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Bonds Over Bands

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Bonds over Bands is an exciting and modernized take on marriage, relationships, and pop culture. Our show is the unique balance between crazy and fun. Come join two best friends that just happened to be married for some laughs and everyday conversations.
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#38: Entanglements

Bonds Over Bands Jul 20, 2020

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#38: Entanglements

#38: Entanglements

Jay and Jersey are back for another installment of the BOB Podcast! They open up with life updates and talk about the purchase of their new home. They quickly dive into the topic of the day, dissecting Jada's self-described entanglement(8:20). They also get into updates on the Khloe/Tristan saga (26:14), James Harden backlash (34:05), and delve into Tory Lanez and Meg Tha Stallion shooting incident (35:45). They also touch on Evelyn and OchoCinco (43:00) and Tamar Braxton's presumed suicide attempt(53:30)

Make sure you follow us on IG @bondsoverbands @jerseyisnaked and @slicktalkj and go catch up on each episode streaming on Apple, Spotify and Anchor and check back weekly for new episodes!

Jul 20, 202001:00:17
#37: From rock and roll to rolling stones!

#37: From rock and roll to rolling stones!

your favs, Jersey and Jay are back for episode 37 of the #bobpodcast they quickly run through topics of the day, including Futures paternity woes, the Beyonce box, whats been happening in Rihannas world and Jersey shares a special theory she has about Drake‘s ulterior motives for hiding his son from the world.  


Make sure you follow us on ig @bondsoverbands @jerseyisnaked and @slicktalkj and go catch up on each episode streaming on Apple, Spotify and Anchor.

Jan 22, 202001:05:46
#36: Yellow Ninjas

#36: Yellow Ninjas

Jersey and Jay are back for episode 36 of the #bobpodcast discussing 2010 vs 2020, friendships lost, Ludacris’ triumphant return to the motherland and the 2 hour Drake interview that has the internets ablaze.

Make sure you follow us on ig @bondsoverbands @jerseyisnaked and @slicktalkj and go catch up on each episode streaming on Apple, Spotify and Anchor.

Jan 08, 202001:12:05
#35: Conversation with Friends: Millz from BK

#35: Conversation with Friends: Millz from BK

It's a full house this week as Jersey and Jay are joined by "The Moms" and one of Jersey's best friends @Millz322! As usual, they get right to it early, discussing their friendship, shared experiences living abroad and their thoughts on topics of the day. The group gets into the challenges Swizz Beatz and Alicia Keyz faced in a very public dispute with their co-parent, the new Kevin Hart documentary and Jay lays claim to his status in the "top 5" 

This is the BOB Podcast!


Dec 31, 201901:10:36
#34: Lovers or Friends?

#34: Lovers or Friends?

In Episode 34, Jersey and Jay recap the “holiday” and chat up the latest events to hit the timeline. They talk about Omarion’s flawless execution of bandmate Fizz, @gabunions ouster at America’s Got Talent and other topics of the day! Make sure to tune in each and every week for another episode of the #BOBPodcast

Dec 03, 201901:06:41
#33: Summer’s over

#33: Summer’s over

On episode 33 of the #bobpodcast, Jersey and Jay get right to it! They discuss the appropriateness of Teyana Taylor’s live performances as a married woman, Summer Walkers social angst, Omarion’s response to Fizz plus the drama that seems to be following actress Naturi Naughton and more! Tune in for a new episode every Tuesday! #bandstuesday

Nov 19, 201901:14:48
#32: Crew Love

#32: Crew Love

Jersey and Jay are back this week to talk about the latest controversies surrounding the use of the N-word. TI's hymen flex and the drama that's been unfolding since #LilFizz and #AprylJones announced their relationship. They also touch on the Popeye's Chicken craze that has been sweeping the country and a host of other current events. Tune in now for another episode of the #bondsoverbands podcast!
Nov 12, 201901:03:08
#31: We're Back!

#31: We're Back!

After a brief hiatus, Jersey and Jay are back with the shenanigans! The episode kicks off with the details of their break and a brief discussion of the importance of self-care in their journey. As always Jersey and Jay have plenty to say on the topics of the day. The couple pays tribute to John Witherspoon, they give their take on the Halloween festivities. Our dynamic duo then discusses Irv Gotti's recent comments on Ashanti, which have somehow fuelled the ongoing Murda Inc drama. They touch briefly on Solange's separation from longtime partner Alan Ferguson, Teyana Taylor's new visuals for "Morning" and they wrap with a real conversation about the static that exists between CthaGod, Angela Yee and DJ Envy over Charlemagne's decision to interview Gucci Mane. Pull up a chair and let's get to the shits. This is Bonds over Bands!

