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Black Girl Motivates

Black Girl Motivates

By Rickisa Owens

Welcome to the "Black Girl Motivates" Podcast! I'm your host, stand-up comedian Rickisa Owens.

Originally named "Black Girl Meditates," the podcast took an unexpected turn when a counselor mistook it for "Motivates." This mishap later sparked a revelation, prompting a reevaluation of the podcast's purpose. Now, as @themotivationalcomic, I'm embracing the change and walking confidently in my purpose.

Follow my journey on Instagram, and let's redefine motivation, one laugh and revelation at a time. This is "Black Girl Motivates" – where motivation meets laughter.
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Black Girl MotivatesNov 07, 2022

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STAY IN YOUR LANE

STAY IN YOUR LANE

In this episode of The Black Girl Motivates Podcast Lane, host Kisa returns from her hiatus with a burst of energy and life updates to share. Tune in as she fearlessly navigates through the twists and turns of life, delivering a motivational speech that might seem "all over the place" at first, but ultimately lands on a profound message of emotional resilience and self-awareness.

Kisa candidly reflects on her own experiences, emphasizing the importance of taking breaks and embracing change. Amidst the chaos of daily life, she advocates for the power of breathing and remaining calm in the face of challenges, rather than succumbing to emotional reactivity.

Listeners are invited to join Kisa on this journey of self-discovery and growth, as she encourages them to stay true to themselves, embrace their uniqueness, and find peace within the chaos. Get ready to be inspired and empowered to navigate life's highway with grace and resilience. Stay in your lane, and let's embark on this journey together.

Mar 25, 202417:32
MAKE SOMETHING SHAKE

MAKE SOMETHING SHAKE

Welcome to the Black Girl Motivates Podcast, previously known as the Black Girl Meditates Podcast! In this episode, our host, Rickisa Owens, explores the empowering notion of "making something shake." She candidly opens up about the transformative process of bringing her second comedy show to fruition in Randallstown, MD. Join us for an inspiring episode as Rickisa not only shares the behind-the-scenes journey but also delivers a motivational speech urging us to take action now and resist the disabling power of excuses. Embrace the call to make things happen and let Rickisa's words empower you to overcome obstacles and seize the opportunities that await.

Dec 11, 202309:31
ADDRESS YOUR DEEPEST FEARS

ADDRESS YOUR DEEPEST FEARS

Welcome to the Black Girl Motivates Podcast. Formerly known as the Black Girl Meditates Podcast! In this episode, host, Rickisa Owens reads aloud "Our Deepest Fear" by Marianne Williamson. and addresses her own "deepest" fear. What is yours?

"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear in that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our Light, not our Darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the World. There is nothing enlightening about shrinking so that other people won’t feel unsure around you. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It is not just in some of us; it is in everyone. As we let our own Light shine, we consciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others."

Nov 27, 202312:10
HOLIDAY BLUES

HOLIDAY BLUES

Welcome to the Black Girl Motivates Podcast, formerly known as the Black Girl Meditates Podcast. In this episode, host Rickisa Owens opens up the challenges around holidays and encourages us to remain vigilant and kind to ourselves during the time with our family and loved ones.

Nov 20, 202308:05
RENEW YOUR THOUGHTS

RENEW YOUR THOUGHTS

Welcome to the Black Girl Motivates Podcast, formerly known as the Black Girl Meditates Podcast. In this episode, host Rickisa Owens opens up about the name change and sets new intentions for the podcast.

The key takeaway for this episode is to encourage listeners to renew their thoughts. To further re-inforce the importance of positive thinking, Rickisa reads aloud an excerpt of Chapter 13 of The Power of Positive Thinking by Norman Vincent Peale.

Enjoy.

Nov 13, 202312:20
Charge Up! | Ep. 4

Charge Up! | Ep. 4


In this episode of The Black Girl Meditates podcast, host Rickisa Owens, aka Kisa, dives deep into the power of gratitude and the concept of energy. The episode, aptly titled "Charged Up," is a profound exploration of how harnessing the energy within us can lead to greater peace and joy in our lives.

