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The RovingBookworm Podcast

The RovingBookworm Podcast

By Biyai Garricks

Hi,
My name is Biyai Garricks and I am a Blogger, Poet, Content Creator and now Podcaster.
I will be hosting you either alone or with a guest as we talk, rave, rant and explore diverse themes and life changing lessons inspired by books I have read, fictional characters, poetry and music over a cup of tea or two. Join me as we discover new ways to make our lives more beautiful and create a safe space where we can be!

Blog: www.rovingbookwormng.com
Instagram: @rovingbookwormng
Twitter and Facebook : @rovingbookworm
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S3| Episode 35: Let’s Talk About Sex with Tare Dite Ojoko

The RovingBookworm PodcastMay 30, 2021

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S6|Episode 75: Let’s Talk About Love

S6|Episode 75: Let’s Talk About Love

A conversation exploring what it means to be in love and what love is not.
Mar 26, 202313:43
S6| Episode 74: Recalibrate

S6| Episode 74: Recalibrate

Happy New Year everyone! On this episode I share some of the things that helped me last year to achieve most of my goals and what I am currently doing this month to set the pace for the year ahead.
Jan 29, 202328:48
S6| Episode 73: Help! I’m Drowning with Adesuwa Iluobe

S6| Episode 73: Help! I’m Drowning with Adesuwa Iluobe

On this episode we discuss the importance of therapy/counselling and why we should be open to it.
Dec 21, 202248:37
S6|Episode 72: Many Waters with Ayo Adeola

S6|Episode 72: Many Waters with Ayo Adeola

Insightful and inspiring conversation with the beautiful Ayo Adeola on traumatic experiences in early childhood and adulthood and how therapy and faith in God has helped her journey towards healing.
Aug 21, 202257:54
S6|Episode 71: Why You Act The Way You Do

S6|Episode 71: Why You Act The Way You Do

On this episode, we find out what members of this community think or believe is trauma and also they share some traumatic experiences that have affected the people they have become today.
Aug 07, 202238:60
S6| Episode 70: What Happened to You?

S6| Episode 70: What Happened to You?

After a long break, I’m back this new season with the hope to have wholesome conversations around Trauma and healing. This is why the theme for this season is titled ‘The Healing Season’. I look forward to the next 11 episodes where we will all learn and unlearn our understanding of trauma and healing.
Jul 17, 202217:02
S5|Episode 69: Emotional Vs Physical Infidelity with Kikelomo Kuponiyi

S5|Episode 69: Emotional Vs Physical Infidelity with Kikelomo Kuponiyi

Interesting conversation on the effects of infidelity and how society views infidelity in men and women differently amongst other issues around the theme.
Jun 05, 202254:38
S5|Episode 68:Love At First Sight Vs Slow Burn Love with Rosemary Okafor

S5|Episode 68:Love At First Sight Vs Slow Burn Love with Rosemary Okafor

Awesome conversation as we analyze the differences between love at first sight and slow burn love.
Apr 03, 202201:11:43
S5|Episode 67: Marry for Love Vs Marry for Money with Bina Idonije

S5|Episode 67: Marry for Love Vs Marry for Money with Bina Idonije

An insightful and fun conversation with the author of recently published book ‘Bridges are for Burning’, Bina Idonije where we share are views on the things we believe are most important to consider when we want to get married especially in this age.
Mar 20, 202201:01:57
S5| Episode 66: Social Media Vs Traditional Media with Jessica Tagbajumi

S5| Episode 66: Social Media Vs Traditional Media with Jessica Tagbajumi

A fun conversation as we discuss the pros and cons of both social media and traditional media and how these are rapidly shaping our world, our beliefs and our lives.
Mar 13, 202201:34:41
S5| Episode 65: Extroverts Vs Introverts

S5| Episode 65: Extroverts Vs Introverts

On this episode we have a conversation on how both extroverts and introverts are perceived, what best to do if we are on either side of these two personalities and how to embrace each other as a people
Mar 06, 202236:36
S5| Episode 64: Reading Fiction Vs Non-Fiction Books with Aisha Musa

S5| Episode 64: Reading Fiction Vs Non-Fiction Books with Aisha Musa

An insightful conversation about reading, our preferences in terms of genres and why we think either genre is better than the other. Join the conversation….
Feb 27, 202237:35
S5| Episode 63: Spoken Word Vs Written Word Poetry