Nov 05, 201901:11:08
#30: Jaded

#30: Jaded

In today's episode, we talked about Amanda Seales black Emmy party shut out. I had some more thoughts on it that I wanted to touch on. For the full story please listen to episode 29. Drake’s dad told Nick Cannon that Drake made up their ssues for record sales. We commented on Drake's father's intent and the Toronto rapper’s response. Joe Budden’s ex Can Santana talked to New York for her brunch podcast about the ending of their relationship. Cyn’s response was worthy of further thought and how people process their truth. Lastly, the black ink crew had an episode where a couple discussed the pressure of marriage. Should someone be upfront with the direction they would like a relationship to go? Let us know down in the comment section! Please follow us on Instagram @jerseyisnaked and @slicktalkj. To keep up with the show follow us @bondsoverbands on Instagram. #marriage #bondsoverbands #blackpod #podcast #radio #funny #bandstuesday #realtalk #couple #topics #joebudden #cynsantana #drake #nickcannon #amandaseales #blackinkcrew #parents

Oct 15, 201901:12:38
#29: Amanda Seales: Side Effects of Unlikability

#29: Amanda Seales: Side Effects of Unlikability

We've been gone but now we back with the jump-off. At the top of the episode, we give a brief life update to explain our absence. Secondly, we have some commentary on Young MA's new album Herstory, Erica Campbell of Mary Mary stance on masturbation,  Sir navigating the music industry while being in a marriage, and lastly Amanda Seales ejection from the Black Hollywood party by Issa Rae's publicist. This week's episode will be too good to miss. Don't forget to follow us on Instagram @bondsoverbands! 

Oct 09, 201901:15:30
#28: Do Women Need to Submit To Men?

#28: Do Women Need to Submit To Men?

In today's episode, we talked about Tekashi 69's testimony that lasted three days. Did he really implicate Cardi B and Jim Jones? We also discussed other celebrities' reactions to his testimony like Martha Stewart and Snoop Dogg,  Jay and I also shared our opinion on the drama between "The Real" and Tamar Braxton. Do you think Tamar Braxton is just hurt because she was fired or do you think the panel of The Real isn't completely innocent? K. Michelle recently stopped by Atlanta's V103 radio station, and said that "men aren't good people." Do you think she has a point or does she need time to self-reflect? Lastly, Fantasia's appearance on the Breakfast Club this week had women pissed! Fantasia stated that "Women are still single because they do not submit to their men." She then cited the bible as a reason to confirm her thoughts. Do you think she has a point or is she setting the clocks back for women 2,000 years? Let us know down in the comment section! Please follow us on Instagram @jerseyisnaked and @slicktalkj. To keep up with the show follow us @bondsoverbands on Instagram. #marriage #bondsoverbands #blackpod #podcast #radio #funny #bandstuesday #realtalk #couple #topics #fantasia #kmichelle #tekashi69 #snoopdogg #tamarbraxton #cardib #jimjones #marthastewart #thereal #lonilove 

Sep 24, 201901:14:00
#27: Varsity Blues: 15 Days In Jail for Felicity Huffman

#27: Varsity Blues: 15 Days In Jail for Felicity Huffman

Today’s episode we talk Lyfe Jennings and his new joint “Slave”, Cyn Santana’s need to mend a broken heart, Kevin Hart’s 60 Million dollar case, Christina Milan checking Nick Cannon’s phone, and the Varsity Blues Scandal! Felicity Huffman’s 15-day jail sentence and what is to become of Lori Loughlin and so much more! This is the bonds over bands podcast! Every Tuesday on Spotify, Apple, and Anchor! Please follow and subscribe to not miss any podcast.

