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Bossy Bruja Podcast

By Bossy Bruja Podcast

Welcome to Bossy Bruja Podcast! This channel is hosted by Sister Ayodele Fuega (IG: @bossybruja) and is dedicated to awakening and re-awakening witches everywhere. I strive to share clear, practicable ideas to make your spiritual life and business life more enchanted, satisfying and prosperous. Please don't hesitate to submit topic requests to Ayo at ayo@bossybruja.com! I look forward to hearing from you and sharing this space for healing and personal transformation with all you beautiful brujas out there!
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EP 2: Is it possible to be happily single?

Bossy Bruja PodcastDec 17, 2018

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ep 57: Happy Birthday Honey

ep 57: Happy Birthday Honey

June 3, 2023 at 11:58 PM CT was my last conversation with Honey of the Honey Jar - this is our unedited conversation.

xoxo


Happy birthday Honey xoxo

Mar 10, 202401:47:52
ep 56: manufacture better beliefs to live your best life babygirl

ep 56: manufacture better beliefs to live your best life babygirl

book recommendation WHAT TO SAY WHEN YOU TALK TO YOURSELF by DR. SHAM HELMSTETTER

Feb 16, 202421:06
EP 55: high achievers and y'all's damn imposter syndrome! 🤷🏿

EP 55: high achievers and y'all's damn imposter syndrome! 🤷🏿

I took the time to research the definition of imposter syndrome (which I'd never done before) and I realized why I often have a hard time understanding why such brilliant people suffer with this common inner conflict. (Hint: it's because on the outside you're most likely doing much better than you feel or think you are!)

I break it down with the help of nifty pop psychology websites and writers. Let's discuss.

Find me on instagram.com/bossybruja

xoxo - thanks for listening!!

Jan 20, 202443:34
EP 54: a shared vision + a weird dream i had
Aug 10, 202355:20
EP 53: being gentle with yourself + choosing beliefs that feel good
Aug 06, 202332:43
EP 52: THE BOY IS YOURS
Jun 20, 202301:11:54
EP 51: are you struggling to remain consistent in your spiritual practice?

EP 51: are you struggling to remain consistent in your spiritual practice?

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for clarity, here are my suggestions in no specific order:

1. ask yourself powerful questions rather than simply stating your struggles; for example, you might ask yourself, "when am i most consistent and motivated in my spiritual practice?" from there you can find ways to recreate some of those internal and external environmental factors that support your consistency.

2. is it possible that you don't have time for your practices because you're giving too much time and attention to things that do not require your direct involvement? are there ways that you can couple spiritual practices with things you're already doing?

3. your spiritual practice does not need to look the same as it has in the past. it also does not need to look like anybody else's practice.

4. you don't actually need to be constantly casting spells; some of the people you see online casting a lot of spells are casting spells for other people (because it's their job); they likely are not casting so many spells for themselves (this does not include maintenance work like spiritual baths and weekly prosperity burns).

5. ask yourself what your spiritual and majikal practice entails. it is more than casting spells. what are some other ways you practice tapping into spiritual wisdom and energy?

6. do not judge yourself, chances are you're doing better than you think.

7. figure out why you're practicing in the first place. when you start to recognize the benefits of a having a spiritual practice, chances are you will find it easier to lean into your practice. in other words, get clear within yourself about the spiritual benefits of your practice.

May 28, 202317:52
EP 50: supporting yourself when others can't or won't ☺️

EP 50: supporting yourself when others can't or won't ☺️

I hope you enjoy this episode and I hope that my suggestions and thoughts on supporting yourself are clear. I had some experiences with close relatives recently that, while they didn't come from a mean-spirited way, still let me reeling emotionally. It can be overwhelming and even seem impossible to be everything to everybody and I really feel that we should give up even trying. Instead, I think becoming masterful at taking excellent care of ourselves and choosing what is best for ourselves even if and when others cannot support or agree is best in the long run for our own health and the health of our relationships.