S5| Episode 63: Spoken Word Vs Written Word Poetry

On this episode we have the brilliant LARDO, Poet and Spoken Word Artist join us in this wholesome conversation that highlights the differences and similarities between Spoken Word Poetry and Written Word Poetry.
Feb 20, 202201:04:50
S5| Episode 62: Physical Vs Mental/Emotional Well-Being with Rita Chukwu-Ike

S5| Episode 62: Physical Vs Mental/Emotional Well-Being with Rita Chukwu-Ike

A very engaging and wholesome conversation with Rita aka “The Girl Unplugged” as we compare the benefits of both physical and mental/emotional well-being and give tips on what works best.
Feb 13, 202201:39:37
S5|Episode 61: Self Employed Vs Being Employed

S5|Episode 61: Self Employed Vs Being Employed

On this episode, I get to share my experiences on both sides of this coin and discuss the pros and cons of either being employed or being self employed.
Feb 06, 202232:44
S5| Episode 60: Short Vs Long Relationships Before Marriage - Which is better?

S5| Episode 60: Short Vs Long Relationships Before Marriage - Which is better?

Interesting conversation with “The Fertile Chick” as our guest, we discuss our views on what we think is the ideal time frame for people to date before they tie the knot. This theme was inspired by the ‘Ginika’s Bridesmaids’ book series authored by our guest.
Feb 02, 202201:11:55
S5| Episode 59: Resolutions Vs Habits with Titilope Oguntuga

S5| Episode 59: Resolutions Vs Habits with Titilope Oguntuga

An insightful conversation with the author of ‘30 Days A Woman: A Practical Guide to Living Life Fully’ on new year resolutions and inculcating good habits as we set goals for this new season of life
Jan 23, 202258:54
S5|Episode 58: Welcome To Season 5

S5|Episode 58: Welcome To Season 5

Happy New Year and welcome to a new season which promises to be engaging, thought provoking and fun as we question the norm. I hope to enjoy all our conversations this season and I know we will learn and unlearn a lot as we grow to be better versions of ourselves
Jan 16, 202216:09
S4|Episode 57: The Journey to Self-Discovery - Season Finale

S4|Episode 57: The Journey to Self-Discovery - Season Finale

This has been such an awesome season and I am grateful to everyone who joined the conversations, gave feedback and came in as guests. Thank you. Wishing you a merry Christmas and a happy new year in advance. Stay well.
Dec 19, 202111:10
S4| Episode 56: Sharing Our Wins Pt 2 with Ifunenya Isoje

S4| Episode 56: Sharing Our Wins Pt 2 with Ifunenya Isoje

A fun conversation with another fabulous triber as we share our wins from some of the learning points this season and seasons before.
Dec 12, 202101:07:39
S4| Episode 55: Sharing Our Wins Pt 1 with Theophilus Uwhubetiyi

S4| Episode 55: Sharing Our Wins Pt 1 with Theophilus Uwhubetiyi

On this episode we have a guest and dedicated listener of this podcast share his perspectives on some of the conversations we have had this season.
Dec 05, 202157:01
S4| Episode 54: Finding Your Tribe Using Self-Knowledgeable As Your Guide

S4| Episode 54: Finding Your Tribe Using Self-Knowledgeable As Your Guide

On this episode we discuss a few things we can do to help us find our own tribe. People with the same interests, morals, beliefs, e.t.c who can support, encourage and inspire us to be more.
Nov 28, 202127:06
S4|Episode 53: Creating Emotional Safety For Self

S4|Episode 53: Creating Emotional Safety For Self

Emotional Safety is very vital to our mental health and productivity therefore it is important that we create this safety for ourselves. In this conversation, we discuss ways we can find emotional safety in an unsafe world.
Nov 21, 202133:38
S4| Episode 52: Investing in Self

S4| Episode 52: Investing in Self

This conversation explores the many ways we can invest in ourselves to become better in all our endeavors.
Nov 14, 202125:17
S4|Episode 51: Rebuilding Self-Esteem & Self-Confidence

S4|Episode 51: Rebuilding Self-Esteem & Self-Confidence

Self-Esteem & Self-Confidence are important ingredients in our journey towards success in life. Unfortunately, some of us have lost these vital things that we need to grow and become better versions of ourselves while some never had it at all due to circumstances during their childhood. On this episode, we have an insightful conversation on how we can successfully build our self-esteem and confidence back.
Nov 07, 202149:15
S4| Episode 50: Conquering the “What Will People Say” Syndrome