Sep 17, 201901:00:35
#26: Gay Acceptance

#26: Gay Acceptance

Episode 26 of the BOB podcast opens with a bang! Jersey’s birthday weekend recap 1:45. listen for their reactions to Malik Yoba’s declaration regarding trans women. followed by an amusing story about the pizza they “cancelled” capped off by a deep dive on the recent back and forth between Lizzo and Azealia Banks. Make sure you subscribe and provide reviews of the podcast wherever you consume your content! Your support and listens help new listeners find and fall in love with Jersey and Jay. Don’t forget to follow us on IG @bondsoverbands or individually @SlickTalkJ and @JerseyisNaked

Sep 10, 201901:02:27
#25: Cancel Culture

#25: Cancel Culture

Intro and basic conversation (host updates) 0:00 to 22:38. Kevin Hart in a car accident and suffers major back injuries. 22:40. 24:33 Malik Yoba spoke out that he is attracted to trans women in response to Transphobia. A man 20 years old committed suicide due to bullying over his attraction to Trans-women. 30:15 Nicki MInaj and Karlie Redd on Abusive Relationships "I remember being so afraid to speak cuz I never knew when that person would be in a particular mood and I could maybe say one wrong thing that would get me hit. So the difference you see in me now is that feeling when a woman feels lifted up, safe, and appreciated & unconditionally loved." Karlie Redd “This is my life right now! Thank you I needed this! The problem is how do I get out.” If you need help or know someone who does please call the Domestic Abuse hotline 1-800-799-7233. 30:15. 44:00 Dave Chappelle political incorrectness, Anthony Bourdain, racism, LGBTQI+A, and abortion. 


Sep 03, 201901:05:15
#24: Chicken Zombies

#24: Chicken Zombies

Was Popeyes spicy chicken sandwich come up the work of a marketing team? Or does social media really create the trend? On today's episode we talk about pandering, culture vultures, Dame Dash, and end with Loni Love. Listen and laugh but don't forget to comment! See you Next Tuesday! 

Aug 27, 201901:04:18
#23: Jigga What? Kap Who?
Aug 20, 201901:41:15
#22: Throuples: Do They Really Work?
Aug 13, 201901:33:56
#21: Nicole Murphy: I Didn't Know He Was Married?

#21: Nicole Murphy: I Didn't Know He Was Married?

In Episode 20 @Jerseyisnaked and @SlickTalkJ get into the #Fabolous #EmilyB situation that unfolded last week and took a deep dive to explore #AntoineFuqua (aka #MrMarcus), #NicoleMurphy and #LelaRashon's Love Triangle which also exploded on the headlines this past week. Raw, honest and Unfiltered... This is the #BOBPodcast

Jul 31, 201901:16:05
#20: The Pod About Nothing
Jul 23, 201901:07:09
#19: Cost of Emotions

#19: Cost of Emotions

Today's episode we talk about making #friends over 30, #WendyWilliams new boyfriend, #LilKim cancelling appearances, #AsapRocky street brawl, and lastly are on contract for an emotional loan? At the top of the episode Jersey speaks briefly about me being aggressive in the changes she wants to make in her life. Living in a new place means creating a new social community and it isn't as easy when you're a full grown adult. Wendy Williams has a new doctor boo and is she in love? Lil Kim has a new reality show called #girlscruise following the release of her new studio album. Kim has been doing all kinds of press to promote the show and new music but she cancelled some major outlets.

One of those major outlet's was Andy Cohen's show Watch What Happens Live and The Today Show. Kim was not pleased with the line of question they wanted to ask. Is she being emotional or should she have sucked it up and took  the opportunity? Asap Rocky although in jail is catching hell from the black community due to some off color comments he made about Black Lives Matter. Leaving a lot of the "woke" community not caring about his. We also touch on emotional loans. When people enter into relationships not knowing the true conditions of the agreement. People using their position to control the other person and the outcome of the relationship. Do you think that's fair? Listen to the latest episode of #bobpod to find out our opinions of the subject. If you want to leave us a message please send us a voice note on Instagram and it will be featured in our show! 

We're just two best friends who happened to be married. 

This is the bonds over bands podcast!!!! New Episodes every Tuesday! 

Jul 16, 201901:20:04
#17.2: Conversations With Friends: Changa Part 2
Jul 11, 201901:09:06
#18: Blacklash

#18: Blacklash

#ChrisBrown doesn’t like Dark skinned women? Should Ariel stay white #hallebailey? Are black people just always in a state of rage? On today’s episode we take a deep dive on these pop culture conundrums. 

