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A dialogue detailing two Black women's dating experiences dating Black men. We are sharing the challenges, the realities, and suggestions. Let's have fun and open up a collective exchange on the uniqueness that is dating Black men in the 21st century.
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Part I: 22 things to start doing in 2022
New Year ish...22 things to start doing in your dating life in 2022.
January 26, 2022
PARTII: 22 Things to Start in 2022
Continuation of Part I.
January 18, 2022
22 Things to Stop in 2022
Dating is hard enough, but it's a new year; so let's do things differently. Here are 22 things to Stop doing in 2022. They just might help your dating life.
January 13, 2022
Part II: Can you be friends with your Ex?
Continues the discussion.
January 05, 2022
Can you be friends with your ex?
Staying friends with someone you have romantic feelings for can be difficult. The question is: "Is it possible?"
December 08, 2021
Signs Your Dating a Jerk
Red flags much...sometimes its the little things we don't pay attention to. How do you know if your dating a jerk? Sometimes it so subtle, you figure it out too late or you're just making excuses for him...nope he's a jerk!
December 01, 2021
Are you ready for a relationship?
Women always want comittement, but are you ready for all that comes with being committed to someone else?
November 17, 2021
Should you date someone who makes less $$$ than you?
Does it matter if someone you're dating makes less money than you?
November 11, 2021
Part II: Should you get back with your ex?
Only you can answer this question, but we can give you some insight on the possibilities.
November 03, 2021
Brunch Edition: Online Dating Part I
Online Dating can be fun, challenging, risky, or a game changer. Find out what to look for and if its a good option for you.
October 24, 2021
"Ladies, You Tried it!"
We are always blaming men for things when dating, but what is our role in the dysfunction? tried it!
October 13, 2021
Recognizing the Red Flags
Do you pay attention to the little things? Red flags are sometimes subtle and sometimes they are direct. Listen as we discuss some things to look out for and when it's time to pull the plug.
October 07, 2021
Can Men and Women be Friends?
The age old question remains, "Can men and women be friends?" Take a listen and let us know what you think!
June 15, 2021
Should You Get Back With Your Ex?
This is only a question you can truly answer and we can give you some insight on your options.
June 09, 2021
Dating Black Men Who Have Children
Are you willing to date someone with children? Here are some factors to consider.
June 01, 2021
Lies Men Tell Part II
Have you ever wondered if sound too good to be true? WELL MAYBE IT IS!
May 26, 2021
Dealing with a Brokenheart Part II
In this episode we continue our discussion and provide coping mechanisms and tips for dealing with a broken-heart.
May 18, 2021
Dealing With a Broken Heart Part I
Dealing with a broken heart is difficult, but the main focus should always be your healing. In this episode we discuss what you can expect and how to cope.
March 16, 2021
Single in your 20s vs. 30s
Age changes the game. What are the differences in dating during your 20s and 30s?
March 10, 2021
Sharing Your Relationship Part II
The continuation of 5 W's and the how. There's a difference between privacy and hiding. Be clear on what and whom to be sharing with.
March 04, 2021
Sharing your Relationship Part I
Sharing relationships can be tricky. The ultimate goal should be to protect your partnership at whatever level you're at. Determining the 5 W's and the how may be the hardest navigation of all.
February 23, 2021
The Best Men to Date...Black Men!
Why are Black men so sought after in thr world? What's so great about dating a Black Man? Listen and find out.
February 17, 2021
Valentine's Day Edition
Valentine's Day is different for everyone whether your Dating, in a relationship, or single. Before the big V day occurs we want you to be aware of what to expect and how to focus on love itself.
February 13, 2021
Crazy Things Men Say
We’ve all been told things by men that’s just mind blowing. In this episode we share some of the crazies we’ve been told. Stay tuned!
February 09, 2021
Worst Dating Experiences Part II
Dates that have gone bad always remain a memory of what could have been prevented, red flags or just a comedic experience.
February 05, 2021
Nice Girls Finish Last
What kind of girl are you? Are you a bend over Becky or a Stand your ground Sally? Knowing what type of woman you are when dating impacts how you are treated and what will be tolerated.
January 27, 2021
No Contact Rule
What is the the no contact rule? Does it work and how and when you should use it?
October 07, 2020
Episode 8: Lies Men Tell Part I
What are some ridiculous lies men tell? Listen as Ria and Skye give you their first hand experience of some lies men tell.
August 11, 2020
Check Yo Self!
How we as women contribute to the delay of successful relationships.
June 10, 2020
Shoulda, Coulda, Woulda...
Have you ever looked back at a dating experience and wished you could go back and change something or have a do over? Well, this episode looks back at some of the things we wished we knew and should've, could've or would've done differently and what to be aware of.
March 25, 2020
Dating Older Men Part II
Dating Older men can be fun! Find out the advantages and disadvantages of dating older men based on the experiences of these two 30 somethings. Continuation of Part I.
March 03, 2020
Dating Older Men Part I
Dating Older men can be fun! Find out the advantages and disadvantages of dating older men based on the experiences of these two 30 somethings.
February 12, 2020
EPISODE 3: Dudes Who Tried It!
Has a man you have dated or been seeing acted in a manner that made you wonder if they lost it? Then take a listen to this episode.
February 05, 2020
Worst Dating Experiences
Ever had a bad date? What has it been like? Take a listen at some of our experiences, maybe you can relate!
January 29, 2020
The Black Girl's Guide 2 Bad Dating
What are we all about?...Come through and find out!
January 22, 2020