S4| Episode 50: Conquering the “What Will People Say” Syndrome

Another insightful conversation that gets us thinking why we care so much about what others think of us and why it is important we conquer this syndrome.
Oct 31, 202130:14
S4: E49: New Beginnings- Starting Afresh

S4: E49: New Beginnings- Starting Afresh

On this episode, we have a conversation on how to start afresh after we have experienced failure or we are at the beginning of a new phase in our lives, career or moving to a new country. Join the conversation and I’d love your feedback.
Oct 24, 202121:32
S4| Episode 48: Overcoming Challenges and Failures

S4| Episode 48: Overcoming Challenges and Failures

In life, we must face challenges and failures but how we react to these things determine if we can overcome or not. This conversation addresses the common reasons why we fail and some tips on how we can overcome life’s challenges and move on to become successful.
Oct 17, 202135:36
S4|Episode 47: Excelling With Multiple Talents

S4|Episode 47: Excelling With Multiple Talents

A very insightful conversation with my guest Tammy Ejimandu, the multitalented singer, author, professional, wife and mother. We discuss how multitalented people can navigate through life and excel in different aspects of their lives.
Oct 10, 202157:27
S4|Episode 46: Discovering Your Passion

S4|Episode 46: Discovering Your Passion

On this episode we continue our journey towards self discovery by having a conversation on how we can discover the things we are passionate about. I have given some tips from my experience and also stressed why it is important to live your dream.
Oct 03, 202136:34
S4|E45: Embracing Self

S4|E45: Embracing Self

On the journey towards Self Discovery and Success, embracing your authentic self is fundamental. Today’s conversation focuses on the importance of recognizing who we are and embracing that wholesome person.
Sep 26, 202126:06
S4| Episode 44: What’s Your Identity?

S4| Episode 44: What’s Your Identity?

On this episode we discuss what the true meaning of identity is and why it is important for Self Discovery and success.
Sep 19, 202135:58
S4| Episode 43: The Beginner’s Guide To Self Awareness

S4| Episode 43: The Beginner’s Guide To Self Awareness

Great to be back after the in-between seasons break and I am pumped up for the conversations centered around this season’s theme - ‘The Journey To Self Discovery’. This week we discuss self awareness, what it means and how we can begin to become more self awareness in all aspects of our lives.
Sep 12, 202134:29
S3|Episode 42: Finishing Strong - Changes That Heal

S3|Episode 42: Finishing Strong - Changes That Heal

This is the last episode of season 3 and it has been a very fulfilling season. I hope you have all enjoyed the ride as much as I have and already look forward to the new season in the next couple of months. On this last episode, we close by talking about one of the most important things we need to do in order to finish strong and be the wholesome people we hope to become. I will definitely miss you all but not for too long. Until then, stay safe and stay blessed.
Jul 18, 202124:51
S3| Episode 41: Choosing Well - How To Find Safe People

S3| Episode 41: Choosing Well - How To Find Safe People

On this episode I have a conversation on how we can find safe people who we can have healthy relationships with and spot unsafe people which lead us on the path to toxic relationships.
Jul 11, 202157:49
S3| Episode 40: Navigating Toxic Relationships with Ayo Adeola

S3| Episode 40: Navigating Toxic Relationships with Ayo Adeola

On this episode we discuss what toxic relationships really are, how we can navigate them especially with people we have little or no choice but to be around and most importantly how to heal from them.
Jul 10, 202101:05:08
S3| Episode 39: Beauty, Youthfulness & Aging with Rei Obaigbo

S3| Episode 39: Beauty, Youthfulness & Aging with Rei Obaigbo

This was a fun but thought provoking episode where we discuss the real essence of beauty and how society influences how we measure beauty in terms of youthfulness and aging.
Jun 27, 202101:07:11
S3| Episode 38: The Father’s Day Episode with Chi Garricks

S3| Episode 38: The Father’s Day Episode with Chi Garricks

Happy Father’s Day to all our wonderful fathers. On this episode we discuss fatherhood and the importance of a father being present in the lives of their children and lots more..
Jun 20, 202149:26
S3| Episode 37: Moving On - Healing From Loss, Broken Relationships & Trauma