Kisa opens the episode by guiding us through a 60-second gratitude exercise, encouraging listeners to contemplate and record the things they're thankful for. This practice sets the tone for the episode, highlighting the importance of recognizing and harnessing positive energy.

Kisa candidly shares her own gratitude list, touching on personal elements like her sense of humor, access to educational resources, and her loving but occasionally nerve-wracking mother. She also celebrates her 10-month anniversary with her partner and discusses how committing to a 30-day journey of self-care has helped her find happiness and peace, even during challenging times like her menstrual cycle.

The central theme of the episode revolves around the idea that everything in life is energy. Kisa delves into how our thoughts, emotions, and even money are forms of energy. She references the book "Secrets of the Millionaire Mind" by T. Harv Eker to underline this point and invokes Einstein's iconic formula, E=mc², to further elucidate the concept.

Kisa prompts listeners to contemplate where they source their energy and how they recharge themselves. Through meditation, prayer, and other positive practices, Kisa shares how she recharges and stays in touch with her inner energy. She also challenges listeners to discover what ignites that tingle within their own bodies, encouraging self-awareness and personal growth.

To enrich the episode, Kisa introduces a guided meditation by Bob Proctor, who played a pivotal role in her meditation journey. This meditation experience is a valuable addition, allowing listeners to tap into their own energy and find a sense of peace and tranquility.

"Charged Up" is an episode brimming with insights, personal anecdotes, and practical exercises to help you harness your inner energy and find peace and joy in your everyday life. So, tune in, take the time to recharge, and get ready to embark on a journey of self-discovery and mindfulness in this enlightening episode of The Black Girl Meditates podcast.


Full Bob Proctor Video⁠:⁠

⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FKyztk5P9ec⁠


Rickisa on Instagram

⁠https://www.instagram.com/themotivationalcomic/⁠

Oct 23, 202318:33
Make it Rain! | Ep. 3

Make it Rain! | Ep. 3

In this transformative podcast episode, we invite you to join us on a journey towards inner peace and emotional healing as we explore the powerful RAIN Method. Named "Make It Rain," this episode offers a unique blend of guidance and inspiration, hinting at the life-changing potential of this mindful approach.

Have you ever found yourself caught in the storm of your own thoughts and emotions? The RAIN Method is here to guide you through the turbulent moments of your life, teaching you to weather the emotional storms with grace and understanding.

We delve into the essence of the RAIN Method: Recognize, Allow, Investigate, and Nurture. Discover how these four simple yet profound steps can help you break free from the chains of self-judgment and negativity, allowing you to embrace a more compassionate and authentic version of yourself.

Listen in as we explore the real-world applications of RAIN, offering insights on how to recognize your emotions, give yourself the space to allow them, investigate their roots, and ultimately nurture your inner self. By the end of this episode, you'll have a deeper understanding of the RAIN Method and its potential to make a positive impact on your life.

So, if you're ready to make it rain—both within and around you—tune in and unlock the secrets to inner peace and self-compassion. Whether you're new to mindfulness practices or a seasoned practitioner, "Make It Rain" offers a fresh perspective and guidance on embracing life's storms with open arms.


Wanna follow the couple's youtube??


https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIYmzLQWBKvLS3v4C7Tan8g

Oct 16, 202314:40
Those Thoughts | Ep. 2

Those Thoughts | Ep. 2

In this installment of the Black Girl Meditates podcast, your host Kisa (@themotivationalcomic) shines a spotlight on those persistent thoughts that often go unnoticed. Consider this your unmistakable signal to take action on those very ideas!
Oct 10, 202315:54
October Madness | Ep. 1

October Madness | Ep. 1

Welcome to Season 4 of the BGMP (black girl meditates podcast)! In this exciting episode, we dive into the art of setting powerful intentions for the month of October. Discover 10 thought-provoking questions that will lead you toward a purposeful path. Tune in, gain insights, and don't forget to share this episode with a friend!
Oct 02, 202311:03
I am Here. | Episode 11

I am Here. | Episode 11

In the captivating season finale of "I am here," the Black Girl Meditates podcast, host Kisa takes us on a heartfelt journey through the transformative power of transitions. As we bid farewell to Season 3, Kisa opens her heart and shares her wisdom, offering a soothing and uplifting voice to all those navigating life's changes.

