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Black & 'burban

Black & 'burban

By Calil & Niah

Welcome to the Black & 'burban podcast! We're your hosts Calil and Niah and we're excited to have you tuning in. On this podcast, we'll share our experiences as Black kids growing up in the suburbs. We'll talk about life, have guests, and engage in thought-provoking conversations.
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Episode 2.05: Maybe they worked for it... nah, it's Privilege (w/ Israel Vaughan)

Black & 'burbanMay 14, 2023

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Episode 2.05: Maybe they worked for it... nah, it's Privilege (w/ Israel Vaughan)

Episode 2.05: Maybe they worked for it... nah, it's Privilege (w/ Israel Vaughan)

This week Calil and Niah dive into a conversation with a returning guest, Israel Vaughan. We're talking about privilege and what to do with that silver spoon we maybe have been fortunate enough to be born with. It can get a little awkward, but acknowledging the realities of the world we live in and the privilege we may have is the only way to put us on a path toward equity. Join us as we share our experience and let us know your take on our Instagram @blacknburban!
May 14, 202349:31
Episode 2.04: Calling Out (4C) Kink Shaming

Episode 2.04: Calling Out (4C) Kink Shaming

Black hair is so complex. In this episode we share our experiences learning our kinky coils and curls… and trying not to spend all our rent money to get it fried, dyed, and laid to the side. Join us for this celebration of all things Black Hair!
Apr 30, 202328:38
Episode 2.03: Code Switching? …or Gatekeeping our Culture (w/ Courtney Marie)

Episode 2.03: Code Switching? …or Gatekeeping our Culture (w/ Courtney Marie)

In this episode, we dive into the topic of code-switching with our cousin Courtney Marie. Together, we explore the reasons behind code-switching, the toll it can take on one's sense of identity and belonging, and the historical and cultural roots of the practice within the Black community. With personal anecdotes and insights from Courtney, we unpack the nuances of this complex and fascinating phenomenon, and consider what it tells us about language, culture, and power in society. Tune in for a thought-provoking conversation that sheds light on the challenges and realities of being Black in America.
Apr 16, 202330:46
Episode 2.02: Big ICK Energy (w/ Lani Mason)

Episode 2.02: Big ICK Energy (w/ Lani Mason)

Dating can be a battlefield and in this week's episode we're talking Red Flags and Icks with Niah's best friend, Lani! It could be anything from chewing with your mouth open to gaslighting in arguments. We're discussing all of the things that turn us off in relationships and how we deal with them.

Apr 02, 202334:32
Episode 2.01: Welcome to the Hood ...Adulthood

Episode 2.01: Welcome to the Hood ...Adulthood

Welcome back, Neighbors! Calil & Niah are back for Season 2!! Niah just graduated from college and is starting life as an adult. Spoiler alert... it's ghetto. Nonetheless, we rally. Join us for this chat about young adulthood and the many transitions we face in our 20's. Empowered with strong coping mechanisms (and maybe a therapist), we're excited to take on this next phase in our lives.
Mar 19, 202337:05
Episode 1.10: Black & Representing

Episode 1.10: Black & Representing

We made it y'all! We've reached our Season 1 finale! In this episode, Calil & Niah talk representation. We can all think back to a character or show that made us feel seen. Join us as we discuss our experiences and unpack why representation is important for our culture.
Mar 02, 202233:01
Episode 1.09: Black & In Community

Episode 1.09: Black & In Community

In this week’s episode, Calil and Niah sit down to discuss the importance of community and ways to connect to new people. They talk about how to meet people as an adult, in college, and share tips on sustaining relationships. Life is tricky, but a good group of friends can make things easier.
Feb 22, 202231:31
Episode 1.08: Black & Historic Women Changing the World Right Now

Episode 1.08: Black & Historic Women Changing the World Right Now

Happy Black History Month friends! Throughout history, Black women have played such a big role in shaping our country, but they are rarely given the flowers that they deserve. From music to movies to fashion, even down to how we talk to each other, Black women have consistently influenced our culture. In today's episode, Calil and Niah highlight some phenomenal Black women that everyone should know.
Feb 14, 202218:20
Episode 1.07: Jan '22 Favorites

Episode 1.07: Jan '22 Favorites

Is it February already? January is over and so far the year has been off to a great start! Calil and Niah have been reading, watching, wearing, listening to, and generally enjoying so many new things already this year and they want to share. Take a listen to hear a few suggestions that you can check out (or maybe avoid...) over the next few weeks.