Lovingly,

bossy

May 21, 202317:08
EP 49: Miscommunication drives conflict

EP 49: Miscommunication drives conflict

Hello love! Thank you for taking the time to listen to this short episode of the Bossy Bruja Podcast. I hope you find some of the ideas I share here useful or worth considering. The idea as communication as a process of loving people gently and earnestly is on my heart tonight. My heart hurts for individuals who are estranged from loved ones due to issues around communication. It seems to me that when we have a conflict with someone and cannot properly communicate those issues (either because we don't know how or fear we will not be heard or are met with resistance) then the original problems are only compounded by the new problem of communication.
I feel confident that one of the best things we can do in relationships we desire to maintain (with people we love) is to either invite in an objective third-party we can both trust and respect, or to soften and be the first to listen to understand. My hope and prayer for us all is that we experience love that is safe, gentle, kind, and patient. And that we give this love to ourselves always.
Peace and blessings and good luck!
God bless.
-Bossy
May 08, 202313:34
EP 48: Here's how I heal my relationship with money + honor my inner child
May 08, 202322:29
EP 47: good grief

EP 47: good grief

life is definitely teaching right now and i am paying attention even though it hurts sometimes. i hope that if any of your out there are experiencing grief, pain, or loss - you don't feel alone. i hope that you have people around you who see you, hear you, understand you, love you, keep you lifted in prayer, and pour into you. and i hope that you take excellent care of you.


xoxo

bossy

Apr 21, 202318:03
EP 46: stop letting these bitches hurt you ☺️

EP 46: stop letting these bitches hurt you ☺️

HERE IS THE LINK TO THE TRANSCRIPT FOR THIS EPISODE: TRANSCRIPT

STOP LETTING THESE BITCHES HURT YOU.

  • I got tired of feeling hurt by people, so I stopped making their choices my problem. 
  • I started seeing rejection, separation, redirection, space, and delays as part of my Spirit Team’s work to guide me toward what is aligned and away from what is not. 
  • I stopped letting people’s opinions be so damn important to me. Now, I don’t care who you are - I pick and choose which opinions matter. 
  • I piped down with all the expectations. I have high standards for me, not for y’all. 
  • I stopped telling people how to treat me and simply watched instead. Your choices will tell me everything I need to know. How a person moves naturally tells you a lot. 
  • I started to understand that instead of using my time to win people over, I could simply use that same time and energy to connect with people who are already on the same type of time I’m on, period.

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Mar 27, 202318:01
EP 45: you may not like me after this one | @bossybruja
Feb 07, 202313:30
EP 44: savages, slaves, + modern man | @bossybruja

EP 44: savages, slaves, + modern man | @bossybruja

This whole episode is basically about how we should respect the Ancients + their indelible connection to Nature which we sorely need to reclaim and find again for ourselves. 

With love, 

Bossy

Jan 19, 202335:50
EP 43: LISTEN TO THIS WHEN YOU'RE ALONE | @bossybruja

EP 43: LISTEN TO THIS WHEN YOU'RE ALONE | @bossybruja

This episode of the podcast draws on an article from WOMEN AGAINST ABUSE.  I wanted to share this episode of the podcast while we are still in Human Trafficking Awareness Month. I wanted to specifically draw attention to different forms of abuse that may be occurring in personal/intimate relationships. If you're experiencing any of these, hopefully this podcast is enough to help you take stock of the experience with a sober mind and take safe appropriate action, or help someone in your community who may need support. I wish you well. 

