Bobo's Void

hello sweet angels,
this week's episode is about parenting! we take an in-depth look at all the ways parents traumatize their kids, and what it really means to be a good parent.
we talk about re-parenting ourselves and what the future of parenting looks like.

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hello sweet angels,
here is our review of the barbie movie! we talk about barbie's analysis of the human condition, gender and her very (futile) pursuit of freedom.
let us know your thoughts in the comment section below!

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hello my sweet mangoes,
this week we're talking about the Jonah hill shenanigans, the tragedy of therapy talk (has therapy ruined an entire generation), and the absurd (but maybe quite reasonable) expectations we've developed as a culture around dating.
as usual, let us know what you think!

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hello sweet mushrooms,
this week's episode is all about friendship (or rather, the friendship recession that we've found ourselves in)
we talk about how to cope with outgrowing friendships. the ideological divides that end friendships, and the way space can be used to either facilitate or disrupt healthy friendships.
as usual, we'd love to hear your thoughts!
and most importantly, we hope to see you at our first group therapy! :)

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hello sweet mushrooms!
in this  episode, we delve into the intricate world of navigating money in intimate relationships. Money matters can often stir up emotions, ignite conflicts, or even strengthen the bond between partners.
Join us as we uncover the secrets, challenges, and strategies that couples face when it comes to financial dynamics.
the name of the show we referenced in the episode: 'How to get rich' - on netflix
as usual, let us know your thoughts in the comments below!

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first - im so sorry about my voice!! it turns out i have a lung infection (but didn't want to give yall nothing), so I hope you can still hear me- if not, there are subtitles available in the video!
but anyway, this week we're talking about situationships! specifically - why are they so common?
we talk about all the forces: economic, social and cultural, that have made situationships so commonplace. and lastly, we talk about how we can overcome the culture of lovelessness that makes situationships a social norm, and instead cultivate fulfilling and long lasting relationships
as usual, let me know your thoughts!

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Hello sweet mushroom!

this week, we're spiraling! we talk about the new AI movie 'M3GAN,' and we talk about what it really means to be sentient and conscious.

Is anything real? Is there a god watching over us? is the planet our god? does anything really matter? 

we unpack all this and more in today's episode!

let us know your thoughts, in the comment section below

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hello sugarplums!

this week, we present to you our brand new segment: show and tell!

we talk about some of our favourite tv shows at the moment and discuss whether art can be a tool for healing (or worsening) trauma. we unpack the role of religion as an art form and get into a debate with mango about reparations.

let us know, do you like this new segment? if you have any specific art pieces (shows, albums, songs, movies, books etc ...) that you'd like us to get into, let us know in the comment section below.

thanks for listening :)

all the shows references in the episode:

1. Fleishmann is in trouble
2. Bojack Horseman
3. The new avatar movie
4. Atlanta
5. Chewing Gum
6. Blue Therapy

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hey sweet mushrooms!

this week, we're unpacking an age-old question: can men and women *really* be just friends? we talk about the state of gender relations, the madonna-whore complex, the horrors of marriage, and lastly, we interrogate all of the ways society undermines our ability to have harmonious romantic, sexual and platonic relationships.

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this one is pretty self-explanatory lmao. hope you enjoy!

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hello sweet sugarplums!

today's episode is all about the afterlife! Donavon and i discuss our theories and anxieties on life after death, the purpose of existing in a skin suit, and we answer the ultimate question: is death an end to suffering or a continuation of suffering?

I'd love to hear your comments down below! :)

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welcome to our most trippy episode yet !! in this episode, we delve into the neurochemical effects that psychedelics have had on our brains. we talk about the lessons we've learnt, particularly the importance of forgiveness.

we also explore the idea of violence and how it intersects with justice. and so much more!!

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In this episode we talk about human fallibility and the effects of trauma on our ability to give and receive love. We deconstruct the idea of ~feeling broken~ and the way it’s been socialized into us through capitalism. We talk about decommodification as a means of feeling whole, but most importantly as a means of feeling mentally stable
.... and so much more!!

would love to hear your thoughts down below!! :)
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in this episode, we talk about modern love and all the ways it intersects with politics. we explore the age-old question "is love political?" we talk about all the things that sustain love, as well as the things that undermine it. we differentiate between healthy love and unhealthy love. we dissect whether or not love is *actually* subjective and we imagine the possibility of a universal idea of love.
and so much more !!

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in this episode, i chat with donavon about cancel culture, safe spaces and the role of the artist during ecological/political/social collapse.

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new episodeeeee :)

in this episode, i expand on the idea of healthy love being boring, and by extension, the idea that a healthy life is a humble and simple life. not one marked by extravagance or excellence. just one that is characterized by banal simplicities and the ability to be content with the the ordinary.

i hope u enjoy my ramblings ! please share with me your thoughts on what healthy love and more importantly, what a healthy LIFE is :)

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whew - here's an extra long episode with friend and psychology/philosophy enthusiast Mbali! We talk in depth about the intersection of psychology and white supremacy. We discuss african spirituality and whether or not it can exist alongside whiteness. AND; we unpack what black, brown and indigenous people can do to survive, and even better, thrive, in spite of all the whiteness we're forced to live with. white people: this may be a very uncomfortable listen. but nevertheless, enjoy!!

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this week's episode is extra spiraly, thanks to my lovely guest, Michael (who you'll probably recognize from the discord). We talked about everything from the illusion of shared/objective reality,  the meaning and purpose of human beans and we get down to unpacking whether or not God loves or cares about us. enjoy!!

this week's episode is all about happiness (yes, i know i know). I have an incredible chat with Roman, an incredible human with an incredible mind, about what makes a good life and what makes life worth living. we talk about how to get through the lowest of lows, whether all lives are worth living, AND; we discuss whether the decision to stay alive in the face of immense suffering is justifiable.

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I had a great conversation with two sex workers: one has a disability and the other is able-bodied. We talked about everything from body autonomy, sex as a form of resistance against white supremacist patriarchal capitalism, the distinction between sex for work and sex for pleasure, stigma, the pursuit of pleasure & meaning, the illusion of purity and so much more!

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here's an episode i really enjoyed!! we talk about meaning and how it relates to the ways in which we all need and want to be loved. we also discussed how suffering intersects with love and whether or not love IS inherently suffering. enjoy!

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the foundation of all of my beliefs and philosophies is that free will is an illusion. I had an incredibly enlightening, healing and spiraly conversation with a really good friend of mine about free will, moral responsibility, and finding happiness/fulfillment under capitalism.

let me know your thoughts!

this week we talk about the education system and whether or not punishment is ever a good idea. We also discuss the best way to structure society, and what we would do differently if given the chance to create a new world.

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Today I'm talking to two incredible women about the experience of being raised by narcissists. We talk about overcoming and healing childhood trauma, the ways in which religious/cultural practices reinforce toxic and abusive behaviours, the (sometimes) oppressive nature of 'loyalty' in the name of familial bonds, and so much more!

The second interview is up on my patreon.

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