We even had time to talk about our 4th of July Watermelon fresco. You can find the recipe on jdelawcious.com Lastly, we end the episode of why we took some time off. We really appreciate your listens and support. We’ll see you next Tuesday! Follow and Subscribe on #Apple, #Spotify, and #Anchor. 

Keep up with the mess on instagram @bondsoverbands. 

#marriage #blackmarriage #radio #podcast #black #bobpod #bondsoverbands 

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Jul 09, 201901:22:27
#17.1: Conversations with Friends: Changa Part 1
Jun 25, 201901:06:29
#16: Hey Auntie...

#16: Hey Auntie...

On today's late ass episode we talk #Toreylanez and his alleged fake wokeness for darkskin black women.  Is the word "aunty" a term of endearment or just make you feel old? In this episode we talk about how #AvaDuvernay #Oprah and #Gayleking see the term so widely used in black culture. Lastly, we discussed the many different participants on parental holidays. Is it wrong for women to bash their child's father on father's day? Should people just be left alone? Jay and Jersey dicuss all of their thoughts on highlights of the week . Welcome to Bonds over Bands. Don't forget to follow us on Anchor, Apple, and Spotify. To subscribe is a free way to support us.  Follow us on IG @jerseyisnaked and @slickalkj. 

Jun 19, 201959:03
#15: This Could Be Us But...

#15: This Could Be Us But...

Today's episode we talk 50 Cent, Trey Songz, Ciara and the Red Table Talk, and relationship prayers. 50 Cent was on his instagram talking major crap about Trey Songz not knowing the pair was in the same hotel. The end result was Trey showing up and scaring him to death. The video can be seen on Trey's instagram.  However, the meat of the podcast today is about Ciara and her red table talk interview. Also the expectations people have when finding a mate. The running joke is what was the prayer Ciara used to get Russell Wilson. She advised that she was direct with God with her requests. I think we're all direct when jesus is on the mainline lol. She spoke breifly about her break-up with Future and how that effected her with a new son.  The Bonds over Bands podcast did a deep dive on Ciara's statement about intent. How people talk about specific goals you want to achieve. How that should be an indicator how you should proceed. Want to know more? Tune in and listen! Don't forget to leave us a message so you can promote you and shout us out by using the link in our bio! Follow us on Instagram @bondsoverbands!

Jun 11, 201901:00:08
#14: Hot Sauce Activated
Jun 04, 201901:03:26
#13: The Paw Patrol!

#13: The Paw Patrol!

On today’s episode we talk what happened this week! Da Baby and Camcoldheart fight in Louis Vuitton. Did Cam really get jumped or did Da Baby put them paws on ya boy? We also talked about Lil Mo, Keyshia Cole, Memorial day shenanigans, and the first date scammer who serving time for tricking women out thousands! This guy is a criminal but do we send a representative on first date? Are you always 100 on dates? This episode also taps into our dating personalities! Tune into to find out how we handled our first dates among other interesting topics!!! Follow us on Instagram.com/bondsoverbands and on our socials instagram.com/slicktalkj / instagram.com/jerseyisnaked

May 28, 201954:32
#12: Daddy Shark! (Doo DOO doo)

#12: Daddy Shark! (Doo DOO doo)

On today's episode of Bonds over Bands we talk about #treysongz and his new baby, Morehouse student loan payoff, porn, and we play a game called #theand. Jay and Jersey get personal and revealing with their relationship. Are you ready? Don't forget to download the Anchor app to send us messages to tell us how we're doing or to shout us out while promoting yourself.

May 21, 201901:09:51
#11: Ayesha Curry: I Want You To Want Me
May 15, 201901:03:60
#10: Will We Do Anything For Clout?
May 07, 201901:11:29
#9: Chubby Chasers

#9: Chubby Chasers

Social Media is trying to make “mixed weight” couples a thing.. Join your host Jersey and Jay as they attempt to define this new buzzword and discuss how the mainstream views men and women in relationships with bigger or smaller partners. The dynamic duo also discuss K. Michelle’s Nashville rant, Jay-Z’s live performance at Webster Hall and everything else that happened since the last show. Follow #bobpod on Instagram.

Apr 30, 201901:13:34
#8: The Good Couple
Apr 23, 201901:01:08
#7: Is This Hoe Sh*t?

#7: Is This Hoe Sh*t?

