We are proud mothers. Of course. But that's not all we are. Inspired by conversations during her photoshoots, leap into some wild chats about Sensuality, Body Confidence, & Intimacy (ooh la la). Wife, Mother, & Professional Boudoir Photographer, Biannca Adelia, sprinkles real life stories with comedy, spunk, tips for a totally FIERCE boudoir photoshoot, & hot beauty trends hoping to give moms inspiration to get their sexy back & courage to book the damn photoshoot, ensuring that our right to feel powerfully sexy does not infringe on our ability to be amazing mothers.
Listen as a fly on the wall with a trusted friend of mine who knows quite a few not so commonly known tips to boost your smile's radiance, especially before a photoshoot.
You can find our guest, Kristin, on Social Media of course at
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Things I still learn from Cosmopolitan lol Don't be a turn off by 1.) Not being honest 2.) Being on your cellphone all the time 3.) Trying to get him to act jealous 4.) Lying about your wants 5.) Not being real (playing games)
Let's talk about how being a turn off to your spouse means you are being a turn off to your self first. Once you start becoming a turnoff to them, what boundaries have you not set in place to pull you into that place of distastefulness? We are women before we are wives and mothers.
Don't forget to hashtag your photos in Instagram with #SexyasaMother so I can "like" and follow you!
The book I talked about in the show, is called "Rage Becomes Her" by Soraya Chemaly
I do LIVE makeup on my Facebook page, come hang out with me and join the free all female tribe at www.facebook.com/groups/boudietalk
As moms, we go through a LOT. Farah talks through her struggles which most of us couldn't imagine adding to our plate. As a mother of a handsome little boy with ADHD & ODD and a beautiful baby girl, wife, & aspiring personal trainer who is balancing all the things, she sheds some light onto the judgement and feelings of failure she faces everyday.
You can find Farah on social media and she welcomes messages from anyone looking for someone to just understand.Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/farahsnowdenInstagram: @farahsnowden
Any photographer you go to for your boudoir session should obviously be exercising the use of proper lighting, flattering poses, & photoshop but the REAL weapon and determining factor of your portraits is, that’s right, you guessed it girlfriend…. YOU! And allow me to let you in on another secret…. Radiant, glowing skin can completely bump up your photos to a whole new level. Not only will amazing skin make your portraits absolutely flawless, but the steps you’ll take in achieving radiant skin will make you feel confident, improve your mood, and increase your energy! HOLLAAAA
I’m going to take you through the steps over a span of 7 days, so ultimately… a week before your session, you should start prioritizing a few changes in your daily self-care plan.
This episode is inspired by women who have felt like they needed to lose weight or that they needed to have some kind of crazy transformation before they went through with something like a boudoir session. Although inspired by my boudoir session inquiries….this is diving into a much deeper problem. When I hear a woman say “I need to lose weight before I can do a boudoir session”, what I am really hearing is “I need to lose weight before I can love myself”.
When I first began shooting boudoir, it was all about the client’s experience and comfort so I would tell every woman to bring what she felt sexiest in. Sometimes what we feel sexy in, isn’t really a big enough celebration for a photo session, or look sexy from an outside perspective (aka probably the reason you are having a boudoir session to begin with). After my -obviously without ill intention- feedback from my husband, I started to really dive into the art of lingerie.
Power of Feminine Energy
-In touch with intuition
-openness to receive
-balance (people won’t take advantage of you)
-deal with situations in healthy way
-sexiness and attraction
I have found that today’s modern society has somehow linked the two to be of the same concept, causing us to feel ashamed to partake in any of our important sensual feminine rituals.
If you have ever felt shame around dressing up too much, buying cute lingerie just for yourself, taking extra time to fix your hair, or even posting a selfie you felt gorgeous in…..you’re in the right place. I am going to break down the differences in Sensuality and Sexuality so you are able to disconnect from any shame you may have around experiencing your feminine power.
Welcome to the BOUDIE TALK podcast!
Inspired by recurring conversations around Boudoir & Beauty, get a sneak peek of behind the scenes discussions, hilarious motherhood misfortunes, & challenges real everyday women & mothers face, silently, & often alone. BOUDIE TALK is the official GIRL TALK all grown up. Still fun & full of spunk, but this time sexy & unfiltered. A place where moms can be WOMEN first. So, pull up a seat girlfriend. You’ll always have an invitation to sit here. Recording from THE renowned home of Magic Kingdom & MY sub-tropical sunshine paradise, I’m your host, professional boudoir photographer, wife, mother, & amateur hula hooper, Biannca Adelia.
Let’s dive in.www.BianncaAdelia.comwww.facebook.com/groups/boudietalk