This episode is a beacon of comfort and encouragement for anyone currently navigating a transition, whether it's a new job, a relationship shift, a relocation, or any other life-altering event. Kisa's soothing words remind us that we are not alone in our journey, and she provides gentle guidance on how to find solace in the midst of change.

As the Season 3 finale draws to a close, Kisa reveals an exciting glimpse of what's to come in Season 4, which is set to return on October 2nd. But before that, mark your calendars for September 30th – Kisa's 34th birthday party promises to be a celebration of life, growth, and connection. Stay in the loop by following her on Instagram for updates and insights (@ric.kisa)

Tune in to this empowering episode to discover the transformative beauty of transitions and to experience a sense of unity and encouragement that will resonate long after the episode ends. Prepare to be inspired, uplifted, and filled with renewed hope as "I am here" closes its third season with a triumphant flourish.


with love,

R. Owens >3

Aug 14, 202307:59
I am Angry. | Episode 10

I am Angry. | Episode 10

In this empowering episode of Black Girl Meditates Podcast, your host Rickisa invites you on a transformative journey to discover the incredible power of your voice. Join her as she delves into the importance of speaking up, sharing stories, and embracing the strength that lies within every woman.

As the episode reaches its poignant climax, Rickisa guides you through a soothing and empowering meditation focused on the throat chakra. Unleash your inner truth and unlock your authentic self as you embark on this guided journey towards aligning your voice with your heart's desires. Whether you're seeking to overcome barriers in communication or simply wish to connect more deeply with your own thoughts and feelings, this meditation is designed to help you embrace your voice with love and confidence.

Tune in to Black Girl Meditates Podcast and let Rickisa's warm and encouraging presence inspire you to rise above, speak your truth, and create waves of positive change in your life and the world around you. Remember, your voice is your superpower – it's time to let it shine!


Disclaimer: The meditation portion of this episode is intended for relaxation and personal growth. Please find a quiet and safe space to fully engage in the meditation and do not engage while driving or operating heavy machinery.

Aug 07, 202321:12
I am SMART. | Episode 9

I am SMART. | Episode 9

In this transformative episode of the Black Girl Meditates podcast, we delve into the dynamic world of "Smart Goals" and uncover how they can become a catalyst for growth and success in your life. Hosted by Kisa, this informative and empowering session will equip you with the tools to set meaningful objectives, stay focused, and embrace the journey of self-improvement.

Join us as we break down the acronym "SMART," which stands for Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound. Discover how each element plays a crucial role in transforming your dreams into tangible realities.

Our host will navigate you through the profound significance of Smart Goals, illuminating how they provide clarity and direction in the pursuit of personal and professional aspirations. By understanding the measurable aspect of Smart Goals, you'll learn how to track your progress and celebrate each milestone along the way.

Throughout the episode, we emphasize the importance of setting achievable goals that harmonize with your values and long-term vision. Uncover the magic of relevance and discover the motivation that arises when you align your ambitions with your deepest desires.

To aid you in crafting your own Smart Goals, we present a simple, actionable roadmap. Embrace the wisdom of meditation and mindfulness as you embark on this transformative journey, fostering a powerful synergy between inner peace and outer achievement.

Are you ready to unleash your full potential and create a life you've always envisioned? Tune in to this inspiring episode of the Black Girl Meditates podcast and embark on a profound exploration of Smart Goals that will shape your future with purpose, intention, and empowerment.


As promised, here are all the links!


Hosted by: Kisa https://www.instagram.com/ric.kisa

Guided Meditation by: Yannick https://www.instagram.com/yanwall/

July 29th Comedy Show Tickets: https://secure.nbpac.org/mikeonthemic


Until Next Time,

Kisa


Jul 24, 202318:57
I Embrace Self-Compassion. | Episode 8

I Embrace Self-Compassion. | Episode 8

Hey Black Girls!!