Here are some resources: National Domestic Violence Hotline. Hours: 24/7. Languages: English, Spanish and 200+ through interpretation service 800-799-7233

Jan 19, 202330:32
EP 42: how to be happy | @bossybruja
Jan 16, 202345:53
EP 41: what to believe | @bossybruja
Dec 20, 202214:55
EP 40: Capricorn Full Moon Messages + Oath of Manifestation Prayer

EP 40: Capricorn Full Moon Messages + Oath of Manifestation Prayer

Here are the messages I share in this episode: 

- Be careful who you are devoted to, you're too precious 

- Be careful who you commit yourself to, especially when the commitment will be permanent 

- Let people have their lessons; sometimes you have to leave people where they are + progress without certain people

- Only pour from a full + overflowing cup

- Just because you have it to give, doesn't mean you always should 

- Loving Black men is not martyrdom

- Surgically remove the limitations you have in your mind around love + other manifestations 

- Once lines get crossed + someone demonstrates they're unwilling or unable to love you, it's time to reassess what you're pouring into that relationship 

- Don't allow people to make their emergencies your problem; the only things that are urgent are the goals you've set for yourself 

- Take your sweet time; take time to think about investments; don't act rashly or too quickly

- You have time! 

- Intentionally slow down with people who are trying to pressure you into any decision, especially where investments of time, resources or money are concerned 

- Whatever you want to do, do it now -- there are only so many tomorrows. -Michael Landon (Take action, my love!!)

- Don't commit yourself out of a pressure that someone else is applying to you

- God will restore the years the locusts have eaten -Joel 2:25

Follow me on http://www.instagram.com/bossybruja + check out my conjure shop for oils + spiritual products + to book your reading with me. Here's the website: http://www.bossybruja.com 

Peace + Blessings 

Bossy


Jul 10, 202237:08
EP 39: HOW TO LIVE WELL WITH MINIMAL RESOURCES
Jan 09, 202254:44
EP 38: Alignment + Attraction: An exploration of practice, vibration, alignment and frequency.
Dec 26, 202143:30
EP 37: HAPPY SAGITTARIUS TOTAL LUNAR ECLIPSE

EP 37: HAPPY SAGITTARIUS TOTAL LUNAR ECLIPSE

Just a few words for those of you joining me in 3 months of honoring our bodies. 

Dec 04, 202117:58
EP 36: Degraded Spirituality

EP 36: Degraded Spirituality

I hope this is well-received, because I meant every word and I think it is highly useful to us. A degraded approach to magick, spirituality, and religion will not yield high results. I believe when Jesus taught: "Seek ye first the kingdom of God and all these things will be added unto you," this was a tip to humanity to keep first things first. Our approach to magick, spirituality, and religion can be with high aims and clear priorities. I think it is a mistake to make other people the priority of our magick, religion, and spirituality. What if instead we made our connection to God, deepening our understanding of life, the universe, universal laws, our own inner peace, knowledge of self, heightening our consciousness and supporting our healing and faith our focus? How might our lives be transformed for the better, from the inside out? 

Something to think about...

Nov 26, 202141:41
EP 35: Hypnotize: a short, instructive story

EP 35: Hypnotize: a short, instructive story

Have you wondered about ways to use my Hypnotism oil? I've got you covered. Enjoy the story and listen for the instructions on how to use it.

Nov 12, 202120:35
EP 34: Story Time: My Shitshow Relocation + How I'm Bouncing Back

EP 34: Story Time: My Shitshow Relocation + How I'm Bouncing Back

I really don't know how people don't take things personally. I be taking everything personally especially when it affects my work and my goals. This is a long ass story about how relocating from Miami to Las Vegas actually went and how I am recovering from it all. I find a lot of the things that happened to be funny, now. But at the time, I was going THROUGH it. I was fighting not to slip into depression and fighting against my urge to go crazy on people. In the end I had to acknowledge I’m a terrible boss and now I understand why it is advised we not hire friends. No hard feelings against anyway, these are all necessary lessons and my slow ass took a long time to learn them. I hope you find this cautionary tale helpful and useful. If you're not feeling the story, skip to the end and listen to the last 12 minutes of the podcast for ideas to recover from a rough transition.
Find us on Instagram @bossybruja
Sep 29, 202152:53
EP 33: Awaken the B*tch Within
Sep 22, 202145:05
EP 32: Your Friends, Yourself
Aug 03, 202124:42
EP 31: How to opt out of shame
Jun 22, 202136:32
EP 30: How to Reset After A Transition
May 31, 202119:40
EP 29: Three things to do when you feel lonely...
Feb 28, 202122:06
EP 28: Love & Consciousness

