Courtship Code

Courtship Code

By Black Muslim Singles Society
Black Muslim Singles Society brings to you it's podcast on topics related to single life, courtship, and matchmaking from the Muslim perspective. Hosted by Zara J.

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Outstanding Polygyny w/ Coach Nyla and Fatima from Outstanding Personal Relationships
We interviewed Nyla and Fatimah from Outstanding Personal Relationships, a family, marriage and polygyny coaching business that helps families learn how to improve communication skills, and gain support on how to have healthy polygyny. The ladies broke down how they struggled with building a relationship and communication in the beginning of their poly family and how they finally came to a cross road that pushed them to finally breakdown walls and build marriages and sisterhood that they have today. Now, these women along with their husband, are using their story to help other polygamous couples to become stronger. They place personal development at the top of the list and believe it's the key to marital growth and bliss. Find them on Instagram @outstandingrelationships Follow us on Facebook: @_zaraj_ @blackmuslimsinglessociety visit Download the Match Manual Join our FREE women's only Facebook group Courtship Club
July 15, 2019
Courtship as an influencer w/ Nadirah Pierre S2E9
Nadirah Pierre is a social media Influencer with a huge spirit, who uses her platform to Inspire change in the Muslim community. Today we interviewed her to dive deeper into her views on courtship, marriage, and even her personal experience as an Influencer and Muslim woman in the public eye. You can follow Nadirah Pierre on Instagram @nadirah.p Follow Zara on Instagram @_ZaraJ_ Follow BMSS @Blackmuslimsinglessociety Women Only* Join Courtship Club Facebook Group Links in this Episode Our Website Match Manual workbook FREE Love & Disrespect Guide Women's Courtship Club email list
July 8, 2019
Everyone is Struggling S2E8
This week's episode of Courtship Code we discuss Q&A about wordly baggage, how everyone is struggling with something, and share an awesome listener review. Courtship Code is the go to podcast where we discuss all things related to relationships and courtship from the Muslim perspective. Check us out at Follow on Instagram and Facebook @blackmuslimsinglessociety for FREE STUFF! Have a courtship story or question? email us at or shoot us a dm Send in a review as well or leave us a review on Itunes!
July 1, 2019
Being honest about what you want S2E7
This week's episode of Courtship Code we discuss Q&A about a man's wife wanting to be paid a dowry and why everyone is struggling. LIKE AND SUBSCRIBE on iTunes and Google podcasts leave us a comment follow us on Facebook and Instagram Have a question? email us at enroll your profile at
June 24, 2019
Accept making effort S2E6
In this episode of courtship code we kick it off with Q&A and discuss the importance of making effort. Making effort in the 3 areas discussed makes a difference in pushing the process forward. We also share information on the Riyadaah, get tickets at and our new ambassador program. Don't forget to like and subscribe to our show for notifications for new episodes.
June 17, 2019
What is a Nurturing Woman? S2E5
Are you a nurturer? We received great feedback from our femininity episode and many had questions about being nurturing and identifying a nurturer. We are breaking down 5 things to check off your list for a nurturing woman. Start matchmaking with 50% off offer Follow on Instagram @blackmuslimsinglessociety
April 22, 2019
Why You Need to Lean Back S2E4
Have you ever wondered why you've struggled with attracting and identifying masculine men? This is the epidemic for you! On this episode we give 4 reasons why you need to lean back during courtship to prepare for a more fulfilling marriage.
April 15, 2019
Feminity Basics S2E3
This week we're going to discuss some basic ways to identify a feminine woman or feminity within yourself. start matchmaking at follow on Instagram @blackmuslimsinglessociety
April 8, 2019
Courtship Masculinity Basics S2E2
Thanks for joining us for another episode! This week we're breaking down 5 basic principles for masculinity and how to identify them in yourself and others. Follow on Instagram @blackmuslimsinglessociety Are you a part of Black Muslim Singles Society? Visit our website
February 25, 2019
S2Ep1 Is He Leading the Courtship?