In this episode of the Black Girl Meditates Podcast, host Kisa delves into the powerful practice of coaching oneself rather than succumbing to self-criticism. In a world that often encourages us to be our own harshest critics, Kisa guides us towards replacing negative self-talk with self-compassion and encouragement.

Through the soothing tones of her voice, Kisa invites listeners to join her in a transformative meditation session. With eyes closed and bodies relaxed, she guides us through a breathing exercise that allows us to let go of tension and connect with the present moment.

As we breathe in love, positivity, and compassion, Kisa encourages us to reflect on a recent situation where self-criticism took over. With an empathetic approach, she teaches us to reframe our inner dialogue by imagining ourselves as our own coach and mentor. With gentle and supportive statements, we learn to replace self-judgment with understanding and growth.

This empowering meditation practice serves as a reminder that mistakes and challenges are an integral part of our human journey. By embracing our imperfections and treating ourselves with kindness, we can foster personal growth and self-acceptance.

Join Kisa on the Black Girl Meditates podcast as she helps us cultivate self-compassion, guiding us towards a path of self-coaching and positive inner dialogue. Remember, you are worthy of love, kindness, and compassion. Tune in and embark on this transformative journey of mindfulness and self-care.


Until next time,

Kisa


Follow me on instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/ric.kisa/

Jul 17, 202314:09
I Refrain from Comparing Myself to Others. | Episode 7
Jul 10, 202316:54
I am Deserving of Rest. | Episode 6

I am Deserving of Rest. | Episode 6

🎙️ Welcome to Episode 6 of the Black Girl Meditates podcast! Get ready to pause, breathe, and reconnect with your inner peace as Host Kisa (@ric.kisa) and Co-host Terry Channel (@channelyourhealing) guide you through a journey of self-discovery and rest.

In this soul-nourishing episode, titled "I am Deserving of Rest," Terry shares a powerful channeled message that resonates with every fiber of your being. Discover the profound wisdom and healing energy as Terry taps into the universe's guidance to remind us of the importance of rest and self-love. Prepare to receive the empowering affirmation that you deserve rest in your life, no matter what obstacles or expectations may stand in your way.

But that's not all! Kisa, your compassionate guide, takes you on a transformative guided meditation, weaving her soothing voice with gentle music that envelops you like a warm embrace. Together, they create a sacred space for you to release tension, let go of stress, and cultivate a deep sense of peace within.

So, join us on this incredible journey of self-care, as Kisa and Terry remind you that rest is not a luxury, but an essential part of your well-being. Tune in to Episode 6 of Black Girl Meditates, because you deserve this moment of rejuvenation and self-discovery.

Remember to follow us on Instagram: @ric.kisa and @channelyourhealing for more inspiration, healing insights, and community support. Let's cultivate a world where self-care is celebrated and rest is a non-negotiable act of self-love.


Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/ric.kisa/

https://www.instagram.com/channelyourhealing/

Jul 03, 202320:26
I am Open. | Episode 5

I am Open. | Episode 5

This episode features two of my favorite people: Terry, your favorite therapist and Ms. Bacon, my partner! In honor of LGBT+ Pride, Ms. Bacon and I sat down and discussed the following:

  • moments we felt pride
  • unpacked a time where we felt "shame"


This has to be our most vulnerable episode yet. I am so thankful that both, Terry and Ms. Bacon were open and willing to be apart of today's discussion.


I am open.


With Love,

Kisa

Jun 12, 202341:43
I am Proud. | Episode 4

I am Proud. | Episode 4

Did you know that June is Gay Pride Month? In honor of Pride, I've decided to share my coming out story. No judgement please!


With Love,

Kisa


P.S. Enjoy!

Jun 05, 202311:55
I am Present. | Episode 3

I am Present. | Episode 3

Being Present means being fully conscious of the moment and free from the noise of internal dialogue. It today's episode Kisa and Terry discuss what it means to be present, and some key signs to let you know when you need to be more mindful of where you are.


This week, be intentional about staying in the "now."


I am present, is a present, from us to you.