Episode 7 of the Bonds over Bands is all about Hoe Sh*t. Tune in as Jersey and Jay talk their shit about long-term engagements, body counts and whether a hoe can make a housewife. They touch on Mia Khalifa’s recent engagement some of the wildest profoundly questions they’ve seen on the internets. This episode of the BOB Podcast won’t disappoint.

Apr 16, 201901:16:23
#6: BROKEN BONDS: WENDY WILLIAMS AND RIP NIPSEY HUSSLE

#6: BROKEN BONDS: WENDY WILLIAMS AND RIP NIPSEY HUSSLE

In Episode 6 our Dynamic Duo are back from a brief hiatus to talk about loss. The loss experienced by Lauren London in the wake of Nipsey Hussle’s untimely passing and the loss of Wendy Williams’s long-time husband due to his alleged infidelity and abuse. As always Jay and Jersey unpack these sometimes difficult conversations with candor. They also touch briefly on Kodak Black’s controversial statements and explore some of the factors that may have lead to the younger generation’s opposition to their predecessors. You won’t want to miss a single minute of this episode of the Bonds over Bands Podcast.

Apr 12, 201901:04:34
#5: Friends, How Many of Us Have Them?

#5: Friends, How Many of Us Have Them?

In this week's episode Jay rant about how August Alsina is violating "friend-code" by leaking Jada Pinkett-Smith's DM's; then Jersey and Jay talk about the value of friendship through the lens of the very public falling outs between Safaree Samuels and Joe Budden. The couple also explore the complexities of the relationship between former friends, CthaGod, Wendy Williams and Kevin Hunter as well as the growing rift that exist between Kanye West and Jay-Z. One thing all of these relationships can benefit from is better communication and respect.

Apr 02, 201901:11:21
#4: Shut up, Daniel Caesar!

#4: Shut up, Daniel Caesar!

YasJulz has started yet another social war. Citing that #KarenCivil and #ScottieBeam have been blocking her money in hip hop culture due to her skin color. YasJulz is a white party promoter but has been mostly described as a party girl. Scottie Beam has quoted on #SOTC that YasJulz has slept her way to the top allegedly and is using her name for clout. The drama didn't stop there as R&B singer Daniel Ceaser jumped on Instagram to defend YasJulz in her arguments discussed on Murda Mook's podcast. On today's episode, Bonds over Bands tackles this questions, why do black men run to the defenses of white women so quickly? Is YasJulz truly a victim or using race to validate herself within the industry? Find out on the next episode of Bonds over Bands. Don't forget to follow us on IG @bonds_over_bands. 

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Mar 26, 201901:04:24
#3: Scammers: Lori Loughlin and Felicity Huffman

#3: Scammers: Lori Loughlin and Felicity Huffman

This episode talks about the SCAM of the week aka "Varsity Blues" starring our favorite #desperatehousewife Felicity Huffman and #AuntBecky Lori Loughlin of Fuller House. Are we truly surprised by the rich buying their way into the educational system? Hasn't these relationship of upper mobility being happening for years? Will they get jail time? Will they bounce back? Tune in and listen to our take on how this specific event may have changed the "side door" process for everyone. We also have some honorable mentions from the internets like #jesshilarious #angrywhiteladyinthestore and the viral video of a woman proposing to her man. Are we still living in the stone age? Or should she have waited on her man to ask? Sit with us and discuss this mess! This is Bonds over Bands! #bobpodcast
Mar 18, 201901:03:27
#2: R. Kelly: How Young is Too Young?

#2: R. Kelly: How Young is Too Young?

In this episode we take our time discussing R. Kelly and his new/old allegations. #SurvivingRkelly aired on lifetime and sent the media into a complete frenzy. These allegations of sex abuse and control are beyond disappointing. Bonds over Bands has a real conversation about women, sex, and abuse. Do you think R.Kelly needs to be locked up? Are the women lying? Have we let him get away with his dirty behavior too long? Is R.Kelly truly cancelled? This is the next episode of Bonds over Bands...

Mar 12, 201901:00:53
#1: The Kardashians Strike Again!

#1: The Kardashians Strike Again!

This episode will take a deep dive into the betrayal of 2019 featuring the Kardashians and Jordyn Woods. Tune in to hear our thoughts on relationships, friendships, and what you need in order to maintain them. Come and laugh with two best friends who happened to be married. Welcome to Bonds Over Bands.  If you want to follow us please go to Instagram @bonds_over_bands. 

Mar 05, 201949:44