleasure and Delight for Chronic Pain
Apr 13, 202201:02:20
130. (Solo) Developing Intuition
Apr 06, 202232:59
129. Noemi Sparks: Emotional Freedom and Energetic Mastery
Mar 30, 202253:59
128. Jennifer Axcell: Building Back after Burn Out

128. Jennifer Axcell: Building Back after Burn Out

I love the saying that God first speaks in a metaphor and then a two by four? That reminds me of burn out. Burn out is our body's alarm system telling us we need a full control alt delete reset! My friend Jennifer Axcell is an amazing entrepreneur with a big heart. Her desire to serve so much burnt her out and she's spent the past year rebuilding. She uses plant medicine, including psilocybin, to intentionally self care back from burn out. Her work now is to empower other entrepreneurs to do the same. She's also an identical twin (Gemini!) which has influenced some of her most profound realizations. Enjoy this conversation and I hope it inspires you to take breaks and create intentional rest!

My previous episode with Jennifer (Episode 56): https://anchor.fm/bevin/episodes/56--Jennifer-Axcell--Co-Founded-the-first-Free-Cannabis-Nurse-Hotline-ekg04j/a-a3drdf9

Jennifer on IG: @jenniferaxcell for plant medicine https://www.instagram.com/jenniferaxcell/

@her.s.e.l.f for burnout recovery and self care journey https://www.instagram.com/her.s.e.l.f/

@herhighestself_retreats is for her retreats https://www.instagram.com/herhighestself_retreats/

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Mar 23, 202201:18:60
127. (Solo) I'm Not Done Talking About Grieving My Dad
Mar 04, 202247:00
126. (Solo) Taking 20 Years to Figure Out My Career Path
Feb 25, 202201:01:58
125. Radavie Riom: Healing Inner Child to Live in Freedom and Harmony
Feb 18, 202242:18
124. (Solo) The Complicated Grieving of my Deadbeat Dad
Feb 11, 202252:21
123. (Solo) 10 Minute Body Positive Aerobics Class
Feb 04, 202225:57
Episode 122 Deidra Bliss: Rest Evangelist and Plant Based Air Frying

Episode 122 Deidra Bliss: Rest Evangelist and Plant Based Air Frying

When Deidra came back to the community from having been down for a month with Covid, she declared, "Rest is my LOVER." She needed epic amount of rest for her body to recuperate and it has ignited a newfound redirection in how she prioritizes the needs of her body versus productivity. Since she's my favorite person to talk about plant based foods I wanted to talk about living my best life air frying plants (especially potatoes!!) and the best vegan dips! Really Deidra loves dips and drops some great recipes. She's also a multi-hyphenate entrepreneur and the lifestyle of the entrepreneur is definitely a risk taking one and we talk about taking command of your life, your dreams by stepping away from the 9 to 5 grind. (Grind culture is dead! Long live rest culture!!)

Previous episodes with Deidra: 

Episode 5 her backstory (Mormonism! Coming Out!) and the GGG backstory: https://anchor.fm/bevin/episodes/5--Deidra-Bliss-on-wholehearted-living--finding-sisterhood--self-development-and-cannabis-e5rs00/a-apnsnu

Episode 74 using plants to heal! https://anchor.fm/bevin/episodes/74--Deidra-Bliss--Give-Plants-a-Chance-epve9u/a-a4i46ht

Deidra on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/missbliss710/

Glowing Goddess Getaway Patreon (Gateway to Discord): https://www.patreon.com/glowinggoddessgetaway 

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Jan 28, 202201:24:56
121. Y Thuan La: Acupuncture and Traditional Chinese Medicine
Jan 21, 202239:54
120. (Solo) Getting Over My Resistance to Goal Setting and Planners
Jan 08, 202225:11
119. (Solo) Navigating Emotionally Treacherous Trigger Moments
Dec 24, 202129:55
118. Scott K. Smith: Navigating a Magickal Path to Ascend Amidst Mass Death and Madness

118. Scott K. Smith: Navigating a Magickal Path to Ascend Amidst Mass Death and Madness

Scott K. Smith just finished a Reiki manual that might lead you to a better more resilient version of yourself. My own path as a Reiki Master Healer has absolutely rooted me in a spiritual life path. Scott is one of my favorite people to talk about spiritual philosophy with and we discussed a prediction for the Age of Aquarius that a third of people will die, a third of people will go mad and a third of people will ascend. We talk how to navigate the mass death that's already underway, and how we ensure we are green and growing in the new world that is unfolding. 

Happy Solstice! My previous conversations with Scott!

Episode 60. Scott K Smith Shadow Work, Darkness and Witchcraft: 

https://anchor.fm/bevin/episodes/60--Scott-K--Smith-Shadow-work--darkness-and-light-in-witchcraft-elpgcd/a-a3msmhj

Episode 14. Scott K Smith on Connecting to the Magic We All Have Inside

https://anchor.fm/bevin/episodes/14--Scott-K-Smith-on-Connecting-to-the-Magic-We-All-Have-Inside-e9gcs9/a-a15i146


This episode on You Tube: https://youtu.be/h8ppYERRP74

Scorr's practice: TheSacredOther.com
Scott's Work as Priest and Teacher: Temple-LA.com
Scott's Patreon: Patreon.com/ScottKSmith

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Dec 17, 202101:27:54