May 22, 202336:39
I am Grounded. | Episode 2
May 08, 202325:17
I am Aware. | Episode 1
May 01, 202339:59
Wait 4 it...
Jan 30, 202310:30
Feel, Deal, & Heal.

Feel, Deal, & Heal.

Season Finale.


With Love,

Kisa

Nov 07, 202204:29
Ep. 12 | Dont Forget 2 Breathe

Ep. 12 | Dont Forget 2 Breathe

Today we will practice the 4-7-8 breathing technique.  


"The 4-7-8 breathing technique is a breathing pattern developed by Dr. Andrew Weil. It’s based on an ancient yogic technique called pranayama, which helps practitioners gain control over their breathing. When practiced regularly, it’s possible that this technique could help some people fall asleep in a shorter period of time."

Oct 24, 202213:18
Ep. 11 | F*** Being Humble.

Ep. 11 | F*** Being Humble.

Humble is defined as having or showing a modest or low estimate of one's own importance... I hate that for you.  This is your reminder to f*** being humble.  Let your light shine!  

With Love, 

Kisa

Oct 10, 202217:26
Ep. 10 | Brain Break.

Ep. 10 | Brain Break.

This message is to encourage you to break when needed.  Episodes will resume 10/10/22.  


With Love, 

kisa

Sep 19, 202208:12
Ep. 9 | I Forgive You.

Ep. 9 | I Forgive You.

Today's episode briefly addresses grace, forgiveness and the art of giving.  I decided to revisit Najwa Zebian's Welcome Home:  A Guide To Building A Home For Your Soul. Thank you all so much for joining me.  I hope you enjoy todays episode.  


With Gratitude & Love, 

Kisa

Sep 12, 202215:18
Ep. 8 | Think Big!

Ep. 8 | Think Big!

I hope this message finds you well.  This is your reminder to stop limiting yourself.  Dream Big!  Think Big! Let's go create magic.    


With Love,

Kisa

Aug 29, 202220:44
Ep. 7 | Better Help.

Ep. 7 | Better Help.

Last week I advocated for therapy.  This week, I found out one of my closest friends reached out for help!  I'm not saying I'm the cause, but like... I'm just so proud of her!  Lashani opens up about her first session!

Aug 22, 202215:44
Ep. 6 | Couch Talk.

Ep. 6 | Couch Talk.

I wanted to open up a little about my therapy experience.  I started therapy in 2018, although I was not emotionally prepared to do so.  If you are someone who is considering therapy, do not be afraid to date around.   #couchtalk

with love, 

kisa

Aug 15, 202210:24
Ep. 5 | You've Got This!

Ep. 5 | You've Got This!

Last week we identified areas in our lives that need more self discipline.  This week, let's take a deeper look at what self discipline is, and how to increase it! 

With Love,

Kisa

Aug 08, 202216:05
Ep. 4 | Set Your Intentions.

Ep. 4 | Set Your Intentions.

Happy August. Let’s set some intentions for this month!! Here’s a few journal prompt questions to get the conversation started with yourself.


Journal Prompt Question(s):

What do I want the month of August to look like for me?
In which areas of my life, do I need more discipline?

Until next time,
Kisa
Aug 01, 202209:33
Ep. 3 | Thank you Jane.
Jul 25, 202217:43
Ep. 2 | Power Hour.

Ep. 2 | Power Hour.

Today I decided to share the routine I use to keep my motivation high, and the creative juices flowing!  Power Hour is about improving yourself, every single day—mentally, physically, and spiritually (mind, body, soul). It's about staying in abundance and protecting your mindset. Commit to #powerhour for 21 days and watch your energy shift.


with love,

kisa

Jul 18, 202214:42
Ep. 1 | Close the Door feat. Kandice J.

Ep. 1 | Close the Door feat. Kandice J.

Welcome to Season II of the Black Girl Meditates Podcast. In this season, I intend to have more conversations with the ones I love. Today's episode is with close friend AND Life Coach, Kandice J. Together we define and unpack closure.