Welcome to season 2 of the courtship code! This week we'll discuss if you as a man are leading her to marriage AND if you as a woman are allowing yourself to be led? How to identify this and when to allow it to happen.
February 11, 2019
Did you get Ghosted? Ep14
Have you been ghosted? Are you the ghost? This week we share 7 tips on dealing with ghosting and how to overcome the hurt and not carry it into your next relationship experience. 2 IN '18 PROMO on our website and Instagram Follow on Instagram @blackmuslimsinglessociety
December 11, 2018
Fighting About Money Ep13
This week we did a book review for the book, Let's Fight About Money by Martin & Chelsea Matthews, and discussed how knowing how to discuss money matters can help your relationship flourish. BOOK GIVEAWAY on our Instagram @blackmuslimsinglessociety DECEMBER 2 IN '18 SPECIAL Enroll your profile PURCHASE YOUR COPY Let's Fight About Money: How to Communicate About Money, Handle Conflict and Build an Unbreakable Financial House!
December 3, 2018
Never Right for Wrong Person Ep12
You will never be right for the wrong person, and here's how you change that. Listen to this week's episode and don't forget to favorite, SUBSCRIBE, share and comment. follow us on Instagram @blackmuslimsinglessociety enroll your profile at
November 19, 2018
Feeling Unworthy of Love Ep11
Have you ever secretly struggled with feeling unworthy of love? This week we discussed what feeling unworthy looks like in relationships and how to combat it. Follow us on Instagram @blackmuslimsinglessociety
November 12, 2018
MAJOR keys for Long Distance Courtship Ep10
Need Major Keys to Long Distance Courtship? This week we broke down 5 major tips to help you gain success from a distance. Use Code: FALLINLOVE for Basic Profile Listing and save $10 Follow on Instagram: @BlackMuslimSinglesSociety
November 6, 2018
Creating Balance or Excuses Ep9
Let's dive into 5 ways to acknowledge if you're creating balance or excuses when it comes to courtship! Favorite us on Anchor for updates Follow on IG @blackmuslimsinglessociety
October 30, 2018
Negotiating in Courtship Ep8
5 tips to better negotiating during. courtship to create win win situations for both parties. This quick episode gets straight to the point on some life long skills for every relationship in your life. follow on Instagram @blackmuslimsinglessociety
October 22, 2018
Wear your age with honor Ep7
Episode 7 is all about wearing your age with honor! We're giving you 5 tips on how to wear your age with honor and confidence during courtship and single life. follow on Instagram @blackmuslimsinglessociety
October 1, 2018
What do they want? Ep6
What qualities are the opposite sex seeking? Listen to this episode to learn the top 3 qualities both sexes are looking in a long term partner. Follow on Instagram @blackmuslimsinglessociety
October 1, 2018
Creating Your Courtship Code Ep5
Do you have a courtship code? Today we'll be discussing how to develop your personal code and the 4 phases of courtship. Follow us on Instagram @blackmuslimsinglessociety @blackmuslimsinglessocials @_zaraj_ Enroll in matchmaking
September 17, 2018
Courtship vs Dating Ep4
Episode 4! We're discussing the difference between courtship vs dating, especially for Muslims singles with marriage, and how to shift from a dating mindset to a courtship one. We also shared how to shift your actions for better results. SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube channel Favorite and Listen on the Anchor App **** Let us know you're single>> Men click here>> Women click here>> Instagram @blackmuslimsinglessociety @blackmuslimsinglessocials @_zaraj_ Facebook Black Muslim Singles Society
September 10, 2018
Does Past Equal Future? Ep3
Special guest and one half of That Clay Couple marriage counseling duo, Hasan Clay, joins us to discuss the impact of a person's past relationship behaviors on your potential courtship or marriage. Instagram: @blackmuslimsinglessociety @blackmuslimsinglessocials @_ZaraJ_ Follow that Clay Couple on IG @thatclaycouple
September 4, 2018
Haters Won't Get Your Process Ep2
Favorite this podcast for New episode notifications! This week of Courtship Code we're discussing exactly why your haters won't get your process and just how real the Glow up will be. Follow us on Instagram: @blackmuslimsinglessociety @blackmuslimsinglessocials @_zaraj_
August 27, 2018
The Scarcity Mindset Ep1
Let's discuss the scarcity mindset and how it's showing up in your life and effecting how you navigate the opposite sex.
August 22, 2018
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