S3| Episode 37: Moving On - Healing From Loss, Broken Relationships & Trauma

On this episode, I highlight the ways we can get on the path towards healing from loss, broken relationships & Trauma. A lot of people are stuck in grief which has even spiraled into depression and this conversation encourages us to move on and show some evidence that we can heal from a broken heart.
Jun 13, 202153:43
S3| Episode 36: Dealing With Infertility In A World That Demands Children with Timi Waters

S3| Episode 36: Dealing With Infertility In A World That Demands Children with Timi Waters

This theme was inspired by two books titled ‘All Your Perfects’ by Colleen Hoover and ‘Red Lines’ by Timi Waters. We discuss what couples dealing with infertility go through as the society ostracizes them and the right ways to treat and support these people as family and friends.
Jun 06, 202152:11
S3| Episode 35: Let’s Talk About Sex with Tare Dite Ojoko

S3| Episode 35: Let’s Talk About Sex with Tare Dite Ojoko

On this episode we talk about one of the most discussed topics on earth, SEX! With very clear explanations, Tare, a certified counselor and facilitator at the Wisdom Driven Marriage Academy joins today’s conversation and gives advice on how couples can keep sex alive in their marriages. The newly weds are not also left behind here as we also share how they can approach having sex for the first time.
May 30, 202154:57
S3 | Episode 34: The Many Faces of Infidelity

S3 | Episode 34: The Many Faces of Infidelity

On this episode, three guests join the conversation as we navigate this theme.
May 23, 202101:13:04
S3| Episode 33: Marriage- A Journey & Not A Destination

S3| Episode 33: Marriage- A Journey & Not A Destination

The theme for this episode was inspired by two books I recently read titled’The Four Seasons Of Marriage” by Gary Chapman and “Boundaries In Marriage” by Henry Cloud and John Townsend. I am hosting this episode alone where I share some of my personal experiences in my journey in marriage.
May 16, 202134:03
S3| Episode 32: What It Means To Be A Single Woman In This Age With Glory Abah & Ayo Adeola

S3| Episode 32: What It Means To Be A Single Woman In This Age With Glory Abah & Ayo Adeola

An interesting conversation with two brilliant single women who give us their perspectives on what it means to be a single woman in this age and how we can embrace the changes that have come with this time. Insightful and engaging!
May 09, 202101:15:51
S3| Episode 31: Embracing Change & The Five Things We Cannot Change

S3| Episode 31: Embracing Change & The Five Things We Cannot Change

This is the first episode of Season 3 with a general theme titled “Embracing Change” where we would have diverse conversations around Embracing change in different aspects of our lives. This episode introduces this general theme while stating the five things we cannot change.
May 02, 202134:13
S 2.5| Episode 30: Spoken Word Poetry Series

S 2.5| Episode 30: Spoken Word Poetry Series

This is the last episode of the Spoken Word Poetry series and I am sharing one of my favorite poems titled Damsels in Distress inspired by the wisdom from the book of Proverbs between chapters 2-8.
Apr 19, 202112:16
S 2.5 | Episode 29: Spoken Word Poetry Series

S 2.5 | Episode 29: Spoken Word Poetry Series

On this episode, I share yet another poem still under the general theme of loss and grief. This poem was inspired by my experience after I lost my baby and is dedicated to all those who have experienced this trauma. I hope you like it!
Apr 11, 202111:34
S 2.5| Episode 28: Spoken Word Poetry Series

S 2.5| Episode 28: Spoken Word Poetry Series

Today, I’m sharing two poems I wrote for my sister, Wabiye Hansbau Opara who passed on to be with the Lord on the 1st of April, 2011; 10 years ago. These poems represent my memories of her and I am glad I can share these with you all.
Apr 04, 202118:54
S2.5| Episode 27: Spoken Word Poetry Series

S2.5| Episode 27: Spoken Word Poetry Series

On this episode I share one of my favorite poems again titled ‘Broken Wings’ which was inspired by me grieving for the life I lived with my family and friends in the city I was born and raised, my one head full of hair, my changed body due to motherhood and the freedom of being without a care in this world amongst many other things. It’s also a poem of hope that believes that the future will be better and broken wings can fly again.
Mar 28, 202110:12
S 2.5| Episode 26: Spoken Word Poetry Series

S 2.5| Episode 26: Spoken Word Poetry Series

Happy World Poetry! On this episode I am sharing one of my favorite poems titled ‘This Silence’ which is an expression of the loss of a long dear close friendship. I hope you love it like I do. Cheers.
Mar 21, 202109:43