Thinking Questions:

What is closure?
Do you feel obligated to provide closure?
Do you expect others to provide you with closure?


**Meditation Topic: Letting Go
Jul 11, 202232:43
Ep. 22 | Community Meeting

Ep. 22 | Community Meeting

Just a few reminders and updates regarding what the next two weeks look like for us.

Black Girl Meditates Podcast Presents the first annual "PIMP my classroom" Giveaway!

The drawing for "PIMP my classroom" will be held at noon on June 30th via IG live!  Make sure you are following me on IG: @ric.kisa

If you or someone you know is: 1) a black woman that 2) teaches in an inner city school, you are eligible to enter into the PIMP my classroom giveaway.  Visit my IG page for more details.  Good luck!


**There will be no Meditation Monday on 6/27/22 as well as 7/4/22.  I look forward to reconnecting with you all on 7/11/2022.  Be sure to send "good things" my way!  I cant wait to share all of the great things that are happening to us.  I love you!  Stay hydrated, and remember to laugh. 


With love,

Kisa

Jun 20, 202208:07
Ep. 21 | Pep Talk Feat. Uncle Pure

Ep. 21 | Pep Talk Feat. Uncle Pure

ANOTHER GUEST???!! I couldn't resist.  Uncle Pure is always dropping gems!  1 question turned into nearly 20 minutes of knowledge and inspiration. I hope this message finds you well.  I present to you... #peptalk.  


"I aint to proud to beg!" Please, please, please.. like, share, subscribe, and comment!  I love you!!!!  Catch you next Meditation Monday.

Jun 13, 202219:40
Ep. 20 | Activate ur voice.

Ep. 20 | Activate ur voice.

Do you remember when you were first silenced?  In this episode, I share how/when I was silenced during different walks of life.  The first starting with my grandmother.  My grandmother use to say, "a lady is to be seen and not heard."  I hope this episode encourages you to speak up and speak out.  Your voice matters!


With love,

Kisa

Jun 06, 202215:59
Ep. 19 | Mother, May I?

Ep. 19 | Mother, May I?

On today's episode we are discussing a topic I've been avoiding:  mommy issues.  I share a little bit about my relationship with my mother, and how it impacts my relationships today.  We define mommy issues and discuss the work that needs to be done in order to heal these wounds.  Happy Healing!  Thank you for listening.  I love you


With Gratitude,

Kisa

May 30, 202218:43
Ep. 18 | Secure the Bag.
May 23, 202219:53
Ep. 17 | Faith v. Fear
May 16, 202215:48
Ep. 16 | The Interview. (feat. Mommy)

Ep. 16 | The Interview. (feat. Mommy)

In honor of Mother's Day, I decided to sit my mom down and ask her some thought provoking questions.  What an honor it was to have my mommy as the first guest on the Black Girl Meditates Podcast.  I hope this episode finds you well.

May 09, 202214:34
Ep. 15 | Lights, Camera, Action
Apr 25, 202221:33
Ep. 14 | Bare Minimum
Apr 18, 202219:32
Just a Friend.
Apr 11, 202221:03
I QUIT!

I QUIT!

This episode explains how I got into teaching and why I left. I hope my truth is appreciated.  Thank you for listening. xoxo

IG: @ric.kisa


Apr 04, 202214:02
You're an inspiration.

You're an inspiration.

This week I am inspired by: the Honorable Judge Kentanji Brown Jackson.  Thank you for exhibiting black excellence.

Mar 28, 202214:15
Slumber Party.

Slumber Party.

"Sleep is the most effective thing we can do to reset the health in our brains & our bodies."  

Mar 22, 202216:10
Morning Routine.

Morning Routine.

Happy Meditation Monday!  Daylight savings time is officially among us.  Now is an excellent time to start thinking and/or rethinking about our morning routines.

Mar 14, 202215:26
Calling Out.

Calling Out.

We have paid time off, vacation days, FMLA leave... but what about period leave?...

Mar 07, 202207:30
Get Up.

Get Up.

This is your reminder that it is okay to fall... The real concern/question is, how long will it take you to get back up?

Feb 28, 202218:09