Feb 07, 202239:32
Episode 1.06: Black & Beating Imposter Syndrome on Social Media (w/ Naomi Parris)

Episode 1.06: Black & Beating Imposter Syndrome on Social Media (w/ Naomi Parris)

In this week's episode, Calil and Niah sit down with guest, Naomi Parris, to discuss imposter syndrome. Naomi is a social media influencer, blogger, and editorial operations associate for POPSUGAR. Together they'll address the roots of imposter syndrome, share some of their experiences, and provide suggestions to help overcome these negative beliefs. 

Jan 31, 202236:42
Episode 1.05: Black & Learning In Our 20s

Episode 1.05: Black & Learning In Our 20s

They say your twenties are supposed to be the best years of your life. But if that's the case, why does life feel like someone trapped us in a room and told us to build IKEA furniture without a manual? In this episode, Calil and Niah talk about a few things they've learned in their 20s, and *spoiler alert* there really isn't a manual. However, with a little love and support, hopefully, we can all continue to learn and grow.

Jan 24, 202221:36
Episode 1.04: Black & Vulnerable, but Confident (w/ Deandra McDonald)

Episode 1.04: Black & Vulnerable, but Confident (w/ Deandra McDonald)

In this episode, Calil and Niah welcome Deandra McDonald, a teacher and real estate investor. We discuss the struggles of vulnerability and evaluate how opening up can lead to joy and a sense of belonging. Each of us grapples with our own struggles of worthiness and fear, but listen along to hear how we push beyond our mental barriers to become confident men and women. 

Check her out on social media @deandramcdonald!

Jan 17, 202238:30
Episode 1.03: Black & Getting Our Praise On

Episode 1.03: Black & Getting Our Praise On

In this episode, Calil and Niah take it back to the early 2000s where we reminisce on the gospel music that raised us. Marvin Sapp, Kirk Franklin, Mary Mary, and we can’t forget Fred Hammond released unforgettable hits that continue to lift us up. Tune in as we talk through our favorite gospel hits of the early 2000s that should never be forgotten. 

Jan 17, 202219:54
Episode 1.02: Black & On the Come-Up (w/ Israel Vaughan)

Episode 1.02: Black & On the Come-Up (w/ Israel Vaughan)

What happens after you start your career, but you still haven't made it to where you want to be yet? In this episode, Calil and Niah welcome Israel Vaughan, an actor based out of Atlanta, GA and one of Calil's oldest friends. Join us while we reminisce on the past and offer advice to others who are trying to make a big dream happen for themselves.


Check him out on social media @therealdealisrael!

Jan 17, 202236:45
Episode 1.01: Black & Manifesting in 2022

Episode 1.01: Black & Manifesting in 2022

2022 is here! Join Calil and Niah as they kick off the New Year by discussing their goals, resolutions, and what it actually means to manifest your dreams. Listen in as they share their hopes for the coming year and offer advice to others finally hoping to take those resolutions seriously this year. 

Jan 17, 202225:00
Black & 'burban Trailer

Black & 'burban Trailer

Welcome to the Black & 'burban podcast! We're your hosts Calil and Niah Davis and we're excited to have you tuning into our podcast. On this podcast, we'll share our experiences as Black kids growing up in the suburbs. We'll talk about life, have guests, and engage in thought-provoking conversations.
Jan 17, 202200:59