EP 28: Love & Consciousness

I have notes.
Jan 31, 202137:28
EP 27: FEAR, COURAGE + FAILURE = BIG FUN
Dec 26, 202028:13
EP 26: OATH OF MANIFESTATION + INCREASING YOUR POWER FOR MORE EFFECTIVE SPELL WORK
Dec 12, 202046:13
EP 25: 10 WAYS WITCHES HEX THEMSELVES

EP 25: 10 WAYS WITCHES HEX THEMSELVES

NOBODY SAYING IT, SO I'MMA SAY IT.
Oct 13, 202033:25
EP 24: 4 Reasons You Don't Need to Argue About Your Beliefs

EP 24: 4 Reasons You Don't Need to Argue About Your Beliefs

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Oct 12, 202021:30
EP 23: Making Life Majikal
Aug 23, 202024:50
EP 22: How not to be disappointed by other people.

EP 22: How not to be disappointed by other people.

Enjoy.
Jul 21, 202030:00
EP 21: GHETTO ASS EARTH: would not recommend

EP 21: GHETTO ASS EARTH: would not recommend

Join Chyrsalis and I as we discuss our thoughts in light of recent events. It gets a little racy, but having this conversation was healing for me even though parts of it were very difficult. I believe witches and BLACK WITCHES, in particular, having more conversation like this will be extremely healing. Enjoy. 

Jun 17, 202001:43:50
EP 20: Bruja Tea Party: How I Think About Prosperity + Wealth as a Black Witch and Why TLC is the Move

EP 20: Bruja Tea Party: How I Think About Prosperity + Wealth as a Black Witch and Why TLC is the Move

Listen until the end...
To join our team follow the link:
retail.totallifechanges.com/39370913/products. Please note if you have not used the products before you will need to purchase products as well. I recommend the "Sip, Soothe, and Strengthen kit"
Please also, check out Chrysalis Sun's episode on B The Vibe Radio in the "Unpopular Opinion" series titled "Being Spiritual Does Not Mean Being Broke." anchor.fm/bthevibe
May 04, 202001:39:03
EP 19: The Dominatrix Wears White: A conversation with Chrysalis Sun.
Feb 21, 202001:50:50
EP 18: Overcoming Feelings of Insecurity (& Anxiety)

EP 18: Overcoming Feelings of Insecurity (& Anxiety)

First of all, if you’re aware enough of yourself to acknowledge the fact that you’re feeling insecure—I’m proud of you! Second: get some of my secure oil and work with it daily! In this episode I’m sharing my thoughts about what brings on feelings of insecurity and how to process it! Press play and share this episode with ones who might need to hear these ideas.
Jan 20, 202054:44
EP 17: Know Thy Astrology Know Thyself

EP 17: Know Thy Astrology Know Thyself

Darlings Tre Xavier (Sir Xavier) has come to take his place as KING of the Astrological Ball! I am so happy for y'all to meet my friend. I don't know many people who are as obsessed with Astrology as he is! He lives it. He breathes it. He's speaks it in every waking moment while managing to be the gentleness Divine Masculine you're eyes have ever seen. And STILL will put a bitch in her place (that bitch is me.)

We're really in for a treat.
He giving us Virgoan accuracy while indulging all our Venusian fantasies!
He's bringing brilliant simplicity to his interpretation of the stars!
He's dispensing endless wisdom and giving us Astrology as the original psychology realness!!
He's stepping on the Ptolemies and the Copernicuses and mixing up a Sun, Moon, Rising centric natal chart cocktail for an affordable price near YOU!
Follow Xavier @thenightskyseer
Aug 27, 201901:26:54
Ep 16: Baseline Prayer (a service)

Ep 16: Baseline Prayer (a service)

Loving you

Aug 20, 201942:11
EP 15: First of all, f*ck guilt

EP 15: First of all, f*ck guilt

Guilt implies a criminal offense. It is the result of our failure to honor a moral or legal obligation. Some of the things that we assume we are obligated to do are pure fantasy! And if we're really being honest with ourselves the only reason we do some of this stuff is that we are convinced it's the only way to be a "nice girl" or a "good boy" in others' eyes. I am suggesting that we drop the bullshit approval-seeking, people-seeking antics and get back to ourselves. After all, if we can experience bliss and wellness what good are we to anybody else? I am advocating for putting and keeping yourself first and enjoying more of what interests and pleases YOU.
Jul 11, 201924:08
EP 14: Tips for living your witchiest, most creative life

EP 14: Tips for living your witchiest, most creative life

These are some of the ideas which have helped me tremendously in my craft and business. 🥰💕 I hope you find benefit in listening to it. Of course, everything which has worked for me may not work for everyone. “Eat the fish and spit out the bones.” African Proverb 🐠
May 30, 201952:36
EP 13: From Surviving to Thriving

EP 13: From Surviving to Thriving

In this episode, I share the thoughts and experiences from a day of sauntering, wandering and exploring. In a recent meeting with my coach I was advised to spend more time being creative and in-flow because this is a necessary part of my spirituality and creativeness. I took the day to go purchase a new book, sit at a bar, enjoy a coffee and a daiquiri followed by a meal with the barman. I'm at home responding to emails now (It's 11:48 PM) but I had to share some of the thoughts and ideas I've been facing on my road from surviving to thriving. I hope you enjoy and I hope you can follow along--this episode has a meandering quality to it, much like my day today.
Apr 29, 201926:02
EP 12:The Sea, Deities & Unapologetic Majik

EP 12:The Sea, Deities & Unapologetic Majik

In today’s episode, Rhiannon from The Hag's Cottage, shares with us tales of running barefoot through the woods and discovering her witchy path in the occult section at Borders. She’ll share her experience with sea magic, her experiences with supporting clients in breaking generational curses and why effective witching requires you to get comfortable with doing some nitty gritty work. Follow Rhiannon on Instagram and Facebook @thehagscottage for witchy wisdom, to book a reading or to inquire about her exclusive products. 💋
Apr 15, 201901:00:32
EP 11: Successful Witching & Living

EP 11: Successful Witching & Living

I have four major recommendations for LIVING YOUR BEST WITCHY LIFE: 1. Be clear about what YOU desire for YOU. 2. Control your Self. 3. Plan for the future and stick to the plan. 4. HUSSLE ⚡️
Apr 07, 201941:06
EP 10: Tantra, Sex Majik & Making It Snow

EP 10: Tantra, Sex Majik & Making It Snow

Today's podcast is...interesting. We have a blast from my Past (*cough* MAGNETISM *cough*). His name is Sbk (Sebek) and he's a Pisces Mathematician Medicine Man - and in the name of our LOVE INVOCATION we will speak about TANTRA and SEX MAJIK. Whew. Get your wine ladies. We will share our tips for engaging sacred sexuality responsibly. Enjoy!
Feb 21, 201942:14
EP 9: Raving Artists

EP 9: Raving Artists

In this episode we have award-winning artist Ms. Sophie Lisa Smith from Northeast England! She shares her incredible journey of becoming a thriving, full-time artist, her beliefs about the nature of creativity, and resounding encouragement for all aspiring artists (and creative humans everywhere). If you desire to become a thriving artist despite societal pressures and need a little inspiration tune in! You can find Sophie on Instagram @sophielisasmith! ❤️
Feb 14, 201901:06:17
EP 8: Safeguard Your Spirituality

EP 8: Safeguard Your Spirituality

Distractions are deadly. Don’t tolerate them. Find me on Instagram @BOSSYbruja ❤️
Feb 11, 201930:01